Closing The Door To This Relationship: Cynthia Gates v "John" Hatter

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @ronnimartin7033
    @ronnimartin7033 10 месяцев назад +127

    When a woman chases a man in the relationship, she'll be chasing after him for the entire relationship.

    • @tracy603
      @tracy603 10 месяцев назад +3

      Yesss & she's tooo desperate for marriage 🙄🙄.

    • @angelica7236
      @angelica7236 10 месяцев назад +1

      💯

    • @lomaxlomax6152
      @lomaxlomax6152 10 месяцев назад +2

      the whole ring story took me out, smh

    • @williamomondi5800
      @williamomondi5800 9 месяцев назад +1

      She is worried about her clock, but John is in for a good time with an older woman. He wants it steamy, mature, and no strings attached relationship

    • @ronnimartin7033
      @ronnimartin7033 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@williamomondi5800 💯

  • @KimBrandon-tk2gu
    @KimBrandon-tk2gu 10 месяцев назад +157

    He is a cheater no one is going to call a salesman at 2 am she needs to move on

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE 10 месяцев назад +2

      Maybe she’s a client that likes him and called him during booty call hours. A 2am phone call could mean anything, doesn’t mean he’s cheating.

    • @iamnia336
      @iamnia336 10 месяцев назад +2

      You very well could if you are international

    • @ebonyc3751
      @ebonyc3751 10 месяцев назад +3

      He 43 and wants to stay unmarried.

    • @susanrodriquez1024
      @susanrodriquez1024 10 месяцев назад +2

      Depends on tge product, my husband sold medical equipment, he would often get calls from the hospitals late at night.

    • @ndt406
      @ndt406 10 месяцев назад +1

      Especially in the small town of BA where everyone knows each other

  • @Berlin_Devereux
    @Berlin_Devereux 10 месяцев назад +90

    He's giving me Tinder Swindler vibes

  • @WesleyLindsey
    @WesleyLindsey 10 месяцев назад +223

    This guy is just a smooth talker. He def doesn’t want to marry her (at least yet) and she’s pushy but I still think he’s gaslighting her and lying cause no way someone is getting calls by clients at 2am in the morning. He’s just calm, collected, and reasonable and it’s working on the judge.

    • @foramoreperfectamerica8490
      @foramoreperfectamerica8490 10 месяцев назад +3

      Just started watching but he could... if and only if he is an International Businessman.

    • @WesleyLindsey
      @WesleyLindsey 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@foramoreperfectamerica8490 did it sound like he had an international business? It sounds real local and hands on. Plus his fiancée would think there was an affair going on if these calls were international.

    • @foramoreperfectamerica8490
      @foramoreperfectamerica8490 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@WesleyLindsey Don't know yet haven't finished watching yet. I clicked off it and I will watch later.

    • @TheCreoleSon89
      @TheCreoleSon89 10 месяцев назад +9

      Yeah his voice is salesman and he just wants her around but doesn’t want her for real. lol 🤣 didn’t meet the family is crazy.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +7

      Salesman. He’s a salesman. His job is to talk and to make deals, and to solidify the deal, sometimes, regardless of the cost. That being said, yes, he’s playing her. But the real question is, why is it taking her so long to make a decision and leave him if he’s not pleased with his behaviors?

  • @sheilap9854
    @sheilap9854 10 месяцев назад +107

    He Doesn't Want to Marry Her Everrrrrr!!

    • @Kwamedogg50
      @Kwamedogg50 10 месяцев назад +3

      Who would, she’s too damn old and desperate. Plus divorced once already, why wouldn’t she do it again

    • @dunkinjunkie5868
      @dunkinjunkie5868 10 месяцев назад +2

      Or anyone else!

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE 10 месяцев назад +3

      I wouldn’t marry a woman who’s a divorcee either. It’s a major red flag for someone that already went through a divorce be trying to force the next guy into marriage. I’m 90% sure her husband left her. She’s trying to fill a void it seems.

    • @liddellbcf
      @liddellbcf 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@Kwamedogg50😂😂8😂😂😂70

  • @ThatGirlGiGiNYC
    @ThatGirlGiGiNYC 10 месяцев назад +98

    He is full of it!! He is stringing her along. He does not want to marry her! He don’t!! That’s it

    • @dunkinjunkie5868
      @dunkinjunkie5868 10 месяцев назад +3

      And she's allowing him too,which is very sad!

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE 10 месяцев назад +7

      He’s not stringing her along. She’s out here buying rings, doesn’t know his family, thinks he’s cheating but still insist he marry her. That should let you know she’s desperate for a husband. No man is going to marry a woman that’s pressuring them to get married. Plus she’s like 12 years older than him. She needs to relax.

    • @EvesGonnaEve
      @EvesGonnaEve 5 месяцев назад

      She's stringing herself along. She's a grown woman. No one is making her stay with him. She's not a victim.

  • @Traciaglen
    @Traciaglen 10 месяцев назад +74

    She looks lovely at 51

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +37

    He took the wine and shut the door in her face😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. When she fell for this man, she had to have ended up with some kind of concussion on her head because she still stayed.

    • @SB-tc2jr
      @SB-tc2jr 10 месяцев назад +6

      bumped that head HARD !!!! lol

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 10 месяцев назад +5

      You ain't lying because wtf 😳

    • @crystalmarroquin777
      @crystalmarroquin777 10 месяцев назад +4

      And even after the court case she still naging him to marry her.

  • @keyeviondavis9647
    @keyeviondavis9647 10 месяцев назад +96

    If you ain't Nino Brown slinging street pharmaceuticals, out the back door of the Carter Housing Projects, WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU SELLING AT TWO IN THE MORNING 😮💯

  • @WesleyLindsey
    @WesleyLindsey 10 месяцев назад +137

    Judge just gonna miss the fact these women are calling at 2 IN THE MORNING?? Like be serious.

    • @classytypelady155
      @classytypelady155 10 месяцев назад +14

      I said the same thing! I guess that smooth talk got her too!

    • @timeckajames5167
      @timeckajames5167 10 месяцев назад +6

      I'm like so annoyed. I'm wondering a lot what world judge exists in

    • @charmainewalker8627
      @charmainewalker8627 10 месяцев назад +7

      She miss the mark on this one. This guy is a smooth talker and he is playing her. And he is not going to change because he knows she wasn’t going to leave.

    • @WesleyLindsey
      @WesleyLindsey 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@charmainewalker8627 thank god it came back around at the end. The plaintiff is right, the guy was leading her on and this finally brought it out

    • @SimplyCassandra1
      @SimplyCassandra1 10 месяцев назад

      The Woman is the dummy even my 10 year old Niece could see He's not interested in marriage or Her for that matter!

  • @soulstrength
    @soulstrength 10 месяцев назад +52

    1:05 Me wondering who else noticed him shake his head in the negative when she said I believe he loves me and wants to be with me. 🤔 It was quick but I caught it. He told on himself!

    • @susi09
      @susi09 10 месяцев назад +5

      Just saw it 😂😂😂

    • @feminineallure6763
      @feminineallure6763 10 месяцев назад +5

      He sure did and I noticed and said it as soon as he did that!

    • @poshpearls23
      @poshpearls23 10 месяцев назад +8

      Yep!! Body language NEVER lies!!!

    • @SB-tc2jr
      @SB-tc2jr 10 месяцев назад +5

      🙋‍♀ DEF saw it... I was like, 😟

    • @natashascott8489
      @natashascott8489 10 месяцев назад +3

      Yup!!!

  • @chantalgiroux2762
    @chantalgiroux2762 10 месяцев назад +15

    The guy knew he was not going to marry her from day one

  • @jaynent
    @jaynent 10 месяцев назад +32

    This guy is a player. Leave him be.

  • @kaysportz
    @kaysportz 10 месяцев назад +18

    He’s definitely a great storyteller

  • @yasminphilor4549
    @yasminphilor4549 10 месяцев назад +42

    Unpopular opinion- is he using these women? Your desires can certainly change but I get the feeling that he didn’t just decide that he wants kids after being engaged to 3 other older women before.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +4

      That’s paying attention. That should be in your questions when you’re talking to a man that you like. Within a year, you should know what this man’s previous relationships looked like and what he currently looks like from Holiday to Holiday and every season. You should know if you want this guy as a husband or no. Then if you don’t want this guy because you can’t handle his behaviors, LEAVE. You don’t need permission.

    • @yasminphilor4549
      @yasminphilor4549 10 месяцев назад +4

      Agreed because the cookout issue would’ve been my exit.

    • @jasmineetienne3361
      @jasmineetienne3361 10 месяцев назад +3

      You nailed it. Older women are his niche, place holders, providers. He's just a scam

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +5

      She SHOULD have been gone BEFORE the cookout

  • @sinailemor467
    @sinailemor467 10 месяцев назад +33

    I don’t think she wants the MARRIAGE. It seems like she just wants the WEDDING!

    • @SB-tc2jr
      @SB-tc2jr 10 месяцев назад +5

      Her clock is ticking... she's trying to build and enjoy her golden years...

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 10 месяцев назад +2

      How do you get to that conclusion..hes been using her hes a jerk

    • @sinailemor467
      @sinailemor467 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@angelacarlisle1708 zbecause she talked about the wedding more than she talked about him. Almost as if anybody could’ve been in that position. As long as she got her “wedding”. In addition, she only talking about GETTING married. Never said anything about BEING married.

    • @marcusmelancon3426
      @marcusmelancon3426 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@sinailemor467 I think if it was just about that she would’ve found someone else by now and not have wasted all this time

  • @ThatGirlGiGiNYC
    @ThatGirlGiGiNYC 10 месяцев назад +14

    So that’s it!! He wants children! He should have said that… let that woman go

  • @Terryreality
    @Terryreality 10 месяцев назад +16

    Never let a man dictate your life on which way it’s going to go, that saying that woman say he’s going to let me no today 😤🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @ninadavis5517
    @ninadavis5517 10 месяцев назад +19

    It seems desperate when a woman tries to force a man to get married. Never force yourself on a man. He doesn't want to marry her.

  • @marybethjordan8520
    @marybethjordan8520 10 месяцев назад +6

    When she said "I believe he loves me and wants to be with me" the guy was already twitching and shaking his head no. Lol!

  • @kimdean1079
    @kimdean1079 10 месяцев назад +8

    When he closed the door in my face, I would have closed the relationship. How many different ways can a man tell you he doesn't want to marry you?????

    • @AlenaReed-by5sd
      @AlenaReed-by5sd 5 дней назад

      Yesssss, that’s so insulting!!! Almost as if he is ashamed of her!!!🥺💔

  • @MissLadyKrishana
    @MissLadyKrishana 10 месяцев назад +52

    She is not the one! He's articulate and knows what he wants, but it isn't her! She is desperate, and this is sad! Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once. 🤦‍♀

    • @scottsh1120
      @scottsh1120 10 месяцев назад +1

      Judge Toler famous line

    • @bigdaddyromeo9631
      @bigdaddyromeo9631 10 месяцев назад +5

      What does being articulate have to do with leading someone on she's articulate also

    • @josweetlove1537
      @josweetlove1537 10 месяцев назад

      @@bigdaddyromeo9631 she still cannot push marriage on someone who is not ready. He is right because maybe he is not feeling ready to marry her at all.

  • @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh
    @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh 10 месяцев назад +100

    Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.

    • @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh
      @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh 10 месяцев назад

      I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?

    • @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh
      @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh 10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.

    • @sherryclarkbaran4775
      @sherryclarkbaran4775 10 месяцев назад

      I'm just not understanding what this comment has to do with the program. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. Move on dude, you're better off.

    • @patamakka08
      @patamakka08 4 месяца назад

      You again! Your story has changed. Satisfied with the likes?

  • @BleuReign13
    @BleuReign13 10 месяцев назад +29

    She's been busy building her business, he suddenly wants children..blah blah he's full of 💩 and looking for a way out. He may never know what he wants as far as marriage.

  • @ntermilien
    @ntermilien 10 месяцев назад +38

    She says “I believe he loves me and wanna be with me” He shakes his head No. peep 👀

    • @feminineallure6763
      @feminineallure6763 10 месяцев назад +7

      Sure did!

    • @SB-tc2jr
      @SB-tc2jr 10 месяцев назад +4

      Yaaaaasssss !!!! lmao

    • @dunkinjunkie5868
      @dunkinjunkie5868 10 месяцев назад +4

      Yep 🫣

    • @beb5407
      @beb5407 10 месяцев назад +3

      Great Observation he was shaking his head no with no discretion at all 😮

    • @JL-rt4ww
      @JL-rt4ww 10 месяцев назад +1

      this comment make me reply the video. Sure he did.

  • @patriciahiggins5446
    @patriciahiggins5446 10 месяцев назад +22

    This man is hiding a lot

    • @feminineallure6763
      @feminineallure6763 10 месяцев назад

      Yep!

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +4

      He’s not hiding anything. He’s just a good liar. He’s a salesman. He knows how to “sell”

  • @suade9940
    @suade9940 10 месяцев назад +29

    He is a waste of time.

  • @brendagiller1920
    @brendagiller1920 9 месяцев назад +3

    It is plain and simple he does not want to marry her. When she took the charcoal and wine and closed the door in her face showed her enough. Like damn that would of been over for me

  • @ILOVEMUSIC2MSV
    @ILOVEMUSIC2MSV 10 месяцев назад +6

    There will never be a wedding, move on.

  • @cymbolichuman433
    @cymbolichuman433 10 месяцев назад +12

    Why should she waste her time waiting for this guy?
    He's scared of the horrors of breaking up. She got
    married and divorced, and she don't have to wait for him.

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +11

    He has not found the woman he wants to have children with (and that’s if he’s being honest about that) BUT… ladies remember this phrase: DON’T BE AN “IN THE MEANTIME…” lady.
    Meaning, don’t be duped by a man that you really want and become the “in the meantime” girl UNTIL he finds what he’s looking for….

  • @FocalPointElisa
    @FocalPointElisa 10 месяцев назад +9

    Judge Star Jones is giving it up straight, no chaser. I love it!

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 10 месяцев назад +9

    He can do Voice Over Work... 💯💯💯I don't agree with nobody men nor women pushing somebody to marry them. It never works out.

    • @lovette7684
      @lovette7684 10 месяцев назад +1

      he def could! His voice is sexy.

  • @angellaisaacswhite603
    @angellaisaacswhite603 10 месяцев назад +13

    Sometimes I just don’t like how the judge responds. She would have. Just told the man that he’s a user from the get go. It’s so obvious that he’s a user..

  • @GabbyYvonne
    @GabbyYvonne 10 месяцев назад +4

    at least the truth came out. Good for them both honestly

  • @mayasilliman1465
    @mayasilliman1465 10 месяцев назад +25

    Take me on a walk and propose and I'll say yes! She is too controlling. She's 51, what else does she want?

    • @hayleiprescod3122
      @hayleiprescod3122 10 месяцев назад

      She wants a young stud to show off to her girls lolll

    • @avispajotte8535
      @avispajotte8535 10 месяцев назад +2

      She is coming over as controlling, plus the man wants children. Move on, sister.

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 10 месяцев назад +1

      I was proposed to in the front seat of a Chevy Astro van in my driveway. It was romantic for me

    • @AlenaReed-by5sd
      @AlenaReed-by5sd 5 дней назад

      @@avispajotte8535Respectfully agree.❤

  • @SB-tc2jr
    @SB-tc2jr 10 месяцев назад +12

    He's full of excuses, shade and ish !!! periodT !!!

  • @LeolaGlamour
    @LeolaGlamour 10 месяцев назад +4

    At 51 why does she want to get married? She is acting like a 31 year old not 51. I assumed she was 38 and not 51. At 51 I would just want a long term boyfriend, marriage will do nothing for me. If I want to insure I get something when he goes to the upperoom, I'll take out life insurance on him.

  • @bobwhite7984
    @bobwhite7984 10 месяцев назад +21

    He shook his head in the. NO direction at the beginning of the show 😮

    • @soulstrength
      @soulstrength 10 месяцев назад +4

      I caught that too.

    • @lystraallicock695
      @lystraallicock695 10 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@soulstrength😊so did I.

    • @SB-tc2jr
      @SB-tc2jr 10 месяцев назад

      1:08 You saw that toooooo.... lol, lmbo !!!

  • @MsMVP
    @MsMVP 10 месяцев назад +2

    I totally love Robert's "WOW"! 😂😂😂🥰

  • @dunkinjunkie5868
    @dunkinjunkie5868 10 месяцев назад +6

    If you knew all of the bad history of his past relationships, then why put yourself in that mess??? You yourself just got out of a marriage, what's the hurry to get into another one???

  • @NOURINHO-rv5fk
    @NOURINHO-rv5fk 10 месяцев назад +4

    He doesn’t want to marry you.

  • @ayanaatthrivebewhole
    @ayanaatthrivebewhole 10 месяцев назад +4

    This is ridiculous! Why is the judge co-signing this ridiculous behavior. You don't save female client, where everything is okay and kosher, under a man's name. It's extremely normal for a partner to have concerns, and the healthy response would be for him to respond and reassure her. Also, Michael has never been a nickname for Michelle😂

  • @benicaprice4651
    @benicaprice4651 10 месяцев назад +3

    This episode clearly demonstrates that it is impossible to compel someone to perform an action they are not ready for.

  • @typhelynchalmers2428
    @typhelynchalmers2428 10 месяцев назад +14

    A man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. He didn’t find you.

  • @JayJones-x9o
    @JayJones-x9o 10 месяцев назад +2

    Been with my man since I was 17, got 3 children together and we aren't married, at first I was worried abt marriage but now it's like when God is ready to bless me he will. I'm happy tho

  • @tj5087
    @tj5087 10 месяцев назад +12

    Judge is gullible. Unless he is a doctor or on-call he shouldn’t be getting calls by random women at 2 am. Plus, the only reason he saved a woman under a man’s name is to be sneaky. I don’t know what the Judge is talking about

    • @SB-tc2jr
      @SB-tc2jr 10 месяцев назад

      she didn't know either - she just made that up !!! lol

    • @michelleroyall351
      @michelleroyall351 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah she's not the best for this role. No one can ever top judge Toler

    • @RoscheeDee
      @RoscheeDee 8 месяцев назад +1

      I think she just wana wana argue with them

    • @AlenaReed-by5sd
      @AlenaReed-by5sd 5 дней назад

      All FACTS!!!!🎯

  • @murieltillman9554
    @murieltillman9554 10 месяцев назад +6

    I'm sure this guy has been here before with Judge Lynn Toler!

  • @thedesignresults
    @thedesignresults 10 месяцев назад +8

    bring charcoal to a picnic and not invite me??? ummm I don't think he wants marriage

    • @AlenaReed-by5sd
      @AlenaReed-by5sd 5 дней назад

      Charcoal and 🍷, then a 😘 and see ya later! 😮😢😢😢

  • @shanimorrison8730
    @shanimorrison8730 10 месяцев назад +13

    I mean shes super oushy and btw if I was left at the door of his parents house and told see you later thats the end sorry.... never make a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you....

    • @DianeScotts
      @DianeScotts 10 месяцев назад +1

      I know you are right!

    • @AlenaReed-by5sd
      @AlenaReed-by5sd 5 дней назад

      The AUDACITY to use her as a basic Uber delivery person when she was his Fiancé, he should have sent a family member to go get charcoal & wine!!! He is smart, he knew she would think she was going to finally meet and greet his family! Cringe 😬

  • @anonymousreview1049
    @anonymousreview1049 10 месяцев назад +7

    What’s up with all these people getting in relationships even though they are married???? Like wow!!! Talking about unfaithfulness! So….if you’re done with your marriage or things are not working out…. just go on and get somebody else, no divorce, no nothing, no respect for the marriage, like this is crazy!!!😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +1

      Nothing is sacred anymore. If the divorce rate in America is half of marriages, that affects kids. Then, many times, kids repeat the cycle. People just want to be happy and throw the rest in the garbage.

  • @WesleyLindsey
    @WesleyLindsey 10 месяцев назад +13

    So the plaintiff isn’t (too) crazy because the guy knew he wanted biological kids and they weren’t compatible and he WAS stringing her along. Sucks that she had to take it this far but he should’ve have the balls to tell her. She should’ve went with her gut.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +3

      She’s not helpless. She is not incompetent. She is not powerless. She can make decisions just like he can’t. If this is not going the way that she thought it should go, she could’ve easily left. Why are women ALWAYS leaving it up to the man to dump them?

    • @WesleyLindsey
      @WesleyLindsey 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@bryanbeeman5256 she asked and he wasn’t forthcoming.

  • @DianeScotts
    @DianeScotts 10 месяцев назад +6

    15 minutes in she mentions his family. His face changes. Nope Nope Nope. This is going nowhere.

  • @amybynum8962
    @amybynum8962 10 месяцев назад +2

    Lady Run 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 10 месяцев назад +3

    I work in architecture and definitely have meetings at 2:00 in the morning and phone calls. Part of the reason is because I have clients across the globe. We have a customer that's in Dubai and I've had meetings at 3 a.m. However I don't think that this is the case here 😂.

  • @ELExExCeEye
    @ELExExCeEye 5 месяцев назад +1

    So she bought her own engagement ring to give to him to propose to her at that very moment..huh😅😅😅 ppl crazy

  • @mimboyce6643
    @mimboyce6643 10 месяцев назад +24

    he is not interested in marrying her because of her divorce, he is still looking and its not her. she is controlling

  • @dmkconsults3411
    @dmkconsults3411 10 месяцев назад +4

    He’s a liar.

  • @amybynum8962
    @amybynum8962 10 месяцев назад +4

    He ashamed of you🤷🏽‍♀️ but I don’t see nothing wrong with your sister

  • @MarianaAndrade81
    @MarianaAndrade81 9 месяцев назад +1

    NOBODY DOES business at 2am! The judge needs to see someone lying in bed with someone to calm them out?! That’s bs

  • @amybynum8962
    @amybynum8962 10 месяцев назад +5

    Ma’am he will not marry you sister walk away🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️

  • @michelleroyall351
    @michelleroyall351 10 месяцев назад +4

    My nickname has never been Michael. What a weird lie

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +18

    He is a salesman. If you don’t know anyone, that’s a salesman, then you have no idea what you’re in store for. I’m six minutes in and I can guarantee you he is exactly what everybody thinks he is. His job is to sell… It doesn’t matter if it’s a dream, a product, a life, or desire. He’s mastered them all vocally. So yes, he is gaslighting, lying, and everything else. Plus, he has excellent alibis, so he is no novice.

  • @RandyBaker-id8pr
    @RandyBaker-id8pr 9 месяцев назад +2

    👀😲not marrying her.

  • @red6hot1913
    @red6hot1913 10 месяцев назад +1

    Foolishness. Going through phones, ultimatums, etc. He doesn't want to marry if you have to go through all of this. The extra is unnecessary. Let them go. The stress isn't worth it.

  • @andreataylor2113
    @andreataylor2113 10 месяцев назад +1

    He strung her along and she was blinded every time

  • @paulayator985
    @paulayator985 10 месяцев назад +3

    Lady…. Please use all the wisdom that you have earned over the years! And his family definitely don’t like you and are definitely against this relationship

  • @Dana-jq9eh
    @Dana-jq9eh 10 месяцев назад +1

    He is a smooth operator…. Run and run fast🏃🏼‍♀️💨

  • @antoinettetapper2785
    @antoinettetapper2785 10 месяцев назад +2

    Wow, is eyes say it all. Just look how his eyes move left to right so fast he's lying through his teeth.

  • @Dee-xi4un
    @Dee-xi4un 10 месяцев назад +2

    She's chasing him away and he REALLY doesn't want to marry her. I'm not buying my engagement ring to give him to propose to me NOPE🙅🏾

  • @stylefan32
    @stylefan32 10 месяцев назад +28

    This may be a very unpopular opinion, but she's a 50 something year old divorcee. Why is she pushing for another marriage instead of just living her life??

    • @Que772
      @Que772 10 месяцев назад +3

      Everyone doesn't want to live in sin forever.

    • @DianeScotts
      @DianeScotts 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@Que772 It's not living in sin. Good Lord ... it's not the 50's anymore. Evolve!

    • @Remember_Eden
      @Remember_Eden 10 месяцев назад +2

      Can’t she be married and also life her life?
      Thinking that it is either one or the other seems pretty narrow minded to me.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад

      @@Que772😂😂😂😂

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@DianeScotts- We do evolve. It’s called growth.

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 10 месяцев назад +3

    Lady go on with your life. Without him.
    He is not going to marry her.

  • @delilahspivey1093
    @delilahspivey1093 10 месяцев назад +1

    Early in the episode, you could tell they were NOT A MATCH! They both were blinded by their own desires--what do I want; what can I get? It'll get you every time.

  • @malenkadivine
    @malenkadivine 10 месяцев назад +4

    The runaway groom 🏃‍♂️

  • @neveradullmoment6882
    @neveradullmoment6882 10 месяцев назад +3

    Why would you want to make someone marry you?

  • @nayobegomez2619
    @nayobegomez2619 10 месяцев назад +1

    For him not to let her in his family's house was the ultimate disrespect if she didn't get that u really don't mean nothing to him cause that's why u would not and never got introduced to his family days ALOT about her. He knows u are thirsty and she's not going nowhere and will continue miliking her. He's not even in love with her.

  • @kerry-annwilliams2915
    @kerry-annwilliams2915 10 месяцев назад +1

    Maam HE DONT WANT YOU!!!! HE USING YOU!!!!! BYEEEEEEEE

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 10 месяцев назад +1

    She is insecure. She is absolutely desperate.
    He definitely doesn't want to be married. She is aggressive and is going to lose him.
    She probably grew up demanding what she wanted.

  • @ladygemini1389
    @ladygemini1389 10 месяцев назад +1

    He is a smooth talker and he don't want her. He is a liar, this woman needs to run and run fast. I do not understand why these women are so desperate

  • @hayleiprescod3122
    @hayleiprescod3122 10 месяцев назад +3

    Hun, hes not into you..
    That cookout episode was it for me ...sighhhh
    Read between the lines lady !!!

  • @adrnstanley
    @adrnstanley 10 месяцев назад +1

    She is too invested in the long term marriage and he is solely invested in the present and a possible future elsewhere. She is allowing him to make her crazy. He doesn’t seem to be romantic at all. He seems to be more practical, and he seems to be afraid of a long-term, till death do us part commitment. She needs to find someone who wants to get married and he needs to find someone who’s interested in a relationship with no marriage in the future..

  • @JaySunshine-gq9jh
    @JaySunshine-gq9jh 10 месяцев назад +1

    Why is he getting phone calls at 2am 🤔

  • @mrslross78
    @mrslross78 10 месяцев назад +3

    If it has been over a year and you haven’t met the family. You are not the one.

  • @Spexsavvy
    @Spexsavvy 7 месяцев назад +1

    He’s a time waster. Move on sis •.

  • @godivakisses89
    @godivakisses89 10 месяцев назад +2

    Sorry, she is too aggressive and will not keep a man like that 🤷🏾‍♀️ .. And he is a child.. Plain and simple..

  • @sandras2479
    @sandras2479 10 месяцев назад +3

    Waste of time. Move on.

  • @Amaryahu
    @Amaryahu 10 месяцев назад +2

    17:09
    *Bingo! Then why lie and string this older woman along. Keep it 100 in the beginning and just date a younger woman.*

  • @keishasmith379
    @keishasmith379 10 месяцев назад +1

    I cannot blame him for being the person he is. She should not have rushed to be in another relationship right after a divorce. Most times u do not need to get into another relationship or live with another person. What ever happened to just dating! We don't need to always live with every man or woman u date, she's desperate to be with someone and needs to know how to be happy alone first. U can't force, punk, bully, rush a person to be with u, it never works for long.

  • @marilaucher9989
    @marilaucher9989 10 месяцев назад +4

    She looks like the late Debbie Reynolds

  • @chinalang8580
    @chinalang8580 10 месяцев назад +5

    This show of not good at all anymore. The judge completely disregarded that woman’s everything and took the guys side 100% it’s not worth watching anymore.

  • @tonyautonga
    @tonyautonga 10 месяцев назад +1

    This guy Con. was weak.He knew he wanted a sugar mama.This lady had a business and he thought that he was gonna live off her but mess with other women.

  • @davital.washington7416
    @davital.washington7416 10 месяцев назад +1

    Yall forgetting that he did propose. And it wasn’t big enough for her! Like girl bye….. I can’t with some women.

  • @aniixbaby
    @aniixbaby 10 месяцев назад +2

    This guy reminds me of an ex, the man has a silver tongue. Which is a most salesman have, and sadly he's using it against someone who loves him. I feel for the woman, even if she was pushy cause it's reasonable in her situation. He'd drive me crazy if I was in her shoes lol.

  • @professort5550
    @professort5550 10 месяцев назад +1

    This dude is giving me Dateline or Lifetime movie vibes. Something is so sketch about him!

  • @wandadevereaux2359
    @wandadevereaux2359 10 месяцев назад +1

    I don't think he is cheating, he just won't be "bullied" into marriage. She is a "Karen" my advice to him would be "RUN!"

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 10 месяцев назад

      He might not be cheating but he is definitely Lookng for number 5

  • @jasonleman1396
    @jasonleman1396 10 месяцев назад +1

    Yeah stay out of my phone and pushy on her part is an understatement! I would run if i was him

  • @marieperez3796
    @marieperez3796 9 месяцев назад

    The expression of the judge got me .😮😅😅.

  • @annettealexander5672
    @annettealexander5672 10 месяцев назад +1

    He doesn’t want her and probably does want to settle down with her, or no other woman older than him.

  • @sunshinebutterfly4654
    @sunshinebutterfly4654 10 месяцев назад +4

    he just likes to date older women but not marry them. im an older woman too, and dated younger guys whi left me for a younger chick...hey thats reality. lol. she needs to just leave and fInd someone who will make her happy.

    • @charmainewalker8627
      @charmainewalker8627 10 месяцев назад

      Exactly as soon as he finds a younger chick that he fancy he is gone. She is just a space holder . Ladies please love yourselves. I know for some persons companionship is important. But lady you have been married before,girl you should be enjoying yourself. Lady move on

  • @HadiyaNuriddin
    @HadiyaNuriddin 10 месяцев назад +1

    "I want to get married!" vs "I want to marry him." - "I want to be a wife." vs. "I want to be his wife." - "I want to start a family." vs. "I want to start a family with him." Very interesting language choices. But while women often do this -- seemingly just want to get married to whomever -- men do a similar thing where they could be with a woman for 5 years and marry the woman he meets 6 months after his long-time girlfriend pulls the plug just because he's now ready. He's that type of guy. What a mess this all is? Just be alone until you figure this all out for yourself. Don't use someone else's heart as a literal stepping stone for your growth.