In conversation with The Crying Game cast: 'Gene Hackman was in love with Dil' | BFI

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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2024
  • The film-makers behind The Crying Game, writer-director Neil Jordan's Troubles-set thriller about an IRA hitman on the run, visit the BFI Southbank to talk to host Jane Giles about The Crying Game's release at the time of IRA bombings, its popularity in America and how a Hollywood legend took a shine to the film's transgender club singer, Dil.
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Комментарии • 134

  • @nstruebluey39
    @nstruebluey39 7 лет назад +91

    I'm happy to see that he decided to appear after all of these years. ❤️

  • @Brian_Spellman
    @Brian_Spellman 3 года назад +68

    I was thoroughly enthralled by Dil - then thoroughly shocked - then re-enthralled again, like Fergus! I'm a straight white American male but consider THE CRYING GAME a pivotal film in reexamining my attitudes towards people different than me yet sharing universal themes of love and sacrifice. I've watched the film over fifty times and still love it today! Steven Rea and Jaye Davidson should have won Oscars for their courage to play such roles with great commitment leaving us fascinating characters.

    • @DeannaAllison
      @DeannaAllison 2 года назад +7

      Yes, Jaye Davidson captivated me too. Brilliantly acted.

    • @grantwatt4559
      @grantwatt4559 5 месяцев назад

      You're definitely closeted man, good on you for sharing.

  • @DeepScreenAnalysis
    @DeepScreenAnalysis 7 лет назад +93

    One of the best films of the 90s! Never forgot Jaye Davidson's performance and in Stargate too.... what a phenomenal star quality he had. And it's wonderful to see him here! He definitely should have won the Oscar for this movie: Miranda Richardson too!

    • @dorakanizsai2297
      @dorakanizsai2297 5 лет назад +3

      I totally agree with you. This is the best wording about him: phenomenal star quality. He sould be a huge star.

    • @erepsekahs
      @erepsekahs 2 года назад +1

      I was astonished when I learned that Forest Whittaker is in fact American. Tremendous. In fact they were all tremendous.

  • @lucyinthesky2023
    @lucyinthesky2023 7 лет назад +97

    Question: "Stephen, were you in love with Dil?"
    Stephen: "I still am!" :)
    Lucky Dil! Love them both!

    • @Vanessa8123
      @Vanessa8123 Год назад

      oh my God, i was waiting for heard that! But dont understand what did he say at least...

    • @JoshMaxPower
      @JoshMaxPower Год назад

      I think we were all in love with Dil 💘

  • @dorakanizsai2297
    @dorakanizsai2297 5 лет назад +55

    If Jaye ever wrote a book about his life I would buy it in a second. I think he had very interesting youth years.

  • @s0nnyburnett
    @s0nnyburnett 7 лет назад +78

    Would have liked to hear more from Stephen and Jaye.

    • @JLBiddle
      @JLBiddle 4 месяца назад

      Me too! Just now seeing this in 2024! I had cancer when this was made in 2017 and was OUT OF IT. OH, I love this film so much!

  • @ildikoedit9110
    @ildikoedit9110 5 лет назад +40

    Jaye is just so cute, he changed his appearance but the way he speaks and moves is just the same after 20 years :) Thanks for uploading

  • @newyorkmyndd9801
    @newyorkmyndd9801 3 года назад +18

    What an amazing film. Had such an impact on me. Stephen’s answer ❤️”
    Aren’t we all love.
    I think Jaye’s reluctance and almost lack of faith and interest actually helps him play Dil the way he does. Aloof but vulnerable. She can crumble in moments and then be the strongest character fighting for and protecting what she loves. Amazing love story. Reaction videos are all the rage now but have not noticed anyone touching this one. Great film.

  • @gymtonica
    @gymtonica 7 лет назад +51

    Jaye is looking great!

  • @davidbrown6694
    @davidbrown6694 7 лет назад +47

    Its great that Jaye gave a reason why he stopped acting. It seemed like he was on top of the world. 2 hit films but his reasoning seemed legit. Im just glad to get an update.

    • @chrisjohn4605
      @chrisjohn4605 6 лет назад +7

      Sounded like a self fulfilling prophecy to be honest. Walked into two major roles from nowhere, is Oscar nominated, then says there's no roles for black people... Sounds like he just didn't fancy it anymore.

    • @dorakanizsai2297
      @dorakanizsai2297 5 лет назад +6

      @@chrisjohn4605 I don't know why he thought that there was no role for him. He could've played straight men as well. I wish he has been born 20 years later. The people would love his girlish style nowadays.

    • @TheYasmineFlower
      @TheYasmineFlower 5 лет назад +25

      @@dorakanizsai2297 He was a black, openly gay and feminine-appearing man in the 90s. I don't think it would have been as easy for him as you make it out to be. And it's not like we know exactly what happened - it's entirely possible that he wanted more big roles but it didn't work out and maybe reinforced his fears.
      Besides, back then he said that the publicity was too much for him, and that might have factored in as well. Not everyone can or wants to handle that kind of stress.

    • @dorakanizsai2297
      @dorakanizsai2297 5 лет назад +5

      @@TheYasmineFlower Yes, I know about his 'publicity-fears' back then. I think it would have been better if he would have been born 20 years later as I said. Things changed since 1992.

    • @TheYasmineFlower
      @TheYasmineFlower 5 лет назад +2

      @@dorakanizsai2297 And yet, maybe things wouldn't have changed if it wasn't for him. I think he was the first black person to be nominated for Supporting Role, even.

  • @Asidonical18
    @Asidonical18 6 лет назад +43

    My favorite film of all time. ❤ them. Love seeing Jaye Davidson again - he looks wonderful.

  • @ariesfairie11
    @ariesfairie11 3 года назад +13

    Jaye has such a lovely, calming way about him. ❤

  • @Rose_nouveau
    @Rose_nouveau 7 лет назад +21

    Thank you so much for posting this up, yay 25th anniversary! Pity the sound is so quiet even with every volume turned up full.

  • @lovefaith1714
    @lovefaith1714 4 года назад +17

    17:08 Jaye Davidson is a very believable & infectious actor that I know IMPRESSED the unimpressable for those of us in America who normally wouldn't have sat through such a foreign film. WE CONTINUE TO SEE IT OBSESSED BY HIS UNIQUE DYNAMIC LOOK & PERFORMANCE
    I'll bet by the shift in Hollywood in this Decade there would be a greater demand for His skills in America

  • @The.Last.Guitar.Hero.
    @The.Last.Guitar.Hero. 5 лет назад +27

    I went to the world premier in London and also the aftershow party in 1992 with the cast, Boy George and the pet shop boys

    • @teenalabeija
      @teenalabeija 4 года назад +3

      I was at the World Premier too.. at the Curzon Soho !!!!!!! A good friend got us tickets for my birthday Oct 27 1992.. 😁😁

  • @mauriceart6250
    @mauriceart6250 5 лет назад +15

    Best low budget film EVER. I wish there was some way to follow Jaye on Social Media.

  • @charlesdavis545
    @charlesdavis545 6 лет назад +58

    Wish Forrest had been there

  • @veronikahk1826
    @veronikahk1826 5 лет назад +21

    if i remember Jay davidson was the first guy i have ever seen in drag and i was absolutely blown away.gobsmacked, fucked up ...HE WAS JUST SO MESMERIZING AND SOFT I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM AS DIL

    • @Brian_Spellman
      @Brian_Spellman 3 года назад +4

      Same, I'm still captivated!

    • @88feji
      @88feji 2 года назад +3

      I'm surprised to know that Jaye's a black person, not latino as I previously thought ...
      .. which means he's not only ambiguous in terms of gender but ALSO in race, I can only imagine how difficult it must have been to grow up being misunderstood all the time ... well good thing he's beautiful looking, that probably helps ...

    • @Neo-Midgar
      @Neo-Midgar 2 года назад +6

      @@88feji As a trans biracial person, I can concur, it can indeed be rough, growing up not really fitting into anything. We find our way though, eventually. :)

  • @UnderTheTableGremlin
    @UnderTheTableGremlin 7 лет назад +47

    Jaye is still so sweet!

  • @vutEwa
    @vutEwa 5 лет назад +15

    would have enjoyed hearing everyone and not just Neil Jordan

  • @drummergirl9735
    @drummergirl9735 5 лет назад +17

    Ive always been in love with Stephen Rea😘

  • @lesternapoleongreen7543
    @lesternapoleongreen7543 6 лет назад +7

    damn nice upload. I've wanted this to happen for decades

  • @JLBiddle
    @JLBiddle 4 месяца назад +1

    I love this film, and I love all of you for making it.❤

  • @bl6797
    @bl6797 7 лет назад +35

    Terrible sound! I can't hear them good at all!

  • @evgeniakoralskaia1650
    @evgeniakoralskaia1650 2 года назад +6

    Nice to see and hear Jaye.

    • @kamil_nz
      @kamil_nz 2 года назад

      Согласен с тобой :)

  • @alexandriato4201
    @alexandriato4201 Год назад +3

    Although jaye is know as an supporting actor, I beg the differ as people remember him in this film as an enormous star. His role and his magnetizing charisma of a beautiful human being..

  • @rockybalboa2526
    @rockybalboa2526 2 месяца назад +1

    NO ONE MENTIONED OR TALKED ABOUT THE INCREDIBLE JOB JAYE DID AS DIL!!! HE MADE THE CHARACTER VERY REAL, VERY BELIEVABLE, AND VERY MUCH A WOMAN. I WOULD HAVE DATED HER! SHE WAS VERY REAL, FEMININE AND VULNERABLE, BUT STRONG! GREAT JOB JAYE!

  • @teenalabeija
    @teenalabeija 4 года назад +4

    I was at the World Premiere at the Curzon Soho. .. A friend got us tickets for my birthday.. Oct 27 1992.. had a great evening and loved the movie!!!!!!!!

    • @nstruebluey39
      @nstruebluey39 3 года назад +1

      What were your experiences with the cast? Did you get to meet Jaye, and was he nice?

    • @teenalabeija
      @teenalabeija 3 года назад +3

      @@nstruebluey39 No unfortunately not. Didn't actually have a chance to chat to any of the cast, but I saw Jaye and some of the other cast members.
      And funnily enough, almost 30 years later, I live just a few minutes walk from the location where they filmed the front of the Metro Bar.. (the inside scenes were filmed at another location nearby down the road)

  • @dalaylapalace9547
    @dalaylapalace9547 7 лет назад +17

    Woooowwww best movie ever for me! Stephen rea and jay davidson, wooowww!

    • @DeannaAllison
      @DeannaAllison 2 года назад +1

      Yes, I thought Stephen Rea was a lucky guy to find Dil!

  • @not_enoughmana
    @not_enoughmana 5 лет назад +11

    MORE FROM JAYE!!!!!!

  • @deedee_31
    @deedee_31 Год назад +3

    i had a huuuuuge crush on
    dil and mr rea stephen seems sooo shy and humble and thts with any movie he does he is rarely a mean character and if he is he's still somewhat compassionate tht shines through no matter what or who he plays in a movie amd thts really rare in a person very few people have its like he has no choice it who he really is must be angel (i see u annie lennox) anywho he is one of the greats istill love him his little face alone makes u wanna take him in feed him give him a bath some close and a cold azz pint haha
    thnx so much guys for all your talents amazing film
    and i also loved the bar tender haha

  • @sandybau
    @sandybau Год назад +3

    Forrest Whitalker is missed! Just watched The Crying Game tonight for the 7th time I guess

  • @koll789
    @koll789 6 лет назад +7

    Kate Robbins sang The Crying Game that Dil mimed to.

    • @DeannaAllison
      @DeannaAllison 2 года назад +1

      Ah, thank you! I was wondering about that.

  • @jadeebabyy5577
    @jadeebabyy5577 7 лет назад +29

    jaye can be my baby daddy fr

    • @nstruebluey39
      @nstruebluey39 7 лет назад +4

      JADEE BABYY I know right. . Those muscles 💙💙💙😘

    • @Skitdora2010
      @Skitdora2010 4 года назад +1

      Jaye could be my baby daddy too. I have muscles and I would even dress up in a football uniform for him, if it helped.

  • @delbongo
    @delbongo 7 лет назад +18

    The Gene Hackman bit is right at the end, around 23 minutes in. It's not really worth hearing

    • @SueSnellLives
      @SueSnellLives 7 лет назад +1

      Thank you!

    • @michaelnemo7629
      @michaelnemo7629 5 лет назад +1

      Seemed so cryptic....what did it mean?!?

    • @ruly8153
      @ruly8153 3 года назад

      @@michaelnemo7629
      What did it mean??

    • @michaelnemo7629
      @michaelnemo7629 3 года назад

      @@ruly8153 who knows?

    • @petrimurto8571
      @petrimurto8571 2 года назад +1

      Gene Hackman actually has been rumoured to be atleast bisexual so this is not news for me that he was taken by the looks of Jaye...

  • @elizabethbellatrix-lestran3486
    @elizabethbellatrix-lestran3486 6 лет назад +10

    Classic movie

  • @snomad2248
    @snomad2248 4 года назад +3

    I can almost hear what they're saying.

  • @jayboy2kay7
    @jayboy2kay7 3 года назад +2

    Check out Jaye Davidson at (I forget) fashion show in 1994 I think.. with christian Slater and Kate Moss…. He REALLY a presence… its a shame he gave so little of himself to the world. But I respect him regardless.

  • @christopher.ALV.R3240
    @christopher.ALV.R3240 10 месяцев назад +2

    I love the movie ❤

  • @NuIVIb
    @NuIVIb 5 лет назад +5

    Holy hell you cant hear a damn thing

  • @briane5706
    @briane5706 4 года назад +3

    Miranda Richardson. Anytime.

  • @timestopper5505
    @timestopper5505 Год назад +2

    Miranda is still gorgeous!❤

  • @jihangamal5823
    @jihangamal5823 5 месяцев назад

    Jaye is still the same and very well spoken.

  • @PassionGrows
    @PassionGrows 6 лет назад +6

    Funny how masculine Jay Davidson acts now.

    • @TheYasmineFlower
      @TheYasmineFlower 5 лет назад +4

      I suppose he was bored with people constantly calling him Madam. Although I do miss his long hair...

  • @GILLYANNDODD
    @GILLYANNDODD 2 года назад +4

    Perfect singer for this song!!! This song makes me cry. All the suffering transgenders and others went through. We are all God’s children and people should never judge. We were all created different and special in God’s eyes.✝️💟

    • @Nightbird.
      @Nightbird. Год назад

      We need to get away from ALL religions and these fictitious stories of god's in the sky that have caused so much pain and death in the LGBT+ community. Atheism and believing in people, love and respect for our fellow human beings is the way to a brighter future. As they say..'Stupidity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.' We've done religion enough with horrible results. Time to embrace science and facts and do Atheism on a global scale to improve humanity.

    • @erin0719
      @erin0719 Год назад

      Transexual not transgender

  • @ckdanekfan3397
    @ckdanekfan3397 3 года назад +3

    Heavens Jaye, what did you do with your beautiful hair?

    • @jayboy2kay7
      @jayboy2kay7 3 года назад +2

      He said in his very very few interviews that he was tired of being turned away by gay men as they wanted a more masculine man.. so he built himself up physically, cut his hair and got tattoos. Now he is happy married. I can see his point, if you’re gay and straight men think you’re attractive enough to be a women and gay men find you too much like a women.. well .. there you go lol

  • @johnnrobin
    @johnnrobin 5 лет назад +3

    What the hell.. is the problem with my computer or what ? I can't hear shat.

  • @nikita.9
    @nikita.9 3 года назад +1

    Love " juego de lagrimas" fantastic film 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @kamil_nz
    @kamil_nz 2 года назад

    7:57 так интересно слышать его голос 17:04 и 24:28 (so interesting to hear his voice)

    • @evgeniakoralskaia1650
      @evgeniakoralskaia1650 2 года назад +1

      agree wiv u, mate.

    • @kamil_nz
      @kamil_nz 2 года назад

      @@evgeniakoralskaia1650 модерация наверно

  • @deedee_31
    @deedee_31 Год назад +1

    i was an extra on a film witth gene hackman in my home towm new orleans it was run away jury the whole cast was super nice jennifer beals i met gave her a high five for something i saw her do and no one else it was hilarious and she loves to knit and radio rahmeem walked passed me had said hi to me almost flirting and juanita jennings i helped her take her rods out of her hair didnt realize who she was til after we were done and ms wise i helped her with her shoes and my hands were freezing and she took them and tried to warm them up she was standing by a little portable heater she was great i was in a few scenes with her i think i know i was standing around her i am in one scene when she i walking and talkn on the phone on top the jackson brewery im right behind her this was amazing best few really cold day ever and i dont like cold anything

  • @paulwalker6297
    @paulwalker6297 Месяц назад

    Shame about the crap audio ☹

  • @lanagorgeous9485
    @lanagorgeous9485 Год назад +7

    The director used the archaic term transvestite or cross dresser, but really Jaye played the role not presenting as a gay man in drag, but as a pre-op transgender or transsexual woman, in terms of the pronouns and being enmeshed in that identity of the time 100% . The film was definitely ahead of its time in 1992. It was a really good movie.

    • @bambibina8986
      @bambibina8986 Год назад +4

      Dil is definitely not transgender, but a crossdresser - a gay boy dressing up as girl, but not wanting a sex change. That is/was not uncommon in the gay community. The plot is simply about Fergus accepting that he is falling in love with a boy, he thought was a girl.

    • @lanagorgeous9485
      @lanagorgeous9485 Год назад

      @@bambibina8986 100% trans but we can agree to disagree, not worth arguing with a stranger over the internet! Peace

  • @lowmazda626
    @lowmazda626 3 года назад +1

    can't hear

  • @Disinformation_Hoax
    @Disinformation_Hoax Год назад

    Interesting take on if this kind of thing could happen in the political environment of the last few years, when basically every hollywood production, be it netflix or cinema, is some version of the basic themes of crying game. So yes, it CAN happen, and there's actually not much else happening than reiterations of the cryin game. So no need to worry.

  • @patryvelasquez180
    @patryvelasquez180 5 лет назад +1

    JAYE I LOVE

  • @racheldicker5611
    @racheldicker5611 2 года назад +3

    Dil was a transvestite, not a trans

  • @kamil_nz
    @kamil_nz 2 года назад +1

    Jaye you are the best

  • @lemanbleu
    @lemanbleu 7 лет назад +4

    I dont whi .?.. Jay Davidson Not WIN Oscar em 1992 for BEST actor /tranforming. Vers vers Nice i sim so sorry

    • @airdoctor1251
      @airdoctor1251 6 лет назад

      al pacino dominated that year

    • @TheYasmineFlower
      @TheYasmineFlower 6 лет назад +1

      +Air Doctor Gene Hackman won the Best Supporting Actor, not Al Pacino.

    • @airdoctor1251
      @airdoctor1251 6 лет назад

      I'm pretty sure al pacino won best starring actor. Genehack man won best supporting actor. two different categories.

    • @TheYasmineFlower
      @TheYasmineFlower 5 лет назад

      @@airdoctor1251 Yes, but Jaye was only nominated in one category, Best Supporting.

  • @robertjones-eb4xo
    @robertjones-eb4xo Год назад +1

    Blimey how boring, WHEN we could hear it. Movie was excellent.

  • @alisteralister3790
    @alisteralister3790 6 лет назад +3

    interesting, would he kissing her (Jaye) again now? when he look like а man

    • @TimeandMonotony
      @TimeandMonotony 4 года назад

      I think he would, though he probably wouldn't have fallen in love with Dil in the first place if she'd looked like that, just because he wouldn't think of her that way.
      But now that he is in love with her, yes, I think he would still love her and desire her.

  • @꿈꾸는_기계
    @꿈꾸는_기계 5 лет назад +4

    I'm so glad Jaye is an actor not an actress, The movie was stunning, unforgettable. But, those were the days. Go for it Neil. I mean it

  • @reneweber9605
    @reneweber9605 3 года назад

    Teen Singer BENICIO BRYANT could be a "fallower" to JAYE DAVIDSON

  • @Burgmannn
    @Burgmannn 6 лет назад +11

    Jaye, why did make yourself so masculin? You were so lovely!

    • @TheYasmineFlower
      @TheYasmineFlower 6 лет назад +6

      Several interviews had him stating how he was often mistaken for a woman. I suppose maybe he got tired of that. He's still lovely, though.

    • @BLTKellys
      @BLTKellys 6 лет назад +8

      He never identified as transgender. He just took on a feminine presentation.

    • @johnnrobin
      @johnnrobin 5 лет назад +4

      Remember... he's a gay man. That means he wants to look like a man to attract...gay men.

    • @ТирионЛаннистер-ц1ф
      @ТирионЛаннистер-ц1ф 3 года назад +1

      @@johnnrobin why then did he present himself so feminine in his young years? I guess he himself was somehow not sure of his true 'gender' back then

  • @mrbrianoblivion
    @mrbrianoblivion 4 года назад +2

    Terrible sound, BFI should be better than this, can barely hear them speak.

  • @aliciadessironaldochavez8202
    @aliciadessironaldochavez8202 2 года назад

    ISAIAH 40:8 GREETINGS FROM GUATEMALA ! { I CORINTHIANS XII : XI }

  • @drummergirl9735
    @drummergirl9735 5 лет назад +2

    I wonder if he likes Hispanic women😉

    • @Vanessa8123
      @Vanessa8123 Год назад

      do you speak about Stephen? cause im wonder the same thing haha

  • @natalinaroxa5343
    @natalinaroxa5343 7 лет назад

    Jaye davidsom inesquecivel

  • @gordonowens7794
    @gordonowens7794 4 года назад +5

    Neil Jordan looks so slovenly...shirt to small, button undone, why do artistic people mostly look so unkempt? Hair is usually wildly long and uncombed, I don't get it, what's wrong with good grooming?

    • @Neo-Midgar
      @Neo-Midgar 2 года назад +2

      I can tell you from experience that when you have a mind that's artistically inclined, you can tend to get lost in your head a lot and care more for your ideas and inner worlds than for the outside world and your presentation. I struggled with it for a long time myself.

    • @LesleyDT6227
      @LesleyDT6227 Год назад

      Agree and he picks his teeth the whole time.

  • @adamquiles2468
    @adamquiles2468 3 года назад +1

    No offense to anyone who enjoyed this movie but I didn't like it because it was too out there for me.

  • @conniekreese7165
    @conniekreese7165 4 года назад +1

    Can barely hear used subs I don’t care what they say dil to me was trans more a lady there’s nothing about her that reads differently to a woman

    • @DeannaAllison
      @DeannaAllison 2 года назад +3

      Yes, my impression of Dil was very clear - I perceived her as a woman or transwoman, rather than a gay man in drag. This seemed very clear to me, even if it was not the intention. And he brilliantly acted the part, too. One of my favourite films.

  • @jocelynehourriez9902
    @jocelynehourriez9902 7 лет назад

    ĺ

  • @exoticlonghair
    @exoticlonghair 5 лет назад +1

    que feo se puso Jaye Davidson, es un hipster de 50 años, con muchos esteroides, me gustaba mas su imagen androgina en los 90s.

    • @exoticlonghair
      @exoticlonghair 4 года назад +1

      aun asi Jaye es un feo hermoso y tierno.