Can someone tell me how to counteract the belief that if you have been intimate with a man on the first date it messes up the relationship, he’ll never take you serious love you or respect you or value you or the relationship. Like I’m not sure how to flip the belief around.
@@rb757 you just have to create that story that he feels a very special connection with you and feels you are the one. That through the intimacy he felt something he's never felt before and want to commit to you. Tell the story that he cherishes you and adores you and wants to keep seeing you and building a stronger foundation with you. I intend for this message to help you and empower you to manifest that which you desire. 🙏❤
@@tammyj.1267 hahahaha ain’t that the truth? When you realize how much attention you have to take off of yourself to put it all on this other person who is hardly even showing up for you
Thank you so much! I’m a 60 year old woman that has a lived lifetime of narcissistic abuse from a mother and a spouse… you have helped me so much to focus on me, and what I bring to the table! I watch your videos multiple times, and look forwarded d to the next one! I love you so much
This is one of my favorite recordings of yours Dylan. My SP unblocked me after a month but she showed up wobbly! So I decided that's it! No more! No wobbly outcome here! I am chosen! I am worthy! I am a freaking awesome spiritual being. I am phenomenal! I am extraordinary. I am strong! I honor myself! I am attractive! I am freaking awesome! I am pure positive energy!
There’s nothing to wait for translated: I got my hair cut I got my nails painted I put on a nice outfit I washed my car I enrolled in college I ate a meal with my bgf He sent a quick text I finished taking my afternoon walk I texted him back. We had some nice convos for awhile. I meditated I went to bed. Next day: Do it again 🥰♥️🥰♥️🥰♥️🥰♥️🥰
Exactly. Every morning I just write on the past tense my intentions for the day + write how I felt to connect better with the intention. Then I go about my day not attached how will happen, just pure trust and end result-oriented
only manifestation coach I actually resonate with none of that “bringing up your vibration energy” type of manifestation just solid practical psychological and empowering tools he’s the real deal in the game rn
I literally shake my head now when I’m on Facebook and I see all the “positive statuses”, that are really limiting beliefs. “People make time for who they want to, yet they always have an excuse when it comes to you” or even like you said Dylan, the number one favorite line is “People don’t change.” I agree it’s complete BULLSHIT!🤷🏾♂️….It’s really sad people don’t realize the power they have to shift what they want or who they want into their reality to show up the way they want them to just by focusing on themselves and getting their beliefs right, because why change your circle of people if you don’t change your way of thinking. So yeah, rock with who you want to rock with, change your inner and watch it reflect your outer.
@@RachelSullivan73 VERY! And like when I used to see stuff like that, it used to trigger me and make me feel like I was foolish for wanting to manifest a SP or have things the way I want them, but every since I’ve been listening to the affirmation tapes my mental now is “Hold up sis, bro don’t put your limiting beliefs on me!” If a negative thought arises, I just pass it off like that’s my old story, THIS IS MY NEW STORY!
I had the chance to practice lifting myself out of a dark place quickly and easily. A circumstance happened and I made a snap decision that I wanted to end the dark feeling within 2 minutes. I took a short pause, sang my favorite song, thought about some things that I love. Done! I made my own day.
To add if you’re dating other people while “waiting” on your SP then YOU are someone who needs to work on yourself. Getting into another relationship shows YOU are someone who can’t be with yourself. Do the work, self concept, breath work ect
Thank you for addressing the dating other people conundrum. In the PAST (I pulled a Dylan haha) on Friday nights, all the way until Sunday evenings right before bed I would feel lonely, and desired like Dylan stated a “space to be filled”. And perhaps I gave in several weeks ago. However, I love my sp, and though I manifested the situation I am currently in, I have so much faith, trust, and respect for my relationship with my sp that I can’t bring myself to text my prior fwbs, although they’re sniffing around and one texted me yesterday testing the waters. I didn’t give in. I won’t give in. I want one man for the rest of my life, to marry, to birth his children, and to grow old with. That’s my SP. 🌅❤️#ItsDone
Same. I’m telling everyone no because I’m faithful to my SP. I know he’s my soulmate. HE knows I’m his soulmate. I’m happy knowing this and that he will show up acting exactly as I deserve. I don’t need to think about it or him anymore. I give myself permission to relax and enjoy my days knowing I’ll get what I want. ❤️
I’ve watched this video so many times and it resonated with me so differently today. At the end when he speaks of “not giving a fuck” about hot and cold behavior. I’m getting that quite a bit, but what I realized is that I’ve always done that even with friends. If they get quiet, or act distant, or just different in any way I’ve always gone straight to blaming myself and questioning whether I’ve done something wrong. Which tells me I’ve been victimizing myself for soooo long now 😞 bc the hot and cold behavior still bothers me! This has helped me realize how much I prioritize everyone else over myself, especially my SP. I’ve never known how to love myself, how to see myself, and see that I’m worthy and deserving. I think the biggest thing is that I’ve never been able to admit that to myself. Bc on a conscious level I love myself, bc I’ve always wanted to put in the work and grow as a person, but on a subconscious level those beliefs are still very much lacking. Only thing to do from here is seriously build my SC. Thank you as always ❤️
I manifested my person back and forth so many times for I don’t even wanna say how long even tho circumstances don’t matter haha always had the fwb situation and hot and cold behavior and you’re the only one that is making me understand everything I’ve been doing wrong this whole time and to understand how to get out of the toxic cycle. I watched so many RUclipsrs for so long and everything you say is on point. You can try do change someone and you get inconsistent manifestations like i always got. I had a terrible self concept and thought awful things about myself. I already started to feel better by watching your videos and thinking I’m worth of everything I want in all areas of my life. Thank u
I'm always baffled how you somehow say the same thing in a completely new way every single time, and how it hits different/sinks in deeper with every video 🖤🙌
If anyone has trouble trusting, there are many aspects in life where our subconscious trusts in unpredictable scenarios even if we do not know the outcome. For example, it could be as little as buying a cookie that you trust is good, even though the taste could of been different that day. You trust that when you are at work or a supermarket, there is no danger that is going to occur. When it comes to a person, even if the desired outcome isn’t in 3D yet, trusting is the most powerful feeling because we always get that desired reality. Thanks Dylan for making me open my mind to these concepts. You are so much help in my self love journey.
Stop being bothered. TRUTH!!! Thank you, I'm in the middle of my 21 day manifest, it is working. I'm so unbothered for the first time in 3 years!!! 🙌🙏🏻
You are an angel. U don't know how much you have brought change in people's life for better. Amazed by the way you are clear and thoughts and preachings and feel soo fortunate to have found you. Its been a month now that I have been following you and not a day passes when I dont listen to ur audios and the nightly affirmation tapes. U are a true blessing to humanity and such a pious soul. Immense Gratitude to you. Such a powerful and beautiful aura you have and so soothing is your voice. You STAND out from all those are on youtube teaching similar stuff. I am so happy that I found the best. Love you Dylan.Your content is soo well organized and everytime I need an answer to any of the stuff I want to know, I get it instantly as soon as I check on your videos. You deserve a billion followers but only blessed one would find you coz u are RARE.
Guys… 3 days of listening to Dylan and 3 days of the Limitless affirmations at night… well… a guy who ghosted 3 years ago just wrote apologizing. I do not want him back, but that is there… 😂 it really works…
My Capricorn brother! Thank you! This is how I've ALWAYS explained this process to others. Do what fees right. And the confident attitude that YOU Dylan have about making those who think you're a booty call when YOU in fact KNOW they falling in love with you no matter what the fuck they say , its the same confidence I've used in the past and it's VERY Capricorn and it works guaranteed ALWAYS!😘
i feel like dylan james + neville bible teachings is the BEST this is the same as being faithful while not sinning + before asking God for anything forgive your brother and anyone and even your enemies meaning we can take care of ourselves be angry be sad be frustrated and + forgiving these patterns and letting them go AND still knowing im getting what i fuckin want point blank period.
That’s exactly the point and you catched it sharply: if I want only THAT person, if i feel I deserve only that person, there’s no point dating other people just to pass the time - it’s not alligned with my feeling, so it’s no good for anyone!!! Why people BUT YOU don’t understand that!!! Love you Dylan, you make me feel I’m not wrong in the world 😍😍😍
patience is key!! keep doing self love journey, and my sp reflowed me twice(cuz I ignored the first time for the journey) it is incredible guys and thank Dylan🥰know that you don't need to rush because the fruit will be riped in any moment, just enjoy lol
I'm learning. I'm changing. I m stepping out these old patterns. I believe he enjoys talking to me, he looks forward to hearing from me, he likes our connection.
All your videos from the start have been gold. You are so awesome Dylan. Thank you for believing in us and continuing and keeping the fire lit. The more I take in new beliefs the more these videos actually sink in and click. What wasn't able to get through now does bc of the internal shifts and then that leads to deeper shifts. This is absolutely amazing!!! I am so incredibly grateful for you and how you show up.
Honore and trust yourself no matter what and everything will align to your reality, if your sp loves you he will meet you there, be brave don’t accept things that don’t honor your state of been, people who really love u will meet u in that space ❤️❤️ no urgency , urgency is not love , we are all together in this travel, u’re not alone
love u dylan yesterday i tried destruction therapy and put my victim mentality in the wood i chopped and burnt it and then saw this video like it’s all adding up i’m knowing my worth and have been listening to self concept for 6 nights now
That’s exactly what is happening with me Rn! My SP only wanted friends with benefits without commitment. However cause it didn’t feel good, I said no believing that he will totally fall for me. Yesterday he asked me out on dinner, but only as friends. It was kind of though at first because circumstances seemed to yell that we will only be friends but Ik they r a reflection of my beliefs and that is not my reality!
Interesting. I'm platonic only with the man I want as well. No romantic past. Hence, I did a bit of online research on platonic friendships. Consensus seems to be, (not always) but a huge amount of the time they morph into actual relationships. Consensus being, that men especially, as a group, don't seem to be all that flash at staying platonic! Basically because there had to have been a degree of mild unspoken attraction there from the outset. After all, you don't walk up to someone you hate and initiate a friendship, do you? So I would say you're gonna get what you want. Go you. Go us. Xx
@@sonyavincent7450 I don’t understand him tbh. He says he doesn’t want commitment but then I see the way he looks at me and approaches me…but u r right! I’m totally gonna get what I want! I’m done trying to figure it out, I simply need to trust it will workout! Now u inspired me on searching platonic friendships 🤔
@@alyssaattioli970 when I read your original comment, I got a strong download that he's scared, confused, processing his feelings bla bla bla. And that you two will end up in the relationship you want. Remember, it all starts with you, so you need to assume your relationship is inevitable. Yes, research Platonic friendship, it will give you confidence if you see what I saw, that it generally seems to lead to romance. Now I'm no expert but if I were you I wouldn't keep asking your man for girlfriend status, it will just make him wary and raise his resistance. I would just move forward with him assuming that what you have is morphing into a full commitment. Trust yourself!!!
@@sonyavincent7450 100% agree. Ppl are also the reflection of who we are inside, and as soon I’ll start loving and putting myself first he will come running to me! Rn I’m also in that stage where I don’t care, I’m fine enjoying my alone time :))
Two weeks of listening to Dylan. I manifested a friend who support and motivated me to self care and glow up. Planning to do my hair, eyelash, and go show myself to the world.
Omg how did I need this. I manifested my Sp back but its not fully how I wanted and I wanted and I saw it was becuase of me so I started meditating and just trying to own my energy again a few days ago and I'm already feeling better. I know things will change every day. And it hit me earlier the women my SP was inlove with months ago was this person who was very I don't need you to be happy im happy in me. I'm owning and going back to her again
Thanks for this video. Been doing affirmation tapes for a month now. I’ve been feeling a huge shift in my state of being, to where the need to affirm has dissipated… however, the last 2-3 days I’ve had many intrusive thoughts and haven’t been as stable. Anyone else experience this? Almost feels like it’s my old beliefs trying one last push to keep the new beliefs away and to put me back in that “victim mode”
@@gorgeeus they’ve been going at me hard the last couple days. It’s been like 6-7 weeks since I’ve had so many intrusive thoughts. Staying afloat though and persisting through them.
I love the way you say it don’t matter it don’t matter it don’t matter 😂 your circumstances don’t matter 🙌🏽♥️ that’s just stuck in my head all day it really helps xxx
Yes! This was a great video. I'm glad you brought up people being hard on themselves for not being able to let go. That was me... And then one day I just said no, if I'm in control of my reality then I choose to let this go. And i said it with such conviction and authority and it worked. This whole week I have felt balanced and calm and just know that what I'm manifesting is coming to me, it's already done. I know my worth now.
Dylan, you are such a gift!!! Thank you, thank you!! I have some very upsetting circumstances trying to mess with me so I am streaming Dylan all day long in my work truck. I said to myself this morning "fuck this shit" (yes, Dylan's words LOL). The only things that have power in my world today are ME and the JOY I'm generating!!!! So far it's working!! As I drive from job to job fixing internet I'm grinning ear to ear. I feel so much better. In my mind, when the circumstances or their associated worries try to move into my JOY space I say "you, over there, threatening my job?? You have no power. Slink on back to your corner.". "you, SP, being hot & cold. I just dumped ice water on you. Slink on back to your corner " LOL I'm having a blast.
Yes!!!!! That exactly what I am doing! I don’t want to date anyone else when I know my man is mine! I’m working on me! Loving me! What an amazing video!
If you're waiting on someone after a year, maybe look it's just a trauma bond, limerence or unhealthy attachment to an unavailable person.I'm all for manifesting, but we gotta be realistic about situations.
So right on topic, it’s unbelievable. I think I manifested this video. You answered exactly the questions I had about having sex with a returning SP. The exact scenario happened to me last night, and I decided to own it! My SP is just drawn to me and wants to commit to me - It’s DONE!!
Oh Dylan!! I missed you so much and was so worried !! My days were incomplete without u and I spiraled down without you 🥺 Thanks so much !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Dude, I've spent the last 4 months battling the healthcare industry as it neglected my mother to her grave a few weeks ago. In the midst of it, a sudden breakup for no reason of my making threw me into a tailspin that I'm finding my way through by acknowledging patterns from childhood. particular RUclipsrs, mediums, other great psychic channels led me here. I'm a proponent of The Law of Attraction and yet I wasn't looking at the world this way for a long time. Your last two videos were a gigantic wake up call and I'm excited for the first time in months, perhaps years. You laid down a gauntlet for a minimum of self-love that quite frankly is a bare-minimum. I'm grateful. Truly. Circumstances, even death, don't matter. Remembering to be gentle is key.
@@gorgeeus Thank you. When I realize even this doesn’t matter towards my manifestations, the grieving takes on whatever energy I want, like celebration. ♥️
Feel better soon! I've going back and watched your older videos 😊 I've also been listening to the 8 hr affirmations and feel so much more relaxed. My SP and I have been in much better contact and have plans to hang out soon, which HE suggested. Love it! It's done, he is mine and coming in fully committed to ME ❤
@@Hollins23 Dylan is doing great I mean he is so clear in what he preach, also many other law of assumption coaches now refers to hear night affirmations ( maybe by seeing dylans content😜)
Dylan you are by far my favorite life coach! This is by far my favorite video that you've posted. So so proud of how much your channel has grown and the content you upload is gold! You've helped me changed my life and I know everything I desire is done! It's done! That's it! Circumstances DON'T exist!
James I just wanted to say thank you I’ve been listening to the self concept tapes at night I’m on day 4 and I have been waking up REALLY GOOD I got a new job!!! I’m having fun and excited about life again I was so focused on my sp I wasn’t truly working on myself I started going back to the gym I’m feeling so good thank you so much you have no idea my sp will be back permanently! ❤️
It's funny that you called him by his last name, as if we're on a sports team together. :) Congratulations on the new job!! That's wonderful. Good for you!
Love the info Dylan I used to feel stupid wondering if I would ever get the hang of this but I feel I am starting to really feel more at ease and relaxed and knowing now I am getting better everyday your tapes and videos have really helped me alot.
A grey beanie would’ve looked really cute with the fit. Btw 2 months in and I’ve never felt happier and better about myself. Not to mention my sp has done 180 without me even trying. Thank you Dylan!!! 💙💙💙
Truly one of your best most eloquent videos yet. Your level of awareness is unparalleled🙌 THANK YOU for addressing that second layer of resistance and being gentle. Resisting the resistance is still resistance😂 I'm curious to know whether you would want to do a video addressing manifesting with diagnosed/severe mental health issues? (BPD, PTSD, depression and anxiety)
Just had the best lunch ever. Salad with capsicum peppers, sweet chilli garlic dressing and pitta bread. I am not on a diet but I feel my body has some inflammation so need to alter my diet. I have prepped some for work as I love their chips potato frie to the world.
Wow I just found your channel. And you’re the most amazing. Changed my life. Thank you I entirely understand some of the nuances I was missing with manifesting, thinking of myself, and my life.
Dylan you are an excellent coach. Have no words to express how much I resonate with your thoughts. It is So therapeutic. And the you are doing this so benevolently ...on such an open platform RUclips. Thank you abundantly. You are doing a great service to humanity....you are creating a new world of positivity, possibilities and love and harmony
Thank u once again. The more I watch these videos the more I need to start thinking about me as the important person and giving the next one the honour all the time. This is what is really pushing me down. So glad I came across Dylan James , thanks 😉😉
You ate best . My god I am glad I follow you . The way you explained bit of bit is amazing . Thank you so much dylan . I hope to meet you once in my life . You are amazing dylan ,god bless you .
So, I started watching this video because of the title. I’ve been listening to the limitless manifestor tape for about a week and a half. The first few days were amaaaazing. I felt incredible, like everything I wanted to feel for a long time. Then, 3 days ago, the wonky happened 😅 And it’s been going on strong since then. Tons of intrusive thoughts, mixed feelings, crying and anxiety. Today when I woke up I was listening to the tape and your voice sounded distorted + my body felt crazy, like some places such as my spine/chest/gut were burning and I was having tons of thoughts about things that I’m ready to let go of but they don’t seem to go away from my mind. While watching to this video I was like “why am I watching this?…nothing strikes a cord yet…but I don’t know, I’m just going to keep watching”. The topic, overall, didn’t apply to my current situation. BUT THEN, what you said from min 21:00 to 22:37 happened. It instantly clicked. I’ve been wanting to find an answer to what I’m going through all day and i feel that is it. The layer of guilt and shame of “why can’t I stop focusing on this”. It’s been the underlying feeling I’ve had for the last 3 days…a “I just want to feel as amazing as I did last week, I did drop it for a while, why is this happening to me? What did I do wrong?”. I had a talk with my therapist (I found your channel last week but I’ve been going through this process for 7 months now) about a month and a half ago where she said “congratulations, you just shed a layer”. After that I’ve been feeling better liiiittle by little. Last week, it peaked. And then I started feeling the same feeling I had when she referred to that “layer”. I’ve been asking myself if my state is about shedding another layer but haven’t given much importance to it…seems like it was. Fun part is, while writing this I just realized that even while feeling so mixed inside I kept on reminding myself of what I envision for myself. I affirmed it’s gonna happen for me, and that I should just wait a little longer. I affirmed I trusted that a confirmation would pop up soon. I feel this is what I was asking for. Thank you Dylan! I don’t know if this counts as manifesting due to my mixed feelings…but I’ll take it as a yes. 🤍
I've been binging a bunch of your videos since I've found your channel and this video got uploaded at the perfect time for me! I've been listening to your self concept affirmations the past week and they've really helped a lot. But just last night, my mind wandered into the usual pattern of overthinking and overanalyzing what I've last said to my SP wishing that I could've said something differently and also regretting that I said anything at all. It didn't feel too good and I felt a bit disappointed in myself. That feeling slightly carried on with me today but now it's all dissipated thanks to your reminder of being forgiving and gentle with myself :) I’ve tried watching all sorts of vids before where people explain manifestation but nothing ever stuck with me. But anything that you explain, it just hits different and suddenly, everything just clicks! Thank you so much Dylan! Rest well and take care! :)
This made a lot of sense for me right now. With My sp (not an ex) I think there’s a 3p and we are suppose to hang tomorrow and I watched this video and felt like... hmm is this just condoning not to be treated my best. Cuz I ignore 3p but also don’t want sp thinking that this flies and don’t want to be sending message to myself that I’m treated however just to see sp. no, come correct or stay away. Love you boo, but I don’t need you around
We’re all out here loving your vids so much that we’re all waiting for them. Love it! Hope you feel better, this lifted my mood and changed my perspective even more. Thank you 💛
I ❤ you and your videos!!! They're so informative and really help to keep me on a great path. Your energy and voice is very uplifting as well. Bless you!
Every time I feel a negative shift. I come here and instantly vibrate higher. Thank you Dylan.
Same here !!
Same
Dylan is very educated as a coach. Very intelligent guy. All makes sense. Not too crazy just the perfect healthy explanation
Yessss
Yes i agree
Yes I thank God for him
He massages my brain what call it
Can someone tell me how to counteract the belief that if you have been intimate with a man on the first date it messes up the relationship, he’ll never take you serious love you or respect you or value you or the relationship. Like I’m not sure how to flip the belief around.
@@rb757 you just have to create that story that he feels a very special connection with you and feels you are the one. That through the intimacy he felt something he's never felt before and want to commit to you. Tell the story that he cherishes you and adores you and wants to keep seeing you and building a stronger foundation with you. I intend for this message to help you and empower you to manifest that which you desire. 🙏❤
“I love myself enough to not form an attachment to somebody that is to my detriment.” I love how you put this! It really struck a chord with me!
Same here! I felt blessed and attacked at the same time. Wow wow wow.
@@tammyj.1267 hahahaha ain’t that the truth? When you realize how much attention you have to take off of yourself to put it all on this other person who is hardly even showing up for you
@@samanthasstars4735 Right!!!
@@samanthasstars4735 I want to stay in that mindset
You had me at “I’m not gonna give a fuck” 😂🥰
A little cursing tends to get me too. 😂😂😂
Same! I replayed that part multiple times!🤣
Thank you so much! I’m a 60 year old woman that has a lived lifetime of narcissistic abuse from a mother and a spouse… you have helped me so much to focus on me, and what I bring to the table! I watch your videos multiple times, and look forwarded d to the next one! I love you so much
Yaaasss Monica- honor yourself!!!❤️🌅👏🏽
You go girl, you got this 🙌 🤩
Send you💜💜💜
GOD BLESS YOU. may you still find someone who gives fiery passion and limitless love to you that you jump out of your bed every morning.
Beautiful
This is one of my favorite recordings of yours Dylan. My SP unblocked me after a month but she showed up wobbly! So I decided that's it! No more! No wobbly outcome here! I am chosen! I am worthy! I am a freaking awesome spiritual being. I am phenomenal! I am extraordinary. I am strong! I honor myself! I am attractive! I am freaking awesome! I am pure positive energy!
There’s nothing to wait for translated:
I got my hair cut
I got my nails painted
I put on a nice outfit
I washed my car
I enrolled in college
I ate a meal with my bgf
He sent a quick text
I finished taking my afternoon walk
I texted him back.
We had some nice convos for awhile.
I meditated
I went to bed.
Next day: Do it again
🥰♥️🥰♥️🥰♥️🥰♥️🥰
👏🏽🌅❤️
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Exactly. Every morning I just write on the past tense my intentions for the day + write how I felt to connect better with the intention. Then I go about my day not attached how will happen, just pure trust and end result-oriented
only manifestation coach I actually resonate with none of that “bringing up your vibration energy” type of manifestation just solid practical psychological and empowering tools he’s the real deal in the game rn
I literally shake my head now when I’m on Facebook and I see all the “positive statuses”, that are really limiting beliefs. “People make time for who they want to, yet they always have an excuse when it comes to you” or even like you said Dylan, the number one favorite line is “People don’t change.” I agree it’s complete BULLSHIT!🤷🏾♂️….It’s really sad people don’t realize the power they have to shift what they want or who they want into their reality to show up the way they want them to just by focusing on themselves and getting their beliefs right, because why change your circle of people if you don’t change your way of thinking. So yeah, rock with who you want to rock with, change your inner and watch it reflect your outer.
Bingo! That's one of several reasons that I tend to avoid FB at this point. It can be VERY toxic.
@@RachelSullivan73 VERY! And like when I used to see stuff like that, it used to trigger me and make me feel like I was foolish for wanting to manifest a SP or have things the way I want them, but every since I’ve been listening to the affirmation tapes my mental now is “Hold up sis, bro don’t put your limiting beliefs on me!” If a negative thought arises, I just pass it off like that’s my old story, THIS IS MY NEW STORY!
Fucking bang on 💪
I avoid "fakebook" like the plague! It's a toxic, evil, angry place. It's the opposite of what I want in my life.
I wouldn't date anyone else because this is my husband. Period!
this energy🔥🔥
@@hiyd.y9787 🙌🙌🙌💫
this!!!!
This is it
Filling out our marriage license online right now… I’m living in the end… I just know this is my husband…period
I had the chance to practice lifting myself out of a dark place quickly and easily. A circumstance happened and I made a snap decision that I wanted to end the dark feeling within 2 minutes. I took a short pause, sang my favorite song, thought about some things that I love. Done! I made my own day.
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OH MY GOD WHAT A BANGER!! IM LIMITLESS, NO ONE HOLDS POWER OVER ME. IM WORTHY, CHOSEN, LOVED, STABLE. PERSIST ON
To add if you’re dating other people while “waiting” on your SP then YOU are someone who needs to work on yourself. Getting into another relationship shows YOU are someone who can’t be with yourself. Do the work, self concept, breath work ect
Thank you for addressing the dating other people conundrum. In the PAST (I pulled a Dylan haha) on Friday nights, all the way until Sunday evenings right before bed I would feel lonely, and desired like Dylan stated a “space to be filled”. And perhaps I gave in several weeks ago. However, I love my sp, and though I manifested the situation I am currently in, I have so much faith, trust, and respect for my relationship with my sp that I can’t bring myself to text my prior fwbs, although they’re sniffing around and one texted me yesterday testing the waters. I didn’t give in. I won’t give in. I want one man for the rest of my life, to marry, to birth his children, and to grow old with. That’s my SP. 🌅❤️#ItsDone
yes, girl🤍 i’m in the same boat. persist!! 😇
@@enahuseinbegovic we’ve got this sis!!!!❤️🌅🙏🏽
Same. I’m telling everyone no because I’m faithful to my SP. I know he’s my soulmate. HE knows I’m his soulmate. I’m happy knowing this and that he will show up acting exactly as I deserve. I don’t need to think about it or him anymore. I give myself permission to relax and enjoy my days knowing I’ll get what I want. ❤️
Lol I even tell guys who ask me out that I have a boyfriend because they’re already here, ours, it’s doneeee.
@@chrissymarie88 That is great! It is true - living in the end!! It is done!
I’ve watched this video so many times and it resonated with me so differently today. At the end when he speaks of “not giving a fuck” about hot and cold behavior. I’m getting that quite a bit, but what I realized is that I’ve always done that even with friends. If they get quiet, or act distant, or just different in any way I’ve always gone straight to blaming myself and questioning whether I’ve done something wrong. Which tells me I’ve been victimizing myself for soooo long now 😞 bc the hot and cold behavior still bothers me! This has helped me realize how much I prioritize everyone else over myself, especially my SP. I’ve never known how to love myself, how to see myself, and see that I’m worthy and deserving. I think the biggest thing is that I’ve never been able to admit that to myself. Bc on a conscious level I love myself, bc I’ve always wanted to put in the work and grow as a person, but on a subconscious level those beliefs are still very much lacking. Only thing to do from here is seriously build my SC. Thank you as always ❤️
My daughter name is Lauren Rose❤️
This is gold.🏆🏅 It works 💯, if applied and practiced 💯.
Yes i noticed in the community of loa many coaches make us feel guilty. The thing is really being gentle with ourselves. Take care of ourselves
I manifested my person back and forth so many times for I don’t even wanna say how long even tho circumstances don’t matter haha always had the fwb situation and hot and cold behavior and you’re the only one that is making me understand everything I’ve been doing wrong this whole time and to understand how to get out of the toxic cycle. I watched so many RUclipsrs for so long and everything you say is on point. You can try do change someone and you get inconsistent manifestations like i always got. I had a terrible self concept and thought awful things about myself. I already started to feel better by watching your videos and thinking I’m worth of everything I want in all areas of my life. Thank u
I'm always baffled how you somehow say the same thing in a completely new way every single time, and how it hits different/sinks in deeper with every video 🖤🙌
14:31 Wow Dylan that's a feather coming down on you! 'Feathers appear when angels are near'. 😇😇
If anyone has trouble trusting, there are many aspects in life where our subconscious trusts in unpredictable scenarios even if we do not know the outcome. For example, it could be as little as buying a cookie that you trust is good, even though the taste could of been different that day. You trust that when you are at work or a supermarket, there is no danger that is going to occur. When it comes to a person, even if the desired outcome isn’t in 3D yet, trusting is the most powerful feeling because we always get that desired reality. Thanks Dylan for making me open my mind to these concepts. You are so much help in my self love journey.
Stop being bothered. TRUTH!!! Thank you, I'm in the middle of my 21 day manifest, it is working. I'm so unbothered for the first time in 3 years!!! 🙌🙏🏻
This men has totally changed me..i am a new person from last 2 days....i m who i want to be...thnx DJ...love u love u love u..
I cant stop saying..I LOVE U to u...thanx a ton..i cant explain it in words how much u changed me.
Not intersted👉🖕
You are an angel. U don't know how much you have brought change in people's life for better. Amazed by the way you are clear and thoughts and preachings and feel soo fortunate to have found you. Its been a month now that I have been following you and not a day passes when I dont listen to ur audios and the nightly affirmation tapes. U are a true blessing to humanity and such a pious soul. Immense Gratitude to you. Such a powerful and beautiful aura you have and so soothing is your voice.
You STAND out from all those are on youtube teaching similar stuff. I am so happy that I found the best. Love you Dylan.Your content is soo well organized and everytime I need an answer to any of the stuff I want to know, I get it instantly as soon as I check on your videos. You deserve a billion followers but only blessed one would find you coz u are RARE.
Guys… 3 days of listening to Dylan and 3 days of the Limitless affirmations at night… well… a guy who ghosted 3 years ago just wrote apologizing. I do not want him back, but that is there… 😂 it really works…
My Capricorn brother! Thank you! This is how I've ALWAYS explained this process to others. Do what fees right. And the confident attitude that YOU Dylan have about making those who think you're a booty call when YOU in fact KNOW they falling in love with you no matter what the fuck they say , its the same confidence I've used in the past and it's VERY Capricorn and it works guaranteed ALWAYS!😘
i feel like dylan james + neville bible teachings is the BEST this is the same as being faithful while not sinning + before asking God for anything forgive your brother and anyone and even your enemies meaning we can take care of ourselves be angry be sad be frustrated and + forgiving these patterns and letting them go AND still knowing im getting what i fuckin want point blank period.
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@@IAm_DylanJames ohh dylan heyy
how can someone dislike this video? perfectly explained
Some people can't handle the truth lol
That’s exactly the point and you catched it sharply: if I want only THAT person, if i feel I deserve only that person, there’s no point dating other people just to pass the time - it’s not alligned with my feeling, so it’s no good for anyone!!! Why people BUT YOU don’t understand that!!! Love you Dylan, you make me feel I’m not wrong in the world 😍😍😍
patience is key!! keep doing self love journey, and my sp reflowed me twice(cuz I ignored the first time for the journey) it is incredible guys and thank Dylan🥰know that you don't need to rush because the fruit will be riped in any moment, just enjoy lol
“I’m gonna honour them” is so full of love
I love Dylan’s teaching so so much!
You are the best coach, most intelligent, warm, compassionate, generous, sexy, sweet and assertive!!!
I'm learning. I'm changing. I m stepping out these old patterns. I believe he enjoys talking to me, he looks forward to hearing from me, he likes our connection.
All your videos from the start have been gold. You are so awesome Dylan. Thank you for believing in us and continuing and keeping the fire lit. The more I take in new beliefs the more these videos actually sink in and click. What wasn't able to get through now does bc of the internal shifts and then that leads to deeper shifts. This is absolutely amazing!!! I am so incredibly grateful for you and how you show up.
“Fuck this bullshit 🤌🏽” HAHAHHA love you!
Honore and trust yourself no matter what and everything will align to your reality, if your sp loves you he will meet you there, be brave don’t accept things that don’t honor your state of been, people who really love u will meet u in that space ❤️❤️ no urgency , urgency is not love , we are all together in this travel, u’re not alone
love u dylan yesterday i tried destruction therapy and put my victim mentality in the wood i chopped and burnt it and then saw this video like it’s all adding up i’m knowing my worth and have been listening to self concept for 6 nights now
I ADORE how you don't tell people to like and subscribe, and THAT is what draws people to like and subscribe to you.
That’s exactly what is happening with me Rn! My SP only wanted friends with benefits without commitment. However cause it didn’t feel good, I said no believing that he will totally fall for me. Yesterday he asked me out on dinner, but only as friends. It was kind of though at first because circumstances seemed to yell that we will only be friends but Ik they r a reflection of my beliefs and that is not my reality!
Interesting. I'm platonic only with the man I want as well. No romantic past. Hence, I did a bit of online research on platonic friendships. Consensus seems to be, (not always) but a huge amount of the time they morph into actual relationships. Consensus being, that men especially, as a group, don't seem to be all that flash at staying platonic! Basically because there had to have been a degree of mild unspoken attraction there from the outset. After all, you don't walk up to someone you hate and initiate a friendship, do you? So I would say you're gonna get what you want. Go you. Go us. Xx
@@sonyavincent7450 I don’t understand him tbh. He says he doesn’t want commitment but then I see the way he looks at me and approaches me…but u r right! I’m totally gonna get what I want! I’m done trying to figure it out, I simply need to trust it will workout! Now u inspired me on searching platonic friendships 🤔
@@alyssaattioli970 when I read your original comment, I got a strong download that he's scared, confused, processing his feelings bla bla bla. And that you two will end up in the relationship you want.
Remember, it all starts with you, so you need to assume your relationship is inevitable. Yes, research Platonic friendship, it will give you confidence if you see what I saw, that it generally seems to lead to romance.
Now I'm no expert but if I were you I wouldn't keep asking your man for girlfriend status, it will just make him wary and raise his resistance. I would just move forward with him assuming that what you have is morphing into a full commitment. Trust yourself!!!
@@sonyavincent7450 100% agree. Ppl are also the reflection of who we are inside, and as soon I’ll start loving and putting myself first he will come running to me! Rn I’m also in that stage where I don’t care, I’m fine enjoying my alone time :))
@@sonyavincent7450 just now by re reading ur message I see that u r experiencing a similar scenario. I’m curious to know ur story?
Two weeks of listening to Dylan. I manifested a friend who support and motivated me to self care and glow up. Planning to do my hair, eyelash, and go show myself to the world.
Exactly I honor my SP.. love you Dylan you are changing my life!
Omg how did I need this. I manifested my Sp back but its not fully how I wanted and I wanted and I saw it was becuase of me so I started meditating and just trying to own my energy again a few days ago and I'm already feeling better. I know things will change every day. And it hit me earlier the women my SP was inlove with months ago was this person who was very I don't need you to be happy im happy in me. I'm owning and going back to her again
Thanks for this video. Been doing affirmation tapes for a month now. I’ve been feeling a huge shift in my state of being, to where the need to affirm has dissipated… however, the last 2-3 days I’ve had many intrusive thoughts and haven’t been as stable. Anyone else experience this? Almost feels like it’s my old beliefs trying one last push to keep the new beliefs away and to put me back in that “victim mode”
Yes! Those thoughts are our subconscious minds trying to trick us.
@@gorgeeus they’ve been going at me hard the last couple days. It’s been like 6-7 weeks since I’ve had so many intrusive thoughts. Staying afloat though and persisting through them.
@@MCAVideos6886 thank you :)
I love the way you say it don’t matter it don’t matter it don’t matter 😂 your circumstances don’t matter 🙌🏽♥️ that’s just stuck in my head all day it really helps xxx
Yes! This was a great video. I'm glad you brought up people being hard on themselves for not being able to let go. That was me... And then one day I just said no, if I'm in control of my reality then I choose to let this go. And i said it with such conviction and authority and it worked. This whole week I have felt balanced and calm and just know that what I'm manifesting is coming to me, it's already done. I know my worth now.
Dylan, you are such a gift!!! Thank you, thank you!!
I have some very upsetting circumstances trying to mess with me so I am streaming Dylan all day long in my work truck. I said to myself this morning "fuck this shit" (yes, Dylan's words LOL). The only things that have power in my world today are ME and the JOY I'm generating!!!! So far it's working!! As I drive from job to job fixing internet I'm grinning ear to ear. I feel so much better.
In my mind, when the circumstances or their associated worries try to move into my JOY space I say "you, over there, threatening my job?? You have no power. Slink on back to your corner.". "you, SP, being hot & cold. I just dumped ice water on you. Slink on back to your corner " LOL I'm having a blast.
Yaaasss👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🌅🥰❤️🙌🏽
I am going to hear this EVERY day .Thank u
Me too Sophia the best video so far.Put things in place.
I hope you feel better. Take care of yourself Dylan. ❤🙏🏽
Yes!!!!! That exactly what I am doing! I don’t want to date anyone else when I know my man is mine!
I’m working on me! Loving me!
What an amazing video!
If you're waiting on someone after a year, maybe look it's just a trauma bond, limerence or unhealthy attachment to an unavailable person.I'm all for manifesting, but we gotta be realistic about situations.
Yes Dylan, please rest Sweetie. Although we miss your presence, we want you at your best! 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
So right on topic, it’s unbelievable. I think I manifested this video. You answered exactly the questions I had about having sex with a returning SP. The exact scenario happened to me last night, and I decided to own it! My SP is just drawn to me and wants to commit to me - It’s DONE!!
Oh Dylan!! I missed you so much and was so worried !! My days were incomplete without u and I spiraled down without you 🥺 Thanks so much !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Working on my SC and hopefully contact will come along after 7 months. Thank you 🙏
Dude, I've spent the last 4 months battling the healthcare industry as it neglected my mother to her grave a few weeks ago. In the midst of it, a sudden breakup for no reason of my making threw me into a tailspin that I'm finding my way through by acknowledging patterns from childhood. particular RUclipsrs, mediums, other great psychic channels led me here. I'm a proponent of The Law of Attraction and yet I wasn't looking at the world this way for a long time. Your last two videos were a gigantic wake up call and I'm excited for the first time in months, perhaps years. You laid down a gauntlet for a minimum of self-love that quite frankly is a bare-minimum. I'm grateful. Truly. Circumstances, even death, don't matter. Remembering to be gentle is key.
My condolences ❤️
@@gorgeeus Thank you. When I realize even this doesn’t matter towards my manifestations, the grieving takes on whatever energy I want, like celebration. ♥️
@@writemeyers good on you sweety keep that beautiful spirit 🌅❤️🥰🙏🏽
Feel better soon! I've going back and watched your older videos 😊 I've also been listening to the 8 hr affirmations and feel so much more relaxed. My SP and I have been in much better contact and have plans to hang out soon, which HE suggested. Love it! It's done, he is mine and coming in fully committed to ME ❤
Whenever I hear Dylan's voice, I feel sleepy 😂 lol cause I sleep with his affirmations every night
Dylan James you are ❤
LOL! Me, too! I fell asleep listening to him speak the other day when he posted a new video. It wasn't a nighttime track, either. :)
@@Hollins23 Dylan is doing great I mean he is so clear in what he preach, also many other law of assumption coaches now refers to hear night affirmations ( maybe by seeing dylans content😜)
Dylan you are by far my favorite life coach! This is by far my favorite video that you've posted. So so proud of how much your channel has grown and the content you upload is gold! You've helped me changed my life and I know everything I desire is done! It's done! That's it! Circumstances DON'T exist!
James I just wanted to say thank you I’ve been listening to the self concept tapes at night I’m on day 4 and I have been waking up REALLY GOOD I got a new job!!! I’m having fun and excited about life again I was so focused on my sp I wasn’t truly working on myself I started going back to the gym I’m feeling so good thank you so much you have no idea my sp will be back permanently! ❤️
It's funny that you called him by his last name, as if we're on a sports team together. :) Congratulations on the new job!! That's wonderful. Good for you!
28:52 Thank you dear❤
Love the info Dylan I used to feel stupid wondering if I would ever get the hang of this but I feel I am starting to really feel more at ease and relaxed and knowing now I am getting better everyday your tapes and videos have really helped me alot.
A grey beanie would’ve looked really cute with the fit. Btw 2 months in and I’ve never felt happier and better about myself. Not to mention my sp has done 180 without me even trying. Thank you Dylan!!! 💙💙💙
Thank you for sharing! Helpful comment for me (esp the 2 mo in part). And so happy for you!
I wish I could like this video a million times. Thank you Dylan
Thank you love you
Yes I love the explanation of dating other people while manifesting a sp.. Thank you so much I completely agree 💜💜💯💯
Totally agree
So happy you’re feeling better, missed you. Thank you for being you…. Our world needs you, needs us. ♥️ Lianne 🇨🇦
Truly one of your best most eloquent videos yet. Your level of awareness is unparalleled🙌 THANK YOU for addressing that second layer of resistance and being gentle. Resisting the resistance is still resistance😂 I'm curious to know whether you would want to do a video addressing manifesting with diagnosed/severe mental health issues? (BPD, PTSD, depression and anxiety)
Just had the best lunch ever. Salad with capsicum peppers, sweet chilli garlic dressing and pitta bread. I am not on a diet but I feel my body has some inflammation so need to alter my diet. I have prepped some for work as I love their chips potato frie to the world.
We missed you, but take care of yourself, glad your feeling better. We love you 💖
I needed this conversation. This is where I’ve been.
I love how you remind us to be kind and gentle with ourselves. It makes me cry to hear you remind us. Thank you 🙏🏻 😍
Wow I just found your channel. And you’re the most amazing. Changed my life. Thank you I entirely understand some of the nuances I was missing with manifesting, thinking of myself, and my life.
We missed you so much!!! Feel well. You are a blessing and a best Coach💕!!!!
You must have been in my head today! You always show up with the correction I need! Love you so much!
Dylan you are an excellent coach. Have no words to express how much I resonate with your thoughts. It is So therapeutic. And the you are doing this so benevolently ...on such an open platform RUclips. Thank you abundantly. You are doing a great service to humanity....you are creating a new world of positivity, possibilities and love and harmony
Thank you for your time and words!
You are such a beautiful, loving soul. The world needs more people like you. Thank you for your love, authenticity, kindness, and honesty.
Thank u once again. The more I watch these videos the more I need to start thinking about me as the important person and giving the next one the honour all the time. This is what is really pushing me down. So glad I came across Dylan James , thanks 😉😉
Take good care of yourself Dylan.Pleased to see you 😄
You ate best . My god I am glad I follow you . The way you explained bit of bit is amazing . Thank you so much dylan . I hope to meet you once in my life . You are amazing dylan ,god bless you .
Dylan thank you. That’s all I can say!
I’ve been watching you for one week now, and WOW! My whole vibe has changed
Best effen! Video. Love you Dylan. My life is changing. I’m honoring me and keep pushing forward
So, I started watching this video because of the title. I’ve been listening to the limitless manifestor tape for about a week and a half. The first few days were amaaaazing. I felt incredible, like everything I wanted to feel for a long time. Then, 3 days ago, the wonky happened 😅 And it’s been going on strong since then. Tons of intrusive thoughts, mixed feelings, crying and anxiety. Today when I woke up I was listening to the tape and your voice sounded distorted + my body felt crazy, like some places such as my spine/chest/gut were burning and I was having tons of thoughts about things that I’m ready to let go of but they don’t seem to go away from my mind.
While watching to this video I was like “why am I watching this?…nothing strikes a cord yet…but I don’t know, I’m just going to keep watching”. The topic, overall, didn’t apply to my current situation. BUT THEN, what you said from min 21:00 to 22:37 happened. It instantly clicked. I’ve been wanting to find an answer to what I’m going through all day and i feel that is it. The layer of guilt and shame of “why can’t I stop focusing on this”. It’s been the underlying feeling I’ve had for the last 3 days…a “I just want to feel as amazing as I did last week, I did drop it for a while, why is this happening to me? What did I do wrong?”. I had a talk with my therapist (I found your channel last week but I’ve been going through this process for 7 months now) about a month and a half ago where she said “congratulations, you just shed a layer”. After that I’ve been feeling better liiiittle by little. Last week, it peaked. And then I started feeling the same feeling I had when she referred to that “layer”. I’ve been asking myself if my state is about shedding another layer but haven’t given much importance to it…seems like it was.
Fun part is, while writing this I just realized that even while feeling so mixed inside I kept on reminding myself of what I envision for myself. I affirmed it’s gonna happen for me, and that I should just wait a little longer. I affirmed I trusted that a confirmation would pop up soon. I feel this is what I was asking for.
Thank you Dylan! I don’t know if this counts as manifesting due to my mixed feelings…but I’ll take it as a yes. 🤍
almost a week in and i'm feeling a lot better. started waking up and going to bed earlier. and i just feel like i have a lot of energy💞
I've been binging a bunch of your videos since I've found your channel and this video got uploaded at the perfect time for me! I've been listening to your self concept affirmations the past week and they've really helped a lot. But just last night, my mind wandered into the usual pattern of overthinking and overanalyzing what I've last said to my SP wishing that I could've said something differently and also regretting that I said anything at all. It didn't feel too good and I felt a bit disappointed in myself. That feeling slightly carried on with me today but now it's all dissipated thanks to your reminder of being forgiving and gentle with myself :) I’ve tried watching all sorts of vids before where people explain manifestation but nothing ever stuck with me. But anything that you explain, it just hits different and suddenly, everything just clicks! Thank you so much Dylan! Rest well and take care! :)
This made a lot of sense for me right now. With My sp (not an ex) I think there’s a 3p and we are suppose to hang tomorrow and I watched this video and felt like... hmm is this just condoning not to be treated my best. Cuz I ignore 3p but also don’t want sp thinking that this flies and don’t want to be sending message to myself that I’m treated however just to see sp. no, come correct or stay away. Love you boo, but I don’t need you around
Last words are beautiful thank you again
Self respect is the key word I think lol
Get rest DJ!! So glad to see you!♥️
We’re all out here loving your vids so much that we’re all waiting for them. Love it! Hope you feel better, this lifted my mood and changed my perspective even more. Thank you 💛
Excellent Dylan! You are the most positive person out there! Thankyou!
Best manifestation coach on RUclips ❤️
I love to see the entire world shifts, and it start from me. Thank you, Dylan. Get well soon.
Thank you! This is one of the most informative and encouraging video you have posted yet. Thank you for answering my question. (Sande)
Dylan 🥺 u are a treasure that we will value ❤️ more love to you... cannot express the strength you give me everytime I watch you talk
I ❤ you and your videos!!! They're so informative and really help to keep me on a great path. Your energy and voice is very uplifting as well. Bless you!
Get well soon Dylan, this video was definitely for me.
YOU ARE BRILLIANT DYLAN!! IT FINALLY ALL MAKES SENSE!! GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS!! LOVE FROM INDIA ❣❣❣
You are already better Dylan, manifesting it for you! Loving your content!! 🙌🏻🙏🏻💞