Beautiful. This is finally me at 68. I am love. I am also Very happy. And My God, he’s speaking ALL of my words. Didn’t know I was generating my own oxytocin!! I’m also much more open to spirit. I don’t live in fear-never watch the news. Don’t hate anyone. Rarely get angry about anything. Heart often fills itself with this incredible gratitude for my life. Listen to Dr Jo. I’ve been practicing this for the last few years. It works.
I was in love with my husband -and it was returned - for 25 blessed years. We loved each other other unconditionally, from the moment we met. It was an effortless joy to be with him. I feel that way about my bffs, too. And we’ve all had trauma and abuse in our lives. I am only occasionally tactless with chronic complainers. I’ve said “Do you realize that everything you just talked about was a complaint?”And guess what? 1. I felt badly and apologized and 2. they thanked me - and started to come up with much more interesting and fun conversation. Sometimes “criticism” can be valid and helpful, when honest, and not simply because you’re cranky. I have my snippy moments, but I’ve also had a lot of love from people who understand and care about me, including my darling husband of twenty-five years years, who said I was “perfect” for him. 😊❤
@@leebeaven9382 Very thought- provoking! But if they fell in a river, would we throw a PFD?? (and Then walk away) Now THAT would be forgiveness I think. Luv the comments here...
Another way to look at death is like an integration. Or think of this metaphor: Like when a body dies the body goes back to Earth, it's reintegrated back with the Mother. But to each their own.
When the drama happened as a child like in my case that I was an undiagnosed dyslexic during the 1966 (first grade), you do not have the tools to say- this shame is not mine. It belongs to my teachers of the university school lab of my city and my intellectual parents that could not understand nor accept a child that could not learn. It was my fault always. So, it took a lot of Dr Dispenza work (I am still doing it) to stop taking the blame for every situation and see life with different mindset and energy. “Your identity is shaped when you are a child and you always take the blame because you can not fathom that adults are imperfect (you live in the magical world where parents are everything). In the world of learning differences, we have come a long way, but when I a child, it was brutal😬😳😔😫
Wow what a great interview. Wished the whole thing was here. I've not seen Joe so relaxed before. And wonderful that he is using different ways of explaining. Normally it's like recording of the same thing with the same words and examples and also rather forceful. This felt great. My Heart centre opened, began to pulse. Wonderful!!
Choosing Love means accepting everything about yourself, stopping the fight with yourself. It concretely means accepting all your emotions without judgment. Here Dr Joe says that you should tame, fight, silence any emotion that is not love, and doing so is the exact opposite of love!
Not exactly. At first, you need to get rid of everything that is separating you from love. Then, once you know the difference, and you can control the separation, and you know what love is, you are healed.
Accept all your emotions, stay with them and they will be released, no need to meditate for hours, days and years, no need for any particular technique. Go down the rabbit hole and you will come out of it healed.
@slee7991 Rhonda Byrne explains this perfectly in chapters 7 and 8 of The Greatest Secret. You welcome those negative feelings. Allow yourself to feel them and they will naturally fall away. They're nothing but energy. When we resist those feelings, that's when they stick around. What we resist, persists.
@@Melissa85Bee thank you!!! I've been doing brain retraining and it can become this loop as to how your reacting towards everything. It can get you in a pit of disappointment.ill look into the book!
I am definitely in survival mode. I hate my ex, I hate everyone around me, I hate myself, I hate my life, I am angry and sad. I am tired of this, but this what I feel, all my pain, is t still here, but I want to live again.
I've been there my friend, and it's horrible. Make a commitment to yourself to stop. Make a commitment to look after yourself, to protect yourself from pain, the way you would your child. Meditation was a life saver for me. Joe Dispenza's book "Break the habit of being yourself" is a great place to start.
@@karimayoubi74 I am trying ad hard as I can. 6 months are already gone, and when I thought I was getting better, sbam, again in the abyss. But I won't give up.
If you think about it…. When someone hurts us the other person is fine. It is us that carries all the pain. Forgiveness is GIVING ourselves the permission to let go and to take our power back.
Being full of love is beautiful & a wonderful feeling just be careful with ppl who will want to take you down & will see you as a target because of it.
Wowwwwwww. Everyone needs to hear this. I ADORE EVERY WORD. Pure Resonance. I love these guys. This is powerful and poignant. Thannnnnnnnnk you Thank you Thank you. This is just PHENOMENAL PHENOMENAL ❤
Based upon other podcasts of Sr. Joe’s teachings and the things that he explains in his books, (which I highly recommend) my understanding is that people hold (or rather are HELD) onto the emotions of their past because of the conditioning they they, themselves, have caused in their bodies from,perhaps even daily, reviewing the experiences that stimulated the hormones to which they’ve become addicted, as they would to other substances. People don’t “hold” onto anything, things hold onto people. That requires no conscious effort on the part of the person; in fact it’s a subconsciously developed phenomenon, which makes it all the more insidious and difficult to modify- unless you know the proper procedure. Which Dr. Joe explains very well! Just saying.
Lewis thanks my mind , my breath my heart enjoy listen and changing to lookinfor and find love really love. And forgive me and others truly ....dont pay attention any to the unlove or dislove that me or they provide.....so complicated lo vere y escucharé....bastante❤.....😮 gracias a ti y super Dr Joe
Is that why I can't stay angry? I may get upset, but to carry anger is almost impossible. It's a feeling that doesn't work in my frequecy now?? Kinda like 'nails on a chalkboard' ... you know what I mean. It literally makes me ill, physically.
Dr. Joe, it's indifference, not forgiveness. When we reach a place of indifference, we no longer let those that hurt us have control of our emotions any longer. I don't forgive those people, I've reached indifference, now when I think of them or see them, I feel nothing. And it's an amazing feeling.
Indifference ok and it is a lower vibration on the emotional tone scale. Unconditional Love vibration truly is a more peaceful, joyful and healthier frequency within which to hang out. But if indifference works well enough for you, then great
Indifference is a place of rather emotional numbness. This isn't the goal here. You cannot create from that place, that kind of creation that Joe is talking about. But if it works for you, it works for you.
Forgiveness is coming from a place of unconditional love, while indifference is a lower vibration emotion, yes it’s better than hate but it’s not truly liberating because love is missing
Whatever is in our MINDS drive our emotions. Our emotions are the fuel in our engines which propel us into action and movement. But it's our minds, our thoughts, our intellects, our beliefs, dogmas, doctrines, our desires and hopes and fears, our prejudices, our biases, our memories, our judgements, our attitudes, our intentions, our willpower, which sit in the driver's seat, turn on our ignition , and drive the vehicle of our daily lives. Our minds ignite our emotions. Not the other way round. Our feelings are physical. Our feeling/ emotional centre is in our solar plexus, our central chakra/ energy centre which sits literally on our physical middle of our bodies, connecting whatever is above and below our solar plexus. In my experience, human beings for the mist part, don't deliberately hurt each other. We kind of bump into each other and trip over each other. More unconscious than conscious . No matter how it might appear, most people most of the time, actually DON'T play mind games with each other. So much of the time, human beings are far more PROGRAMMED than INTENTIONAL ! So most of the time, we don't deliberately set out and plan and knowingly hurt each other. ( even when it looks that way). But, at times, we DO. And that's when it REALLY HURTS . That's the stuff we find difficult to release. Why do we deliberately, knowingly, intentionally, do things, take actions to hurt others and want them to suffer? Whatever our individual answers and situations are, the central core is always, always, ALWAYS, about POWER. ALWAYS....
Irrelevante practico un testimonio del dr Joe, sin atender humanos...el miedo que me paraliza hacerlo ir relevancia...🎉 gracias, sorry por poner tantos comentarios 😂. Ando sola en mis cambios.❤
Tengo que hacer una parábola de cambio dónde se una lo que enseña el Dr Joe y Louise Hay enseña también...los he entendido me falta conjugarlo para estar cambiada. El viernes me pasó use la respiración y peq meditación así como las palabras que enseña Louise Hay ..y pase ese momento que después reflexione lo hice 😮 y con un buen trato .. gracias 🫂🫂🫂 a los tres x tanto aporte a mi ❤
This man deserves the Nobel peace prize, he has changed me, I'm in love with life today, no longer in survival mode and love is the fuel that energises me today, I'm joyful, and find myself crying at moments throughout the day with happiness, no more addictions, all powerful and synchronised ❤❤❤ and its only been 9 days ( which is actually what the title of the podcast was I first saw him on)
So if you want to know if someone truly loves you are are in love with you the way they claim or at least if they are capable of love ask them to get tested for the oxytocin levels and you will know the truth?
I disagree. You don't have to "kill" that part of yourself. You make peace with that part of yourself. I have found that acknowledging those parts of myself, those "characters" that were developed as coping through trauma. I now tell myself that I no longer need to protect myself with those characters.
Yeah, it easy said and done.. BUT TO TRULY CHANGE YOUR SELF IS TO TRULY KNOW YOURSELF IN A DEEPER MEANING.. Are you not wondering WHY people think, bahave, communicate, etc. differently with one another.. Search all those WHY'S of yourself to be able to understand oneself. And once you have the answer, it is easier to accept and to change anything that you want to change in your self.. HOW?.. Take all possible personality test that is available. Read/Listen to clinical psychologists about certain topics that resonates with you. Also try Astrology (this is not a fortune telling) Try it, and you will definitely understand your self.
joe is just a whole lot of words salad . Another bogus so called guru that has plagiarised so many . When we use so many words to describe simple terms to sound fancy, this is the definition of word salad .
You have to control what you love. If you're gonna love abuser you gonna get more abuse cuz thats what you love... If you gonna give away your money you will learn to live without it. Not him of course, he's skilled to collect it from guilible through his books and seminars. Unpleasant experiences happen for you to learn and improve yourself. Personal growth is impossible if you're always in love and people who mirror back your flaws are needed. Dangerous guy spreading malicious information for attention. Guilt tripping is a very nasty thing to do and that's exactly what he's doing. Feeling good isn't much when you're a fool.
Beautiful. This is finally me at 68. I am love. I am also Very happy.
And My God, he’s speaking ALL of my words. Didn’t know I was generating my own oxytocin!!
I’m also much more open to spirit. I don’t live in fear-never watch the news. Don’t hate anyone. Rarely get angry about anything. Heart often fills itself with this incredible gratitude for my life.
Listen to Dr Jo. I’ve been practicing this for the last few years. It works.
Thank you for sharing this!❤
You must be single!
@@Susan_F People in relationships or married can sometimes be happy, too!
@@Susan_F😂😂😂
I was in love with my husband -and it was returned - for 25 blessed years. We loved each other other unconditionally, from the moment we met. It was an effortless joy to be with him. I feel that way about my bffs, too. And we’ve all had trauma and abuse in our lives. I am only occasionally tactless with chronic complainers. I’ve said “Do you realize that everything you just talked about was a complaint?”And guess what? 1. I felt badly and apologized and 2. they thanked me - and started to come up with much more interesting and fun conversation. Sometimes “criticism” can be valid and helpful, when honest, and not simply because you’re cranky. I have my snippy moments, but I’ve also had a lot of love from people who understand and care about me, including my darling husband of twenty-five years years, who said I was “perfect” for him. 😊❤
“If you take your attention off that person, that’s forgiveness” - ❤
Doesn’t that mean indifference ?
Food for thought. @@MM-gi3yj
@@leebeaven9382 Very thought- provoking!
But if they fell in a river, would we throw a PFD?? (and Then walk away) Now THAT would be forgiveness I think.
Luv the comments here...
No part of us has has to die. Just to be met, helped, cared for and transformed.
Another way to look at death is like an integration. Or think of this metaphor: Like when a body dies the body goes back to Earth, it's reintegrated back with the Mother. But to each their own.
Hurt People Hurt People It’s just that simple people
When the drama happened as a child like in my case that I was an undiagnosed dyslexic during the 1966 (first grade), you do not have the tools to say- this shame is not mine. It belongs to my teachers of the university school lab of my city and my intellectual parents that could not understand nor accept a child that could not learn.
It was my fault always.
So, it took a lot of Dr Dispenza work (I am still doing it) to stop taking the blame for every situation and see life with different mindset and energy.
“Your identity is shaped when you are a child and you always take the blame because you can not fathom that adults are imperfect (you live in the magical world where parents are everything).
In the world of learning differences, we have come a long way, but when I a child, it was brutal😬😳😔😫
Depends on what you are forgiving, some things are unforgivable.
Yes you can love and practice love and forgiveness but sometimes physically things have not left you. I went through DV
Wow what a great interview. Wished the whole thing was here. I've not seen Joe so relaxed before. And wonderful that he is using different ways of explaining. Normally it's like recording of the same thing with the same words and examples and also rather forceful.
This felt great. My Heart centre opened, began to pulse. Wonderful!!
Choosing Love means accepting everything about yourself, stopping the fight with yourself. It concretely means accepting all your emotions without judgment. Here Dr Joe says that you should tame, fight, silence any emotion that is not love, and doing so is the exact opposite of love!
Not exactly. At first, you need to get rid of everything that is separating you from love. Then, once you know the difference, and you can control the separation, and you know what love is, you are healed.
Love that "stop fighting yourself😮"
@@miraheil5521 what separates you from love is the war on yourself, on your body, on your nervous system. "Control" is not love, it is war....
Totally agree with you. One xant kill parts of oneself but one xan tranformed them through healing.
@@LaurenceMartinSaskis it control or acknowledging your emotion and heal them? To shift your attention off that person or that matter?
Love you guys and thank you.
Love every word. Am there every day. The I AM Presence
The I AM
Accept all your emotions, stay with them and they will be released, no need to meditate for hours, days and years, no need for any particular technique. Go down the rabbit hole and you will come out of it healed.
True. That's the only way to release trapped emotions. Else non technique helps
Speaking from experience?
Do you just stay in anger, or just sit in it until it leaves naturally
@@slee7991from what I have experienced it's a matter of sitting with the emotion and observing it. Rather than attached to it.
@slee7991 Rhonda Byrne explains this perfectly in chapters 7 and 8 of The Greatest Secret. You welcome those negative feelings. Allow yourself to feel them and they will naturally fall away. They're nothing but energy. When we resist those feelings, that's when they stick around. What we resist, persists.
@@Melissa85Bee thank you!!! I've been doing brain retraining and it can become this loop as to how your reacting towards everything. It can get you in a pit of disappointment.ill look into the book!
I really needed to hear this, thank you very much
Glad this was helpful for you. 🧡
I am definitely in survival mode. I hate my ex, I hate everyone around me, I hate myself, I hate my life, I am angry and sad. I am tired of this, but this what I feel, all my pain, is t still here, but I want to live again.
I pray for your peace
I've been there my friend, and it's horrible. Make a commitment to yourself to stop. Make a commitment to look after yourself, to protect yourself from pain, the way you would your child.
Meditation was a life saver for me. Joe Dispenza's book "Break the habit of being yourself" is a great place to start.
@@karimayoubi74 I am trying ad hard as I can. 6 months are already gone, and when I thought I was getting better, sbam, again in the abyss. But I won't give up.
Keep going. You are worthy of peace and all the goodness life has to offer. Are you getting support?🧘♀️❤️
@@cerico76
TY Lewis, love Dr Joe, and you ask the best questions! 👍❤️
Appreciate you and your support! 🙏
If you think about it…. When someone hurts us the other person is fine. It is us that carries all the pain. Forgiveness is GIVING ourselves the permission to let go and to take our power back.
@@liawhitmire4416 holding anger is like dragging an anchor around! 🤷♂️why do it?
😂🎉🤗
This is one of ny fav JD interviews ever. Love that guy.
From my own experiences, when I hurt someone else, it's because I'm hurting myself. Hurt people hurt people, as the saying goes.
Would mentor me?
Great perspective and easy to understand. This is the best explanation I've heard
This is a great, I really appreciate how Dr. Joe breaks it down. Easy to understand.
Being full of love is beautiful & a wonderful feeling just be careful with ppl who will want to take you down & will see you as a target because of it.
Wowwwwwww. Everyone needs to hear this. I ADORE EVERY WORD. Pure Resonance. I love these guys. This is powerful and poignant. Thannnnnnnnnk you Thank you Thank you. This is just PHENOMENAL PHENOMENAL ❤
GRACIAS thanks.. GRATITUD es ABUNDANCIA y amor
Love is the Source!🙏
@DjeleuJavier buen resumen, gracias.😊
Choose love always ❤️
Love Divine is the Source of LOVE. Connection to thee Source gives the ability to DO LOVE!
Wow 😳.... I'm going to be watching this over and over. 💯
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!
Wonderful thank you
Based upon other podcasts of Sr. Joe’s teachings and the things that he explains in his books, (which I highly recommend) my understanding is that people hold (or rather are HELD) onto the emotions of their past because of the conditioning they they, themselves, have caused in their bodies from,perhaps even daily, reviewing the experiences that stimulated the hormones to which they’ve become addicted, as they would to other substances.
People don’t “hold” onto anything, things hold onto people. That requires no conscious effort on the part of the person; in fact it’s a subconsciously developed phenomenon, which makes it all the more insidious and difficult to modify- unless you know the proper procedure.
Which Dr. Joe explains very well!
Just saying.
Amar incondicionalmente...tienes contenido tu poder y estaras presente❤
This man's knowledge and wisdom changed my life profoundly. Thank you J.D!
Thanks for watching! I'm glad you liked it!
How can one know love without also knowing anger, indifference, or detachment? 😊
Knowing it, and being control by it are two different things.
Thankyou for sharing this ❤️
You're welcome, thank you for watching! 🧡
Good lesson thanks
You're welcome,thank you for tuning in!
THIS is perfect!
Thank you for watching🧡
Lewis thanks my mind , my breath my heart enjoy listen and changing to lookinfor and find love really love. And forgive me and others truly ....dont pay attention any to the unlove or dislove that me or they provide.....so complicated lo vere y escucharé....bastante❤.....😮 gracias a ti y super Dr Joe
Is this loving to me? Perfect.
Brilliant. Thank you!!
💐💖🙏🏼🕊️☮️💖🌞♾️💯💐
Great content ❤
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching!
Louis is great!😮 "Ou..what must die" he's excellent with people a great listemer/interviewer/host
fantastic! so good
Thank you! I really appreciate the feedback!
Is that why I can't stay angry? I may get upset, but to carry anger is almost impossible. It's a feeling that doesn't work in my frequecy now?? Kinda like 'nails on a chalkboard' ... you know what I mean. It literally makes me ill, physically.
Thats so beautiful
The greatest gift of all is love
Dr. Joe, it's indifference, not forgiveness. When we reach a place of indifference, we no longer let those that hurt us have control of our emotions any longer. I don't forgive those people, I've reached indifference, now when I think of them or see them, I feel nothing. And it's an amazing feeling.
Indifference ok and it is a lower vibration on the emotional tone scale. Unconditional Love vibration truly is a more peaceful, joyful and healthier frequency within which to hang out. But if indifference works well enough for you, then great
@@paradigmjumping IM SAYING. INDIFFERENCE is a choice and do have much difference. So THANK YOU!!!
❤Whatever Guys
Indifference to Forgiveness is like 🌝 to 🌱
Indifference is a place of rather emotional numbness. This isn't the goal here. You cannot create from that place, that kind of creation that Joe is talking about. But if it works for you, it works for you.
Forgiveness is coming from a place of unconditional love, while indifference is a lower vibration emotion, yes it’s better than hate but it’s not truly liberating because love is missing
Fantastic💗💗💗
Thank you!
Whatever is in our MINDS drive our emotions. Our emotions are the fuel in our engines which propel us into action and movement. But it's our minds, our thoughts, our intellects, our beliefs, dogmas, doctrines, our desires and hopes and fears, our prejudices, our biases, our memories, our judgements, our attitudes, our intentions, our willpower, which sit in the driver's seat, turn on our ignition , and drive the vehicle of our daily lives. Our minds ignite our emotions. Not the other way round.
Our feelings are physical. Our feeling/ emotional centre is in our solar plexus, our central chakra/ energy centre which sits literally on our physical middle of our bodies, connecting whatever is above and below our solar plexus. In my experience, human beings for the mist part, don't deliberately hurt each other. We kind of bump into each other and trip over each other.
More unconscious than conscious .
No matter how it might appear, most people most of the time, actually DON'T play mind games with each other. So much of the time, human beings are far more PROGRAMMED than INTENTIONAL !
So most of the time, we don't deliberately set out and plan and knowingly hurt each other. ( even when it looks that way). But, at times, we DO. And that's when it REALLY HURTS . That's the stuff we find difficult to release. Why do we deliberately, knowingly, intentionally, do things, take actions to hurt others and want them to suffer? Whatever our individual answers and situations are, the central core is always, always, ALWAYS, about POWER. ALWAYS....
"the separation"😮
Irrelevante practico un testimonio del dr Joe, sin atender humanos...el miedo que me paraliza hacerlo ir relevancia...🎉 gracias, sorry por poner tantos comentarios 😂. Ando sola en mis cambios.❤
Tengo que hacer una parábola de cambio dónde se una lo que enseña el Dr Joe y Louise Hay enseña también...los he entendido me falta conjugarlo para estar cambiada. El viernes me pasó use la respiración y peq meditación así como las palabras que enseña Louise Hay ..y pase ese momento que después reflexione lo hice 😮 y con un buen trato .. gracias 🫂🫂🫂 a los tres x tanto aporte a mi ❤
Truth
Well the guy i saw today was lovely to me :)
Brings me back to “🐄 moo”
"Aaaaaannnd , Iiiiiiimmm feeeeeeeelinnngggĝ gggoooooooddd" da dum da da da da duummmmm 🎵🎶🕺
♥
These two need to speak to the warmongers in Washington past and present + the pentagon. By their metric those in power are in a negative TRANCE !
"is this loving to me?"
Am inlove with love❤
😢😢
❤💫
Conservar, contener mi poder...😮 Power back?
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
This man deserves the Nobel peace prize, he has changed me, I'm in love with life today, no longer in survival mode and love is the fuel that energises me today, I'm joyful, and find myself crying at moments throughout the day with happiness, no more addictions, all powerful and synchronised ❤❤❤ and its only been 9 days ( which is actually what the title of the podcast was I first saw him on)
Thanks for watching! I'm glad you liked it!
So if you want to know if someone truly loves you are are in love with you the way they claim or at least if they are capable of love ask them to get tested for the oxytocin levels and you will know the truth?
Was miserable.
For years at the hand of my own thoughts and behaviors finally learned from this guy. At 34 better later than never
That's why I work on my self love i don't really need to go around doing that which will result in me regaining my girlfriend
⚜💖💖💖⚜
I disagree. You don't have to "kill" that part of yourself. You make peace with that part of yourself.
I have found that acknowledging those parts of myself, those "characters" that were developed as coping through trauma. I now tell myself that I no longer need to protect myself with those characters.
Love never fails ❤
🍃🙏🍃💞🍃💞🍃
🥰
He talks better than he listens. Joe.
It might be because he is in flow state.
Yeah, it easy said and done.. BUT TO TRULY CHANGE YOUR SELF IS TO TRULY KNOW YOURSELF IN A DEEPER MEANING..
Are you not wondering WHY people think, bahave, communicate, etc. differently with one another.. Search all those WHY'S of yourself to be able to understand oneself. And once you have the answer, it is easier to accept and to change anything that you want to change in your self..
HOW?..
Take all possible personality test that is available.
Read/Listen to clinical psychologists about certain topics that resonates with you.
Also try Astrology (this is not a fortune telling)
Try it, and you will definitely understand your self.
Because they narcissistic
joe is just a whole lot of words salad . Another bogus so called guru that has plagiarised so many . When we use so many words to describe simple terms to sound fancy, this is the definition of word salad .
You have to control what you love. If you're gonna love abuser you gonna get more abuse cuz thats what you love... If you gonna give away your money you will learn to live without it. Not him of course, he's skilled to collect it from guilible through his books and seminars. Unpleasant experiences happen for you to learn and improve yourself. Personal growth is impossible if you're always in love and people who mirror back your flaws are needed. Dangerous guy spreading malicious information for attention. Guilt tripping is a very nasty thing to do and that's exactly what he's doing. Feeling good isn't much when you're a fool.
I want to send this to a certain someone. 💔❤️🩹
❤
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