My mother-in-law was jealous of my relationship with my husband
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2022
- Terry Mbuthia, a mother of three was forced to leave her marriage after her mother in law came in between. According to Terry, her father in law was not for the marriage as he tried to protect her. Little did she know what she was getting herself into. She says house girls would be brought home by her mother in law to replace her . And when she did bring her own house girls, she her husband would try and approach them and so she would switch them up a lot as they didn’t want to stay and be harassed. Her mother in law felt Terry was not a good wife for her son. Her children would see this and she says it affected first two psychologically and that’s when she left to start a fresh.
For business inquiries you can reach us at marketing@tuko.co.ke
⚡️ Join TUKO Membership and get extra content and gifts:
/ @tuko
❗️ Help us share more untold stories! Support us via the link: / tuko
🌟 Get a TUKO branded T-shirt, hoodie, or water bottle at TUKO shop: corp.tuko.co.ke/shop
Tuko Talks | Tuko TV
One-on-one interviews at Tuko's, just the guest and their story. People open up on their real-life experiences, share their stories for other people to learn, get inspiration, and find a solution when there seems to be none. On Tuko Talks you will hear stories that people never tell in public, you will see that you are not alone in this world and that you can protect yourself!
• Tuko Talks | Tuko TV
Faces of Kenya/ Inspire Kenya | Tuko TV
Watch the people telling stories about child marriages, small businesses ideas, gender issues, and many other important topics among Faces of Kenya while showing how their daily life looks. Do you want to hear a story of a Kenyan domestic worker in Saudi Arabia and find out how a Kenyan man is spending millions to change his gender? Save this playlist and stay informed about all of the latest updates and topics in Kenya.
• Faces of Kenya/ Inspir...
Candid with Yvonne | Tuko TV
A candid interview, hosted by Yvonne Kawira, where the guests open up about life challenges, life lessons, and share a piece of advice with Kenyans on how to carry on in life. While discussing important matters, the guest and the host perform activities together, so the viewers can feel the behind-the-scenes life of the guest.
• Candid with Yvonne | T...
Our Stories | Tuko TV
Highlighting underreported stories across the country by traveling and meeting people at the place of their living. In this playlist, Tuko.co.ke is ready to present to you the most interesting feature stories across the country. Watch as people open up and share their deepest stories for the first time with our audience. From a mother being told her daughter has less than eight months to live to a Kenyan woman who decides to marry herself.
• Our Stories | Tuko TV
Tuko Siasa | Tuko TV
Tuko Siasa is an incisive political interview segment hosted by King'ori Wangechi. We seek to highlight the lives of your favourite politician. Interrogate their convictions, hear their stories, their hobbies, their achievements, challenges and lessons, while understanding their visons for you and country. Feel free to suggest who we should feature next and why. You ask, we get them for you.
• Tuko Siasa | Tuko TV
Unheard voices | Tuko TV
TUKO TV with Ann Nyathira is ready to present you with the most interesting documentaries and stories that recently happened in Kenya. Stories of ordinary Kenyans and their ability or inability to afford basic necessities, being treated unlawfully and poorly. Tuko.co.ke addresses widespread issues, shows a tendency in the country, talks to authorities.
• Unheard voices | Tuko TV
Slum Chronicles | Tuko TV
We are telling stories of Kenyans in the slums. You will see some other life and learn about challenges people in the slums are facing on the daily basis. Our goal is to raise awareness and push authorities to change the situation, give the people what it deserves.
• Slum Chronicles | Tuko TV
Website: www.tuko.co.ke/
Visit TUKO’s official RUclips channel to get today’s breaking news, the latest and most relevant updates, find out more about the most pressing issues in Kenya, Nairobi news, and entertainment news.
#tukotv #tukonews #tukocoke #tukotalks #kenyapeoplelife 
Развлечения
What message do you have for Terry? Please reach her through her number: 0724 057 875
To share your story with us, send an email to lily.mwangi@tuko.co.ke or eucabeth.mukami@tuko.co.ke.
Mambo
Nanastory
She is my sister from another mother we grew up together from same village Trizah you are strong girl I know all this coz I know you from young age.
Watching this today and remembering what a wicked mother in law I had. God help me be a good mother to my son's wife
Ameeen
We used to fellowship at the same church I didn't know she was going through hell in her marriage she used to lead praise and worship at our church you are strong mama keep going 🙏
I must say this Tuko presenter is doing a great job
Yes she is. Just limit the advise within things you understand or leave it out altogether. You are a good listener.
Aki my mom in law only God knows how good you was to me you're more than my mom, continue resting in peace till we meet again
Ooh mine too was so nice to me may her soul continue resting in peace
My mother in law could come in my house and gossip me with my house maid. She disrespect me so much, telling people I come from a poor family. She made sure everyone in the family hated me to point the family members abusing me... My former husband was so weak to protect me from all the abuse. You tell him what is happening, he used to keep quiet...I used to keep quiet once I'm abused. Now they started extending the hate to my children. I couldn't travel to his ushago, for the fear of been humiliated. I had to separate myself from this man, now I'm healing and at peace. I understand you so much.
Sad. It is well dear
SIONDOKI KWA SABABU YA MOTHER IN LAW TUNAPAMBANA MUNGU AKAE KATI YETU
I am so sorry Grace. I am glad you found peace. And there is still hope to find the love of your life 😊
Sorry
Mother in law ni sumu.
This is my story. Insaults and blamings has become their joy and habit. But I believe my 3 kids will testify what kind of a ma'am they have...
Amen. Stay strong, and always pray to God for safety and protection.
They need Christ, GOD is LOVE !
, you are right. God is love.
Nothing dangerous in this world more than staying with someone who is not loving you and he/she don’t want you to go,you are going far mama
You are right. When someone realizes that you love him too much, thats,, when trouble begins, but unfortunately, love develops naturally.
Life has no balance. Nice people always attract Narcissistic behaviors
When we educate ourselves,about narcissists is better knowledge is powerful
It is the inner fear that makes narcists have control.They thrive in making sure the victim has low self esteem.
Unfortunately Very true!
Aki I tell you
💯 True
As a man, the moment you allow your parents (especially mums) take control of your family affairs, you are doomed!
This lady is beautiful in and outside ,you will go far mummy
She is also wise
Mother in law ni sumu katika ndoa na akiingilia ndo yako utahangaika hadi mwisho. Sorry for the suffering you went through.
Not all mother in laws are bad haki. Many are loving and concerned. By the way it's just a few years before the oppressed wives also become mothers in law.
I wish if women would love themselves enough to knows that..,they just don't have to give birth to any man out their..,those children's deserves good father as well. Woi.
During dating its the time to learn each other and most people hide in weddings and the fear of failing after weddings combs many peoples school of thought and that's why many are in a dilemma and suffering to uphold the marriage which has already crumbled with one of the partners.
Divorce is done by the court. your husband's signature is not necessary. please familiarize with marriage and divorce laws. Also, you don't need a man's approval to be acceptable to society. Kibali ya Mungu na kujiamini is all what you need.
She is a very strong and beautiful woman. May the Lord bless her
I have worked from day 1 after cs I don't understand the kid of generation of men we have around.Being alone sometimes seems better .
That’s true,.Another one said that wanawake wa gicagi hulima upto the last day
Yeah, crazy world we are living .
This men where borN by single mums
These pipo exist but the ones to blame are the mama’s sons whom we get married to unknowingly because of their camouflaging abilities😢
Me i got marriage may na ikaisha august na nikaacha marriage roho safi and i remember i told that guy ukiona mjinga kama mm shukuru mungu trust me kila siku unitafuta turudiane bt who is me i just send photos and tell him mungu hatoki kwenu uliniambia nitoke uendelee enda uendelee roho safi mm kwako is a hell tried to reach out my brother bt i told my brother go and get married to him bt not me again
When a narcissist finds a girl who is obsessed with a wedding 💒 just know you've given him the right to abuse you,they have no empathy
This world is just crazy and I guess he knew that she was much into him and not the other way round.
💯
True. Some wemen will persevere anything for fear of breaking a wedding. 🤔
@@MyJOSE2013, yeah.
We do that imagine @MyJOSE2013
You are a strong woman. Take care of you and your lovely babies. God bless and protect you
Besides all yes your mother inlaw did all that but the truth is your husband broke the marriage.
Yes
True, maybe he would even lie to the mother to sympathize with him
Yeah, her hubby failed her too.
Hawa wanaume wa kanisa ni maumbwa sana, they are the best pretenders.
Very very very true hawa watu aki
@@magoshlawrence3193 hao hata they don't cope with other ordinary men,ni watiaji sana
I can't hold my tear this is my story l ask God to strengthen me so as l walk out
May God protect you and lead you .
I declare total Healing in your life. In Jesus Mighty name!
The moment a man doesn't know how to balance the relationship with his mother and wife hapo ndio mwisho.Creating boundaries for both parties is equally important.
Hugs mamah... God in heaven sees and hears...you will get someone who will love 💞💕 you the way your supposed to be loved
Woiye so the lady was going all this and the way she was good in praise and worship in church...may God watch and guide your steps to raise your kids.
Narcs don't have sympathy my friend, do your research and get To know who these types of people are ,infact they hate their own children!
they need Christ
They don love them at all.they are not even concerned about them.n you force them around to do things for them n you too.they treat you like hell.n if you are working,you cater for yourself n he withdraw everything from you
This is my exactly my story
A true narcissist, they use you and dump you. They are protective of their character yet so egocentric and abusive
Teresia, am listening to you and can't help but wonder, thank God I know you and even the people who have been there in your lives. Karma is real.
I have known and served with this girl and for real she is a servant of God.
I can't believe what she has gone through in the hands of a "church elder".
He is a church elder? 🤔🤔🤔
Pole for what you went through.
But come we stay won't help. The secret to a successful marriage is.... Know yourself first..... Once you know who you are and what you want, everything in your life falls to place and you make better decisions. And once you know yourself, you will know what kind of man you want in your life. No come we stay! Know yourself.
True
A word of advice. Whenever we ask God for the desires of our hearts, satan has the ability to see what God has in store for us, he therefore, moves with speed and makes a replica of that which God intents to give us except, that his compared to God's, has imperfections. That is when the power of patience is supposed to kick in through prayer and ask God if truly what is right before us is His will and wait patiently for His response. God, in His abundant love, will always show us a sign but only and only if we practice patience.
Absolutely
Thank you, I was asking myself this the whole time.
Did you ask God before you went for that marriage? Sometimes God warns us and we ignore.
This is great 👌 advice. Patience sio mchezo...people don't like waiting. But it's better to.
I wish she could have seen her value before she had 3 kids with him. I feel sad to see hardworking women stay in dysfunctional relationships for years until their egos are completely shattered
hoo my dear daughter that is exactly what happened to my marriage
So sad what you went thru. May God give you peace.
This makes some of us tuogope kuolewa😒😭😭😭...take heart mamaa
Nko nyuma yako
Aki Wooshe likes munipe likes.... Mapema ndio best
sorry gal you were dealing with a narcissist. do not regret of him leaving you.
Yes, she went thru hell, but God strengthened her.
Sure even me am planning to leave .
This woman is a strong survivour. So brave and hard working. God bless you. I hope everything works out for the best ❤
Mother's inlaws surely
God bless sisters aki ❤️
Pole sana kui kwa yale yote upetishwa na mume wako,Mungu atakusaidia ni mwaminifu sana zidi kumtumania, kwa kweli huyu mrembo namjua tulisoma nayeye high school Iresco na alikuwa msichana mzuri na anapenda Mungu,May God see you throu Terry.
Which class were you in I was there too aki nikikumbuka the way she was humble tulianza na yeye nursery school aki
Very good sympathetic interviewer 👍
We really need GOD
Eyaaah nooo sorry Gai haaa
You are right my dear sister l fight such battle l understand you very well.
We grew up together from the same village we went to Same primary and secondary school. If asked of a humble girl from a very humble family I would bring Trizah all the time it has shocked me to see her going though this hell.
Thank God I met angelic mother in law but her son was a devil himself, it didn't work
Kansiime's twin siz
Much love dear.
Sio kwa ubaya bt I prefer kudate mwanaume mwenye Ana mama is better love yenu italast forever, mama's boy is a no for me, nasijasema mtu asipende mamake bt ajue mm ni bb na ule ni mamake
Mimi nilioleka na mamaboy lakini nilimnyorosha na maombi mpaka akarudi kwa line na bado na omba hakuna kutulia
Terry you are an exceptional woman.gogo gal
You are not alone mama Mimi nliwachwa watoi wakiwa 4yrs en 2en half yrs eve Bob sijawahi pata but I thank wako 14 en 12 yrs respectively have been taking care of them since then can't complain first born anafanya exam class 8 the ex my foot 🦶
God bless you and I hope you find peace in your heart and healing 💗 x
Pole Sana kui...Mimi yale nimepitia sijui naeza anzia wapi nimalizie wapi.nimepitia abuse ya kila aina
Wishing you the best. But don't advise people into "Come We Stay" marriages. There is more pain in them. Church weddings are good with the right person and counseling.
Sasa mother in law alikua ameacha bwana yake nanani
I feel like shouting but let me try to say it calmly!!!!Those men who are clothed in ngozi ya kondoo kumbe ndani ni mbwa mwitu wamejaaa sanasana kanisani!!!!!!!!!!! To the public they are angels, but to their spouse they are so evil!!!!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lady, I am so happy for the support your parents gave u, some parents chase back their daughters to the abuser!! Go on with the divorce he doesn't have to sign the papers as long as there's record he has been served,an affidavit to confirm will suffice,the case can go on, kwanza asipotokea, case itaenda in your favor!!! Go for it, the earlier the better!don't tie yourself, it's time for your grand rising 👏👏 all the best
Nikiimagine vile am always discussed by my mother in law with my nanny's naskia. Nguvu kwa miguu zinaisha...
One pray I do pray for My daughter's is that when they get married they find their mother in law Dead reason being for what My mother in law has made me go through one thing she forgets that she has a 11yrs daughter that will get married one day
Pole Sana gal for what you went through......May God continue blessing u
Pole Sana dear for what you have gone through, but still as a servant of God you cannot advise people to go for (come we stay), it's not Godly and God is very much able to give someone the right partner, the right way and a blessed marriage, keep hope alive.
I love my mum in law she was an angel you have to work on yourself. You have to be positive if your mum did not give birth and cared for your husband you could not have met him it is your duty to blend into the family. Be positive.
Destiny destroyers n Narcissist are hard to please I was there ,it's good u left this abusive marriage.
Yes yes
May GOD Help us to heal
Thanks we are strong
My God bless you,my former manager,seeing the way you were dedicated in your marriage.
Bylliokk😅Kölnhbvck be
L
Am also proud of you trizza..
Yeah, she's a strong woman
Since when will men understand that not providing and caring is not hurting the mother ua hurting your own kids yawaaa...aaa
Hawa wanaume wa kujenga jina their own families are suffering....wamedharau bibizao and not taking care of the kids I don't like such people kufuraisha watu but behind the scenes people don't know.....at least parents and siblings should learn to listen and understand their own
Heeei....uyo mama ndio alikuharibia pia
Pole sana terry...and the way you are a great worship leader..i know you together with your ex husband and we didn't know you were going thru all these.
Take heart girl..God will see you thru with your kids
Wah. .you just told my story in 2010.pole mummy.
So so sad. Kutesa mtoto wa mtu n you are a parent.
🤦
Fellow women marriage doesn’t not define or complete you. Again & again we box and diminish ourselves to fit into society scripts. Learn to be complete and whole!! Learn to stand in your God given power!!!
God is faithful
Naulizaa shida ya language iko wapi hapa?Skizeni message wachana na English yake
These are type of man who trash thr kids today. Kesho the child becomes successful thts when they will show up thr faces ….
Terry. God will wipe your tears away. He will restore everything you lost.
That's right. God is faithful .
Pole sana mum.. may God help us
sorry dear sister may God open your ways to take care of your children.
too bad,no humanity at all in some men
Yeah, crazy world we live in.
Gd eve, just seeing his video and reflected on my relationship with mom in law. Sadly, I havn't spoken to mine will iver 1 1/2 yr. Meddles and wants to run our household, in she treats all her adult children like this especially the 2 grown men. The grown ladies will not put up with her behaviour. Her behaviour is that of a Sh**t disturber. My husband has now seen for himself. Now she lays in Nursing whaling that no one honours her?? We pray for her to change before she loses out on her salvation.
Please ask to seek a lawyer and get a divorce.
They are expensive. Anyone to offer pro bono?
Think, Play - behave, apprach and your words as she is your real mother same way let she think you as her real daughter. Matter is simple. No as 'in-law'. be first in life.
What in the world are you talking about??? Your words make no sense!
What the hell are you saying?
Which language is this
Wow, this is so sad, I know this lady “Kui” just sad to see and hear her story.
Take him to court he will support his children
Pole for what you went through
Terry your beautiful just move with live.
She is indeed very beautiful 😍
God is faithful .
Thanks so much
Now, bring the man he must be having a banger of a story
We have to listen to both parties
@@jkabese73he will deny
We are twining , exactly is what happened to me my sister. we parted and he want me back again
Y’all have patience, you took too long beautiful. Mm nayo sipendi ujinga hyo mambo ya kanisa siko hyo mother in-law ningemfunika😂tano tena
I love this journalist jamani
🤔🤔🤔Some stories make me afraid of getting married
Marriage is a good thing,you will get a good partner just position yourself and be careful
Don’t be afraid baby girl, your story will be different 😊
Pole dada
This relationship was like my first love relationship it scarred me for a long time.
If not for my hubby who is standing up as a man l think my marriage could be done .... because there is nothing good that l do in the eyes of my mil
Hajawaai kukupenda!
You were forcing him.
Ati akaogeleshwa..for what?,
Pole.
The interview room is too noisy. Kids should not be in the room so that we can focus. Kindly.
Since the day I realized that my husband's people are not my relatives am always happy and I can't entertain them anymore .so long as they don't feed me .
Ur talking for the silent majority, what hurt me todate is the hate she has for my children,,ooh God give me your grace
Bt siku ipo mwanaume hatakutafuta tu ya mungu ni mengi bt only God knows tomorrow of you
Mama kui raised a strong woman 💪
Yes, she's a strong woman and rich in Wisdom.
Gal, you are right .mine was good out there, but he was an animal. The beatings I received!he will give alot in church.he would takelot of shopping any time he went to see my mumyet he will not help me.i suffered oooh.O was taken to kiambu poloce station claiming thst i want to kill him and the kids😢but he had left the kid with the killer yet pretending to care for them.i woud fibd cds in his pocket and yet he would stand and preach. I thank God him and his parent;aunties sent me packing while i was still alive.God has opened my dor greatly.
What kind of a husband is that?
Huyo hafai kua baba wa mtu wala bwana wa mtu...yaani mbona hata hashuguliki na watoto wake? Na walikua wagonjwa..😢some people are just mentally ill...huyo hafai kusamehewa..this lady has gone through hell from her so called wicked husband and mother in law
Waaa a very noizy background.. Please rectify
So sorry for your experience but I don't think a come we stay situation helps much. You might end up staying with so many men before landing on the right one.