What has your child done that is technically wrong, but you were proud of them for doing it?

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  • Опубликовано: 21 май 2024
  • What has your child done that is technically wrong, but you were proud of them for doing it. #aita #askreddit #redditstories #story #storytime

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  • @Icydragon45
    @Icydragon45 Месяц назад +50789

    It always amazes me that schools will try to punish people for acting in self defense.

    • @hinoron6528
      @hinoron6528 Месяц назад +1303

      It's part of their "zero tolerance" policy that they're so proud of. In practice, it's more like a "zero thought" policy. People like that think the rules are their own justification. Once someone scribbles out a Policy, whatever that policy says is morally right because it's the policy.
      You'd think so-called "educators" would have covered what "circular reasoning" is at some point in their own training and education.

    • @martinkb9559
      @martinkb9559 Месяц назад +46

      Same in Germany

    • @sohalemarikar3289
      @sohalemarikar3289 Месяц назад +13

      Ninja?

    • @Delta_3VIII
      @Delta_3VIII Месяц назад

      ​@@martinkb9559yeah, they really give all to domesticate the natives here... You can bet ye Ass that I'll teach my siblings otherwise and will teach my Children the same, if I'll ever have some that is.

    • @thisreplysection1050
      @thisreplysection1050 Месяц назад +103

      Two magic words: “Lawsuit” and “News”

  • @isiahweverka8065
    @isiahweverka8065 Месяц назад +17254

    I'll never understand why protecting yourself in school gets you the same if not worse punishment as the perpetrator or bully

    • @dawnray5974
      @dawnray5974 Месяц назад +300

      Ikr? I'd do exactly the same thing as the girl if this happened to me

    • @ItsSatanic
      @ItsSatanic Месяц назад +412

      It’s because the school system is controlled by the government and the school system is there to train you to be a complaisant slave, do as your told, don’t fight back.

    • @JyS1991
      @JyS1991 Месяц назад +127

      Because it's easier to manage.
      If you wouldn't do that, you would need to figure out who was wrong, with teens. Most teen victims are silent, most teen perps have friends and most teen friends would lie for their friend. And everyone else does not want to upset the bully.
      You are more likely to get the opposite evidence: that the perp was a victim and that the victim was the perp.
      On top of that: they're not cops. Finding evidence isn't their job and they are not good at it. That's why.

    • @JohnSmith-hv6ks
      @JohnSmith-hv6ks Месяц назад +50

      because most bullies are bullies because they they know can get away with it. If you had a karen for a mom you know you can get away with anything.

    • @Nezumi_Yasu
      @Nezumi_Yasu Месяц назад +29

      i was jumped by three boys. fought back. and was gonna be suspended. and it was before or after i talked to the suicide hotline so i wasnt ok. the boys were never punished😢

  • @backyardbountiesextra7683
    @backyardbountiesextra7683 21 день назад +663

    “Trained by her brothers”
    1. Relatable
    2. He got another beating from them after the fact

  • @giothed00d
    @giothed00d 28 дней назад +290

    People forget calling the cops also means YOUR crime gets reported too 😂

    • @user-mk8yu5oo6c
      @user-mk8yu5oo6c 24 дня назад +10

      noy if its self defence

    • @denises753
      @denises753 18 дней назад

      @@user-mk8yu5oo6c It can get reported even if it's self-defense.
      Self-defense is an argument made in court. You can still be arrested for assault.

    • @AlexisPonce-ts2ew
      @AlexisPonce-ts2ew 15 дней назад +8

      @@user-mk8yu5oo6cI think they’re talking about the parent of the guy threatening to call the cops

  • @pinowlgi4946
    @pinowlgi4946 Месяц назад +81389

    That's not even technically wrong. She defended herself.
    Eta:
    1. Okay, I can't help it. Holy crap this blew up.
    2. Gonna put it here cause I keep getting asked...
    A) If the genders were swapped, yes, a male student has the same right to punch the lights out of someone touching them innapropriatly
    B) it's an internet story... 50% chance (tops) is real. My comment is based on the insinuation the story has (that the boy touched the girl in appropriately. I'm also not the only one with this opinion.

    • @Yoonbumandsangwooshow1092
      @Yoonbumandsangwooshow1092 Месяц назад +575

      Thank you some people just don’t see that

    • @RandomVideos-yz5qf
      @RandomVideos-yz5qf Месяц назад +412

      Technically against school policy, even though it shouldn't be

    • @user-vb4gi2bm6c
      @user-vb4gi2bm6c Месяц назад +457

      The only one who was technically wrong was the school for not supporting a child's right to defend herself against sexual harassment until threatend with a lawsuit.

    • @bfdiboy7563
      @bfdiboy7563 Месяц назад +17

      Banana😮

    • @ThomasMgtow-jq4fb
      @ThomasMgtow-jq4fb Месяц назад

      Someone tapd her on the shoulder to get her attention and she starts fighting.
      You thing that's a a good thing.
      You are mental.

  • @user-qu9so3gu7g
    @user-qu9so3gu7g Месяц назад +12986

    them brothers must be proud

    • @jassontoorn5920
      @jassontoorn5920 Месяц назад +336

      My sister did something similar but they still punished her. But I pulled her out of school early for a week so we could go get ice cream or anything else she wanted and to this day I not be more proud of her.

    • @isaiahreinmiller9311
      @isaiahreinmiller9311 Месяц назад +54

      I would be

    • @norse-hunter
      @norse-hunter Месяц назад +134

      For a few years I've been teaching my autistic brother to fight he struggled a lot but after a few years of helping him I was worried when I got a call from my mom saying he got in a fight because he showed no progress in defending himself I went to his school and started laughing when I saw the kid that hit him with a bloody nose and a black eye

    • @Noonesgonnaknowmylastname
      @Noonesgonnaknowmylastname Месяц назад +35

      ​@@norse-huntergood for him 😂

    • @Death5659
      @Death5659 Месяц назад +46

      Nah the brothers rolling up to that guys house

  • @MasterChef1957
    @MasterChef1957 28 дней назад +31

    "Both children in trouble? How about the school, that kid, and his parents pay up in court? Or you can just stfu." 😂

  • @MasonBeauchamp-ts4ur
    @MasonBeauchamp-ts4ur 13 дней назад +23

    i got suspended for punching a bully in the face because he threw my lunch in the trash every day for 2 weeks and i told him multiple times that i am a fighter and that i didn’t want to hurt him but he didn’t listen but the funny part is that i told the chill lunch aid to back me up in the office she said ok

  • @RockDay-wv8jq
    @RockDay-wv8jq Месяц назад +7479

    Girl defended herself. The boy assaulted her first and she taught him to keep his hands to himself. Boy should have been suspended and made to write sentences.

    • @CtarMag
      @CtarMag Месяц назад

      Actually the boy sexually assaulted her

    • @Esmerthe10thjojo
      @Esmerthe10thjojo Месяц назад +28

      Idk man. Maybe boy just want to say something but the girl didnt hear him? Or maybe there was something else? Maybe they knew each other and the boy touched her shoulder? Maybe the boy didnt have bad intentions. I dont think its right to judge a person without knowing the exact backstory

    • @Showtime_JP
      @Showtime_JP Месяц назад

      ​@@Esmerthe10thjojo ok girl gr*per

    • @orchid4356
      @orchid4356 Месяц назад +256

      ​@@Esmerthe10thjojo that's a lot of maybes that I doubt happened. She wouldn't have had to defend herself if it was an innocent touch. Don't try to justify his actions and blame the victim.

    • @Esmerthe10thjojo
      @Esmerthe10thjojo Месяц назад +18

      @@orchid4356 ı am not justifiyng the victim, ı am saying we cant possibly know who victim really is. One of my friends get detention, because his team won a football match against another team, and one of the boys on the other team cried. They blamed him, and spread rumors about my friend being a bully. Rumors got so bad that whole team got detention, even thought there was camera footage showing they didnt hit, swore,threw something or harrased other kids.. After seeing this, ı doubt to say anything about someone being faulty without knowing the exactly the full picture

  • @Molly-mh6px
    @Molly-mh6px Месяц назад +8395

    “The adults don’t care until the bully gets hurt”
    -A Wise Person

  • @JulianaGarcia-yb9uj
    @JulianaGarcia-yb9uj 6 дней назад +5

    this is why having older brothers will always pay off in the long run

  • @LR-ww9yx
    @LR-ww9yx 24 дня назад +4

    One time my younger brother was at school, he was walking towards the far end of the playground and suddenly some kids came and started punching his stomach 20 times. He elbowed the kid hard in the gut 3 times until a teacher came out. It's crazy because the school left those kids outside unattended but only came out when my brother was defending himself. And for whatever reason my brother got suspended for a day. It amazes me how schools punish students who defend themselves.

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 20 дней назад

      I took my kids for a mommy and me day of playing, Ice cream and relaxing days! I had been fighting with the school system since 1985! It's gotten out of hand in the last 25 years .

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 20 дней назад

      I've even had to defend a child that was AT school as being absent AND in her class! They called me (Knowing where she was) telling she was skipping school.... Nooo the band teacher wanted extra hours and she said no...went to her regular class. They called me in and scared me thinking my kid was missing!!! Just to make her do as that band teacher wanted! What??? I was overly concerned about where my kid was and THIS is the outcome? Nooo I'm taking my kid to get her nails done and a steak dinner! Screw you AHs.

  • @prilskfc
    @prilskfc Месяц назад +5325

    Grope deserves jail

    • @INACTIVE12678
      @INACTIVE12678 Месяц назад +67

      uninvited yes, anything in that situation that is between two different adults who are not just okay with it but both want it is obviously fine

    • @INACTIVE12678
      @INACTIVE12678 Месяц назад +11

      uninvited yes, anything in that situation that is between two different adults who are not just okay with it but both want it is obviously fine

    • @Bananax60
      @Bananax60 Месяц назад +12

      That’s why it can land you in prison!

    • @Strawbb111
      @Strawbb111 Месяц назад +45

      ​@@INACTIVE12678 obviously ???

    • @Humanityisshitong
      @Humanityisshitong Месяц назад

      @@Strawbb111they said that when both consent it’s fine 😭 obviously

  • @CeltrixInfinityEditz
    @CeltrixInfinityEditz Месяц назад +4493

    "And mentioned a lawsuit. Suddenly, my daughter wasn't in trouble anymore." 😂😂

    • @MaryKelly-iv6bx
      @MaryKelly-iv6bx Месяц назад +30

      Yea right all of a sudden lmao

    • @alora9829
      @alora9829 Месяц назад +33

      Law will protect her and it will go against the boy and school .

    • @jimmywatts8219
      @jimmywatts8219 Месяц назад +14

      The whole thing never happened. “Trained by her brothers” 🤣 who are they ninja turtles.

    • @mechakroine94125
      @mechakroine94125 Месяц назад +37

      ​@@jimmywatts8219 it's called self defense? anyone can learn it, no one said they were professionally trained or anything.

    • @crealkillr
      @crealkillr Месяц назад

      she is still in trouble, just not doing anything futher

  • @jeffthemechanic
    @jeffthemechanic 28 дней назад +4

    nahh lil girl said HELL NAHH DONT TUCH ME😂😂🤣😅

  • @user-ur5fx1gi4k
    @user-ur5fx1gi4k 21 день назад +1

    I got in a fight and my schools told me I’m not allowed to come back for three days. They gave me a vacation for fighting a kid. After those three days I realized they were giving you a gift for fighting people and thought that if it came to a fight I would entertain the other person because I got a vacation

  • @theunholyoffspring8
    @theunholyoffspring8 Месяц назад +1666

    That ain't "tEcHnIcAlLy wRoNg," that's self-defense.

    • @dreadz314
      @dreadz314 Месяц назад

      So if I touch a girl it's okay for her to hurt me tf 😂

    • @blackberrycloud
      @blackberrycloud Месяц назад +2

      Actually it’s not under the court of law it’s not self defense because the boy wasn’t trying to hurt you it’s just sexual assault 😭

    • @blackberrycloud
      @blackberrycloud Месяц назад +1

      It’s not self defense though 😅

    • @canadaballplayz9999
      @canadaballplayz9999 Месяц назад

      ​@@blackberrycloud he fucking groped her. She had all rights to defend herself.

    • @canadaballplayz9999
      @canadaballplayz9999 Месяц назад +19

      ​@@blackberrycloud"it's not self defence tho" okay, you try getting groped by an older guy, see how you like the situation.

  • @fredmiriam313
    @fredmiriam313 Месяц назад +1412

    My son is disabled and got bullied at school because of it. His bully made him eat grass, smacked his had and tried to kick him in the nuts (but missed) All in front of 5 teachers present that did nothing about it.
    My son had enough of it and he punched him in the nuts and karate-kicked his stomach. It actually helped. And I'm very proud that he stood up for himself and defended himself. Next week we're in school to have a conversation about it.

    • @irfanflash42
      @irfanflash42 Месяц назад +41

      Please tell me how'd it go once the meeting is over

    • @Verrkami
      @Verrkami Месяц назад +5

      How does he karate kick while he’s not standing?

    • @DyleriousT
      @DyleriousT Месяц назад

      He stood up?​@@Verrkami

    • @pandahaven6485
      @pandahaven6485 Месяц назад +119

      ​@@Verrkamidisabled doesn't just mean wheelchair bound.

    • @armandosuba3427
      @armandosuba3427 Месяц назад +71

      Sue the school since teachers didn't protect your son. That's abhorrent

  • @user-mo5vl8gq4v
    @user-mo5vl8gq4v Месяц назад

    this is how i’m gonna teach my daughter to be. she can’t start fights, but she can absolutely defend herself if need be, and i’ll be there to sort out anything else. if her school ever has a problem with it i will raise hell. i’m not gonna raise her to think she has to let people push her around or that she can’t stand up for herself.

  • @MrChilili
    @MrChilili 24 дня назад +1

    If he doesn’t get punished then he’ll do it again.

  • @Dasha_four
    @Dasha_four Месяц назад +1397

    Bullying is never a problem until the one being bullied stands up for themselves

    • @funfunfun-mi9ji
      @funfunfun-mi9ji Месяц назад +8

      Sadly that's how it goes. Good thing that some people stand up for themselves

    • @olamideoladoyinbo8220
      @olamideoladoyinbo8220 Месяц назад

      @@funfunfun-mi9jiyh

    • @Kingofhell..
      @Kingofhell.. Месяц назад

      You don't know anything that happened to the person in this video tho

    • @ChiaraLulu-ry6zk
      @ChiaraLulu-ry6zk Месяц назад

      Fr ☹️

  • @ZebraLuv
    @ZebraLuv Месяц назад +1036

    Should've called the cops and gotten him on record. Touching a child means not being allowed within 500 feet of a school.

    • @LokiLaufeydotter
      @LokiLaufeydotter Месяц назад +77

      Technically it's not considered "that bad" when the assailant is also a minor, so I'm not sure if they could get that kind of charges

    • @omdeshmukh1
      @omdeshmukh1 Месяц назад +40

      @@LokiLaufeydotterI think they might not be allowed near a school after they turn 18

    • @Gloriousturtlechan
      @Gloriousturtlechan Месяц назад +27

      Nowhere does it say that the other kid wasn't the same age...
      They dont get registered when they are minors unless its a very severe case.

    • @LokiLaufeydotter
      @LokiLaufeydotter Месяц назад +19

      @Gloriousturtlechan because it said that a member of the football team was the one who did it, meaning he's also in high-school, and most likely a minor

    • @Gloriousturtlechan
      @Gloriousturtlechan Месяц назад +4

      @@LokiLaufeydotter hence why I responded to the original comment. This person is acting like the football player is an adult.

  • @GrimmSheeperguitar
    @GrimmSheeperguitar 13 дней назад +1

    The football dude probably bumped into her on accident and she really said HUYAHH

  • @njcomet
    @njcomet 3 дня назад +1

    If we’re the other way around, we’ll be cooked💀

  • @crazyape2222
    @crazyape2222 Месяц назад +2048

    Schools always make the person who defended themselves suffer for protecting themselves while the latter gets special treatment

    • @ronniebots9225
      @ronniebots9225 Месяц назад +36

      they tried the same on my son. My son got hit first first. He defended himself and got in trouble.
      I whent to school and scolded them. They where realy trying to suspenmd my son for self defence. I told them i would take the day off on the same day he gets suspended and make sure he has the best day at an amusementpark of his choosing to reward him for self defence.
      Then i made sure to explain to them that in my country by law you are allowed to defend yourself with equal force or less and school policy cannot trump that.
      End of story the other boy got suspended and not mine.
      Idiotic

    • @crazyape2222
      @crazyape2222 Месяц назад +2

      @@ronniebots9225 my freshman year three guys jumped me in the hall and because I managed to stop two and the third ran I got in trouble for assault and battery as well as a week long suspension while they got two days of in school suspension

    • @brotheranimations1848
      @brotheranimations1848 Месяц назад +2

      At school for like three to four days a guy was throwing pencil at me even though i think the teacher saw what happens she did nothing i was mad of crap and throw pencil at him back he threatens to jump me i went to him and then shouted do it while being enraged
      Teacher told me to go outside later the counselors asked me everything and also asked him
      Guess what? He wasn’t suspended for threatening me and for assaulting me and i wasnt either because they were like i had literally no proof and stuff

    • @nullfield1126
      @nullfield1126 Месяц назад

      That's what equality of outcome does. You have an aggressor and defender both getting the same treatment - practically meaning the aggressor is being let off easy while the defender is being punished for self defense... This sucks.

    • @mid1429
      @mid1429 Месяц назад

      My school always punished both sides because apparently fighting back is wrong when was yonger the ingoreing it didn’t work they didn’t care about a reaction they just enjoyed knowing they cosed pain so i shoved there arm in a fence and held it there until they agreed to leave me and others alone i was a little kid so its a little fuzzy

  • @luna_sunny1726
    @luna_sunny1726 Месяц назад +4160

    If someone touches another person without consent that is a crime. Punishable by jail. Self defense is not a crime.

    • @XD_gamer35
      @XD_gamer35 Месяц назад +25

      Even just a bump??? Even just a tap??? And also that only applies to girls or women cuz there more protected by the law and community

    • @Zoesyoutube
      @Zoesyoutube Месяц назад +52

      @@XD_gamer35 they mean in a sexual way. And also women are not protected by the law and community. I am not denying that it’s harder for men, because it most definitely is. But most of the time women’s assaulters get away with very low time in jail, or the woman gets blamed.

    • @XD_gamer35
      @XD_gamer35 Месяц назад +6

      ​@@Zoesyoutubealr fair enough

    • @AdrenalineandEpiphany
      @AdrenalineandEpiphany Месяц назад +9

      I'm sorry to say this but I spent 6 months in jail for assault 3rd specifically for defending myself with a closed fist against someone who not only threw a pocket knife at me but also attacked me with a wooden dowel. Self defense IS a crime in the state of NY.

    • @AlexJohns-kw2um
      @AlexJohns-kw2um Месяц назад +6

      Self defense stops when you continue to fight after they are incorporated or if it's not a reasonable force. The punch was self defense. The kick was sexual assault

  • @Grimstadshipper
    @Grimstadshipper 16 дней назад +1

    I once got bullied by a kid 1 year older than me, i was so pissed off i threw buckets at him in the face the hardest i could, he started bleeding and he stopped bullying me, my parents got a call from the school, and they was proud of me for sticking up for myself, Mum told me to punch back if someone punches you first.

  • @Archest64
    @Archest64 Месяц назад +1

    That’s not even technically wrong. That’s just self defense

  • @amatije
    @amatije Месяц назад +1743

    Defending yourself shouldn't be labeled as wrong!

    • @oscarcahill
      @oscarcahill Месяц назад

      Yeah you are right defending yourself is basically hurting someone so you should get arrested

    • @oscarcahill
      @oscarcahill Месяц назад +2

      Yes you are right you should get arrested

    • @jaa-vl7cs
      @jaa-vl7cs Месяц назад +17

      ​@@oscarcahill
      You seem to be a middle aged man so I won't bother explaining

    • @moonface710
      @moonface710 Месяц назад +9

      @@oscarcahillwho are you saying “you are right” to because the original comment doesn’t seem to agree with your statement

    • @_starvilne2580
      @_starvilne2580 Месяц назад +5

      @@oscarcahilland we are also right to say that you seem to be specially educated

  • @dorliz
    @dorliz Месяц назад +502

    My son in middle school kicked 2 kids butt's that had been bullying him. They told me he was suspended...i got him new game as a reward 🎉

    • @Diegito17
      @Diegito17 Месяц назад +21

      W dad right here 👨

    • @CableMan-zi8nn
      @CableMan-zi8nn Месяц назад +23

      I did this when I was 8 and my dad took me to McDonald’s

    • @dorliz
      @dorliz Месяц назад +15

      @@CableMan-zi8nn perfect parenting

    • @i6ey
      @i6ey Месяц назад +10

      you got room for an extra son?

    • @galaxyexplorer_
      @galaxyexplorer_ Месяц назад +12

      W parent. Your kid will take good care of you when he's older.

  • @kemarionlewis4703
    @kemarionlewis4703 14 дней назад +1

    Imagine he was tryna give her something and she broke his nose for nothing

  • @They_Call_Me_HeartFace
    @They_Call_Me_HeartFace 24 дня назад

    The innate action of giving detention to someone who used self-defense in his full meaning is fucking incredible.

  • @Fa773nAng37
    @Fa773nAng37 Месяц назад +248

    When my daughter was 18 months old, she knocked out a 5 year old kid for stealing her teddy bear.. 😂😂

    • @PajamaCatWithRamen
      @PajamaCatWithRamen Месяц назад +14

      No way 😂

    • @sachagacha9570
      @sachagacha9570 Месяц назад +15

      Dude fr ?😂 If so you're not gonna need to worry for her over the years, miss is already a fighter UwU

    • @Fa773nAng37
      @Fa773nAng37 Месяц назад +20

      @@PajamaCatWithRamen yep! She was knee high to a grasshopper and the kid was the size of a 7 year old.. her daycare called me and wouldn't tell me what happened, just that I needed to come pick her up (she'd been there for less than 2 hours) long story short, the kid kept trying to get her to let him play with her teddy bear (she wouldn't put it down long enough for me to wash it) and she kept saying no.. the kid walked up behind her and tapped her on the shoulder, when she turned to look over her shoulder, he ripped it out of her hand over the other shoulder and ran away with it. She stopped short. Closed her eyes and started counting (she could only count to 5) she stomped her foot, whispered 'fuck it ' ran up to the kid, punched him in the back, when he turned around, she jumped up, grabbed his shoulder and punched him in the face.. grabbed the teddy bear and walked away.. i was dumbfounded.. after I got her in the car, I took her to Toys R Us and McDonald's.. I've never been more proud of her..

    • @Brawlmall
      @Brawlmall Месяц назад +2

      Yo what

    • @Brawlmall
      @Brawlmall Месяц назад +5

      Damn a 1 YEAR OLD HELL NAH nobody is gonna mess with her

  • @AngelKiller666Kitsune
    @AngelKiller666Kitsune Месяц назад +151

    I read the story. The boy groped the girl, which is sexual harassment, so the girl rightfully kicked his ass. So it really isn't wrong but justified to fight back.

    • @tomoyawhetstone4857
      @tomoyawhetstone4857 Месяц назад +5

      Where did you read it I want more context before making conclusions like everyone else seems to be doing

    • @lunariousmoon
      @lunariousmoon Месяц назад +1

      Its Assult not harassment

    • @GenGamesUniverse
      @GenGamesUniverse Месяц назад

      ​ @lunariousmoon not assault, it's sexual harassment as the said member of the football team touched her inappropriately. This could have been something like he pinched her backside or spanked her backside thinking it was funny.

    • @Neon-is-Purple
      @Neon-is-Purple Месяц назад

      ​@@tomoyawhetstone4857 inappropriate touch.

    • @reggisexcellent
      @reggisexcellent Месяц назад +3

      Where did you read it? This yt video is dumb giving less info even if its fake, the op just said he only touch her meaning she would get full charge for assault and this stories are dumb anyways

  • @YourFriendlyNeighbor-vq1bp
    @YourFriendlyNeighbor-vq1bp Месяц назад +1

    The fact that you can get detention just by defending yourself is wild.

  • @edgarloyola7630
    @edgarloyola7630 29 дней назад +1

    Ye if they go to court the lawyer will just say it was a self defense 😂

  • @Clay-puppy
    @Clay-puppy Месяц назад +695

    Imagine getting detention for defending yourself from creeps man

    • @SigmaKxng
      @SigmaKxng Месяц назад +1

      Also it wasn't like she was being raped. She could've easily told the principal instead of fucking breaking a nose and kicking sexual attacking him. It's not defending if the threat isn't forcing assault onto her. She could've handled this better instead of hurting him. They both should've got suspended for like a week lmao

    • @rikinu9180
      @rikinu9180 29 дней назад +17

      ​@@SigmaKxngbut how does she know if he's not gonna force himself onto her? Being probably stronger than her (due to being a football player) if he got on top of her she probably wouldn't be able to do much, so the only option is to defend yourself before he can get the chance to do anything else, meaning there's really nothing she did wrong

    • @SigmaKxng
      @SigmaKxng 29 дней назад

      @@rikinu9180 Bro that's a sterotype.

    • @SigmaKxng
      @SigmaKxng 29 дней назад

      @@rikinu9180 Also they're in schools and she only said he touched her inappropriately so you're terribly wrong. Stop trying to defend a criminal.

    • @SigmaKxng
      @SigmaKxng 29 дней назад

      @@rikinu9180 Also she could've just walked into the principal's office and told the principal is he only touched her can't she?

  • @SA-ui4tx
    @SA-ui4tx Месяц назад +800

    Defending yourself isnt technically wrong, its perfectly correct behaviour.

    • @EvidentKnight35
      @EvidentKnight35 Месяц назад +7

      According to a school it’s not I once had my little sister who was being shall we say “advanced” upon by her science teacher she was 17 I believe and he was in his late 30s or early 40s I can’t remember and one day he got very handsy with her she literally broke his nose and jaw within a few punches and she was expelled and slapped with a huge fine for assault and the teacher let off Scot free but 2 years later he was arrested for r****ing a 15 year old girl and my sisters record was wiped clean after that

    • @SA-ui4tx
      @SA-ui4tx Месяц назад +5

      @stellassergal5587 ok first off, that whole situation is fucked, i hope your sister is ok after having to deal with that and I'm glad your sister had the courage to fight back when she did, id be a proud brother for that alone. Secondly, if the situation with your sister was taken seriously against the teacher the poor 15 year old rape victim would not have to carry the burden of that for the rest of her life.
      My statement stands as it was said from a moral standpoint, legality in relation to these situations is usually absolutely ridiculous, as your story has proven.

    • @Lusde
      @Lusde Месяц назад

      How do you know its defence? The video said he touched her. Maybe he brushed her shoulder while walking past? Not justified

    • @Zulfar-bd9tc
      @Zulfar-bd9tc Месяц назад +5

      @@Lusde Look at the context clues. OP arrives to the principle's office where their daughter, the football player and their parents are. OP listens to the story, thinks nothing needs to be done. Football player wants to call the cops on the daughter for assault, and OP laughs and goes "go ahead, let's call the cops." At what point do you think OP would be okay with, if not encouraging the calling of the cops if what their daughter did was kick the football player in the nuts when all the football player did was accidentally brush their shoulder walking past her because of a crowded space?

    • @rohxndoesedits
      @rohxndoesedits Месяц назад +6

      ​@@Lusde you are literally perfect for becoming a teacher, always overlooking these things

  • @marcc1
    @marcc1 Месяц назад +1

    a woman once tried punching a guy next to me in a bus, i defended the guy by blocking all her punches, i didnt hit back or anything and we both got detention 💀💀💀

  • @he4rt5
    @he4rt5 18 дней назад

    "i nodded wisely"
    who describes their own nod this way lmao

  • @asheunique6475
    @asheunique6475 Месяц назад +129

    You already know them brother went to whoop his ass the next day lmao Good shit girl

  • @catcando1131
    @catcando1131 Месяц назад +99

    So my dad and his brothers taught me how to protect myself and it came in handy when a kid was terrorizing my cousins and I at a park . Kid left with a black eye and bloody nose and a messed up knee. Later, there was a knock at the door of my residence and lo and behold, that kid and his dad was outside asking for me, only using the shorter more masculine version, Chris. My dad asked the kid three times if he was sure he was beat up by Chris and not either of my brothers names. He insisted Chris. So my dad calls me over and as soon as the other kids dad sees a tiny 5’0” girl, he just dies laughing, asking his soon if he really got beat up by a girl. The dad asks why I did it. I tell him. Dad goes from laughing to enraged and drags his kid away screaming my whooping was gonna be gentle compared to his.

  • @lissaharre
    @lissaharre 27 дней назад

    I got in so many fights in elementary school because I can’t stand bullies.
    When I was in middle school they started the “no violence policy” and my parents teased me that I would have been expelled had that policy gone into effect 3 years earlier.
    Bullying is unacceptable and I still stand with my childhood self. Fortunately my kids have the same personality. I can’t wait until I get called into a principals office.

  • @reallyslayed1694
    @reallyslayed1694 Месяц назад

    self defense is not punishable if it is within reasonable amounts of violence, so for the principal to want to the daughter in detention is wild

  • @Tensa_Zangetsu1222
    @Tensa_Zangetsu1222 Месяц назад +71

    Wait till the brothers find out the kid wouldn't be coming to school for days 😂
    As an older brother i can confirm that

  • @jene9755
    @jene9755 Месяц назад +67

    My son was dropped from the "smart kids" program. He was the only child in his grade and class that was a member. The school did not notify me or him that this occurred. One day they announced over the loud speaker that their trip to another school was taking place and to assemble by the busses. He got on the bus. Nobody even checked if he had a permission slip. I got a phonecall from the teacher who was yelled at me to come get my child. When I arrived at the other school my then 9 year old was left unattended outside of the other school on a picnic bench. The next day we were called into the office where my son was berated by the principle and the rest of the teachers. I wanted to intervene. But my son stopped me. He apologized to the teachers that berated him instead of blowing up at them. They wanted to suspend him for a week. That's when I interfered and told them that there was no notification that he was dropped from the program. Nobody checked his travel permission slip. He was unattended at a strange school left outside..and that they would be hearing from my attorney. Should have seen the panick that started to sink in on their faces...needless to say, no suspension.

    • @michaelmoreno1683
      @michaelmoreno1683 Месяц назад +13

      You should have still sued if you didn’t. That is actually insane they have the nerve to do that to a child.

    • @jene9755
      @jene9755 Месяц назад +5

      @@michaelmoreno1683 to be honest I was a single mom, we barely survived. I had no idea how I would hire an attorney at the time with no money to spare. And I never sued anybody at that time. My son is a young adult now. You are probably right, I should have sued.

    • @Jesus_is_THE_king_of_kings
      @Jesus_is_THE_king_of_kings Месяц назад +1

      ​@@jene9755depends if you sued and lost thats thousands in the toilet if you won thats probably a couple hundred grand in your pocket im sure you would have won with a good attorney

  • @AriannaSenften-g3v
    @AriannaSenften-g3v 10 дней назад

    Yeah that's a good way to rise your kids, defend them when something bad happened to them and then they fight back

  • @Dreimin
    @Dreimin Месяц назад

    It’s kinda a good lesson since it will teach you how unfair life is before even starting it

  • @Rasheens-Story
    @Rasheens-Story Месяц назад +144

    It’s crazy how the school was ready to accuse your daughter of being in the wrong until she backed them up real quick, then they decided to do the right thing. This happens way too often in schools where they try to blame the victim or the person that’s being bullied, and harassed, because they know if the bully is found out the school can get in trouble. They don’t care, they’re just trying to protect their own @$$

    • @SirFrogIII
      @SirFrogIII Месяц назад

      They ain't even trying to make these stories sound real anymore💀

  • @Wub_ev
    @Wub_ev Месяц назад +61

    When my dad was 16 he sent 3 kids to the hospital for trying to get this one shy girl to take her clothes off in the locker room. Long story short one of those kids now apparently has a dent in his head and the other 2 have permanent nerve damage

    • @sheraz_games
      @sheraz_games Месяц назад +2

      W dad

    • @hydeparkacademy7107
      @hydeparkacademy7107 Месяц назад +2

      Woah! Dad has quite a punch!

    • @Ghanaball3296
      @Ghanaball3296 Месяц назад +2

      DENT AND NERVE DAMAGE! DAMN THAT BOY SUPERMAN

    • @Lusde
      @Lusde Месяц назад

      Long story short that's fake

    • @Neon-is-Purple
      @Neon-is-Purple Месяц назад +4

      ​​@@Lusde long story short, are you the dad? The son? Or are you perhaps one of the boys who got their ass whooped?
      If not, you don't know yourself if its fake or true.

  • @ZoldexPlaysomeblox
    @ZoldexPlaysomeblox 23 дня назад +1

    W daughter,W brother,L dad

  • @thelightshadowandmewtwoian3154
    @thelightshadowandmewtwoian3154 Месяц назад +1

    A true American style of fighting 😂

  • @carolina_west1905
    @carolina_west1905 Месяц назад +318

    1. W girl
    2. Major W from the brothers
    3. L guys

    • @wiresculptor5951
      @wiresculptor5951 Месяц назад +3

      L guys????
      Not all men???

    • @styewwwwwwwpidity
      @styewwwwwwwpidity Месяц назад

      ​@@wiresculptor5951they were talking about the ones involved

    • @jhaikamorallos3375
      @jhaikamorallos3375 Месяц назад +31

      ​@@wiresculptor5951 Did they say ALL men?💀💀 Where was the part that they said all men? All they said was “L guys“ to those guys who TOUCHED HER. It's basic comprehension.

    • @xx..mochichan.x3905
      @xx..mochichan.x3905 Месяц назад

      @@wiresculptor5951you’re so damn stupid 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @wiresculptor5951
      @wiresculptor5951 Месяц назад

      @@jhaikamorallos3375 L guys does not imply just those guys, learn how to communicate🤡

  • @NighDarke
    @NighDarke Месяц назад +57

    This doesn't even qualify as technically wrong because if you get SAd in school you have every right to respond with your fists.

    • @eric98292
      @eric98292 Месяц назад +6

      Self defense 100%. The only assault was the boy touching her. Go ahead, call the cops.

    • @ImpoSher
      @ImpoSher Месяц назад +1

      ​@@eric98292It depends on WHERE he was touching her.

    • @Lusde
      @Lusde Месяц назад

      Not SA tho…

    • @ImpoSher
      @ImpoSher Месяц назад

      @@Lusde how do you know?

    • @Lusde
      @Lusde Месяц назад +1

      @@ImpoSher how do you know it is SA? Touch can mean so many different things. We can't assume that it is SA or that it isn't SA. Just annoys me when people say stuff like this with 0 evidence

  • @KotoBeFr
    @KotoBeFr 29 дней назад +1

    If it was by accident thats more understandable but straight up touching is crazy

  • @misaplays3322
    @misaplays3322 Месяц назад +879

    yeah they tried to give me detention for breaking up a fight. I just didn't go

    • @nikole.luv1
      @nikole.luv1 23 дня назад +2

      why would u try too break it up if it’s none of ur business

    • @FieryJuniper
      @FieryJuniper 23 дня назад +27

      ​@@nikole.luv1Might of been a friend, who knows?

    • @FieryJuniper
      @FieryJuniper 23 дня назад +2

      ​@@nikole.luv1Might have been a friend, who knows?

    • @ikirei_
      @ikirei_ 23 дня назад +16

      I was a witness to a fight and got detention for it

    • @SANS_00915
      @SANS_00915 21 день назад

      @@ikirei_ dang that sucks

  • @oregondrivingadventures7506
    @oregondrivingadventures7506 Месяц назад +88

    My youngest, who was 11 or 12 at the time, told his aunt she was a crappy parent and she deserved to have her kids taken away. She was letting my nephew smoke weed and get his friends high in a 5th wheel sitting on the street in front of her house. She was always talking shit about pot smokers but here she was, letting minors get high at her house. I was so proud of him.

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 20 дней назад

      Eww imagine thinking the Aunt was to blame cause kids were sneaking around doing dumb kid things. Grow up... You sound very ignorant.

  • @luigi8192
    @luigi8192 Месяц назад +1

    “Trained by her brothers”
    W brother

  • @NoahSamuels-zs8sl
    @NoahSamuels-zs8sl 28 дней назад +1

    the police are like karens ngl

  • @bobstrand7669
    @bobstrand7669 Месяц назад +36

    This wasn’t ever technically wrong this was technically the correct response

    • @deckwolf3442
      @deckwolf3442 Месяц назад

      If you assume that the touching was inappropriate. If it happened to be that he simple brushed aside her while in a hurry, then this is not the correct response. Assume ignorance before malice.

    • @userjwny04
      @userjwny04 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@deckwolf3442Obviously you have no proof it's just brushing through her if they ended up in the prinicipal's office also it was recorded and I'm sure you can distinguish when someone grabs you and when someone caresses you accidentally

    • @Larin137
      @Larin137 Месяц назад

      Sorry, in the original story, the boy touch her ass, is the complete story. So it's not assume​@@deckwolf3442

    • @jessicagomez7714
      @jessicagomez7714 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@deckwolf3442 The girl knows what happened, that's why she reacted like that. And since people tend to say girls must have wanted, this is the correct reaction to show that she did not want him touching her.

    • @hrongd
      @hrongd Месяц назад

      ​@@deckwolf3442 You're the kind of kid to "brush" your hand across a girl's chest while just strolling by, aren't you?

  • @ArcherSimpson-lb6zm
    @ArcherSimpson-lb6zm Месяц назад +62

    Let’s get one thing straight that girl did nothing wrong at all

    • @FrancisMontejo-en3fr
      @FrancisMontejo-en3fr Месяц назад +2

      She assaulted him even tho he only touched her

    • @AlexTheTransAndNerdyRaccoon
      @AlexTheTransAndNerdyRaccoon Месяц назад +10

      ​@@FrancisMontejo-en3frI can tell you're a child that probably doesn't understand what "touching" meant in this story. I'd just stop acting like you know what's going on and come back when you're older and wiser.

    • @FrancisMontejo-en3fr
      @FrancisMontejo-en3fr Месяц назад

      @@AlexTheTransAndNerdyRaccoon touch is just touch you touch something everyday and its normal yet getting touched by someone else is wrong??? Thats called "p*ssy"

    • @FrancisMontejo-en3fr
      @FrancisMontejo-en3fr Месяц назад

      @@AlexTheTransAndNerdyRaccoon wow being a child is offensive eh??? Yet ignoring the fcking goofy children on youtube and go for kids that are telling the truth??? How about this be strong ignore bullies and move on instead of drama or assault your probably a kid yourself for not understanding shes in the wrong since he only TOUCHED her which is something you wouldnt be picky about and she assaulted him how about understand and try to find things that back it up but since the stupid mom only said "touched" and nothing else shes the wrong one here

    • @userjwny04
      @userjwny04 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@FrancisMontejo-en3frHe touched her inappropriately so she touched him back

  • @landontucker2866
    @landontucker2866 25 дней назад +1

    Imagine he was just trying to get her attention by touching her shoulder or something

  • @T-bone_225
    @T-bone_225 12 дней назад

    Principal thinks she can get the Nobel prize by throwing them both in detention lol.

  • @joshuastowe8895
    @joshuastowe8895 Месяц назад +162

    She don’t do anything wrong she protected her self against something horrific

  • @lillyball9263
    @lillyball9263 Месяц назад +77

    She didn't do anything wrong. Not at all. She defended herself from a gross guy attacking her. Whether he touched her or more that was more than deserved. If not that then jail time.

    • @stevejobsreal
      @stevejobsreal Месяц назад

      Am I missing something here, because all the guys did was touch her. And she kicked them. That’s not assault.

    • @-lululovesart
      @-lululovesart Месяц назад

      ⁠@@stevejobsrealwhen they say “touch” they mean grope

    • @lillyball9263
      @lillyball9263 Месяц назад

      The point is keep your hands to yourself because you are practically giving somebody the right to strike you back.

    • @needstoast
      @needstoast Месяц назад

      @@stevejobsrealwhen people say inappropriate touch they mean touching of the gender specific parts on a human which warrants more than just “assaulting” the toucher

  • @hannahj8099
    @hannahj8099 25 дней назад

    My mum told me to punch my bully in the nose if he ever tried to physically hurt me again 😂 she still stands by her advice but I’ve always gravitated towards bring them back down with cutting words and outsmarting them. So far, I’m happy with how it’s all worked out. Good on her, she did the right thing and glad her dad supported her.

  • @ThatOneChristianBoy
    @ThatOneChristianBoy 9 дней назад

    Detention! For inappropriately touching someone that didn't want it!? That's wild.

  • @witheross
    @witheross Месяц назад +54

    Self defence isn't wrong

    • @israelbarron6964
      @israelbarron6964 Месяц назад

      Right? The only reason it's "technically" wrong is because the school likely has a bullshit zero tolerance policy.

  • @d1663m
    @d1663m Месяц назад +70

    Protecting yourself is never wrong. We taught our children this and stood behind them the same way.

    • @afi429
      @afi429 Месяц назад

      Screw you

  • @joshuahalford4359
    @joshuahalford4359 29 дней назад +1

    Police would still be called and a lawsuit would follow. Also the local news station would catch wind of the attempt to cover up a S** A**ult.

  • @gbaleebaker2198
    @gbaleebaker2198 26 дней назад

    In the actual legal system, what he did would be a crime and what she did would be self-defense

  • @TFrog1324
    @TFrog1324 Месяц назад +28

    The girl did nothing wrong, she was fighting in self defense

  • @hmnomad
    @hmnomad Месяц назад +43

    She was not technically wrong
    Self defense is never wrong

  • @audible_
    @audible_ 19 дней назад

    That's when you need a group of kids to show up and walk up from each angle and just say
    "So you like putting your hands where they don't belong? You know what happens to people that do that eh?
    You want to find out eh?"

  • @Nandita2012
    @Nandita2012 Месяц назад +1

    That isn't technically wrong. She defended herself.

  • @omegawolf2011
    @omegawolf2011 Месяц назад +36

    If she didn’t get him then the brothers would have 😂

  • @shiragoated
    @shiragoated Месяц назад +42

    she did nothing wrong i hate how schools punish students for defending themselves when you could out of school yet they never take precautions to prevent beforehand either so backwards

  • @largeman5788
    @largeman5788 13 дней назад

    Actually insane that the school thought that this girl was even slightly in the wrong

  • @THY_LEMON_LORD
    @THY_LEMON_LORD Месяц назад

    imagine accidentally brushing past someone and suddenly seeing the pearly gates

  • @Galleriancrabs
    @Galleriancrabs Месяц назад +44

    Its called "self defense '

  • @jenniferlastella210
    @jenniferlastella210 Месяц назад +101

    My youngest daughter did the same thing, except that it was another girl that was touched. My girl was protecting another child, and that made me very proud.

  • @songohan3499
    @songohan3499 24 дня назад

    Self defense is never wrong. The fact that when you fight back from bullying or something else is punishable is crazy

  • @redship1251
    @redship1251 19 дней назад

    Everybody was kung fu fighting, those kids were fast as lightning

  • @daggerding.s9752
    @daggerding.s9752 Месяц назад +56

    I hate schools, I was never a bad kid but they ruined my life because I stood up for my self and fought back after being beaten

    • @pet-simxplays
      @pet-simxplays Месяц назад +3

      I hate school and i have been suspended multiple times im on my last strike but everything that goes on is bullshit and i get mad easily to because of anger issues i fucking hate people that dont listen and instantly think i can just stop when im mad

    • @bennylofgren3208
      @bennylofgren3208 Месяц назад +1

      @@pet-simxplays
      So what kind of help are you getting for your anger issues? You can't get off without consequences for being abusive just by claiming you have anger issues without actively seeking help for them.

    • @pet-simxplays
      @pet-simxplays Месяц назад

      @@bennylofgren3208 Who in the right fuck said im being abusive sir I take meds i have consequences im saying they dont try to help they make it worse and the only way they think will calm me down is making me sit in the front office for 2 hours where its always busy and loud im not gonna calm down there now please dont respond again because you just pissed me off with the fact you instantly thought i have been abusing people

    • @pet-simxplays
      @pet-simxplays Месяц назад +1

      @bennylofgren3208 oh and by the way schools dont help anger issues my parents and therapist do i have meds when i run out i get mad easily

    • @cmen6895
      @cmen6895 Месяц назад

      @@pet-simxplaysYou should NOT be “running out” of medication. Either you’re abusing it, or your shitty parents arent filling it on time.
      That is not a normal problem, especially with someone who needs to be chilled out with meds or they could end up hurting someone, like you.

  • @FuFu-xuan
    @FuFu-xuan Месяц назад +113

    THATS CALLED “self defence” ✨

    • @jonasbrumley8184
      @jonasbrumley8184 Месяц назад

      The more you know

    • @glichygamer1865
      @glichygamer1865 Месяц назад +3

      Leave the "✨" back in 2020

    • @FuFu-xuan
      @FuFu-xuan Месяц назад

      @@glichygamer1865 Shut up that’s why you got no friends it’s cuz ur. Boring

    • @Lusde
      @Lusde Месяц назад +1

      Maybe its not. You have no context nor evidence that he assaulted her, groped or committed SA

    • @user-ol8le7fx9f
      @user-ol8le7fx9f Месяц назад +3

      @@Lusdedoes this story threaten you? Like you sound insecure. ☠️

  • @critical_gamingVR
    @critical_gamingVR 11 дней назад +1

    Bro the guy probably was just trying to pass by and nudged her if he did not touch with lust then that is assault

  • @Scared_pigeon
    @Scared_pigeon Месяц назад

    Good tip for schools is that it costs them way more to get sued than it does to let a kid get away with something. So always threaten lawsuits

  • @johnjanuary2958
    @johnjanuary2958 Месяц назад +22

    It was not even technically wrong for her to defend her own honor.

  • @nicholasdavis863
    @nicholasdavis863 Месяц назад +50

    My daughter 5 y/o (pre k) beat up a boy for bullying her friend who was born with missing fingers her exact words were my daddy taught me to stand up for my loved ones

  • @The_Roman_Empire
    @The_Roman_Empire Месяц назад +1

    She wasn't technically wrong, she is objectively corret

  • @NOVELLACARFAGNO-hm9ft
    @NOVELLACARFAGNO-hm9ft 2 дня назад

    I hate it when people get mad at you for defending yourself!

  • @Flip_Tech_Official
    @Flip_Tech_Official Месяц назад +77

    And that’s why my daughters will always defend themselves. Ain’t nobody goin to jail except me

    • @YellowFunnyMan
      @YellowFunnyMan Месяц назад +4

      I read that wrong the first time🤣

  • @robertjones1791
    @robertjones1791 Месяц назад +24

    My oldest daughter was being stalked by an ex.
    He his behind bushes and swung a knife at her face. She still has the scar.
    She beat his ass, unconscious, with the knife still in his hand.
    Mommy and the simp, beta male living her ass, the father, wanted her arrested.
    He went to jail, and we sued them because we proved he was stalking her, and mommy encouraged it.

  • @poonummushtaq8800
    @poonummushtaq8800 22 дня назад

    It's not just the daughter who is right, but the brothers too

  • @Harvey-ch4wt
    @Harvey-ch4wt 10 дней назад +2

    Bro he just TOUCHED her she didn't say where he might of just wanted smt

    • @darkkinkitty
      @darkkinkitty 10 дней назад

      Yeha bro imagine if he just tapped her shoulder to say she was in his way 😭

  • @MoonlitBookworm73
    @MoonlitBookworm73 Месяц назад +50

    Related to the question, my sister was bullied relentlessly by a kid for six months in elementary school. Because there wasn’t really evidence, the bully was never reprimanded.
    Well my mom was pissed, and for months she tried convincing my sister to stand up for herself, but my sister just said “No mommy, we shouldn’t hit people.”
    Well, after six months of relentless bullying, my sister finally fought back. A teacher saw and my sister was reprimanded, but the teacher told my mom that she had seen the bullying and was proud of my sister.

    • @skylarjenkins3199
      @skylarjenkins3199 Месяц назад +11

      So the teacher saw the bullying and still did nothing? That's messed up!!!😡😤

    • @josephrego7234
      @josephrego7234 Месяц назад +1

      Know thats 100% self defense

  • @liciewhiteley7376
    @liciewhiteley7376 Месяц назад +33

    Defending yourself is never wrong.

  • @AndreBesonia
    @AndreBesonia Месяц назад

    I would've called the cops and announced it in a school group chat so they could know what he did

  • @trudatbellyfat7358
    @trudatbellyfat7358 4 дня назад

    My son was a cashier at a pharmacy in a really, really rough and impoverished part of town. Some small kids came in once with a little money, wanting to buy some candy. They didn't have enough money. My son did a price switch so that they could buy their candy. The kids started coming in every weekend, and he'd do a price adjustment so they could each get a little treat. He'd chat with them and be kind to them. This went on for 4 years before management saw his excessive price adjustments and fired him. I know it was wrong, but for 4 years, those kids had something to look forward to, and someone who cared about them.

  • @elementsfanfics3859
    @elementsfanfics3859 Месяц назад +44

    For everyone saying that the boy may have accidentally touched the daughter, that’s almost definitely not the case. RUclips censorship goes crazy with any mention of SA, so the word the original poster used was probably ‘groped’. It was just changed in the video to avoid getting taken down or shadowbanned.