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You know you have hit rock bottom when Trisha makes more sense than your half whipped apology.
It honestly wasn’t even an apology
@@Aesos3429yeah more like a response, and a last-ditch effort to garner sympathy from her remaining supporters so that they’ll rally around her and offset the backlash she’s gotten. We see how well that worked out tho…💀
Yeah I agree it wasn't an apology. But agree with you too
I think the song's title should be 'how dare you' Colleen looks so scary in that video especially eyes 👁️_👁️
Why are people calling this an apology? It's not. It's a blame-shifting, victim-shaming, lying, crying, song of denial.
As someone with BPD I can say I am extremely proud of trisha. Staying calm and adressing such a deep betrayal in such an sophisticated way is extremely challenging to do. I love to see the process she made in her mental health.
Trisha I'm proud of u!
Edit because someone in the comments asked about BPD:
BPD is short for Borderline Personality Disorder
People with BPD experience emotions up to 9x stronger which makes it hard to regulate feelings in general.
Typical symptoms of BPD can include attachment issues, Episodes of rage/hatred, feeling of emptiness, disassociation (day dreaming but worse), psychosis (hearing or seeing things that aren't there), identity crisis, suicidal thoughts, self harm ... etc.
To sum it up BPD is caused by a congenital hypersensitivity and traumatically experienced invalidation. Weather or not a person needs trauma to get diagnosed is sadly still up to discussion in my country as the research is still evolving.
If you're struggling with similar symptoms please console with a safe person about seeking treatment/ therapy.
I am not familiar with therapy sides in the US but I'll link a helpful website for the germans out here...
A good clinic with helpful therapists:
www.marien-hospital-dortmund.de/klinik-fuer-seelische-gesundheit.html
Criteria for BPD:
drmedjulia.com/merkmale-warnzeichen-der-borderline-personlichkeitsstorung/
Ditto
Fr. My dad has BPD. Colleen backstabbing and taking advantage of her is going to hurt like shit, and likely more than the averge person because of her BPD.
What’s BPD?
@@Lily-mb5nnit's Borderline Personality Disorder
@@Lily-mb5nn Hey thanks for asking ^^
BPD is short for Borderline Personality Disorder
People with BPD experience emotions up to 9x stronger which makes it hard to regulate feelings in general.
Typical symptoms of BPD can include attachment issues, Episodes of rage/hatred, feeling of emptiness, disassociation (day dreaming but worse), psychosis (hearing or seeing things that aren't there), identity crisis, suicidal thoughts, self harm ... etc.
To sum it up BPD is caused by a congenital hypersensitivity and traumatically experienced invalidation. Weather or not a person needs trauma to get diagnosed is sadly still up to discussion in my country as the research is still evolving.
If you're struggling with similar symptoms please console with a safe person about seeking treatment/ therapy.
I am not familiar with therapy sides in the US but I'll link a helpful website for the germans out here...
A good clinic with helpful therapists:
www.marien-hospital-dortmund.de/klinik-fuer-seelische-gesundheit.html
Criteria for BPD:
drmedjulia.com/merkmale-warnzeichen-der-borderline-personlichkeitsstorung/
She looked so genuinely sad and disappointed, Trisha did believe Colleen was her true friend and got back stabbed in such a nasty way...
Right and what's gets me is she's going through all this again. She had to go through it with Shane and Jefree. I'm glad she's working on her mental health and everything more now after her daughter was born
@rach3092 thats before she decided to take a stride in her mental health. ever since she learned she was having a baby she had forced herself to take a hard long look at her own behavior and decided to make changes. of course you don't have to be sympathetic but you can give her some respect for ACTUALLY growing as a person unlike every other toxic RUclipsr.
Considering the people I know first hand that Trisha has stabbed in the back without a second thought, I’d say it’s karma. 🤷🏻♀️
@@IratePuffini was just thinking the same!
@rach3092 It doesn’t have to be one or the other though. It can be true that Trisha is a problematic person & also true that she is a victim in this situation. I think it’s obvious that she didn’t ask for or want Colleen to send any nude material of her to her fans, let alone to a child!
Sending any pornographic content to a minor has got to be illegal, surely? Does anyone know if the police are looking into it?
It’s so nice to see that she is actually talking about why it was wrong and really meaning it
@rach3092they made a podcast one week before. It was at full force then. The Trisha stuff has been sailing for a month. So she was fine with everything until she got bullied?
@@BillyMayDays Exactly. She is only caring about it now that there's proof of Colleen making fun of her. Before that she ignored the victims and blocked some of them.
It was only wrong when Colleen did something to her! She also said she would never speak on the subject again & then made another video! She hasn’t changed she’s just manipulating y’all.
Theres a lot of Trisha hate in this thread, and while I am definitely not a fan of hers either, it's rubbing me the wrong way. I don't intend to speak on whether she has improved herself as a person or not - because I don't know her and have avoided following her for years - but more importantly, it doesn't matter. Whether she is a "good person now" now is completely irrelevant. She still did the right thing in making this video, and she was still deeply violated by what happened. She was both sexually exploited and used by Colleen to sexually exploit minors, and she handled the public confirmation of that shockingly well given her track record. Does that mean we have to like her or think she is a good person? No, of course not, but that doesn't mean that she didn't approach her public statement in a mature way. In the end, regardless of whether her intentions were selfish or not, she did use her platform to speak out against Colleen and apologize to the children who were harmed in all of this. That's what is important above all else. We have to hold Colleen accountable, because she's clearly incapable of it, and bad mouthing Trish when she did the right thing in the end only muddies those waters.
@@bunnyreads8847 I agree with most of this except that people are canonizing her for not being over the top. That’s the problem. The issue is Colleen sending it to minors. Most of the pictures were from IG and twitter. She also put them on Snapchat and has a long history of sexualizing minors. 2 things can be true at the same time. If no one was singing Trisha’s praises like she did something here, bringing up her past would be dumb. But they are saying how she’s changed and is so mature…so here we are
People may hate Trisha, I'm not the biggest fan of her, but you gotta respect her approach on this whole situation. It's very real and raw.
ruclips.net/user/shortsmM2-WbQwqe4
Trisha seems genuinely hurt.
I feel like she is a really bad judge of character & as a result gets hurt over & over. It seems her self esteem is really low despite what she says.
Her self esteem will always look low , she is indeed dealing with mental illness, that alone does a lot to your self worth and that is a battle she has to constantly fight.
I'm not a fan of hers at all, but I have seen her ups and downs and it seems like she's really trying to be better.
Sucks Colleen brought her back from what she was running from. ONLINE DRAMA.
I agree, I am in no way a Trisha fan but she was serious and genuine. And she actually spoke up! More than what we can say for her other “Friends”
I think Trishas body language when talking about the friendship was because she thought she had a genuine friend to find out she was a backstabber.
Agreed
Not a fan of Trisha but what Colleen did to her was disgusting and the fact that she sent them to ANYONE is horrific but to be sent to minors is a whole new level of vile. I can’t imagine how Trisha feels knowing that someone she thought was a friend was making fun of her body and literally hosting watch parties to make fun of her.
I’m really proud of the way that Trisha handled this, albeit I don’t like that she waited until it personally involved her to speak out, there was plenty of evidence before that against Colleen
Agree with your whole assessment 100%
ruclips.net/user/shortsmM2-WbQwqe4
Sadly or not, but that is a common occurance - people trust more people they know than strangers. Someone like Colleen, who manipulates easily, who clearly had Trisha manipulated to hell already, will spin a story around and convince you because they're oh so nice and decent. One of the people who came forwards about Colleen was a person with a drama channel on youtube who had already made videos about Trisha herself talking about her private life etc. So I think it's understandable to trust a friend over a drama channel person. Of course, most of us know that anyone can be a victim and their background doesn't matter, but to someone who has apparently lost quite a few friends, who is quite insecure when it comes to friendships, who connected to Colleen as a mother speciffically, I am not really surprised she would take her word for it. And you have to take into account that she describes how she's been avoiding drama for a couple of years now, so I expect she doesn't watch channels that talk about youtubers, what they've been up to etc. We can thnk that's wrong, I do agree that it is, but we do have to acknoledge that it is something that some people do - trust their friends and family over strangers.
Edit: I'd like to also add that she was groomed herself and that does affect you for life. It can be very difficult to draw a line, to have and protect your boundaries and to even know where they should be built when you've experienced that.
@@TheHestya A lot of important points here I hadn't even considered before, it makes sense that Trisha could have been manipulated into not believing the original accusations
Trisha isn’t Colleen friend. Her whole involvement was because of the podcast. If we want to talk about Colleen friends, we see them with her on the screen: Jojo Siwa, Joey and Daniel. Some other people too like Manny Moa ..etc. if you know a bit about these og YTers, you’d know Trisha was never a Colleen friend. It is very new and it bothers me when people say, she should have said something before. The true question is: why is all of Colleen friends so silent and no one cares? Trisha also has BPD so she has attachment issues. She didn’t want to lose the new friend she was excited to have. Colleen was the one reaching out .. that even means a lot to her. She already had trauma about friendships, saw Colleen as a mum so I am pretty sure, she was trying to hold up to that and giving her the benefit of the doubt. Trisha wanted Colleen to be a good friend and trusted her to be over her past mistakes (because Trisha has turned a new page as a mom and is even saying that).
Edit: did you watch her other video .. you will see how Colleen approached her for the podcast yet abused her eagerness to be a friend and have a friend. She literally had the podcast set build by her husband in her house. Bought the next costume for her and colleen, customised gifts and mugs for them. Trisha is abusable and we all saw that before. It is actually very sad to see it. The girl has a history of having no friends growing up. She doesn’t make the best choices and 8 am pretty sure, she jumped on Colleen offer and friendship because she rarely get approached if never to do something or be with someone. Her options are limited and if, they will be from the people she met at parties or knew vaguely from her past which doesn’t help
I have autism ("high functioning", but reading people is still sometimes impossible for me) and your videos have really helped me to fill up my mental library of emotion-to-behavior/expression translations. Your videos help me to be better at empathising with the people around me. Thanks!
When I was watching this I had the same thought about how helpful this information is to folks who have trouble reading emotions!
Same, it really helps me to read people better because I really struggle with that.
Fellow HF autistic agreeing with you
Same here!
Srs it’s very helpful
Colleen's behavior towards kids has been atrocious, disgusting and criminal. But this Trisha situation shows another facet of Colleen's character.
Colleen is Mean. She is Malicious. She is Cruel. She is always looking for someone to spit on. To feel superior over. To hurt.
I don't care about the victimization she experienced when she perpetuates that abuse onto others. Colleen is not a safe person for anyone, and specifically seeks out vulnerable people to victimize.
She's now copystriked the h3 podcast for covering the apology
And she has kids?! That's scary
Unfortunately there's footage out there of Tricia being sexually expoitative with a 14 or so year old boy, talking laughingly about his body and having him sit on her lap.
That's how abusers work and that's exactly what she is (allegedly and whatnot)
I just wanna say this so it doesn't get lost. Colleen not only lied to Trisha's face, pretending to care about her, talking about how she thinks she's beautiful, how she can't even think of anything wrong with her body... She tried to perpetuate the lie and blame the fan that was underage for the nude photos and the nasty things *she* was saying about Trisha's body. Vile. There's so many more women like Colleen out there, I'm glad at least one of them has been exposed.
I appreciate that Trisha called Colleen out on her misogyny. It seems as though much of Colleen's "humor" contains a disdain for women and their bodies. This is not the type of role model children need.
100%
It feels like Colleen is just really insecure and sees other women as competition. She really hasn't grown up from when she got famous as a kid.
Definitely agree. From this to calling girls who wore dresses (no matter how long) "p*rn". to humiliating Becky, the girl who she called onstage for the yoga segment. Her "humor" revolves around making fun of and humiliating women.
@@violetspersonalaccount.2344 Yes! All while oversexualizing children and grooming them to think that incest is a hilarious joke.
Definitely wasn’t for me. I was 15 when she was pregnant with and gave birth to Flynn and her making comments about the fact that she was frustrated that her “bone stricter changed” and now she has wider hips made me think to my then widening hips as bad. And then it only got worse when at 16 they began to grow extremely rapidly.
Colleen managed to do two things i never thought possible: she united the whole of the RUclips Communitiy (ALL OF THEM) in their disgust and disbelief of her terrible response video. World peace was possible during that week cause one time every adult person on the internet united.
The second thing i never thought i would see: Trisha being in a video in that she seems like the most sane and adult person in this whole drama. She sitting there, making sense, talking about feelings in an honest and calm way.
It is good that people are made aware of the person this Colleen is and that one should be cautious around her and about letting kids be in contact with her.
Whole youtube community apart from her friends*
Joey G, Daniel, James Charles, manny mua,Laura lee etc…
@@LitcheTheArsm ok, i more meant the commentary community. That James has no problem with adults grooming minors is not surprising.
Yawn. Trisha has been making these ‘somber/serious’ videos for years. When she is victimizing herself you’ll see these videos. She has dozens of them. Everyone just circulates the screaming/crying ones
@@ilovemayo123its very possible that she makes these videos during remission for her mental health. BPD isn't something that can be cured it can only be treated and a lot of times, those of us with mental disorders will "get better" for an extended period of time just to cycle again
It’s clear Trisha has put in the work to improve herself, which makes what Colleen did to her even more heartbreaking (on top of disgusting and potentially illegal). Trisha has been controversial and cancelled for good reason in the past, but this video shows that people can actually grow and change for the better. It sucks this happened to her but she’s handling it really well.
I just feel so bad for Trisha. She thought she genuinely found a mommy friend and it ended up being the worst betrayal. No one deserves what they did to her.
I've never been a fan of Trisha but they seem so much more centered and at peace now, I'm glad
Don’t worry about calling her “they” lololol she got rid of that a while ago, it was fake and we knew, that’s only one of the problematic things Trisha has done, BUT ALL OF THAT ASIDE she IS a victim of Colleen’s and I wish her the best because this can’t be easy to deal with at all, she didn’t deserve what Colleen did to her, it’s so interesting to see her be a real person, I’ve never seen her act so put together, but that’s cause she’s in shock.
*she
If you really watch her, she’s not. She’s rather miserable
@@clintonharvey2384 trisha uses she/her and they/them pronouns but okay
@@clintonharvey2384 Oh that's ok, I do it out of habit to anyone I don't know the pronouns of, or just to generalize
Me feeling bad for trisha was not on my 2023 bingo card. In all seriousness, her video showed grace and class. She did a fantastic job. Its disgusting that colleen sought her out to be a friend when shes always been the butt of jokes. What kind of psychopath does that.
It is easier to keep using someone as a joke if they are kept close. Ive had many friendships where they were friends only to be close to get more things to use behind my back while pretending to be my friend. Its like the 'keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer' type of thing. Only instead of trish being the enemy, it is keeping the source of your jokes close so that you can control them.
I agree. Colleen said she sought Trisha out as a friend *specifically* so it would be easier to make fun of her behind her back because, as Trisha herself said, it’s easier to trust a real world friend over an online stranger.
This was manipulation from the start. Colleen was never Trisha’s friend. As someone who’s been betrayed by a person I trusted, this is so vile!
I remember a number of horrible things Trisha has been involved with so I am not a stan (I don't generally stan anyone tbh) but this is vile. Colleen seems immensely messed up and snide 😳 that kind of behaviour is just nasty. I am glad Trisha has distanced herself from this and how awful is it for someone being accused of sending your nudes to others behind your back not to refute it... But to say "it's out of context"... Just WOW
Someone whose actually reasonable. Trisha is very problematic, but that doesn't mean it's okay for people like Colleen to do what she did to her
It seems like Colleen targeted her because she knew she would be an unsympathetic victim. People who are already socially disparaged are often those that abuses target.
The part where you pointed out the defensiveness when talking about sticking with Colleen at first makes a lot of sense when Adam is out there saying he was sending her messages the whole time warning her but she blocked him. She mentions it kind of quickly when she says she Confronted Colleen but she was able to DARVO Adam so convincingly. I know I would be upset and defensive if I believed someone that was lying because I would be mad at myself already.
Adam was also a minor when he was sending Trish messages, that is generally how she responds to messages from minors even asside from the drama. But yea I would have believed my friend over a stranger on the Internet too but damn this must have been hard. Glad Adam is finally getting recognition and reassurance that he is believed and understood.
This growth and maturity from Tricia tho. Sucks that the situation is so bad and she was unfairly dragged into it but this level of authenticity and maturity from her we love to see it
From Trisha to *PATRICIA* 👏 🎉
(Edited cause I realized that apparently I forgot how to spell 😩)
@@PokyLilWolfPup REAL 👏🎉
The pause after "She told me she'd never sent pictures of me" could have been just Trisha reflecting on the fact that Colleen lied directly to their face, convincingly enough for Trisha to believe them. Maybe they're just feeling another wave of betrayal and humiliation from being lied to and believing it, and they needed a moment to collect themself.
I’m only 10 mins in, but I’ve never seen her more calm and mature and well spoken. That’s awesome.
It’s wild to me that Colleen linked Trisha to her ukulele video. She didn’t say or sing a single thing that exonerated her from the accusations around Trisha’s content nor did she even seemingly try to apologize. What did she think it would fix?
Colleen has been sexually inappropriate around a lot of people. She indeed dragged Trisha into it and putting her in great danger in the process. This is beyond losing a friendship - this was about framing Trisha
She thought trish would ignore all of the accusations since they were now friends. But also wanted trish on her side, which is why she linked the video. And trish admitted that she did believe colleen to an extent because she said she didnt do it, but trish already knew she was lying about it to her face and so now trish had to rethink every 'friendly' moment with colleen over the years, but particularly the past few months that they grew closer. It is heartbreaking for trish who just wanted an honest and true friend after all they have been through. Trish will find that person(s) in time.
Colleen seems to actually believe she did nothing wrong
Trisha has come a long way! She did a lot of DBT (Dialectical behavior therapy) work, and I have had a couple of rounds with it as well. She's for sure using Wise Mind. It means we have two sides, our emotional side and our reasoning side. If you are in emotional mind, you let your emotions get the better of you. We have seen Trish in that state for many yrs. Reasoning mind is like not allowing or ignoring your emotions. I always think of Mr. Spock from Star Trek. What you learn in DBT is that your goal is to be in "Wise Mind." Meaning, you acknowledge your feelings, emotions, etc BUT you try to communicate them using your Reasonable Mind. Basically, it's the meeting of emotional mind and reasonable mind. Self-soothing is also apart of DBT classes as well. *DBT helps with building four major skills mindfulness, distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, emotional regulation.* I think she did a great job, allowing herself to feel her hurt and anger but not letting them overwhelm her to the point of not getting her thoughts across to the listener(s.)
What does DBT entail? It has always sounded interesting and I've heard it is helpful
Never mind I didn't see your full message explaining it lol
I love this comment!!
I’ve been comparing the emotional side to a puppy and the reasoning side to an AI.
I’ve yet to get a handle on Wise Mind, but baby steps are still steps!
Having watched Trisha for years and years, I knew she was super against talking to minors. She took so much heat because she wouldn’t let a 17 year old in her house. I give her major props, even if she took a while to come out
Trisha has actually grown so much and I appreciate that. No more lonley emotional kitchen floor vids, GROWTH.😊
And no more Ckin nugget! But you're right I am happy to see her growth from that time. :)
@LiveANoursishedLife she seems far more stable, it's wonderful considering she has her baby and Moses now... so much more to really live for aside nonsense Drama
Nah, she's never apologized for the awful stuff she did in the past, she's living for this drama because it's making her money. Just because she's speaking slowly doesn't mean she's grown. Justice for Mr. Riney.
@@akastardustsomebody with sense finally. She’s a horrible person & this is 100% her just doing typical TP shit
@akastardust i understand that, not saying she did not do horrible things... all I am saying is that she has changed even if a little bit. BPD is quite a ride... she seems to be actively trying to work on herself. Apologies may come later, but for what it's worth it's nice to see people change for the better no matter how horrible their past actions may have been. He was never actually arrested nor convicted obviously and I would never condone false allegations however... she did what she did and said what she said. Others have been through far worse imo.
Seems that Colleen views Trisha in a very inhumane way. She is a figure to be mocked, a tool to help with manipulating kids, and someone reminds Colleen of her power. For years Colleen has been mocking and belittling her behind her back, and now that it’s coming out, a potential ally has been lost.
It’s sad she is embarrassed for Coleen and doesn’t even realize she has a right to feel embarrassed for herself. Being a sex worker is not an excuse for people in your inner circle to sit around and laugh at you. That’s a different level of betrayal and hurt.
I think what she means is she aa a sex worker doesn't need to be embarrassed and it's Colleen who has done things to be embarrassed of
I think it's a bit of both. The fact is, Trish's sex work has given her a level of financial freedom she wouldn't otherwise be able to achieve. That is something to be proud of, really, but still, anyone is gonna feel a certain level of shame about the whole thing, and that is normal.
Colleen was just picking at that and making fun of it, which is just embarrassing by itself because it makes her look jealous and gross, but even worse because it makes her seem jealous of Trish
For anyone who has or knows someone with BPD, Trisha has made massive massive strides in taking control of her life. She is so much more careful with her words and where she gets involved in things.
I hope Trisha is doing well moving forward with support from her family and stays stable through all this. I respect her calm thoughtful response
Definitely not scripted either, the major pauses while tying to think of the right way to say what she wants to say, I have been there, when you genuinely need to stop and just think of how you want to word something. She was very calm, and collected and I see a lot of work and growth within her.
Trisha’s video felt very raw, being a mother really changed her mentality
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@ritaakalele4801 ?
@@Southerncomfort420 yes
Lmao what? She didn't care until she learned Colleen made fun of her, she was more then happy to profit off her grooming friend in their podcast and YT vids while also staying quiet about the grooming.
@@Southerncomfort420there*
Yes because she’s still married to the guy who was caught also talking inappropriately to underaged girls 😐 she hasn’t changed she just hides it now
I would love to see closed captioning on your videos in the future. I genuinely enjoy them but it's sometimes hard to know what's going on because my auditory processing isn't the best. That aside, I love your stuff and appreciate the work you do.
You can turn on closed captioning by hitting the icon in upper right of screen. It’s a CC in a box. That icon isn’t visible with the vid running but will reappear just by touching the screen.
Yes! ^^^ I always use the captions and they very much work :)
My biggest question is that while the internet is processing this drama, how come there is no serious, criminal investigation into Colleen? Drama is drama but holy cow man.
There is though, as far as I know even Northern Ireland police are involved because Adam is from Derry. It hasn't been widely reported or anything but that doesn't mean nothing is happening. Also could be part of why Colleen was advised not to say anything because it's just more evidence to be used against her.
@@hleebegNo, you see, her legal team told her she couldn't "say" anything about it! They didn't say she couldn't sing about it! She's totally not in legal dog shit /s
@@rosesweetcharlotte the ultimate legal loophole
People are showing their asses left and right trying to say Trisha somehow deserved to have her paywall-protected content distributed to minors by someone that was pretending to be her friend for years. If you believe in karma, you may want to watch out for it yourself! Trishas past doesn't excuse Colleens illegal activities!!! Like, say you're a victim blamer without saying you're a victim blamer 😒
Seriously, it sounds like Trish was trying to protect herself and others by keeping her content semi-private and under a paywall. And it sounds like she pretty explicitly didn't message minors even if they messaged her first.
She was doing everything she could to protect herself and her brand.
Here's my take on the nonverbal display you clocked when Trisha said that Colleen told her she would "NEVER share photos of me": Trisha was likely quoting directly what Colleen told her.
The vehemence of the word "NEVER" makes me think Trisha is re-experiencing that interaction. Trisha has talked fairly openly about having a particular sensitivity to betrayal and feeling as if she is being made the butt of a joke. I think Trisha is having a response similar to the one many people with severe trauma experience: she's wondering why she didn't clock it at the time, or if she did, why she didn't trust her instincts.
I think what you might be seeing is Trisha questioning every moment of interaction with Colleen and wondering if any of it was genuine. I think Trisha is pretty devastated by it.
Honestly, I hope legal action is brought against Coleen. Like Trisha said, this is illegal. And disgusting.
Video suggestion. Have you heard of Willard Miller? The teenager who killed his Spanish teacher. There are videos on the Law and Crime Network of his trial. I found his apology to the family of the victim strange. A lot of people think he was suppressing a grin and laughter. It would be cool to see your observation.
I hope he does a video on this. I personally know both kids involved and their families. The whole thing has been very shocking for the community.
I honestly must say, as an ex sex worker, shes absolutely right. I appreciate her saying that a lot. We are human. And some very terrible things have happened to me as well around that area. So 🤷 strippers are also sex workers it's sometimes NOT a choice and that is where it gets so so messy and just so traumatizing. The sex trafficking is at an all time high and no, we do not need to degrade these women or men. Its so so sad when it involves a child!! Thats next level disgusting pedophilia that i cant even imagine.
When you finally made progress in turning your life around and you thought you had some cute, dramafree friendships and then it turns out like this ... now that's just shitty! Kudos to Trisha for handling it like this.
Not a big fan of Trisha, but this was REALLY mature of her. I'm honestly proud of her for this video against Colleen. Good job Trisha! 😊
My heart breaks for Trisha. Colleen and her little posse were so cruel to her. Behind her back and passive aggressively to her face... I know Adam is also a victim and my heart goes out to him as well....that being said, Adam is so mean in regards to Trisha as well. Even now with both of them being victimized.
Shame on Colleen. This whole situation is just a damn shame.
This. Adam is so entitled with thinking people need to listen to him. I don't fucking get whybAdam or even this other guy didn't just make sockpuppets and send the DMs and nothing more. Instead she gets publicly humiliated twice. Once by Colleen and again by volleen's victims. They should have just started with the evidence. They can be victims, they are also little shits.
Don’t blame Adam for that. Adam was being groomed and manipulated to be mean to Trisha in the regards of the photos
Yeah Adam is still trying to say that Trisha only cares because she is involved which is kind of a bold, messed up assumption to make. Obviously if you think someone is your friend you're going to give them the benefit of the doubt and believe what they say first.
@@Aloysius_OHare I'm talking about right now. Not back then. As he has grown, he is maturing which is clear. However- knowing what he knows now, he is extremely harsh towards Trisha.
@@BellaBoop69 I mean yeah he could let up but you have to realize shes not that great of a person either like shes done some fk up shit too. I do think Adam does need to relax a bit with the vengeance
He should make a "fake apology video" for something he never did. But to show how easy it is to manipulate ppl when you know psychology and body language 🤔 that would be so entertaining
7:28 she said she doesn’t like hanging out with underaged ppl but she hung out with Trevor Moran (an underaged child) 🙄 and made all kinds of inappropriate comments to them WITH Shane Dawson…
But anyway.. I think trish only spoke up cuz it affected her.
What i don't understand is how Colleen hasn't been brought up on criminal charges yet. Unbelievable.
I feel genuine sadness for Trisha as well. Someone she trusted and thought was a friend basically lied to her and did unspeakable things with images of Trisha she had zero business sharing with anyone at all.
Wasn’t a huge Trisha fan but have seen enough of her videos and posts to know that this was real, raw, tough and heartbreaking for her. The fact that she apologized for something Colleen did with her pictures to a fan without her knowledge and yet Colleen can’t muster up anything real for anyone she’s hurt.
Trisha seems like a changed person to me. I feel she genuinely means that she’s been working hard on herself. I hope this really makes her life, especially as a mom, a much happier experience for her.
I don’t think she’s comfortable calling Colleen a friend. I think that’s why she started squirming. She was talking about the friendship.
She “self soothed” when talking bout minors because she had an underage guy on her channel & the conversation between the 3 was very inappropriate.
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❤ Could you do Liam Payne's recent apology 'I'm back' it's made me feel odd because he talks fast and avoids camera when addressing his wrongs but when he talks about himself, goals and personality he stops being so jittery and absent. I'm curious as to how you would interpret this! Thank you❤
Thanks, Logan, for being a source of great, rather unbiased information about this entire situation. I feel like we all benefit from your expertise in that we now have a more informed opinion.
Trisha actually lies in this video. There’s loads of tweets and even a video with Shane Dawson where she was inappropriate with a minor. So…. Not completely genuine but doesn’t change what Colleen did to her.
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I feel bad for everyone victimized by Colleen's actions. I especially feel bad for Colleen's children for being exposed to potential bullying in the future for their mother's transgressions.
And bullying from their mother as well! Narcissistic parents can start off being affectionate and caring when their kids are little and dependent on them, but they can get nasty and vindictive when their children start to contradict them and have their own opinions. I speak from experience. It can be hell.
How is Coleen still staying silent after the ukulele backlash? Is she writing a theater play now?
I hope but I doubt that you’ll address the fact that she flat out lied about the working with minors thing. As if we don’t have the videos of her, shane, and a then 16 year old Trevor (now Trevi) Moran where she was OBNOXIOUSLY over secksual and vulgar
I sure hope a lawsuit is filed against Colleen regarding the nudes. I'm not a fan of Trisha, but what Colleen did was uncalled for and incredibly violating. It is also incredibly illegal to share nudes to someone who was under 18 at the time. It might be past the statue of limitations though, but I sure hope not. Not sure who would file that suit in that case. But someone should. Colleen should not get away with what she did. I will note with Trisha, she was showing some other signs that I noticed in her body language. The moving of her chair back and forth and the way she kept looking away from the camera. It's likely agitation and processing what happened, just something I noticed though. It still came across as genuine to me.
Sorry. Had to tune out. TP should not have any platform. Surprised you put her on here. My opinion only.
Trisha is full of sh*t. She knew about the situation with Adam and Colleen 3 years ago, and she still chose Colleen's side, even though she claims to believe all victims. She only came out with this BS video because she heard Colleen body shamed her. Trisha has a history of being inappropriate regarding minors, that's why she didn't care about the situation before hand. Then Trisha came out with the second video, still whining for sympathy, and now she gets a tax write off on all the stuff she showed. Trisha is cunning. F her and Colleen.
Good to see you've put another video out!
Around 22:38 when he's talking about her rapid look away and flutter-blinking around the word "never," and saying that the flutter-blink is usually a sign of intense psychological processing: she's probably processing the fact that someone she considered a friend straight up LIED to her. Like, got caught with evidence and still decides to lie about it. As if the initial betrayal wasn't enough.
Thank u for covering this! I can tell ur empath just by how watching this content even affects u as u watch it. I understand what you do can be draining , especially for an empath! Thank u for using your energy to spread awareness to us!
In my opinion if someone is obsessed with making fun of your naked body and keep looking at them it's either that she's jealous which is most likely or she likes you sexually. She was bullying her about her body because of internal homophobia.
Colleen has an ED so I think it was that Trish was like her ED personified. C has always been super disgusting when talking about "bigger" women.
@@hleebeg Colleen is disgusting either way.
I hope Trisha will find someway to reconcile this and consider her options since Calling use some of her business material illegally, to sexually harass her and groom a minor. She put Trisha in a lot of danger.
trisha seems good in this like everyone is saying. i hope she can get even more healing and growth ❤️
Not me getting my feelings hurt way to quick cause I heard "oh hey idiots" lmaooo
Thank you for your content! It has helped me so much as someone who sucks at nonverbal communication
What was done to her is a huge betrayal and horrible thing. I hope she presses charges against C, if that is possible. Or sues her.
The non-verbal communication she displays around 22:30 when she mentions she asked Colleen if she'd ever shared photos of her, to which Colleen responded with "no" comes across to me as a sort of non-verbal "I can't believe she lied to my face".
When Trisha Paytas is the voice of reason….
Congrats to her on the work she’s clearly been doing on herself. I hope she finds better “friends” to help support that.
Thanks for your content man! Always enjoy it and your attention to detail is out of this world😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤
You know you screwed up big-time when Trisha Paytas is a victim. She's done a lot of ignorant things, but Colleen takes the 🍰.
Trisha has really worked on their mental health and they have been on a good way to healing. You can tell they’ve been putting themselves first and has learned a lot about themselves.
along with feeling a sense of authenticity within their video, I appreciated the way they spoke with acknowledgement of the complexity of the issue. she acknowledged the way you DO stand by someone you know at first in some cases, and that's not wrong- but also speaking about the betrayal and sometimes shame you feel when you find out your loyalty was misplaced. Idk, after the ukulele video this just made me feel a bit more hopeful or something.
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Siding with and feeling sorry for Trisha was definitely not on my bingo card but here we are! I really appreciate the seriousness and sincerity she put into this video.
I was never a fan of trisha before but as someone who had a similar experience happen when i was 16 in a group chat i think i can kind of relate to that kind of betrayal and embarrassment. You should never send nudes or try to get nudes out of a minor and always make sure they arent underage. Its sickening to see the lengths pwople are willing to go to humiliate others to make themselves feel better about their own insecurities.
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I'm not sure I would've been able to be calm after what has happened. (One thing just popped into my head - imagine if you would gender swap ALL the people 'involved' in this Colleen situation. Colleen and Trisha were males, male nudes would be sent to girls etc. It truly is different for men and women in so many ways.)
Wait, Colleen sent nudes to minors? I thought she sent a bra or something like in a public chat. That's so much worse. That's criminal.
@@happilyevernever4289 Colleen made an account to Trisha's OnlyFans and sent nudes and p*rn videos to her underage and of-age fans. Colleen also had 'viewing parties' at her home were she would invite people and they would look at Trisha's OnlyFans content and make fun of her.
Yes this is where Colleen is alleged to have broken the law. Colleen is in a lot of trouble hence that useless video. She knows she’s up shite’s creek
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PLEASE DO AN EPISODE ON JOHNNY SILVESTRI and all his lies on his channel and the interviews from SWOOP. Johnny is worse than Colleen BY FAR. You’ll love all the misaligning of nonverbal cues as much as I did. I do a little what you do for fun and professionally. I am a mental health counselor and also a psychologist. Please!
Hi! I have a question about how things like autism, sociopathy/psychopathy and other things that can impact how a person displays emotions might impact your analysis of them? Just a curious thought! 😊
He has mentioned that those conditions DO affect how well he's able to read a person. And so he usually has to take into account if they have one of those conditions. Because they usually won't display emotions or body language necessarily the same way a neurotypical person would. So yeah, he has said in the past that it's a piece of information that he takes into account when he's doing baseline research on a person before reading them.
@@AnxietyRat that’s so interesting! Thank you so much!
that eye flutter around 13:30 was probably a (re-)processing that it was a lie/she was lied to by someone she thought was safer imo, like soemthing along the lines of having not said it outloud yet or just the convo replaying in her head. shes handling it like a champ tho, i can see she's definitely done work on how they handle things.
Trisha has made many bad decisions and mistakes in the past, but for the past couple of years, especially since becoming a mother, they has really grown as a person and shown true maturity and I am happy to stand by them now as a person.
People clown on Trisha saying years when she had only stayed out of drama for one year. Like yall don't know. Maybe she has made little choices here and there moving away from inserting herself in drama when she would have otherwise. Like the shit thing about bpd recovery is that the largest change is what you don't see. The lack of action is the hardest part and no one will ever see that painful struggle because all they see is ✨️nothing✨️
I congratulate Trisha for bettering herself and moving forward with her personal growth❤. Hope she keeps at it.
And the nonverbal spike is her processing the fact she was lied to. The fact that everything this person, who you cared about and who you considered anfriend, so far as to be willing to stand by her as support even though she had done some awful things just so she wouldn't feel abandoned like you did, lied to your face.
That's what I thought too. That Trisha just needed a moment to process that they were lied to so coldly and unapologetically by someone they liked and trusted. Lots of pain and humiliation in those moments.
I agree. It's almost like she's just realizing how betrayed she was.
THIS is what change looks like. not how colleen was claiming to have changed in her first apology. this is not the same trisha we all hated a couple years ago. she is mature. she has grown. she has grown so much stronger mentally it shows in her face. colleen looks like a child in her video, and trisha looks like an adult in this one. that dynamic is shocking but not unwelcome on trisha's behalf. this was a lovely video from her and i hope colleen can possibly take some insight from her maturity and ACTUALLY improve her behaviors, although i hope she has no opportunity to speak to children that are not her own again.
Loving your content! Please keep it coming! I hope you are doing well
i turned 20 this july, i would not date an 18 year old and probably not a 19 year old. i think the maturity difference is so different in just those two years. cannot imagine talking to tweens and kids all the time.
I've avoided Trisha content for over a year and finding out she got married and has a baby girl came as such a shock. it sounds like she really has gotten better and I'm glad she is growing up and realizing how messy she was. I don't watch her so idk how much she has actually changed but I can tell she HAS changed quite a bit which is great. Trish handled this situation very well and mature.
Darlings, they should both be removed. Jesus Christ.
love seeing how most of the people is see in the comments rooting for trisha are from people whose communities weren't harmed by her actions lol... yes it's good that she addressed this issue but that's about it? it doesn't mean y'all have to bow down to her now... in the end, she wouldn't have shared this if she wasn't involved (colleen shared trisha's nude photos to underaged children and other people). adam, one of the people who was a boy when he got sent her photos by colleen, says that he has warned trisha about colleen and stuff and trisha ignored and blocked him lol. again, horrible what happened to trisha and i can't imagine having a fake friend like colleen do me like that, but bringing those very obvious issues to light doesn't mean trisha has changed or is going to apologize for her bigoted past.
As someone with a personality disorder that causes extensive emotions I usually rapidly blink when in trying really hard not to cry mixed with the emotional processing of why I'm trying to say. I'd assume that's what was going on with Trisha as she even said her personality disorder causes her to react very emotionally to a wide variety of triggers
Same
Yeah, I saw it as fighting back tears while she had to recall that someone she regarded as a friend had lied to her. Had screenshots and video evidence and still Coleen wouldn't even own up to *anything*
I don't know much about stuff like this but I agree. In general I get really skeptical about stuff like this because someone like me with joint pain, anxiety and autism, without a veeeeery solid baseline, who the heck knows what he would get from reading my face. A random wince here because something hurt, a closing of my eyes and deep breath because a sound in the background spiked my anxiety, changing positions when it starts hurting, fiddling with stuff because I'm stimming etc.
A huge difference this time around is that before, trisha would put herself in drama, she would look for it. This time, shes being dragged into it. She has really grown over the past two years or so. We dont have to forget her problematic behavior in the past, but we can acknowledge her growth.
For some reason the audio while watching this on my TV makes it sound like your voice is shaky af as if you're about to cry and I was getting so worried for a min there 😂
Actually those signs of defensiveness started when she's talking about the internet's response to Colleen, and her saying whether or not she's guilty or innocent, she's likely thinking in her mind of examples of how the internet and mob attacks and mob justice can go out of hand and HER HAVING MENTAL ISSUES, also alluded to her facing potential issues of getting canceled and censored so I feel like her defensiveness is more around this than moralizing Colleen's behavior and apology video.
This is the slowest and quietest I've ever seen her speak. You can tell it hurt :/
ive never been this early for one of your videos !! so nice to see u cover this :)
I love how much Trisha has grown as a person. Proof any of us can grow and change for the better.
I wasn't fond of Trishsa after all the drama around her over the years, but seeing how Colleen hurt her breaks my heart. Nobody deserves to have their nudes spread around without their knowledge or consent. I hope Trisha recovers from this mentally and emotionally without any more damage to her already complicated mental health situation. Trisha deserves some peace and quiet, she's worked so hard to be a better person.
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I’ve been thinking, how hilarious would it be if this man broke down The Note situation from Jersey Shore season 2😂😂😂 If he broke down how Angelina and Snooki witnessed Ron creeping, explained who in reality should have spoken up and point out the COUNTLESS chances they had to tell her😂😂 And then laugh about what actually ended up happening. Idk but i’d love that