Becoming selfish is the best thing I ever did

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  • Опубликовано: 31 дек 2024

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  • @kapilsinghnegi.
    @kapilsinghnegi. 2 года назад +46

    • Drop everything that disturbs your peace.✌️
    • If you are your own priority then, you are priority everywhere you go because you get more of what you are.🙌

  • @manuel8617
    @manuel8617 2 года назад +90

    This is the first time in the past 15 years that I have felt a genuine excitement for the future , my self confidence is rising I feel worthy now , my happiness is starting to generate internally .Your channel as well as the gym , meditation , and running have been a massive positive impact in my life mentally , emotionally , physically and spiritually.
    From the bottom of my heart , I thank you Stellar may life bring you whatever you desire.

    • @dannyerlebach6631
      @dannyerlebach6631 2 года назад +2

      Love to hear it manual keep up the positivity, and try subliminals homeboy

    • @Sh0n0
      @Sh0n0 2 года назад

      What age are you

  • @YAVIAH
    @YAVIAH 2 года назад +59

    My mother and sister have always had a relationship ruled by extreme masculine energy and the natural emotional lack of control in women. Because of the love I have for them, I spent many years trying to change them for the better, which was a mistake because then I didn't understand that women are and always will be chaotic by nature. The fact is that after a while dealing with the sadness of what I knew would be their sad fate because of their attitudes towards themselves and life, I separated them from my life to a great extent and left them to their fate, and since then , oxygen began to flow properly through my body, I was able to gain total mental clarity, properly focus on my health, career, finances and myself in general, managed to get my life in order, and now live my best days while working constantly trying to be the best version of myself.

    • @salvadorflores1124
      @salvadorflores1124 2 года назад +1

      Keep going brother

    • @Aniketkumar-je8io
      @Aniketkumar-je8io 2 года назад +5

      awesome ✨....these so called family members drain the energy....pray for them but from a distance...

    • @Howard2k3k
      @Howard2k3k 2 года назад

      Beautiful. Godspeed

    • @SasukeUchiha-xy4vj
      @SasukeUchiha-xy4vj 2 года назад +6

      I am the second born of 2. It took me a while to figure out women do not care about you as long as they get through their day. I cut off all family ties to find myself in the void. I can relate to what you said 100 fold. What you have was always in you. I turned 31 August 2nd. Finding myself has been a long road. I've suffered all the way up. I've looked at connections and people differently to find peace and love in myself. Humans are not the answer. Society is not the answer. I'm not religious but, a God does exist. There is beauty even in despair. I wish you well on your journey

    • @Aras483
      @Aras483 2 года назад +3

      @@SasukeUchiha-xy4vj Agreed on woman do not care about you hundred percent, unfortunately you realize it a bit late if you are the younger one in your family, having no option but to witness betrayel of the loved ones who you know your entire life. Our job is to protect and provide but one can not keep doing that if he doesnt start with himself.

  • @Mr.Gul0
    @Mr.Gul0 2 года назад +46

    Crazy how these things are never mentioned in schools.

    • @thelofipimp
      @thelofipimp 2 года назад +13

      Or from your own family

    • @mikeward1337
      @mikeward1337 2 года назад +1

      Blows my mind

    • @yahikoksm5125
      @yahikoksm5125 Год назад +3

      And why would a "School" mention this?

    • @cheporestrepo
      @cheporestrepo Год назад

      Schools dont care about you, only to program you like the rest

    • @goosegod9901
      @goosegod9901 7 месяцев назад +3

      Schools are meant to teach you how to be a mindless worker drone.

  • @OstirBass
    @OstirBass 2 года назад +77

    This video helped me to break the chains from my toxic mother!
    30 years of pain is coming to an and, I'm moving out without money but I will stay strong!
    Ty!

    • @nicocontreras5366
      @nicocontreras5366 2 года назад +7

      Go for it !

    • @anshulwasnik6224
      @anshulwasnik6224 2 года назад +5

      All the best bro

    • @charlesvela1800
      @charlesvela1800 2 года назад +7

      I wish you great success in your next part of your life!

    • @OstirBass
      @OstirBass 2 года назад +3

      Thank you all dear fellas!

    • @romeosantos3261
      @romeosantos3261 2 года назад +5

      Great for you man!!!! I wish I had that courage to throw myself out their. I live with my mom but the major reason for me is I have a special needs brother who 200 lbs 5’7 ft who suffers from seizure and he goes between my dad and mom but mostly stays with my mom. I going through school to become a medical technician which is a fast course so I have a better chance to be on my feet.

  • @donnypresley5521
    @donnypresley5521 7 месяцев назад +2

    "Self is not something you find, self is something you create."

  • @Yarblocosifilitico
    @Yarblocosifilitico 2 года назад +8

    Yep, I'm on it after decades of being a people pleaser. I still have much work to do but, man... what a relief!

  • @christophernyaga9818
    @christophernyaga9818 2 года назад +23

    Well articulated brother
    As Abraham Hicks agrees when asked. "Yes we are teaching selfishness because that's the only way one can be in alignment with source energy"

    • @wojtekwilk3938
      @wojtekwilk3938 2 года назад +3

      Exactly, there should be a different word for it.. Like "Self-Ness"

  • @JohnBradydoesstuff
    @JohnBradydoesstuff 2 года назад +5

    Our separation from now. Read, the infinite. The infinite is now. The now is infinite. Wow. I cannot express how grateful I am for the channel.

  • @faranjaved4001
    @faranjaved4001 2 года назад +4

    I am moving out next month to another city. Had enough of listening to family fight all the time. Nothing is more important than my peace of mind. Peace is the only state in which I can grow & expand.

  • @Megaliberator-mt4dc
    @Megaliberator-mt4dc 2 года назад +32

    I found myself in a dilema ...but I think you've just given me the right medication
    Edit: you drop everything that disturbs your peace...I kept coming back to listen to this
    line

    • @Daniel.Kourie1
      @Daniel.Kourie1 2 года назад +1

      Happy to hear Romeo, I think you know what the right action for yourself is now

  • @gabrieljordan8015
    @gabrieljordan8015 2 года назад +21

    My mother and 3 sisters are constantly at war with each other and tearing the family apart. After getting older and wiser I finally told them to all off and said I'm not letting your fu**ing drama get in the way of my enjoying my life.
    Wish I didn't wait until my late 30s to figure out that I need to stop pleasing everybody and start living for me and me only.

    • @YAVIAH
      @YAVIAH 2 года назад +1

      My mother and sister have always had a relationship ruled by extreme masculine energy and the natural emotional lack of control in women. Because of the love I have for them, I spent many years trying to change them for the better, which was a mistake because then I didn't understand that women are and always will be chaotic by nature. The fact is that after a while dealing with the sadness of what I knew would be their sad fate because of their attitudes towards themselves and life, I separated them from my life to a great extent and left them to their fate, and since then , oxygen began to flow properly through my body, I was able to gain total mental clarity, properly focus on my health, career, finances and myself in general, managed to get my life in order, and now live my best days while working Constantly trying to be the best version of myself.

    • @Aras483
      @Aras483 2 года назад +1

      Same situation with one less sister, I learnt that bit late as well but we have the knowledge now, we won't allow anyone to take our energy out of love we have for them, first take of yourself then them. Otherwise you will never be appreciated nor cared for, especially as a man.

    • @GORILLA_PIMP
      @GORILLA_PIMP Год назад

      AMEN!!

    • @GORILLA_PIMP
      @GORILLA_PIMP Год назад

      ​@@YAVIAH
      Yeah man most chics have really negative hateful energy
      Some can hide it better than others but sooner or later you'll notice it manifest
      AKA "jezebel spirit"

  • @veenukrishnashah610
    @veenukrishnashah610 2 года назад +8

    U always come at the right time

  • @Jesusisking235
    @Jesusisking235 5 месяцев назад

    I absolutely love the word selfishness and believe that our society has made it a negative word. Healthy selfishness is simply self-care while narcissist selfishness is hurting others in the process. I am so much better and help people so much more when my first priority is always self-care. My selfishness never hurts anyone except those who are envious or want to control me.

  • @Esoteric.cem020
    @Esoteric.cem020 2 года назад +4

    A few hours ago I was in the bathroom and I was thinking to myself ''you gotta put yourself first in this life''. Crazy how I am seeing this video pop up on RUclips. Is it coincidence? I think not...

    • @paulbacarreza6682
      @paulbacarreza6682 2 года назад +1

      It's your guardian angel speaking and giving you a sign that you're taking the right path.

  • @juliovillagran4105
    @juliovillagran4105 2 года назад +6

    What a great video. Self sufficiency is very underrated in today's world. Thank you 🙂

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder 2 года назад +1

      Build yourself into a man of strength and character, a man of your word and be the kind of man you would like to see in the world around you.
      If you like to be challenged by ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would look up to.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

  • @co-creatortheatre8514
    @co-creatortheatre8514 2 года назад

    Thanks!

  • @basementdwellerredditmomen2655
    @basementdwellerredditmomen2655 2 года назад +5

    I just realized this today and you are very right. I have a classmate and he is just so confidfent so I was wondering why and how? And it is because he just lives his life the way he wants without getting clingy and he just simply doesn't care and that is very magnetic. Thank you for making this video it made my assumptions true about being a magnetic person.

  • @Koccil100
    @Koccil100 2 года назад +7

    All facts!

  • @CaelumTerraNevisMorimur
    @CaelumTerraNevisMorimur 2 года назад +9

    Perfect timing bro needed this at this moment in my life and for that thank you.

  • @seba180789
    @seba180789 2 года назад +4

    I love this. Thank you

  • @mikhailstrueformation8422
    @mikhailstrueformation8422 2 года назад

    Based on my understanding, If you have abundance within then you don't need to find abundance on outside. People who work so hard just to get the affection or attention of other people have no abundance within. Because in their mind they are not worthy so they need to do extra work to feel satisfied also to gain the validation of others they are craving because they are hungry. But, the selfish man that is talking about on this video is always full. He don't need to work extra hard because he is already full within full of abundance! He no longer need the abundance from without. I think while typing this I'm in a flow state!
    I really like your concept Mr. Stellar. Thank you for this!

  • @calmcalm6203
    @calmcalm6203 2 года назад +4

    The best word is love.
    Love smartly. I think alot of ppl are talking about been "selfish"because they r loving people who don't love them.

  • @felicecancellara4524
    @felicecancellara4524 9 месяцев назад

    I feel an immense power after this video 🔥

  • @haiderraza2625
    @haiderraza2625 2 года назад +3

    Better to self love or self respect instead of selfish

  • @oipo4607
    @oipo4607 2 года назад +5

    each new video makes me so much stronger, thanks for your dedication

  • @AugustusAsgeir
    @AugustusAsgeir 2 года назад

    Needed this, I work a lot 5-6 days a week plus in university full-time

  • @giovanniciancaglini5720
    @giovanniciancaglini5720 2 года назад +1

    Great channel for succesful souls. Simple and straightforward truths.

  • @manojtiwari2927
    @manojtiwari2927 2 года назад

    Grateful to have you

  • @sarashameem3530
    @sarashameem3530 2 года назад

    I agree, the only things were thought is that 'you should be kind to others' '

  • @nicocontreras5366
    @nicocontreras5366 2 года назад +2

    Very good video, I have always thought the same as society put us the sacrifice and suffering hat that we should love but the focus has to be in ourselves even to serve others better.

  • @unbounded33
    @unbounded33 Год назад

    Awesome as usual. Thanks!

  • @flm8580
    @flm8580 2 года назад

    You are so wise beyond your years whoever's wrote these lines.🤳🏻👑👑👑👑👑👑👑

  • @FlamesofInferno
    @FlamesofInferno 2 года назад

    Thank you for this upload.
    This resonates with me.

  • @andrespatino2761
    @andrespatino2761 2 года назад

    Bro I needed this!!!!! Thanks stellar!!!!!! God bless!!!!

  • @anandasaad9091
    @anandasaad9091 2 года назад

    This channel is the best thing happened to me for a long time. Thank you very much. If you would make a course I would be happy to buy it. Keep up the good work. Have a great day mate.

  • @lordsezan0986
    @lordsezan0986 2 года назад +2

    we need more clips about detachment

  • @graceforallministries6392
    @graceforallministries6392 2 года назад

    This video is such a motivation to me.

  • @jonathanpario
    @jonathanpario 2 года назад

    Stellars recent videos have been about self love and choosing your self .Watching these + positive mindset and listening to G-eazy is giving me some other kind of energy 💥.His music is egoic but its hitting the spot and its better than being needy and we all gotta start somewhere.

  • @BennyFergusonJr100
    @BennyFergusonJr100 2 года назад

    This is perfect excellent and exactly in line with what I have been cultivating within myself. Thank you

  • @bighandsome9165
    @bighandsome9165 2 года назад

    Used to listen to your videos everyday at the end of last year. Just popped back in to check out a few recent ones and I have found that I am already doing these things now subconsciously. Going to use these reminders to heal an injury before I race this weekend.

  • @Unoreversecard0224
    @Unoreversecard0224 2 года назад

    I'm 100% Agree ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee 2 года назад

    Being sovereign to yourself trumps everything. :)

  • @kruzzo1569
    @kruzzo1569 2 года назад

    The explanation is very well felt and fixed within

  • @chandraprakashbagri2900
    @chandraprakashbagri2900 2 года назад

    Spiritual selfishness is the eternal condition for infinite material abundance.

  • @fransimeri484
    @fransimeri484 2 года назад

    Learn to work harder on yourself than you do on your job. If you work hard on your job you can make a living, but if you work hard on yourself you'll make a fortune.” Jim Rohn
    Fortune could be money, self esteem, courage, etc.

  • @rishavdobriyal8201
    @rishavdobriyal8201 2 года назад

    Well explained man

  • @kevinmcmanus6466
    @kevinmcmanus6466 Год назад

    Gamn this video nailed it

  • @yogi_aesthete
    @yogi_aesthete 2 года назад +2

    You get more of what you are... Wow man!

  • @bronx452
    @bronx452 2 года назад +2

    Omg, how would you be more available emotionally and give her a better love than anyone else if only you are your number one priority? A relationship is always about two ppl and you have to be able to go through conflicts. That's part of emotional maturity. When you take in consideration the other person's best interest too and try to find a common ground. If you always detach yourself when there's drama, you'll be completely emotionally unavailable. And yes, this type of selfishness is attractive indeed, till one day you realize the detached person absolutely doesn't care about you, hence you rather move on to find someone who actually can love others, too.
    It's important to love ourselves but always choosing ourselves when someone else has problems makes us someone who's unable to deal with the duality of life and ppl, the good and the bad. I feel sorry that this type of spiritual message is everywhere around and I see more and more lonely, "I'm chosing myself" ppl.
    If everyone would be choosing themselves in this world, noone would care to help you out when you're in trouble, no selfless acts of service would be available to anyone. too many ppl out there justify their selfishness with this type of undeveloped spirituality and let others and their romantic partners down. Good luck.

    • @smitra1335
      @smitra1335 2 года назад +1

      Being selfish doesn't mean being self-centred. It's just that you are (or feel) fulfilled. When you try to love people and expect them to love you back because you loved them, you'll inevitably get hurt because love is unconditional. There is a saying "If one doesn't love themself, then they can't love others." Love yourself immensely and you'll find yourself loving others without even trying. It's because you're not loving them for your self-interest, i. e. loving others so that they will love you back, not because you love them. That's neediness.
      There's nothing wrong with wanting affection and attention in return, but it gets suffocating for others when you morbidly depend on them for validation and happiness.

  • @LifeWisdomTV
    @LifeWisdomTV 2 года назад

    Great video

  • @rrff372
    @rrff372 2 года назад +2

    I am priority

  • @darioscomicschool1111
    @darioscomicschool1111 2 года назад

    Very Wise!

  • @juledgariiisala7401
    @juledgariiisala7401 2 года назад +1

    Thank you

  • @SigmaAlpha3295
    @SigmaAlpha3295 2 года назад

    I did this to myself and i felt better than anybody else.

  • @MeBaba597
    @MeBaba597 2 года назад

    Exactly what I was thinking

  • @exnihilonihilfit6316
    @exnihilonihilfit6316 2 года назад

    Ayn Rand and Leonard Peikoff for the win.

  • @vanessita4138
    @vanessita4138 2 года назад

    🥵❤️‍🔥 yessss. Amen!!👌👏👏👏👏👏

  • @GothPrime
    @GothPrime 2 года назад

    I love this chanel

  • @carlosalexander6448
    @carlosalexander6448 2 года назад

    Essentially this is “The Way of the Superior Man” in video form

  • @daviddimalanta259
    @daviddimalanta259 2 года назад

    At the start, I have no resources to move out of the family. I'm getting tired all of family drama, especially my brother with autism. It gives hindrance to my desired goals, my vibes and even how I got affected my mind due to traumas that lead me to relapse. I had told myself that sooner I could no longer try to understand them and be passionate about them. The environment became toxic

    • @sergioquinche7700
      @sergioquinche7700 2 года назад

      but at least you know now that this is what you gotta do, and that's much better than not knowing

  • @TheMessOfFate
    @TheMessOfFate 2 года назад

    Love you bro ❤️

  • @YogiNiraniya
    @YogiNiraniya 2 года назад

    Sir we will be happy if you share your book list....
    That thing will add more depth to our great life...
    Thanks

  • @sergioquinche7700
    @sergioquinche7700 2 года назад

    Pls books to go deeper in this wonderful idea?

  • @Scout-nn4vb
    @Scout-nn4vb 2 года назад +1

    Same. Just left my kids off at the orphanage. Later!

  • @coltonjames888
    @coltonjames888 2 года назад +6

    Still duality minded being one or the other. Instead choose to be happy and meet the needs of others, even if it is challenging. We sacrifice because it is what is needed and if you are truly powerful you go beyond yourself to do for others. You don’t stop and say well this is going to be too hard for me, or I won’t feel good if I do this thing. That is still living in duality, and yes selfish from a place of weakness, a place of still being on a healing journey. You can have both if you find it within yourself. Then you are truly powerful.

  • @JLW667
    @JLW667 Месяц назад

    3:27 Yes

  • @dineshishan2857
    @dineshishan2857 Год назад

    Super 🎉

  • @carloscesardavilamaldonado4727
    @carloscesardavilamaldonado4727 2 года назад

    Amén brow!!!

  • @ashishpatel-rt9cp
    @ashishpatel-rt9cp 2 года назад +2

    Hey recently I saw so many insecure man are falling for andrew Tate's hustlers academy please make a video to give them a proper guidance 🙏

    • @YAVIAH
      @YAVIAH 2 года назад +1

      Oh, them poor low self esteem guys...

  • @thefreemanoftruth
    @thefreemanoftruth 2 года назад +3

    But I have found that being unreactive an in constant peace bores people. People love drama so if your not dramatic people get bored

    • @matthewbritt8498
      @matthewbritt8498 2 года назад +3

      So what? Let them be bored

    • @otacon6566
      @otacon6566 2 года назад +4

      That's their problem not yours. You can only control your actions & your attitude. Any attempt to try to control others is manipulation. And you know you don't do that nor have an interest in it. You'll find the right people & you can make it exciting for all of you. You're strong.

    • @YAVIAH
      @YAVIAH 2 года назад

      Judging by your comment, you must be losing a lot in life.

    • @GORILLA_PIMP
      @GORILLA_PIMP Год назад

      Right
      That's one of the things that really makes me hate people more

  • @geoiselin
    @geoiselin Год назад

    How can I regulat my happiness?

  • @LeeAdrian777
    @LeeAdrian777 2 года назад +2

    Jesus is the way, the truth and the life.

  • @neosrdjan671
    @neosrdjan671 2 года назад

    You do not prioritize peace. Peace leads you anywhere. Peace, WITHOUT a GROWTH is nothing.
    You prioritize SELF DEVELOPMENT, HEALTH, GROWTH, PROGRESS, SUCCESS, Physical & Spiritual.

  • @stanleymuchy_1000
    @stanleymuchy_1000 2 года назад +2

    If you're reading this comment you've just woke up in a different reality

  • @MrEOM41
    @MrEOM41 2 года назад +1

    The most successful people are selfish.

  • @freedomwordz7741
    @freedomwordz7741 2 года назад +2

    i have a question, what ai voice do you use for this videos?

  • @aminamin36631
    @aminamin36631 2 года назад

    Best

  • @TheTuberQ
    @TheTuberQ 2 года назад

    What’s that name of the book he always references?

  • @ishratpopal633
    @ishratpopal633 2 года назад

    men can be chaotic too....

  • @livingurdreams09
    @livingurdreams09 2 года назад +12

    There's no big difference between selfishness and narcissism ... yet they are totally different
    Selfishness = it is about me
    Narcissism = it is about me only

    • @wojtekwilk3938
      @wojtekwilk3938 2 года назад +3

      Narcissism serves its fake self. While Selfishness from a conscious state of Selflessness serves the whole universe.

    • @calmcalm6203
      @calmcalm6203 2 года назад

      @@wojtekwilk3938 U kind of said it better. 🌈But really I don't like the word selfish. If U treat others like the way U want to be treated, that is a better way than the word selfish. But I don't know a short word for that whole sentence lol. If U put U self in shoes of an evil person, ull also do the best for them by removing urself from them too.

    • @wojtekwilk3938
      @wojtekwilk3938 2 года назад +1

      @@calmcalm6203 Let's call it "Self-ness"

    • @subirpramanik1384
      @subirpramanik1384 2 года назад

      Yes ! All about ego .
      The difference between 'what you really are ' & ' what you want to show yourself to the world ' .
      A man is manly when there is nobody to impress and have no fear how other will judge him. Ego always try to prove himself at the front of others.

    • @ahsoka6807
      @ahsoka6807 2 года назад

      @@calmcalm6203 I would say it's more about fulfilling you're self first before all other areas in life. It's not about not caring about others or discarding them because that's definitely not based in love. But when you're focused on fulfilling you're self first you can give love to others then and give it freely too. When you're not focused on fulfilling you're self we give love to others in hope that they will give love back so we can feel fulfilled again. So focusing on fulfilling you're self is the best thing for everyone involved. Then we can proceed to share that light and love with everyone around us.

  • @leeklivelytv
    @leeklivelytv 2 года назад

    💯💯💯

  • @calmcalm6203
    @calmcalm6203 2 года назад +2

    But really I don't like the word selfish. treat others like the way U want to be treated, that is a better way than the word selfish. But I don't know a short word for that whole sentence lol. If U put U self in shoes of an evil person, ull also do the best for them by removing urself from them too.
    Sometimes U put others in front of you , and it is the right thing to Dom but we shouldn't link it to the word selfish. I kno words mean differently to other ppl but selfish word has meant negatively bad for a long time. But who knows someone's selfish could be another person's right thing to do. Ppl fight alot because of that issue. It's selfish is you don't do it for me. Or am I the one hose selfish . Lol😆

  • @CJ2K
    @CJ2K 2 года назад

    Geez🔥🔥

  • @RobBrightBeast
    @RobBrightBeast 2 года назад

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  • @aashiq7152
    @aashiq7152 2 года назад

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    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder 2 года назад

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  • @denverj9921
    @denverj9921 2 года назад +1

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  • @Woke365
    @Woke365 5 месяцев назад

    Being selfish mean you are being a no good sucka.

  • @CariPellot
    @CariPellot Год назад

    Thank you

  • @luxefalcon2730
    @luxefalcon2730 Год назад

    Great video