What It's Really Like Being A Muslim Woman In America | Skin Deep | Refinery29

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  • Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2024

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  • @refinery29
    @refinery29  6 лет назад +635

    What do you relate to most about Shahd's experience? Share your stories with us here!

    • @daniaazhar5367
      @daniaazhar5367 6 лет назад +7

      I'm amuslim too but I don't wear scarf cuase I'm only 13 and I do live in Pakistan where most of people doesn't wear hijab

    • @lonesomeluv5161
      @lonesomeluv5161 6 лет назад +20

      im a muslim sudanese girl and i started wearing my hijab when i was 12, my mom thought i was too young but that was a good time for me at least. i was raised in saudi arabia and im currently going to a college in the united states, i was looked at differently from time but i always rock my dark skin, henna, and hijab! i've always felt insecure as a kid cause all my friends in the saudi arabian school were a bit more light skin. but now i'm feeling proud of my muslim afro-arabic origin.

    • @rugarerugaramujuru7736
      @rugarerugaramujuru7736 6 лет назад

      Please do an Aliyah transformation you could use the women from the Cardi b or the Rihanna transformations.thank you❤

    • @flawedandbeautiful4166
      @flawedandbeautiful4166 6 лет назад +1

      Please do a story on Anni Cyrus next

    • @wesaladam7741
      @wesaladam7741 6 лет назад +15

      I’m a Sudanese Muslim hijabi! I’m turning 14 tomorrow and I’ve been a hijabi since I was 9 in the 4th grade. It was completely my decision, when I told my mom I wanted to wear it she was all for it and supported me, she’s a hijabi herself and always has been, and it’s been pretty much smooth sailing. I lived in New York City (Brooklyn) up until about a month ago, now I live in Albany. It’s been a easy journey, because I’m pretty confident in myself and don’t really care what others think of me😁

  • @shahdbatal
    @shahdbatal 6 лет назад +5260

    Thank you for letting me share my story ❤️

    • @imanissa121
      @imanissa121 6 лет назад +31

      (Sorry for my English I’m 🇫🇷)You are a very good person I love u❤️ and you inspire me

    • @aieshabegum994
      @aieshabegum994 6 лет назад +8

      Hey guys! It's shahd. Would be what she says ❤

    • @Rinrin_98
      @Rinrin_98 6 лет назад +4

      It's beautiful

    • @qt3191
      @qt3191 6 лет назад +7

      You’re so beautiful

    • @Missmelek97
      @Missmelek97 6 лет назад +4

      sooo proud of you ❤️✊👏

  • @Anniloves21
    @Anniloves21 6 лет назад +3115

    One of my dearest friends is muslim and wears hijab. I love her so much and know this video would make her proud. You are amazing and beautiful. People who don't educate themselves about different religions are scared. A very sad thing

    • @lonesomeluv5161
      @lonesomeluv5161 6 лет назад +4

      ❤️❤️

    • @likeliterally7077
      @likeliterally7077 6 лет назад +11

      gay people can educate themselves as much as they want on islam. that won't change the fact that the only countries to execute gay people are islamic countries.

    • @oya.g4806
      @oya.g4806 6 лет назад +12

      @@flawedandbeautiful4166 taking half what men takes does not mean that we are not appreciated .. because we have different preperations in marriages that recquire giving the man more
      Did you know that a man has to cherish and bring his wife everything she needs even her mani and padi
      Men give their women a mahr which is an !ount of money for herself in addition to gold which in all worth more than an engagement ring
      A man should get her a house and pays for everything she needs
      So knowing that men had to pay for all of that , they take twice what women take ...
      You shold study also why we get half what they take before you say that

    • @oya.g4806
      @oya.g4806 6 лет назад +22

      @@likeliterally7077 gay is prohibited in islam as that is unnatural to islam ..women are for men ..thats it Allah says in quraan that he made from everything two sexes to combine to match with each other

    • @likeliterally7077
      @likeliterally7077 6 лет назад +5

      see Anniloves21 ? ^ that's what you are supporting. congrats. hope you don't have any gay friends.

  • @justasmr9315
    @justasmr9315 6 лет назад +1769

    I'm a muslim , born as muslim, and i started wearing hijab at the age of 16 (NOW I'M 20 Y.O)
    AND IT WAS THE BEST THING I'VE EVER DONE
    I BECAME SO CLOSE TO ALLAH
    AND I FELT SO PROUND AND I'M DOING THE RIGHT THING
    AND IT ALSO GAVE ME TOO MUCH SELF CONFIDENT

    • @lorreallorreal161
      @lorreallorreal161 6 лет назад +34

      Shawn Mendes mashaallah tabarak allah for you you seriously don’t know how great you are in allahs view

    • @justasmr9315
      @justasmr9315 6 лет назад +25

      @@lorreallorreal161 i used to go to the mosque in ramadan ( AND STILL) and prayed and begged allah to make me love the hijab and thanks to the hidaya of allah , it actually happened and i started wearing it that ramadan and loved it so much
      NOW EVERYDAY I THANK GOD FOR THIS NI3MA COS THE FEELING I FELT AFTER WEARING IT WAS ANOTHER LEVEL
      SUCH A BEAUTIFUL FEELING OF PEACE AND RESPECT AND LOVE OF THE GOD

    • @Babvgurl3
      @Babvgurl3 6 лет назад +3

      Omg i litteraly have a fanpage for my Muffin it's @nuggetshawn and im MUSLIM

    • @lorreallorreal161
      @lorreallorreal161 6 лет назад +5

      Shawn Mendes allah loves you so much barak allah for you my sister

    • @justasmr9315
      @justasmr9315 6 лет назад +10

      @Hawaa Sarwary HAHAHAHAHAHAH
      THIS IS A FAN ACCOUNT LOL

  • @sahararash6912
    @sahararash6912 6 лет назад +616

    She’s gorgeous mashaAllah ♥️ support to all my Muslim sisters I love you all!

    • @abeerasim1650
      @abeerasim1650 6 лет назад +4

      love you😍😍😍

    • @andrzejgrabinski8262
      @andrzejgrabinski8262 6 лет назад +2

      Sahar Arash She’s gorgeous but she's dumb, and please stop commenting "mashaAllah" cuz not everyone knows what that means

    • @abeerasim1650
      @abeerasim1650 6 лет назад +5

      @@andrzejgrabinski8262 dumb so you sees dumbness your such a cheap person and you know you are really mad the majority know what's the meaning of MashAllah so you get lost from the comments

    • @abeerasim1650
      @abeerasim1650 6 лет назад +2

      @@andrzejgrabinski8262 Lol you have only 7 subscribers

    • @sahararash6912
      @sahararash6912 6 лет назад

      madguy Stop being cancer omg

  • @fatmaatma5280
    @fatmaatma5280 6 лет назад +432

    As a muslim I can understand how when she says she felt good when someone went out of thier way to make her feel welcome and accepted when usually everyone wants to comment how why we want to accept being oppressed or why we wear it. Its a personal choice and why anyone should have right to pass comment on it eludes me. I understand when she says people judge you by looking at what you wear without even knowing us. Hijabi women are the friendliest, honest and most loyal women you could know.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад +10

      +fatmaatma Thanks for sharing your experience with us!!

    • @manisyaya3199
      @manisyaya3199 6 лет назад +17

      That's right. Its kind of funny how they might say some women are forced to wear then those same folks force us to take it off. Smh.
      To each they own I feel. I don't disagree that some women are forced but many are not. And just cuz some are forced that doesn't make Hijab a symbol of oppression.

    • @sppecials606
      @sppecials606 5 лет назад +1

      Fatma Atma@ if hijabi women are "the friendliest" why don't they go out or in general socialize with a non muslim male friends?

    • @wickededogirl
      @wickededogirl 4 года назад +1

      but why don't men wear it?

    • @robloxtea6124
      @robloxtea6124 4 года назад

      Sppecials many do..

  • @purplespray3768
    @purplespray3768 6 лет назад +804

    I live in Kenya, once I got hot chocolate and someone had written "I love Allah" with the chocolate syrup.

  • @AyshaHarun
    @AyshaHarun 6 лет назад +2531

    Absolutely LOVED this!! Shahd habibti, you make me so proud ❤️❤️

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад +35

      +ayshaabdul Thanks for watching!! :)

    • @nahlaahmed6633
      @nahlaahmed6633 6 лет назад

      I love your video sm

    • @Unknown-dw4mv
      @Unknown-dw4mv 6 лет назад +2

      hhaha my name is aysha tooo and thats also how u spell my namw toooooo

    • @magblox7784
      @magblox7784 6 лет назад

      Aysha Abdul I made u to 1k likes ;)

    • @adelsaidi2160
      @adelsaidi2160 6 лет назад +3

      good morning ..............you have to live in arabic country to know the meaning of islam

  • @shutupsavannah2195
    @shutupsavannah2195 6 лет назад +87

    I love that y’all had two Muslim women talking instead of having someone interviewing with a bunch of ignorant comments.
    I definitely feel what you said about Minnesota, I just moved to the northwest for school and I think there are like 5 hijabis on my whole campus and it’s such a difference from the about of Somali/Muslim culture in the twin cities

  • @justjay9301
    @justjay9301 5 лет назад +38

    I’m almost 16 and I’m proud to say I’ve been wearing my hijab since I was about 4 or 5. I always have a hint of fear when leaving the house, but I’m learning to not mind it as much!

  • @melissadawn5037
    @melissadawn5037 6 лет назад +1209

    This may be to light hearted of a question, but... I'm a music teacher in SE Minnesota, I see so many women & girls in my community with beautiful hijabs and flowing fabrics. Is it OK to compliment them or would it be insulting because it's a religious choice of cover? Personally I like when any of my clothing or jewelry that reflects my Christianity is commented on, I feel like the person is complimenting the art as well as recognizing/respecting my faith.

    • @lonesomeluv5161
      @lonesomeluv5161 6 лет назад +444

      it's ok to compliment them! complimenting a hijab is just like complimenting hair. xx

    • @n.s.7174
      @n.s.7174 6 лет назад +390

      I think that any Muslim woman would absolutely love it if you complimented them, as hijab is a form of beauty that is often overlooked. Your act of kindness will definitely be appreciated.

    • @banandababa
      @banandababa 6 лет назад +217

      You will probably make them really happy. Everyone loves a compliment :)

    • @doctorchaimaachanel8974
      @doctorchaimaachanel8974 6 лет назад +79

      It s not it s actually very refreshing nd touching and like fresh air 😘😘😘😊

    • @fraggiedipz5607
      @fraggiedipz5607 6 лет назад +73

      of course you can! :)

  • @EmmaIsAmme
    @EmmaIsAmme 6 лет назад +401

    this video reminded me of why i want to revert

    • @kukunuta9047
      @kukunuta9047 6 лет назад +49

      Welcome to islam my dear soon to be my sister😍❤

    • @beigelover95
      @beigelover95 6 лет назад +8

      Ema F ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @hening2212
      @hening2212 6 лет назад +6

      Welcome❤️✨

    • @jannaabdelsalam2855
      @jannaabdelsalam2855 6 лет назад +16

      we welcome everyone and anyone and yoy are welcome if your comfortable with it and its your personal choice 💜💜💜

    • @lorreallorreal161
      @lorreallorreal161 6 лет назад +16

      Ema F welcome my sister you are amazing if you choose to convert it’s totally your choice but especially especially especially if a Christian person converts to Islam that is so great in allahs view he will forget every bad thing about you it’s even in the Quran and also if you where hijab it’s even better the converting to Islam is the best thing in many peoples life my sister everything is totally up to you just giving you some things to acknowledge

  • @sistersr123
    @sistersr123 6 лет назад +1150

    Mexican arab?? That's so cool and beautiful wow

    • @sams517
      @sams517 6 лет назад +74

      Samina Rasib there’s a youtuber on here named Daniela biah who is Palestinian and Mexican

    • @sistersr123
      @sistersr123 6 лет назад +21

      @@sams517 I know danielah but didn't know she was half Mexican cooool wow

    • @DrAdnan
      @DrAdnan 6 лет назад +24

      Omaya Zein is a famous youtuber who is also Arab-Latina.

    • @avianacash8497
      @avianacash8497 6 лет назад +1

      Samina Rasib scot

    • @itslaura8403
      @itslaura8403 6 лет назад +3

      @Darth Shadow yeah so cool

  • @rebeccaimanscott2011
    @rebeccaimanscott2011 6 лет назад +14

    I am black British Caribbean and only Muslim in my whole family and I have been Muslim 15 months I have only just started to wear the hijab my family and friends are supportive. I am proud to be a Muslim.

  • @mars2101
    @mars2101 6 лет назад +44

    She's so pretty and her strong faith in her religion is what makes her so attractive.

  • @lonesomeluv5161
    @lonesomeluv5161 6 лет назад +2112

    she's so pretty tho!!! sudanese girls are always pretty tbh

    • @wesaladam7741
      @wesaladam7741 6 лет назад +28

      titi _ in Sudanese and that’s so kind of you to say!

    • @bloxygigi7736
      @bloxygigi7736 6 лет назад +4

      thank you!

    • @Lockeditin
      @Lockeditin 6 лет назад +4

      titi _ thank you So much 💖

    • @ohnoitssara2441
      @ohnoitssara2441 6 лет назад +25

      Sudanese girls are pretty and Pakistani girls and like me Persian girls tbh we all are pretty no matter what religion

    • @lonesomeluv5161
      @lonesomeluv5161 6 лет назад +41

      @@ohnoitssara2441 yea i agree!! all of us girls are pretty, no matter what religion, nationality, or race. 😊

  • @blingychicken
    @blingychicken 6 лет назад +338

    Why are all Muslim women so pretty.

    • @darwiishadsomaalieed8672
      @darwiishadsomaalieed8672 5 лет назад +70

      The beauty comes from inside which reflects to outside.

    • @ojitosrodriguez114
      @ojitosrodriguez114 5 лет назад +23

      Lol we cover up for that very reason though.

    • @sarrinahsafaa
      @sarrinahsafaa 4 года назад +17

      Allah blessed us.

    • @wickededogirl
      @wickededogirl 4 года назад +13

      @@ojitosrodriguez114 that's so stupid.
      You should teach men not to sexualize women not for women to cover themselves up for that reason.

    • @td2222
      @td2222 4 года назад +24

      @@wickededogirl she was talking about the male instinct. Instinct isn't "teachable".
      That said, Allah c.c. commands men in the Quran to "lower their gaze".

  • @NOTIME4THIS
    @NOTIME4THIS 6 лет назад +265

    AWESOME! I would wear it and I am not Muslim. You have a BEAUTIFUL SPIRIT! BE YOURSELF ALWAYS!

    • @ImenBen12
      @ImenBen12 6 лет назад +13

      And you're a beautiful lady! Loved your comment :)

    • @agirlyhasnoname
      @agirlyhasnoname 6 лет назад +13

      I watch a lot of Black Hijabi youtubers I like you am not muslim either but I wrap my hair up at times and It's a good feeling. So if you want to you can

    • @saidomohamed8333
      @saidomohamed8333 6 лет назад +5

      thanks for support the Hijaab and her

    • @vannakinder352
      @vannakinder352 3 года назад +3

      Personally, as a Muslim who does not wear it, I would not feel offended if say a Christian wears it, hijab is an extension of modesty. There are some Sikh women who wear something similar to a hijab called a Purdah as well as Orthodox Jewish women who cover their hair. If you want to that is fine. My modesty is different, as I believe it is performative, for instance, I only buy second-hand or Walmart mostly unless I need strong boots or Eid dresses. I do this to reject the fact that I should be judged based on what type of clothes I have or whether or not I come from money.

  • @MuskaJahan
    @MuskaJahan 6 лет назад +646

    🌹🌹🌹 It's so lovely to see other Muslimahs getting opportunities like this! Keep it up Shahd!

    • @lonesomeluv5161
      @lonesomeluv5161 6 лет назад +2

      i like your videos!! new sub✨✨

    • @melandathena
      @melandathena 6 лет назад +3

      Muska jahan 😍 happy to see your comment here

    • @ahemdabdi9541
      @ahemdabdi9541 6 лет назад +4

      Mashallah
      I say alhamduillah I'm muslim!

    • @robloxtea6124
      @robloxtea6124 4 года назад

      Your Songs okay then what are we supposed to be born as? Baby goats?

    • @abaspillai3953
      @abaspillai3953 4 года назад

      Assalamualaikum
      www.yayasanms.com

  • @YasmineSimone
    @YasmineSimone 6 лет назад +742

    This was so inspiring!! I love you Shahd❤️

    • @adelsaidi2160
      @adelsaidi2160 6 лет назад

      good morning ..............you have to live in arabic country to know the meaning of islam

    • @thelivingfictionist4937
      @thelivingfictionist4937 6 лет назад +4

      @@adelsaidi2160 No you don't. Most Muslims aren't even Arab. The largest Muslim populations live in Asia. There is also a huge population of Muslims in West Africa, East Africa, and North Africa.

    • @adelsaidi2160
      @adelsaidi2160 6 лет назад

      there is a lot of defference between muslim and arrabic muslim.. in arrabic country we have school for islam and this scholl exist for 1400 years

    • @adelsaidi2160
      @adelsaidi2160 6 лет назад

      we are musllim vefore them.. we spak arrabic..they don t spk arrabic.. we have islam ibside ib blod it is genetique

    • @adelsaidi2160
      @adelsaidi2160 6 лет назад

      islam don t exist.. it is exist only in north africxa and arrab orient the others know nothing about my religion

  • @blurlb
    @blurlb 5 лет назад +49

    My friend is Muslim and she has such beautiful long hair when she occasionally shows it

    • @wickededogirl
      @wickededogirl 4 года назад +1

      to who?

    • @h2have643
      @h2have643 4 года назад +8

      25,000 subscribers with no videos challenge why are you bothered it’s literally none of your business.just trying to look for an opportunity to judge 😂 .

    • @rosie5348
      @rosie5348 4 года назад +2

      25,000 subscribers with no videos challenge none of your business

    • @dianneeuphrosyne2779
      @dianneeuphrosyne2779 4 года назад +4

      @@wickededogirl just wanna tell you that muslimahs wear hijab to hide 'theirs' from men also when they pray. It's fine if they show it to women, but it's also fine to show it to their family like father or brother not cousin. Find out more i think

    • @zd2686
      @zd2686 4 года назад +1

      @@dianneeuphrosyne2779
      Yeah Muslim women who weir the hijab covers their hair from men. But to be more specific they cover it from men they can marry and have a relationship with (plus during the prayer; salah/namaz as you said). This means that only their fathers, brothers, uncles, grandpas are allowed to see their hair. I don’t mean any disrespect really I agree with everything you said. Just wanted to add the marriage thing, because it is a lot easier to describe it that way❤️

  • @Fama8784
    @Fama8784 6 лет назад +403

    I agree with freedom. Freedom of having or not having hijab. As an Iranian girl who lived in a country that hijab is compulsory; I should confess I don't like hijab. I didnot choose it, nobody asked me if I want it or not. I was fed up with all rules that was imposed to my mind and body all years long.
    A huge backlash from me and many girls like me. Maybe if we had a chance to choose, we may like it .Anyway, I am happy to see people who have right to choose what they like to put in America, wish you success.

    • @zainabraibati1908
      @zainabraibati1908 6 лет назад +112

      I sincerely hope and pray you get your freedom, as there should be no compulsion in Religion. I'm personally very blessed, that I got to fall in love with the hijab almost two years ago, and chose to wear it myself. I wish every girl could just wear what she wants to-whether that's rocking a hijab or letting her hair free. I wish you a future, where love and tolerance will prevail over compulsion.
      Peace

    • @Fama8784
      @Fama8784 6 лет назад +19

      @@zainabraibati1908 Wish peace and love for you and all elements of universe. 💕💕💕💕

    • @zainabraibati1908
      @zainabraibati1908 6 лет назад +11

      For you too, sis !

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад +11

      +f.maliz Thanks for your input!!

    • @fatmaatma5280
      @fatmaatma5280 6 лет назад +45

      It is very unfair when govt makes you follow a mandatory rue.when it is clearly a choice in religion. Whether u wear it or not should.be a conscious choice. You Wear it for Allah not for a a govt so intention is important. So sad that some countries dont realize it. Im glad as a pakistani my country imposes no such rule. Hence I love the hijab as I was given the choice to choose and weae it on my own terms. It hurts me to see women who hate it in retaliation as it only represents oppression to them while to me its liberation as only I dictate wht I want to wear. Its so sad that two muslim women have such contrasting narratives. This is why I am not a fan of extremely conservative dictatorial regimes.

  • @SamMKKK
    @SamMKKK 6 лет назад +280

    Holy moly. She’s so beautiful.

  • @andrewtorres4032
    @andrewtorres4032 4 года назад +65

    In my eyes
    You are a beautiful human being. A intelligent human being.
    I'm half Mexican and half German. I was bought up in a small California beach town. My parents taught myself and my three older brother's to respect everyone.
    In so glad I found your Vlogs.
    Bless you and your family
    Always Andrew

    • @robloxtea6124
      @robloxtea6124 4 года назад +1

      Andrew Torres aww 🥺 thats so sweet

    • @sourayasaidi2629
      @sourayasaidi2629 3 года назад +1

      Thank you Sir this is so sweet of you!

  • @elf1158
    @elf1158 6 лет назад +7

    This is just really beautiful. It’s wonderful how Muslim women are able to be more and more portrayed as self confident, I really support this!💪🏽🧡

  • @erindunn6171
    @erindunn6171 6 лет назад +215

    Nothings wrong with being a muslim

    • @maryam-rl5ol
      @maryam-rl5ol 4 года назад +31

      Gilberto Fernandez oh my god in EVERY SINGLE islamic video there is someone disrespectful like you in the comment section talking about how you dislike islam. keep your comments to yourself

    • @nuralizazakaria8510
      @nuralizazakaria8510 4 года назад +16

      @Gilberto Fernandez So? nothing special about it, there are also devout christian who left christianity or devout jewish who left judaism. People change their mind al the time.

    • @rosie5348
      @rosie5348 4 года назад +4

      Gilberto Fernandez k.

    • @andypham6335
      @andypham6335 4 года назад +9

      Gilberto Fernandez Congratulations, you just made the biggest mistake in your life

    • @rosie5348
      @rosie5348 4 года назад +1

      You aRe wHat y0u think i am. 🤦‍♀️

  • @daliaomar3223
    @daliaomar3223 6 лет назад +161

    Thank you refinery29 for shedding the light on us muslims. It’s truly great what Shahd do in order to change the stigma about muslim culture! Seeing these beautiful muslim ladies killing the game really makes me amped up for the future!

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад +9

      +daliaomar Thank you for supporting our mission & watching!!

    • @fantagedsignedx6321
      @fantagedsignedx6321 6 лет назад +1

      Somali

    • @Loola345
      @Loola345 2 года назад

      @@fantagedsignedx6321 what?

  • @fareedahossny
    @fareedahossny 6 лет назад +500

    Am a Muslim that doesn't wear a hijab and my friends know so one time they said that they will bring another friend so i asked if she knows am Muslim they said oh yeah so we were going to the mall and i was introducing myself and she screamed and said TORIRSTE and the guards of the mall came and they asked whats wrong and she said that am muslim the guards said it's okay ur the one that going out of here for being racist since then i felt so safe that people know not all Muslims are Torirests and people like her were raised wrong and should understand before they talk.

    • @eceacar1741
      @eceacar1741 6 лет назад +32

      TONGUE POP if you wore a hijab you would've been kicked out probably. America.... Sad

    • @eceacar1741
      @eceacar1741 6 лет назад +2

      Are you American?

    • @fareedahossny
      @fareedahossny 6 лет назад +11

      @@eceacar1741 half American and half Egyptian

    • @StarrySoakedSkiess
      @StarrySoakedSkiess 6 лет назад +39

      Aj Acar you won’t be kicked out of an American mall for wearing a hijab? What malls are you going to?!

    • @TigTig-Kitty
      @TigTig-Kitty 6 лет назад +29

      Do you mean terrorist?

  • @aasiyamir9977
    @aasiyamir9977 6 лет назад +91

    the last gurl interviewed had a rlly calming voice

  • @Hetsupshut3
    @Hetsupshut3 6 лет назад +25

    Guys, there are so many people that are muslim from every culture and place in the world. There are a lot of Muslims! Don't feel so alone. On top of that, there are millions of people curious about Islam everyday and end up reverting. You're not alone. We all are in this together. And one day, we will all be together in Paradise in shaa allah.

    • @timdrawing775
      @timdrawing775 4 года назад +3

      @C K Pari okay culture is different from religion (Islam).. You shouldn't judge a religion according to culture.. Also in Islam woman should never be forced to wear hijab.. They should be wearing it only because they want to.. And to get close to alllah nothing else.. Those countries that force women to wear it are wrong and there's nothing like that in our religion

    • @vannakinder352
      @vannakinder352 3 года назад +1

      Yeah I never tell other Muslims I am Muslim sometimes bc of the haram police

    • @amandaa3713
      @amandaa3713 Год назад

      @@vannakinder352
      That makes two of us :)

  • @missiworld
    @missiworld 6 лет назад +429

    Salaam! I love that you guys did this video. It really exposes what it's like to be muslim but also how we are still women who like to be beautiful and have opinions about our bodies and how we adorn or display them.

    • @neonpee
      @neonpee 6 лет назад +7

      i remember seeing your comment under some sharia law in indonesia video, and reading your comment truly restored my faith in humanity. idk you but ily :D

    • @missiworld
      @missiworld 6 лет назад +4

      @@neonpee omg, I know exactly what video you're talking about! I'm glad I could bring just a little more positivity to you. :)

    • @zainhottson7393
      @zainhottson7393 6 лет назад

      U r shi'a right..

    • @missiworld
      @missiworld 6 лет назад +7

      @@zainhottson7393 No, I'm Sunni, but I promise you I'm not the type to judge which type of Islam others follow. We each say the Shahada; we're all Muslims; we're one Ummah.

    • @adelsaidi2160
      @adelsaidi2160 6 лет назад +1

      good morning ..............you have to live in arabic country to know the meaning of islam

  • @shine5604
    @shine5604 6 лет назад +7

    These women are truly beautiful. My friend, Rabia, is Muslim and she’s expressed a lot of similar things to me. I love learning and hearing about other cultures in order to relate and better support them. Thank you for your story!

  • @sadia4932
    @sadia4932 6 лет назад +86

    Luv ya all my Muslim sisters ♥️♥️

  • @agirlyhasnoname
    @agirlyhasnoname 6 лет назад +55

    My favorite RUclipsr Shahd . She puts out such amazing content and she's just such a laid back person

  • @awteeyahabduladdarr7656
    @awteeyahabduladdarr7656 5 лет назад +36

    Thankyou.. I'm 10 years old I've been wearing my hijab my whole life. When I was younger kuds would always pull my hijab off .adults would tell them don't touch it or do that anymore when I told but it never did anything because they kept doing it. P.s no kids would stand up for me or say that's wrong they just laughed at me....
    ⬇️ like if you can relate

    • @aali7359
      @aali7359 5 лет назад

      Please stay strong sister you're doing well! Don't forget that you're not alone

    • @sadiyaui
      @sadiyaui 4 года назад +1

      It'll make you more confident and strong and she did yourself in the future. Don't let them get to you!

    • @awteeyahabduladdarr7656
      @awteeyahabduladdarr7656 4 года назад

      @@sadiyaui thankyou

    • @reflectionsinthebible3579
      @reflectionsinthebible3579 4 года назад

      that’s terrible and you should go to your principal and school counselor because that should not be allowed -A Christian.

  • @saltedcaramelz3583
    @saltedcaramelz3583 6 лет назад +11

    i started wearing hijab 2 years ago and there were like 3 hijabis in my class we were seen so diffrent but we never cared and we also talk about our religion with full of confidence.

  • @Imx3STEELhere
    @Imx3STEELhere 6 лет назад +72

    My East African Sis!!! So proud, representation is VITAL ✌🏾❤️

  • @azhars104
    @azhars104 5 лет назад +6

    I love this story! My family and I are Muslim so this really hit home 💕

  • @hazelcetemen9953
    @hazelcetemen9953 6 лет назад +1

    I am Muslim Turkish and live in NYC and I’ve been contemplating for so long if I want to start wearing a hijab, thank you for this video :)

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад

      +hazelcetemen Thank you for watching!!

  • @tahsinrahman8978
    @tahsinrahman8978 6 лет назад +3

    The thing I find so incredible about wearing the hijab is that the influence it has on others too, I remember back in 2013/2012 when I was in school my friends didn’t wear hijab and started to during those years and I was like how come you guys started to wear hijab and they said bc of you, I felt so proud of myself bc it was a shock for me since they would always show their hair but the transition tho, bless them.

  • @mariyamkhwaja2364
    @mariyamkhwaja2364 6 лет назад +7

    I’m a Muslim and I think this has really happened me to open up about showing pride

  • @dreimingwideawake
    @dreimingwideawake 6 лет назад +6

    This was so sweet and thoughtful. Thanks, Refinery29 and Shahd. As a hijabi in California I always feel uncomfortable going out (and actually don't a lot of the time - it's just emotionally exhausting) because I fear that even if I'm not attacked, there will be all kinds of assumptions about me (I came to the US recently, don't speak English, am closed-minded, etc.). It's hard to feel like you can't just be who you are, but will only be seen as a stigma.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад

      +dreimingwideawake Thanks so much for watching!!

  • @yizzy.253
    @yizzy.253 4 года назад +3

    I love wearing head wraps even though I’m not muslim. I mainly wear them at church or when I’m praying.

    • @zahoor4488
      @zahoor4488 2 года назад

      Salam Ma'am, please read the Quran translation in English ,And accept islam if you will not accept Muhammad saw is the last messenger of Allah and Islam after death you will go in the hell forever. please read the Quran translation in your local language come to know the truth .

  • @lilheba-8712
    @lilheba-8712 6 лет назад +1

    *as hijabi muslim girl doing videos in english she gived me so much POWER to grow my channel*
    *cause i love english so much but my first language is arabic and i was so anxious from ppl judging*

  • @WonderGirl9
    @WonderGirl9 5 лет назад +5

    Beautifully said! It's not easy for Muslim women nowadays but that won't stop us from being proud of who we are. I am also not afraid to be who I am, like my fellow Muslim sister said. I also love doing henna and I have been practicing to get better at it.🧕

  • @nomadprincess7370
    @nomadprincess7370 6 лет назад +19

    My favourite youtuber ever!! Love shahd's style, aura and her positivity 💜💜

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад +1

      +nomadprincess So do we!!

  • @oceanblues787
    @oceanblues787 6 лет назад +15

    Thank you for speaking your truth, and the truth that most of us Muslim women share! ❤️

  • @mfzv87
    @mfzv87 6 лет назад +9

    These stories are so heartbreaking 💔 thank you for your bravery to share your stories.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад

      +mfz87 Thank YOU for watching!!

  • @hanna96
    @hanna96 6 лет назад +9

    omg I'm from Sudan too 💕 Sudanese squad 🇸🇩

  • @bintajalloh562
    @bintajalloh562 6 лет назад +5

    It's so cool to see a hijab sister been so confident towards doing her hijab in the US

  • @roselover5735
    @roselover5735 6 лет назад +64

    Tbh I sometimes stare because I am so interested in them and honestly wanna go talk to them 😅😅❤️

    • @palahcomel
      @palahcomel 6 лет назад +26

      Just go and talk to them. They don't bite 😂. Stranger usually don't talk to me not because of my hijab but because of my unapproachable face 😂.

    • @mimimartina2631
      @mimimartina2631 6 лет назад +8

      Aww I think if you geniunely want to talk to them, should, most muslim women would appreciate the friendliness

    • @kb-qq4zl
      @kb-qq4zl 5 лет назад +5

      Rose Lover Awh ❤️ talk. The first I’d do is probably give you a hug or say something funny coz I’m all about laughs and jokes 🤣

    • @lola96272
      @lola96272 4 года назад

      Please go and talk to them

  • @gaddabiamel486
    @gaddabiamel486 6 лет назад +17

    support to all my Muslim sisters I love Islam

  • @sergiovaldez9327
    @sergiovaldez9327 2 года назад +3

    Knowing more about other cultures from the perspective of a member of it is incredible. We can learn about its journey in culture, how it is represented and its impact on society. Also, it's very interesting that you talk about the cultural shock of coming to the other side of the world. Having to fight or work on accepting who you are and who represents you is wonderful.

  • @asiasuleiman895
    @asiasuleiman895 6 лет назад +19

    fearless gracious strong women👏👏❤

  • @nina-pf1gw
    @nina-pf1gw 4 года назад +4

    I converted to Islam a couple of months ago. My parents are very accepting about me transitioning into Islam. But everyone else in my family doesn't know since they are very strict Christian's. It's hard having to hide my religion and it always makes me embarrassed because I can't show my pride because I'll make people uncomfortable. But watching this made me smile and happy and more proud to be Muslim. ♥️

    • @hahamkh6443
      @hahamkh6443 4 года назад +1

      I was born and raised muslimah and i will forever be grateful that i can practice my religion but at the same time it s really amaze me the stories of people that find Islam by them selfs because they go through a lot and they have to face a lot of stuff that i don t know i would be capable of going through
      So i have so much respect for and i would love to help u if u need a friend because in those times u will definitely need a friend to help u
      By the way u have to be so grateful that ur parents that are ok with so that's makes it easier for u and others will get used to u the way u are because u r the same person that u were it s just that ur priorities are a bit different now
      I hope i gave a bit of help and that u have a really nice and blessed day to everyone that read that comment
      Byeee
      With all my love
      From Morocco

    • @nina-pf1gw
      @nina-pf1gw 4 года назад

      @@hahamkh6443 Thank you so much for reaching out to me and giving me your support. I am still practicing Islam and I'm trying to find free English Quarn books online. It would be nice to have a friend during these troubling times. I wish you the best and I hope you and your family stays safe! ♥️

    • @hahamkh6443
      @hahamkh6443 4 года назад

      @Gilberto Fernandez Thanks for all of this but i prefer not to get my Islamic knowledge from videos like this because i don't trust what they say

    • @hahamkh6443
      @hahamkh6443 4 года назад +1

      @@nina-pf1gw i think u should try the App muslim it has some books i guess and u should follow a girl on Instagram named stayce she just converted and she tries to find books too so i guess she can help more than me

    • @nina-pf1gw
      @nina-pf1gw 4 года назад +1

      @@hahamkh6443 Thank you. I don't have Instagram sadly though. But I will download that app to help me find a English Quarn. Have a lovely day! 🧡

  • @VampireDiariesBiebs
    @VampireDiariesBiebs 6 лет назад +14

    More power to you girls!! This made me so proud

  • @JarellasCorner
    @JarellasCorner 6 лет назад +20

    I absolutely loved this so much .... well done Shahd so proud 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @muxajetaptocom
    @muxajetaptocom 6 лет назад +15

    way to go Shahd, this was great!! yay for muslim women being represented, respected and valued for who they are!!

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад

      +healthymadness Thanks for your lovely input!!

  • @asnaahmad2420
    @asnaahmad2420 5 лет назад +2

    When I started wearing my hijab, I loved how careful everyone was when they were asking me, you know, why did I start wearing it. They felt the need to make it clear that they weren't being rude and I thought that was really sweet of them. I didn't get any judging remarks and it was all just love and understanding.

  • @umiibrahim5901
    @umiibrahim5901 6 лет назад +3

    Am 13 rn and I started wearing hijab at the age of 8 am glad I started it really early because I got so used to it ❤️

  • @shahiistaibrahim2425
    @shahiistaibrahim2425 6 лет назад +20

    Shahd batal omg omg omg love thiiissss ! I love you so much !!! You go girl ! I’m so proud of you ❤️

    • @sabanaparveen9206
      @sabanaparveen9206 3 года назад

      Is humanity dead? No one is watching from the world

  • @esperanzacasares9056
    @esperanzacasares9056 6 лет назад +13

    She is Sooooo Beautiful!😢

  • @blueberrygirl7538
    @blueberrygirl7538 6 лет назад +26

    This video is so inspiring and empowering I loved it and i want more

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад

      +pastelgirl Stay tuned on Saturday's!

  • @PrettyHoriFob
    @PrettyHoriFob 4 года назад +6

    This is beautiful, with women coming together but it does hurt too see how people can be cruel towards others. Especially when they are deliberately going out of their way to emotional or physical project their hate onto someone so innocent.

  • @lourdesrodriguez1293
    @lourdesrodriguez1293 5 лет назад +1

    Wow, thank you for doing this! I am Mexican American and recently married an Indian Muslim and has reverted myself. It is inspiring to see the hijab represented in a positive light. It is all the more inspiring to see Muslim women of Latino background be represented.

  • @Nina_lilpeacheyes
    @Nina_lilpeacheyes 6 лет назад +22

    At the end of the day why should anyone be oppressed because they chose to wear a hijab , it’s 2018 people grow up

  • @laylahenderson8680
    @laylahenderson8680 6 лет назад +71

    I love this video!! It is so amazing and so inspiring. Refinery29 is my favorite channel on RUclips 💛💛

  • @فاطمة-ج4خ3ب
    @فاطمة-ج4خ3ب 6 лет назад +8

    Wow Shahd, I am SO PROUD of you, excellent, excellent job!

  • @fatimayusuf2728
    @fatimayusuf2728 4 года назад

    I'm feel so happy that there are black muslim women like you out there. You are an inspiration to all the black muslim women out there.

  • @MarcusXavier1
    @MarcusXavier1 5 лет назад +1

    Her skin is so flawless 🤩👑

  • @catluvr8781
    @catluvr8781 6 лет назад +115

    I love refinery29 for making these type of videos :)
    #R29SQUAD

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад

      +claire Thanks for hanging out with us!! #R29squad

  • @grigotts
    @grigotts 5 лет назад +9

    I wore hijab for first time when I was 13 and it was damn hard because it never stayed over my head !! My family kept saying me I was too young so I should wear it when I grew older. Now I'm 25 and wear hijab like nobodys business 😁😁

  • @hadeelkhalidxx
    @hadeelkhalidxx 6 лет назад +9

    YASS GIRL REPRESENT✊🏾

  • @zeinabtaha3854
    @zeinabtaha3854 6 лет назад

    it’s wonderful seeing another Sudanese woman speaking of her religion and culture! thank you for sharing your story, Shahd!

  • @saharamer978
    @saharamer978 6 лет назад +1

    Shahd i’m sooo proud of you girl, I’m from Saudi and I really respect you, you go girl 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️

  • @mochochino4546
    @mochochino4546 6 лет назад +35

    she’s so stunning😍

  • @joannabrown9577
    @joannabrown9577 6 лет назад +31

    You’re absolutely beautiful and keep up the good work ( on speaking out about your beliefs and culture). God bless

  • @irinaermolaeva5520
    @irinaermolaeva5520 6 лет назад +63

    You are super pretty! What a beautiful skin and facial features you have girl! Wow! You look like a young version of Beyonce and Aaliyah ❤️

  • @khadijapaints
    @khadijapaints 5 лет назад +2

    I live in Pakistan and im a hijabi too but it is difficult for me too because people judge hijabis and i must tell u that Pakistan is a muslim country .
    Im so proud of u because u live in America and stick to your religion i know it must be challenging. Keep it up💓

    • @zahoor4488
      @zahoor4488 2 года назад

      MashaAllah beautiful comments, you are a great Muslim sis .❤

  • @sinead4587
    @sinead4587 4 года назад +2

    I am a Christian but I am so sorry that you have had to experience negative steroetyping and hatred. It is not okay. Together, I hope we can all persue love and unity.

  • @sumasuma5648
    @sumasuma5648 4 года назад +4

    I’m a Muslim woman lives in Texas and to be honest nobody had ever bothered me while attending college. The only funny thing is the looks of the young students to me 👀 I think they lack knowledge about other religions and they wonder why I cover my hear and body even in hot summer days and i also wonder why they don’t cover their bodies even in cold winter nights lol so I really don’t care about how they think about me and pray no one would try to hurt me in the future because of my hijab 🧕 🤲🏼

    • @zahoor4488
      @zahoor4488 2 года назад

      Assalam u Alykum, Ma'am I am a practicing Muslim Man Presently working here in Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦. Basically from Pakistan, I want to marry a practicing Muslim woman . who wear hijab and lives according to Islam . I lived in misery . I will give her much love and care I trust in Allah if she sees me she will like me .InshaAllah. ❤

  • @bubhee9086
    @bubhee9086 6 лет назад +5

    A hijabi living in America is sooo hard in my opinion. I wish my parents never moved here. My life is so bad in America, but I do plan on moving to the Middle East when I’m older. Id rather live in a place where I fit in and feel welcomed

    • @jacev5823
      @jacev5823 6 лет назад

      People escape the Middle East especially women and you wanna go back there??

    • @bubhee9086
      @bubhee9086 6 лет назад +1

      banana aya playa Laugh it out darling

    • @bubhee9086
      @bubhee9086 6 лет назад +1

      Vitaliy Eva Yeah I wanna go there. I’ve never gotten to see my own country and I wanna live in a place with my own people who have the same blood as me. Maybe that’s why?...Are you even Middle Eastern?

    • @jacev5823
      @jacev5823 6 лет назад

      Bubhee unfortunately yes what country are u from?

    • @bubhee9086
      @bubhee9086 6 лет назад

      Vitaliy Eva “Unfortunately yes”? Yeah, I don’t think you are

  • @asoto7122
    @asoto7122 6 лет назад +10

    Respect & blessings.

  • @ingridmarianarodriguez8539
    @ingridmarianarodriguez8539 4 года назад +2

    Although I am not a Muslim I believe that we must accept other culrures I have been listening to the Holly koran for about a year and it bmakes me happy and feels a lot of peace but my relatives did not agree with me they think I am getting crazy and they are wrong I am the same person but the problem is Would my family love me if I decide to become Muslim?

    • @yusira27
      @yusira27 4 года назад

      Ingrid Mriana If you believe, go for it . Check Islam in Spanish channel , it has Latino community.

    • @NaturalSeaWave
      @NaturalSeaWave 3 года назад

      Have you reverted yet ? (:

  • @ariff.s
    @ariff.s 6 лет назад +1

    Her skin is a perfection

  • @ohkay680
    @ohkay680 6 лет назад +38

    Omg yess my fave SHAHD

  • @Sarahmint-hw1ki
    @Sarahmint-hw1ki 4 года назад +6

    My mom while she was in America, was threatened that if she didn’t take of her hijab they would harm her

  • @fatimaalameri5118
    @fatimaalameri5118 6 лет назад +17

    Omg love that for you shahd ❤️

  • @alsadegabubaker8950
    @alsadegabubaker8950 4 года назад +1

    Iam Sudanese andI’m really proud of you my sister let’s keep going

  • @naila6603
    @naila6603 6 лет назад +1

    I’m just liking every comment because I know it’s postive, this is a great example of what RUclips should be

  • @Miss_K3k97
    @Miss_K3k97 5 лет назад +4

    I’m actually a Christian Hijabi, and I’m stared at, had people talk shit under my breath, I’ve had people stop dead in their tracks and stare at me as if I’m some rare artifact, and the worse thing is that I was stalked in Walmart by two employees while trying to get last minute Christmas shopping done.

    • @afiqh9909
      @afiqh9909 3 года назад +1

      Huh? R u an orthodox Christian just curious.

  • @shaziai32
    @shaziai32 6 лет назад +14

    PROUD TO BE A HIJABI!! ❤😃

  • @samabenamer9452
    @samabenamer9452 6 лет назад +50

    finally!!! i was looking forward to this video and it's even better than i expected!! thank you refinery 29 for supporting women of all backgrounds

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад

      +samabenamer Thank you for being a part of this by supporting!!

  • @malenamamedova8845
    @malenamamedova8845 6 лет назад +2

    I am also Muslim and I always will be. Something that we are known for is kindness, we respect other's and we forgive. I am known as a Turkish Muslim, I don't wear a hijab but I am going to Stand up for my Muslim people.

  • @chrissiec2123
    @chrissiec2123 4 года назад +1

    I've come across Shahd's channel a few months ago and I'm surprised I'm just discovering this video of her on Refinery29. I really liked this video because of how much I was able to see her open up about Islam and discuss it with other people (not that I'm saying she doesn't already do this on her channel though).

  • @ramasiddig7033
    @ramasiddig7033 6 лет назад +4

    Oh my god i like what you did here that's literally one of the greatest videos I have ever watched , I'm Sudanese and I'm so proud that we have such an amazing souls like you , you are amazing and beautiful and this video gave me the motivation to start thinking about wearing hijab , keep what you do and we will be always here supporting you all the time .

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 лет назад

      +ramasiddig So glad you got something out of it!! :)

  • @Kittygory
    @Kittygory 6 лет назад +4

    I’m a muslim and I started to wear the hijab after i turned 15. I felt so comfortable and so happy that i got to go through the experience of wearing a hijab. When i travel, I don’t like to wear it because i want to allow myself to also have the choice of not wearing it because it really isn’t a must. I still keep myself modest enough that I don’t wear shorts and super tight leggings.

  • @sannahafiz7872
    @sannahafiz7872 6 лет назад +5

    Omggg I'm soo proud of shahd batal...we need more Muslim girls out there to make awareness of such topics in beautiful and inspiring ways❤

  • @MagicalBlingBling93
    @MagicalBlingBling93 6 лет назад +1

    Muslim women are intelligent ❤️
    An amzing video thx Refinery29

  • @nabilakhalil8224
    @nabilakhalil8224 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much for making this video! And I hope that the people that think wrong about our beautiful religion have better understanding now!! And again really nice video!