No-Drama Discipline in a nutshell
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- Опубликовано: 27 апр 2016
- Dr. Tina Payne Bryson presents the main theme of the NY Times best-selling book, No-Drama Discipline, co-written with Dr. Dan Siegel.
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ABOUT TINA:
Dr. Tina Payne Bryson is the author of THE BOTTOM LINE FOR BABY (Random House 2020) and co-author (with Dan Siegel) of two NY Times Best Sellers-THE WHOLE-BRAIN CHILD (Random House 2011) and NO-DRAMA DISCIPLINE (Random House 2014)-each of which has been translated into over fifty languages, as well as THE YES BRAIN (Random House 2018) and THE POWER OF SHOWING UP (Random House 2020). She is the Founder and Executive Director of The Center for Connection, a multidisciplinary clinical practice in Southern California. Dr. Bryson keynotes conferences and conducts workshops all over the world. An LCSW, Tina is a graduate of Baylor University with a Ph.D. from USC. The most important part of her bio, she says, is that she’s a mom to her three boys. You can learn more about Dr. Bryson at TinaBryson.com.
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I can’t believe I wasn’t a subscriber!! Tina Payne Bryson has been one of my favorite parenting experts since I first read one of her & Dan Siegel’s books!! I recently watched her on a webinar with Mona Delahooke’s group and she was great!!
So well put Tina. Very understandable and you repeated the most important points so we will remember them. Thank you.
Thank you, Jay! Great to hear from you!
No drama discipline is a truly awesome parenting book, i brought it for my neighbors and they switched to peaceful parenting
Jonthan Crisp check out “The Whole Brain Child” when you can, it will be another great resource!
thanks for letting me know - that's amazing!!
@@KennTodd117 I have read it, it's amazing
Brilliant! This led me to a real breakthrough in my parenting. Thank you so much!!
I just had came across this video on RUclips; this is very good explained! - Thanks for sharing!
Your book has helped my family. Thank you for writing it!
You are so welcome!
This is useful thanks for sharing
thank you!
I wish there were more examples for toddler ages. Instead of saying we can adjust our language giving an example of what that adjustment looks like. I found the book great for kids 4+ but for younger toddlers like 2-3 I felt unsure of how to apply beyond connection
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I know she is not mine but I try to implement as much of Tina Bryson's and Dan Siegel's work when I'm with my 4 year old granddaughter. Patience, Understanding and Empathy is key. I can manage my own emotions as I'm an adult and am not threatened by her anger or strong distressing emotions and understanding her emotional state is incredibly soothing for her and is soothing my own inner child too. So, we are both receiving the 4 S's. Dr. Gabor Mate has some incredibly useful material also. The increase in depression (depressing/pushing down real feelings) and anxiety, mood disorders and addiction is growing at an alarming rate and it begins in the first few years of life I believe. I've started writing my book "Home is where the Harm is" (only a temporary title) as the first time we ever feel shame, blame, humiliation, punishment, being ignored, maybe smacked, etc. is with our family of origin or other caregivers in the first few years of life. I love Tina's work.
I wish I had known all this a very long time ago. I wish my Mum had known this too.
My 3 year old. Trying to switch over to doing these things and talking to him instead of yelling. My problem Is he is so hyper that I cant hold his attention for 5 seconds half the time. Sometimes we can talk. Sometimes he just wont stop moving or looking around. Pretty fast he doesnt even seem to remember what I'm talking about and I lose the chance. Very frustrating to me and probably why I started yelling because it actually gets/holds his attention. What do I do? Lol
Totally frustrating, right?!!
Familiar.
It sounds like he's still *expecting the yelling*,
and has "fight or flight" kinda going on.
Have you tried just holding your hands out, low, open, welcoming,
so he can *see*
very literally
how much you would love for him to "come into you"
even if he's screaming or crying,
rather than yell at him,
and *see* and believe
that you really won't reject him & his scary, overwhelming feelings?
It took my kids a long time (like 8 minutes in the beginning!!)
of me holding them
(and me feeling a bit of my own frustration/panic ease into grace)
before their ears would even open up!!!
I also started telling them I regretted yelling,
which helped them believe that I was changing tactics.
Now they know I'm safe to turn to, they only need a minute
before they can hear again... and learn love.
Some times it deals with the diet.
I'm not done reading the book yet...and are eager to learn how to discipline a 20 month old...ok yes I connect, and distract with a new activity, but the hitting is STILL happening (she hits me when she feels ignored or when she doesn't get her wayI understand it wont work over night...but am I teaching wrong? So far I've only read about teens and 4/5 yr old discipline...
Good message, but speaker is annoying.
How is the speaker annoying to you?
I am annoying you? I always try my absolute best....
Dr. Bryson is a great speaker, what video are you watching?
Something tells me you're here because you might not quite be able to know the difference between annoying and warm and professional. Kids need parents that can tell these differences.