This video is so relaxing and eye-opening. I have two sisters but we never get together to talk so openly, especially about sex. 2 months ago I broke up with my long-term boyfriend (4 years) and it's been so tough. Listening to you girls I understand a lot of where both he & I made mistakes so it's a great learning experience for me. Thank you!
I don't have any bio family and I always spend Christmas alone so December is always hard. This video felt so comforting to watch and I'll definitely be re-watching on Christmas day ❤️
With regard to paying for things in a relationship, I totally get what Thomas and others who are in less fortunate situations mean. I think its less about men "traditionally" wanting to be bread winners or financially more secure, but rather it can create an unconscious guilt power unbalance. Finances are a big personal concern of mine (even when things are going well), so like even on a family Europe trip with my parents (my sister and I are both in our late 20s but also still students), my sister and I cant contribute "equally" and it makes me feel very guilty. Even in other relationships (friend or romantic) receiving gifts that are outrageously expensive (like some designer fashion thing) makes me more sad than happy because I cant afford to return the favor. I think discussions of financial contribution within a relationship are always tough, but its essential that partners are on the same page
Wow I find this super interesting, totally agree with some bits and not others! I always find it crazy someone can be saying porn is cool but then literally the next sentence saying phone sex with an ex is total disloyalty. Dude they're not that dissimilar. Just putting it out there that I've known people for whom porn became a massive trauma in their relationship especially when a partner was constantly choosing a screen over real intimacy. You have remember that nowadays with addiction to dopamine highs, young boys are basically being conditioned to prefer a screen and struggling to get it up in some cases purely because porn is so ubiquitous and addictive. It's sad, the fallout for relationships can be quite awful.
I absolutely agree that porn can become addictive and make having an orgasm really difficult without it if someone is consistently reliant on it. However, I definitely have to disagree with porn being comparable to having phone sex with an ex. People don't typically have a romantic/sexual history with the people they're watching in porn nor are they interacting with them. I think there's a clear, significant difference there.
@@gayandafraid_ that's fine if that's your view. Personally I find that a very weak/bizarre argument and many people don't consider there to be a 'clear' distinction between the two. I can't think of anything more creepy than obsessively/secretively watching other people have sex while purporting to be in an intimate, loving relationship.
We were meant to just before the pandemic started & we were all put into lockdown! We had even recorded the first episode 😭 would still love to, maybe one day 😍 x
@@JessieB98 Awww it would be so good if you guys started a podcast, your talking style videos are always so interesting/comforting so having that in a podcast format would be amazing 🥰 ((I say release the first episode 👀)) xx
The whole 'my partner can't afford to do things' it's all well and good talking about them needing to swallow their pride and I do totally agree that men shouldn't at all have to pay for everything - that's so wrong but there is always a possibility that your current partner isn't going to be your life partner - I certainly wouldn't want to spend my money that I have earned and worked hard for on someone that I don't even end up spending the rest of my life with. How do you navigate that? X
to be honest I understand that men or women don't want to be paid everything by the other partner when the other one earns more. It's not just a question of tradition or gender, but it just doesn't feel right to kind of be "taken care of" and essentially depend on the other person for your lifestyle. I also think as the "richer" partner you should accept that the other one maybe cannot afford your lifestyle and kind of adapt your lifestyle... otherwise you don't accept a larger part of your partner. But it depends whether the salary gap is permanent or temporary, of course ... and how big the gap is.
I’m just wondering why would it be such a “bad thing” if a woman (or mother) is understood to be posting nudes online? I’m actually surprised you guys didn’t discuss this further because I thought there is a bit internalised misogyny and repression there maybe? I understand that this is a controversial topic, and I understand if children are involved people usually get more conservative. However, a mother is still a woman, and if she’d want to post nudes online to have a safe income for her family, then I think she should feel no shame in doing that? (I’m focusing on the mother aspect because Melanie answered this comment, and I’m very sorry if I got this wrong)
Omg this is so fascinating. Melanie (older sister like me) doesnt eat pizza crusts because theres no toppings/sauce on it, Jessica (like my younger sis) says they're the best bits 😯
As a viewer, of course there is lot of room for misinterpretation of a relationship btwn people im not personally acquianted with, I got the impression that the question about whether you'd be friends if you weren't family brought out some defences and/or lack of acceptance of who the other person is. Not saying this to create any drama at all, just an observation (like I said, it is probable that I am misinterpreting)
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This video is so relaxing and eye-opening. I have two sisters but we never get together to talk so openly, especially about sex. 2 months ago I broke up with my long-term boyfriend (4 years) and it's been so tough. Listening to you girls I understand a lot of where both he & I made mistakes so it's a great learning experience for me. Thank you!
I don't have any bio family and I always spend Christmas alone so December is always hard. This video felt so comforting to watch and I'll definitely be re-watching on Christmas day ❤️
Sending you love be kind to yourself x
same here 💜
Every time you both say you are completely different I’m like what?? You seem so similar to me like you act really alike and have the same humour!
That’s maddd 😭😂
Totally agree I've always felt they are scarily similar!
With regard to paying for things in a relationship, I totally get what Thomas and others who are in less fortunate situations mean. I think its less about men "traditionally" wanting to be bread winners or financially more secure, but rather it can create an unconscious guilt power unbalance. Finances are a big personal concern of mine (even when things are going well), so like even on a family Europe trip with my parents (my sister and I are both in our late 20s but also still students), my sister and I cant contribute "equally" and it makes me feel very guilty. Even in other relationships (friend or romantic) receiving gifts that are outrageously expensive (like some designer fashion thing) makes me more sad than happy because I cant afford to return the favor. I think discussions of financial contribution within a relationship are always tough, but its essential that partners are on the same page
Literally really really needed this right now. Especially the forgiveness section. Thank you both xx
Wow I find this super interesting, totally agree with some bits and not others! I always find it crazy someone can be saying porn is cool but then literally the next sentence saying phone sex with an ex is total disloyalty. Dude they're not that dissimilar. Just putting it out there that I've known people for whom porn became a massive trauma in their relationship especially when a partner was constantly choosing a screen over real intimacy. You have remember that nowadays with addiction to dopamine highs, young boys are basically being conditioned to prefer a screen and struggling to get it up in some cases purely because porn is so ubiquitous and addictive. It's sad, the fallout for relationships can be quite awful.
I absolutely agree that porn can become addictive and make having an orgasm really difficult without it if someone is consistently reliant on it. However, I definitely have to disagree with porn being comparable to having phone sex with an ex. People don't typically have a romantic/sexual history with the people they're watching in porn nor are they interacting with them. I think there's a clear, significant difference there.
@@gayandafraid_ that's fine if that's your view. Personally I find that a very weak/bizarre argument and many people don't consider there to be a 'clear' distinction between the two. I can't think of anything more creepy than obsessively/secretively watching other people have sex while purporting to be in an intimate, loving relationship.
I love seeing you two together 💚
Love it,💙 your answers are always so thoughtful and honest! I enjoyed it so much, thanks💙
Love these cosy videos with the two of you, nothing glamorous just pizza and a duvet 😊
Just us in our natural habitat 🥰😂
@@JessieB98 have u ever did fart?
I’m so glad you popped up in my recommended!! I miss watching your videos
If if had a sister in life this is the relationship dynamic I would've wanted completely able to chat about anything 👏🎉💖😄
Jessie vibing with the cookie is a mood
Love your talk girlies:)
I wish I had two sisters 😭😭
We are your virtual sisters 🥺🤍
so great to see you both together
Start a podcast pleasssseee! X
We were meant to just before the pandemic started & we were all put into lockdown! We had even recorded the first episode 😭 would still love to, maybe one day 😍 x
@@JessieB98 Awww it would be so good if you guys started a podcast, your talking style videos are always so interesting/comforting
so having that in a podcast format would be amazing 🥰 ((I say release the first episode 👀)) xx
This is soooo cosy love it. Hugs!! 🥰
Hugsss🥹🥹
both of you look gorgeous in those colors
Why does this feel like watching Lorelei and Rory Gilmore🤣
Love you both!
Sending love be kind to yourself 🙂
Crusts are definitely not the best bit on most pizzas haha
The whole 'my partner can't afford to do things' it's all well and good talking about them needing to swallow their pride and I do totally agree that men shouldn't at all have to pay for everything - that's so wrong but there is always a possibility that your current partner isn't going to be your life partner - I certainly wouldn't want to spend my money that I have earned and worked hard for on someone that I don't even end up spending the rest of my life with.
How do you navigate that? X
to be honest I understand that men or women don't want to be paid everything by the other partner when the other one earns more. It's not just a question of tradition or gender, but it just doesn't feel right to kind of be "taken care of" and essentially depend on the other person for your lifestyle. I also think as the "richer" partner you should accept that the other one maybe cannot afford your lifestyle and kind of adapt your lifestyle... otherwise you don't accept a larger part of your partner. But it depends whether the salary gap is permanent or temporary, of course ... and how big the gap is.
Also, like another commenter said! Please start a podcast!
Love this video 😍
Hey, is the charge port safe for example if you've used in the bath or should you wait to charge it?
I’m just wondering why would it be such a “bad thing” if a woman (or mother) is understood to be posting nudes online?
I’m actually surprised you guys didn’t discuss this further because I thought there is a bit internalised misogyny and repression there maybe?
I understand that this is a controversial topic, and I understand if children are involved people usually get more conservative.
However, a mother is still a woman, and if she’d want to post nudes online to have a safe income for her family, then I think she should feel no shame in doing that?
(I’m focusing on the mother aspect because Melanie answered this comment, and I’m very sorry if I got this wrong)
You ladies remind me of my sister and I. Life is better with sisters
You said it! 🫶🏻
really relaxing video!
Thank you lovely ❤
Hello, not related but is Melanie doing the Me time planner for next year?
Omg this is so fascinating. Melanie (older sister like me) doesnt eat pizza crusts because theres no toppings/sauce on it, Jessica (like my younger sis) says they're the best bits 😯
I love this ❤
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As a viewer, of course there is lot of room for misinterpretation of a relationship btwn people im not personally acquianted with, I got the impression that the question about whether you'd be friends if you weren't family brought out some defences and/or lack of acceptance of who the other person is. Not saying this to create any drama at all, just an observation (like I said, it is probable that I am misinterpreting)
Mel doesn’t eat the crust?🤭
You think you know someone
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Hahahaha honestly
I only eat the crust if it’s warm and there’s the garlic and herb sauce to dip it in
Mel mentioned your personalities are different. How are they different??
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Awww I feel I'm with my sisters 🥰
I'm trying so hard not to judge while you eating in bed.. lol
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Hi, I totally agree 👍 💋
I’m sorry but your sister talks over you so much!!
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