Yea~ but the reality you know ~ they are just 24 year old kids. Ofcourse they are naive about the world. They haven't sacrificed anything yet. Even when I was in 8th grade. I accidentally told someone that I cooked food, cleaned the whole house and did laundry. (Because I grew up with my father and I felt belittled because he was doing all those things by himself. You know condescending) I was a laughing stock for all my friends and classmates. Few girls appreciated that but the distance way more heavy.
I doubt that. Some women don't like their husbands being to attached to their family. Being attached means spending time and money for his brothers. It's a turn off for the women, especially in Asian culture.
Maybe because a lot of people, men and women, of that age wants "fun", not really responsibility. That's fine, that's on them, but for them to look down on a person who has taken responsibility on his younger siblings due to unfortunate circumstances, was just disgusting for me.
Well, he has 3 underage younger brothers under his wings and they’ll always be his top priority, at least until all of them reach their adulthood. That’s the turn off part and it’s real. But they could’ve been more polite
My mom was 24 raising 4 and later had another at 31 (my youngest brother aka the devil). I'm the second youngest (4th born, but 2nd or third attempt) and understand how difficult it is for a parent to raise their children at such a young age. My dad is in my life (which made it easier for her), but that was only after she met him. My mom was raising my oldest brother with another in her stomach when she met my dad. The only difficult part was her having to stop my dad from having PTSD outbursts, but that's about it. My dad also acknowledges the fact that his outbursts gave us very mild PTSD and he's apologized numerous times, even when we weren't talking about anything bad. He's even cried in my mom's arms because he felt he was going crazy after his mom's passing. I respect anyone who can raise 2+ children without complaining.
Seriously, right!? Guys totally bragging about how hard he's working for his brothers and they call him an auntie? Whelp looks like they've still got some major growing to do!
To be fair, the people there who are talking about their bonuses and world spanning trips don't seem half as passionate as Yuzuki talking about caring for his 3 brothers. I think that's what puts them off, 'I can't with all that.' Yuzuki knows exactly what he wants to do for his brothers and loves doing it, and to people living on a whim it throws back in their face how little meaning living that way actually has. Thats not to say you shouldnt travel or that getting a big bonus shouldnt feel good... but if that's just what's 'going on' in your life with no passion, it just doesnt hold as much value to you as you think it does.
They're single cuz they're buttholes. I'd marry Hayato. That dude can do it all! Plus I feel for him, he needs a break, I want to do the house chores for him. 😂
@davidedalterio4979 they arent friends lol. They are women seeking men and make no mistake, there is very little empathy involved in how women judge romantic prospects. It's often a very cynical and practical process, a bit like a job interview.
for me all of my friends ran away as soon as they have child, they don't have time with other thing and no longer hang out just straight go home for they family
@dandicandi4502 my friends dropped me cuz I stopped drinking when I got pregnant, the other half dropped me cuz they decided I'm not fun anymore since I'm not going out bar till 5 am anymore ( I still went out with them sometimes to a bar with them but stayed till midnight/1am) and yes, they told me that, in my messages
No wonder i feel left out when my friends never invite me to drinking in night places because i dont smoke and drink like adults. I only drink non aalcoholic
@@weiyawphuah8987same my best friend got married 2 months ago, he didn't even invite me and we were so close we basically lived at one another's house entirety of high school. Even after we went to different colleges and different cities we used to visit each other's homes like we were siblings. I don't hold that against him, I know peopl move on but he went out with our other school friends for pre wedding and all of them drink and smoke. I haven't done either in my life therefore I am indirectly not welcome to 90%+ gatherings and at this point in life when I am down and going through bad patch it's almost all the time, even close relatives don't invite me anymore. I remember I got into best college in the country after clearing 2nd most difficult examination in the world 8 years ago everyone wanted to show me off like they knew me from newspaper, etc but now no one knows I even exist. Sorry for my rant but if I were in the protagonists place I would be happy to stick with my brothers (who also hates me btw) and neighbours.
This is why I despise people. He's being a good brother and a good family man/future husband, and they badmouth him. What pieces of craps. Just stick to your brothers and friends who loves you. People are just shit.
Indeed they are. It's why I can't even stand many of my coworkers. If I didn't have to work to make a living I'd just avoid them all. I'd rather just be on my own or with my family.
If I met a guy like that, a small part of me, my maternal side, would be jealous. The rest of me would be in awe and grateful I’m not taking on responsibilities I’m not yet prepared for
If I was one of those girls I would swoon! A man who clearly loves his family and will take care of them and make sure they have everything they need. You just know he’d be a great husband!
They were bothered by him talking so passionately about his baby brothers? Bruh a man like that is total husband material in my eyes. Theres nothing more attractive as a woman myself, than a responsible man who takes good care of those he cares about, he’d be the perfect husband why tf did all the girls run away 😭
Those who don't know can say that but cleaning can be a much harder job and cooking, don't even get me started all, I can relate to this guy to very well after experience it myself
Nah, cleaning isn't hard but doing It everyday or consistently what make It very hard while cooking... 😁 Cleaning Them after finished what make It hard🙈
Auntie. Now that's insulting since, I'm thinking of him as a great paternal figure. A person who must have a great paternal instinct to be able to care 3 of his brothers after their parents passed away. Is this a great anime? I haven't watched it.
Its the girl lost for not seeing how good hayato is.like hayato is a top tier husband material. Lets see: 1.he is responsible man 2.he is hansome and goodlooking 3.have a decent job 4.a loving brother and posible hisband/boyfreind 5.have cute brothers he take care of. And many more.for someone his age he is a verry ideal boyfreind how can the girls not see such a green flag,bruh 💀
Basically gen z mentality.... They just wanna have fun BUT when the time comes to get married... Good luck finding a man like him because either he is already taken or has no interest in a girl who just wanted to have fun and NOW wants a good man
Fucking best brother EVER, what an absolute chad. Bro deserves all the rewards, he sacrificed his happiness for his brothers to be happy and cares about each of them equally and wants the best for them.
It became my all time favorite, hayato best brother ever he lost his parents when he's really on his youth. where he just thinking about his school and future but he have to take care of of his 3 brother instead sacrifice everything just make the best for 4 of em
Screw those punk they gonna learn the hard way while our good buddy has already learned what he need to be the best bachelor out there, screw those idiots.
Why would they insult him in my country of he say show boys and girls both will awed and mothers will give examples of him how he take care of his brother and do everything what about u and seriously people wouldn't be mad They will inspire by him
Ironic that the girls are saying “I can’t with all that.” Like hon, if you’re scoping out potential boyfriends and husbands, this is likely a peek at YOUR future. But I guess they are going for dating and being lively in their twenties still so they don’t want to think about the responsibilities yet, just the fun parts. And the guys are getting a look at how hard it can be too. He was their wake up call and they got scared
Good guy, giving his all to what is left of his family, gaining the ability to cook really well & also great homemaking skills while working hard as a teacher & the fucking selfish idiots he has for friends/schoolmates say that kind of SHIT behind his back. Yeah, "bright future" for the families of those assholes. Also, NOT FUCKING REALISTIC AT ALL because IRL the MOST ATTRACTIVE thing for the ladies about a guy, besides a good personality & a kind heart, is knowing how cook a great meal.
Yeah, that's a lot for anyone to take on. You'd have to be deep in love with the dude to want to take on that challenge. But the shit talking was absolutely unnecessary to a dude who just told you "shortly after HighSchool, both my parents died and i had to step up"
@@MadCatMadMan yeah lmao. They're being *ssholes there. Should've at least try help him a bit due to the fact they're his friends, well, at least supposedly his friends
They didn't tell him that to his face. Just gossiped among themselves about their opinion about a man their age that's already thinking about his dependants high education.
I mean i understand if it they have kids and stuff and you dot wanna commit that crazy to raising a kid with them that is not yours at that time. But this is his brothers its different. It's different its due to a passing of family.
I don't blame those girls. He's a good brother but he's basically a single dad of three kids. Too much baggage. People are bashing those girls yet they'll bash single mom trying to date.
I told you this. Some people have a hard life and they must decided to live for herself or life to someone. Some decided to live for someone like for family and people who didn't get that never understand them, because they aren't in their own skin. The same with that girls. I would be impressed that he managed to do everything for his brother where other girl called him old. What a cruel witches.
What you said would apply if they liked him but weren't ready for kids so they decided they wouldn't date him, but they went to the bathroom to badmouth and insult him together, THATS what people are mad about
Nah what did he expect. Usually you would say "it's rough but I manage" and move on. Noone wants to hear about other people's children, especially when they are not at that stage of life themselves. No social cue
Same goes for everyone- they all were venting about their lives and maybe so he thought he can open up too. What’s the crime in that? It’s not like they were all having a good time but he decided to make the mood sour by ranting. They all spoke about their jobs and it’s difficulties first. Before social cues, you should have empathy
@@t.ris_ they did have empathy, cue girl saying "that must've been rough" but at that age, it's often limited to things they have experienced themselves. He should have just stopped at it there and the conversation would not have taken that turn. He even complains to the other girl that they are silent when he voiced his troubles but they weren't, he kinda tanked that situation himself by keep rambling on
Fr... You can't expect everyone to care or the anime crowd to have a social cue though. The blame put on the girls specifically for ditching him when the guys ditched him too is pretty weird
I guess it goes both ways. Those who know him personally will inevitably sympathize with him more. On the other hand, those that aren't so close may react differently. But I get it.
If I was one of those girls, Id be in awe of Hayato. At a young age, he knows his responsibilities. He’d be a good husband and a father in the future.
exactlyyy! most women i know would go crazy for a man that is good with kids
He is the most ideal perfect man, son, husband, father, brother like my male japanese friend
They're probably reflecting how Gen Z kids would react
Yea~ but the reality you know ~ they are just 24 year old kids. Ofcourse they are naive about the world. They haven't sacrificed anything yet. Even when I was in 8th grade. I accidentally told someone that I cooked food, cleaned the whole house and did laundry. (Because I grew up with my father and I felt belittled because he was doing all those things by himself. You know condescending) I was a laughing stock for all my friends and classmates. Few girls appreciated that but the distance way more heavy.
I doubt that. Some women don't like their husbands being to attached to their family. Being attached means spending time and money for his brothers.
It's a turn off for the women, especially in Asian culture.
I actually thought it was surreal, them being turned off. a responsible man who loves his family, there is nothing unattractive about it
Maybe because a lot of people, men and women, of that age wants "fun", not really responsibility. That's fine, that's on them, but for them to look down on a person who has taken responsibility on his younger siblings due to unfortunate circumstances, was just disgusting for me.
@@MyAccount-mh9mf true, still think irl that would not happen
@@cyreneByes, dating life for single parents are sooo easy irl
@@MHanifA I get your point
Well, he has 3 underage younger brothers under his wings and they’ll always be his top priority, at least until all of them reach their adulthood. That’s the turn off part and it’s real. But they could’ve been more polite
Jesus 24 and raising 3 kids with a full time job my guy deserves respect.
My mom was 24 raising 4 and later had another at 31 (my youngest brother aka the devil). I'm the second youngest (4th born, but 2nd or third attempt) and understand how difficult it is for a parent to raise their children at such a young age. My dad is in my life (which made it easier for her), but that was only after she met him. My mom was raising my oldest brother with another in her stomach when she met my dad. The only difficult part was her having to stop my dad from having PTSD outbursts, but that's about it. My dad also acknowledges the fact that his outbursts gave us very mild PTSD and he's apologized numerous times, even when we weren't talking about anything bad. He's even cried in my mom's arms because he felt he was going crazy after his mom's passing.
I respect anyone who can raise 2+ children without complaining.
@@DeepDownInTheOceanDoesn't she have conddoms? Holy fck
I'd buy him a drink after hearing that lol
you’d think he’d hate being around other kids after having to care for his three brothers, but he still chose to be a teacher. what a hero 🩷
& i didn’t watch the anime, but the redhead lady is a good choice for him~
Hayato is husband material 👍🏼
Seriously, right!? Guys totally bragging about how hard he's working for his brothers and they call him an auntie? Whelp looks like they've still got some major growing to do!
@@animehuntress9018Those girls are blind!!! If they rly do go for the other guys, they'll regret it later in life.
Hayato is the husband one should always aspire to have. Hope a good girl comes his way
Not until his 3 brothers reach adulthood
@@pennywang6461 That'll take a while then since Gakuto is still so young. 😅 Bless Hayato!
To be fair, the people there who are talking about their bonuses and world spanning trips don't seem half as passionate as Yuzuki talking about caring for his 3 brothers.
I think that's what puts them off, 'I can't with all that.' Yuzuki knows exactly what he wants to do for his brothers and loves doing it, and to people living on a whim it throws back in their face how little meaning living that way actually has.
Thats not to say you shouldnt travel or that getting a big bonus shouldnt feel good... but if that's just what's 'going on' in your life with no passion, it just doesnt hold as much value to you as you think it does.
What?? What old man? . He is the best man.. Where can you find such dedicated family man? .. Thats why those three girls are single.. Wowwww..
They're single cuz they're buttholes. I'd marry Hayato. That dude can do it all! Plus I feel for him, he needs a break, I want to do the house chores for him. 😂
I'm happy those girls goes away, they don't deserve him lol
They're nuts.
At first they're all like "It must be tough...", but a few words are enough to make all that "empathy" go away.
Talk about fake friends.
He didn't has friends. That's sad. Good that he has brothers.
@davidedalterio4979 they arent friends lol. They are women seeking men and make no mistake, there is very little empathy involved in how women judge romantic prospects. It's often a very cynical and practical process, a bit like a job interview.
@@_Lumiere_ ok you're sounding like an intel here
@@enterurnamehere27He’s right though, there’s very little empathy involved in attraction, goes for both genders really
This isn't a typical series, deserves more attention
He just describe what it is to be a single parent and all his friends run off
Tbh pretty realistic.. all my friends ran away as soon as I had a child xD
for me all of my friends ran away as soon as they have child, they don't have time with other thing and no longer hang out just straight go home for they family
@dandicandi4502 my friends dropped me cuz I stopped drinking when I got pregnant, the other half dropped me cuz they decided I'm not fun anymore since I'm not going out bar till 5 am anymore ( I still went out with them sometimes to a bar with them but stayed till midnight/1am) and yes, they told me that, in my messages
No wonder i feel left out when my friends never invite me to drinking in night places because i dont smoke and drink like adults. I only drink non aalcoholic
@@weiyawphuah8987same my best friend got married 2 months ago, he didn't even invite me and we were so close we basically lived at one another's house entirety of high school. Even after we went to different colleges and different cities we used to visit each other's homes like we were siblings. I don't hold that against him, I know peopl move on but he went out with our other school friends for pre wedding and all of them drink and smoke. I haven't done either in my life therefore I am indirectly not welcome to 90%+ gatherings and at this point in life when I am down and going through bad patch it's almost all the time, even close relatives don't invite me anymore. I remember I got into best college in the country after clearing 2nd most difficult examination in the world 8 years ago everyone wanted to show me off like they knew me from newspaper, etc but now no one knows I even exist. Sorry for my rant but if I were in the protagonists place I would be happy to stick with my brothers (who also hates me btw) and neighbours.
Dude. He is the most admirable anime
Boy I have ever seen.
And dang it, he’s attractive too.
the perfect protagonist
@@siliconhawk9293Cell and Joe Joestar be like, "HMM?" 👀
Highest respect for that dude, Im nearing 24 and still can't take care of my own.
I feel that...
Same😢
I have all the respect for older siblings who help raise their little siblings you guys are the some of the real heroes we have in this world.
This is why I despise people. He's being a good brother and a good family man/future husband, and they badmouth him. What pieces of craps. Just stick to your brothers and friends who loves you. People are just shit.
Indeed they are. It's why I can't even stand many of my coworkers. If I didn't have to work to make a living I'd just avoid them all. I'd rather just be on my own or with my family.
Dude was like the biggest green flag, and those girls just missed their best opportunity
Not that they got the opportunity in the first place, they're too incompatible with him.
Those girls will only realize that when they're older
As someone who helped raise their own younger siblings, I find him to be very relatable.
If I met a guy like that, a small part of me, my maternal side, would be jealous.
The rest of me would be in awe and grateful I’m not taking on responsibilities I’m not yet prepared for
No wonder why thous girls still single if they can see how amazing is a guy who can balance work and family at his age.
If I was one of those girls I would swoon! A man who clearly loves his family and will take care of them and make sure they have everything they need. You just know he’d be a great husband!
How is he an old man?? The guy's husband material!
Those girls don't deserve Hayato. He's a husband material.
They were bothered by him talking so passionately about his baby brothers? Bruh a man like that is total husband material in my eyes. Theres nothing more attractive as a woman myself, than a responsible man who takes good care of those he cares about, he’d be the perfect husband why tf did all the girls run away 😭
It was so rude and childish of them to walk away because he was talking about his brothers.
What is wrong with them? Why they don't understand? What he suppose to do? Leave them in orphanage? They didn't deserve him.
Glad to see this Anime is getting attention
Those who don't know can say that but cleaning can be a much harder job and cooking, don't even get me started all,
I can relate to this guy to very well after experience it myself
Nah, cleaning isn't hard but doing It everyday or consistently what make It very hard while cooking... 😁 Cleaning Them after finished what make It hard🙈
This would make me interested in dating the guy. If I was at that reunion I would be running after him for a date hahaha
I relate to this on a soul level 😂
Auntie. Now that's insulting since, I'm thinking of him as a great paternal figure. A person who must have a great paternal instinct to be able to care 3 of his brothers after their parents passed away. Is this a great anime? I haven't watched it.
Yes and Yes.
I love clips like these; I never would've come across this anime otherwise but now im hooked; def already invested! Thanks a milli!
Its the girl lost for not seeing how good hayato is.like hayato is a top tier husband material.
Lets see:
1.he is responsible man
2.he is hansome and goodlooking
3.have a decent job
4.a loving brother and posible hisband/boyfreind
5.have cute brothers he take care of.
And many more.for someone his age he is a verry ideal boyfreind how can the girls not see such a green flag,bruh 💀
Basically gen z mentality....
They just wanna have fun BUT when the time comes to get married... Good luck finding a man like him because either he is already taken or has no interest in a girl who just wanted to have fun and NOW wants a good man
Fucking best brother EVER, what an absolute chad.
Bro deserves all the rewards, he sacrificed his happiness for his brothers to be happy and cares about each of them equally and wants the best for them.
No words. Just doki doki goes my heart. ❤
I actually get him if I was there will be talking about our siblings all night
It became my all time favorite, hayato best brother ever he lost his parents when he's really on his youth. where he just thinking about his school and future but he have to take care of of his 3 brother instead sacrifice everything just make the best for 4 of em
Hes the most attractive anime guy lmao 😂😂😂
damn those onion cutting ninjas!
Family, it can never be a burden
Somewhere out there Dom Torreto is nodding in approval...
Lol. This makes me cry. I want to marry him.
HAYATO IS PERFECT! HE DESERVES THE WORLD
all elder brothers SALUTE!!!
Them girls are missing out on a responsible, respectable, and admirable gentleman. 😤
Then those women get almost twice as old as him at the time and either wind up alone wondering why they don’t have a family or divorced and miserable.
Screw those punk they gonna learn the hard way while our good buddy has already learned what he need to be the best bachelor out there, screw those idiots.
He just needed someone to talk to, at least he has the neighbor
24... like me...
wow i teared up a lil at the end
I LOVE THIS MAN
Why would they insult him in my country of he say show boys and girls both will awed and mothers will give examples of him how he take care of his brother and do everything what about u and seriously people wouldn't be mad They will inspire by him
Ironic that the girls are saying “I can’t with all that.” Like hon, if you’re scoping out potential boyfriends and husbands, this is likely a peek at YOUR future. But I guess they are going for dating and being lively in their twenties still so they don’t want to think about the responsibilities yet, just the fun parts. And the guys are getting a look at how hard it can be too. He was their wake up call and they got scared
I cried.
When I saw this episode I was like psssh well they let a catch get away.
Good guy, giving his all to what is left of his family, gaining the ability to cook really well & also great homemaking skills while working hard as a teacher & the fucking selfish idiots he has for friends/schoolmates say that kind of SHIT behind his back.
Yeah, "bright future" for the families of those assholes.
Also, NOT FUCKING REALISTIC AT ALL because IRL the MOST ATTRACTIVE thing for the ladies about a guy, besides a good personality & a kind heart, is knowing how cook a great meal.
I've said it once and I'll say it again.
Auntyy???THAT MAN IS HUSBAND MATERIAL RIGHT THERE.ARE YOU BLIND?? 😤
Show's good but somehow art looks familiar, that healer anime i suppose😂
TBF, I wouldn't want to date somebody with defacto 3 stepchildren either, though it's BS to think Hayato is anything by manly.
Yeah, that's a lot for anyone to take on. You'd have to be deep in love with the dude to want to take on that challenge.
But the shit talking was absolutely unnecessary to a dude who just told you "shortly after HighSchool, both my parents died and i had to step up"
@@MadCatMadMan yeah lmao. They're being *ssholes there. Should've at least try help him a bit due to the fact they're his friends, well, at least supposedly his friends
They didn't tell him that to his face. Just gossiped among themselves about their opinion about a man their age that's already thinking about his dependants high education.
I mean i understand if it they have kids and stuff and you dot wanna commit that crazy to raising a kid with them that is not yours at that time. But this is his brothers its different. It's different its due to a passing of family.
@@DBZFANX1000agreed!
Freaking ninjas chopping onions again.😥😥😥
What is The anime name ?
Name?
🥲
Hayato, please marry me.
Ok.. this end made my eyes wet a little bit..😅
I don't blame those girls. He's a good brother but he's basically a single dad of three kids. Too much baggage. People are bashing those girls yet they'll bash single mom trying to date.
I told you this. Some people have a hard life and they must decided to live for herself or life to someone. Some decided to live for someone like for family and people who didn't get that never understand them, because they aren't in their own skin. The same with that girls. I would be impressed that he managed to do everything for his brother where other girl called him old. What a cruel witches.
@@ejjj_14 That's right. He's more mature than his peers.
I agree to yout first statement. However, you should note how the girls were turned off as if Hayato has become a disgusting fella.
Hayato isn't a single dad, he is their older brother. And people don't wanna date females with kids because they've already been creampied
What you said would apply if they liked him but weren't ready for kids so they decided they wouldn't date him, but they went to the bathroom to badmouth and insult him together, THATS what people are mad about
Nah what did he expect. Usually you would say "it's rough but I manage" and move on. Noone wants to hear about other people's children, especially when they are not at that stage of life themselves. No social cue
Same goes for everyone- they all were venting about their lives and maybe so he thought he can open up too. What’s the crime in that? It’s not like they were all having a good time but he decided to make the mood sour by ranting. They all spoke about their jobs and it’s difficulties first. Before social cues, you should have empathy
@@t.ris_ they did have empathy, cue girl saying "that must've been rough" but at that age, it's often limited to things they have experienced themselves. He should have just stopped at it there and the conversation would not have taken that turn. He even complains to the other girl that they are silent when he voiced his troubles but they weren't, he kinda tanked that situation himself by keep rambling on
Fr... You can't expect everyone to care or the anime crowd to have a social cue though. The blame put on the girls specifically for ditching him when the guys ditched him too is pretty weird
I guess it goes both ways. Those who know him personally will inevitably sympathize with him more. On the other hand, those that aren't so close may react differently. But I get it.
The incels and pick-mes gonna get real mad at you for this one