What he said was accurate though. Many men have had experiences before. You have to ask questions in a non judgemental way. Make them feel like it turns you on to know bc then they'll be super honest.
Matthew started out saying he wanted a woman who was understanding of the fact that he “used to be with men”… throughout the interview admitting that he STILL messes with and wants to mess with men. The way he described dating women was like… I’ve met women who make me rethink being with men… because men are his preference. If any woman gets with him he’s not gonna be fully satisfied with her, or fulfilled and will go back to men.
In the US 65% of dudes make under 60k and 75% of ladies make under 52k. The sooner we accept reality. The sooner we can build a bridge to finding real love 💕
@@SexyJoPlai Thank you for letting us know you have a little bubble. Congratulations. That does NOT make the statistic false. Most of the women in our couples group are stay at home mothers, that doesn’t mean it is anywhere close to being the norm. You people are annoying!
People who understand reality don’t spend time dwelling on it, they simply move forward and find ways to win in life and love. The rest will suffer what they must.
@@SexyJoPlai where are y’ll husbands. Sounds like you and some of your cronies are in the top 6% of women. Can you see yourself with a man making less than 50k per year?
Has that dude never heard of surrogacy before? You don't need to sleep with a woman to procreate and spread more STDs upon the community, I mean it's already going down real bad in Houston anyways.
I’m not so sure about that. He wants a child but even said he’s in the lifestyle he is in even though he shouldn’t be because what has happened to him 😢
Agreed. He said it himself in many ways. He even said the woman would have to understand he's still figuring it out. Then protested that he knows who he is. He's using word manipulation to get a woman to sign on for his BS. Women often go by what they hear vs letting actions speak for themselves. He's been ghey and out since he was young. Any woman that reaches out has already been thoroughly warned.
Please be careful bringing men into your home with such a young baby..children that are non verbal are extremely vulnerable to predators…I have seen too many children hurt 🥺…
Matty seems confused. He needs to decide exactly what he wants before he starts seriously dating. My biggest concern is that he said if he's with a woman he will not want men if she makes him not want men. So it sounds like cheating may be an issue.
People don't realize how more than one baby daddy/momma makes it harder for them to date.Why would anybody sign up for that especially if they have no kids?
@@NaeL.614 and some people who got kids still don't want ppl with kids. Have you been watching the show? One of her viral guests had like 3 kids but wanted someone with no kids.
The typical woman on this show has two kids by two different baby daddies and never married. Had first kid around 18-22yo and 2nd kid under 6yo. In some cases 2nd kid less than 2yo meaning they just had a anothet damn kid and broke up with the baby daddy already!! The worst say they want a 6 figure stepdaddy for their kids but they don't want anymore kids so you won't get your own from her.
Mattyfact can’t figure out what he wants and wants to inconvenience having a child to bring in to his b.s frame of mind/thoughts. He can’t offer himself truth and honesty. What is he going to offer the child?
Matthew should hook up with that gay guy that came on a few wks ago that said he wants a child and is 50/50 as well but we all know he just wants a child just like this guy. They should connect and see what they can make happen together and get that child that they both want but be in a male relationship, which is a preference to them as well.
Mathew is thoroughly confused. A straight woman looking for love/marriage wants a man with the same mindset. Who signs up for a person that says they're 50/50.. This week you want Jane next week Joe??? That's delusion, confusion and struggle love.. Sorry for whatever you suffered earlier in life, but bruh seek healing, counseling and Pick a side....🤷
I really feel sad for him. He is so confused. He needs a different therapist because he is definitely gay and wants a man. His feminine traits begin to come out at the end....I just wish him happiness and peace.✌️
I have no problem with the bisexual men living their truth. I love to see it. Kudos for not being DL! But come on being intentional about what you are looking for. Be clear
I really appreciate Matthew honesty fr cause there’s a lot of men who are down low and not man enough to admit they are attracted to men. They use women as a cover up and be deceptive. Matthew is attractive and at least he is honest with himself I commend him.
Its her preference i get it but..... at 43 and your kids are grown why would u need a man who bring home over 100k (net)? U and a single man your age making 65k+ can have a lot of fun being kid free and all. Lol. This is literally pricing yourself out of the market
Kendra says the same thing during the Kendra cam: If a person fits societal standards: “oh your in good shape” ( just b/c they are slender or have the “ideal” body type, she deems them in shape which is not always the case) If a person does NOT fit societal standards: “oh we see that booty” Lol … that’s always so funny to me
@@RemIsNice She ain't ugly... so there is a reason why she is on here. I've learned so much of women's dating practices. You know I thought the pretty ones would have more of a sex and the city lifestyle, IE dates every week etc. Meanwhile they are home with 2 kids trying to tell me what they ain't gonna settle for on Al Gore's internet.
One thing I admire and like about you Kendra, is that you don't take things to heart and you can even laugh at yourself. When you accidentally highlighted Dev's comment, it's safe to say everyone found that hilarious, including yourself and you didn't take his silly comment to heart. Instead you had a good laugh with the Kousins and enjoyed the moment. Good stuff.
I love Matty’s honesty 1st and foremost!!! I truly believe he is struggling, because maybe he was introduced to the gay lifestyle through getting molested. If so, that’s devastating and I believe he needs counseling. I’m now a Married woman, but if I was single I would not entertain a gay man. I have nothing against gay men or women. I wish him all the best ❤
@@scottrogue946 Ohh damn that’s also another scenario that didn’t cross my mind. Damn… well if that’s the case he basically sold his soul… I have struggled in the past, before sending myself to college. Now working in Healthcare. I’m talking about a negative balance in my checking account until my pay day. I would never be with a woman that could help me financially during that time. I would do without. Anyhow… you are right that is another possibility.
Matty wants himself a women to give him a baby for him and his strong black man. He even seems to blush a little when commenting about it. Boy, get your man and leave these women alone.
I wish some people would open themselves up to dating a person, not a "race". If you've dated one "race" and gotten the same results, then wouldn't one try to date outside of that group? BM do it all the time, but some BW are slower to take that chance...but good relationships can be found in good people not just good "races" to date
I think Matthew needs to go through a deliverance service. Because it seems he’s only gay because he was molested by a man. This sexual abuse unfortunately turns a bunch of men.
So she broke up her family because he cheated. Smh. Why not try to work things out. Now here on Kendra G trying to find another man but with a one year old daughter. Smh
Matthew needs counseling not a relationship the childhood trauma has him confused at this point in life because he's attracted to women but that feeling he got from a man at an early age had him chasing it like a drug
It kills me that these single mothers have the audacity to demand men with professional salaries. News flash you don’t qualify for that period. Unbelievable.
They can demand it but like you said they are invisible to those men especially if you have 2 or more baby daddies 2 is a deal breaker for almost most men some men 1 is a dealbreaker
This is disgusting and sexist especially in 2023 with this toxic dating culture that was created by the culture and generation before us. Plenty of millennials have had poor and traumatic upbringing without any guidance because their parents abandoned them or was just unfit. Most women are left with the child when the relationship doesn’t work out and even when they’re in the relationship they are the primary caretakers and responsible for 50% of bills getting the short end of the stick every-time only to be treated like a outcast by ppl like you. Science shows that mentally, physically and emotionally men gain more than women from marriage living healthier longer lives. Women of the next generation don’t even want to risk having children because marriage or not women get stereotyped once they have kids and the burden their mothers and grandmothers have carried does not look attractive at all. This is good for the governments population agenda…exactly what they wanted. I guess more and more men are going to be turning to men complaining they’re aren’t enough desirable women. Also any woman can be a victim of infidelity, death of a spouse, rape, violence even if they do things the right way. I think a real conscious and mature men doesn’t run away from responsibilities. A mature, responsible and honest woman deserves nothing less.
Applause to Matthew for keeping it 💯.. I am curious to know how the women have responded to his lifestyle & is that one of the reasons he hasn't been in a relationship with a woman in over 6 years..
Lived both sides of the fence somewhat. Wants a child if so, can put on his insurance. Time now to pick a side BRO!! Honestly that morphs onto confusion.
Some women are waking up to common sense with the outlandish expectations of especially single moms... such a small tiny minority but hey i guess its better 0
@@saraliburd7752 Ma'am, yes it is. If you're apart of the "Rainbow Alphabet Crew," you need to seek therapy, guidance and just plain help. Plus this dude was just as confused about himself as the words that were coming out of his mouth. Sounds like those Houston STDs are really taking over his mental health.
@@saraliburd7752She wasn't talking about "you" specifically the common terrorist talking in a generality. As in if you're part of that community, what she's saying applies to you... Not literally "You."
“Flaws-a mark, fault, or other imperfection that mars a substance or object.” Kousins according to the Websters dictionary this is the definition of flaw 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Those women are delusional as heck. Stop saying God fearing and the trinity and you just sleeping around. Y’all sound crazy. You haven’t had a relationship in 12 years is a RED FLAG.
37:42 Catrice is out here looking for a rainbow colored grain of sand in the ocean. 😂😂 She wants a man making $150K as if there aren’t women that are 15 years younger with no children that out-compete her every hour of every day.
@@SISTAGURL That's on women. If a woman doesn't know that men will smash, she better ask somebody. If you don't want to be a baby mama. There are myriad ways to keep from becoming pregnant.
It’s an epidemic especially among millennials for a reason; culture, poor parenting/no guidance,etc, Glad future generations have something to learn from.
Catrice is going to die alone. RIP K.S. I'm so glad he broke it down the way he did. I haven't lowered my standards. I made adjustments. Her results should tell her that she is too stuck on her unrealistic standards.
Matty babe I am so sorry for what has happened to you. That should have never occurred. Praying for you sir that your desire be fulfilled the way it should be. Love you❤
Janice focusing on dating only bm is exactly how she got in the situation that she’s in now…two kids, two babydaddies. As much as these bm talk trash about bw and their dating standards, its clear to me that bm have no intentions of marriage and having traditional family values either. As an african person,I really feel that black American women need to learn how to vet men properly and date IR. Dealing with western black men seems tiring which is why I avoid them altogether.
You have to understand too she is forever cursed because she has those mixed kids. She is limited now with only dealing with BM no other race will want her besides them.
@@bassya2490because they are not wives. They are at best jump offs. Also, I find it funny an African talking shit like women in Africa aren't struggling n single mothers lol a lot poverty over there for your men to be so good. Also, other races of men are way worse to their women than blk men. Overall, I know you are a paid troll to sow division on the internet.
@@bassya2490 That's because women are giving men the benefit of marriage without requiring marriage. The old saying is true: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free?
Imagine having to make 150k to talk to a Catrice.... don't get it, don't think I will ever get Instead of looking for a partner to build with or combine incomes, they want men that make WAY above avg and be ok with settle down with a 2 time BM With that said I kinda feel bad for nurses, high income and barely home but think they "deserve" someone on their level.
Love is love does not mean everything you believe has to be accepted! He clearly wants children. He clearly will end up in an relationship with a man and co parent with the woman!
These big and I do mean BIG women get on here talking like they super models or something. You “date” men who make $100k but they don’t want to marry you. Humble yourself ladies because a black man making $100k and up weight is a HUGE factor!!!!
Kendra if that man says he want a man and or a woman let that be that and stop questioning his sexuality…you can’t tell someone they are confused that’s why ppl don’t be authentic bc it’s always someone questioning their truth. I think he’s a good guy and a woman that’s into a bisexual man will love him bc there’s somebody for everybody
Part of what makes this show interesting is Kendra’s questions. That’s how we arrive at a better understanding of the person. Without her questions we would not have gotten to HIS truth - that he prefers men (although his proclivities came as a result of trauma) and he really wants a child.
43:56 She’s in Atlanta of all places and thinks a high earning man, in Atlanta, is not going to know his worth. She’s in Atlanta and thinks there isn’t a massive female to male ratio imbalance. It isn’t a matter of standards, you need to move.
I live in ATL she a 4 cause she have 2 kids to most professional guys here she a side chick if that she have 2 children and a full time job I have friends in ATL just like her they have no time free except late at night or weekends when kids are gone she a sidechick to most guys here who have motion
It’s interesting how society believes that a divorced person with kids is higher quality than a never married person with kids. At the end of the day its the same thing.
It speaks to judgement and decision making ability. Sure, at the end of the day a man faces very similar issues with both, but more often than not, the better option would be the woman that was married to the father of her child prior to conception.
@@Roccofan I agree that her mindset COULD be different. I say could because we all know not everyone marry for genuine reasons. However what I see is the end results…extra mouths to feed, step daddy, larger bills, hope the ex isn’t a wacko, etc etc etc.
@@HumptyMcFly That was the point of my last sentence. A single mother is rarely a good option unless that is the man’s situation also and he wants that dynamic.
He's inferring that he had a negative experience that may have catapulted his current desires and lifestyle. I say, he was already headed that way. His "situations" brought them to fruition.
I dont likr that people say i dont kiss and tell or they dont wanna answer cause its like it must have been two days ago cause if it had been a long time im sure they would be over talking kendra just to say its been years or something like your giving us the answer by not answering so it kinda defeats the purpose of trying to keep that secret
I believe matty is very sincere in his mind and heart at this moment. However being woman who got divorced because of infidelity, he would magnify my triggers of fears I would have to look out not only for women now men? No thanks you sir.
Kendra got all these rules for her show with horrible production herself. As long as she has been going I don't understand why her show is still so low budget
the comments are brutal on Lashay. Dang. Is she Samoan? Is there a neck-size limit? Jaw size? Don't wear your apple watch with her. etc etc. Cousins are hard core. lolol
Matty need to go and get a Becky. Also I found it odd he said he knew three women who would give him a child. Why are you on the show? I feel bad for people who are still dating. I gave that up a decade ago and don’t miss it. 😅
these women's in delusion every women's say he got to make 6 figures or 100k but when Kendra ask them had they dated guys that make that amount they say they haven't
At 50:34 the Lord probably made that comment go on the screen 😂 because it was just an observation without any bad intentions (nothing worth blocking ⚠️ )
matty is open to a guy or a woman ok all love from this kousin matty Hope you find the one that really makes you happy .happiness is all that counts do u bouy...
Matthew has been touched/graped by someone and this is why he’s confused, I believe. But it sounds like he really wants a woman but just used to and have been groomed to be with men. Notice he kept saying there’s men who have been introduced into this and don’t know how to get out.
I am definitely one of the woman in the world who would not actively date a man who’s been with other men. It turns my stomach.
Glad you got standards
💯🤮🤮🤮
Me too 😫
Girl turns it to the core🤢
What he said was accurate though. Many men have had experiences before. You have to ask questions in a non judgemental way. Make them feel like it turns you on to know bc then they'll be super honest.
Matthew better focus on finding a phone with reliable audio before he embarks on a quest to find his perfect egg donor. 😵💫
😂😂 hilarious
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I’m not gonna lie. Kendra’s show is getting Zestier and Zestier.
It’s like only the straight men needs to come here because there’s way too many single women looking for suitable men in this space!!
Matt is all over the place 🚩🚩🚩
Ladies stay far far away from Matty unless you'd like to add a trauma story to your story.
💯🔥
Matthew started out saying he wanted a woman who was understanding of the fact that he “used to be with men”… throughout the interview admitting that he STILL messes with and wants to mess with men. The way he described dating women was like… I’ve met women who make me rethink being with men… because men are his preference. If any woman gets with him he’s not gonna be fully satisfied with her, or fulfilled and will go back to men.
Exactly!
Never mind that... he has no business seeking intimacy with women after being with men.
Women should stay away from gay men.
As soon as he said Aquarius and “I’m different”. I checked out.
YUP.
In the US 65% of dudes make under 60k and 75% of ladies make under 52k. The sooner we accept reality. The sooner we can build a bridge to finding real love 💕
But folks will get on here and swear everybody make $100k plus
I’m a woman n I def make over $100k n so do most my friends…
@@SexyJoPlai Thank you for letting us know you have a little bubble. Congratulations. That does NOT make the statistic false. Most of the women in our couples group are stay at home mothers, that doesn’t mean it is anywhere close to being the norm. You people are annoying!
People who understand reality don’t spend time dwelling on it, they simply move forward and find ways to win in life and love. The rest will suffer what they must.
@@SexyJoPlai where are y’ll husbands. Sounds like you and some of your cronies are in the top 6% of women. Can you see yourself with a man making less than 50k per year?
Matty just wants a child. Matty is not interested in nothing but a man.
Has that dude never heard of surrogacy before? You don't need to sleep with a woman to procreate and spread more STDs upon the community, I mean it's already going down real bad in Houston anyways.
I’m not so sure about that. He wants a child but even said he’s in the lifestyle he is in even though he shouldn’t be because what has happened to him 😢
@@TheeMrsChampionyeah he said that ..6 years ago is also the last time he been with a woman. That man wants a baby period.
Agreed. He said it himself in many ways. He even said the woman would have to understand he's still figuring it out. Then protested that he knows who he is. He's using word manipulation to get a woman to sign on for his BS. Women often go by what they hear vs letting actions speak for themselves. He's been ghey and out since he was young. Any woman that reaches out has already been thoroughly warned.
Yup
I could tell Matt had been with men. He has gay mannerism and is confused. Straight women should avoid those type of men
That Guy Wants Guys why is he lying to himself?
2:33 Having a baby out of wedlock is dumb. Having a baby out of wedlock for a man that can’t afford to pay for his own cell phone is idiotic.
😂😂😂😂
Please be careful bringing men into your home with such a young baby..children that are non verbal are extremely vulnerable to predators…I have seen too many children hurt 🥺…
Matty seems confused. He needs to decide exactly what he wants before he starts seriously dating. My biggest concern is that he said if he's with a woman he will not want men if she makes him not want men. So it sounds like cheating may be an issue.
He is a hard pass for me
dooky 🍆
He has decided what he wants and that person isn't wrapped too tight either
That’s with most men though regardless of sexuality when it comes to them being faithful.
People don't realize how more than one baby daddy/momma makes it harder for them to date.Why would anybody sign up for that especially if they have no kids?
Unless the kids are older 🤷🏽♀️
Because there are plenty of people who have children. Most people with children don't want childless people anyway 🤷🏾♀️
@@NaeL.614 and some people who got kids still don't want ppl with kids. Have you been watching the show? One of her viral guests had like 3 kids but wanted someone with no kids.
These men seriously luv men & wish to use women as incubators. There’s no way he will pivot wholly to a woman
It’s a real problem that when asked are your children by the same man the answer is No 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
The typical woman on this show has two kids by two different baby daddies and never married. Had first kid around 18-22yo and 2nd kid under 6yo. In some cases 2nd kid less than 2yo meaning they just had a anothet damn kid and broke up with the baby daddy already!! The worst say they want a 6 figure stepdaddy for their kids but they don't want anymore kids so you won't get your own from her.
Mattyfact can’t figure out what he wants and wants to inconvenience having a child to bring in to his b.s frame of mind/thoughts. He can’t offer himself truth and honesty. What is he going to offer the child?
I hope he doesn’t have kids. His mind is a mess.
Matthew should hook up with that gay guy that came on a few wks ago that said he wants a child and is 50/50 as well but we all know he just wants a child just like this guy. They should connect and see what they can make happen together and get that child that they both want but be in a male relationship, which is a preference to them as well.
Mathew is thoroughly confused. A straight woman looking for love/marriage wants a man with the same mindset. Who signs up for a person that says they're 50/50.. This week you want Jane next week Joe??? That's delusion, confusion and struggle love.. Sorry for whatever you suffered earlier in life, but bruh seek healing, counseling and Pick a side....🤷
Lmao, you got me with the "this week Jane next week Joe" comment. 💀
😂😂😂😂… This week Jane and next week Joe.. I cannot😂
I really feel sad for him. He is so confused. He needs a different therapist because he is definitely gay and wants a man. His feminine traits begin to come out at the end....I just wish him happiness and peace.✌️
At the end?
I have no problem with the bisexual men living their truth. I love to see it. Kudos for not being DL! But come on being intentional about what you are looking for. Be clear
I really appreciate Matthew honesty fr cause there’s a lot of men who are down low and not man enough to admit they are attracted to men. They use women as a cover up and be deceptive. Matthew is attractive and at least he is honest with himself I commend him.
I don't care how cute or rich a man is. If you f***ed another man, that is a hard NO. Good luck to him, though
Its her preference i get it but..... at 43 and your kids are grown why would u need a man who bring home over 100k (net)? U and a single man your age making 65k+ can have a lot of fun being kid free and all. Lol. This is literally pricing yourself out of the market
Matty wants a damn man he just hasn’t fully dealt with that like he thinks he has
Kendra says the same thing during the Kendra cam:
If a person fits societal standards: “oh your in good shape” ( just b/c they are slender or have the “ideal” body type, she deems them in shape which is not always the case)
If a person does NOT fit societal standards: “oh we see that booty”
Lol … that’s always so funny to me
Yep lol..as soon as I hear the "we see you boo", I know what time it is lol
@@rubycubez1103 lol i forgot about that one
That’s why if I ever find myself on this show I’m a have to be in great shape and healthy lol cause she isn’t about to “ok ok we see you boo me lol”
yeah she is good for that we see you boo lmao
She speak on what she likes
That’s normal
Almost 40 minutes soent on a confused 🥷🏾🥷🏾🤦🏾♂🤦🏾♂🤦🏾♂🤦🏾♂🙄🙄
I was saying the same
Start a family???-she already has 2 kids by 2 different men
I caught that too. She wants a guy that makes 80K, so that she "can be comfortable to start a family". Her family started with her 15 year old.
@@RemIsNice She ain't ugly... so there is a reason why she is on here. I've learned so much of women's dating practices. You know I thought the pretty ones would have more of a sex and the city lifestyle, IE dates every week etc. Meanwhile they are home with 2 kids trying to tell me what they ain't gonna settle for on Al Gore's internet.
Riiiight!!!!
Working on baby daddy # 3
One thing I admire and like about you Kendra, is that you don't take things to heart and you can even laugh at yourself. When you accidentally highlighted Dev's comment, it's safe to say everyone found that hilarious, including yourself and you didn't take his silly comment to heart. Instead you had a good laugh with the Kousins and enjoyed the moment. Good stuff.
Yea life is too short!
I love Matty’s honesty 1st and foremost!!! I truly believe he is struggling, because maybe he was introduced to the gay lifestyle through getting molested. If so, that’s devastating and I believe he needs counseling. I’m now a Married woman, but if I was single I would not entertain a gay man. I have nothing against gay men or women. I wish him all the best ❤
From the way he was explaining it that isn’t how he got introduced. I feel like he might of been struggling financially and just started hustling.
@@scottrogue946 Ohh damn that’s also another scenario that didn’t cross my mind. Damn… well if that’s the case he basically sold his soul… I have struggled in the past, before sending myself to college. Now working in Healthcare. I’m talking about a negative balance in my checking account until my pay day. I would never be with a woman that could help me financially during that time. I would do without. Anyhow… you are right that is another possibility.
Matthew is a cutie pie… I appreciate him being honest about his lifestyle. He seems like a loving person. I hope he finds true love ❤️
He really does, he just needs to work on the cursing
He was completely honest and different. I think he's too "different" for her audience, but he was a refreshing look at today's dating scene.
Kendra for RUclips also images on the tv can get a copyright strike. Don’t have people w/TV on even w/o sound. Especially Sports & cartoons.
Matty wants himself a women to give him a baby for him and his strong black man. He even seems to blush a little when commenting about it. Boy, get your man and leave these women alone.
millenials looking good. This was a good episode, the guest were all living their best lives.
Millennials don't know what gender they want to be! Just lost.
I wish some people would open themselves up to dating a person, not a "race". If you've dated one "race" and gotten the same results, then wouldn't one try to date outside of that group? BM do it all the time, but some BW are slower to take that chance...but good relationships can be found in good people not just good "races" to date
I think Matthew needs to go through a deliverance service. Because it seems he’s only gay because he was molested by a man. This sexual abuse unfortunately turns a bunch of men.
Lashays , everything that is done in the dark always comes to light. Matthew, double dipping is such a dangerous game. Wish you well brother.🇪🇨🙏🏽🌎
It’s no more dangerous than cheating period. You take a chance sleeping with anyone unprotected even your own spouse
So she broke up her family because he cheated. Smh. Why not try to work things out. Now here on Kendra G trying to find another man but with a one year old daughter. Smh
@@mobetta6408they never do. They will react off of emotion and destroy their family over feelings. Just work it out.
Matt wants truthful people but he can’t face his own truth 🤦🏾♀️
I'm so sick of men wanting to date like a swinging pendulum.
9:48 So you can plan to have and produce a child with someone, but planning a wedding was too much? Actually getting married was too much?
Matthew needs counseling not a relationship the childhood trauma has him confused at this point in life because he's attracted to women but that feeling he got from a man at an early age had him chasing it like a drug
It kills me that these single mothers have the audacity to demand men with professional salaries. News flash you don’t qualify for that period. Unbelievable.
They can demand it but like you said they are invisible to those men especially if you have 2 or
more baby daddies 2 is a deal breaker for almost most men some men 1 is a dealbreaker
This is disgusting and sexist especially in 2023 with this toxic dating culture that was created by the culture and generation before us. Plenty of millennials have had poor and traumatic upbringing without any guidance because their parents abandoned them or was just unfit. Most women are left with the child when the relationship doesn’t work out and even when they’re in the relationship they are the primary caretakers and responsible for 50% of bills getting the short end of the stick every-time only to be treated like a outcast by ppl like you. Science shows that mentally, physically and emotionally men gain more than women from marriage living healthier longer lives. Women of the next generation don’t even want to risk having children because marriage or not women get stereotyped once they have kids and the burden their mothers and grandmothers have carried does not look attractive at all. This is good for the governments population agenda…exactly what they wanted. I guess more and more men are going to be turning to men complaining they’re aren’t enough desirable women. Also any woman can be a victim of infidelity, death of a spouse, rape, violence even if they do things the right way.
I think a real conscious and mature men doesn’t run away from responsibilities. A mature, responsible and honest woman deserves nothing less.
Matty needs therapy
He seems like a gentle soul that needs help and healing.
Applause to Matthew for keeping it 💯.. I am curious to know how the women have responded to his lifestyle & is that one of the reasons he hasn't been in a relationship with a woman in over 6 years..
Whoah -she’s 42 and she has a 27 year old 😭😭😭
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I believe he needs a transgender. He would get a feminine male, and therefore, he could leave natural born women alone.
You’re right But he needs a woman bc he wants a baby and prefers masculine presenting men.
Look into surrogacy, then again wants A Women to raise the child.
Yes please leave us alone if you’re not coming correct ✅ damn. Just leave us alone
Lived both sides of the fence somewhat. Wants a child if so, can put on his insurance.
Time now to pick a side BRO!!
Honestly that morphs onto confusion.
A pregnant girlfriend ain’t a wife! IJS
Lashay lashay lashay
And they up there talking about karma 😂😂😂 there was never a commitment, tf they talking about lol
You can not “dib and dab” with men as a man. You are bisexual or gay sir smh.
Indeed.
He's in denial of his affinity for bussy.
Women who have children already should not be throwing out requirements. Especially hefty money requirements. The audacity that they be having.
This comment is going to turn into a war zone 😂
Some women are waking up to common sense with the outlandish expectations of especially single moms... such a small tiny minority but hey i guess its better 0
The speed of your success is limited only by your dedication and what you're willing to sacrifice
Nathan W. Morris
Gemz drop’d right in your lap..❤
He seems so confused, I could never trust him... He wants a man, stop hiding behind dating women.
He obviously wants C@$k
Being gay is not a lifestyle you can SHAKE -he just needs to accept that he prefers men-it’s ridiculous
@@saraliburd7752 Ma'am, yes it is. If you're apart of the "Rainbow Alphabet Crew," you need to seek therapy, guidance and just plain help. Plus this dude was just as confused about himself as the words that were coming out of his mouth. Sounds like those Houston STDs are really taking over his mental health.
@@lupavo1738 wow-you made a ton of assumptions about me-fascinating 😂😂
@@saraliburd7752She wasn't talking about "you" specifically the common terrorist talking in a generality. As in if you're part of that community, what she's saying applies to you... Not literally "You."
I date myself alot. Im not going to lower my standards. These people are loco. reality wins in the end.
Can you give us the highlights of those standards? Income, credit score, his family structure, his thoughts of family and provision?
“Flaws-a mark, fault, or other imperfection that mars a substance or object.” Kousins according to the Websters dictionary this is the definition of flaw 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Matty was refreshing. I fully understand where his heart is. Goodluck to him
Matt sounds like he’s not a good communicator-he doesn’t seem totally comfortable with his orientation
And His cursing is a big turn off
Kendra said " You're not me Bitch!!" LOL
Those women are delusional as heck.
Stop saying God fearing and the trinity and you just sleeping around. Y’all sound crazy. You haven’t had a relationship in 12 years is a RED FLAG.
37:42 Catrice is out here looking for a rainbow colored grain of sand in the ocean. 😂😂 She wants a man making $150K as if there aren’t women that are 15 years younger with no children that out-compete her every hour of every day.
😂😂😂 Real Talk.
Not to mention better looking women. She will be single until she burns out from the traveling nurse gig burns her out
Marry before you carry. Don't get pregnant off of promises.
And don’t make promises that can’t be fulfilled.
Propose 💍 before you chose … who you sow your seed into
@@Ash2beautydont fall for promises as a grown asS woman without a marriage
@@SISTAGURL That's on women. If a woman doesn't know that men will smash, she better ask somebody. If you don't want to be a baby mama. There are myriad ways to keep from becoming pregnant.
It’s an epidemic especially among millennials for a reason; culture, poor parenting/no guidance,etc, Glad future generations have something to learn from.
Catrice is going to die alone. RIP K.S. I'm so glad he broke it down the way he did. I haven't lowered my standards. I made adjustments. Her results should tell her that she is too stuck on her unrealistic standards.
RIP KS❤
Matt - I’m sure his best friend’s husbands will NOT be okay with their wives having a baby for another man. He gotta be lying!!
Matty babe I am so sorry for what has happened to you. That should have never occurred. Praying for you sir that your desire be fulfilled the way it should be. Love you❤
Patrice, we're Virgo's and you are correct.......we are easily annoyed! It's a gift and a curse!
@Thunderstorm518 Happy (early) Birthday Virgo man🎈♍️🥳!
Janice focusing on dating only bm is exactly how she got in the situation that she’s in now…two kids, two babydaddies. As much as these bm talk trash about bw and their dating standards, its clear to me that bm have no intentions of marriage and having traditional family values either. As an african person,I really feel that black American women need to learn how to vet men properly and date IR. Dealing with western black men seems tiring which is why I avoid them altogether.
You have to understand too she is forever cursed because she has those mixed kids. She is limited now with only dealing with BM no other race will want her besides them.
The women are signing up to be baby mamas the men aren’t forcing them
@@kishaquiller505 they are not putting rings on anyones finger either.
@@bassya2490because they are not wives. They are at best jump offs. Also, I find it funny an African talking shit like women in Africa aren't struggling n single mothers lol a lot poverty over there for your men to be so good. Also, other races of men are way worse to their women than blk men. Overall, I know you are a paid troll to sow division on the internet.
@@bassya2490 That's because women are giving men the benefit of marriage without requiring marriage. The old saying is true: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free?
Imagine having to make 150k to talk to a Catrice.... don't get it, don't think I will ever get
Instead of looking for a partner to build with or combine incomes, they want men that make WAY above avg and be ok with settle down with a 2 time BM
With that said I kinda feel bad for nurses, high income and barely home but think they "deserve" someone on their level.
This dude Mattyfact is (confused,nutty)! For God sake,pick a side bro,& live your life!
Love is love does not mean everything you believe has to be accepted! He clearly wants children. He clearly will end up in an relationship with a man and co parent with the woman!
We need to know who introduced Matty to the gay lifestyle and why ? The details are the key to which side he picks! Therapy is needed ASAP
I was thinking the same thing ❤
These big and I do mean BIG women get on here talking like they super models or something. You “date” men who make $100k but they don’t want to marry you. Humble yourself ladies because a black man making $100k and up weight is a HUGE factor!!!!
Kendra if that man says he want a man and or a woman let that be that and stop questioning his sexuality…you can’t tell someone they are confused that’s why ppl don’t be authentic bc it’s always someone questioning their truth. I think he’s a good guy and a woman that’s into a bisexual man will love him bc there’s somebody for everybody
Part of what makes this show interesting is Kendra’s questions. That’s how we arrive at a better understanding of the person. Without her questions we would not have gotten to HIS truth - that he prefers men (although his proclivities came as a result of trauma) and he really wants a child.
He most definitely IS confused and unfortunately was Sexually assaulted by a gay man.
43:56 She’s in Atlanta of all places and thinks a high earning man, in Atlanta, is not going to know his worth. She’s in Atlanta and thinks there isn’t a massive female to male ratio imbalance. It isn’t a matter of standards, you need to move.
Yes, Janudie is attractive. However she even admits all the reasons why a high earning man, would not choose a 2 time baby momma as (his) option.
I live in ATL she a 4 cause she have 2 kids to most professional guys here she a side chick if that she have 2 children and a full time job I have friends in ATL just like her they have no time free except late at night or weekends when kids are gone she a sidechick to most guys here who have motion
This show is purely entertainment for me. Would never date anyone who came on here regardless of how interesting they appeared. But do you boo.
If you have to look thru the call log, you are not in a good relationship. But many people loves to drama.
It’s interesting how society believes that a divorced person with kids is higher quality than a never married person with kids. At the end of the day its the same thing.
No it's not
It speaks to judgement and decision making ability. Sure, at the end of the day a man faces very similar issues with both, but more often than not, the better option would be the woman that was married to the father of her child prior to conception.
@@Roccofan I agree that her mindset COULD be different. I say could because we all know not everyone marry for genuine reasons. However what I see is the end results…extra mouths to feed, step daddy, larger bills, hope the ex isn’t a wacko, etc etc etc.
@@HumptyMcFly That was the point of my last sentence. A single mother is rarely a good option unless that is the man’s situation also and he wants that dynamic.
It's not the same thing. Having a baby in a marriage versus as a single woman are two different things
Yo when she pin the wig comment I was ctfu😅😂😂😂
Matthew just say you're bi...PERIODT! 💯💯
Confusion is common in those of the alphabet persuasion. Confusion is a trick of the enemy. That's how you know the devil is in the details.
He's inferring that he had a negative experience that may have catapulted his current desires and lifestyle. I say, he was already headed that way. His "situations" brought them to fruition.
I dont likr that people say i dont kiss and tell or they dont wanna answer cause its like it must have been two days ago cause if it had been a long time im sure they would be over talking kendra just to say its been years or something like your giving us the answer by not answering so it kinda defeats the purpose of trying to keep that secret
Keep this question in: "Why Do You Think You're Single?" That's a good one to ask
Winter is here!!!😂😂😂😂
I believe matty is very sincere in his mind and heart at this moment. However being woman who got divorced because of infidelity, he would magnify my triggers of fears I would have to look out not only for women now men? No thanks you sir.
Matty is a handsome man ♥️. Hope he finds the right person who truly accepts him for him. Love is love 💯
Kendra got all these rules for her show with horrible production herself. As long as she has been going I don't understand why her show is still so low budget
After the show it’s the after party
😂😂😂😂😂
the comments are brutal on Lashay. Dang. Is she Samoan? Is there a neck-size limit? Jaw size? Don't wear your apple watch with her. etc etc. Cousins are hard core. lolol
Matthew is cute, hope he finds the right man ♥️🤗
Matty need to go and get a Becky. Also I found it odd he said he knew three women who would give him a child. Why are you on the show? I feel bad for people who are still dating. I gave that up a decade ago and don’t miss it. 😅
these women's in delusion every women's say he got to make 6 figures or 100k but when Kendra ask them had they dated guys that make that amount they say they haven't
I wouldn't trust it because he can always go back to a man nahhhhhh !!
This a dangerous world we living in rn
At 50:34 the Lord probably made that comment go on the screen 😂 because it was just an observation without any bad intentions (nothing worth blocking ⚠️ )
Alima or whatever Lashay friend name is, you should be scared to come on the show. U better be trying to learn something from this comment section
Matt is confused. You hv to be a fool to reach out to him. He don’t know what he wants!!! Smh
Matthew looked DL so I came to the comments before he started the questions and I was right and I skipped through his interview cause wth
I love Marty’s honesty. Kendra Gs show has proven that a large population of males are bisexual, and It is what it is.
It didn't prove that. People already knew it.
If men gotta accept that you (not all) been ran through, I feel like women should accept a little dabbling
@@mikeyrobinson5355 what a transgender thing to say. Leave my p u ssy out of this.
Matty? And if so wasn't nothing about that man bi😂😂😂😂
@@t.r.s8138 nah, he was definitely gay
matty is open to a guy or a woman ok all love from this kousin matty Hope you find the one that really makes you happy .happiness is all that counts do u bouy...
Matty, white women are cool with all that. Go for it
@unarmeduim2150 more ww are cool with this than bw. Plenty of gay men on this site have stated that
Matthew has been touched/graped by someone and this is why he’s confused, I believe. But it sounds like he really wants a woman but just used to and have been groomed to be with men. Notice he kept saying there’s men who have been introduced into this and don’t know how to get out.