Billy smashed the Panasars market and went to jail.Ben has done so many horrible things including human trafficking he's not fit to be around Lexi.I feel bad how Jay is being treated.
And Lola actively restricted Ben's access to Lexi in the past based on his actions. She was quick to tell him that he couldn't see Lexi until he pulled his shit together. What's different here besides the fact that Ben is now in Lola's position as Lexi's primary parent and Jay is the one doing illegal shit?
I can't believe Billy was being supportive towards Jay at first and then against Jay in the next minute. I am aware that Jay has been struggling with his loss of Lola and his mental issues but he should've known better. I know he is grieving and all, but his behaviour is also affecting Ben, Callum and Lexi. I don't think Jay realise he is pushing a limits too far. The more he keeps this up, the less of support he gets. I don't know how long Jay going to keep behaving like he is right now, but he needs to man up, stop putting himself before others because it's unhealthy when it comes to grieving. It is pathetic and ridiculous. Honestly. (sigh) 😒
@@Guitar-qv6gu he’s not her stepdad anymore as Lola is dead. Parental responsibility also doesn’t give him the right to see a child. Ben as the bio parent can stop contact at any point
Ben shouldn’t have said that in public and even in Front of LEXI too and Ben needs to help jay and so all of his family like Gina going love her and her sister but she my favourite out of Cindy and George kids
jay has never been/will never be lexi’s dad. having parental responsibilities doesn’t make someone a dad. he never had a fatherly relationship with her before this storyline and don’t even get me started on the fact that callum has been completely sidelined and treated like a second class dad for most of this story despite the fact he’s been her stepdad for way longer than hay has.
Jay was there for lexi a he'll of a lot more than Ben who tried to denied he was her dad on multiple occasions. Jay was there for lexi when he was with and without lola
@@jonathanstone.. ben didn’t even know lexi was his at first and when he found out that lexi was his him and lola agreed that it would be best if he stayed away from them. but since newcastle he’s been a constant presence in her life, unlike jay who was in and out of her life. jay was still with honey and playing stepdad to her kids last year.
It is his own fault. Nobody asked him to do drugs or go to that prostitute. Plus, he left drugs in the same house Lexi was in, clearly endangering her. What he should have done is to go to the therapist or talk to someone at least.
@hyperchicken1984 how many times has Ben let down his daughter 😂 but he father of the year he not capable of love because he didn't get any from his dad
Jay Brown is finished. He deserved after everything the mistake Jay made. Jay didn’t know what to do I’m sorry to say to all of you who are watching from home as well as the RUclips Subscribers. May I just just clarify this that Jay Brown is not Lexi’s Dad anymore. Ben is Lexi’s Dad. Jay should have moved on from Lola, but then he didn’t. That’s because of his mental health issues. Look at the bad state of Jay. And I feel so sorry for Lexi. I just can’t believe what the reaction was with Ben, Callum and Billy. Jay should be better off without Lola this time, but Jay keeps going back into the past like a life cycle from where he helped Lola die. If Jay Brown leaves Walford, that’s it. This will be the end of Jay Brown for upsetting Lexi about missing Lola.
I couldn’t agree with you more. I think that Jay is a complete disgrace! He’s a disgrace to Lexi, to his family and just to everything. All he’s ever been good at is being in the way of things and people, such as Ben and Callum, also when he was living with him, Phil and Shirley. I don’t even know why he’s still on the show…it’s not like he’s ever had any actual storylines. I’m literally sick of him altogether!! I really hope he leaves.
Wish everybody would just get over Lola already! Normally soaps move on quickly from grief. But now they’re dragging this on too long. The only person who seems to be moving is Lexi and she has more right than any of them to go off the rails!
@@MJFANDOMEXPOSUREhe doesn't automatically cease to be her stepfather just because Lola died. That's not how parenthood/guardianship works. Ben would have to apply through the courts and social services to have Jay's access rights removed, he can't just say 'No, you can't see her.' It's staggering though that a killer and criminal gets more consideration here than the guy who actually has given more of a damn about Lola and Lexi throughout their time together. What things like this bring to light is how many people still think that people with mental health/grief problems should 'just sort themselves out', because that's obviously so easy.
I'm confused. BEN is telling people how to be a parent????? Jay does maybe one bad thing every 5 years while all the other characters are consistently irresponsible jerks. Now when Jay is in a hard place they all turn their backs on him. Shameful
I feel sorry jay when ben did drugs drinking everyone always treated him like an angel when jay lost lola and did drugs drinking everyone getting mad at him and everything
A parent has every right to put distance between their child and someone abusing drugs. Lola would do the exact same thing - in fact, she has done the exact same thing.
@@Homer255 Perhaps not pin them against each other but he wasn't completely honest with Billy about why Ben and Callum told him to move out. Ben was angry when he found out about the drugs but still wanted to support Jay...it was finding out the lies about the Lola-look-alike prostitute that pushed him over the edge. That's the part that Jay left out because deep down he knew how it would look to Billy (and it's not something he can really explain because the fact is that it doesn't really make sense and it isn't healthy). Naturally Billy being Lola's grandfather (more like a father to her) felt hurt and betrayed and thought if he's lied about this what else is he lying about. I do feel really sad for Jay though because he's so lost and hurting badly. I'm worried about what's coming.
Some People who has either lost a loved one or had traumatic stress experiences, some people can only cope with drugs as it helps them forget stress and can raise dopamine. A lot of people are too harsh with people who rely on that drug . They just need more support and help them come off drugs with a therapist. Look for positive in life. I could go on all day. But i had to get this out there.
That's not the debate here though, it's having someone like that around an 11 years old child, who you're also flunking in even visiting, and who just keeps lying.
I wouldn't be at all surprised if we end up with a suicide attempt storyline here with Jay, after the initial grief/depression we're seeing now. The EastEnders plots are too depressing and dark nowadays. If it's not gangster stuff, it's mental health issues.
“i’m her dad” ???? no jay you’re not!! ben is her dad and callum is her step-dad. You just have PR over her which can be taken away by Ben in an instant. I understand he’s grieving but there ARE ways of dealing with it that simply don’t involve drugs and sleeping with prostitutes imo. Especially when there is a child involved. I just don’t see Jay very fit to be Lexi’s “dad” at all, not just because of the drugs, it just doesn’t make sense to me!!
Feel sad for jay he needs support not to bullied at and for Billy and Ben shouting at him and telling him he's not wanted is so cruel I mean Billy and Ben aren't Angels themselves in the past jay was the that gave them support when needed between them picking up the pieces
I would’ve told Billy that he should’ve gone to jail for abusing me and Jamie, his adoptive children when the kids were younger then ended it with you are the last person to be talking.
Billy finds out the truth Jay went though about sleeping with Nadine Keller looks like late wife Lola and he grief of her and now Billy thrower Jay out
Ummm NO Jay you are NOT Lexi’s dad, Ben is! And while Ben is far from the perfect dad in the show and a little hypocritical, he’s been a better dad for Lexi lately than you’ve been!
Billy the man who could have saved Jays Dad
Billy is and always has been a spineless wimp
Instead he was hiding and crying wasn't he 😅
If Billy even tried to help he would have been killed too
Billy smashed the Panasars market and went to jail.Ben has done so many horrible things including human trafficking he's not fit to be around Lexi.I feel bad how Jay is being treated.
But guess what that’s what he’s Lexi dad and he can stop all them from seeing her
So true very true
And Lola actively restricted Ben's access to Lexi in the past based on his actions. She was quick to tell him that he couldn't see Lexi until he pulled his shit together. What's different here besides the fact that Ben is now in Lola's position as Lexi's primary parent and Jay is the one doing illegal shit?
@@lexi219 exactly but I guess Ben supposed to let it slide cause it jay 😂
Whatever happened to that guy Ben beat into a coma just before or after he almost did the same to his nephew Peter?
I can't believe Billy was being supportive towards Jay at first and then against Jay in the next minute.
I am aware that Jay has been struggling with his loss of Lola and his mental issues but he should've known better.
I know he is grieving and all, but his behaviour is also affecting Ben, Callum and Lexi. I don't think Jay realise he is pushing a limits too far. The more he keeps this up, the less of support he gets. I don't know how long Jay going to keep behaving like he is right now, but he needs to man up, stop putting himself before others because it's unhealthy when it comes to grieving. It is pathetic and ridiculous. Honestly. (sigh) 😒
Poor jay 😢
Je needs help not yelling at.
Ballum have tried to help him to be fair.
@@lefez9015by screaming at him and throwing him out? Telling him how to deal with things and not listening to him?
@SaintUncleStephenFromCanda They recommended therapy for him and Callum has even kept things a secret from Ben to help Jay out.
@@lefez9015well Callum did, Ben not so much
jay isn’t lexi’s dad, he only has parental responsibility.
Therefore he can’t be kept away from her. He’s her stepdad actually.
@@Guitar-qv6gu he’s not her stepdad anymore as Lola is dead. Parental responsibility also doesn’t give him the right to see a child. Ben as the bio parent can stop contact at any point
But he did raise her Lexi
@@justaperson2222Ben did not raise her he was inside for something
He is her dad step dad and they have a relationship
I completely understand Jay is grieving but Lola would want him to be happy and to protect Lexi but Jay is dealing with it the wrong way 😢
He’s not dealing with it though.
@@Homer255 dealing with his grief the wrong way sleeping with a sex worker doing drugs and rarely spending time with Lexi :/
@@dannni17xexactly. He’s NOT dealing with things in the way that will help him move forward.
"Mooning my Lola" 🍑😂
is that the Sony Ericsson ringtone from about 2003 ??
😂😂😂
Exactly what I said I’ve not heard that in about 20 years 😂
My heart breaks for him :((
Poor Jay. He clearly isn't coping well at all. They shouls be supporting him not turning their back on him
I just hope Jay won't die :/
He won’t
Even if he does they’ll bring him back
He'll be fine.
Ben shouldn’t have said that in public and even in Front of LEXI too and Ben needs to help jay and so all of his family like Gina going love her and her sister but she my favourite out of Cindy and George kids
And she so beautiful Gina and her sister too
jay has never been/will never be lexi’s dad. having parental responsibilities doesn’t make someone a dad. he never had a fatherly relationship with her before this storyline and don’t even get me started on the fact that callum has been completely sidelined and treated like a second class dad for most of this story despite the fact he’s been her stepdad for way longer than hay has.
Callum has been sidelined ever since Ballum started.
Jay was there for lexi a he'll of a lot more than Ben who tried to denied he was her dad on multiple occasions. Jay was there for lexi when he was with and without lola
@@jonathanstone.. ben didn’t even know lexi was his at first and when he found out that lexi was his him and lola agreed that it would be best if he stayed away from them. but since newcastle he’s been a constant presence in her life, unlike jay who was in and out of her life. jay was still with honey and playing stepdad to her kids last year.
He shares parental responsibilities and acts as her dad now so yes he is.
Callum is Ben's emotional cheerleader. Hardly even a character for years now.
Poor jay he’s got nothing and nobody now
It is his own fault. Nobody asked him to do drugs or go to that prostitute. Plus, he left drugs in the same house Lexi was in, clearly endangering her. What he should have done is to go to the therapist or talk to someone at least.
@@Chameleon-wq4ultalking does nothing makes it worse mate
@@Chameleon-wq4ultalking to some is good but it won’t help that much but he been through hell
BBC Classic ❤
This is my favourite show
I love the people in the show congratulations
Man, Jay has lost everyone
Billy - EE's answer to Norman Wisdom - ...MR. GRIMSDALE!!!!!!......................
Jay is acting like he is the only one that has lost someone. Everyone has been affected but Jay is like "poor me"
That’s different, Jay was inlove with Lola, and Jays always been the supportive one, with Ben and Billy
@Url_Seth lexi lost a Mother, Billy lost a granddaughter
@hyperchicken1984 how many times has Ben let down his daughter 😂 but he father of the year he not capable of love because he didn't get any from his dad
@@svphicss and Dawn left him
Jay Brown is finished. He deserved after everything the mistake Jay made. Jay didn’t know what to do I’m sorry to say to all of you who are watching from home as well as the RUclips Subscribers. May I just just clarify this that Jay Brown is not Lexi’s Dad anymore. Ben is Lexi’s Dad. Jay should have moved on from Lola, but then he didn’t. That’s because of his mental health issues. Look at the bad state of Jay. And I feel so sorry for Lexi. I just can’t believe what the reaction was with Ben, Callum and Billy. Jay should be better off without Lola this time, but Jay keeps going back into the past like a life cycle from where he helped Lola die. If Jay Brown leaves Walford, that’s it. This will be the end of Jay Brown for upsetting Lexi about missing Lola.
I couldn’t agree with you more. I think that Jay is a complete disgrace! He’s a disgrace to Lexi, to his family and just to everything. All he’s ever been good at is being in the way of things and people, such as Ben and Callum, also when he was living with him, Phil and Shirley. I don’t even know why he’s still on the show…it’s not like he’s ever had any actual storylines. I’m literally sick of him altogether!! I really hope he leaves.
@@georgemiddleton3315 boo hoo im glad he was in the way of Phil and Shirley
Bill and Ben the flower pot men.
Never know such hypocrites
Wish everybody would just get over Lola already! Normally soaps move on quickly from grief. But now they’re dragging this on too long. The only person who seems to be moving is Lexi and she has more right than any of them to go off the rails!
Jay is not Lexi’s dad.
He’s her stepdad and shares parental responsibility with Ben. Keep up.
@@Guitar-qv6gu He was her stepdad* his wife passed away he’s a widow so he’s no longer step father
@@MJFANDOMEXPOSUREhe is still step father
@@MJFANDOMEXPOSUREyou are a cruel person
@@MJFANDOMEXPOSUREhe doesn't automatically cease to be her stepfather just because Lola died. That's not how parenthood/guardianship works. Ben would have to apply through the courts and social services to have Jay's access rights removed, he can't just say 'No, you can't see her.' It's staggering though that a killer and criminal gets more consideration here than the guy who actually has given more of a damn about Lola and Lexi throughout their time together. What things like this bring to light is how many people still think that people with mental health/grief problems should 'just sort themselves out', because that's obviously so easy.
Typical EE hypocrisy!
I'm confused. BEN is telling people how to be a parent????? Jay does maybe one bad thing every 5 years while all the other characters are consistently irresponsible jerks. Now when Jay is in a hard place they all turn their backs on him. Shameful
Lola aborted Jay's baby without much thought, she would deny Jay to see Lexi here just the same (just like she did with Ben).
0.01 is just normal life for a teenager. Getting drunk, eating takeaways and passing out on the sofa. We’ve all been there.
Gina should of decked Ben.
Gina can offer her couch for Jay to crash on, I mean she talks a good talk, see how she likes a druggie in the house.
I feel sorry jay when ben did drugs drinking everyone always treated him like an angel when jay lost lola and did drugs drinking everyone getting mad at him and everything
Can someone fill me in onto what happened in the Vic before Billy through him out
Ben you are horrible. I love Jay to bits. It's not Jay's fault about any of this.
A parent has every right to put distance between their child and someone abusing drugs. Lola would do the exact same thing - in fact, she has done the exact same thing.
Lola wouldn't even have thought twice, and banned Jay for this behaviour. Jay is totally letting her down.
Jay was really trying to pin Billy and Ben against each other
No he wasn’t?
@@Homer255 Perhaps not pin them against each other but he wasn't completely honest with Billy about why Ben and Callum told him to move out. Ben was angry when he found out about the drugs but still wanted to support Jay...it was finding out the lies about the Lola-look-alike prostitute that pushed him over the edge. That's the part that Jay left out because deep down he knew how it would look to Billy (and it's not something he can really explain because the fact is that it doesn't really make sense and it isn't healthy). Naturally Billy being Lola's grandfather (more like a father to her) felt hurt and betrayed and thought if he's lied about this what else is he lying about.
I do feel really sad for Jay though because he's so lost and hurting badly. I'm worried about what's coming.
Some People who has either lost a loved one or had traumatic stress experiences, some people can only cope with drugs as it helps them forget stress and can raise dopamine. A lot of people are too harsh with people who rely on that drug . They just need more support and help them come off drugs with a therapist. Look for positive in life. I could go on all day. But i had to get this out there.
That's not the debate here though, it's having someone like that around an 11 years old child, who you're also flunking in even visiting, and who just keeps lying.
@@Bruced82 yeh i know. But i still feel sorry for him
too depressing
Jay = Batman
Billy = Alfred
The mouth on Ben. He of all people. How does Jay know her anyway?
He thought she was Lola but apparently a lookalike
@@ShabazMahmood-s7z Thanks
Oh billy you Willy
Jay needs to be pulled away from the Mitchell for good.
Maybe Jay should tell the truth about lexi and Lola I really miss Lola xxxx 💔💔💔 xxxx
I wouldn't be at all surprised if we end up with a suicide attempt storyline here with Jay, after the initial grief/depression we're seeing now. The EastEnders plots are too depressing and dark nowadays. If it's not gangster stuff, it's mental health issues.
KARMA
Grief.
Egg.
“i’m her dad” ???? no jay you’re not!! ben is her dad and callum is her step-dad. You just have PR over her which can be taken away by Ben in an instant. I understand he’s grieving but there ARE ways of dealing with it that simply don’t involve drugs and sleeping with prostitutes imo. Especially when there is a child involved. I just don’t see Jay very fit to be Lexi’s “dad” at all, not just because of the drugs, it just doesn’t make sense to me!!
Why do people never tell Lexi stuff she’s no kid
she is tho
@@julian7934 not really she’s in secondary school becoming a teenager
@@Roxi22RNAF Yes exactly, a kid.
Feel sad for jay he needs support not to bullied at and for Billy and Ben shouting at him and telling him he's not wanted is so cruel I mean Billy and Ben aren't Angels themselves in the past jay was the that gave them support when needed between them picking up the pieces
I'm sorry did they forget/not know, that Jay had a looklike Lola? That could be why he turned on drugs...
oh god , i hope phil takes him in he needs help
Jay a mess he needs help.✌✌✌✌✌🥺🥺🥺🥺😢😢😢😢
That ending was so shamefully poor. This show should be a bit more dramatic instead of being dull
I would’ve told Billy that he should’ve gone to jail for abusing me and Jamie, his adoptive children when the kids were younger then ended it with you are the last person to be talking.
Billy finds out the truth Jay went though about sleeping with Nadine Keller looks like late wife Lola and he grief of her and now Billy thrower Jay out
Ummm NO Jay you are NOT Lexi’s dad, Ben is! And while Ben is far from the perfect dad in the show and a little hypocritical, he’s been a better dad for Lexi lately than you’ve been!
I’m so tired of this story! #FreeBallum from these losers and give them and THEIR DAUGHTER a different storyline.