"GOOD PAIN" & CHOOSING TO RISE ABOVE DIVORCE WITH SETHU GUMEDE | South African Youtuber

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  • Опубликовано: 19 мар 2024
  • In this conversation with Sethu Gumede, we take a deep dive into her story on pain, mental health and being a single mother. Tears were shed but this was such an impactful conversation.
    We hope this speaks to you and reminds you that GOD SEES YOU!
    Enjoy!

Комментарии • 190

  • @buyisiwembatha6698
    @buyisiwembatha6698 4 месяца назад +21

    You are such a safe space Kabelo....you are called for this. Um so excited ❤❤❤❤ Sethu thank you so much for sharing your life❤️

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  4 месяца назад

      Humbled!! Thank you so much for such encouraging words ❤

  • @sweetnessgyamboe4897
    @sweetnessgyamboe4897 4 месяца назад +17

    Kabelo Mohale is a powerhouse man!! A whole power house!!

  • @bongi445
    @bongi445 4 месяца назад +4

    I’m gonna watch this episode again and again. I will watch again in the next 5 years and in the next 10 year 😭🙏🏼❤❤❤

  • @thulisilegumede8060
    @thulisilegumede8060 4 месяца назад +10

    Thank you for this beautiful conversation, what a testimony. Yazi we have been carried well, God is really good. We are standing asazi kanjani because it is definitely not by our might, I loved when Sethu said we have been carried well 🙌🏾🤞🏾

  • @ronellecandice1536
    @ronellecandice1536 4 месяца назад +29

    As a person who doesn’t know this woman, it’s very difficult to figure out what happened in her life for her to be in a such a dark place. I’m on 25 mins and I still don’t know what the pain was ….I’m lost

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  4 месяца назад +2

      I actually don’t know how to respond to this! Yoh! Hope you receive from the wisdom imparted if you are that confused!!

    • @tshepisonjikelane2994
      @tshepisonjikelane2994 4 месяца назад +32

      I understand where she’s coming from, I know Sethu from her RUclips channel. Maybe next time Sisi, you can give context on who the guest is and what is their story. (Don’t assume the audience knows the guest or the context of the conversation held) E.g. I thought Awakening is a church, then I later realise it’s an event. I hope you receive this comment with kindness 🤎

    • @unathimdaka1180
      @unathimdaka1180 4 месяца назад +7

      She mentioned postpartum depression, depression and separation from husband(with a little one)...all of which will send anyone into straight time of suffering!

    • @ronellecandice1536
      @ronellecandice1536 4 месяца назад +9

      @@tshepisonjikelane2994 thank you for this sisi, Kabello assumed we know the guest and she spoke to her friend and forgot her audience. Thank you

    • @ABrown-mh8mp
      @ABrown-mh8mp 4 месяца назад +6

      It is like watching the part 2, you have to piece it together for yourself . We can glean parts of the story and it can make sense but we don't know the fullness of her experience.

  • @nonhlebixa2928
    @nonhlebixa2928 4 месяца назад +9

    Kabelo you're such a beautiful soul, with a beautiful heart, i love you both, sethu such a great wisdom.. ❤...

  • @akanirikhotso6513
    @akanirikhotso6513 4 месяца назад +15

    Thank you for creating a safe space for Sethu, I love how she fully opened up. Can Mohale sit closer next time? He wasn't audible.

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  4 месяца назад +1

      My honour!! Truly ❤ thank you for engaging!

  • @therealkganya
    @therealkganya 4 месяца назад +11

    Yoh! God knows how on time this conversation is for me. I related to so many things here. I thank God and appreciate people that can be so vulnerable with Him in their secret place and also share those moments with us, it takes obedience. Thank you so much for your hearts of service Sethu and Kabelo.

  • @teeelephant6658
    @teeelephant6658 4 месяца назад +3

    Wow 'I'm being carried well' reminds me of the scripture In Isaiah where God says 'I will carry you until you're old, gray haired'. God is intentional about carrying us only if we allow to be carried, allow to take a form of a child rest in our Father's hands knowing He'll take care of us. God is for us 😢😢😢 Thank you so much Kabelo and Sethu for this fruitful discussion. Your vulnerability and transparency is helpful and eye-opening. May God continue to strengthen you both ❤

  • @zintlecekiso
    @zintlecekiso 4 месяца назад +5

    Just by taking this step alone Sethu, there’s a GREAT outpouring of deliverance for your life. Everything that has your name on it, God has already taken control. Some things you will not even need to pray for anymore. Believe it and it shall be so. May the good Lord bless your mom, she’s a rare breed. May He also bless you Kabelo for obeying His voice to open up this safe space, clearly there’s a great presence of the Lord in this place. Bless you! Bless you! ❤❤

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 4 месяца назад +5

    Thank you for listening to God when he was asking you to be open and allow him to lead. Kabelo's way of handling conversations with grace is so heartwarming, you make it easy for the guest to open up, you hold space so gracefully ❤

  • @Jubileerivombo1
    @Jubileerivombo1 2 месяца назад +1

    Mrs Mohale. you did it here! Thank you so much for such a great interview. As always, they fetch us, fetch our edges, make us cry and then make us laugh. Most of all they make us reflect and repent

  • @Ofentse.P
    @Ofentse.P 4 месяца назад +3

    No words, just gratitude for the great work you are doing Mrs Mohale.❤

  • @hlengiwehadebe_
    @hlengiwehadebe_ 4 месяца назад +2

    It follows you around everywhere 💔 I can attest to this so much. But I’m now braver than I was yesterday cause I know that I’m not in this situation alone. It’s hard, lonely and confusing. I sometimes wonder why me but God has shown Himself in many ways, many many ways. He has provided for me and my son and I’m forever grateful for that. These little humans are truly God’s gift. They teach us so much and they bring out somany emotions 😅😅but they are our purpose to carry on and move forward ❤.

  • @an35e
    @an35e 4 месяца назад

    You’re both so beautiful, inside and out. Thank you for walking in your divine purpose and destiny. It’s so inspiring to see.

  • @MamorakaPetje
    @MamorakaPetje 4 месяца назад +3

    I fully understand what Sethu said about being in the valley and your trying to grasp things and God just comes and says be still. I keep asking him how because it’s so hard 😭😭😭

  • @Chenille19
    @Chenille19 4 месяца назад +4

    This was so timely. So much insight. I really enjoyed this. I loved it when Sethu said she was carried well and yes, He carries us well.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 4 месяца назад

    Thank you ladies! Absolutely beautiful!

  • @dineomoaisi6724
    @dineomoaisi6724 4 месяца назад +3

    This was so good! God is raising a generation that will bring him Glory 😊and will take zero credit for it. I’m glad that he is doing that through you Kabelo and Mogale🎉

  • @nonhlanhlankosi4926
    @nonhlanhlankosi4926 4 месяца назад

    Watched this during my morning devotion. ❤oh it blessed my heart. Thank you ladies

  • @NthatengMagongoa-cj9lg
    @NthatengMagongoa-cj9lg 4 месяца назад

    Thank you to the Mohales for the beautiful episode, so much wisdom and encouragement. I cant wait to see more of what you have for us ❤

  • @bonniedintlhoane3538
    @bonniedintlhoane3538 4 месяца назад

    Such a powerful and beautiful interview! I needed this

  • @nothandodube7573
    @nothandodube7573 4 месяца назад

    This was beautiful, thank you so much

  • @sandyleputu8258
    @sandyleputu8258 4 месяца назад

    Mmmmmmh this has really touched parts of me that I was hiding. I just found myself crying too. Thank you for blessing us

  • @reshoketsoemashitisho3681
    @reshoketsoemashitisho3681 4 месяца назад

    This was so beautiful. I resonated with Sethu so much. God has called us for such a time as this. Thank you ladies

  • @dadaidzvairo9198
    @dadaidzvairo9198 4 месяца назад

    This was beautiful to watch, thank you for sharing ladies

  • @NomvelisoNtsinde-hi6zf
    @NomvelisoNtsinde-hi6zf 4 месяца назад +4

    Based on this evidence, He is still God! Glory to Jesus🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺

  • @Khanyisa_Ngxila
    @Khanyisa_Ngxila 4 месяца назад +1

    This episode has brought so much revelation to me. Man! I'm carried well. ❤ What Sethu did at Awakened! Cannot be forgotten.
    Maaan, good pain! Yhoooooo!

  • @ZakaniNgqokotya
    @ZakaniNgqokotya 4 месяца назад

    Wow I'm so sobbing with this interview....thank you guys for encouraging me in the pain I'm going through ❤

  • @PORTIAMAKWETU-po7yh
    @PORTIAMAKWETU-po7yh 4 месяца назад +1

    What a heart filled conversation! I love you guys at B.Connect… I pray I make it again this year to the service. I surely had an amazing time being at awakened last year.

  • @HlobeezHive
    @HlobeezHive 4 месяца назад +1

    What a beautiful conversation ❤🌻 B connects is definitely a God move thank you to both of you ladies for your vulnerability may the God Lord continue to use you. And Yes Sethu at Awakened last year was surely Godfluenced🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😇Cannot wait for this year!💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @kamogelomithi5738
    @kamogelomithi5738 4 месяца назад +2

    A big round of applause for the good quality sound 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @colleenvanvore2481
    @colleenvanvore2481 4 месяца назад

    This was a beautiful interview. Thank you 🥹❤️

  • @user-sg8mj7kc7d
    @user-sg8mj7kc7d 4 месяца назад

    enjoyed this love you sethu girl!

  • @unathimdaka1180
    @unathimdaka1180 4 месяца назад

    What a beautiful conversation Kabelo, well done ladies.
    The formative work in those 2years Sethu can never be undone! You will never be the same again! The call on your life is huge...but you know this.❤

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 4 месяца назад

    What a lovely episode, thank you ladies 🙏🏻

  • @_faithrestored_
    @_faithrestored_ 4 месяца назад

    Thank you both for this, you are doing the Lord’s work.
    Praise God 🙌🏾

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi 4 месяца назад

    What a beautiful and impactful conversation. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. Kabelo, thank you for the work that you are doing. May God continue to guide you and be with you 🙏🏽

  • @kaykekana9484
    @kaykekana9484 4 месяца назад

    Oh wow love you sethu ❤thanks kabelo for this quite inspiring and fulfilling

  • @juzasgatya4274
    @juzasgatya4274 4 месяца назад

    Beautiful conversation loved it

  • @vuyimamaimane2297
    @vuyimamaimane2297 4 месяца назад

    Sethu, thank you for sharing, your wisdom is spiritual, Kabelo your such a good interviewer, I salute you, this was just beautiful in all ways, beautiful woman of God

  • @lindsayndhlovu183
    @lindsayndhlovu183 4 месяца назад

    I loved this episode so much! You ladies touched me in so many ways. May you continue doing the Lord's work, we are here for it!!🎉❤

  • @IamThandolwethu
    @IamThandolwethu 4 месяца назад +3

    Enjoyed this interview. 😅🙆🏾‍♀️ I’m totes this friend too, but it’s always ALL LOVE. 🙌🏾 And yes, “Restored identity automatically awakens purpose.” 💯

  • @nonhlebixa2928
    @nonhlebixa2928 4 месяца назад

    What a beautiful Conversation, from these two beautiful, anointed women of God, i feel soo uplifted, i was in such a bad space.. But i thank the Lord for leading me to this podcast i feel soo awakened 🙌❤️

  • @faithlebone3675
    @faithlebone3675 3 месяца назад

    Yoh. This episode moved my spirit. I needed this

  • @mmayenejiasa1243
    @mmayenejiasa1243 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much! I learnt a lot.

  • @phumimthiyane289
    @phumimthiyane289 4 месяца назад

    God has chosen you and will partner with you powerfully so...Kabelo.
    Thank you Sethu and Kabelo for empowering us
    Beautiful conversations 💕

  • @Princess_Ngokz
    @Princess_Ngokz 4 месяца назад +1

    Oh Kabelo..you are such a warm soul❤

  • @carolm1738
    @carolm1738 3 месяца назад

    This has spoken to my life in so many ways, basically just making me aware that my path is normal, Zethu i pray strength and ministry over your life, just to tell your story, your pain is not in vain.

  • @nessa.n5601
    @nessa.n5601 4 месяца назад

    Oh this was beautiful❤️❤️❤️

  • @thabisorams1071
    @thabisorams1071 4 месяца назад

    Congratulations to you Kabelo this is awesome.

  • @Journeyingwithhope
    @Journeyingwithhope 4 месяца назад

    What a beautiful conversation 🙌🏼

  • @nomcebosimelane9434
    @nomcebosimelane9434 3 месяца назад

    Sho Kabelo and Serhu, this was so beautiful❤

  • @boipelomogudi6861
    @boipelomogudi6861 4 месяца назад

    These instructions , especially at the end were for me!!!

  • @baphiwemacanda2733
    @baphiwemacanda2733 4 месяца назад

    This was so beautiful. I’ve followed both of you for years and to witness both your journeys, is indeed evidence that God is with you.
    Sethu God is about to a THING with you sisi, (always has though) it’s all for His Glory. When you meet Him and He says “Well Done”, it will ALL be worth it. Love you ladies so much ❤️🌺

  • @nombusokulati
    @nombusokulati 4 месяца назад

    "I AM CARRIED WELL" A respond I brought me to tears 😭 I appreciate how vulnerable this space was for such to have poured out.
    May God richly bless you more Kabelo for allowing God to use you as He please❤

  • @Odwa337
    @Odwa337 4 месяца назад

    This conversation is everything ❤

  • @tilien4963
    @tilien4963 4 месяца назад

    This conversation was so relatable because I could resonate on how she spoke about taking her and her daughters life. I too was at such a point once and I regard my daughter as my lifeline 😢❤

  • @tinovimbamahonye237
    @tinovimbamahonye237 4 месяца назад

    You guys thank you so much for this!!❤

  • @nthabelengsethole4575
    @nthabelengsethole4575 4 месяца назад

    I enjoyed this glory to God❤❤

  • @khanyimkhize1134
    @khanyimkhize1134 4 месяца назад

    This interview is healed my soul 😭

  • @suenettematras7589
    @suenettematras7589 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤ beautiful conversation 😊

  • @nosisandlovu801
    @nosisandlovu801 4 месяца назад

    What a time, ❤❤❤ God is love. Shuu where I am, is exactly where God needs me at. Journey in marriage

  • @amahlebuthelezi6965
    @amahlebuthelezi6965 3 месяца назад

    Kabelo you are so gorgeous ma'am🥺🔥🔥 Your facial features are to die for, what a beautiful wife Mogale has
    What a beautiful conversation👏👏👏

  • @anelisamoyikwa1235
    @anelisamoyikwa1235 4 месяца назад

    I enjoyed this episode , Thank you ladies🥹🙏🏼❤️

  • @oumah_r6267
    @oumah_r6267 4 месяца назад

    What a beautiful interview, your words Kabelo at the end got me in tears. And I could see how Sethu held back tears. Funny how she uses laughter and humor to mask her emotions. But you kept on reaching deeper into her pain and that created a safe space for her vulnerability

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  4 месяца назад

      Ahhh sis! I am so glad this spoke to you. Truly ❤🥹

  • @enyo3877
    @enyo3877 4 месяца назад +1

    Super Excited!🎉

  • @NomsLoots
    @NomsLoots 4 месяца назад +12

    This interview wasn’t even two minutes in and the guest had dragged me by my bottom. Wow wow wow. Surrender requires us to relinquish control yet we hold on waitsi 🤣🤣🤣

  • @khwezimasinga
    @khwezimasinga 4 месяца назад

    Loved this interview ❤

  • @tshepisonjikelane2994
    @tshepisonjikelane2994 4 месяца назад

    Yoh Sethu Babes it’s so beautiful to see and experience your journey with you. You’ve come a long way and you are doing super well. Stay shining, keep on keeping on🙌🏾 it’s my 1st time on this channel, loving the authenticity and spirit filled conversation, as I go check out more 💃🏽😊God is good🤎

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  4 месяца назад +1

      Welcome sis!! So glad Sethu’s words spoke to you ❤

  • @julianhlane1848
    @julianhlane1848 4 месяца назад

    ❤I really enjoyed this.

  • @themouthpiecenetwork
    @themouthpiecenetwork 4 месяца назад

    My heartfelt😭Thank you! God bless yáll!

  • @JAHNEYKA
    @JAHNEYKA 4 месяца назад

    God Bless you both for this conversation.

  • @gabimthombothi4604
    @gabimthombothi4604 4 месяца назад

    My Friday is made🎉❤

  • @hlali_bele
    @hlali_bele 3 месяца назад

    Yoh. It’s past 1am and I am sitting on my bed, watching and taking notes on my notebook. This episode? Whew! Twas’ alot for just 1 episode! Enkosini. Siyabulela 😩❤️

  • @lisachipeta104
    @lisachipeta104 4 месяца назад

    Amazing ❤

  • @busimfuku694
    @busimfuku694 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing Sethu. What a powerful testimony. Kabelo you are good dear 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @melomelow4327
    @melomelow4327 4 месяца назад

    I enjoyed this interview ❤❤❤🎉

  • @lulekakalimashe423
    @lulekakalimashe423 4 месяца назад

    Sethu❤❤❤❤🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾What a beautiful conversation from Two beautiful women of God Jesus I say Thank you🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🤍

  • @ntshepisengsekhoto1806
    @ntshepisengsekhoto1806 4 месяца назад +1

    😭 Thank you ladies🙏🏾❤️

  • @dineomoaisi6724
    @dineomoaisi6724 4 месяца назад +3

    The admission to never consulting with God! Help us Lord❤

  • @inga_toyi
    @inga_toyi 4 месяца назад +1

    I swear I’m not crying 🥺❤️🫂powerful house 😍

  • @ncumisavellem7662
    @ncumisavellem7662 4 месяца назад +4

    “I’m carried well “ 😢❤🙏

  • @Jubileerivombo1
    @Jubileerivombo1 2 месяца назад

    "You have to be where you are right now" Oh my! Not me thinking that I will listen to this whilst going on with my work. Cos Chile!!! The tears! Surrender is painful. But it is good for us to die to self, so Christ might be revealed.

  • @siphumelelezondo4994
    @siphumelelezondo4994 4 месяца назад

    Beautiful 😢

  • @rebirthpodcast2023
    @rebirthpodcast2023 4 месяца назад

    A beautiful and vulnerable conversation thank you❤ I actually loove the song evidence by Siba i dont play it i abuse it!!!😅

  • @joymureithi981
    @joymureithi981 4 месяца назад

    so much love for these conversations from Kenya

  • @sbusisomaduna8748
    @sbusisomaduna8748 4 месяца назад

    Real talk fo sho 🤞 love you Sethu ✨♥️

  • @nokwakhiwamyataza7223
    @nokwakhiwamyataza7223 4 месяца назад

    Very beautiful and empowering conversation ❤
    Can we please get a 3rd mic for Mogale so that we too can hear his questions? ❤

  • @nozizwetwala5869
    @nozizwetwala5869 4 месяца назад

    Wow this was definitely powerful and so amazing..im in awe of this episode. I love how God just spoke to me through you guys this was a life changing moment for me. I pray that God increase and bless you guys with things and people you have never imagined..im so blessed, really thank you so much for this.

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  4 месяца назад

      This has warmed our hearts!! ❤❤❤

  • @BabsKilili
    @BabsKilili 4 месяца назад

    I see so much of myself in Sethu.

  • @namiledlamini8630
    @namiledlamini8630 4 месяца назад +1

    Am a new subbie...am so glad i found this space....a beautifull conversation...loved it.

  • @boipeloandsipho
    @boipeloandsipho 4 месяца назад

    This was such a beautiful conversation. 🌸 Really loved the transparency and vulnerability! Thank you for creating the safe space Kabelo. ❤️

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  4 месяца назад

      My sis ♥️🥹 thank you for tuning in. Honoured ♥️

  • @PaliMosilly
    @PaliMosilly 4 месяца назад

    Thank you Kabelo for this!! Thank you to Sethu for sharing her story,her experience and God's heart.
    May I ask that Mogale have a mic next time or maybe if you can repeat the questions he ask for us. He was inaudible. But otherwise such a great conversation. So many gems ❤❤❤

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for watching! No problem! Noted ❤

  • @jamesMahlako
    @jamesMahlako 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm the type of a friend as same with ausi Sethu, and it rubs off friendship dynamics in a wrong way.

  • @christinamphuthi8098
    @christinamphuthi8098 4 месяца назад

    Oh wow I really enjoyed this conversation and I resonate with it so much ❤❤

  • @lethabokgomo8938
    @lethabokgomo8938 4 месяца назад +1

    Just wow😭😭❤❤

  • @Amanda_Khanyile
    @Amanda_Khanyile 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this conversation. Kabelo Please can I ask you repeat the questions asked in the background I couldn't hear 😢. Thank you

  • @leratomotseko5088
    @leratomotseko5088 4 месяца назад

    🎉🎉🎉super excited 🥰

  • @dineomoaisi6724
    @dineomoaisi6724 4 месяца назад +3

    Sethu, you heard God and thanks for your obedience for sharing God’s heart with us.