The Private Life of Singaporean Comedian Kumar

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @andynumber5346
    @andynumber5346 Год назад +802

    You gotto admit, gay or not gay, a good parent is gender blind. All you need is kindness and compassion. Thank you Kumar for sharing your private life with us.

    • @nagapanjami4331
      @nagapanjami4331 Год назад +12

      yes! concur with you.. one just need to have more love, kindness & compassion towards all.. much love & blessings to Kumar and all those who understands similar journey... be happy! be you!

    • @kenichi5388
      @kenichi5388 Год назад

      Wishing Malaysians see this! Most of them were homophobic!

    • @iman-c5f
      @iman-c5f Год назад +3

      A good parent will also prevent their child from anything against their moral values even if as far as disowning the child. Moral values are subjective form by society. Whether it is right or wrong is another topic but you must DEFEND your beliefs and moral values. You cant say what the parents did was wrong because they are defending their values.

    • @codeman8113
      @codeman8113 Год назад +1

      @@iman-c5fthat’s true , disowning is a form of self blame. You blame yourself for the weird upbringing of your child and you can’t face them anymore.

  • @freakingspider3648
    @freakingspider3648 Год назад +1232

    Kumar is a great example of an exemplar human being despite what society does to him. We should always have compassion in our hearts. Always think lovingly.

    • @connectpanjang7714
      @connectpanjang7714 Год назад +3

      "what society does to him"? Dude everyone loves him!

    • @anselm9791
      @anselm9791 Год назад +5

      her*

    • @RonLarhz
      @RonLarhz Год назад +34

      ​@@connectpanjang7714
      Not really. People see him as a clown,the joker,the entertainer. Not as a person. They still refer to him with the degrading term ah gua. The transphobia is real.

    • @RonLarhz
      @RonLarhz Год назад +7

      ​@@anselm9791
      Not really. He did wanted to transition but then he stopped halfway. (I rmb there's a period where she had boobs). I think in the end it was just him exploring his identity and now he's comfortable the way he is? He's more like fluid/non binary?

    • @PChan-yt4uf
      @PChan-yt4uf Год назад +12

      ​@@anselm9791He is gay, not a trans. He knows he is a he.

  • @coucalicri
    @coucalicri Год назад +216

    that "friend" was definitely not a friend. Kumar has a beautiful and kind soul to open her house to a lost angry kid. Also, love the house decor!

    • @homekcyj630
      @homekcyj630 Год назад +3

      Not "her", is "his"

    • @RonLarhz
      @RonLarhz Год назад +31

      @@homekcyj630
      He is fine with both. Son calls her mom/she.

    • @pingteo6104
      @pingteo6104 Год назад +10

      @@homekcyj630Your mind didn’t improve after watching this video.

  • @maleemonster
    @maleemonster Год назад +504

    Thanks for sharing this part of your life with us Kumar!!

  • @jorishnathanael1812
    @jorishnathanael1812 Год назад +46

    "Nothing to bear". That's priceless, wholesomeness, everything

  • @LoveNotWar
    @LoveNotWar Год назад +446

    Kumar, you are an amazing person and your son is lucky to have you as a mother and father. Come to think of it, I have "known you" longer than he has been around. 31 years in fact 😄 Will never forget your wonderful performances at Boom Boom Room. Thank you for the laughs ❤

    • @shysmy19
      @shysmy19 Год назад

      How would Kumar be a mother??? Kumar is a dude

  • @deadiraterobot
    @deadiraterobot Год назад +293

    Massive respect to Kumar and Sathin for forming the found family that they have.

  • @Runnerofall
    @Runnerofall Год назад +853

    Kumar raised his kid better than some straight couples. Thank you for opening up your private life to us Kumar. You have our respect!

  • @nataliella97
    @nataliella97 Год назад +267

    this was so sweet, and I'm very glad that singapore has gotten to the point where it's open enough that beautiful, nontraditional parents like kumar feel safe enough to share their stories.

  • @chycahaya
    @chycahaya Год назад +108

    I’ve watched this 3 or 4 times by now. Just can’t get enough of it!! This is humanity.. your son doesn’t have to your own bloodline yet your mummy could also be your daddy. It challenges boundaries & stereotypes in so many ways. And the beauty of it? Kumar doesn’t overshare in this manic world of social media. So once in awhile when he does, it really hits us hard ❤

  • @konkeydong6907
    @konkeydong6907 Год назад +96

    I have much greater respect for Kumar now. Always admired him for being so bold but this really gave me a new perspective of him. A true example of what an amazing human being is capable of.

  • @wailinglee1335
    @wailinglee1335 Год назад +87

    Kumar has what it takes to be a great parent, warm-hearted, kind and generous.

  • @fmrxx938
    @fmrxx938 Год назад +438

    love this and love how kumar’s son calls kumar “her” as the pronoun. what an understanding family that we rarely have as a community in singapore.

    • @kultus666
      @kultus666 Год назад +24

      It's he not her why this pride community are delusional

    • @hibiscuspalm9254
      @hibiscuspalm9254 Год назад +46

      @@kultus666so you think you know how Kumar likes to be addressed then her son?

    • @shysmy19
      @shysmy19 Год назад +29

      @@hibiscuspalm9254 what he likes does not change the fact that Kumar is a man. You can’t just change your pronouns at will.

    • @kultus666
      @kultus666 Год назад

      @@hibiscuspalm9254 kumar is a biological male he is not a woman or biological female. Kumar s son is an idiot too. For addressing he as her.

    • @fmrxx938
      @fmrxx938 Год назад +61

      @@kultus666 people like you are clearly why i mentioned “we rarely have as a community in singapore”.

  • @lolboyboy1
    @lolboyboy1 Год назад +111

    Really admirable what Kumar has done! You have my respect

  • @agneswilliams3512
    @agneswilliams3512 Год назад +34

    This was so enlightening to hear. That wasn't a friend who asked Kumar such a horrendous question. God has blessed u both to have each other in ur lives. I have 2 beautiful daughters so Kumar just want to say ur a wonderful parent and u have a wonderful son. Thank u for sharing.

  • @KennyEatsWorld
    @KennyEatsWorld Год назад +165

    Wow...this is a good interview. You've uncovered a side of Kumar not known to the public before. Great example of a human being. Thanks for doing this OGS

  • @judedude8719
    @judedude8719 Год назад +59

    Mad respect for you Kumar! Breaking the norm and showing what being human really means. Hope to see you live someday ❤

  • @telomeke3157
    @telomeke3157 Год назад +60

    OMG this was so moving! I never knew our sharp-tongued national treasure Kumar had this side. But that flat is filled with so much love you can _feel_ it coming through the screen, and I hope Kumar and Sathin remember every day how precious it is to have the family that they do (which includes those cute doggies too💖).

  • @3am201
    @3am201 Год назад +12

    Kumar you're such a good human being...your compassion and forgiveness towards your dad ...is amazing

  • @iddinjr
    @iddinjr Год назад +63

    “1 night became.. 11 years..” 😂

  • @yca4309
    @yca4309 Год назад +56

    Kumar is such a beautiful person and I'm so glad we have someone like him in Singapore

  • @michi7-7
    @michi7-7 10 месяцев назад +4

    First time chance upon this clip. It’s nice to see a different side of Kumar…(I’ve been following his performance of humorous jokes online) as little did we know him behind all those performances who he truly is…Good sharing and wish to know more of how is his beautiful soul is, apart from bringing so many joys and laughters to everyone who experienced his staged performance.😊

  • @jaclee3594
    @jaclee3594 Год назад +34

    This is so touching. Besides his humour, Kumar is such a genuine and caring person.

  • @vprathan
    @vprathan Год назад +40

    An amazing example of how human you can be... amazing example of pure love and just being a simple human being. Utmost respect to Kumar...❤

  • @michaelschmitt8416
    @michaelschmitt8416 11 месяцев назад +2

    Kumar is a national treasure, and now we know, a very loving one ❤️ big hug my dear

  • @Langebon
    @Langebon Год назад +9

    This video touch many people’s heart. He is candid with his feelings for his son & late father. He’s a genuine, sincere & kind person.

  • @mantapakabu74
    @mantapakabu74 Год назад +3

    "Kumar is my father and mother" tear jerking right there!!

  • @WilisBlue
    @WilisBlue Год назад +11

    As johorean, I grow up watching him n love him... thanks you for all these years that u make me laugh... Queen..❤..

  • @praneethanairrathakrishnan2668
    @praneethanairrathakrishnan2668 Год назад +6

    Tears came while I watched this. Truly huge respect to Kumar..WOW! Great example of true parenthood... 👍 ❤

  • @yeoboonmeng5300
    @yeoboonmeng5300 Год назад +8

    Kumar is Singapore's treasure. One of the most underrated artists. ❤

  • @shaunchuan3027
    @shaunchuan3027 Год назад +11

    I saw Kumar in lavender many years back, he’s such a wonderful person behind camera too. Great example to many ppl.

  • @tommyfield8449
    @tommyfield8449 Год назад +30

    I know he has mentioned somewhere that he has taken in 'someone' but didn't know who it is. He has mentioned that he does help people around despite whatever people reaction towards Kumar.
    Sometimes ill treatment from family make us realised that we can be a better person. Hearing kumar stories,a lot of us can understand & i agree with Kumar. No point holding on to the anger. Just treat them like any human being. Our parents grow older. They can't control of everything.
    Lastly,thank you Kumar for your stories & last but not least,keep on entertaining us.

  • @stickymoney
    @stickymoney 8 месяцев назад +3

    “We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather recognizing and appreciating what we do have.” ― Fredrick Koeing

  • @hannah5168
    @hannah5168 Год назад +12

    I love how you shared this with the world. Because so many people are going through something similar and you make us feel less alone

  • @lennonseow90
    @lennonseow90 Год назад +6

    Kumar, you are an amazing soul. God bless you always. Love from Malaysia.

  • @obedan3990
    @obedan3990 Год назад +6

    Thank you Kumar for sharing your life story. You are an amazing soul🌹

  • @tearaaa4236
    @tearaaa4236 Год назад +38

    this touch my heart so deeply that i didn’t know i had it in me. my late mom was both my mother and father and even as a single mom she gave her everything to all her 4 daughters. as the youngest, i was more towards the rude/defiance child and yes we had ups and downs but at the end of the day i knew she just wanted me to grow up to be a better person than she was. the last bit really resonated with me. i didn’t got to tell her that im sorry and it’s one of my biggest regret too . I’m still young , only 17 learning about the world so i hope that one day when im ready to be an adult, i’ll be someone who my late mother can be proud of even if she’s not by my side. thank you for this video 🤍

  • @benedict0207
    @benedict0207 Год назад +12

    The world needs people with big hearts like Kumar... Amazing, bringing happiness to people and kind and genuine from deep within!
    Lots of love and respect

  • @Jamie-Fox
    @Jamie-Fox Год назад +3

    So happy for Kumar to have someone appreciate him as the person he is and call him both father and mother. Life fulfilled! 😊😊

  • @cheehaukueh8032
    @cheehaukueh8032 Год назад +2

    I only wanted shout this at him... "Kumar ah... Jia Bah Buey...... God Bless🙏

  • @brok3ndgt882
    @brok3ndgt882 Год назад +7

    Amazing little sit n talk with kumar its very heartwarming

  • @keempossible88
    @keempossible88 Год назад +7

    This is so touching. Full respect for Kumar ❤️❤️

  • @helolokal
    @helolokal Год назад +6

    Kumar is an amazing parent to Sathin and 2 fur boys! Thank you for sharing this.

  • @AgilaSpa
    @AgilaSpa Год назад +3

    Hats off to you kumar...being real ..may the universe bless u n your son always

  • @akizuki1166
    @akizuki1166 Год назад +1

    We will see you tonite Kumar at MBS.. yeah!!🎉

  • @joykhooml
    @joykhooml Год назад +1

    Kumar, you are doing such a great job as a parent....I hope you will continue to be happy in life....May you be blessed abundantly.

  • @space5776
    @space5776 Год назад +21

    You are an amazing human being ! Don’t let anyone judge you or treat you indifferently. To me as an Aussie, you are my best comedian in Asia . Also you remind me of all my artistic & creative friends who are full of live & embrace honesty with a truck load of laughter

  • @mvinayagar
    @mvinayagar Год назад +6

    Showing and giving love to someone is truly a blessing.

  • @DeStinAr0
    @DeStinAr0 Год назад +55

    We singaporeans are proud of u ❤
    Thank u for always making us smile too 🙂

    • @kultus666
      @kultus666 Год назад

      Yea lgbtq sucks, Singapore will go in water soon and don't you guys come to malaysia

  • @helenlee9108
    @helenlee9108 Год назад +7

    For me, it does not matter if he's a she or she's a he. They are better friends as they are more sensitive to our feelings. ❤

  • @linglingblingbling1112
    @linglingblingbling1112 Год назад +2

    I see a very motherly and caring character in how Kumar also loves his dogs. There's a lot of love and forgiveness in Kumar, that's for sure. What a sweet human being.

  • @pp33448
    @pp33448 Год назад +3

    Kumar has been and will always be a better parent than some of the parents in the world! Kudos to you and Sathin!

  • @ct1790
    @ct1790 Год назад +8

    Beautiful story. Thank you for producing this and Kumar for letting us into your private life. ❤

  • @JanetLeeLY
    @JanetLeeLY Год назад +6

    Kumar you are simply a kind hearted person.

  • @burden_of_knowing
    @burden_of_knowing Год назад +2

    Wonderful to know about this other side of Kumar. A great person. Hats off

  • @danasingapore135
    @danasingapore135 Год назад +5

    I always had a feeling Kumar is a kind person ❤

  • @dormghost
    @dormghost Год назад +3

    I hardly watch his shows (not familiar eith him outside of singapore) but I can see he has such kindness in him. We need more kindness in this world.

  • @aly5130
    @aly5130 Год назад +3

    Kumar, my favourite standup comedian and so good to know he is such a grateful person. Inspiring!

  • @user-ln9zn9fh4u
    @user-ln9zn9fh4u Год назад +41

    Parent is someone who natures a child …. Not always biological.
    Some biological parents , do more damage
    Happy for you Kumar ans thanks for showing us another side of your life ❤

  • @nazrojean7128
    @nazrojean7128 Год назад +12

    wow..the other sweet side of Q-Mar!congrats for being such a wonderful parent!

  • @patt5085
    @patt5085 Год назад +14

    What's most important is the love from people around you and what will you left behind. And Kumar has that aplenty.

  • @ScottPeterson-hm6vq
    @ScottPeterson-hm6vq 4 дня назад

    Kumar is a very nice person! He took care of this young person without reservation and served as a mentor to him.....very commendable!!!

  • @theassassin8057
    @theassassin8057 10 месяцев назад

    PURE LOVE & GENUINE FEELINGS! Makes me adore Kumar more!

  • @tonyquek6157
    @tonyquek6157 Год назад +18

    RESPECT to you, Kumar!

  • @mr.g702
    @mr.g702 Год назад +8

    Great appreciation for your openness in sharing your personal life and family with everyone. May you and your family always be blessed by God.

  • @evelynoktavia9199
    @evelynoktavia9199 Год назад +37

    so much respect for her

  • @DayanaJfr
    @DayanaJfr Год назад +2

    This was beautiful. Thank you for sharing!

  • @HdBanger
    @HdBanger Год назад +5

    1) thank u Kumar, for the joy you brought to us. I really enjoy ur comedy. As I grow older and there are less things to laugh about, u are an exception.
    2) thumbs up to ur big love (like how u describe dogs in ur performances), to the people around u. And thus a son come into being. Enjoy the bliss and the blessings that come w it.
    3) keep going, keep smiling, and keep performing. All of us in Singapore and probably around the world are right behind u.

  • @crystalo1134
    @crystalo1134 Год назад +5

    What an amazing and salient video. Thank you so much OGS and Kumar!

  • @SingZeon48
    @SingZeon48 Год назад +10

    This would have been the perfect endorsement for this year's Pink Dot campaign

  • @lonercafe1716
    @lonercafe1716 15 дней назад

    Like Kumar even more now after watching this. He's so cool, real and honest. Glad to know more about him ❤

  • @hardhang
    @hardhang Год назад +6

    Amazing person, I hope that our society can be more open minded than it is now and be more accepting towards people like Kumar

  • @baalah7
    @baalah7 Год назад +4

    *Kumar - Live and help others to Live* 🌱
    *Superb statement 🙌🏽 Respects 🙏🏽 Sathin you have found your real guardian angel* 🧚

  • @cnaz8709
    @cnaz8709 Год назад +1

    What a remarkable human being, selfless and its not even his flesh & blood. May God bless him

  • @VanDrew9
    @VanDrew9 Год назад +2

    Love this , a part of the legendary Kumar we had not seen … you can see her feelings thru the words she convey about her child …

  • @shantiram4921
    @shantiram4921 Год назад +6

    So meaningful and very laid back sort of interview. At the end It’s fly unity makes our relationship stronger irrespective of your gender identity. Kumar is such a great person. Wish you all the best and thanks for this wonderful conversation. Cute doggies🥰🙏🏼💕💕

  • @paramessubramaniam8116
    @paramessubramaniam8116 Год назад +3

    Kumar, t besides the laughs you gave us , you gave us insights of a beautiful human being and an elevated soul.

  • @anglo-saxonconnor817
    @anglo-saxonconnor817 Год назад +8

    I just want Kumar to know there are people who did the same things as you in Singapore. I wish heaven will have a place for people like you in this world. I don't know how you all did it but I'm glad you all can. Thank you.

    • @kultus666
      @kultus666 Год назад

      Heaven has no place for trans or for lgbtq communities

    • @anglo-saxonconnor817
      @anglo-saxonconnor817 Год назад +1

      Man made heaven have no place for many people including you but real god domain is not what humans imagine it to be. So grow up. Leave Kumar and whatever kind of communities you cannot accept alone and in peace.

  • @skygaz3r
    @skygaz3r Год назад +3

    This is so heartwarming!

  • @umabala94
    @umabala94 11 дней назад

    genuinely happy for kumar..dont know him personally but i have grown up watching him on the tv. he made me laugh through his performance.

  • @mamamememoo
    @mamamememoo Год назад +13

    Thank you for giving us access to something so personal and private as familial love. Thank you for inspiring parents and children alike- for parents: to be gracious and patient with our children; for children: to be grateful and to not waste a chance to tell our parents we forgive them and love them.

  • @keerthanaswaminathan2471
    @keerthanaswaminathan2471 Год назад +4

    It was so heartwarming to watch 🥹

  • @alanlee2703
    @alanlee2703 6 месяцев назад

    Kumar you are a great person. You took in someone during his desperate hours, gave him a shelter, gave him warm and love and in return you have a family. Wishing you and your family (son) lot of happiness and great health!

  • @hekoma
    @hekoma Год назад +2

    This was so fun to watch I am so happy that kumar was ok shearing this part of his life 🥰

  • @merrymack6835
    @merrymack6835 Год назад +3

    Big ups to you both, love and light

  • @deandean0570
    @deandean0570 Год назад +2

    Wow I'm touched by the story. Thanks for sharing your pvt life with us Kumar ..❤

  • @fookwah
    @fookwah Год назад +7

    You go girl , Kumar 😀- you have take the word family and show us what can constitute a family and - where love and care dwells
    Thank you for the inspiration ❤

    • @kultus666
      @kultus666 Год назад

      You dumb is it?that's a male not female.

  • @peonystrange
    @peonystrange Год назад +2

    Kumar i like and and admire you after seeing this interview. I feel that i know you better now

  • @renugamarimuthu8936
    @renugamarimuthu8936 Год назад +3

    Hi Kumar.... love your performances! Thanks for sharing this part of you. I really respect you for the person that you are.... take care. Wishing you good health and loads of happiness. God bless you and your family

  • @googleRLowSG
    @googleRLowSG 7 дней назад

    Kumar, I applaud you and the kindness of your heart. You are so amazing! A long time fan of yours since Boom Boom. ❤❤❤

  • @affierara9740
    @affierara9740 Год назад

    i'm very new to this. however watching this story warms my heart and humanity do exist in all of us. Dear mr kumar may your life shower with happiness and endless blessings. Please do take care of yourself. Bless you :)

  • @bobafett5757
    @bobafett5757 Год назад +4

    *Well done Kumar and all my respect to you cos your tough and challenging growing up history has made you a stronger and wiser person today*

  • @viriconium1
    @viriconium1 Год назад +3

    This just makes him an even more beautiful human being

  • @ilovemaccas1016
    @ilovemaccas1016 Год назад +6

    i love this mother father. super cool my idol ash u are a big mood fr

    • @kultus666
      @kultus666 Год назад

      Where is the mother all I see is father n son. You must be delusional

  • @inkfish123456
    @inkfish123456 Год назад +7

    Kumar is amazing. 👍

  • @azmirov
    @azmirov Год назад +3

    2:34 A good example of why we keep toxic friends at bay.

  • @SIRLOUISE
    @SIRLOUISE Год назад +3

    Love this story. Thank you so much for sharing with the world!

  • @theonlycoffeeaddict
    @theonlycoffeeaddict Год назад +8

    Such a loving, empathetic, kind and gentle soul.

    • @kultus666
      @kultus666 Год назад +1

      Yea the devil does it too

    • @macandkiss9719
      @macandkiss9719 Год назад +2

      @@kultus666 crazy statement from a nobody

    • @kultus666
      @kultus666 Год назад

      @@macandkiss9719 kumar is nobody too either you. Both of you are delusional.

    • @Aetolus
      @Aetolus Год назад

      @@macandkiss9719 considering his @ I'm more inclined to think he's advertising

  • @JeremiahBu11frog
    @JeremiahBu11frog Год назад

    Dear Kumar
    you're the most amazing person ever! love you

  • @rivervox906
    @rivervox906 Год назад +3

    Happy for you, Kumar!!