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We used to fellowship at the same church I didn't know she was going through hell in her marriage she used to lead praise and worship at our church you are strong mama keep going 🙏
My mother in law could come in my house and gossip me with my house maid. She disrespect me so much, telling people I come from a poor family. She made sure everyone in the family hated me to point the family members abusing me... My former husband was so weak to protect me from all the abuse. You tell him what is happening, he used to keep quiet...I used to keep quiet once I'm abused. Now they started extending the hate to my children. I couldn't travel to his ushago, for the fear of been humiliated. I had to separate myself from this man, now I'm healing and at peace. I understand you so much.
I think this started before,couz I remember my grandmother could fight my mom,ad my father always say my mom is a bad,this happend antil he can marry several ladies ad they were given room in shoes house,,God is good that can't happen today.
I wish if women would love themselves enough to knows that..,they just don't have to give birth to any man out their..,those children's deserves good father as well. Woi.
During dating its the time to learn each other and most people hide in weddings and the fear of failing after weddings combs many peoples school of thought and that's why many are in a dilemma and suffering to uphold the marriage which has already crumbled with one of the partners.
Me i got marriage may na ikaisha august na nikaacha marriage roho safi and i remember i told that guy ukiona mjinga kama mm shukuru mungu trust me kila siku unitafuta turudiane bt who is me i just send photos and tell him mungu hatoki kwenu uliniambia nitoke uendelee enda uendelee roho safi mm kwako is a hell tried to reach out my brother bt i told my brother go and get married to him bt not me again
Not all mother in laws are bad haki. Many are loving and concerned. By the way it's just a few years before the oppressed wives also become mothers in law.
Divorce is done by the court. your husband's signature is not necessary. please familiarize with marriage and divorce laws. Also, you don't need a man's approval to be acceptable to society. Kibali ya Mungu na kujiamini is all what you need.
I have known and served with this girl and for real she is a servant of God. I can't believe what she has gone through in the hands of a "church elder".
We grew up together from the same village we went to Same primary and secondary school. If asked of a humble girl from a very humble family I would bring Trizah all the time it has shocked me to see her going though this hell.
A word of advice. Whenever we ask God for the desires of our hearts, satan has the ability to see what God has in store for us, he therefore, moves with speed and makes a replica of that which God intents to give us except, that his compared to God's, has imperfections. That is when the power of patience is supposed to kick in through prayer and ask God if truly what is right before us is His will and wait patiently for His response. God, in His abundant love, will always show us a sign but only and only if we practice patience.
The moment a man doesn't know how to balance the relationship with his mother and wife hapo ndio mwisho.Creating boundaries for both parties is equally important.
I love my mum in law she was an angel you have to work on yourself. You have to be positive if your mum did not give birth and cared for your husband you could not have met him it is your duty to blend into the family. Be positive.
They don love them at all.they are not even concerned about them.n you force them around to do things for them n you too.they treat you like hell.n if you are working,you cater for yourself n he withdraw everything from you
Pole sana kui kwa yale yote upetishwa na mume wako,Mungu atakusaidia ni mwaminifu sana zidi kumtumania, kwa kweli huyu mrembo namjua tulisoma nayeye high school Iresco na alikuwa msichana mzuri na anapenda Mungu,May God see you throu Terry.
I wish she could have seen her value before she had 3 kids with him. I feel sad to see hardworking women stay in dysfunctional relationships for years until their egos are completely shattered
You are not alone mama Mimi nliwachwa watoi wakiwa 4yrs en 2en half yrs eve Bob sijawahi pata but I thank wako 14 en 12 yrs respectively have been taking care of them since then can't complain first born anafanya exam class 8 the ex my foot 🦶
One pray I do pray for My daughter's is that when they get married they find their mother in law Dead reason being for what My mother in law has made me go through one thing she forgets that she has a 11yrs daughter that will get married one day
Gd eve, just seeing his video and reflected on my relationship with mom in law. Sadly, I havn't spoken to mine will iver 1 1/2 yr. Meddles and wants to run our household, in she treats all her adult children like this especially the 2 grown men. The grown ladies will not put up with her behaviour. Her behaviour is that of a Sh**t disturber. My husband has now seen for himself. Now she lays in Nursing whaling that no one honours her?? We pray for her to change before she loses out on her salvation.
Sio kwa ubaya bt I prefer kudate mwanaume mwenye Ana mama is better love yenu italast forever, mama's boy is a no for me, nasijasema mtu asipende mamake bt ajue mm ni bb na ule ni mamake
Pole for what you went through. But come we stay won't help. The secret to a successful marriage is.... Know yourself first..... Once you know who you are and what you want, everything in your life falls to place and you make better decisions. And once you know yourself, you will know what kind of man you want in your life. No come we stay! Know yourself.
Pole Sana dear for what you have gone through, but still as a servant of God you cannot advise people to go for (come we stay), it's not Godly and God is very much able to give someone the right partner, the right way and a blessed marriage, keep hope alive.
Since the day I realized that my husband's people are not my relatives am always happy and I can't entertain them anymore .so long as they don't feed me .
I feel like shouting but let me try to say it calmly!!!!Those men who are clothed in ngozi ya kondoo kumbe ndani ni mbwa mwitu wamejaaa sanasana kanisani!!!!!!!!!!! To the public they are angels, but to their spouse they are so evil!!!!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lady, I am so happy for the support your parents gave u, some parents chase back their daughters to the abuser!! Go on with the divorce he doesn't have to sign the papers as long as there's record he has been served,an affidavit to confirm will suffice,the case can go on, kwanza asipotokea, case itaenda in your favor!!! Go for it, the earlier the better!don't tie yourself, it's time for your grand rising 👏👏 all the best
Pole sana terry...and the way you are a great worship leader..i know you together with your ex husband and we didn't know you were going thru all these. Take heart girl..God will see you thru with your kids
Wishing you the best. But don't advise people into "Come We Stay" marriages. There is more pain in them. Church weddings are good with the right person and counseling.
Fellow women marriage doesn’t not define or complete you. Again & again we box and diminish ourselves to fit into society scripts. Learn to be complete and whole!! Learn to stand in your God given power!!!
Since when will men understand that not providing and caring is not hurting the mother ua hurting your own kids yawaaa...aaa Hawa wanaume wa kujenga jina their own families are suffering....wamedharau bibizao and not taking care of the kids I don't like such people kufuraisha watu but behind the scenes people don't know.....at least parents and siblings should learn to listen and understand their own Heeei....uyo mama ndio alikuharibia pia
Gal, you are right .mine was good out there, but he was an animal. The beatings I received!he will give alot in church.he would takelot of shopping any time he went to see my mumyet he will not help me.i suffered oooh.O was taken to kiambu poloce station claiming thst i want to kill him and the kids😢but he had left the kid with the killer yet pretending to care for them.i woud fibd cds in his pocket and yet he would stand and preach. I thank God him and his parent;aunties sent me packing while i was still alive.God has opened my dor greatly.
What kind of a husband is that? Huyo hafai kua baba wa mtu wala bwana wa mtu...yaani mbona hata hashuguliki na watoto wake? Na walikua wagonjwa..😢some people are just mentally ill...huyo hafai kusamehewa..this lady has gone through hell from her so called wicked husband and mother in law
You are beautiful you don't nthis narcissist in uour life. Take the divorce tapers if he doesn't sign the papers according to the law the divorce will go through
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Mambo
Nanastory
She is my sister from another mother we grew up together from same village Trizah you are strong girl I know all this coz I know you from young age.
When the baby got born😅
Thas why sipendi wedding wacha niishi kama criminal😢
Watching this today and remembering what a wicked mother in law I had. God help me be a good mother to my son's wife
Ameeen
We used to fellowship at the same church I didn't know she was going through hell in her marriage she used to lead praise and worship at our church you are strong mama keep going 🙏
Aki my mom in law only God knows how good you was to me you're more than my mom, continue resting in peace till we meet again
Ooh mine too was so nice to me may her soul continue resting in peace
I must say this Tuko presenter is doing a great job
Yes she is. Just limit the advise within things you understand or leave it out altogether. You are a good listener.
My mother in law could come in my house and gossip me with my house maid. She disrespect me so much, telling people I come from a poor family. She made sure everyone in the family hated me to point the family members abusing me... My former husband was so weak to protect me from all the abuse. You tell him what is happening, he used to keep quiet...I used to keep quiet once I'm abused. Now they started extending the hate to my children. I couldn't travel to his ushago, for the fear of been humiliated. I had to separate myself from this man, now I'm healing and at peace. I understand you so much.
Sad. It is well dear
SIONDOKI KWA SABABU YA MOTHER IN LAW TUNAPAMBANA MUNGU AKAE KATI YETU
I am so sorry Grace. I am glad you found peace. And there is still hope to find the love of your life 😊
Sorry
Mother in law ni sumu.
This lady is beautiful in and outside ,you will go far mummy
She is also wise
I can't hold my tear this is my story l ask God to strengthen me so as l walk out
May God protect you and lead you .
I declare total Healing in your life. In Jesus Mighty name!
This is my story. Insaults and blamings has become their joy and habit. But I believe my 3 kids will testify what kind of a ma'am they have...
Amen. Stay strong, and always pray to God for safety and protection.
They need Christ, GOD is LOVE !
, you are right. God is love.
I think this started before,couz I remember my grandmother could fight my mom,ad my father always say my mom is a bad,this happend antil he can marry several ladies ad they were given room in shoes house,,God is good that can't happen today.
As a man, the moment you allow your parents (especially mums) take control of your family affairs, you are doomed!
Point taken
Nothing dangerous in this world more than staying with someone who is not loving you and he/she don’t want you to go,you are going far mama
You are right. When someone realizes that you love him too much, thats,, when trouble begins, but unfortunately, love develops naturally.
I wish if women would love themselves enough to knows that..,they just don't have to give birth to any man out their..,those children's deserves good father as well. Woi.
This is my exactly my story
She is a very strong and beautiful woman. May the Lord bless her
Life has no balance. Nice people always attract Narcissistic behaviors
When we educate ourselves,about narcissists is better knowledge is powerful
It is the inner fear that makes narcists have control.They thrive in making sure the victim has low self esteem.
Unfortunately Very true!
Aki I tell you
💯 True
During dating its the time to learn each other and most people hide in weddings and the fear of failing after weddings combs many peoples school of thought and that's why many are in a dilemma and suffering to uphold the marriage which has already crumbled with one of the partners.
Me i got marriage may na ikaisha august na nikaacha marriage roho safi and i remember i told that guy ukiona mjinga kama mm shukuru mungu trust me kila siku unitafuta turudiane bt who is me i just send photos and tell him mungu hatoki kwenu uliniambia nitoke uendelee enda uendelee roho safi mm kwako is a hell tried to reach out my brother bt i told my brother go and get married to him bt not me again
Mother in law ni sumu katika ndoa na akiingilia ndo yako utahangaika hadi mwisho. Sorry for the suffering you went through.
Not all mother in laws are bad haki. Many are loving and concerned. By the way it's just a few years before the oppressed wives also become mothers in law.
When a narcissist finds a girl who is obsessed with a wedding 💒 just know you've given him the right to abuse you,they have no empathy
This world is just crazy and I guess he knew that she was much into him and not the other way round.
💯
True. Some wemen will persevere anything for fear of breaking a wedding. 🤔
@@MyJOSE2013, yeah.
We do that imagine @MyJOSE2013
Hugs mamah... God in heaven sees and hears...you will get someone who will love 💞💕 you the way your supposed to be loved
Divorce is done by the court. your husband's signature is not necessary. please familiarize with marriage and divorce laws. Also, you don't need a man's approval to be acceptable to society. Kibali ya Mungu na kujiamini is all what you need.
Hawa wanaume wa kanisa ni maumbwa sana, they are the best pretenders.
Very very very true hawa watu aki
@@magoshlawrence3193 hao hata they don't cope with other ordinary men,ni watiaji sana
I have worked from day 1 after cs I don't understand the kid of generation of men we have around.Being alone sometimes seems better .
That’s true,.Another one said that wanawake wa gicagi hulima upto the last day
Yeah, crazy world we are living .
This men where borN by single mums
Woiye so the lady was going all this and the way she was good in praise and worship in church...may God watch and guide your steps to raise your kids.
You are a strong woman. Take care of you and your lovely babies. God bless and protect you
These pipo exist but the ones to blame are the mama’s sons whom we get married to unknowingly because of their camouflaging abilities😢
I have known and served with this girl and for real she is a servant of God.
I can't believe what she has gone through in the hands of a "church elder".
He is a church elder? 🤔🤔🤔
hoo my dear daughter that is exactly what happened to my marriage
So sad what you went thru. May God give you peace.
We grew up together from the same village we went to Same primary and secondary school. If asked of a humble girl from a very humble family I would bring Trizah all the time it has shocked me to see her going though this hell.
Mother's inlaws surely
A word of advice. Whenever we ask God for the desires of our hearts, satan has the ability to see what God has in store for us, he therefore, moves with speed and makes a replica of that which God intents to give us except, that his compared to God's, has imperfections. That is when the power of patience is supposed to kick in through prayer and ask God if truly what is right before us is His will and wait patiently for His response. God, in His abundant love, will always show us a sign but only and only if we practice patience.
Absolutely
Thank you, I was asking myself this the whole time.
Did you ask God before you went for that marriage? Sometimes God warns us and we ignore.
This is great 👌 advice. Patience sio mchezo...people don't like waiting. But it's better to.
A true narcissist, they use you and dump you. They are protective of their character yet so egocentric and abusive
Thank God I met angelic mother in law but her son was a devil himself, it didn't work
The moment a man doesn't know how to balance the relationship with his mother and wife hapo ndio mwisho.Creating boundaries for both parties is equally important.
I love my mum in law she was an angel you have to work on yourself. You have to be positive if your mum did not give birth and cared for your husband you could not have met him it is your duty to blend into the family. Be positive.
Narcs don't have sympathy my friend, do your research and get To know who these types of people are ,infact they hate their own children!
they need Christ
They don love them at all.they are not even concerned about them.n you force them around to do things for them n you too.they treat you like hell.n if you are working,you cater for yourself n he withdraw everything from you
Teresia, am listening to you and can't help but wonder, thank God I know you and even the people who have been there in your lives. Karma is real.
Pole sana kui kwa yale yote upetishwa na mume wako,Mungu atakusaidia ni mwaminifu sana zidi kumtumania, kwa kweli huyu mrembo namjua tulisoma nayeye high school Iresco na alikuwa msichana mzuri na anapenda Mungu,May God see you throu Terry.
Which class were you in I was there too aki nikikumbuka the way she was humble tulianza na yeye nursery school aki
Besides all yes your mother inlaw did all that but the truth is your husband broke the marriage.
Yes
True, maybe he would even lie to the mother to sympathize with him
Yeah, her hubby failed her too.
Kansiime's twin siz
Much love dear.
This makes some of us tuogope kuolewa😒😭😭😭...take heart mamaa
Nko nyuma yako
You are right my dear sister l fight such battle l understand you very well.
sorry gal you were dealing with a narcissist. do not regret of him leaving you.
Yes, she went thru hell, but God strengthened her.
Sure even me am planning to leave .
I wish she could have seen her value before she had 3 kids with him. I feel sad to see hardworking women stay in dysfunctional relationships for years until their egos are completely shattered
My God bless you,my former manager,seeing the way you were dedicated in your marriage.
Bylliokk😅Kölnhbvck be
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You are not alone mama Mimi nliwachwa watoi wakiwa 4yrs en 2en half yrs eve Bob sijawahi pata but I thank wako 14 en 12 yrs respectively have been taking care of them since then can't complain first born anafanya exam class 8 the ex my foot 🦶
God bless sisters aki ❤️
Pole Sana kui...Mimi yale nimepitia sijui naeza anzia wapi nimalizie wapi.nimepitia abuse ya kila aina
Sasa mother in law alikua ameacha bwana yake nanani
One pray I do pray for My daughter's is that when they get married they find their mother in law Dead reason being for what My mother in law has made me go through one thing she forgets that she has a 11yrs daughter that will get married one day
Wah. .you just told my story in 2010.pole mummy.
Aki Wooshe likes munipe likes.... Mapema ndio best
Gd eve, just seeing his video and reflected on my relationship with mom in law. Sadly, I havn't spoken to mine will iver 1 1/2 yr. Meddles and wants to run our household, in she treats all her adult children like this especially the 2 grown men. The grown ladies will not put up with her behaviour. Her behaviour is that of a Sh**t disturber. My husband has now seen for himself. Now she lays in Nursing whaling that no one honours her?? We pray for her to change before she loses out on her salvation.
Take him to court he will support his children
Terry. God will wipe your tears away. He will restore everything you lost.
That's right. God is faithful .
Sio kwa ubaya bt I prefer kudate mwanaume mwenye Ana mama is better love yenu italast forever, mama's boy is a no for me, nasijasema mtu asipende mamake bt ajue mm ni bb na ule ni mamake
Mimi nilioleka na mamaboy lakini nilimnyorosha na maombi mpaka akarudi kwa line na bado na omba hakuna kutulia
Pole for what you went through.
But come we stay won't help. The secret to a successful marriage is.... Know yourself first..... Once you know who you are and what you want, everything in your life falls to place and you make better decisions. And once you know yourself, you will know what kind of man you want in your life. No come we stay! Know yourself.
True
Pole Sana dear for what you have gone through, but still as a servant of God you cannot advise people to go for (come we stay), it's not Godly and God is very much able to give someone the right partner, the right way and a blessed marriage, keep hope alive.
Now, bring the man he must be having a banger of a story
We have to listen to both parties
@@jkabese73he will deny
Since the day I realized that my husband's people are not my relatives am always happy and I can't entertain them anymore .so long as they don't feed me .
I feel like shouting but let me try to say it calmly!!!!Those men who are clothed in ngozi ya kondoo kumbe ndani ni mbwa mwitu wamejaaa sanasana kanisani!!!!!!!!!!! To the public they are angels, but to their spouse they are so evil!!!!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lady, I am so happy for the support your parents gave u, some parents chase back their daughters to the abuser!! Go on with the divorce he doesn't have to sign the papers as long as there's record he has been served,an affidavit to confirm will suffice,the case can go on, kwanza asipotokea, case itaenda in your favor!!! Go for it, the earlier the better!don't tie yourself, it's time for your grand rising 👏👏 all the best
Pole sana terry...and the way you are a great worship leader..i know you together with your ex husband and we didn't know you were going thru all these.
Take heart girl..God will see you thru with your kids
Wishing you the best. But don't advise people into "Come We Stay" marriages. There is more pain in them. Church weddings are good with the right person and counseling.
Siku marriage itakua day school ill go in
Destiny destroyers n Narcissist are hard to please I was there ,it's good u left this abusive marriage.
Yes yes
May GOD Help us to heal
Thanks we are strong
Terry your beautiful just move with live.
She is indeed very beautiful 😍
God is faithful .
Thanks so much
Very good sympathetic interviewer 👍
We really need GOD
Eyaaah nooo sorry Gai haaa
sorry dear sister may God open your ways to take care of your children.
Pole Sana gal for what you went through......May God continue blessing u
🤔🤔🤔Some stories make me afraid of getting married
Marriage is a good thing,you will get a good partner just position yourself and be careful
Don’t be afraid baby girl, your story will be different 😊
Wow, this is so sad, I know this lady “Kui” just sad to see and hear her story.
Bt siku ipo mwanaume hatakutafuta tu ya mungu ni mengi bt only God knows tomorrow of you
So so sad. Kutesa mtoto wa mtu n you are a parent.
🤦
Nikiimagine vile am always discussed by my mother in law with my nanny's naskia. Nguvu kwa miguu zinaisha...
Fellow women marriage doesn’t not define or complete you. Again & again we box and diminish ourselves to fit into society scripts. Learn to be complete and whole!! Learn to stand in your God given power!!!
God is faithful
This woman is a strong survivour. So brave and hard working. God bless you. I hope everything works out for the best ❤
God wil see you through.
We are twining , exactly is what happened to me my sister. we parted and he want me back again
These are type of man who trash thr kids today. Kesho the child becomes successful thts when they will show up thr faces ….
Am also proud of you trizza..
Yeah, she's a strong woman
I love this journalist jamani
too bad,no humanity at all in some men
Yeah, crazy world we live in.
Since when will men understand that not providing and caring is not hurting the mother ua hurting your own kids yawaaa...aaa
Hawa wanaume wa kujenga jina their own families are suffering....wamedharau bibizao and not taking care of the kids I don't like such people kufuraisha watu but behind the scenes people don't know.....at least parents and siblings should learn to listen and understand their own
Heeei....uyo mama ndio alikuharibia pia
Please ask to seek a lawyer and get a divorce.
They are expensive. Anyone to offer pro bono?
Gal, you are right .mine was good out there, but he was an animal. The beatings I received!he will give alot in church.he would takelot of shopping any time he went to see my mumyet he will not help me.i suffered oooh.O was taken to kiambu poloce station claiming thst i want to kill him and the kids😢but he had left the kid with the killer yet pretending to care for them.i woud fibd cds in his pocket and yet he would stand and preach. I thank God him and his parent;aunties sent me packing while i was still alive.God has opened my dor greatly.
Naulizaa shida ya language iko wapi hapa?Skizeni message wachana na English yake
What kind of a husband is that?
Huyo hafai kua baba wa mtu wala bwana wa mtu...yaani mbona hata hashuguliki na watoto wake? Na walikua wagonjwa..😢some people are just mentally ill...huyo hafai kusamehewa..this lady has gone through hell from her so called wicked husband and mother in law
Terry you are an exceptional woman.gogo gal
Y’all have patience, you took too long beautiful. Mm nayo sipendi ujinga hyo mambo ya kanisa siko hyo mother in-law ningemfunika😂tano tena
God bless you and I hope you find peace in your heart and healing 💗 x
Mama kui raised a strong woman 💪
Yes, she's a strong woman and rich in Wisdom.
Waaa a very noizy background.. Please rectify
Pole for what you went through
Hajawaai kukupenda!
You were forcing him.
Ati akaogeleshwa..for what?,
Pole.
These Men are called Narcissists
Yeah, you are right.
This relationship was like my first love relationship it scarred me for a long time.
This is exactly my story!!!!
I am sorry for what you went through. I hope as you’re, uko happy and at peace😊
@@Lily_Aiysha Thanks, yes I have peace and I'm happy full of life and energy
Love to hear this🎉 Come share with us your story😊
@@Lily_Aiysha when I'm ready I will surely let you know about my story
Wah! So sad about what you went thru. May God lead you and protect you.
Kumbe tuko wengi .jipe moyo mummy
If not for my hubby who is standing up as a man l think my marriage could be done .... because there is nothing good that l do in the eyes of my mil
You are beautiful you don't nthis narcissist in uour life. Take the divorce tapers if he doesn't sign the papers according to the law the divorce will go through