It's so refreshing to see a couple that waited till they got married. It tends to be so discouraging coming across believers who don't abstain and make you feel like your decision to abstain is useless/worthless. So S/O to y'all man. 💛
I love how she was honest about how difficult it is to abstain, she is transparent about the challenges but also the overall benefits are far greater than the challenges
I agree. As a 20 something whose been waiting all her life it can be discouraging to meet or hear christian be so nonchalant about purity. To me it means so much, except just waiting for marriage (which always has the possibility of not happening), it also means I am willing to sacrifice parts of my flesh I know would be enjoyable outside the container of marriage but wouldn't be for my edification. I love love, but there is something so moving for me personally when I see a couple do love God's way or date within the parameters that I consider as godly. It is a great and gentle reminder to hold on still on days I might forget or be discouraged.
I love how they show us that Purity is not virginity but a state of deciding to focus on complete obedience to God with your mind, body and soul. Thank you for depicting a love that immediately reminds me of God. This couple is just amazing
These two are so wholesome. I won't lie I low key get a pain in my heart when I watch defining love. I'm happy for the couples but like that love has never happened to me to this day. I have never received a calm and romantic type of love like this. I hope to God he blesses me with a special person and a healthy type of love.
This used to be me… this is how I actually fell in love with this channel… As I type this, I am happily in love and in a relationship with my best friend of over 7 years 🥰😍 (yeeerrrr… I love that man!?) It comes… when you least expect it
Beautiful story. May I encourage whoever reading this that purity or celibacy should always be an obedience to God and not a "prize" for your future spouse. May God strengthen us on our purity of heart journey❤️
This girl speaks like me please 😭❤ I'd often say and try to explain that God really does speak to EVERYONE you just have to listen ❤❤ if you seek him though music or however He will !!! speak PATIENCE is the hardest even in abstaining 👏🏽👏🏽
I love just how easy going they are; like they genuinely just like each other it’s so beautiful nje the smiles on their faces.🥺😍 May God continue to bless this union.
So grateful for social media and RUclips. The world has become smaller and we are exposed to so much beauty and beautiful people, this is exactly how I feel about today's episode- simply and refreshingly beautiful ♥️
😂😂😂😂 Don't forget you still have free will though even if God could direct your path and show you the beauty of a person or their heart or his intent for your life using that person
When he said it’s easy to overcome when you’re aligned. I felt that 🙏🏾 it’s so inspiring seeing that they decided to start abstaining in the course of their relationship.
This was special . Thanks Defining Team! Side note: Honoring God takes discipline. To tune in to Godly whispers requires obedience and spiritual maturity! We sometimes ( I) get confirmation from above but ignore it. We plan but God decides, controls and governs EVERYTHING! Here is to honoring God , not only with our bodies but being zealous and hungry for the Lord! May we be blessed with husbands and wives God approves off. Ones who are aligned to our purpose , our impact and our calling. Be patient sis 🤣, stay in that season of singleness and be whole in it. May he or she find you doing the Lords work here on earth Love , light and a couple of forevers . ♥️♥️♥️
This was a gentle reminder for me hold on to what God said to me about my relationship. It's been a good 4 months and I was starting to believe that it won't come to pass or maybe that was just my own voice. Thank you.
Betunaaaaaaa uthando? Very beautiful man. I love how genuine and easy they both are, I love how warm and comfortable they truly are and Didi trusting God this much and listening to that voice?Beautiful man. 🥺🤲♥️
Wow what a beautiful episode, I just want to melt 😭🧎🏽♀️🥺❤️. This is a testament to the beauty that comes with putting God first 🙏🏾❤️. Thank you for being an inspiration to our generation, we often think God’s will is impossible to fulfill but you guys have proven that with patience and a vision it is possible ✨. Thank you to the defining team for yet another amazing episode ☺️🥰!
This was so heartwarming and beautiful to watch. This was refreshing, unforced, candid and so much more. I loved the honesty on abstaining - definitely not easy, but with God everything is possible. I loved the consciousness to seek to honour God even amidst temptation. May we always strive to cover each other in love. God bless you both.
This was beautiful. Y'all bring us the most amazing couples ever, even more exciting that it's not the usual faces we always see on our screens. It's beautiful. Now may we kindly have Nozibele and Skhumbuzo Mayaba😁😁 oh man people are going to love them. Please please please please please🥰🥰🥰🥰 Many thanks in advance
🎶🎵“ I see the crystal raindrops fall and the beauty of it all when the sun comes shining through. To make those rainbows in my mind when I think of you sometimes, I wanna spend my time with you” 🎵🎶 - 😊Shout out to the late Bill Withers
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It's so refreshing to see a couple that waited till they got married. It tends to be so discouraging coming across believers who don't abstain and make you feel like your decision to abstain is useless/worthless. So S/O to y'all man. 💛
I love how she was honest about how difficult it is to abstain, she is transparent about the challenges but also the overall benefits are far greater than the challenges
I agree. As a 20 something whose been waiting all her life it can be discouraging to meet or hear christian be so nonchalant about purity. To me it means so much, except just waiting for marriage (which always has the possibility of not happening), it also means I am willing to sacrifice parts of my flesh I know would be enjoyable outside the container of marriage but wouldn't be for my edification. I love love, but there is something so moving for me personally when I see a couple do love God's way or date within the parameters that I consider as godly. It is a great and gentle reminder to hold on still on days I might forget or be discouraged.
Please do not listen to them, be very intentional and keep pursuing purity as if ur life depends on it because it does❤
I love it also after watching a few episodes I kept looking for one that has a couple that represents Christ and this is it!!
Any from Tuks watching?
Right here 📍
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“I would rather not be with you for now than fall into temptation and risk losing you forever”🥺♥️
A word😭😭
I love how they show us that Purity is not virginity but a state of deciding to focus on complete obedience to God with your mind, body and soul. Thank you for depicting a love that immediately reminds me of God. This couple is just amazing
We hope you enjoy this episode with Didi & Zam! Let's get this video to 5000 likes ❤️!
"Making the decision was the easy part, maintaining it was the difficult part" and that's a life in general quote.
Eish🔥🔥
One thing about DEFINING, it will make you believe in love ❤️
You know the vibes🥺❤
I can’t wait to see Dennis fall in love 🕯😍😍
And has his own Defining love episode 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️
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Same😭😭
I'm so excited for everyone to see the special we did with Netflix and the Sowetan! What a huge blessing😭🙌🏿
Big moves 🔥🎉🎉! Congratulations, it’s only going up from here 😍!
Yaay!!! Congratulations team!!! Super stoked for y'all, well deserving 🥳
Congratulations you deserve it!!🥺
Omg congratulations!!! Cannot wait to see it! 🥳🎉💃🏽
Congratulations😍😍❤
Didi is really pretty, like in a cute way😍
Thank you ♥️
In every way 😍
These two are so wholesome. I won't lie I low key get a pain in my heart when I watch defining love. I'm happy for the couples but like that love has never happened to me to this day. I have never received a calm and romantic type of love like this. I hope to God he blesses me with a special person and a healthy type of love.
It will happen ❤️
This used to be me… this is how I actually fell in love with this channel…
As I type this, I am happily in love and in a relationship with my best friend of over 7 years 🥰😍 (yeeerrrr… I love that man!?)
It comes… when you least expect it
Beautiful story. May I encourage whoever reading this that purity or celibacy should always be an obedience to God and not a "prize" for your future spouse. May God strengthen us on our purity of heart journey❤️
Thank you for the reminder🥺🤗
That “grow together” type of love 😭❤️ Marriage will never not be attractive! Love is truly a beautiful thing! 🥺🥺
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Such a beautiful couple. I often feel like marriage has such a bad reputation and it’s beautiful seeing young black love ✨❤️.
🥺😭❤️ Dennis and his team are doing the Lord’s work here
Facts🥺
Danko🥺💕
This girl speaks like me please 😭❤ I'd often say and try to explain that God really does speak to EVERYONE you just have to listen ❤❤ if you seek him though music or however He will !!! speak PATIENCE is the hardest even in abstaining 👏🏽👏🏽
The moment she calls him by his clan names that humbles me in a different way🙏. DIdi you're so pulchritude and very smart. I miss Tuks now.
I love how the both spoke of Corinthians 13 in their love letters😭😍❤️ what a beautiful couple
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Would love to see Babalwa and Zola here😭😩🥺🥺
Same hey ❤
same
Dude!! 😭🕯🕯
Bruh♥️😭
A.J’s Parents 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️
Das right🕺🏾
I love just how easy going they are; like they genuinely just like each other it’s so beautiful nje the smiles on their faces.🥺😍 May God continue to bless this union.
Thank you 🙏🏾
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"You’re able to overcome,when there’s alignment “ 🙌🏾heard that loud and clear
Right!!
We can't wait for you to see the special announcement in this video 🤩🥳
Excited for this chile
Boooona😆😆😆when yall hit the loadsheding i was dying😆😆but S/O on yall and Netflix
Congratulations on your new series with Netflix 🎉
CONGRATULATIONS 🔥
Can we have Babalwa Ndlwana and Zola Mcaciso or Nozibele and Skhumbuzo Mayaba
So grateful for social media and RUclips. The world has become smaller and we are exposed to so much beauty and beautiful people, this is exactly how I feel about today's episode- simply and refreshingly beautiful ♥️
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I should also listen attentively to the Holy Spirit maybe He is busy telling me who my future husband is.😂😂 I enjoyed this episode.✨❤
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Girl!!!😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 Don't forget you still have free will though even if God could direct your path and show you the beauty of a person or their heart or his intent for your life using that person
Maybe you’ve been ignoring 😭😂😂
It is always amazing to see black love. So beautiful
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Yhoo aa, I'm tired of crying everytime I watch DEFINING Love/ Friendship
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I thought I was the only one 😭😩
Beautiful! When young folks speak of God in this manner.
Right🔥
"Watching you grow from a first year to a matured woman that you are" I felt it!!!
Feelltt❤
I think it is safe to say please, have DrMusa Mthombeni & Liesl Laurie
What a MATURE, WHOLESOME, BEAUTIFUL yet so young couple!!! I love you guys!!!
When he said it’s easy to overcome when you’re aligned. I felt that 🙏🏾 it’s so inspiring seeing that they decided to start abstaining in the course of their relationship.
So true! They were so honest about their experience and how they conquered it together!
The letters always get me cutting onions 😭😭😭😍😭😭😭 love is a beautiful thing.
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Didi is so smitten 😍 I love to see it 😍
I really am 😅☺️♥️
We love to see it❤❤
You and I both sis 😍
This was special . Thanks Defining Team!
Side note: Honoring God takes discipline. To tune in to Godly whispers requires obedience and spiritual maturity! We sometimes ( I) get confirmation from above but ignore it. We plan but God decides, controls and governs EVERYTHING!
Here is to honoring God , not only with our bodies but being zealous and hungry for the Lord! May we be blessed with husbands and wives God approves off. Ones who are aligned to our purpose , our impact and our calling. Be patient sis 🤣, stay in that season of singleness and be whole in it. May he or she find you doing the Lords work here on earth
Love , light and a couple of forevers . ♥️♥️♥️
Didi is so beautiful 🥺❤️❤️
Thank you so much ♥️
She really is
Defining and bringing love stories to life😍😍😍😍😍😍
I love how she put it that it was pre destined and waited for things to unfold and not rush 🥺🥺🥺ahgg
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“The man that creates room for me to be the best version of myself “🥰😍😍
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they are both so cooool. the foundation of friendship is so evident from them both. love it ❤️✨
Friendship is so important🥺😭
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This was a gentle reminder for me hold on to what God said to me about my relationship. It's been a good 4 months and I was starting to believe that it won't come to pass or maybe that was just my own voice. Thank you.
Betunaaaaaaa uthando? Very beautiful man. I love how genuine and easy they both are, I love how warm and comfortable they truly are and Didi trusting God this much and listening to that voice?Beautiful man. 🥺🤲♥️
Right🥺❤
Wow what a beautiful episode, I just want to melt 😭🧎🏽♀️🥺❤️. This is a testament to the beauty that comes with putting God first 🙏🏾❤️. Thank you for being an inspiration to our generation, we often think God’s will is impossible to fulfill but you guys have proven that with patience and a vision it is possible ✨. Thank you to the defining team for yet another amazing episode ☺️🥰!
Thank you so much ♥️
You have such a beautiful name
@@Bee_Vibes Thank You 😊❤️
So true 🙌🙌🌻.
And you have such a beautiful name. ' Khwezilomso' Such a beautiful name.
@@ClosertoGod612 thank you so much 😊❤️
The Khumalos are so adorable I cannuh! 🥺❤️
OMG the advert, l watched it twice. I'll probably watch it again. How fulfilling. Truly a special one
The full episode drops today🥺❤
This was so heartwarming and beautiful to watch. This was refreshing, unforced, candid and so much more. I loved the honesty on abstaining - definitely not easy, but with God everything is possible. I loved the consciousness to seek to honour God even amidst temptation. May we always strive to cover each other in love. God bless you both.
What a beautiful union - God really made you guys to be together 🥺🤍
Thank you Thobeka💕
Beautiful love story. I wish it for everyone reading this. If you already have it, may continue to be everything and more. ❤️❤️
Amen!
Bathong Didi. I love her so much. Such a great episode, Thank you Defining!
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Thank you🥺❤
Isikhona igenge eSingle izobawela🥺😍
Awwwww they have a handshake and everything this genuinely made me smile
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what a great pleasure to watch you guys! May God bless your marriage ❤❤
I need to listen to the Holy Spirit 😂😂😭😭🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯
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same 😭🕯️
This was beautiful to watch, waiting on God is hard but it’s worth it…God bless your marriage ♥️🥲
One thing about me, i will watch Defining Love! 😭😍. Thank you for all the content you give us Defining, honestly amazing!
You're welcome Mosa🥺❤
You guys are such a beautiful couple.
I love how didi listened to the holy spirit no questions asked🥺❤❤
Same😭
wow this is the first time hearing someone say they found love at Tuks
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Ayibo🤣🤣😂
"I'd rather break up with you for now than fall into temptation and risk losing you forever" 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It's so powerful 🥺🔥🔥
Can you guys please bring umieydreamz and her mans hle 🥺🥺
YES!!!
I beg. 👏🏾
Please!!!!
Million beggings hle...ka kopo
Yes please I agree with you
Location??
Sila💃💃
SILA
Sila!!!😍💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
SILA!
Sila 📍
The love letters always get to me 🥺❤️
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You guys!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Love you Didi, Zam is the lucky one to have you
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God bless u 2 for abstaining, may your obedience to th Lord inspire others to do th same❤
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This team is doing such a great job and I appreciate all the people that have come and shared their stories!! I’m love it!
Thank you B M
I'm not crying, you are. This was amazing
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This is genuinely one of the most beautiful episodes 🥺. Their love is so kind and beautiful and it is so inspiring ❤️
Thank you Lerato🥺❤
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Ayoba Zam! Super inspired and love this so much...
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Ayoooooba!! Haha
The special announcement 🥂🥂🥂🥂guys ahgg u guys are killing it
Full Episode drops today🥺💕
Nchoow kodwa uThando guys🤗♥️😩.
The handshake at the end👌🥺.
♥️
10/10
Aaaahhh, so beautiful OMG...
Thank you❤
They're love is so sincere am so inspired as a Christian am definitely waiting till married 👌👌👌
Y'all!!!!! They are so cute!
🥺❤️They're so adorable.. Didi is gorgeous 😍🔥
Thank you ♥️♥️♥️
This was beautiful. Y'all bring us the most amazing couples ever, even more exciting that it's not the usual faces we always see on our screens. It's beautiful.
Now may we kindly have Nozibele and Skhumbuzo Mayaba😁😁 oh man people are going to love them.
Please please please please please🥰🥰🥰🥰
Many thanks in advance
Hey Palesa❤️, we're waiting for them to give us feedback tbh
I love this episode. ❤
"And creates room for me to be the best version of myself"🥺
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The rib that i was from 🙌💙🥺 that was powerful 👏 May the Lord bless y'alls union🕯🕯🕯🕯
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I love the transparency and the funny moments, so many funny moments in this episode 😍
Definitely! Starting off the with first kiss😂
Didi is so well spoken🥺❤🙌
Very🥺
This was a beautiful and inspiring story that really reassured me in my faith that God does really makes it happen at the right time 😍🤗
Thank you Yaya🥺❤
Didi is such a good story teller. Love 😍 😍 her
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I thoroughly enjoyed it🥺🥰. My faves❤️
Thank you💕
Didi's looooong love letter is AMAZING 😍😍😍😍
Thank you 😅 ♥️
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I love how genuine this is. ❤️
Same❤
“The rib I was I was made from” 🥺❤️
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First time watching a episode premier💃💃
Thank you for joining family ❤️
Wow I thoroughly enjoyed this 🥰🥰🥰I love your family
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Thank you💕
I just love you guys, can't get enough of this🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️
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I’ve watched this episode so many times, this is just so precious man.🥺❤️
Yoh I love love man🥺🥰 When two people just ALIGN!😍
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All I ever got at klooster was chips 😭😭😭
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🤣😂😂😂 same
And they banged😭😭
i love them. OMW !🥲
I have a child and my boyfriend has been married before and we're abstaining till we get married, so I can relate to that.
😘😘😘 😍😍😍 im in love. I love them
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“Thank you for loving yourself enough to know your worth” 🙌🏽
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I see what you did there on the "Plum Pleasing Pleaasure" @Production Team 😍
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Love is truly a beautiful thing❤️❤️❤️
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This is really beautiful.😍
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❤️My favesssssss guys!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Beautiful episode
Thank you🥺❤
🎶🎵“ I see the crystal raindrops fall and the beauty of it all when the sun comes shining through.
To make those rainbows in my mind when I think of you sometimes, I wanna spend my time with you” 🎵🎶
- 😊Shout out to the late Bill Withers
Yesss!!! Such an amazing song 😊😍🤩♥️
@@langelihled One of my favorites by Uncle Bill
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@@DEFINING 👑😭