丈夫心中的林黛：「四屆影后」林黛驟逝當下，丈夫龍繩勳被媒體披露的反應與態度；與他在林黛去世百日後，親口講述的「婚後的林黛」
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
- 自戀情曝光到步入家庭，林黛與龍繩勳從不避諱當眾「曬恩愛」。年貌相當的兩人，互動親暱間蘊含令人羨慕的真誠，相偕現身各種宴會、派對，都是最亮眼的焦點。儘管妻子貴為全港片酬最高、獲獎最豐的女演員，洋溢自信的龍繩勳，依舊散發毫不遜色的光芒……一如兩人赴日度蜜月、晚間到夜總會休憩，林黛被司儀特別介紹而起身示意時。坐在一旁的龍繩勳，得意又驕傲的神情，畢竟「頂級的女人」也只有「頂級的男人」才足匹配。只是，夫妻相處難免苦樂參半，加上雙方都是名門出身、個性要強的小姐與公子，日常難免為了一些小事不愉快。對比之前一人在港、一人在美的遠距離戀愛，婚後的同居生活顯得格外「真實」，隨著「濾鏡」的破碎，取而代之的是大量的不耐與忍耐。
對林黛而言，短短1、2年間，她從「單身影后」蛻變成「媽媽明星」。影壇後浪不斷冒出的壓力，已令她應接不暇，偏偏原本體貼體諒的丈夫，也有「變心」的趨勢。內外交攻的心境本已快承受不了，不巧又為女傭辭退與否再次引爆衝突，雪上加霜的情緒就是林黛一時衝動，開煤氣、服安眠藥於自宅雙料自殺的結局。
#戀上老電影#粟子#林黛
Linda is an outstanding person as daughter/actress/wife/mother with her full kind heart.
Things happened without our control. She was/is loved and respected by her husband/parents/son/everyone!!!
07年龙先生病逝，他和林黛的旧居在儿子未拆除装修前公开让传媒参观拍照，当时大家惊讶他的用情深切，屋内所有装潢竟然像时空停顿般，完全保留如林黛自杀前的一模一样。
Thank you for sharing ur info i am very happy to know that its comforting to his wife.
He mst loves n missed her alot after all these years....its sad i guess its fated but at the same time mr.long shld also take care of her and give TLC very impt in a relationship or marriage for it to last. ITS OK they together now,past id past.
Do you hve info where Mr. Long buriel site is it next to his wife.
I tried to look for more info of Mr.long in google but nothing much...any idea where i can get the info thks a lot in advance.
根本不是真心想自殺真的是命中註定的一劫...龍先生也真的一生未娶孩子也栽培成優秀律師
林黛寫完第一封「遺書」還忐忑不安，後來補寫完第二封「遺書」後就帶著微笑、放心的沉沉睡去，等著王子來把她叫醒。最後憾事發生以後到龍先生過世時，大家才看到這四十幾年間，沒有再婚的龍先生將林黛生前的房間一直照當年的原樣保留著，好像林黛從來沒有離開過似的。可是龍先生對林黛的愛只是真相的一半，另一半真相是林黛當年給龍先生的愛應該也是又真又深的，是沒有任何人曾經給過他的，是讓他刻骨銘心、用一生來回憶懷念的。他深信愛妻的過世只是一個無心的意外，這個女人到最後一刻都深愛著自己，而她給過自己的愛足夠他不枉此生了。
There is no doubt that mr long profound love is made clear in his preservation of their marital room they shared together until his death on 2007. I feel sad for him spending his 40+ years being alone n raising their son,that his devotion , profound love for her is unquestional! Why????? Why why ? He is married to tis beautiful woman who loves him deeply n cared for him so much yet being unfaithfull to her....therefor the trust of love is broken!!!. When we made the vows of marriage we are committed to love and cherish one another till the end. When one died how much u love her, suffered so mch lonliness bringing endless flowers is no point anymore!. She is gone forever. Love deeply wen we are alive n cherish one another as we never know ttomorror is not ours❤ dont get me wrong that i dt feel for Mr Long i do but its was too late..
A beautiful woman with beauty and a good heart and has a ❤full of loves to give to his man.God bless her eternally❤
@@catherinenaeg9254 What was so sad was that he had never been unfaithful to her and there was no reason strong enough for her to do what she eventually did. They had been having quarrels over small things and on that particular day, she had tried to terminate the service of one of the three domestic helpers while he did not agree because the maid had been serving his family for many years. Actually she loved him dearly and had tried to scare him a little bit but never intended to do that by really killing herself. She was so sure that he would be back early enough to wake her up and yet the unexpected accident happened.
@@markchen4311 as you said that there is mo proof of him being unfaithfull but it was all over the tabloid as well as the media , clearly there mst b some thruth to the matter otherwise Ms. Lin dai wld not go tat far to take her own life bearing she has her loving son Han , husband who she adores and her beloved mother. Mr long must hve hurt and pain her so mch ....Now no more pain n in peace
Mr. Long as a husband shld b patient snd listen and give her support emotionally and take care of her wen she is in a vernerable state....tis is marriage for life not arrogant and ego.
@@markchen4311 do you hve any idea where mr. Long is his buriel site.
Did he died on the same bed and the same marital room. I read somewhere but not too sure its true as it was posted.
@@catherinenaeg9254 I could not find any information about Mr. Long's burial site but I am sure that there was never any other woman involved in the husband and wife's seemingly trivial quarrel except their elderly maid. It seemed Mr. Long had taken good care to keep their marital room and bed in exactly the same way they were. The truth that he never really lived in the room again except visiting it probably every day was the way he could hold the time still and made it look exactly the same way as if she had never left it.
龍先生估計很痛苦，剩下的幾十年真的好殘忍.
Lovely,lovely video clip of lin dai and her husband really like it a lot as i see more of them as a loving couple....great pics as well and more new pics i hvent seen .Thanks for the good research n great pics ...😍keep going enjoyed looking at it !!!
Wish it has english subtitles😊
林黛去世第二年(1965年)，其父親程思遠就投奔了大陸，據傳，周恩來很希望林黛回大陸發展拍片，如果林黛沒有早逝，不知會不會被其父遊說……
當代最有魅力的女人呀、
I believe -
She did her BEST to handle everything she could (like ID card renewal, house payment, inhonest maid termination, letters to husband, and resting peacefully in bed with white sleeping gown and smiles waiting for her husband coming home before leaving.
She really loves her everyone (including her husband and son) for making her departure with less harm and peace as she could.
李商隱的詩：
滿山皆林影
相間入黛眉
Great pictures!
粟子, 70年代林黛逝世週年紀念, 邵氏重新拷貝播映: 刁嬋, 江山美人, 妲己, 藍與黑, ..等遺作, 她是令人懷念的亞洲影后。
唉...一失足成千古恨
如果林黛知道會有這樣的結果，是不是會後悔自己當初的決定？
一定會 但人生沒有如果 所以要珍惜呀～
老實講，主人有這樣的性格，遲早爆炸，很難到尾，厭尖腥悶，搵你愛，受不了。注定，注定🙏
遺憾。一切如煙了。
林黛太任性了 居然拿自己的生命開玩笑
@@princessalexandra1613
林黛的父親就說過自己女兒的個性高傲，所以並不會怪龍先生。也應該說那時代變化快、後面時代流行黃梅調⋯凌波的快速發展讓林黛產生巨大壓力
被自家女傭架空 又被欺騙 傲氣的人怎能忍受
原来那时就写简体了
LINDA LINDAI LINTAI SUPERSTAR MADE IN HONGKONG CHINA 1954-1964
林黛那是指導先生要怎樣將她送醫才不會鬧笑話的「聖旨」，其實不是一般人所謂的「遺書」啊！
第一封內容較像是遺書，第二封的確感覺比較像是「指示」，因此龍繩勳認為太太並非真的想死。
@@oldmovie-Suzi 第一封先寫的似乎「偽裝」成一封真正的遺書，要讓她先生看到嚇到，但心裏知道先生一定會即時來救她的。然而心虛怕人知道自己其實不想死，所以想想不妥，趕快再補寫第二封，免得到時候被媒體識破她的那點心機，鬧出她不想要的笑話。否則如果她堅心決意尋死，而且也死成了，那麼她的死就不會被媒體當笑話看；而她既然都決定要死了，也不會在乎什麼笑話不笑話了。最後她真的死了，可是媒體看了她的「遺書」卻不忍心笑話她了。
一切不似預期！就這樣走進鬼門関！留下了可愛年僅一歲的兒子！多可惜呀！
Great
遺憾
應該是憂鬱症，可惜當時對於這些病症沒有注意
林黛電影「貂蟬」在香港出DVD重製版時，片頭有一段林黛乾女兒馮寶寶的真情告白：
ruclips.net/video/9q2eeymd_Is/видео.html
林黛是 四屆 亞洲影后 影后， 美貌， 演技 兼具的好演員 太可惜了。
林先生没有尽到一个丈夫的责任。
1959-1961年耶穌會共濟會同盟，催生了耶穌會姓氏龍繩勳和共濟會姓氏林黛的愛情和婚姻，不過1961-1964年耶穌會和共濟會不是盟友，所以兩人關係破裂。耶穌會和共濟會於1964年10月再結成同盟，那時林黛已死。