Agreed 100%. Pookie and Ray Ray only truly affect their own environment for the most part. Niggas need excuses for their lack of drive. Salut brother Rom
They they don't understand female nature they believe money and status is all you need because men use logic and shi÷ don't add up that's why we gotta keep men aware of female nature and attraction don't care about your nice job and car.
@Christian Barrett Basically their incels who now that they're successful is obsessed with stealing the black girl from the hood they couldn't get before the success. Problem is the black hood girls are now ratchet and they don't want to bother with them, and pookie and rayray can only get ratchet girls. So there is no black girls for the successful incel to get, or any they'd want anyway. So now he's stuck in a paradox of trying to get a tiffany or boekisha that no longer exist. Or worst, they get that tiffany or boekisha and lose all their success.
Allot of these guys still holding animosity from high school & younger adult days from that fine girl that chose that bad boy, I don't care personally cause when I look back & see the condition there in currently, I tell myself I'm glad she chose that guy I want higher class women, plus I done had my share of the big booty Brenda's so I'm cool but improvement is always a must, lastly I got a little pookie & Ray ray in me but still smart etc
@venomspeak I want know these qualities that classic men lack (lol) that women find attractive in pookie and dem. I'm curious...since these same qualities they perfect outside of just getting women.
Agreed. I never liked black girls much so but I still look back at the black girls from my hood, and pity them. They seemed decent back then but by 21 they had 1-2 baby dadies and were ratchet as hell. Not that I was going after them or anything but even then I had standards. My mom was trying to hook me up with some of them when I was in the Marine Core. I often was visibly grossed out, especially when looking at one of my old neighbors I grew up with. Side note: No I do not know wtf my mom was thinkiing. My best guess is she was trying to pair me off with one of her friends or friend's kid to establish a black family thing. Ya know, like, marrying her friend's kid so it can be cute. Some of those friends I honestly didn't know, they were just work friend's kids. I tried giving one girl a chance, once she told me she didn't do any college and lived with her mother I noped out of there. Not anything against people int hat situation, just a stereotypical black woman, in the hood, living with her mom as a NEET is all the red flags as a ghetto black woman. All she needed was to be a single mother and she'd fit the bill perfectly.
The "Pookie & Ray-Ray X Educated Lame" subject is actually beyond funny to me. In all honesty, I crack up every single time I hear the P&RR names mentioned. A lot of guys continue the subject about them, for it is simply a profitable and brand-building subject. If a man is worried about Pookie & Ray-Ray, then it is simply because he doesn't have much going on for himself, and he doesn't value himself enough as a person/human being, right? From 11:20 on out is the Real Deal. Good Video As Usual, Uncle Rom. 💯💯💯💯
Pookie and Ray Ray be asking me for advice - I be telling Pookie and Ray Ray to hit the gym and get focus - "Pookie and Ray Ray stay in their lane" - That is so true - The Jock in the community does get the girls
and truth be told a lot of these dudes keep saying that they want an intelligent black woman or an intelligent woman I'm like I'm not no beta male and I'm not no simple but I don't believe that they can handle that I just don't they say they want that but they not looking for it they keep talking about pookie and Ray Ray you know it did until we're trying to down black women I'm like bro every woman on this planet have issues these guys can try to make black women out to be the most devious women on the planet Earth and which they're not you haven't met the right woman yet that's all that is if you met the right woman you going to worry about no pookie and Ray-Ray no thug or none of that s*** that's that's bull crap because every black woman is not into thugs you got to go broaden your horizons man you got to go talk to him go out different states or countries of somewhere and talk you'll be surprised stop focusing on the negative this is wrong with black folks today black men and women we've always focus on the negative
Agreed Uncle Rom. Real playas wouldn't let Pookies and Rays Ray's "success" with women make them jealous. I say "success" because those men didn't get those women by being true to themselves but acted like thugs and smooth talking playas like true pussybeggars would do just to get those women. At the end of the day, as long as you do you, go your own way, and be true to yourself, those Pookies and Ray Rays wont have shit on you and you'll make them jealous playa haters on your unique sigma male game. LOL.
@@darkforce7387 It's not inherently self defeatist. The popular connotation would be Carlton from Fresh Prince. It's the level of disconnected naivety when it comes to people of the same race outside of his high status reality/bubble (like when he was racially profiled for a car I believe and the race component evaded him). It can also lead to the surmised strain of black people that have achieved success and discredit their own race for some degree of ineptitude (or you cant insert anything that disgusts them). The end result is two people of the same race that want nothing to do with one another due to preconceived or observed notions.
Rom is a balanced man like yourself. It's terminology that stemmed from black women and then made popular by Sargent willie Pete on RUclips. Nothing is lame about circumventing the box others and this society tries to push us in.
I met cool pookie and ray rays and I met some horrible thinking bm. People are people and you got bad and good of every tribe, and same with the jocks. Just stay on task and live your life, stop this blaming wasting time not getting anything done. This is coming from a thinking bm.
Pookie n ray ray will take yo girl, majority of black women only want a baby with them, leading to Mothers raising kids by theirself, creating a cycle of kids teaching themselves, i live in Compton, us and the neighboring community are doomed, other places with bad reputations are doomed, Florida, Chicago etc
LOL. entertaining and thought provoking message brotha. I like Pookies and Ray Ray's myself. They have become a useful element in the black ecosystem. In Vietnam, when American soldiers were suspecting a field to be boobie trapped with land mines they let pigs and dogs run through to set them off and save American limbs. General Motors use crash dummies to test the reliability and safety of their latest designs in cars. Pookie and Ray Ray serve as that safety net for brothas with their shit together. They expose all the weak minded underhanded women because one ulterior motive deserves another. In other words, if you weren't up to no good you wouldn't have found it. So I'm glad to have them around. Roaches eat termites, vultures eat road kill and cows keep the grass low. Ironically, they serve a purpose my brotha.
Just as an unrelated side note, that Alabama game you mentioned was 1970. Background: USC, with numerous black players on their roster came into Birmingham and played all white Alabama. Led by three touchdowns by running back Sam “Bam” Cunningham (older brother if Randall Cunningham), the Trojans rolled the Tide 42-21. It was that game when Bear Bryant realized he needed to recruit black players if he hoped to compete. I know it’s off topic it just a little tidbit. How it can be applied to your teachings is what Bear Bryant did after that loss. When you see how the dynamics of the game are working, adjust. Change up your strategy to make yourself more competitive in the game. Level the playing field, or even better, give yourself an advantage.
The Pookies and RayRays are often able to punch above their weight in their teens thru mid 20s but their stock declines after that. Once they are in their 30s they usually have a felony a multiple baby mommas dragging them through the courts making their life a living hell.
I always tell young men not to aspire to be pookie and Ray Ray. You have potential and for the girls that turn you down for them just sit back and watch the show. She will be on IG looking for you after she is used up and left with bastard kids
Pookie & Ray Ray is and alive well in East Oakland. They just had a Side Show, burned a City Bus and looted trucks in the area. Theft, defacing property and violence is still a huge problem. I'm in the area regularly. ( Mom lives there)
I can point to the same thing in every city. When some people ready to gentrify that area they'll move them out. Dudes aren't focusing on them on RUclips for those reasons. Most of these cats on RUclips have zero connection to those places.
Pookie & Ray ray are everywhere and I don't worry about him or the women that want them, because at the of the day they can't take money out my pocket, The nerve of these ni66as.
Always continue to better yourself should be our mantra and pay no mind to the doings of small minded people. When you continue to achieve your goal, they will continue to decline.
You put a new spin on this argument. I forgot all about the jocks. The thing about this is and it gets back to your point about the women is the guys who aren't "Pookie and Ray Ray" types see how respected they are from some of these women who like them and how they are rewarded by having more kids with them and giving them lots of sex. To me it's like, why would a guy or a so-called Educated Lame want a chick that's been with or into those guys anyway? It makes sense to just get with women who aren't into those types. They are out there. You just have to look and maybe in some cases leave your hometown.
I agree to an extent. I think this is bigger than Pookie and Ray-Ray. At this point, a certain portion of black men feel rejected by the community. That's probably a better discussion to have than always making it about booty.
@@TheEnigmaticBM39 definitely. I think it is time to let that go. Go where you are wanted. If big booty Keisha don't want you, move on. That is what men do. Some of these women ain't worth a damn anyway.
@@stonefacedninja That's the whole point lol. These dudez are whining about Keisha selecting hood dudes, because they (squares) lust for Keisha's but get rejected. Then turn around and say she isn't shit anyway. Yall not missin out on much tho, but great sex. Hood chicks can b str8 ratchet, but the sex is second to none
The argument I often hear from other brothers on RUclips is that some of these women who are into the Pookie and Ray Ray types tend to regret their choices of mate and then later in life want to settle down with a non-select guy and in most cases have the guy take care and raise the kids or be a role model to the kids she had with a Pookie or Ray Ray. You know, the clean up man. I'm not sure if you did a vid covering this or not, but there are men who don't want to deal with this and are calling this out. I mean, why after you had fun with every thug and bum in the hood and then later want to get with the lame who you wouldn't spit on if he was on fire?
I've done a video on that. Leave them alone. Before I had kids I didn't mess with too many women with children. A man has a choice as to the women he will deal with.
Me as an ex non select guy back in the day, I was only concerned about how they having sex with multiple women but I can’t. I come to realize pookie and Ray Ray is more out in the open while other men try to stay under the radar. I didn’t care about finding that beautiful woman, I just wanted as many sexual partners as them.
Pookie and ray ray are urban legends now lol but this young generation don’t even have them nicknames now like is anybody named Tyrone anymore or Antoine in our community naw they not but u right build yourself up it starts and stop with the man in the mirror
So because we no longer live in the "hood" we shouldn't give a fuck about the innocent people and kids there? Or the future betterment of our people? We shouldn't voice our opinion, in hopes to be heard, and hopefully bring change? Plus, what exactly should we be talkin about on social media? We could be talking about anything and you trippin because we speakin against ignorance in the community? It could be any community. Ignorance, violence, neglect, etc. should be condemned all day everyday on the internet and in real life. I care about Black people, good people. So if you care then speak up. Can't have it both ways. Don't ask me to be proud but not opinionated and outspoken while aware of the continued destruction and stagnation from certain Black people in Black communities. If you won't even speak about it on social media, I guarantee you won't stand on the frontlines. Which is mostly why our communities are where they are. Stay in YOUR lane, if you don't give a fuck.
So what are you doing about it then? You have programs to change something? For the record I've spoke and mentored many of these Pookie and Ray Rays. They've gone on to do something with their lives. Talk is cheap. A major problem is people are trying act like they care about the hood and we both know they don't. This is about who the women are choosing. Don't try to pretend otherwise.
You don't have to be pookie and ray ray at all. A lot of the "nice" Black guys like myself have done a lot of self harm. If you are afraid to approach women or be honest and direct with them, then you are hurting yourself. There are a lot of the non pookie and ray ray's who just want a good time and nothing serious. Many are afraid to let women know this, so when they go out and pay for date after date and get no sex and maybe a kiss on the cheek, it is the guy's fault for not being straight up with the women. A lot of women respect honesty just have tact and finesse to it. Don't tell them you want to fuck the shit out of them at the grocery store or hookup just say you want a casual relationship and nothing serious.
They are worried about Pookie and Ray Ray taking or smashing their girl.....that's why they're worried about them. They know a lot of women like bad boys
Well said, and great point about athletes. Even just feeling like you’re a cool fly ball player will get you far in life. Mitch spoke on this in the movie Paid In Full
Hey uncle Rom, have you heard about the brother who got 12 years for dealing with that white girl. Do you think we as a community of black men should address it on a hangout. Or do you think it's a situation were if u don't know the dangers of messing with white woman it's on you
Poor Uncle Rom. That apparently you not getting that "good- good" dinner plate every day...AWWW...LOL. Good to hear some ladies are looking out for you Uncle Rom!
THIS!!!! Can’t understand for the life of me why brothers worry about other men.... I’ve been seeing a plethora of men that look better than me on youtube crying about women and talking MGTOW and all kinds of soft stuff. Talking about how ALL women are evil, where do these dudes come from?
Einstein and the definition of insanity can be somewhat applied. I've seen people in my school days that act like anti-social reprobates-to-be have women practically falling into them. On the other side of the coin, those men (non-select in this sphere that try to achieve in a positive manner) are rigidly blacklisted from the opposite sex, but even if they get a girl, they've essentially fled to the other side like they realized they were dating a serial killer. Naturally we can assume a change of environment (college/ employment) would solve the problem, but what happens is the exact same thing where these men aren't in the race again. That experience compounds into the understanding that "women don't want me" which can then evolve in a metastatic fashion into the mindset that the women are the problem for not even giving them a fathomable chance at a relationship.
The only place I see Pookie and Ray Ray types is on TV and social media. This issue is of no concern to black men I deal with domestically and definitely internationally. We dont even occupy the same social space, except when I return to my neighbourhood for funerals and they rushing to speak to guys like me because we do interesting and exciting things with our lives and most of those brothers are in arrested development. Pookie and Ray Ray got no chance with the type of women I deal with. So while Pookie and Ray Ray got a lot to account for socially they dont constitute an issue for me in my life..and the only threat they are is to themselves..
What's up brother I'm glad you brought up the subject man cuz I'm really tired of hearing about this pookie and Ray and they always say man did she want to get with a man that's an educated man you can still be educated and not get a lot of women you got to do that one thing you got to talk to women and I stress that a lot talk to him go out and meet women stop saying is pookie and Ray-Ray stuff man you got to broaden your horizons you got to go out there and meet women you got to talk to him you try to get that good job with that resume and they keep turning you down right so how is that different going talking to a woman it's just a job it's just it's just I'm using a job as a metaphor
The pookie and ray ray argument is kinda dated but the points still have some gravity and do damage to the women that eventually cross paths with the mainstream black folk.
Great video. Im down over 55 since late November. The pookies at my work WANT to see you succeed. There are too many women to manage, they need more of these simps to step it up. Be like a stallion with your blinders on; stay in your lane and focus on your own game.
Maybe the so called educated lame doesn't feel confident enough to get a woman on his level so he feels that the hood chick's an safer bet. But Pookie's in the way.
Shout out to you coming to Jersey, I'm northern Jersey and I agree with you I'm tired of the pookie and ray ray talks. In Jersey there's alot of black middle class neighborhoods and there's alot of women to get at. Just keep teaching game.
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Agreed 100%. Pookie and Ray Ray only truly affect their own environment for the most part. Niggas need excuses for their lack of drive. Salut brother Rom
Thanks fam.
They they don't understand female nature they believe money and status is all you need because men use logic and shi÷ don't add up that's why we gotta keep men aware of female nature and attraction don't care about your nice job and car.
Man....the game seems like its changed so much! Even the unattractive "funny built" females are looking for so-called alphas!! SMH!!
Maybe brothers haven't gotten over their childhood trauma. That would have been the only time those dude would have mattered a little bit.
@Christian Barrett
Bullies ie poke ray ray. Beat up a lot of nerds in school and the neighborhood
@Christian Barrett Basically their incels who now that they're successful is obsessed with stealing the black girl from the hood they couldn't get before the success.
Problem is the black hood girls are now ratchet and they don't want to bother with them, and pookie and rayray can only get ratchet girls. So there is no black girls for the successful incel to get, or any they'd want anyway.
So now he's stuck in a paradox of trying to get a tiffany or boekisha that no longer exist. Or worst, they get that tiffany or boekisha and lose all their success.
Allot of these guys still holding animosity from high school & younger adult days from that fine girl that chose that bad boy, I don't care personally cause when I look back & see the condition there in currently, I tell myself I'm glad she chose that guy I want higher class women, plus I done had my share of the big booty Brenda's so I'm cool but improvement is always a must, lastly I got a little pookie & Ray ray in me but still smart etc
Dodged a lot of bullets.
@@mr.wright7803 like the matrix
@venomspeak I want know these qualities that classic men lack (lol) that women find attractive in pookie and dem. I'm curious...since these same qualities they perfect outside of just getting women.
Agreed.
I never liked black girls much so but I still look back at the black girls from my hood, and pity them. They seemed decent back then but by 21 they had 1-2 baby dadies and were ratchet as hell. Not that I was going after them or anything but even then I had standards. My mom was trying to hook me up with some of them when I was in the Marine Core. I often was visibly grossed out, especially when looking at one of my old neighbors I grew up with.
Side note: No I do not know wtf my mom was thinkiing. My best guess is she was trying to pair me off with one of her friends or friend's kid to establish a black family thing. Ya know, like, marrying her friend's kid so it can be cute. Some of those friends I honestly didn't know, they were just work friend's kids. I tried giving one girl a chance, once she told me she didn't do any college and lived with her mother I noped out of there. Not anything against people int hat situation, just a stereotypical black woman, in the hood, living with her mom as a NEET is all the red flags as a ghetto black woman. All she needed was to be a single mother and she'd fit the bill perfectly.
The "Pookie & Ray-Ray X Educated Lame" subject is actually beyond funny to me. In all honesty, I crack up every single time I hear the P&RR names mentioned. A lot of guys continue the subject about them, for it is simply a profitable and brand-building subject. If a man is worried about Pookie & Ray-Ray, then it is simply because he doesn't have much going on for himself, and he doesn't value himself enough as a person/human being, right? From 11:20 on out is the Real Deal. Good Video As Usual, Uncle Rom. 💯💯💯💯
Pookie and Ray Ray be asking me for advice - I be telling Pookie and Ray Ray to hit the gym and get focus - "Pookie and Ray Ray stay in their lane" - That is so true - The Jock in the community does get the girls
These "Pookie and Ray-Ray" debates are pure comedy.
In my opinion this is yet another smokescreen.
Gentrification is stronger than pookie
Exactly.
They led to gentrfication
Tell it........it's just a matter of time before Atl. becomes complete palefaced
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I am so amazed at how this dynamic holds so many brothers back
Tell me about it.
A lot of guys stuck on Pookie and RR lack confidence/have low self-esteem.
and truth be told a lot of these dudes keep saying that they want an intelligent black woman or an intelligent woman I'm like I'm not no beta male and I'm not no simple but I don't believe that they can handle that I just don't they say they want that but they not looking for it they keep talking about pookie and Ray Ray you know it did until we're trying to down black women I'm like bro every woman on this planet have issues these guys can try to make black women out to be the most devious women on the planet Earth and which they're not you haven't met the right woman yet that's all that is if you met the right woman you going to worry about no pookie and Ray-Ray no thug or none of that s*** that's that's bull crap because every black woman is not into thugs you got to go broaden your horizons man you got to go talk to him go out different states or countries of somewhere and talk you'll be surprised stop focusing on the negative this is wrong with black folks today black men and women we've always focus on the negative
AgreedThese dudes got to stop crying over trap queens that not checking for them.
Agreed Uncle Rom. Real playas wouldn't let Pookies and Rays Ray's "success" with women make them jealous. I say "success" because those men didn't get those women by being true to themselves but acted like thugs and smooth talking playas like true pussybeggars would do just to get those women. At the end of the day, as long as you do you, go your own way, and be true to yourself, those Pookies and Ray Rays wont have shit on you and you'll make them jealous playa haters on your unique sigma male game. LOL.
Exactly Rom they giving this Pookie and Ray Ray issue to much SHINE 🤦🏽♀️😂😂
I'm a Educated Brotha..stop using the word "Lame" ..what's Lame about being Street Smart, Logical and Responsible..stay on your path.
I didn't create that term. That's what people are using.
@@RomWills much respect to you..I was generalizing to most content creators..it's a self defeating term. You are on point!!
@@darkforce7387 It's not inherently self defeatist. The popular connotation would be Carlton from Fresh Prince. It's the level of disconnected naivety when it comes to people of the same race outside of his high status reality/bubble (like when he was racially profiled for a car I believe and the race component evaded him). It can also lead to the surmised strain of black people that have achieved success and discredit their own race for some degree of ineptitude (or you cant insert anything that disgusts them). The end result is two people of the same race that want nothing to do with one another due to preconceived or observed notions.
Rom is a balanced man like yourself. It's terminology that stemmed from black women and then made popular by Sargent willie Pete on RUclips. Nothing is lame about circumventing the box others and this society tries to push us in.
@@EmperorXaozx the same can be said for people in the hood who are naive /ignorant of the world outside their hood. Two way street my brother.
I met cool pookie and ray rays and I met some horrible thinking bm. People are people and you got bad and good of every tribe, and same with the jocks. Just stay on task and live your life, stop this blaming wasting time not getting anything done. This is coming from a thinking bm.
The Pookie & Rayray horse has been beaten to death already... time to either bury it or let it out the barn.
It has been. Let them do them.
It's time to old yeller this shit bro.
Pookie n ray ray will take yo girl, majority of black women only want a baby with them, leading to Mothers raising kids by theirself, creating a cycle of kids teaching themselves, i live in Compton, us and the neighboring community are doomed, other places with bad reputations are doomed, Florida, Chicago etc
Bro you hit on something when you mention that racist respect athletes. I notice that even to this day!
LOL. entertaining and thought provoking message brotha. I like Pookies and Ray Ray's myself. They have become a useful element in the black ecosystem. In Vietnam, when American soldiers were suspecting a field to be boobie trapped with land mines they let pigs and dogs run through to set them off and save American limbs. General Motors use crash dummies to test the reliability and safety of their latest designs in cars. Pookie and Ray Ray serve as that safety net for brothas with their shit together. They expose all the weak minded underhanded women because one ulterior motive deserves another. In other words, if you weren't up to no good you wouldn't have found it. So I'm glad to have them around. Roaches eat termites, vultures eat road kill and cows keep the grass low. Ironically, they serve a purpose my brotha.
I like your perspective.
Just as an unrelated side note, that Alabama game you mentioned was 1970. Background: USC, with numerous black players on their roster came into Birmingham and played all white Alabama. Led by three touchdowns by running back Sam “Bam” Cunningham (older brother if Randall Cunningham), the Trojans rolled the Tide 42-21. It was that game when Bear Bryant realized he needed to recruit black players if he hoped to compete. I know it’s off topic it just a little tidbit. How it can be applied to your teachings is what Bear Bryant did after that loss. When you see how the dynamics of the game are working, adjust. Change up your strategy to make yourself more competitive in the game. Level the playing field, or even better, give yourself an advantage.
Thanks for sharing that.
That was before my time but I am from that part of the world and some people still talk about that game today, it changed college football forever.
The Pookies and RayRays are often able to punch above their weight in their teens thru mid 20s but their stock declines after that. Once they are in their 30s they usually have a felony a multiple baby mommas dragging them through the courts making their life a living hell.
So true. Prison, child support cases and early death is the wall for Pookie and Ray Ray. Can't worry about them.
I always tell young men not to aspire to be pookie and Ray Ray. You have potential and for the girls that turn you down for them just sit back and watch the show. She will be on IG looking for you after she is used up and left with bastard kids
I’m a pookie and people be hating cause they women want my attention because I’m in my masculinity athletic good at sports 😂😂😂😂
Pookie & Ray Ray is and alive well in East Oakland. They just had a Side Show, burned a City Bus and looted trucks in the area. Theft, defacing property and violence is still a huge problem. I'm in the area regularly. ( Mom lives there)
I can point to the same thing in every city. When some people ready to gentrify that area they'll move them out. Dudes aren't focusing on them on RUclips for those reasons. Most of these cats on RUclips have zero connection to those places.
@@RomWills real talk uncle rom. Most of the cats ain't in the hood and live there.
Pookie & Ray ray are everywhere and I don't worry about him or the women that want them, because at the of the day they can't take money out my pocket, The nerve of these ni66as.
Always continue to better yourself should be our mantra and pay no mind to the doings of small minded people. When you continue to achieve your goal, they will continue to decline.
You put a new spin on this argument. I forgot all about the jocks. The thing about this is and it gets back to your point about the women is the guys who aren't "Pookie and Ray Ray" types see how respected they are from some of these women who like them and how they are rewarded by having more kids with them and giving them lots of sex.
To me it's like, why would a guy or a so-called Educated Lame want a chick that's been with or into those guys anyway? It makes sense to just get with women who aren't into those types. They are out there. You just have to look and maybe in some cases leave your hometown.
Exactly!
Ray ray and pookie will be ray ray and pookie...stop worrying about them and worry about yourself, and improving urself...
Pookie and Ray Ray get flaked on too...😬. Ask me how I know.
LOL!!!
How do you know?
Cottrell Evans Because it takes one to know one?
It's strictly via observation, brothers...
Cottrell Evans agree like pac said watch tha signs...
I agree to an extent. I think this is bigger than Pookie and Ray-Ray. At this point, a certain portion of black men feel rejected by the community. That's probably a better discussion to have than always making it about booty.
Someone does need to talk about this. The pookies and ray Ray's /big booty keshias are the scapegoat of these men's frustrations.
@@TheEnigmaticBM39 definitely. I think it is time to let that go. Go where you are wanted. If big booty Keisha don't want you, move on. That is what men do. Some of these women ain't worth a damn anyway.
@@stonefacedninja That's the whole point lol. These dudez are whining about Keisha selecting hood dudes, because they (squares) lust for Keisha's but get rejected. Then turn around and say she isn't shit anyway. Yall not missin out on much tho, but great sex. Hood chicks can b str8 ratchet, but the sex is second to none
Pookie and ray simps frfr they be the main ones tricking on woman
Coryedwards Dayl that’s facts
The argument I often hear from other brothers on RUclips is that some of these women who are into the Pookie and Ray Ray types tend to regret their choices of mate and then later in life want to settle down with a non-select guy and in most cases have the guy take care and raise the kids or be a role model to the kids she had with a Pookie or Ray Ray. You know, the clean up man.
I'm not sure if you did a vid covering this or not, but there are men who don't want to deal with this and are calling this out. I mean, why after you had fun with every thug and bum in the hood and then later want to get with the lame who you wouldn't spit on if he was on fire?
I've done a video on that. Leave them alone. Before I had kids I didn't mess with too many women with children. A man has a choice as to the women he will deal with.
Me as an ex non select guy back in the day, I was only concerned about how they having sex with multiple women but I can’t. I come to realize pookie and Ray Ray is more out in the open while other men try to stay under the radar. I didn’t care about finding that beautiful woman, I just wanted as many sexual partners as them.
A female with a flat belly is a very important thing to me.
But but but, Pookie and Ray Ray stole my bike though...because of them I became the GREATEST OF ALL TIMES
Nice reference to the late Muhammad Ali.
Pookie and ray ray are urban legends now lol but this young generation don’t even have them nicknames now like is anybody named Tyrone anymore or Antoine in our community naw they not but u right build yourself up it starts and stop with the man in the mirror
So because we no longer live in the "hood" we shouldn't give a fuck about the innocent people and kids there? Or the future betterment of our people? We shouldn't voice our opinion, in hopes to be heard, and hopefully bring change?
Plus, what exactly should we be talkin about on social media? We could be talking about anything and you trippin because we speakin against ignorance in the community? It could be any community. Ignorance, violence, neglect, etc. should be condemned all day everyday on the internet and in real life.
I care about Black people, good people. So if you care then speak up. Can't have it both ways. Don't ask me to be proud but not opinionated and outspoken while aware of the continued destruction and stagnation from certain Black people in Black communities. If you won't even speak about it on social media, I guarantee you won't stand on the frontlines. Which is mostly why our communities are where they are. Stay in YOUR lane, if you don't give a fuck.
So what are you doing about it then? You have programs to change something? For the record I've spoke and mentored many of these Pookie and Ray Rays. They've gone on to do something with their lives. Talk is cheap. A major problem is people are trying act like they care about the hood and we both know they don't. This is about who the women are choosing. Don't try to pretend otherwise.
@@RomWills Respect. My view was off base.
Libra and Lions,
Respect fam. It takes a Real Man to say he was wrong about something. You can be a powerful example to other young men out here.
Most them come from a dysfunctional upbringing, and to get straight to the point ,dysfunctional only attracts dysfunctional
Truth.
Only gangsters should worry about gangsters. You go to school. You work a job. You take care of your family. Worry about that.
You don't have to be pookie and ray ray at all.
A lot of the "nice" Black guys like myself have done a lot of self harm. If you are afraid to approach women or be honest and direct with them, then you are hurting yourself.
There are a lot of the non pookie and ray ray's who just want a good time and nothing serious. Many are afraid to let women know this, so when they go out and pay for date after date and get no sex and maybe a kiss on the cheek, it is the guy's fault for not being straight up with the women. A lot of women respect honesty just have tact and finesse to it. Don't tell them you want to fuck the shit out of them at the grocery store or hookup just say you want a casual relationship and nothing serious.
Thank you!. Stay in your lane. Big bro that pookie and rayray diatribe has been irksome
Yup. I can’t stand pookie and ray ray talk.
If a man taking care of his business, the Pookie and Ray-Ray b.s aint going to effect him. Honestly this topic should've been closed 2 years ago.
Truth.
They are worried about Pookie and Ray Ray taking or smashing their girl.....that's why they're worried about them. They know a lot of women like bad boys
That's all it is. They need to worry about that square looking brotha who just "a friend."
Rom Wills Who wouldn’t have to worry about NO ONE if he’s breaking her bed! If he’s handling business, business is gonna take care of him
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"I luvs 2go swimmin w/bow-legged wimminz, I'm Popeye da Sailor-Man!" ;-)
Something is sexy as shit abotu a bow-legged woman.
@@RomWills FACTS, especially in that 4'11'' to 5'3" range, yes sir.
All I could think about was that phrase about OJ when you was saying that..."I'm not black I'm OJ"
Well said, and great point about athletes. Even just feeling like you’re a cool fly ball player will get you far in life. Mitch spoke on this in the movie Paid In Full
Here first.
I like when get aggressive brother and that thug mode
Like you said brother Rom, pokie and Ray Ray is a smoke screen. It's good comic. Lol peace
But who came up with the names, "Pookie" & "Ray Ray"? 😂
I'm not even sure.
@Pookie and Ray Ray Oh man. Real life Pookie and Ray Ray.
Hey uncle Rom, have you heard about the brother who got 12 years for dealing with that white girl. Do you think we as a community of black men should address it on a hangout. Or do you think it's a situation were if u don't know the dangers of messing with white woman it's on you
It's need to be addressed. Hit up Oshay. I'm still lazy about hangouts.
Rom Wills
One night stands can land your ass in jail for life. Drunk booty is not worth it anymore. Never was
Always spitting fire UNC like spyro the dragon
Thanks Nephew.
Lmao classic series
If you moving forward stop looking back!
Says every black man who dates outside there race ever😂
“Only in response if they reacting to some shit” EXACTLY that’s me I don’t care about them educated people as long as they don’t bother me I’m good 💯
Off topic here...bro it's still cold up north? Jacket, skullcap and sweater man bring yourself down south and warm up.
Man it was 39 degrees when I made this joint.
why do y’all name them pokie and ray ray
I ain't sure where that come from.
The recent Nipsey Hussle murder re-ignite the stereotypical Pookie-RayRay/cleanup man conversation of the urban hood, projectic environment.
I am Pookie and Ray Ray, Pookie and Ray Ray were the first real red pilled ni**as I met, before youtube existed.
I was the nerd who had hands so they was cool wit me.i learned alot from them brothas.my dad was one also.
Poor Uncle Rom. That apparently you not getting that "good- good" dinner plate every day...AWWW...LOL. Good to hear some ladies are looking out for you Uncle Rom!
Yeah...Other things but not the plate.
THIS!!!!
Can’t understand for the life of me why brothers worry about other men....
I’ve been seeing a plethora of men that look better than me on youtube crying about women and talking MGTOW and all kinds of soft stuff.
Talking about how ALL women are evil, where do these dudes come from?
Einstein and the definition of insanity can be somewhat applied. I've seen people in my school days that act like anti-social reprobates-to-be have women practically falling into them. On the other side of the coin, those men (non-select in this sphere that try to achieve in a positive manner) are rigidly blacklisted from the opposite sex, but even if they get a girl, they've essentially fled to the other side like they realized they were dating a serial killer. Naturally we can assume a change of environment (college/ employment) would solve the problem, but what happens is the exact same thing where these men aren't in the race again. That experience compounds into the understanding that "women don't want me" which can then evolve in a metastatic fashion into the mindset that the women are the problem for not even giving them a fathomable chance at a relationship.
I don't know how this dudes channel popped up, but he dropping solid info
The only place I see Pookie and Ray Ray types is on TV and social media. This issue is of no concern to black men I deal with domestically and definitely internationally. We dont even occupy the same social space, except when I return to my neighbourhood for funerals and they rushing to speak to guys like me because we do interesting and exciting things with our lives and most of those brothers are in arrested development. Pookie and Ray Ray got no chance with the type of women I deal with. So while Pookie and Ray Ray got a lot to account for socially they dont constitute an issue for me in my life..and the only threat they are is to themselves..
That's what I'm saying. A truly high level Black man shouldn't even encounter a Pookie type on a consistent basis.
@@RomWills There's a lot of fuckeries on this section of YT these days.Too much none issues being thrashed to death of no relevance.
I live in the hood and i still don't care. lol
I remember in Shoop when Pepa said "The Bowlegged one!" LOL! That was on my mind when you referenced bowlegged.
What's up brother I'm glad you brought up the subject man cuz I'm really tired of hearing about this pookie and Ray and they always say man did she want to get with a man that's an educated man you can still be educated and not get a lot of women you got to do that one thing you got to talk to women and I stress that a lot talk to him go out and meet women stop saying is pookie and Ray-Ray stuff man you got to broaden your horizons you got to go out there and meet women you got to talk to him you try to get that good job with that resume and they keep turning you down right so how is that different going talking to a woman it's just a job it's just it's just I'm using a job as a metaphor
The pookie and ray ray argument is kinda dated but the points still have some gravity and do damage to the women that eventually cross paths with the mainstream black folk.
Rom Wills!!!!
Focus on your Game not the Game of another man 👌🏽
14:06 Rom smiles after he said, he's gonna have some cake. Lmao!!
5:44 Thank you !! Gangsters don’t run sh**t. They aren’t even relevant. It’s the big business that are important.
So true
Are you married?
Break it on down......
Yep.
Thank you!
I agree
0:39
Great video. Im down over 55 since late November. The pookies at my work WANT to see you succeed. There are too many women to manage, they need more of these simps to step it up. Be like a stallion with your blinders on; stay in your lane and focus on your own game.
Rip the bullshit narrative down!
I follow you on IG Uncle Rom. I think I might've seen that plate👊
LMAO!!! She really made me a plate tho. Check out and comment on my latest video on my women's channel.
Thanks 👏👏👏✌
Thank you
Maybe the so called educated lame doesn't feel confident enough to get a woman on his level so he feels that the hood chick's an safer bet. But Pookie's in the way.
Educatedd men need to aim higher.
@@RomWills The women on their level may not need a man.
The women are lying.
Shout out to you coming to Jersey, I'm northern Jersey and I agree with you I'm tired of the pookie and ray ray talks. In Jersey there's alot of black middle class neighborhoods and there's alot of women to get at. Just keep teaching game.