Chilli's father had a lot of excuses, but the worst one was when he said that he gives attention to the weak ones because he knows that she and Hassan were ok. Hassan clearly was not ok when their father didn't call or show for dinner. Their father does not accept responsibility for his actions. He's a blamer, and he dodges the truth.
Wow, "I'm always gonna be a mother more than a wife" - saying that to a guy on the 3rd date! Props to Chilli for her honesty but if I was a guy that would make me feel like a sperm donor. These things have to happen naturally, dictating terms doesn't work.
The look on both Chill's and her brother's face when daddy said "it's gonna be different, you can take that to the bank". That look was utter disbelief...and for good reason.
i think chilli is moving a bit too fast on the relationship aspect. you cant be bringing up marriage and children on like the 4th date, thats crazy, you will scare a guy off like that.
All BS aside, when you are in your 40s and you want a child you don't really have much time. A child at 40 is not getting out of the house until you are in your 60s. Of course all this was a waste of time being that she is still not married or pregnant and she is going to be 50 next year. 70 year old parent incoming? I mean, I know she doesn't even look her age but she will feel it.
It may seem weird for her to bring it up so soon, but imagine if she been with him for a year or so, and he gave the same answer. It's better to know where someone stands to begin with, than waste time. Chili is in her forties and she wants a family, so she has to let em know lol.
Chilli represents the average woman who is trying to find love again after being hurt...I like that she is real and I give her that for sticking to what she is looking for in a man. Hopefully she will open up a bit more and the right man will come along for her...
I don't think that Scott only wanted sex but all that future talk killed the fun. She really needs to loosen up a bit... Just a bit. And stopping planning. She is like a PSA for all the things a woman thinks, but you DON'T say
Yeah i agree i'm the same way i don't think she means to be overwhelming, but she has everything worked out in her head what she wants in life and i think she told him all that stuff so he will know what she wants, but not everyone has their lives planned out like that. They have an open mind about it, but they aren't ready to commit to that with on the spot.
I am soo glad Scott was honest. I totally agree with him. They haven't been seeing each other long for baby talk and serious relationship. She turned him off..
Daddy issues...that is all that's wrong here. Plus, she has always put motherhood over being a wife, which is why she has Tron. She was not thinking about wife then mom, it was mom, then wife. She's got it all screwed up, she might as well just have another kid and stop this husband search.
Where Chilli went wrong is, when she said “she always be more of a mother, even more than a wife”... That’s not how it is supposed to be; it’s God FIRST, your spouse second, then your children.. and others.. I may be saying it wrong, but I do know for sure that God is first and your spouse second..
I understand that play time is over for Chilli and it's time for her to settle down with one man. BUT, she needs to understand that a true relationship cannot be rushed. Don't bring up marriage and children too soon while dating. Don't scare him with commitment questions and scenarios. Let it happen NATURALLY.
I don't think it's too late ever to see if a person is on the same page as you, get it all out on the table to see if u wanna move forward with that person because it's gonna duck once u start catching feelings for the person just to find out they don't want the same things u want so better sooner then later.
I can actually relate to chilli and her relationship with her dad... me and my dad, we had a close relationship till I turned 8 then I moved away to a town at least half an hour away and he said that he would pick me up and we would hang out...that never happened...then when I got to finally see him 3 years later, the father son spark just stopped...hes more like a relative stranger to me than my dad...
I think Scott could've been the one but she pushed him away with all the baby talk and wife talk get to know what he wants first off before bringing up babies cause guy will say anything to get ass and sense that she wouldn't put out so he just broke it off not to say that wasn't what he wanted in the future
the music on this season was banging!!!! especially on this episode. what is the name of the first song on this video? where they sang "let up". who sangs this?...sounds like chilli. i know everybody say the last song was callled "gameproof". and what about the second song??? "red hot"...who sangs that?
And if they say it's too soon for that most of the time they just wanna fool around and don't want anything serious at least or at most not at that moment
Saying I will be a mom more than a wife & if you’re a bad dad I’m gone scared that guy. I think he only heard I won’t be a good wife, I just want kids. I know what she meant but I doubt he did
Omgness, I wish I could hit the like button a million times, you are soooo right. I think she's moving way to fast, she wants a husband and a baby in microwave time..... It's not going to happen like that. Stuff like that takes time.
triple ooo Sounds like everybody is full of shit. You know nothing about this woman's personal sex life. And even if she did have a lot o sex partners, good for her. Men do it all the time. People really are full of shit with their pseudo-psychological moral bullshit!
Why hasn't T-Boz schooled her girl and let her know that talking to a man about children and marriage before they are even "dating" is running them away?! She has desperation oozing from her pores and she shouldn't.....she's beautiful. Slow down boo...
Winscott Express the truth and honest I would have respect that because what I went threw and what I know now we would have been friends as long as he wanted I would have respect him for life
She's hardly likely to find a good man with her track record! She claims She's a traditional woman but traditional women have children after marriage & certainly don't whore around like she did. That's why she needs a man with a huge penis....loose walls. Plus her Dad couldn't have said he wanted to marry her Mom since he was already married. He described Ava as some 16 year old girl from around the way who spent her time hanging around a group of men. I think he doesn't believe Chilli is his cos Mum was a whore too
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Chilli's father had a lot of excuses, but the worst one was when he said that he gives attention to the weak ones because he knows that she and Hassan were ok. Hassan clearly was not ok when their father didn't call or show for dinner. Their father does not accept responsibility for his actions. He's a blamer, and he dodges the truth.
Exactly. Chilli didn't let things flow organically. Control freaks never do...
Wow, "I'm always gonna be a mother more than a wife" - saying that to a guy on the 3rd date! Props to Chilli for her honesty but if I was a guy that would make me feel like a sperm donor. These things have to happen naturally, dictating terms doesn't work.
The look on both Chill's and her brother's face when daddy said "it's gonna be different, you can take that to the bank". That look was utter disbelief...and for good reason.
He wouldn't have given up so quickly if she didn't put so much pressure on everything!
i think chilli is moving a bit too fast on the relationship aspect. you cant be bringing up marriage and children on like the 4th date, thats crazy, you will scare a guy off like that.
But its okay to have sex on the 1st night, 2nd night sex. Sex, sex sex!!! No commitment people get on my nerve
All BS aside, when you are in your 40s and you want a child you don't really have much time. A child at 40 is not getting out of the house until you are in your 60s.
Of course all this was a waste of time being that she is still not married or pregnant and she is going to be 50 next year.
70 year old parent incoming?
I mean, I know she doesn't even look her age but she will feel it.
It may seem weird for her to bring it up so soon, but imagine if she been with him for a year or so, and he gave the same answer. It's better to know where someone stands to begin with, than waste time. Chili is in her forties and she wants a family, so she has to let em know lol.
Chilli has a desperate, rushed energy that turns men off.
Chilli represents the average woman who is trying to find love again after being hurt...I like that she is real and I give her that for sticking to what she is looking for in a man. Hopefully she will open up a bit more and the right man will come along for her...
Chilli you scared Scott off....point blank n period.
I don't think that Scott only wanted sex but all that future talk killed the fun. She really needs to loosen up a bit... Just a bit. And stopping planning. She is like a PSA for all the things a woman thinks, but you DON'T say
I agree she just jumped to baby talk like straight away!!
Yeah i agree i'm the same way i don't think she means to be overwhelming, but she has everything worked out in her head what she wants in life and i think she told him all that stuff so he will know what she wants, but not everyone has their lives planned out like that. They have an open mind about it, but they aren't ready to commit to that with on the spot.
@@lstarsabb She needs to live more in the moment. That was her biggest mistake. She's too busy thinking about the future.
I am soo glad Scott was honest. I totally agree with him. They haven't been seeing each other long for baby talk and serious relationship. She turned him off..
Daddy issues...that is all that's wrong here. Plus, she has always put motherhood over being a wife, which is why she has Tron. She was not thinking about wife then mom, it was mom, then wife. She's got it all screwed up, she might as well just have another kid and stop this husband search.
Coocoo 4 coco puff... Damn chilli!
Where Chilli went wrong is, when she said “she always be more of a mother, even more than a wife”... That’s not how it is supposed to be; it’s God FIRST, your spouse second, then your children.. and others.. I may be saying it wrong, but I do know for sure that God is first and your spouse second..
White men (Latino too) have game too. It's not just Black men.
Their story reminds me of my dad😓😓
Scott jus wanted sum cuddy
Her Dad is a knob. He just wants the money.
Scott just wanted some cat. He was not here for marriage, kids, love, etc.
so was he playing games, at first he was ready now it's fast i knew somethang was up, just like somethang's up with lasse or watever.
Lasse and scoot needs to holla at me
Anita Cayetano they are both so fine!
Anii Namiko Scoot? 😆
I understand that play time is over for Chilli and it's time for her to settle down with one man. BUT, she needs to understand that a true relationship cannot be rushed. Don't bring up marriage and children too soon while dating. Don't scare him with commitment questions and scenarios. Let it happen NATURALLY.
I don't think it's too late ever to see if a person is on the same page as you, get it all out on the table to see if u wanna move forward with that person because it's gonna duck once u start catching feelings for the person just to find out they don't want the same things u want so better sooner then later.
She like backs these guys in a corner. ..
chili is too desperate
She hasn't seen her dad in five years? I haven't seen mine in 11. Aww chili.
chili dont know what she wants !!!!!!!!!
I seen chilli at the soul train awards
Gameproof! :D
I can actually relate to chilli and her relationship with her dad... me and my dad, we had a close relationship till I turned 8 then I moved away to a town at least half an hour away and he said that he would pick me up and we would hang out...that never happened...then when I got to finally see him 3 years later, the father son spark just stopped...hes more like a relative stranger to me than my dad...
I think Scott could've been the one but she pushed him away with all the baby talk and wife talk get to know what he wants first off before bringing up babies cause guy will say anything to get ass and sense that she wouldn't put out so he just broke it off not to say that wasn't what he wanted in the future
Chilli's dad is selfish.. wouldn't a parent want to reach out to their children.. smh!
funny guy that scott
Oh man, I love Jim Carrey!
the music on this season was banging!!!! especially on this episode. what is the name of the first song on this video? where they sang "let up". who sangs this?...sounds like chilli. i know everybody say the last song was callled "gameproof". and what about the second song??? "red hot"...who sangs that?
Her problem is, she never met me.
One look at me and she would be begging for any one of these men. Hahahahahahahha!
Girl, you wouldn't kiss him, but wanted to bore him with your marriage and kids talk Scott call me🙋
Thats a looooong line lol
Nope that's a complete no no.
This so sad ;(
Ain't nothing wrong with that. As long as she like it, what else can go wrong??
And if they say it's too soon for that most of the time they just wanna fool around and don't want anything serious at least or at most not at that moment
Saying I will be a mom more than a wife & if you’re a bad dad I’m gone scared that guy. I think he only heard I won’t be a good wife, I just want kids. I know what she meant but I doubt he did
Chilli wants to much
Omgness, I wish I could hit the like button a million times, you are soooo right. I think she's moving way to fast, she wants a husband and a baby in microwave time..... It's not going to happen like that. Stuff like that takes time.
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Right. You gradually ease into that conversation.
There has been plenty hands in that cookie jar !!!!!!!!
triple ooo and you know this how??
every body knows !!
triple ooo Sounds like everybody is full of shit. You know nothing about this woman's personal sex life. And even if she did have a lot o sex partners, good for her. Men do it all the time. People really are full of shit with their pseudo-psychological moral bullshit!
chill girl !!!!!
triple ooo Funny. You're telling me to chill while talking about another woman's sex life. Hilarious! Merry Christmas! ;)
Why hasn't T-Boz schooled her girl and let her know that talking to a man about children and marriage before they are even "dating" is running them away?! She has desperation oozing from her pores and she shouldn't.....she's beautiful. Slow down boo...
How do you know that she hasn't schooled her when the season ended 🤨
She's probably been tryna school this girl for DECADES, but you can't force your friends to listen to you.
where is ep 8 ? :(
Sorry Chilli, but it is too soon to talk about marriage and children. But, you do you. You’ll find the one!
Winscott Express the truth and honest I would have respect that because what I went threw and what I know now we would have been friends as long as he wanted I would have respect him for life
And dsnt let it flow naturally... he probably wld eventually want a wife and family but damn can we sleep together first? Hahaha
😂😂
Does anyone know the song from 2:31-2:49?
Did he really want you for a wife at that time? Take it slow Chillie
She's hardly likely to find a good man with her track record! She claims She's a traditional woman but traditional women have children after marriage & certainly don't whore around like she did. That's why she needs a man with a huge penis....loose walls. Plus her Dad couldn't have said he wanted to marry her Mom since he was already married. He described Ava as some 16 year old girl from around the way who spent her time hanging around a group of men. I think he doesn't believe Chilli is his cos Mum was a whore too
I don't think any of this guys fit her personality. They won't deliver what she wants and there is a man who can do that FOR SURE.
She hasn't seen her dad in 5 years. Aww I haven't seen mine in 11.
shaysay compton it’s not a competition
i can tell chilli preference was mainly white or mixed men
Where does Tiyanna shop
Pity l don't have money
Chilli could've had a baby that night. If she wouldve shut up 🤫
neither of me
5.00 - 5.15 epic cringe moment.
What's up with her dad he is trying to look young he is to old to wear the hat back ward and he need to stop lying
How old is she
I think 39 at the time of this show
I feel that if you can goto Florida on a dime to look for a husband.. u can go see ur daddy in New Jersey stop with the excuses.