I seem to remember you guys getting in touch when Mel was still a humble RUclipsr, working on his van outside ( under a bridge when it rained ) You had some technical problems and Mel had health issues... You decided to meet up and sort each other's problems 🙂 Glad to see you formed a good team since, helping eachother. A great example of ' 1+1=3 ' ! Keep on enjoying life and eachother 👍
@@patrickvanreeth7355 yeah exactly - we met at a divine time in both our lives where we were able to help one another and now we realised we’re soulmates xx
This is the most authentic video I have seen you make. I have followed you for a year or so and this video raw and honest. Keep it real and your followers will grow.
It’s very important to be authentic and remain true to yourself. RUclips can mean having to interact with others that make you feel negative. Well done for deciding on doing what is right for you. You can’t go wrong with your ethical approach xx
@@CraftyCampervanners Thank you so much for your encouraging words. It means so much after putting myself out there and being vulnerable with this video to know that it rang true for you too xx
Nice to see you and great chat! Totally love you are going after what is right for you, what you do is amazing, and it's super excited to see the next chapter, because its going to be amazing!!
Awww thank you so much for watching all the way from USA. That’s so kind of you to watch and keep supporting. It’s a funny world in RUclips isn’t it? So much is a compromise and a struggle to figure out what works. I now want to focus on telling my story and not worry so much about making it a career. Take care you three! 🙌🏻🩵✨ xx
It will be interesting to see how your channel develops moving forward. Sounds like The Barn incident is still very raw and hurtful for you and I do hope talking frankly like you are helps in some way. Lovely to hear you and Mel are talking about exciting plans for the future. Sending our best wishes your way 💜
I actually unsubscribed form your van life channel and this one popped up, so i watched it and have now subscribed again 😊Have faith in the choices your soul made before returning and good luck in your souls forever journey ❤ i look forwaed to following along 😊😊
Was a fun chat. I started watching you as I was watching Mel’s yt. I’m in my 60’s and Since we’ve all been through the pandemic & lockdowns I enjoy watching the psychology of how everyone has been finding themselves again. How wonderful to see that we can all survive by being true to ourselves first. All the best in the blessings to come your way. Cheers
Thank you for sharing with me. Yes it is all so enlightening and part of who we all are now. Getting through hard times and heartache and sharing with others brings people together and gives them strength when they need it. So glad you want to keep watching x
I can't pinpoint why I like and follow you. I like what you have to say and how you say it. I suppose it's that simple. I'm a van-dweller, but I'll stay subbed regardless of whether you are or not.
I've actually come to realise that acceptance is a higher form of healing compared to forgiveness. Forgiveness has superiority attached to it, which always makes me feel that there's still an attachment to beholding another's emotions over them. Failing or refusing to forgive can cause so much hurt and continued pain. Whereas acceptance of what has happened and what now is; has a greater power. What are your thoughts on this?
@SACREDTRAVELLER forgiveness requires humility, a humble person accepts that injustice occurs and chooses to forgive....and let go of debts against their soul.....it acknowledges we live in a less than perfect world and that we too do wrong that requires OUR debt to be forgiven. If you just accept the situation you won't get that release from the circular thought process! If you choose to forgive then every time the mind goes there you can say...."I have forgiven! go away!" And grow some healthy neurons in your brain that are better for the soul.....I have tried and tested this.....and forgiven much.....and am free💕
Amazing video and I loved it. The barn situation seemed to me that they were almost bullying I'm so pleased you got out of there. I subscribed to you a while ago but I subbed because of you being Mels girlfriend. And you make great videos. Great artwork ❤ xx
I truly believe that as you become more “awake” and you raise you vibration, people will drop out of your life in different ways either quietly or more dramatically. But then other people will enter your life who are more on the same frequency. Hope this makes sense 🤣 Are you going to the Mind Body Spirit festival at the NEC this weekend? Would be lovely to see you there x
@@dianatonkinson4179 Hey Diana! Yes this is totally in sync with how I am seeing change around me. The more I listen and align with my own voice and truth the more others move away and make space for what’s right for me. I’m tired of being around people who don’t share my energetic frequency and are a drain on my energy. I hadn’t even known it was happening! What are the dates? x
I subscribed because Mel said that you also had a channel. I have enjoyed your content but I'm primarily a vanlife, van build, cottage renovation sort of person. I hang out for a while and see what you're up to though ❤
I agree about RUclips. I'm into van life and I'm a carnivore. RUclips doesn't know which community to push my content out to. If I was a vegan or vegetarian, as many van/boat life people are, I'd be sorted. Carnivore content gets way more views but I couldn't produce the high volume of content that would be needed. Simply it's just the way I eat. My heart is with the van life content. RUclips is confused by me. I have decided to just do videos about my life and people can watch or not watch 😄
This is the sweet spot, to make content about you as a person and over time RUclips knows where to put you. I can’t reccomend Katie Steckly here on RUclips enough. Her advice about RUclips is the best we’ve come across and always find her an inspiration. So if you’re stuck and need some new insight - check her out 👍🏻
Hey Becky, do you think you would be able to help a veteran that suffers with PTSD, he suffered in total silence for around 17 years, before being diagnosed (albeit wrongly), he's tried suicide a number of times but pulled out at the very last minute, he has now been suffering probably longer than you have been alive (38 years this Dec), if you think you could help him please pass on the best means of contact. The reasons I started following your channel, yes it was to do with vanlife and that sort of related things, however as time went on I began to feel you had became more of a friend than a youtuber which was a strange thing at first, but now it feels like a natural thing, all the best, #1
Sounds like you’re a very caring friend to them. The best thing you can do for them is to encourage them to reach out for help as it all starts with them acknowledging there’s a problem and then them seeking out help. I would recommend they seek out a therapist local to them as it’s not a quick fix with PTSD and requires them to put in a lot of hard work opening up the trauma. My advice would be for them to start loving themselves by taking time to meditate, get professional reiki to calm the body’s nervous system down. See a nutritionalist to help support the body and remove sugars which add in to stress and anxiety and then seek a past life/trauma healer. If your friend wants to reach out to me they can email me. It’s in the video description 🙌🏻
@@Defender200tdi oh yeah gotta leave the bag in too 😋. Aw yeah love me a cuppa Yorkshire tea. Reminds me of my childhood, spent a lot of time up in delph, upper mill and on the edge of the Yorkshire moors each summer ✨🙌🏻
I seem to remember you guys getting in touch when Mel was still a humble RUclipsr,
working on his van outside ( under a bridge when it rained )
You had some technical problems and Mel had health issues...
You decided to meet up and sort each other's problems 🙂
Glad to see you formed a good team since, helping eachother.
A great example of ' 1+1=3 ' !
Keep on enjoying life and eachother 👍
@@patrickvanreeth7355 yeah exactly - we met at a divine time in both our lives where we were able to help one another and now we realised we’re soulmates xx
This is the most authentic video I have seen you make. I have followed you for a year or so and this video raw and honest. Keep it real and your followers will grow.
Wow, thank you! That truly means the world to me 🩵🩵🩵 x
It’s very important to be authentic and remain true to yourself. RUclips can mean having to interact with others that make you feel negative. Well done for deciding on doing what is right for you. You can’t go wrong with your ethical approach xx
@@CraftyCampervanners Thank you so much for your encouraging words. It means so much after putting myself out there and being vulnerable with this video to know that it rang true for you too xx
Nice to see you and great chat! Totally love you are going after what is right for you, what you do is amazing, and it's super excited to see the next chapter, because its going to be amazing!!
Awww thank you so much for watching all the way from USA. That’s so kind of you to watch and keep supporting. It’s a funny world in RUclips isn’t it? So much is a compromise and a struggle to figure out what works. I now want to focus on telling my story and not worry so much about making it a career. Take care you three! 🙌🏻🩵✨ xx
It will be interesting to see how your channel develops moving forward. Sounds like The Barn incident is still very raw and hurtful for you and I do hope talking frankly like you are helps in some way.
Lovely to hear you and Mel are talking about exciting plans for the future. Sending our best wishes your way 💜
@@SueAndSarah Thank you guys, yes it’s all a learning curve and process 🩵🩵🩵
Fantastic video Becky! What a wonderful human being you are! Never stop sharing your life adventures! Much love! 🍃💜
This is such a wonderful comment. THANK YOU! ✨✨✨✨✨ x
I actually unsubscribed form your van life channel and this one popped up, so i watched it and have now subscribed again 😊Have faith in the choices your soul made before returning and good luck in your souls forever journey ❤ i look forwaed to following along 😊😊
@@5065sjg Thank you for your honesty and giving my channel and me another try 🙌🏻✨
Was a fun chat. I started watching you as I was watching Mel’s yt. I’m in my 60’s and Since we’ve all been through the pandemic & lockdowns I enjoy watching the psychology of how everyone has been finding themselves again. How wonderful to see that we can all survive by being true to ourselves first. All the best in the blessings to come your way. Cheers
Thank you for sharing with me. Yes it is all so enlightening and part of who we all are now. Getting through hard times and heartache and sharing with others brings people together and gives them strength when they need it. So glad you want to keep watching x
I can't pinpoint why I like and follow you. I like what you have to say and how you say it. I suppose it's that simple. I'm a van-dweller, but I'll stay subbed regardless of whether you are or not.
Thank you so much for letting me know! Xx
Forgiveness is powerful for healing.
I've actually come to realise that acceptance is a higher form of healing compared to forgiveness. Forgiveness has superiority attached to it, which always makes me feel that there's still an attachment to beholding another's emotions over them. Failing or refusing to forgive can cause so much hurt and continued pain. Whereas acceptance of what has happened and what now is; has a greater power. What are your thoughts on this?
@SACREDTRAVELLER forgiveness requires humility, a humble person accepts that injustice occurs and chooses to forgive....and let go of debts against their soul.....it acknowledges we live in a less than perfect world and that we too do wrong that requires OUR debt to be forgiven. If you just accept the situation you won't get that release from the circular thought process! If you choose to forgive then every time the mind goes there you can say...."I have forgiven! go away!" And grow some healthy neurons in your brain that are better for the soul.....I have tried and tested this.....and forgiven much.....and am free💕
Whatever path you take I’ll continue watching, I enjoy your vlogs and your artwork looks great.
Thank you so much for your time and comment. It makes all the difference to know you enjoy what I create and are along for the ride! x
Love that you are finding YOU and learning that she matters xxx 😘 much love ❤
Thank you lovelie! xx
Beautiful work ❤
Thank you so much 🙌🏻😊
Love your videos. Loving that artwork id buy any of them to go in our van ❤ xx
Glad you like them! I may well sell a few or even do a giveaway in the future! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement xx
Amazing video and I loved it. The barn situation seemed to me that they were almost bullying I'm so pleased you got out of there. I subscribed to you a while ago but I subbed because of you being Mels girlfriend. And you make great videos. Great artwork ❤ xx
Thank you for commenting and letting me know your thoughts. Yes it was very much a case of bullying. I'm glad you gave me and my channel a chance! x
Follow your heart ❤️
PS those watercolours are beautiful x
Thank you! It’s always so much harder to be raw and brave online 🩵🙌🏻
I truly believe that as you become more “awake” and you raise you vibration, people will drop out of your life in different ways either quietly or more dramatically. But then other people will enter your life who are more on the same frequency. Hope this makes sense 🤣 Are you going to the Mind Body Spirit festival at the NEC this weekend? Would be lovely to see you there x
@@dianatonkinson4179 Hey Diana! Yes this is totally in sync with how I am seeing change around me. The more I listen and align with my own voice and truth the more others move away and make space for what’s right for me. I’m tired of being around people who don’t share my energetic frequency and are a drain on my energy. I hadn’t even known it was happening! What are the dates? x
@ Friday to Sunday this weekend 15th to 17th. I’m excited 😆
When i come across people like this, i think of them as emotional vampires...
I subscribed because Mel said that you also had a channel.
I have enjoyed your content but I'm primarily a vanlife, van build, cottage renovation sort of person.
I hang out for a while and see what you're up to though
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Thank you I appreciate your honesty and I won’t mind at all if you find it no longer is suitable for you down the road x
I will always look in on your videos there quite educating 👍
@@art969bones Thank you for your comment. It’s great to know that you find my videos of help or learn something new 🙌🏻
I thought you were doing to dip your brush in your cuppa a few times 😂❤
@@shaunwizard aw man, I always do this - so am very surprised I didn’t this time!!! x
I agree about RUclips.
I'm into van life and I'm a carnivore.
RUclips doesn't know which community to push my content out to.
If I was a vegan or vegetarian, as many van/boat life people are, I'd be sorted.
Carnivore content gets way more views but I couldn't produce the high volume of content that would be needed. Simply it's just the way I eat.
My heart is with the van life content.
RUclips is confused by me.
I have decided to just do videos about my life and people can watch or not watch
😄
This is the sweet spot, to make content about you as a person and over time RUclips knows where to put you. I can’t reccomend Katie Steckly here on RUclips enough. Her advice about RUclips is the best we’ve come across and always find her an inspiration. So if you’re stuck and need some new insight - check her out 👍🏻
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good see you got vlog on channel good see you doing art nice work keep up the great work thank for share on channel keep up the great vids thanks lee
@@anfieldroadlayoutintheloft5204 thank you so much for always being encouraging and commenting on all my videos 🙌🏻✨🙌🏻
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Hey Becky, do you think you would be able to help a veteran that suffers with PTSD, he suffered in total silence for around 17 years, before being diagnosed (albeit wrongly), he's tried suicide a number of times but pulled out at the very last minute, he has now been suffering probably longer than you have been alive (38 years this Dec), if you think you could help him please pass on the best means of contact.
The reasons I started following your channel, yes it was to do with vanlife and that sort of related things, however as time went on I began to feel you had became more of a friend than a youtuber which was a strange thing at first, but now it feels like a natural thing, all the best, #1
Sounds like you’re a very caring friend to them. The best thing you can do for them is to encourage them to reach out for help as it all starts with them acknowledging there’s a problem and then them seeking out help. I would recommend they seek out a therapist local to them as it’s not a quick fix with PTSD and requires them to put in a lot of hard work opening up the trauma.
My advice would be for them to start loving themselves by taking time to meditate, get professional reiki to calm the body’s nervous system down. See a nutritionalist to help support the body and remove sugars which add in to stress and anxiety and then seek a past life/trauma healer. If your friend wants to reach out to me they can email me. It’s in the video description 🙌🏻
@@SACREDTRAVELLER thanks Becky, but it's not actually a friend, it is in fact myself
That tea looks weak ☕
It’s my favourite Decaf Earl grey with fresh cream 😋 x
Your tea is looking a little lumpy there!!
It’s got fresh cream in it that’s why 😂
@@SACREDTRAVELLER you left the tea bag in 😀. I like mine strong but use two bags if they're cheap, otherwise it's Yorkshire tea all the way
@@Defender200tdi oh yeah gotta leave the bag in too 😋. Aw yeah love me a cuppa Yorkshire tea. Reminds me of my childhood, spent a lot of time up in delph, upper mill and on the edge of the Yorkshire moors each summer ✨🙌🏻
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