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One of the hardest things after awakening, can be coming to terms with relationships falling away, when we become out of alignment with them. It’s not that we don’t love those people but I believe it’s what we’re meant to do. We can all resist this for a while and try our best to make things work but in the end, we either go round and round in a continuous loop, trying to explain why we’re suddenly different or we emotionally shut down and stay in a deeper dark knight of the soul for longer. Thank you so much for sharing your voice as it’s much needed right now in our great awakening 🙏💖
I feel a major shift from my husband too.. we have been married for 13years . I awakened suddenly in 2020.. my husband, isn’t vibrating the same as I am. I have finally spoken up and asked him to stop the controlling. I am now free and love every one. I have asked him to feel free to do whatever makes him happy. I just need peace and Love.
Thank you for sharing this. ❤ I'll just have to accept that to each one of your videos I'm going to say "me too!" My awakening started 2011-2012. While I was in the middle of my dark night of the soul a year later I realised that my husband wasn't evolving or awakening at all. A large part of my side of the decision to divorce was that he couldn't accept that I was healing, evolving and awakening.
Sean I really appreciate you posting this video. I went through an awakening 5 months ago and have been married for 20 years this year and have two children. I came hear looking for answers in dealing with some of the difficulties I’ve been experiencing but also some direction in practicing acceptance and trusting the universe with divine timing. I could hear your sincerity, vulnerability, self awareness, but also self Compassion through your words. I found what you said about some of the difficulties one encounters with their spouse after an awakening incredibly accurate with what I’ve been going through as well. If anything it brought me great comfort to know what I’m feeling is totally normal. It helped me to get some of those answers and guidance I was looking for. As a side note I see some negative posts here and I would say that what awakened folks feel and do don’t resonate very much with the unawakened. I did not get the feeling you were encouraging others to leave their spouse after awakening. O my showing your own story so others could take what resonated with them. You were also very self aware in owning the ways you could have done better. It hurts me to see people judging you for what was obviously a very difficult and painful decision for you. I assume they have some unhealed triggers to work on this in area (which we all do). Sending them as well as you positive vibes and source love.
Alright. Almost 6 minutes in- as well as a week away from my divorce- And, your bringing tears- well, no… It’s, beautiful. I honestly typed in, “why do marriages fail after a spiritual awakening” and yours was one of the top ones. So- Thank you, cause. This… is friggin hard. I don’t know how much more you’re gonna open up, but… Thank you, again, for speaking so freely and- honestly because this is- hard. Not to mention, so many think, ok- “it happened- I’m done”. That right there…. Oh my! That’s the kick in the ass- cause, no love… you are simply, just beginning!
Sean, this is a great video and topic. Thank you for sharing your experience and some guidance. Its bang on to what I've been experiencing with my hubby.
You have no idea on how much you have helped me I’m currently the partner who is still sleeping as you would say. However this has truly gave me hope, direction, compassion(which I already had), relief, understanding and etc.
Thank you SO MUCH for this video. It was exactly what I was looking for. I'm in the big fat middle of it right now. I am having such a hard time finding the energy to deal with any ego/material related issues with anyone... including my own. I just want to keep to myself, but no one around me will let me just BE. It is painful. I am aware of it happening, AS it is happening... even though I can't seem to do much about it AS it is happening. It is all so truly bazaar. Anyways, I just wanted to thank you for your words. Please make another video around this topic. Thank you 🙏🏼🦄🌈🧬🪄❤
Are you experiencing spiritual awakening and conflict with your partner? I hope this helps give some perspective to those who may benefit. Do you have any other tips for others? If you were successful in maintaining the relationship, how did you do it? ❤️🐉❤️
Thank you for sharing your experiences, especially when they are so deep and personal. It helps in so many ways! Sending you so much love and light Sean!! ❤️🤗
How's it going ?? I'm having a hard time too and it's hard to talk to anyone about it because everyone around me friends and family are awakening except my husband
Oh my gosh... I was just reflecting on my own separation, picked up my phone, and had the notification for this video waiting for me. You touch on a number of things that I was reviewing and mulling over. Thank you for being willing to be vulnerable and sharing your story. It's been of benefit and support to me this evening.
Thank you so much. I was so hesitant to even discuss this topic but I knew it was my own resistance to being vulnerable. Much love and light, relationships are the hardest part about our job healing ourselves. ❤️❤️❤️
@@doctorandwizard Agreed! Relationships are the most complex part of the puzzle! As you touched on yourself, we usually stand to gain when we're willing to be vulnerable. Way to resist your resistance! 👍
Thanks my man for being bold enough to bring this on the table.. this so hard than l thought it was..and l am at this point as we speak ..and it's breaking me apart.. knowing that they are not there yet where l am at..
I had been awakening when I got together with my husband. I knew no terms. I didn't even know how to describe how just one day i literally felt a shift and i felt unconditional love for all people. I knew nothing about boundaries or codependency. In the end I realized I wanted to fix him. I just wanted him to heal. I could see his pain so clearly yet he was in denial. They call that 4D. I had issues to fix too. Funny how that fear of abandonment attracted us to each other in the first place. My vibration is high now. I just choose to be happy and positive. I pray his vibration will match mine again and we'll magnetically attract again in the 3D. No matter we'll be back together on the other side in the end. We're soul tribe. Positive energy healing vibes to you and your wifey!! 💕
Thank you very much for sharing! Yes I chose not to go into issues like codependency etc in this particular video as I didn't want to put negative ideas about these states into people's heads, in other words I wanted to try and have them focus on themselves. 100% though it is so typical for us as sensitive people to become completely identified with the idea that we are there to heal them. It isn't until we realize we are here to heal ourselves, and that by healing ourselves we are helping to heal and process shadow from those around us we are doing our true work (In my opinion). Thank you again for sharing, much love to you
I'm going through this now. I married in 2019 before I went through the awakening. My husband got the jab and he's a non believer so I'm having a hard time. I never researched this till today, because I swear we were so happy.
Nicole.. can I please talk to you about this… my wife is leaving me because she awoke two years ago. I’m really struggling even two years later. She awoke three months after we were happily married.
Thank you for sharing. Don't think of it as failing. It just is. You were two souls that weren't resonating anymore together and that's ok. You learned what you could from one another and evolved. My divorce was 3 years ago and it was hard because we were best friends also. But looking back it was the best thing that could have happened. It's cliche but true that when you can let go of what is no longer serving you, the universe fills that empty space with new energy. There is a lot of learning, a lot of growth, a lot of new interesting souls that come around to give you more keys. Keep being authentic. Lovin the videos.
I never cry. Husband would say im cold hearted. Which I was but now that I've had my awakening, I cannot stop crying and feel so much empathy for complete strangers all the time. Now I cannot stop crying because I don't want to hurt my husband by leaving. I feel like I outgrew him. I always would think.. "We are made for each other". Which we were.. But I don't feel like that anymore. I have been feeling like this for 3 years. I debate it so many times.. Thinking if It could be a test for me.. But why would the universe not want me happy... It just hurts so much thinking how much he will hurt the day I tell him.
This is quite typical. My suggestion is to try to help show the millions of people experiencing exactly what you are. You can't force him to understand, but you can try to curb some of the thoughts that you are crazy by engaging in this type of rational approach to show the other that you're going through something many experience.
Wow it wasnt random for me at all. Thank you for sharing something so very personal with us by the way. I was already at the point of this doesnt work for me b4 the awakening tho, after I went through it, which I tried to hide, he was jealous of me bc of him wanting it so very badly. Our communication was next to shit b4 hand and since it hasnt gotten any better. I have stopped blaming him tho. You sure cleared up the not wanting to get out of bed thing tho. Never in my life have I ever been one to not get up and out of bed just bc I didnt want to, I always just got up. But this year I didnt. Wow I can relate to your story completely, my mind is blown actually. Thank you again for this video and sharing apart of your life thats so sensitive and personal, you really have helped me. 💜⚡💡
Yes it's a good topic n needs be talked about bcz its happening alot n will continue to happen bcz of people's are waking up n going in new directions. To navigate these life issues is important n finding solutions n talking openly about it helps others n ourselves navigate these things..hopefully better ways. Well done for talking n showing this..bring clarity n doing it a more loving n caring way n see all sides.
I'm excited to hear this ... but before we start i read the comments. & let me just say .. i am crushed that my partner is not on my frequency. Absolutely crushed.
With mine I woke up he didnt.. he blames me for everything. I've expressed whats happening. He has no interest. I see him as a crying kid. I look at the mirror aspect. He shows me what's causing triggers and I focus on my healing. This starts fights because I'm working on me. The kids do make it tough. We argue how to raise them.. Yet It's as it's ment to be. Perfect time to raise them consciously. I don't push it on him. I do feel it separating. He will awaken when it's time for him. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for this point of view..much appreciated..not sure if you want to hear this but I was one that tried to educate my partner about this process..I tried for 2 years..now he is using this info against me in court to take my children away...
I am sorry to hear that. I have been put in a mental institution 4 times against my will, and deeply understand the stigma attached to walking this path openly. Talking and communicating won't always work out, as your example certainly shows - but I do believe it is the only approach that has the potential to yield positive results. The only alternative is to immediately give up and leave. What else is there? Pretending longer? It won't work. You did the right thing and although it is hurtful and you feel betrayed, at least you can know you tried Thank you for sharing. Much light and love to you sister 💗
@@doctorandwizard I've lost contact with everyone from my previous life including family. No one understands waking up unless they have embodied it themselves. The more people speak about this openly, the more it will be recognized as "real". Even if it never becomes accepted as mainstream in our lifetime, those of us who need to find communities that understand us will continue to support each other. Much love to both of you ❤
Wow I feel like you're describing what I'm going through. As this video is 2years old, how are you doing now? Coz right now it feels like it won't end or get easier
Wow... Thank you so much for sharing and for you being honest and at the same time honoring your spouse by taking responsebility and being respectful to her privacy. It takes alot of strength to share this prosess in this way. You gave me hope today, as I am really, really experiencing the dark night of the soul to the fullest. My shadow keeps showing up so dramatically, I couldnt ever imagine there would be so much in there I have supressed. I am not so fun being around, so Ive fled to the mountains to do some serious soulsearching. Thank you for sharing. This inspires me to move forward and gave me hope today. Keep up the good work💕
This has been slowly happening in my relationship over the last few years. My fiance knows I want him to wake up, but said he doesn't want to take the time to learn everything. He is interested in some of the things I talk about and practice, but sometimes I can tell he's just pretending to be interested. I definitely can't force him, but I do wish he would show more interest.
😕..he won’t. Change is both a blessing and a curse. You can’t make somebody else want to do it. They have to have agency so that means if they don’t want to they won’t. This includes family members and parents and loved ones. I’ve really had to wrestle with this with my own family. It helps me at any rate to chalk it up to that they’re on their journey, but I am also on mine. And that this journey will include divergence - this present moment. Perhaps one day convergence with each other but until then I have to leave them be just like they’re leaving me be. Don’t get me wrong. This is really hard but it’s also the only way forward. at least how I see it.
This is hard. He’s speaking my story, it’s all so relationable and comforting in that way. But to know he ended his life after his awaking makes me wonder about “awaking” in general. Like are we waking up or letting in destructive energy to guide us? I really don’t know anymore because moving in your own energy flow can FEEL really good but is it ultimately bring us joy and peace idk
Just be positive, that's all you can do and work on yourself. My wife took my 6 month boy on my 1st Father's day, so cruel but I understand we aren't meant to be together. Just kicked me when I was down, sad. STAY STRONG!
How To Hero -- this video was posted almost 1 year ago. Can you please give us an update where your marriage is today? Have you completely split, or did it get resolved?
I am in a peaceful place with my ex-wife, we share custody of our children and I am with a new partner who works with me on the channel. Her name is Tassel, and if you look at the recent Videos you will see a bunch with her and me together. So we have completely split, but work together harmoniously and without the involvement of any legal aid / mediation
Sean. Thank you for this. My wife woke up and been a tremendous struggle for two years now. She awoke three months after we got married. I’ve really really struggled with it all. We are separating now and probably divorcing. I would really like to chat with you to perhaps have a different perspective and help me possibly find closure. She loves me very much but says she has to leave. Says there is someone else for me that she has been shown. Plus other things of course. I’m just… I am… I relate to everything you said. I just would like to chat with you if that would be ok.
I find it helps to do things like jokingly point out synchronicities and then attach some of our more “outlandish beliefs” to those things. My wife has come to accept that I’m a bit crazy by her standards, but at the same time she can’t discount my reasoning. Sorry your awakening appears to have been so violent/abrupt/whatever... Was it LSD that sent you blasting off?
@@doctorandwizard Literally or figuratively? Also, no judgement against anyone who got pointed down the correct path while “taking a walk”. It worked for me beautifully, albeit a lot to process all at once. I eventually picked myself up and carried on with an enhanced purpose and strength 💪
I decided I was going to kill myself. I asked God, or whatever there is beyond myself to intervene if there was something worth saving. This is when I woke up, for me it was life or death
@@doctorandwizard Wow bro, well I’m certainly glad you made it. I also walked into the dark and took the long way out. Can I just say...you’ve influenced me so strongly and I’m infinitely thankful for it. You’ve given me validation and community and self-assurance... As you well know, nothing happens by accident...as unfortunate as that is at times.. Still, you’re doing an important thing.
Why would you be so cruel and ask if he did LSD and judge someone! True awakenings don’t happen with drugs they happen when someone has a traumatic experience. Have a heart and quit Judging people!!! Remember God is the only Judge I. This reality.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, my awakening started in February 2023 and as its gone on I can't believe how much it hurts to stay with my partner, I love him so much, but I keep finding that stuff which I've ignored about him before the awakening, really makes me feel physically ill, my heart hurts constantly, is this normal? It feels like its broken but only if im in the same room, I've ended up staying in another room or going out, I feel so bad about it and know its its not his fault.
@@doctorandwizard Why have you prioritising teaching self-love, over teaching your children how to navigate life and supporting your committed partner?? Asking sincerely.
I spent today with my ex wife and children at a fair for their school. I spent yesterday with my ex wife and children so my ex could attend an interview. A few days prior I spent the weekend with my children. I am with my children more than I was during the marriage. I am more present, and me and their mother get along very well. We speak daily, and I spent the night at her house with her and her boyfriend for Christmas. I do what I do and teach what I teach, and none of this has anything to do with causing me to be unable to be present, loving and attentive to my children or my ex wife who I also love deeply.
@@doctorandwizard So you haven't left you wife, your still hanging around, but your encouraging other to leave their partners and love themselves, and your calling it a “spiritual awakening”. Have I got the gist??
I actually tend to advocate towards acceptance and recommend one attempts to be authentic and transparent with their partners to maintain the relationship, if this is possible. Beyond this however, I do not advocate for anyone to do anything beyond determining what they feel is in the highest and best for all involved. So no, I don't feel you have the gist of things in this case. Each relationship is unique, and I would not make any blanket statement to suggest that a particular solution is better - though I would lean towards peace, acceptance and forgiveness to maintain a committed partnership if both feel it can work. If this is unclear in the video, I don't recall, I filmed this a while back. I believe I held the same overall position at the time of filming. In other words I don't hold an opinion on this matter beyond an opinion that peace and harmony is preferable to conflict, and that this is established through open communication.
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Sean story does resonate with mine …. I’m going through what he is now
Crazy how I just stumbled on this almost a year later …. After his passing 😢
One of the hardest things after awakening, can be coming to terms with relationships falling away, when we become out of alignment with them. It’s not that we don’t love those people but I believe it’s what we’re meant to do. We can all resist this for a while and try our best to make things work but in the end, we either go round and round in a continuous loop, trying to explain why we’re suddenly different or we emotionally shut down and stay in a deeper dark knight of the soul for longer. Thank you so much for sharing your voice as it’s much needed right now in our great awakening 🙏💖
This is a great video & exactly my experience.
I feel a major shift from my husband too.. we have been married for 13years . I awakened suddenly in 2020.. my husband, isn’t vibrating the same as I am. I have finally spoken up and asked him to stop the controlling. I am now free and love every one. I have asked him to feel free to do whatever makes him happy. I just need peace and Love.
Thank you for sharing this. ❤ I'll just have to accept that to each one of your videos I'm going to say "me too!"
My awakening started 2011-2012. While I was in the middle of my dark night of the soul a year later I realised that my husband wasn't evolving or awakening at all. A large part of my side of the decision to divorce was that he couldn't accept that I was healing, evolving and awakening.
Sean I really appreciate you posting this video. I went through an awakening 5 months ago and have been married for 20 years this year and have two children. I came hear looking for answers in dealing with some of the difficulties I’ve been experiencing but also some direction in practicing acceptance and trusting the universe with divine timing. I could hear your sincerity, vulnerability, self awareness, but also self Compassion through your words. I found what you said about some of the difficulties one encounters with their spouse after an awakening incredibly accurate with what I’ve been going through as well. If anything it brought me great comfort to know what I’m feeling is totally normal. It helped me to get some of those answers and guidance I was looking for.
As a side note I see some negative posts here and I would say that what awakened folks feel and do don’t resonate very much with the unawakened. I did not get the feeling you were encouraging others to leave their spouse after awakening. O my showing your own story so others could take what resonated with them. You were also very self aware in owning the ways you could have done better. It hurts me to see people judging you for what was obviously a very difficult and painful decision for you. I assume they have some unhealed triggers to work on this in area (which we all do). Sending them as well as you positive vibes and source love.
Please reach out for a 1:1, free, dear one. I love you. ~Ka
@@doctorandwizard how can I reach out for a 1 on 1?
@lexb.ramsay140 please email drtasselfaith@icloud.com
Alright. Almost 6 minutes in- as well as a week away from my divorce-
And, your bringing tears- well, no…
It’s, beautiful. I honestly typed in, “why do marriages fail after a spiritual awakening” and yours was one of the top ones. So-
Thank you, cause. This… is friggin hard. I don’t know how much more you’re gonna open up, but…
Thank you, again, for speaking so freely and- honestly because this is- hard. Not to mention, so many think, ok- “it happened- I’m done”.
That right there…. Oh my!
That’s the kick in the ass- cause, no love… you are simply, just beginning!
Sean, this is a great video and topic. Thank you for sharing your experience and some guidance. Its bang on to what I've been experiencing with my hubby.
How's it going ? Praying for you
You have no idea on how much you have helped me I’m currently the partner who is still sleeping as you would say. However this has truly gave me hope, direction, compassion(which I already had), relief, understanding and etc.
Thank you SO MUCH for this video. It was exactly what I was looking for. I'm in the big fat middle of it right now. I am having such a hard time finding the energy to deal with any ego/material related issues with anyone... including my own. I just want to keep to myself, but no one around me will let me just BE. It is painful. I am aware of it happening, AS it is happening... even though I can't seem to do much about it AS it is happening. It is all so truly bazaar. Anyways, I just wanted to thank you for your words. Please make another video around this topic.
Thank you
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Are you experiencing spiritual awakening and conflict with your partner? I hope this helps give some perspective to those who may benefit.
Do you have any other tips for others? If you were successful in maintaining the relationship, how did you do it?
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Thank you for sharing your experiences, especially when they are so deep and personal. It helps in so many ways! Sending you so much love and light Sean!! ❤️🤗
Thank you Heather, always appreciated. all the love back to you and yours ❤️
I really needed to hear this man. I appreciate you being so open and vulnerable about this. I am going through a very similar situation currently.
How's it going ?? I'm having a hard time too and it's hard to talk to anyone about it because everyone around me friends and family are awakening except my husband
Oh my gosh... I was just reflecting on my own separation, picked up my phone, and had the notification for this video waiting for me. You touch on a number of things that I was reviewing and mulling over. Thank you for being willing to be vulnerable and sharing your story. It's been of benefit and support to me this evening.
Thank you so much. I was so hesitant to even discuss this topic but I knew it was my own resistance to being vulnerable. Much love and light, relationships are the hardest part about our job healing ourselves. ❤️❤️❤️
@@doctorandwizard Agreed! Relationships are the most complex part of the puzzle! As you touched on yourself, we usually stand to gain when we're willing to be vulnerable. Way to resist your resistance! 👍
THIS IS SO HELPFUL! You literally are describing my situation. I think this video would actually be helpful to show my husband
Thank you! Sending blessings! 🙏♥️
Thanks my man for being bold enough to bring this on the table.. this so hard than l thought it was..and l am at this point as we speak ..and it's breaking me apart.. knowing that they are not there yet where l am at..
Nailed it. ❤
I had been awakening when I got together with my husband. I knew no terms. I didn't even know how to describe how just one day i literally felt a shift and i felt unconditional love for all people. I knew nothing about boundaries or codependency. In the end I realized I wanted to fix him. I just wanted him to heal. I could see his pain so clearly yet he was in denial. They call that 4D. I had issues to fix too. Funny how that fear of abandonment attracted us to each other in the first place. My vibration is high now. I just choose to be happy and positive. I pray his vibration will match mine again and we'll magnetically attract again in the 3D. No matter we'll be back together on the other side in the end. We're soul tribe. Positive energy healing vibes to you and your wifey!! 💕
Thank you very much for sharing! Yes I chose not to go into issues like codependency etc in this particular video as I didn't want to put negative ideas about these states into people's heads, in other words I wanted to try and have them focus on themselves.
100% though it is so typical for us as sensitive people to become completely identified with the idea that we are there to heal them. It isn't until we realize we are here to heal ourselves, and that by healing ourselves we are helping to heal and process shadow from those around us we are doing our true work (In my opinion).
Thank you again for sharing, much love to you
@@doctorandwizard love to you too!
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Thanks for pointing it out! Reported :)
@@doctorandwizard you bet! 👍
Great Video… The value is never in a direct methodology or program to resolve the fall out. The intense value is your experience. Thank you
I'm going through this now. I married in 2019 before I went through the awakening. My husband got the jab and he's a non believer so I'm having a hard time. I never researched this till today, because I swear we were so happy.
Nicole.. can I please talk to you about this… my wife is leaving me because she awoke two years ago. I’m really struggling even two years later. She awoke three months after we were happily married.
My God. This is my story. I went through awakening overnight, but my wife don’t believe that “ego” is even a real thing.
Thank you for sharing. Don't think of it as failing. It just is. You were two souls that weren't resonating anymore together and that's ok. You learned what you could from one another and evolved.
My divorce was 3 years ago and it was hard because we were best friends also. But looking back it was the best thing that could have happened. It's cliche but true that when you can let go of what is no longer serving you, the universe fills that empty space with new energy. There is a lot of learning, a lot of growth, a lot of new interesting souls that come around to give you more keys.
Keep being authentic. Lovin the videos.
I never cry. Husband would say im cold hearted. Which I was but now that I've had my awakening, I cannot stop crying and feel so much empathy for complete strangers all the time. Now I cannot stop crying because I don't want to hurt my husband by leaving. I feel like I outgrew him. I always would think.. "We are made for each other". Which we were.. But I don't feel like that anymore. I have been feeling like this for 3 years. I debate it so many times.. Thinking if It could be a test for me.. But why would the universe not want me happy... It just hurts so much thinking how much he will hurt the day I tell him.
I feel that my husband and I have nothing in common anymore. He doesn’t understand what I am going through and he thinks I’m crazy.
This is quite typical. My suggestion is to try to help show the millions of people experiencing exactly what you are. You can't force him to understand, but you can try to curb some of the thoughts that you are crazy by engaging in this type of rational approach to show the other that you're going through something many experience.
Wow it wasnt random for me at all. Thank you for sharing something so very personal with us by the way. I was already at the point of this doesnt work for me b4 the awakening tho, after I went through it, which I tried to hide, he was jealous of me bc of him wanting it so very badly. Our communication was next to shit b4 hand and since it hasnt gotten any better. I have stopped blaming him tho. You sure cleared up the not wanting to get out of bed thing tho. Never in my life have I ever been one to not get up and out of bed just bc I didnt want to, I always just got up. But this year I didnt. Wow I can relate to your story completely, my mind is blown actually. Thank you again for this video and sharing apart of your life thats so sensitive and personal, you really have helped me. 💜⚡💡
Yes it's a good topic n needs be talked about bcz its happening alot n will continue to happen bcz of people's are waking up n going in new directions. To navigate these life issues is important n finding solutions n talking openly about it helps others n ourselves navigate these things..hopefully better ways. Well done for talking n showing this..bring clarity n doing it a more loving n caring way n see all sides.
Well said Aisha. Thank you for watching. ❣️
I'm excited to hear this ... but before we start i read the comments. & let me just say .. i am crushed that my partner is not on my frequency. Absolutely crushed.
With mine I woke up he didnt.. he blames me for everything. I've expressed whats happening. He has no interest. I see him as a crying kid. I look at the mirror aspect. He shows me what's causing triggers and I focus on my healing. This starts fights because I'm working on me. The kids do make it tough. We argue how to raise them.. Yet It's as it's ment to be. Perfect time to raise them consciously. I don't push it on him. I do feel it separating. He will awaken when it's time for him. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you this is currently happening to me ❤️
Thank you for this point of view..much appreciated..not sure if you want to hear this but I was one that tried to educate my partner about this process..I tried for 2 years..now he is using this info against me in court to take my children away...
I am sorry to hear that. I have been put in a mental institution 4 times against my will, and deeply understand the stigma attached to walking this path openly.
Talking and communicating won't always work out, as your example certainly shows - but I do believe it is the only approach that has the potential to yield positive results.
The only alternative is to immediately give up and leave. What else is there? Pretending longer? It won't work.
You did the right thing and although it is hurtful and you feel betrayed, at least you can know you tried
Thank you for sharing. Much light and love to you sister 💗
@@doctorandwizard I've lost contact with everyone from my previous life including family. No one understands waking up unless they have embodied it themselves. The more people speak about this openly, the more it will be recognized as "real". Even if it never becomes accepted as mainstream in our lifetime, those of us who need to find communities that understand us will continue to support each other. Much love to both of you ❤
Wow I feel like you're describing what I'm going through. As this video is 2years old, how are you doing now? Coz right now it feels like it won't end or get easier
Going through this now so this helped. Thank you
Thanks for doing a video on this. ❤️
Wow... Thank you so much for sharing and for you being honest and at the same time honoring your spouse by taking responsebility and being respectful to her privacy. It takes alot of strength to share this prosess in this way. You gave me hope today, as I am really, really experiencing the dark night of the soul to the fullest. My shadow keeps showing up so dramatically, I couldnt ever imagine there would be so much in there I have supressed. I am not so fun being around, so Ive fled to the mountains to do some serious soulsearching. Thank you for sharing. This inspires me to move forward and gave me hope today. Keep up the good work💕
This has been the hardest
Leaving my beautiful husband of 22 years and 6 kids
I moved out and started a fresh
Good luck on your journey! All new beginnings are hard and uncertain. You got this 🙏❤️
@@doctorandwizard Thankyou 🙏🏻
This has been slowly happening in my relationship over the last few years. My fiance knows I want him to wake up, but said he doesn't want to take the time to learn everything. He is interested in some of the things I talk about and practice, but sometimes I can tell he's just pretending to be interested. I definitely can't force him, but I do wish he would show more interest.
😕..he won’t. Change is both a blessing and a curse. You can’t make somebody else want to do it. They have to have agency so that means if they don’t want to they won’t. This includes family members and parents and loved ones. I’ve really had to wrestle with this with my own family. It helps me at any rate to chalk it up to that they’re on their journey, but I am also on mine. And that this journey will include divergence - this present moment. Perhaps one day convergence with each other but until then I have to leave them be just like they’re leaving me be. Don’t get me wrong. This is really hard but it’s also the only way forward. at least how I see it.
Thank you so much for this video. It is exactly what i needed to hear.
This is hard. He’s speaking my story, it’s all so relationable and comforting in that way. But to know he ended his life after his awaking makes me wonder about “awaking” in general. Like are we waking up or letting in destructive energy to guide us? I really don’t know anymore because moving in your own energy flow can FEEL really good but is it ultimately bring us joy and peace idk
Same. Holy Spirit and Jesus really helped me put all that into place for me. Jesus mastered this. It was a mess until then.
I cry as I listen. Thank you. So touch. Me ex and adult children won’t talk with me. So painful. I have tried and won’t give up. I know I scared them.
Just be positive, that's all you can do and work on yourself. My wife took my 6 month boy on my 1st Father's day, so cruel but I understand we aren't meant to be together. Just kicked me when I was down, sad. STAY STRONG!
Thank you for sharing this part of your journey
This resonates with me …😢
How To Hero -- this video was posted almost 1 year ago. Can you please give us an update where your marriage is today? Have you completely split, or did it get resolved?
I am in a peaceful place with my ex-wife, we share custody of our children and I am with a new partner who works with me on the channel. Her name is Tassel, and if you look at the recent Videos you will see a bunch with her and me together.
So we have completely split, but work together harmoniously and without the involvement of any legal aid / mediation
@@doctorandwizard thank you so much for the update 🙂🙏🏻
Thank you for this Video 🙏🏾
Sean. Thank you for this. My wife woke up and been a tremendous struggle for two years now. She awoke three months after we got married. I’ve really really struggled with it all. We are separating now and probably divorcing. I would really like to chat with you to perhaps have a different perspective and help me possibly find closure. She loves me very much but says she has to leave. Says there is someone else for me that she has been shown. Plus other things of course. I’m just… I am… I relate to everything you said. I just would like to chat with you if that would be ok.
Hi Travis - if you would like, please reach out to my email at seanthehero1111@gmail.com
Wow, this makes my problems silly ❤
Thank you xox
I find it helps to do things like jokingly point out synchronicities and then attach some of our more “outlandish beliefs” to those things. My wife has come to accept that I’m a bit crazy by her standards, but at the same time she can’t discount my reasoning. Sorry your awakening appears to have been so violent/abrupt/whatever... Was it LSD that sent you blasting off?
No, I didn't use psychadelics. I woke up because it was either that or die.
@@doctorandwizard Literally or figuratively? Also, no judgement against anyone who got pointed down the correct path while “taking a walk”. It worked for me beautifully, albeit a lot to process all at once. I eventually picked myself up and carried on with an enhanced purpose and strength 💪
I decided I was going to kill myself. I asked God, or whatever there is beyond myself to intervene if there was something worth saving. This is when I woke up, for me it was life or death
@@doctorandwizard Wow bro, well I’m certainly glad you made it. I also walked into the dark and took the long way out. Can I just say...you’ve influenced me so strongly and I’m infinitely thankful for it. You’ve given me validation and community and self-assurance... As you well know, nothing happens by accident...as unfortunate as that is at times.. Still, you’re doing an important thing.
Why would you be so cruel and ask if he did LSD and judge someone! True awakenings don’t happen with drugs they happen when someone has a traumatic experience. Have a heart and quit Judging people!!! Remember God is the only Judge I. This reality.
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Thank you
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, my awakening started in February 2023 and as its gone on I can't believe how much it hurts to stay with my partner, I love him so much, but I keep finding that stuff which I've ignored about him before the awakening, really makes me feel physically ill, my heart hurts constantly, is this normal? It feels like its broken but only if im in the same room, I've ended up staying in another room or going out, I feel so bad about it and know its its not his fault.
Like are you sure you're not me in another body 😁
What are you doing with you spiritually awakening?? Besides abandoning your family, and justifying it through social media.
Oh, besides abandoning those who I love I spend most of my time teaching strangers how to love themselves.
@@doctorandwizard Why have you prioritising teaching self-love, over teaching your children how to navigate life and supporting your committed partner?? Asking sincerely.
I spent today with my ex wife and children at a fair for their school. I spent yesterday with my ex wife and children so my ex could attend an interview. A few days prior I spent the weekend with my children.
I am with my children more than I was during the marriage. I am more present, and me and their mother get along very well. We speak daily, and I spent the night at her house with her and her boyfriend for Christmas.
I do what I do and teach what I teach, and none of this has anything to do with causing me to be unable to be present, loving and attentive to my children or my ex wife who I also love deeply.
@@doctorandwizard So you haven't left you wife, your still hanging around, but your encouraging other to leave their partners and love themselves, and your calling it a “spiritual awakening”. Have I got the gist??
I actually tend to advocate towards acceptance and recommend one attempts to be authentic and transparent with their partners to maintain the relationship, if this is possible.
Beyond this however, I do not advocate for anyone to do anything beyond determining what they feel is in the highest and best for all involved.
So no, I don't feel you have the gist of things in this case. Each relationship is unique, and I would not make any blanket statement to suggest that a particular solution is better - though I would lean towards peace, acceptance and forgiveness to maintain a committed partnership if both feel it can work.
If this is unclear in the video, I don't recall, I filmed this a while back. I believe I held the same overall position at the time of filming.
In other words I don't hold an opinion on this matter beyond an opinion that peace and harmony is preferable to conflict, and that this is established through open communication.
so if you are awakened, you should just find another person who is awakened too
You're a guitar player!