Exactly. I hate that feeling that heartbreak by someone else reinforces my own internal narrative that I don’t deserve to be happy. Wasn’t prepared to be called out today 😬
To anyone who sees this: you truly deserve to put yourself first! Self-care is actually the *opposite* of selfish - it benefits *everyone* ❤️ thanks Jillz for another wonderful video 🙏✨💖
🏵Imagination can break an emotional habit. -Imagine a perfect moment. -FEEL the moment. Smile. -The more you do it, the more the new emotions will become habits. -Our brains can’t tell the difference between real and imagined. -Which is AWESOME when you want to program something. 🏵Great video. Thank you 🙏
Don’t identify with your thoughts, emotional states and problems, don’t make them become you. Great video! So much wisdom shared so casually :)) You summed up everyones problems in 13 minutes. ❤
Jillz thank you so much for your time and words… with all your videos i can say I’m seeing clearer my life. I mean in three weeks i guess, i’m able to say what i want in my life, manifesting for it and working for it every day. I’m bringing joy to myself and to others, and stepping back from certain patterns that don’t depend on me but i have to live for now because it’s my family. But I’m vividly trying to step back really. Have a good day and take care, love you🎀
I looooove this fireside chat series! I also really needed this video. I get stuck in my own thoughts of what could happen to take my happiness away. It's draining and keeps me from enjoying the present but it's also my strange way of protecting myself. If I think about the horrible things that could happen, I won't be shocked when they do. It's so wild to write that because it seems so irrational. I've been trying to do more of the letting go and just experience life without the what-ifs. This video gives me more to think about and new perspectives on my struggles. Thanks so much for all you do!
Yes! Acknowledging that there was a payoff for me, staying in a toxic relationship… the pay off was that I got to be the victim, I got to tell my story and have people side with me…… once I could see that that’s what I was doing with my own behavior. Everything changed and I was able to let it all go.
Hi Jillz 💕 I just wanted to say thank you. Growing up with brothers, I’ve always been independent and relied on myself, but after a tough time recently, your videos have felt like having the older sister I never had (sorry if that sounds weird!). You’ve really helped me reconnect with my feminine energy and offered such meaningful advice as a woman, which has made a huge impact on me.❤️🩹🤍🫶🏻 Thank you so much for all you do, and I’m wishing you all the best!💫
I absolutely do NOT like the struggle or suffering, but I do feel this way about dark and toxic parts of me because I became comfortable with them and they in return fed into the struggle and suffering I absolutely do not want and holds me back from everything I want. What you said about being at a certain baseline really connected to me. I actually just wrote about how we become stuck with certain parts that hurt us because we become comfortable or they become our natural go to after so long, so it’s crazy you made this video.
Struggle is a choice and it’s so hard to admit this… but it is. It’s just a familiar feeling we go back to. We do have the option to choose! Choose YOURSELF for YOURSELF! ❤ thanks Jillz for new video!!
As a 17yr old I really love your videos.. Just found out your channel few days aback, from the how to quantum leap video. Usually I don't subscribe to yt channels often, but as soon as I finished watching ur video,instantly subscribed. Gosh! your explanations are crystal clear, its just so easy to understand.. Honestly one of the best content creators out there>> Your advices and tips are top tier. Excited for more videos from you in the future! ❤❤
I have severe stenosis of the spine. I can stand up barely but cannot walk. I have really been struggling with the mental side of this, I know from watching this that I can choose to accept and feel moments of joy, I just haven't been allowing myself to. I desperately want to accept that I won't walk again. I really have been so preoccupied with that thought that I couldn't see past it or allow myself to let it go and yes it has become familiar, as has constantly running through my life, wishing I'd done this or that! I feel now that yes there will be a challenge in acceptance and letting go but you've made me realise I am capable of doing this, thank you, it means so much 🥲
You are capable! Thanks for sharing your story ❤ I love the idea of allowing for joy even before full acceptance or letting go. We deserve it now, not when.
“And we're self-sabotaging and denying ourselves the reality we dream of but what if you gave yourself permission to be happy what if you gave yourself permission to feel at peace can you let yourself drop the struggle can you let yourself have it all, something to think about”. So so good 🤍 I give myself permisson to be happy, to succeed, to have it all.
When I decided to get to know myself I always felt there is something missing and I was not able to understand why I was choosing situation I was choosing. This video made me realize what I was not able to understand about my action patterns Thank you Jillz for this beautiful talk with you, keep doing more and growing more ❤📔
I'm going through a similar struggle lately. You're so beautiful, and I love how mature and eloquent you are. Wishing you all the best, and thanks for sharing this video! ♥️
Just watched half a dozen videos of yours about manifestation, all so so SO good. I would love to hear about what your husband thinks about manifesting in a future video too:)
This was a spot on video! I have thought that it's admirable to be the underdog and climb out of it. Interesting, but I feel like I've earned it at this point in my life, at 59!! Lol... I think...😅
Thank you Jillz for another great video! 🌹 Also please let me know if anyone creates some kind of chat somewhere where us women who can't come to Jillz' gatherups can socialize virtually and have discussion with each other without any creeps being included.
Hey jillz I was wondering if you could talk about dividing household chores and what you think about how these things should be handled when two people work full time jobs. Thank you in advance. I love all of your videos. They've taught me alot.❤
Jillz after only seconds i wanna give this input >> i truly and very firmly believe even though yes an easy and pleasant life IS amazing, as it is HEALTHY....our SOULS want DEPTH.......and depth comes to a larger part from also knowing suffering. what i also believe is, if we REALLY all or most of us had this easy peacy dream life.....what if all of a sudden a war breaks out or a huge catastrophy and we are so spoiled to the point we lack our fighting and survival abilities? i think thats the reason we keep struggling alive......bc we instinctively know too much comfort is the door opener for gradual weakness. might be the case i think
Oh Jillz I just love this!! I finally watched your first one of this a week or so ago. It’s been the perfect timing for me personally. I love this format! Thank you for doing it and I hope you and your family have a great holiday season!
I don’t even know what happiness is anymoreor how to get it. I just feel sad, down, angry at times and that’s about it. I have no idea how to force myself to feel happy
I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. I would suggest you to first figure out what it is that is causing you misery. Maybe you can try out some introspection by Journaling your thoughts. Or perhaps talk to someone and vent out. I believe in you and I know you can get out of this. You got this! Sending you lots of best wishes❤
I'm constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop. I've been through some hard things in life and it's hard to relax when things are going well and there's peace. I'm always paranoid something bad is going to happen.
😅 isn't this timely, talk about synchronicity. I had this epiphany while making dinner. Maybe I am the one who is comfortable in my struggle that is why my life isn't changing the way i want it to. I am not releasing my identification with my current life. I think I have to shift my perspective to see that another life can be better than what I am living now
It’s easier to break my own heart than to have it be broken by someone else or to fail in a public way.
Exactly. I hate that feeling that heartbreak by someone else reinforces my own internal narrative that I don’t deserve to be happy.
Wasn’t prepared to be called out today 😬
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To anyone who sees this: you truly deserve to put yourself first! Self-care is actually the *opposite* of selfish - it benefits *everyone* ❤️ thanks Jillz for another wonderful video 🙏✨💖
🏵Imagination can break an emotional habit.
-Imagine a perfect moment. -FEEL the moment. Smile. -The more you do it, the more the new emotions will become habits.
-Our brains can’t tell the difference between real and imagined.
-Which is AWESOME when you want to program something.
🏵Great video. Thank you 🙏
Don’t identify with your thoughts, emotional states and problems, don’t make them become you.
Great video!
So much wisdom shared so casually :)) You summed up everyones problems in 13 minutes. ❤
Glad you liked it 🥰
Jillz thank you so much for your time and words… with all your videos i can say I’m seeing clearer my life. I mean in three weeks i guess, i’m able to say what i want in my life, manifesting for it and working for it every day. I’m bringing joy to myself and to others, and stepping back from certain patterns that don’t depend on me but i have to live for now because it’s my family. But I’m vividly trying to step back really. Have a good day and take care, love you🎀
Loving the cozy vibes ❤
I looooove this fireside chat series! I also really needed this video. I get stuck in my own thoughts of what could happen to take my happiness away. It's draining and keeps me from enjoying the present but it's also my strange way of protecting myself. If I think about the horrible things that could happen, I won't be shocked when they do. It's so wild to write that because it seems so irrational. I've been trying to do more of the letting go and just experience life without the what-ifs. This video gives me more to think about and new perspectives on my struggles. Thanks so much for all you do!
Yes! Acknowledging that there was a payoff for me, staying in a toxic relationship… the pay off was that I got to be the victim, I got to tell my story and have people side with me…… once I could see that that’s what I was doing with my own behavior. Everything changed and I was able to let it all go.
Hi Jillz 💕 I just wanted to say thank you. Growing up with brothers, I’ve always been independent and relied on myself, but after a tough time recently, your videos have felt like having the older sister I never had (sorry if that sounds weird!). You’ve really helped me reconnect with my feminine energy and offered such meaningful advice as a woman, which has made a huge impact on me.❤️🩹🤍🫶🏻
Thank you so much for all you do, and I’m wishing you all the best!💫
Aw I'm so glad!! I grew up only with brothers too so I get it lol.
I absolutely do NOT like the struggle or suffering, but I do feel this way about dark and toxic parts of me because I became comfortable with them and they in return fed into the struggle and suffering I absolutely do not want and holds me back from everything I want. What you said about being at a certain baseline really connected to me. I actually just wrote about how we become stuck with certain parts that hurt us because we become comfortable or they become our natural go to after so long, so it’s crazy you made this video.
What a beautiful video to watch on Friday! thanks love 💕
Absolutely amazing! Thank you! And thank you for the book recommendation. Your last one ( The Courage to be Disliked) changed my life significantly!
Oh so glad you liked that one!! You’ll LOVE The Mountain Is You ❤️
@@JillzGuerin i've started reading already! it's pretty good!! Thank you so much!!!
Thank you so much jillz for this life changing video! 😍💗
This is so true 🙌🏼
Struggle is a choice and it’s so hard to admit this… but it is. It’s just a familiar feeling we go back to. We do have the option to choose! Choose YOURSELF for YOURSELF! ❤ thanks Jillz for new video!!
Hi Jillz, thank you for this video. I know how loss feels but I am still going to make the most of my life🎉✨
What a perfect video to prep for the super moon tomorrow 🙏💕 thank you so much Jillz!💙 🦋💫
As a 17yr old I really love your videos.. Just found out your channel few days aback, from the how to quantum leap video. Usually I don't subscribe to yt channels often, but as soon as I finished watching ur video,instantly subscribed. Gosh! your explanations are crystal clear, its just so easy to understand.. Honestly one of the best content creators out there>> Your advices and tips are top tier. Excited for more videos from you in the future! ❤❤
Aw welcome! I'm so glad you're here ❤️
I wish I would have found this channel at your age
I have severe stenosis of the spine. I can stand up barely but cannot walk. I have really been struggling with the mental side of this, I know from watching this that I can choose to accept and feel moments of joy, I just haven't been allowing myself to. I desperately want to accept that I won't walk again. I really have been so preoccupied with that thought that I couldn't see past it or allow myself to let it go and yes it has become familiar, as has constantly running through my life, wishing I'd done this or that! I feel now that yes there will be a challenge in acceptance and letting go but you've made me realise I am capable of doing this, thank you, it means so much 🥲
You are capable! Thanks for sharing your story ❤ I love the idea of allowing for joy even before full acceptance or letting go. We deserve it now, not when.
I needed this so much now. Thank you ❤
I livw the vibe of this video...the fire....the cup of tea. Yas queen
I've always thought that happines is a choice and it is.. Just like you it takes a moment to decide and forget all "the bad things" 💖
Your content is just amazing!! 💕
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you Jillz, so grateful💞💞💞
Thank you so much Jill’s✨💜
Thank you for making this videos, you are helping so many people!! Keep going!
This is a concept I contemplate often and work through. I love that book as well.
“And we're self-sabotaging and denying ourselves the reality we dream of but what if you gave yourself permission to be happy what if you gave yourself permission to feel at peace can you let yourself drop the struggle can you let yourself have it all, something to think about”.
So so good 🤍 I give myself permisson to be happy, to succeed, to have it all.
I have often contemplated this. Great video! Food for thought for sure ❤
Love the fireside series🥺
So glad! I love them too, so cozy ❤️
Love the fireside series ❤❤
When I decided to get to know myself I always felt there is something missing and I was not able to understand why I was choosing situation I was choosing.
This video made me realize what I was not able to understand about my action patterns
Thank you Jillz for this beautiful talk with you, keep doing more and growing more ❤📔
My All Time Comfort RUclipsr As Always Jillz💖💖🥹🥹 May God Bless You Always Always and I really really needed this video
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I'm going through a similar struggle lately. You're so beautiful, and I love how mature and eloquent you are. Wishing you all the best, and thanks for sharing this video! ♥️
I need to think about this right now, God bless you❤❤✝️
I never thought of it before. But this is so true...Back to the drawing board i guess..
Just watched half a dozen videos of yours about manifestation, all so so SO good. I would love to hear about what your husband thinks about manifesting in a future video too:)
You are such an amazing human being. Thank you for this video ❤️
I really needed this video and This is perfect timing. I am so used to be in pain that am having a hard time letting my heart be happy.
Cannot wait to receive my mug
Funny coincidence! I'm in my work break with a cup of tea, which is not that usual, and this video popped up❤
I like the way you explaining Jillz
I love this fireside series and the topics you discuss are so genuinely important. Thank you for all of your help Jillz.
This was a spot on video! I have thought that it's admirable to be the underdog and climb out of it. Interesting, but I feel like I've earned it at this point in my life, at 59!! Lol... I think...😅
Thank you Jillz for another great video! 🌹 Also please let me know if anyone creates some kind of chat somewhere where us women who can't come to Jillz' gatherups can socialize virtually and have discussion with each other without any creeps being included.
I love this video! Thank you Jillz 💕
I love this series and the topic is very interesting, definitely food for thought.
❤ I need this
Hey jillz I was wondering if you could talk about dividing household chores and what you think about how these things should be handled when two people work full time jobs. Thank you in advance. I love all of your videos. They've taught me alot.❤
Jillz after only seconds i wanna give this input >> i truly and very firmly believe even though yes an easy and pleasant life IS amazing, as it is HEALTHY....our SOULS want DEPTH.......and depth comes to a larger part from also knowing suffering. what i also believe is, if we REALLY all or most of us had this easy peacy dream life.....what if all of a sudden a war breaks out or a huge catastrophy and we are so spoiled to the point we lack our fighting and survival abilities? i think thats the reason we keep struggling alive......bc we instinctively know too much comfort is the door opener for gradual weakness. might be the case i think
Oh Jillz I just love this!! I finally watched your first one of this a week or so ago. It’s been the perfect timing for me personally. I love this format! Thank you for doing it and I hope you and your family have a great holiday season!
Ah thank you! You too!! ❤️
Interesting thoughts, thanks for sharing
You should do more videos by the fireplace! It feels so cozy :)
Just bought''The Mountain is You''. Hope I like it!
I don’t even know what happiness is anymoreor how to get it. I just feel sad, down, angry at times and that’s about it. I have no idea how to force myself to feel happy
You can force yourself to be sad so u can do otherwise too🌞☺️
I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. I would suggest you to first figure out what it is that is causing you misery. Maybe you can try out some introspection by Journaling your thoughts. Or perhaps talk to someone and vent out. I believe in you and I know you can get out of this. You got this! Sending you lots of best wishes❤
I'm constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop. I've been through some hard things in life and it's hard to relax when things are going well and there's peace. I'm always paranoid something bad is going to happen.
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i love the sweater and the nail color. where can i buy them?
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😅 isn't this timely, talk about synchronicity. I had this epiphany while making dinner. Maybe I am the one who is comfortable in my struggle that is why my life isn't changing the way i want it to. I am not releasing my identification with my current life. I think I have to shift my perspective to see that another life can be better than what I am living now
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Thug makes me think of Gay Hendricks book the Giant Leap
The likes are 369 i don't wanna ruin that😅besides this that vid is just on time
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Thank you Jillz for this video.🤍
Love this Jillz, thank you so much! 👏
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