Surely MK. How do you judge when you only have one side of the story? I am not advocating for violence, no violence is acceptable whether by a man or a woman. You seem to be of the opinion that violence is only meted against women! You are wrong!! Instead of being honest about real life issues, you only want to appeal to emotions of women through the stories you air, but fail to dig up the truth behind family issues. You are not so different from the American Donald trump who has divided the United States on racial lines, in your case, you are dividing families and breaking marriages that would at times be stable. You asked me to have a good life thus dismissing what I have to say. How then will you ever understand what the other side's concern? Are you really helping these women in the long run? And those who follow your channel like me, what can we learn from it??! My free advice to you is that with your dismissive attitude, you will some day pay ever so bitterly because you are not learning anything from the stories that you have aired. I on the other hand will bid you goodbye and I pray that you will understand the depth of your work. Everything has consequences, either good or bad. Pole sana dada🙏
@@mercyigogo66 I don't understand why these women just don't leave and move on with their lives. If you step on poop and just stand there for many years, you have to take the blame!!! Most abused women accept and insist on staying in these relationships. Tembea kama hautaki mtu.
@@nephatoliech5601 I believe the way the society has groomed girl child on such issues, stigma, shame, religion being told vumilia atabadilika, financial instability, fear etc!! Also most of these men I think are also mentally unstable so boychild pia society should mind their welfare as some are clinically depressed ukiongeza pombe ama dawa kwisha
When I hear such stories makes my heart ache. I hope we will teach both our young generation about how to relate with each other. This is a good testimony May the good God be with you.
I am a man and i cannot abuse or raise my hand to beat a lady. Men should know that restraining yourself from domestic abuse is not a weakness but a strength.
Ladies and gentlemen behind marriage troubles, demon is behind. Run to God as fast as possible to a living Church for deliverance. Beatings and quarrels are not ordinary
Sad but glad you were able to rise above the storm, live to tell your story, and ABOVE ALL sue that idiot of a man. Mama, rise to inspire other women. Let them know that it's okay to leave a toxic marriage/ relationship and that better a broken marriage than such. More grace. Atī 'gwathūka kīūra rūga.'
@@queenharrison4396 this is the best approach, Kama jamaa becomes unreasonable and he wants to harm you, you don't have to stay until your hips are broken..... unless you are a fool. I had a friend who was stabbed to death by her husband. She should have walked out of the relationship sooner. I also know of a guy whose balls were cut off, and he died, the woman ended up in prison and on death row! why didn't she just walk out of the relationship??? maybe the sex was too good i guess.
Am so sorry for your ordeal. U've gone thru so much in the hands of a fellow human being by the name of "husband" am not judging, am talking from a common sense point of view. Why would someone allow another human being to treat u so badly, to beat u ? Please ladies love yourself so much that u are able to walk away from mistreatment
You know I had an abusive boyfriend but at first it was just words and he was never apologetic, so I tried to get him to talk why he always like to bull me and most of the time always negative, he loved money too much to an extent of stealing from my bag even coins, so he slapped me one day it was so painful I fainted so when I woke up he was like sorry bla bla aiii the fights continued, he was selfish, made me buy my own food and it eat only once, I started getting depressed but I made a decision to leave him, I later learned he was a bully, self-centered, mean, selfish person he grew up without a father and most of his school life was in boarding school plus he is a very quiet person, but evil also his 2 exes left him because of the beating
My question is, where do we draw the line? I mean, a man raises his hands on you for the first tym,then the second one, why are you still waiting for the third tym? It should be known, a violent man is 1 minute close to a murderer . And if you see some red Flags, run my sister rrrrun!! Don't wait until it gets worse. IT'S NOT WORTHY IT. PERIOD!!!
Sometimes I ask my self is marriage really worth it . You get in to marriage when you are physically healthy and leave when crippled . Is it really worth it ???
Am so sorry Nyokabi for that but I think the villagers were all a bunch of fools. Why wouldn't they call the police or take her to the hospital instead of taking her to that stupid man. Quick recovery!
Mimi mwanaume akinigonga slap moja napiga nduru Kijiji mzima .... Ata the one that tried kunigonga slap ananiogopa ata saa hii... I screamed the whole night. Mwanaume ukipiga nduru anaogopa
This gender based violence ..if he beats you once..be on your Mark's.. next time he will either kill you or leave you in a state you will 4ever a sorry state. Pole sister..your story inspires other women
Wenye wanacoment eti alikua anafanya nini huko wacheni nimwambie nimepitia kma huyu mama na mwanaume kama huyu ni ngumu Sana kumuelewa sababu kuchange kwake inakuanga ones na wewe sababu uko na haja na boma yako huonangi mambo kama hizo hta hauwezi ukazifikiria mwanaume wa vita anakuanga mzuri Sana wakati ako na furaha
Hapo ni kweli..commenters wengine hawana knowledge ya kucomment ni tu mtu asikike amesema kitu..mimi ni mwanaume but i know the situation behind building a family na challenges but we try to save marriage to the last second possible in the name of children..
@@stanleymonye8347 wanaume wa vita wanaweza sababisha uchukie wanaume Sana after my marriage kuisha nilikaa 6 years kama nimechukia wanaume na hakuna kitu baya kama kupenda na roho moja sababu kitambo hio kitu ikutoke hukaa Sana but nashukuru mungu nilipona
@@marym7552 na utathiyaga oigaga no nyina urugaga wega. Wendo no rimu kweri Nima ni Cia nyina umwe piu. Tondu uyu ukoragwo WI urimu no tutimenyaga tumenyaga twoima kuo Ngai hee muthuri tondu niuwi ninyedete mucii
My sister, u allowed yourself reach here, I'm sorry for this n to say this....why wait for him to make you a handcap? He could be in the wheel chair too, or worse still angejua hajui, Nyeriani we don't like ujinga... No wonder they say that we beat mean...it's not beating, but self defence my dear ones
I don't understand some women.. why don't you run away he beat you the first time , dont wait for the second time, work on leaving him ... and disappear kabisa
The fear of judgement from the society"single mothers" are prostitute they can't take care of their homes.😪😪not everyone is strong to be judged until is late.
One doctor said that alichoka counseling some of the abused women after attending to the several alikam across with,but only for them to end going back to their abusive husbands.
Catch part 2 pf the story which has already premiered. Kindly assist Grace with the help she is appealing: To go for Therapy
This lady need to be an advocate for women in abusive relationships ... we should also raise funds for her. My heart breaks for this woman 😢
Oh my Monica navenye Grace ako supuu Sana ....that man should be brought to book ..this is evilish to beat a woman like thisoh my😰😰
Surely MK. How do you judge when you only have one side of the story? I am not advocating for violence, no violence is acceptable whether by a man or a woman. You seem to be of the opinion that violence is only meted against women! You are wrong!! Instead of being honest about real life issues, you only want to appeal to emotions of women through the stories you air, but fail to dig up the truth behind family issues. You are not so different from the American Donald trump who has divided the United States on racial lines, in your case, you are dividing families and breaking marriages that would at times be stable. You asked me to have a good life thus dismissing what I have to say. How then will you ever understand what the other side's concern? Are you really helping these women in the long run? And those who follow your channel like me, what can we learn from it??! My free advice to you is that with your dismissive attitude, you will some day pay ever so bitterly because you are not learning anything from the stories that you have aired. I on the other hand will bid you goodbye and I pray that you will understand the depth of your work. Everything has consequences, either good or bad. Pole sana dada🙏
@@mercyigogo66 I don't understand why these women just don't leave and move on with their lives. If you step on poop and just stand there for many years, you have to take the blame!!! Most abused women accept and insist on staying in these relationships. Tembea kama hautaki mtu.
@@nephatoliech5601 I believe the way the society has groomed girl child on such issues, stigma, shame, religion being told vumilia atabadilika, financial instability, fear etc!! Also most of these men I think are also mentally unstable so boychild pia society should mind their welfare as some are clinically depressed ukiongeza pombe ama dawa kwisha
When I hear such stories makes my heart ache. I hope we will teach both our young generation about how to relate with each other.
This is a good testimony May the good God be with you.
I am a man and i cannot abuse or raise my hand to beat a lady. Men should know that restraining yourself from domestic abuse is not a weakness but a strength.
You're right
U r appreciated, why should someone do such an abuse to a fellow person?
Sometimes you find wife's who are heartless witches but the best thing is to dirvoce her peacefully although l can't abuse my wife
You are so mature
@@worldpetscocktails you are an idiot u can't justify violence
Waaaah nyonaga uuu ngethithimukwo ihika ringi nitutee kwa hiuha kiura ruga ndagakoma atacaaite Ngai wa atumia igua tha thank God for gift of life .
Leave with the first slap. Don't wait for the second time.
Ladies and gentlemen behind marriage troubles, demon is behind. Run to God as fast as possible to a living Church for deliverance. Beatings and quarrels are not ordinary
I don't want to imagine what would have happened had this happened to my sister.pole sana dada.
This is craaazy!!! When will justice be served????😪.
Oooh Lord please protect my mum all the days of her life
pole sana Nyokabi, God will heal you. For you Monica Kagoni, God bless you for a great job.
Sad but glad you were able to rise above the storm, live to tell your story, and ABOVE ALL sue that idiot of a man. Mama, rise to inspire other women. Let them know that it's okay to leave a toxic marriage/ relationship and that better a broken marriage than such. More grace.
Atī 'gwathūka kīūra rūga.'
Its unfortunate that a man like that exist women run when you can
Waa nii njiguaga ndeto ta ici.getigira kihiko makiria.woiye may God heal you so you can be able to take care of your children
Mimi kofi tu imetosha nipark nani songe bila kuangalia nyuma,wacha nikufe single my God,woiiiii take heart my sister.
Nyokabi's story is a copy right of mine but me i called it a day early enough and have never looked back.
The best decision ever 👏👏👏
Same mine nilichapwa na nikadungwa na kisu the following day nilitafuta Nyumba nikarent cjawai rundi tena for 11yrs now
Me left l violent husband staying 6months,matusi vitisho vya kisu, l left him 2017,God is good l left kenya and nikaenda majuu hata siwezi dhubutu
@@queenharrison4396 this is the best approach, Kama jamaa becomes unreasonable and he wants to harm you, you don't have to stay until your hips are broken..... unless you are a fool. I had a friend who was stabbed to death by her husband. She should have walked out of the relationship sooner. I also know of a guy whose balls were cut off, and he died, the woman ended up in prison and on death row! why didn't she just walk out of the relationship??? maybe the sex was too good i guess.
What l have never understood is why women stay in abusive relationships. Maybe phycologists should tell us.
People like Wamuratha encourage them to vumilia
According to psychotherapists, when someone give you a threat, take safety measures by seeking refuge
He is a psychopath. Danger
Am so sorry for your ordeal. U've gone thru so much in the hands of a fellow human being by the name of "husband" am not judging, am talking from a common sense point of view. Why would someone allow another human being to treat u so badly, to beat u ? Please ladies love yourself so much that u are able to walk away from mistreatment
Wow nyoks.....I can see you r still strong as usual.....
You know I had an abusive boyfriend but at first it was just words and he was never apologetic, so I tried to get him to talk why he always like to bull me and most of the time always negative, he loved money too much to an extent of stealing from my bag even coins, so he slapped me one day it was so painful I fainted so when I woke up he was like sorry bla bla aiii the fights continued, he was selfish, made me buy my own food and it eat only once, I started getting depressed but I made a decision to leave him, I later learned he was a bully, self-centered, mean, selfish person he grew up without a father and most of his school life was in boarding school plus he is a very quiet person, but evil also his 2 exes left him because of the beating
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Gutiri jirani kuu kwanyu 2 muthuri ucio ni munyui wa bangi nanikio anyuaga iria ihehu ...pole Grace
😩You've reminded me a meme that was saying weed people don't take hot things😂
Hi Pole Sana. No Nyokabi Danii ya mvua ni mawingu. Mundi niabaga gwithara
Pole sana grace, pia nilichapwa sana ju mume wangu alikua na mpango Kwa plot, bt our God is ever faithful
Ngai fafa na ndio natamani kuolewa aki. Pole mum
Not all are like him
Mungu akujalie Mme mwema
Hi Monica ,l have just watched this video. How is this lady doing? Kindly let me know with the little l can.l am deeply touched
When she came out of the house I shed tears😢😢soooo sad
Nyokabi Nyokabi ukahurwo ria mbere riakerì riagatatu na ndureciria kuma kìhiko inì gìkì onawe warì na gathìna .atumia mwona kihiko kiarehe thina kiura ruga ....
@BECKY K Most comments here of the so called "normal people" are truly saddening & disturbing.
I thought so too. Nyokabi you don't love yourself
@@christinemuga9956 where did you get this from?
My question is, where do we draw the line? I mean, a man raises his hands on you for the first tym,then the second one, why are you still waiting for the third tym? It should be known, a violent man is 1 minute close to a murderer . And if you see some red Flags, run my sister rrrrun!! Don't wait until it gets worse. IT'S NOT WORTHY IT. PERIOD!!!
I ask myself the same question.
Am asking the same question! Am worried
They want to keep marriage.to be called wife of so and so.
@@23568982 wacha nikae na u single wangu na amani yangu na uzima wangu....
Yes...wakati alipigwa ya kwanza ..angenjitoa....
Kumbe Ile mum alikuwa ananiambia,"ngukuhura ngwonjie,"inakuwanga reality🙆🙆🙆🤔
Don't wait sis
Please leave... you dnt have to stay married.
Na kwani hao neimba wako aje? si wangemshika wamfunge kwanza. But pole sana, its an alarm kama mzee hafanyi kazi na hana shughuli afadhali kujitoa
Too bad...nyokabi is beautiful
Hii life ya ati nikitoka kwa bwanangu watu watasema nini ama utaitwa malaya inafanya wanawake waumie 😔😔tokeni kwa abuser husband
Nyokabi am so sorry, ngai agutongorie muturire ini waku wothe. Amen
Sometimes I ask my self is marriage really worth it . You get in to marriage when you are physically healthy and leave when crippled . Is it really worth it ???
This is so evil for two people who once called each other love birds😭😭😭
I love the wooden home beautiful woman also beautiful
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Your story resembling like that one of diana kamande
Huyo naye ATA nguo ya mwili alipoolewa hakupata.alidanganywa na Mia bili ya kila siku.ujinga
@@23568982 She was young and naive, stop calling such people dumb.
And the way she is beatiful.
What kind of neighbors wanakurudisha kwa hio nyumba may God judge them
I listened to this and remembered my aunt her own son killed her😭😭😭
Hugs ....
Please can someone take her to Kakande ministry in Uganda please ataamka hapo promise you
But why wait for someone to damage your life when you have everything you need to survive?
Am so sorry Nyokabi for that but I think the villagers were all a bunch of fools. Why wouldn't they call the police or take her to the hospital instead of taking her to that stupid man. Quick recovery!
Nyokabi .pole sana.Ngai akuririkane.
Pole sana nyokabi take heart
Ooh pole mama.Am glad i left before it got to this.Vita always gets worse
A violent person gets worse
Ucio arì mùnyui wa fangi, 😬😬
Hey, can I get her full names.
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 huyu amepitia kama mimi but mimi sukufika kwa hill chair😢😢😢😢God 😢😢😢
Pole sana nyokabi, 😥😥😥 so sad
Pole Sana 😄
Mimi mwanaume akinigonga slap moja napiga nduru Kijiji mzima .... Ata the one that tried kunigonga slap ananiogopa ata saa hii... I screamed the whole night. Mwanaume ukipiga nduru anaogopa
Soon painful mungu akulinde
Scaring..Ngai😥
So sad but me I advice lady mtu akikupiga Kofi ya kwanza toroka mapema
Such a beautiful woman to end up like this????
Am sorry for you Nyokabi. To men, beating your wife is not the right way to solve your problems.
Pole sana nyokabi...wah
I was just an year into marriage,this man beat me almost to death,,,egaguraga nanie,untill I decided to walk out
Nini wamama hugoja, first slap n you wait ati wacha nikae cz ya watoto nione like atachange weweeeeeeeeee enda mbio mama
This gender based violence ..if he beats you once..be on your Mark's.. next time he will either kill you or leave you in a state you will 4ever a sorry state. Pole sister..your story inspires other women
Pole nyokabi mungu mkuu uko hai
Wenye wanacoment eti alikua anafanya nini huko wacheni nimwambie nimepitia kma huyu mama na mwanaume kama huyu ni ngumu Sana kumuelewa sababu kuchange kwake inakuanga ones na wewe sababu uko na haja na boma yako huonangi mambo kama hizo hta hauwezi ukazifikiria mwanaume wa vita anakuanga mzuri Sana wakati ako na furaha
Hapo ni kweli..commenters wengine hawana knowledge ya kucomment ni tu mtu asikike amesema kitu..mimi ni mwanaume but i know the situation behind building a family na challenges but we try to save marriage to the last second possible in the name of children..
@@stanleymonye8347 wanaume wa vita wanaweza sababisha uchukie wanaume Sana after my marriage kuisha nilikaa 6 years kama nimechukia wanaume na hakuna kitu baya kama kupenda na roho moja sababu kitambo hio kitu ikutoke hukaa Sana but nashukuru mungu nilipona
@@stanleymonye8347 they're dumb these commentors lol, they think they are lit
Ûtakanywûirîire ndoî ke Rita.
@@marym7552 na utathiyaga oigaga no nyina urugaga wega. Wendo no rimu kweri Nima ni Cia nyina umwe piu. Tondu uyu ukoragwo WI urimu no tutimenyaga tumenyaga twoima kuo Ngai hee muthuri tondu niuwi ninyedete mucii
Married is not a burial uishi ukilia kanyanga kubwa kubwa ukiendanga hata ambulance ulia ikiendanga .
Very True
kinyanga manene biu
True talk but ujuwe watu wengine huvumilia in the name of your partner ata change....gwathuka kiura ruga
Ndukanegete na mundurume ungikona enafunjo (2)ndukanaikie mundurume guoko kaba umunyugutagire kihinga🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🤾🏼♂️🤾🏻👉🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️utemete ria kamuti🏃🏃🏻♀️(3)ndukanacokanirie na mundurume angikuhura winyihie🧎🏼🧎♂️🧎♀️murume waima moko ini make 🙅🏼♂️🙅🏻🙅🏼♀️Onakoruo marakara ni mutino poleni
Waaah noma sana.😥
Nii Kai ingiorire ohindio iyo pole mum
Pole onanii ndahuragwo ni gucira kairitu ga keri nendaga kihii
I hope mom grace got justice
Wooi ngai tugitagere mahida mothee.Coz hakuna mtu anaeza taka mabaya kwa ndoa yake.But ukiona Vita inaanza heee better ujiondoe
My sister, u allowed yourself reach here, I'm sorry for this n to say this....why wait for him to make you a handcap?
He could be in the wheel chair too, or worse still angejua hajui, Nyeriani we don't like ujinga...
No wonder they say that we beat mean...it's not beating, but self defence my dear ones
I agree with you..she should have left long time...
As watu wa kabete we don't play 😂😂lakini hawa wa Muranga hawatokangi kwa marriage wanakuanga wife material
Judy Wairimu imagine wanapenda kuolewa mimi ningepiga nduru kwani hakua anapiga nduru watu wangem save
Judy Wairimu Kwani unakuanga kwa kila comment hadi kikuyu diaspora 🤣🤣🤣
#Boss Lady hhh kwani unakuanga kila mahali pia idleness itaniua wacha wifi ya wenyewe itumike nanii
Wapi part two
coming at 8.45 pm
Waa,nowadays to understand marriage is difficult
True
Mundurume akutha ria mbere kafa uthiee....kuhiko nigikurema
ngai narikorwo waruta mutumia uyu wheelchair in muthuri ucio amuonage
What a painful story 😥😥
Hii story ni kama ya my mum 😢😢😢
nihindī ndamenya uhoro ucio na,nyina wa mugendi ageithike muno
Watu wengi shinda sinawakuta wakiambiwa too.
Aikorwo mau mothe no eragwo na gathii na mbere guikara orohau nake nonginya weterere kuona uria urerwo ndungiumiria kamuiria ugeretwo ngerwo atumia amwe nao me gathina
@@cathyshii4568 nìì ngoma kùattack mùndu.
Watching from Baghdad
Same too
Same niko Bagdad
Tujuane baghdad
I don't understand some women.. why don't you run away he beat you the first time , dont wait for the second time, work on leaving him ... and disappear kabisa
The fear of judgement from the society"single mothers" are prostitute they can't take care of their homes.😪😪not everyone is strong to be judged until is late.
One doctor said that alichoka counseling some of the abused women after attending to the several alikam across with,but only for them to end going back to their abusive husbands.
They are so keen on staying married and having the MRS title
hosi ya kenyeta si hosi ukienda uko utoboe ni mungu.
Hio ni mbangi ak
Yani kae utoraga njaa.wakuwaga muthuri better i run away for my life.
Uhoro wakinya hau reke njikari ndi single ndere ciana ciakwa watching from saidu
Monica hallo my sister...🙏🙏♥️💋
Wooi Ngai nithengiu ni tondu niwatharire nikio ngutura ngugocaga.ona nii ndahuragwo kwaga kairitu
kwani watu wanakuwa wazimu je? unguhura mutumia waku atia kinya umuonjie? i mean mundu noakorirwo e muguruki ...
Wanaume wa Kenya jamani
Wuuuuuiiiiiii..... Aya nio athuri maaa reke tuikare twi single
I wish I was a Lawyer... I could present a new case... 2years imprisonment
More than 2 yrs sister. I wish the same too😭
Make it 78yrs
@@rosemaryauntie3872 then where will you get a mburungo?
Sure
100 years attempt murder
Why does anybody, man or woman, allow this kind of abuse towards themselves?
Waa ..wanaume aki
Pole Sana
Marriage haikuwa na respect, ai Mami ungechanuka
Ni anguchagia bangi kana heroine? Kana mahetani?
Mimi simtambui aki,an eye for an eye,pia yeye angukuwa anatembea na wheel chair,nugu yeye
Nikio aya arume,moragagwo kana magatinio indo icio ciao.kihiko rimwe nikiangoma,mundu umwe na andu acio othe matingiaguteithirie?
Waiting but until when please upload
Wanyagah, our shows always premiere at 7.45 pm. Thanks
@@MethayaKagoni Hi now watching
Mnaongea kiswahili hatusiiki kikuyu
My dear the show is a kikuyu show and the narrator is a kikuyu journalist.
Ushio are depressed he undu wamugiaga na gugweshiria uru
Kiyo giaku nikio aiguagira uiru