Why Did We Break Up ? The Truth w OnlyJayus -
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- I am aware of my faults and the part i played in the end of our relationship, but n o b o d y deserves to be CHEATED on. I am talking about this publicly bc i can not stand to read another comment asking or assuming what happened between us. I also feel like with the amount of times our relationship was shared with others, sharing how the relationship ended is fair game. I do not wver want to talk about this again bc everytime i think about it its like pickinng at a scab and refusing to let it heal. and i need to start actually healing from this. I have not handled feeling “my person’s” absence with the same intensity that i felt their love ~well~ AT ALL and i have a lot of regrets and think about the what ifs way too much. Ive felt like ive lost my sanity a thousand times over. im at a place where i dont feel like im ever going to be okay. im hope im wrong. But it does feel better knowing that im acknowledging what happened rather than holding it in to protect someone that didnt bother to protect me. Mattie is free to give their own take on the situation is they feel the need to but knowing them i do not think that they ever will. More power to them honestly. Its very conflicting hating a person im still in love with and im sorry to anyone else experiencing something like this. If theres any lesson in this its just to be honest with people bc the damage caused from lying is not worth it. And to the girl that nuked my relationship for the sake of her own ego, i hope someone breaks you the way you broke us. I wish i could tell yall who she is bc you would forsure know her, but shes curently sueing me for “defamation” (lol) bc i told her mom and our mutual friends what she did. Oh well. Thanks for listening guys
obvious I have more proof to this than just these already publicly posted videos but I don’t feel comfortable sharing stuff like our private conversations. Believe me or don’t. I’m going to try and not care anymore. I am aware of my faults and the part i played in the end of our relationship, but n o b o d y deserves to be CHEATED on. I am talking about this publicly bc i can not stand to read another comment asking or assuming what happened between us. I also feel like with the amount of times our relationship was shared with others, sharing how the relationship ended is fair game. I do not ever want to talk about this again bc everytime i think about it it’s like pickinng at a scab and refusing to let it heal. and i need to start actually healing from this. I have not handled feeling “my person’s” absence with the same intensity that i felt their love ~well~ AT ALL and i have a lot of regrets and think about the what ifs way too much. Ive felt like ive lost my sanity a thousand times over. im at a place where i dont feel like im ever going to be okay. im hope im wrong. But it does feel better knowing that im acknowledging what happened rather than holding it in to protect someone that didnt bother to protect me. Mattie is free to give their own take on the situation is they feel the need to but knowing them i do not think that they ever will. More power to them honestly. Its very conflicting hating a person im still in love with and im sorry to anyone else experiencing something like this. If theres any lesson in this its just to be honest with people bc the damage caused from lying is not worth it. And to the girl that nuked my relationship for the sake of her own ego, i hope someone breaks you the way you broke us. I wish i could tell yall who she is bc you would forsure know her, but shes curently sueing me for “defamation” (lol) bc i told her mom and our mutual friends what she did. Oh well. thanks for reading this far guys omg
also
what's wild is mattie is so sweet and thoughtful irl. I loved our relationship.I never thought this would be how we ended. I'm still processing the manipulation. Even after they told me I gave them a 2nd chance, bc I believe people can grow and change. But it turns out that them being physical with someone else didn’t eat at me as much as all the fighting and gaslighting
Again. Im not trying to cancel or ruin their career, but I can't keep this to myself anymore. I feel like I'm allowed to talk about my life
It’s okay
Hopefully you feel better, take all the time you need. :)
Edit: OMG 200 LIKES? TYSM :D
its okay bella ❤❤
Take care
I’m really sorry you went through this and I hope you feel better
Whether anyone likes Bella or doesn't like Bella... It doesn't matter. No one ever deserves to be cheated on. Bella, I hope you're doing OK.
Exactly.
i may not like her but still she doesnt deserve to get cheated on
@@oatmeal5004 I don't know the story, what happened with her?
@@carythacker8049 what do u mean?
@@carythacker8049 when she was young she was going through some tough stuff and took her anger out on others said the n word and transphobic slurs but has since been seeking therapy and regrets their actions.
When Bella’s voice started shaking with all those memories coming back to them again I felt so bad , going through a break up when you’re still in love with them is so hard.Stay strong Bella, we love you.
Them* 😊
@@SH4RKL0V3Rthey use all pronouns
@@SH4RKL0V3ROh i thought they didn’t care what they were called
@@SH4RKL0V3R Her >:)
@@erenjaeger1738 Him >:(
The way Bella was about to cry broke me. Honestly didn't expect Mattie to do shit like that, but I just want to let you know that you're fucking amazing. Don't let messed up stuff get to you. I know it's painful and I know that this hurts and you just wanna screw everything and crawl in a hole and wallow in sadness, but I don't want you to feel that way. We all make mistakes but as you said, NOONE deserves to be cheated on. Find someone that'll accept all your flaws, and all your mistakes, and forgive you because they truly love you. If Mattie isn't that person, it's okay. You'll be fine, I promise.
Ass kissing 💀
bro wtf ar u talkin in fking paragraphs
Palpate don’t pal-hate
@@kingplayerdudyt5835 could’ve been simplified in 3 words: “This was sad.”
Amazing is a stretch
Girlie, you’ve been one of my comfort RUclipsrs, along with Mattie, for about two years. I had, and still don’t have, any idea about what is going on with you. This honestly confused me so much and I feel so bad. I learn so much from your videos and you were the reason me and one of my close friends bonded. I know how sweet and smart of a person you are, they were lucky to have gotten you. Don’t put yourself down like that, you do deserve love, joy, comfort, and eternal happiness. Take your time, don’t worry, everything will fall into how it was meant to be. Everything happens for a reason, good and bad. Remember it’s not your fault. I don’t know nor do I want to know what really happened that night, but I know everything will fall into place. They will figure themselves out and so will you. Enjoy the rest of your day, week, month, and year!
Look at their explanation/apology video, they cover everything about them and take accountability for it.
"Giving someone a second chance is like reading a book twice, you already know how it ends."
Wow...😢
Maybe not if you confront them and try to support their growth, if they want to grow
“Giving someone a second chance is like giving another bullet to the shooter because they missed the first shot.”
@@arlosworld4770 that’s crazy
Thats deep man
seeing bella genuinely crying is just... I can't today.
ok so some people in the replies are asking why the video affected me so much, well here's an explanation:
I have been in a messed up friendship for a while she would talk behind my back when I wouldn't call her to my other friend, who I had known for basically my whole life. i found this out in early 2021 but still decided to be friends with them because I had been friends with them for a long time. but on the day I posted this comment, they were both getting supper angry at me because I was 'prioritising my high school friends over them.
and it basically goes onto them just kinda hanging out together when I was available, just rubbing it in my face that they had a good 'bond'. and I cried, for at least 1 hour straight in my room, realising how fucked up some people are
Yeah my heart is just breaking for them... I just truly care about them and watching them crying just makes me so upset because their heart did not deserve to be shattered like that
8m very confused on what there pronouns are, someone please tell me because i don’t wanna disrespect anyone!?❤
@@juls.faithh Bella goes by any pronouns (he/she/they). 🖤
@@amelia_luvs_naomiii Oh ok Thank you!! which ones do they like to go by the most?
@@juls.faithh I believe they prefer they/them as that's all I've heard their friends refer to them as, though I'm not completely sure
I used to think Mattie was the kindest soul I had ever seen and then when I found this out i immediately cried because I thought you guys were the best couple ever.
Exactly bro
fr. I thought that Mattie was the sweetest and most amazing person ever. they have a big personality, and i cant believe that they would do that.
frrrrrrrrrrr
she looked so innocent tho
same-
I never ever expected something like this from Mattie. Just goes to show you don’t really know anyone through their videos. I’m so so sorry this happened to you Bella. I can’t imagine going through that feeling ever but you’re beautiful and strong and you’ll get through this. Much much love🫶🏻🫶🏻
Please watch the entire video before commenting “it wasn’t Mattie” 🤦🏻♀️
IT WAS MATTIE??? HOLY CRAP
MATTIE??? DUDE
IKR, they always seemed so sweet, he did seem really upset about them breaking up too
Just like Milkded
I-i really mattie did this seriously this is horrible thing to do we can never who's what really
I don't believe in love bro just never going really
Mattie is honestly the last person I'd expect to do something so shitty. I hope it's getting better for you, Bella. I can tell how hard this is for you, and I'm so sorry you have to go through this. We're all here for you
Same
ikr they seem like the sweetest effing person
@@srimoyeemukhopadhyay3437 Mhm
You don’t speak for me
Yea well take notes and stop trusting people from just seeing them once in a short
The fact that Mattie cheated on you is just unreal, when I watched this I just couldn’t believe it. It’s always hard when someone you really love and care about turned out to be lying to you for months, but you gotta move past it even if it’s hard. I’m sure you’ll find someone better it just takes time. We love you Bella, stay strong.
I genuinely thought it was a mutual break up until I saw the videos I didn't want to just believe speculation online
Agreed
I just want to go and kill her it's so unreal but it is true stay strong Bella!
It hurts that two people I thought would stay together forever broke up in this brutal way!
@@Hannaheh24 well they kind of didn't break up 😭 bella found out Maddie was in another hotel room with another girl cheating on her so yeah 😭😭
It feels horrible to see Bella start tearing up you don’t deserve this Bella we’re all here for you 🫶
When they said "someone i still love and care about" my heart shattered into million pieces
same
same
Yes m literally crying over two strangers' breakup😭😭😭
yea ikr 🥲
How much was your hospital fee to piece back your heart?
I’d never expect Mattie to do that. You did not deserve to get cheated on at all. You are an awesome human being who is changing to be better. We all make mistakes but we learn from them and fix them. You are awesome Bella.
How very noble of you to have rebuffed all destructive and negative feelings and maintained your positive posture...it is the other person that really lost out.
Know that this is a very good example to follow and that your bravery is much noted and is an inspiration to all of us.
Thank you. Bella is hurt and I’m not the kind of person who will immediately go to the other person’s channel and start yelling at them in the comments. Bella is hurt and I just wanted to make her feel better.
@Dapper bear props to ur iphone 5
Wheather you like Bella or not, no one deserves to be cheated on. To have that bond of trust broken in such a terrible way is beyond heart shattering.
I can agree, nobody deserves that, especially suddenly. Suddenly seems like the lightest option, but it is not. You could even simply say you need a break. But, if Mattie was cheating, they don’t deserve Bella.
everybody has the right to talk about their life, but at the same time, bella is also a public person that needs to understand how to handle her being famous. even though she's saying not to attack anyone here, in the end thats all that this video leads too. all of her fans are under matties videos rn only talking abt this. mind you, im not a fan of either of them (this just popped up on my page, so ive tried to gather the most information for the past few minutes) but to me personally, what bella's doing here just seems kinda wrong. yes, mattie cheated, and lets even say, hypothetically, that mattie is 100% evil and 100% fault at all of this (we also dont rlly know the whole story, but yes cheating is such a horrific thing to do) and that bella is 100% a sweet angel that genuinely never did a single thing wrong, its still wrong to talk about this publicly. publicly exposing the secrets between you and your (even if disgusting) partner, to have them be publicly harassed just isnt right.
(i think. ugh. im so tired rn and english isnt even my first language so i cant find the words rn to perfectly express what i feel. i think yall get my point tho. normally i can write whole essays about the biggest nonsense but its just not coming rn so im going to end it here. hope yall can get what i mean out of context tho. just... complete thid comment in ur mind)
@@bojuu While I completely agree with you, I feel like, if you have a big platform and you suddenly break up with your “perfect” partner without explaining why, most or all of your fans would start pressuring you into revealing the truth. Although, that is not why you should tell them but talking publicly about your problems on social media is also used as a coping mechanism at times. It might’ve not been responsible of Bella to do this but I wouldn’t shame her for it (I know you’re not shaming her for it). Plus, it also seems that Mattie has also been dropping hints every now and then so it would be VERY weird of Bella to just go off the radar when it comes to this specific situation. Most people already don’t like Bella due to the controversy surrounding her and the sudden breakup without any explanation would most likely cause people to assume that it was her fault. Personally, I would support Bella in this rough patch in her life instead of saying that it’s irresponsible of her to talk about this publicly. I do however understand your point and it is certainly true.
Edit: English is also not my first language so excuse me if I make any mistakes.. 😢
Every single time I watch something about their break up I legit start balling. They were the cutest couple ever, and I would have never though Maddie would be that kind of person. Now every single time I watch maddies content I see her in a different way. Bella I feel so bad for you and just wish I could give you a hug.
Guys I'm not sure if Bella is ever going to say this because she doesn't always talk about the comments she receives, but I'm sure she is soo thankful for all your support and the fact you've read this, watched the video, maybe read her long comment and commented really shows how amazing and kind hearted you are
So from me from Bella,
Thank you ♥️
This truly made me cry
She liked your comment, so I’m sure she agrees with you
@@sapphicsapphire82 yeah hopefully x
@onlyjayus....omg perfect video to comment on too
I think the internet as a whole, and not just me, were IN LOVE with this relationship. I don't think any of us couldlve seen this coming. I think the "i dont believe you response" isn't mostly your reputation, its just the disbelief that one of the sweetest couples on the internet had this happen to them. I would have never expected this from Mattie. Bella, we love you sweetie, and we're here for you during your time of healing. I promise it gets better
They looked so happy I genuinely thought if they broke up it would have been mutual. I feel so bad for Bella
Off topic, HU TAO?!
RIGHT?????? When I would see their vids together I, would always think "couple GOALS"
These two were literally what I wanted my future relationship to look like, but I guess it was too good to be true.
I never would think that Mattie the sweetest person you could ever meet would cheat on someone who did not deserve to be cheated on.. That's messed up!!
How do you know Mattie is the sweetest person, just curious
[My @ thing is being weird but I'm replying to the comment above me]
It's bc Maddie tends to act super sweet and bubbly in their vids and yk overall someone who seems like they would never do such a thing. I'm sure if you look at some of their vids you'd get what they mean
@@eclergt9926 watch one of their videos it is genuinely hard not to like them I was so shocked to find out they cheated.
@@theoutsiderjess1869 yea they seem fun, but sweat is something else. I don't blame ya or anything, but people trust influencers way too much, like I'm sure someone out there just watched on of her shorts and was already knowing them and how kind and sweet they are. For 60 seconds per day she can be the best in the world, but there's plenty of time to be complety someone else.
@@theoutsiderjess1869you guys are so gullible nowadays I can't handle it
Holy crap I just saw Mattie on Instagram with someone she calls girlfriend?! And I was shocked! I'm so sorry ..You deserve better Bella ..
The most shocking thing about this to me is how sweet Mattie seemed. That’s just something you wouldn’t expect from them and I think everyone can that no matter who you are being cheated on or having broke up with someone without explanation is one of the worst things a person can go through.
Yeah! I never thought Mattie would do somthing like that
It's always the innocent looking ones
@JuliaIsTiredyes
Guys don’t say that, Jayus and Mattie both amazing people and Mattie fucked up but so do we all! Also I can’t imagine only maddie did something wrong. Likely jayus could’ve done something wrong aswell! No hate to either side. Just maybe take it into consideration Mattie was upset aswell and possibly cheated bc of stress and maybe didn’t feel comfortable in the relationship but didn’t have a way to tell jayus. I feel for Mattie and jayus. I’ve been in this situation multiple times and it fucking hurts but there is always a reason and most of the time the other person did something wrong aswell. It’s usually two sided! Mattie and Jayus have been my only salvation. When no one else cared or when I was just generally depressed I watched them, and it made me keep going. For quite a few years they were there for me when I was down so I will be there for them now! My whole life I’ve been wanting to meet Mattie and jayus they are beautiful people with amazing personalities so maybe we should leave the topic alone and let them to heal for a bit more because 9 months isn’t enough time to heal. Sometimes years isn’t even enough. Again, no hate. Love Mattie ❤️ Love Jayus 🩷 (p.s if u could blow up this comment so jayus or Mattie might see it would be a dream come true!) Thanks!
@@That_One_Guy_11 So if ur stressed: Cheat on ur gf or bf??
Does it make it okay to cheat if you are stressed?
Moral of the story is good people sometimes do bad things, bad people sometimes do good things, all people do good and bad things. Whether or not your ex chooses to admit what they’ve done or not is their choice. All you can do is try to move forward and heal. I hope you are doing ok.
For a second there I thought you were quoting song lyrics ngl, but so true, we can teach any level of goodness through Gods grace. Love to you all❤️
*can only reach
“good people do bad things” …what? everybody has grown up being taught that cheating is unforgivable and disgusting. everybody. she was completely aware of what she was doing and that it was wrong, but she went through with it anyways. that is something that a bad person would do. she should at the very least apologize.
@@sabless I think you've misunderstood. People who *seem* good do horrible things. The good is basically in quotations.
I never expected Mattie to do this. They are so kind and loving. How could this happen? I'm so sorry.
three words, people are fake
“They” lol.
@@TheRealSlimShady509 do you got a problem with Mattie's gender?
ikr
@@TheRealSlimShady509 that's not funny
man i haven't seen your vids in a while, Bella. I'm really sorry you had to go through this. no one deserves to be cheated on.
I have never been so shocked in my life. As someone who supported both you and Mattie for so long, I don't want to believe it either. But we are all so sorry and will be here for you through your whole healing process. Much love ❤
Yupp, i think we can all relate to this.
yep 💯
Bella saying she’s going to be single by choice forever really hit me. I have been single now for about 4 years now, by choice, because of how my last relationship ended. Keep your head up you beautiful creature. Remember you are worth so much love ❤
Same bro it’s so much better
yea samee I'm now single for abt 2 years and never give anyone a chance if they don't fit my needs & standards bc I don't wanna be the one who always tries alone and suffers here again
Same here. Im also single by choice. Womens choice. I went MGTOW because women Arent worth my time anymore. All womens purpose is only to hurt me, play with my heart and feelings, then dump and ghost me.
I dont know how and why, but thats how entertainment works, for women.
Too much negativity.. & drama ruin other peoples Good day, look at drama queen Selena Gomez,...
People from Twitter & Tiktok should not be allowed on RUclips
RUclips IS A WHOLESOME PLATFORM
@@Jack-tk1iswhy's she a drama queen?
I honestly am so disappointed in Mattie for even thinking about doing this, and for the “FRIENDS” who didn’t make Bella aware of the situation. This is actually messed up. I’m so sorry that you had to go through any of this, and seeing you sad and on the verge of tears breaks every part of my soul and heart. Hopefully you find someone better out there. Take care.
that comment is not her it's a bot
But at the same time they probably told her that she had to come clean herself, it was more of Mattie’s place to tell Bella
I know they did something bad and all but you shouldn't call them a thing and she even said herself to not hate on Mattie and Bella has also done bad things in her life and personally I think both should be forgiven
Don’t call people a “thing”.
@@Pureinsanity1011 I’m sorry. I just felt really bad for Bella at the time, and I was just angry and surprised that Mattie would do such a thing. This is a mistake on my part.
I watched this again, and I am so happy for you now that you've found stability in another person and that your two are doing so well together
think again
As someone who has never dated before, I can not express how terryfying this is. The concept of giving your all to someone only to find that they went and cheated on you is heartbreaking, and I can not fathom what it must actually feel like. No one deserves to feel that way, and it's horrible that you and many others had to face something as crushing as that.
It is the most emotional pain I have ever experienced in my life. A year and a half later and I am still deeply affected by it. I chose to stay, which probably made it harder, but it is what it is. I feel awful for Bella.
That’s why I’m single at 29. Been single for three years after a 6 year relationship I thought meant something. Single life is healthier I think for some people.
It's horrible and left me with trust issues for years. I would not wish that on anyone
My grandmothers husband died and she died within a week. I get stress and depression play a part but people have really died from a broken heart. Usually older people tho
Just never hurt YOURSELF because of something someone else does. It’s not your fault, it’s something they have to fix within themselves. Just remember that when you start dating!
SAME!
I used to see Mattie as such a sweet person, this really shows that you can't truly know people especially if they're someone online. I am so sorry this happened to you Bella, you didn't deserve to be cheated on. Sending love your way.
Mattie is a sweet person. Jayus is manipulative and abusive and here they go doing it again. They are also super racist and have said the n word on multiple occasions.
@@microbees2437dude do you have any actual, factual , reliable sources that she’s lying😐
@@microbees2437 being racist and being manipulative/abusive are totally different things where did you get the second part from?
I barely ever watched either of these people and know absolutely nothing about either of them, but something about Mattie gave me horrible "bad boy" cheater vibes immediately. I was right!
People make mistakes I don’t look at any of them differently 😊
I’d never expect something like this from Mattie.
And look how much respect Bella still has for them.
They didn’t deserve you Bella❤
Respect that bitch doesn't deserve, to boot.
me neither i was a bit confused like who cheated on bella so i read their description than i saw " Mattie " then read and i saw your comment and i went OK MATTIE CHEATED ON BELLA OMG so yeah
i never thought mattie could do something like this i thought they were better then this wow unbelievable
@@Cherry_.._ yeah crazy right?
@@ManuRomein yep
Its okay to feel hurt or sad its all part of the healing process, you have always been my favorite youtuber because of your wonderful personality and your outlook on things... you will get through this.
I am honestly horrified Mattie did this. They always seemed so nice and committed to your guys’s relationship. I am so sorry this happened. Thank you for being brave enough to come out and share this. I really hope things get better for you and we are all supporting you ❤❤
The relationship between them was awesome, until I learned this. I agree, Bella was brave enough to share this with everyone. I hope they get better and they truly deserve better.
I feel scared as well. I have been hurt by many people especially people who seem "innocent" now I dont even know who to trust
You did NOT deserve to be cheated on, but I promise you will find somebody who will love you and care for you and I hope you feel better soon ❤️
i would have never thought mattie would do this kind of crap. you deserve so so so SO much more. youre so strong and brave for posting this. we're here with you
Yes she desrbed so much better
I didn’t think she would either
mattie is a piece of shit and should never date anyone ever again. Once a cheater always a cheater
I agree I was like omg Maddie did this they seemed like suck a great kind person not someone I would see doing such a messed up thing like cheating on their partner
Honestly gives me try guys vibes, pretending to be the most friendly and loving partner online and cheating behind closed doors. I saw on reddit, someone who is claiming to have known mattie in highschool and apparently they outted someone to their parents and got them sent to a conversion camp? I don't know if i believe it but i definitely feel duped. Apparently mattie cheated with someone who cheats alot, olivia ponton. Atleast someone commented that onlyjayus, was calling her a home wrecker somewhere 😮💨 alot of creators are being exposed that i never thought would, its sad. 😢 poor bella.
Rewatching makes me so happy that Bella was able to move on from this and is now in a loving relationship
Bella I only just found out about this and it broke my heart, I’ve always known Mattie as an influencer I’d “love forever”. Yeah that’s not happening- I wanna hear their side to the story so bad but I know it happened anyway… If I was your friend and I found out about that I’d tell you STRAIGHT AWAY. I’m a truth speaker, I can hide secrets but not if they’re that big and horrible! Personally I think no one deserves to be cheated on, no matter what they mean to you, they shouldn’t have to go through that. I hope you get through this Bella, we know you will! Lots of love x
My best friend had a similar thing happen. My best friend we will call her j was in a relationship with this girl for three years. They were long distance. My other friend K found out this person was cheating. And came to me first. She didn’t know what to do as she was friends with them both. I told her that if she doesn’t tell j, I will. She deserved to know. J was beyond glad we told her. The fact that anyone could keep that to themselves is just so nasty. Like honestly, doesn’t matter if your friends with them both, they deserve to know. We are here for you! We love you, and hope you take your time recovering and figuring this out. It’s gonna take some time, process and heal Onlyjayus but we hope you get better!
Growing up is realizing that not everyone is who they seem to be.
The fact alone that Mattie even admitted to it is what killed me. I just barely found out about the breakup recently, and it killed me. I can’t imagine how Bella must feel.
I absolutely adore Bella for making sure that - even though they were clearly heartbroken and upset- nobody attacked or as they called it “internet dog piled” Mattie.
Props to Bella.
To the “friends” that kept Bella in the dark, they don’t need you, they never did, you were just dead weight.
I had respect for every single one of you, but it was lost when I found out what you did.
You can use the excuse of “not wanting to cause drama” but even then if you really cared you would have said something.
Bella, you are an absolutely amazing person, I hope you get your justice.
(If I got any pronouns wrong, please do correct me. I would hate to offend someone.)
Bella goes by they🙂
@@Disco_duckey ah, thank you! I’ll make sure to correct that!
@@Kindred.spiritxx Bella uses any pronouns so it doesn’t really matter
@Shinobu While people are deciding what makes them comfortable I spend my days chanting "I'M A TABLE!"
Oh bella isnt a good person at all
This really does prove that RUclipsrs are very different behind closed doors. Mattie never seemed like the type of person to do that. I'm dissapointed and shocked that Mattie would do such a terrible thing, and it honestly takes alot of time to recover, whether someone's there for you or not. But, we love you Bella 💗 All Our Support x
No one should ever have to go through this. It is absolutely awful especially when you really loved the other person. Sometimes people still love and care about their exes even after they broke up bc of cheating. I still love my ex bf even after he cheated on me.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this Bella.
Dont worry bella! It will get better, this channel is your safe place, lets call it *bella land* you can experiment and tell us all the creepily cool psychotic facts that you want, and you will have my support :)
ahh yes *B E L L A L A N D* I will get a membership asap!
*BELLA LAND!!!!* FULL WITH LOVE AND SUPPORT ❤️🩹
I'm in
You may have been cheated on, but no matter what happens remember you’ll always have a very supportive fan base that will help you with whatever you you ask.
I'm not even a fan and I'm supporting because this is a different kind of low
yes bella!!
i didn’t watch the video but didn’t this mf say the n word
I can't believe that Mattie did that. Bella, I can't even start to understand the hurt you have to be feeling. Just know that all your fans are here for you. ❤
People hurt this bad deserve all the hugs someone could possibly give it shouldn't be like this people's sanity can be eroded so quickly especially in current day
Sorry this happened.
Not everyone is ready for commitment and emotional maturity.
One should take the time being alone for a while and figure out who am I, what are my goals.
What did I miss.
What will I do differently.
I actually started crying watching this while just imagining the pain you're going through. Bella, I just want to remind you that you're amazing. You most definitely did NOT deserve to be cheated on.
Stay strong and just remember that we love you.
i started crying too, its so hard to see someone so good be so hurt
Yeah! 😭😭😭
Same. It’s like that horrible feeling in the pit of your stomach going “holy shit that’s horrible and sick I want to actually throw up” I can’t even imagine the sort of mental and physical shit Bella is going through right now. Just know we have your back, Bella, and that this won’t last forever. There will be that light at the end of the tunnel, one day.
@@jaymoth13 how tf u cry bcs someone broken up and got left out
@@okami7755 because people cry to different things..?
In the middle Bella just looked like she was about to burst into tears, and even though i dont actually have social media, neither did my ex, i went through stuff like that and it is physically and mentally exhausting. I still to this day have no idea why my ex started treating me like absolute crap, and i personally feel better bc i dont have to put up with his crap anymore. Im in a much better place now, and for anyone reading this and going through a tough time, i just want u to know that it WILL get better, and the truth will come out eventually, and you are better off without them.🥰😘
It really sucks doesn’t it? I’m so sorry you had to go through that but I’m glad your in a better position now ❤😅
@@hassie3475 Thank you! You have no idea how much it means to me knowing how many people have gone through this sort of situation, and who are all supportive of each other to get away from a bad relationship and mindset!💖🥰I wish everyone the best of luck for the future, and I hope everyone finds the right person for them!
I love how every time i say “Oh! This is a good person! I will support them!” They end up being a super bad person. EVERY. TIME.
How can you judge a person for the actions they did in the past? She legit said she changed. You people are so cruel for not letting people grow up in peace.
@@yournightmare7197 I wasn’t referring to jayus, i was talking about mattie..
@@celiajcallaway._ Oh then, I agree don’t let her grow in peace
@@yournightmare7197 HOW DID YOU NOT KNOW THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT MATTIE ITS SO OBVIOUS…💀💀💀💀
Pretty much every person has a dark side where they really fuck up especially if theyre popular. The thing is its just not always made public there are some people who havent done something awful yet but most people do
I absolutely lost it when I saw Bella lose their shit when they was telling people to not hate on anyone. I’ve never seen someone get so real and determined at the same time. We all hope you get closure and peace❤
I genuinely am surprised that Mattie would ever do this. I love Mattie but this this truly disturbing that someone so sweet and lovely could do something so awful to their lover. I guess this is a wake up call about how cruel even the kindest, sweetest people can be. I’m sorry that this had to happen to you, Jayus, but I appreciate the fact that you gave us the reason and well… taught me a lesson that I hopefully won’t have to learn the hard way. In my prayers💚💚
U don't know them personally.. U just see what they want u to see.. So u never know online what someone is like in real.. And many people don't feel the positive negative vibe in person too
@@mahirahasankarim1358honestly what i learned is from own life experience is that people who are too passive and too i guess u could say “toxically positive” are 100% putting up a front. no real person is like that and they have that front so people will like them and come to them bc somewhere in their life usually in childhood they lacked that attention so they fake it until they make it. i avoid them like the plague. mellow, down to earth and just real people are the way to go
@@mahi327 100% true... There r people who act too nice.. I have one friend.. Who just seems to be over sweet.. But i know she acts like that so she can continue frndship with everyone.and just don't want or have energy to work on themself. Everyone have bad sides.. Analysing human behavior is tough job.. And people online r just too fake 99% of the time
aint no way its them
My ex was a sweet lovely kind person on the outside but she was a weirdo on the inside
I had been getting weird vibes from Mattie and Carter. I never expected something like this from them. I’m so sorry, Bella. We’re here for you💛
Edit: I’m not saying that Mattie cheated on Bella with Carter. I know Carter is gay. I’m saying that Carter is Mattie’s best friend, and also roommate, so there’s a VERY high possibility he knew about all of this.
Carter is fine except for his squish mellow addiction
Why carter specifically? Bella said in the video that they went to another girls hotel room, and Mattie and carter are roommates i think
carter might’ve known about it
@@InsertName69 bc their friends knew about it and didn’t tell them. I’m pretty sure that’s what was on the lst vid anyway. And carters one of their friends but idk for sure
Same here, something about them always felt kind of fake to me. I never actively watched the content because while it was enjoyable (at least what I've seen from carter) the people themselves had really off vibes to me.
I never expected this from Mattie. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, Bella. We all love you and are here to support you no matter the circumstances. You got this! :)
Same… sadly I’m going to unfollow Mattie from every social I have her on :(
@@battybatboii_yt3431 I feel the need too now. I didn’t even know they split till today..
Wtf why am I now just finding this out I loved Mattie so much what happened 😢😢
@@desty._. sadly this come to show no matter how nice someone may seem behind the screen in all reality sometimes it’s false :(
i never knew that mattie would do something like that!!!
y’all need to stop with “wow, mattie did that?? but they seemed so nice!”. it’s not fun for somebody to hear that about their ex. also, the signs were there all along, mattie acts JUST like my ex who also cheated on me many times and is literally a sociopath. i’m so sorry you had to go through this bella, i hope you find happiness and remember to stay around the people who really love you.
We are here to support you jayus, you will get through this we all know you will since your a strong powerful person
I am so, so sorry that this happened. I didn’t expect this at all, especially because Mattie seemed like such an honest, loyal person. You didn’t deserve this, and I can’t imagine how hard this must be.
I- dang it- you both where literally one of the last couples that made me believe that love exists… I’m so sorry Bella :(
as much as this situation is fucked up, don't base your views on someone else's relationships. experiences are subjective, all we can do is do our best and hope it works out kay?
@@upcanneverbeoneupped They just had to be honest- and it's surprising for most people. As no one expected it, as you probably didn't see that as a bit passive aggressive it was and just not the best way to put that out there. People can have their views on things, because you obviously have a view on it yourself. I'm not trying to come at you or anything but next time don't go after them for it :) Thank you and have a lovely day/night
I cant right now i just had the worst day ever then I see this video. my two favorite content creators broke up. i literally cant rn
Love does exist. It may be just a feeling that wears off after a while, but that doesn't mean something meaningful can't remain in its wake mate. It's up to both partners, really.
@@literallythatonenerd true, even I'm surprised with this whole thing but it's not about having a view of something, it's about using someone else's relationship to completely form your view. sure you can look upto other people and learn and take qualities from them and their relationship as a whole, but stating someone else's relationship as being one of the last couples to make the said person believe in love is, no offense, a very weak way to perceive something. that's all, you have a nice day/night as well
That’s just, really unfortunate. .i did like them and I’m sorry that they did that to you. Relationships are hard, but just know it’s not your fault
hearing bella’s voice break just absolutely breaks my heart. i’m so sorry that happened to you. nobody should ever go through that ❤️
I really didn't expect this, especially not from Mattie. Bella, I'm so sorry it had to end like that. You didn't deserve that and I wish that Mattie had considered that you don't deserve to be cheated on, gaslighted, or anything like that.
Why did i found you just now ? Your videos give me comfort ( so far). My last 2 month have been pretty sh*t.
So thank you for sharing all your, Life hacks, body hacks, thoughts. And i hope you are doing fine by now
no matter the controversy, noone deserves to be treated like this. Pls dont stay single because of someone who doesn't care about your feelings, you are not to blame
Jayus, I feel so sorry for you, we are sending you tons of love and support, i could just hear the hurt in you voice, we love you so freaking much and know this is 100% not your fault at all
MHM IT ISNT YOUR FAULT MAN its theirs you did NOTHING WRONG stay strong
Fax, we love you Bella!
Eh it won’t change my perspective on anyone Bella didn’t deserve to be cheated on but Mattie didn’t deserve to have their life ruined because of Bella posting these videos about the breakup without hearing any other side to the story we only have the one side that based on my experiences means Bella is in the wrong one for just screaming about it to the world but my views won’t change I still love both I might eventually pick a side but for now I won’t because there’s almost no info other than this side
@@Dead_space-xi3numatties never gonna post their side they’re a pussy and it doesn’t fit in with their whole character they put on the internet. they know they messed up and thats why they ghosted bella and left her in the dark. when people mess up they avoid u. i would be doing the exact same thing bellas doing right now. their relationship was very public so i don’t understand the problem with this being public too
@@mahi327 clearly you’ve never been in a relationship
Bella I’m so so so sorry. You definitely did NOT deserve to be cheated on. And no one can justify that based on controversy that happened ages ago. You changed from that and learnt from your mistakes, reflecting on how good of a person you are. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this now, and you have all of our support through this difficult time. You’re not alone. With time, you will heal. Get well soon ❤
Nobody ever deserves to be cheated
I love how Bella was cheated on, but still says not to hate on the people. Bella, if you see this, we are all supporting you and you are a great person ❤
I ain’t I love mattie
@@ashleighhanna-wv8dz loving Mattie doesn’t mean loving what they did to Bella. It was messed up, unfair and you can argue with me but it was also undeserved. You can continue to love Mattie or whatever but don’t come here and cause more unnecessary pain for Bella
@@EZILYFALLEN713Who Cares about Mattie anymore what she did was messed up which is why I un subscribed from them
@isoflyful wait- didn't onlyjayus say the n- word???
@@That_Random_Guy. same
I would've never expected this from someone like Mattie I'm so so sorry you had to go through all of this, you've gone through a lot of stuff and you deserve better then what's happening
Weird ass parasocial relationship you’ve got their but ok
@@danceyrselfkleen that’s not even par asocial but ok
Relationships are scary. You really never know what's actually going on in someone else's head. Even if you think you know them, you really don't. I'm sorry to hear about this. You deserve way better. Hope you grow through it and move on, even if it's little by little.
You’re actually a real one for saying not to hate on them. Like that’s extremely strong of you to do. I know how hard it is to conceal the anger and be the bigger person, and it hurts and eats you. You did the right thing. Also you just being vulnerable is so heartbreaking for me and I wish nothing but the best for you. Stay strong ❤️
I am going through literally the exact same thing right now. watching this hurt because I related a little too much. for everyone else out there going through this I'm so sorry and you didn't deserve it. it's not your fault that your partner chose to make this huge mistake. it's not your fault your friends didn't tell you. Its not your fault.
I wish you the best. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with the kind of pain a betrayal like this causes.
OMG I KNOW WHO IT IS BUT FOR OBVIOUS REASONS IM NOT SHARING BUT I WOULDNT EXPECT THAT FROM THEM, OMG YOU DESERVE BETTER
Oh Bella. *A huge hug for you*
No one deserves to be cheated
No one deserves to be hurt whether on purpose or not.
Time will heal.
Bella, I don’t know if you’ll ever see this, but if you do:
You have no idea how much I look up to you. You have helped me gain confidence, be myself and so much more. I don’t know why anyone, ESPECIALLY Mattie, would do such a thing. You’ve made things easier for me and I understand what you’re feeling, it recently happened to me.. you deserve the WHOLE DAMN WORLD BELLA AND IF THEY DONT SEE THAT THAN THATS THEIR PROBLEM
I understand how hard it is to process this, but if they would do such a thing, they don’t deserve your tears.
you mean the world to me, and other people as well. Don’t forget that. I know you’ve never met us, and i know we can’t always help, but just know:
IT. ISNT. YOUR. FAULT
Facts 👏
Shes rasict dont look up to her.
Your so right! Bella is amazing!
like they have no clue how much they mean to us
I’m so sorry. No matter what you did in your past you never deserved any of this. You’ve changed so much and I’m so proud of you and to now see you get hurt by someone I supported makes me so sad. I’m here for you, we all are. I really hope that you realize how much of an amazing person you are, and there is someone out there waiting for you who won’t hurt you and will treat you with the respect you deserve.
Based
Yes, we are all here for Bella, whatever they need!
@@noone4095 stop this nonsense once and all. If you are a immature guy leave this channel
I've only seen both of your videos here and there, but I am incredibly sorry to hear this happened to you. It is awful and a hard thing to build yourself back up from. I wish you all the love in the world. ❤
It feels so strange seeing them in that way, but that doesn’t matter. It is insane how brave you’re being right now by telling us what you’re going through. I’m honestly so proud of you for expressing yourself so well. I know how difficult this is. I wish you happiness in the near future. And I hope the girl who “nuked” your relationship has never ending hangnails on all of her fingers, she stubs her toe every time she gets out of bed, that she burns her tongue whenever she eats, and that the floors in her home are all covered in legos.
In all seriousness though, I hope you know how much we all love and care for you. You deserve to be happy and treated well ❤
As a 34 year old who has been through this a few times, heartbroken more than once from breakups where I loved them... it's incredibly intense now but it DOES get much better and one day won't hurt at all 😀 so many more adventures and loves to enjoy yet my dear 🥰🥰
Agreed, I'm 33 and it does get better and easier
I've always thought that Mattie was one the most genuine and lovely people I've ever see. This shocked me to the core....We love you so much Bella! Stay strong. Sending lots and lots of love. ♡
I'm so sorry Bella and I hope u read this comment and remember that u deserve love no matter what because u are a beautiful amazing person and u inspired me to become the person I am today u are an icon a role model a leader and a person who inspire me so I hope u are still strong
I’m so sorry Bella bc not only did your love that you devoted so much towards betrayed you, so did so many friend along the way. I’m so sorry you have to go through this . I know it’s very painful so just know we’re all here for you ❤️ and the fact you’re telling people to not send hate and say that you still love them, speaks volumes. You’re mature for growing from your past mistakes , but it seems Mattie made the worst of them and they really could’ve told you from the start. I’m so sorry bella
This is literally awful. Nobody deserves to be treated like this. My heart goes out to anybody in any situation remotely similar to it, i wouldn't wish this on anybody. It psychologically messes somebody up so much and it's a really awful way to have a relationship end. We're here for you
It is quite awful, as this has happened to me. It is painful, especially at first. But in time, with enough support, you recover and maybe even meet somebody who is much better for you. Mattie didn’t deserve Bella (NO OFFENSE MATTIE, but ya can’t cheat)
One of the worst thing that could happen to a person is being cheated on by someone you loved and trusted…it’s better this way rather than being kept in the dark, at least u know the truth…take care Bella we’re here with u ❤❤
Don't let this effect your future relationships.
Everybody is different don't allow this one person to control your dating life or any part of your life.
You are loved.
Being cheated on is absolutely heartbreaking, and even more so when it robs you of the people you thought you could trust. I may not understand the specifics of what you're going through but I do understand how it feels, and I understand that even months after you continue to connect the dots and notice signs. I genuinely wish you the best and I hope you recover emotionally swiftly and strongly. Know that you're strong and that you did the best you could. I'm certain you know this, but just reminding you that you did nothing to deserve that. We're here for you ❤️
This hit hard for me. My ex fiance did something similar but never admitted to it, despite the picture of another guy kissing her, on her wall. I'm sorry you had to go through that and I hope you find peace Bella. It sucks. It's hard and something like this takes a long time to heal from, but we're here for you. Stay strong, take time to yourself to do whatever you need to do to feel better. I hope you never have to go through that again. It really can break a person
I wish that I could just hug Jayus right now. I never thought that Mattie would do this, because they were in a really healthy relationship it seemed like. I now that Bella didn't want Mattie to deal with any controversy, so they said not to hate someone, but I can't help but feel hurt. I can only imagine how heart breaking and sad this is for Jayus, and like I said I wish I could just be there for them. Life goes on, and better opportunities will come as the earth goes around the sun. If you think that it is best for you to never be in a relationship ever again, I, we as a whole respect that. I really wish you can recover from this fast, and I want you to know that you are way better on your own.
i didn’t know who it was until i saw the last vid and i was like ‘wait whyyy does that look like Mattie’, only to find it actually WAS them…damnn😔 now i can’t look at them the same anymore and they usr to be one of my fav ppl❤️🩹 Jayus definitely did not deserve this.
it really proves nothing online is real :(
@@lexiskyedavignon im pretty sure the happy exiting funny memories were real between bella and mattie those are still real
same i wish i would hug bella right now i feel so sorry for them it makes me sad
I didn't expect this from Mattie based on her content, I don't know her irl though (not doubting just surprised).
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, it's terrible and I know how much it hurts.
I hope you can recover and find someone who truly loves you and cares for you whether it's purely as a friend, romantically, or both, I hope you can find love from other people.
I love and care about you just like many others here (I believe) clearly we aren't with you but if I were with you I would give you a huge hug (if you consented ofc) and let you say anything you wanted or needed, no judgement.
I'm so sorry you went through this, absolutely NO ONE deserves to be cheated on... EVER
We love you❣❣❣
I'm so sorry bella U DID NOT deserve that you are so special to so many people 💗
I dunno bro. Like getting cheated on is pretty tame for a piece of shit racist. Like getting cheated on is a breach of private trust. Being racist is one the worst virtues because it allows OnlyJayus to take light of genocide, hate crimes and invasions involving the death of many, many, people. Therefore, ONLYJAYUS THINKS ITS OKAY TO ALLOW GENOCIDE OF MINORITY RACES because of her racist rhetoric.
@@jcon2060 she said sorry most black people dc but ye I get u
@@siennatomo Yes, fuck the black people who DO care. Saying sorry isn't enough. Even if all the black people don't care, by making that statement, are you saying that being racist is okay?
@@siennatomo literally nobody cares about the fact she said the n word except for the super online leftists
@@Orincaby lol ok
Hey, I just wanted to say I understand what you're going through completely. Being cheated on is shitty, but by someone you love and care about is worse. You'll be okay and you'll get through this. We're all here for you through thick and thin. As others have said it gets better
I heavily agree with you Addison.
(P.s. hello fellow gorillaz fan)
I’m so sorry this happened to you, no one deserves this NO ONE and it’s truly terrible . I’m Sending you all the love and support I could give you and I hope that this never happens to you again ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ stay strong Bella
I'm 1yr late to this (I was under assumption that u guys were still together) and I'm devastated but also glad that you're doing okay! Take care!
Oh my God. Your ex really played the victim card, that's fucking brutal. I'm so sorry this happened, I hope you can get over it and come back stronger.❤
Honestly, hats off to you for coming out and actually talking about this and being so transparent and real with so many people. That's...really fucking brave. It takes guts to truly admit what's going on and effort to try and sort out the shit show life is instead of just dumping all the trauma in a box and burying it 6 feet deep. I can't imagine the sheer amount of willpower it takes to actually confront the situation and let yourself heal.
Lots of love and please take care 💖💖
At this point I am crying. Their voice shaking was enough for me to cry. You deserve so much love and the fact that you're so respectful towards them just proves how awesome you are. You are important. You are preety. You are funny. You are Bella. Remember your fans love you so much and the people who are spreading rumours didn't have enough rumours to spread in Middle school. So be yourself and always remember you'll have all the love and support from your fans
aw i’m so sorry no one deserves that :( i hope you’re doing better
its okay bella, we’re always here with you to support you. we all go through tough times, thats just how life is. i hope you heal from this, even if gradually. we love you
I’m so sorry that happened to you, no one deserves to go through that ❤
I dunno bro. Like getting cheated on is pretty tame for a piece of shit racist. Like getting cheated on is a breach of private trust. Being racist is one the worst virtues because it allows OnlyJayus to take light of genocide, hate crimes and invasions involving the death of many, many, people. Therefore, ONLYJAYUS THINKS ITS OKAY TO ALLOW GENOCIDE OF MINORITY RACES because of her racist rhetoric.
My heart goes out to you Bella for what happened. After many heartaches and screwjobs I went through in the past, I can relate 100% to the pain you're felling. Mattie does not deserve the kindness, love, respect and intelligence you have. In time you will find that perfect person that will fulfill your needs. Stay strong Bella.
We all wish Bella the best of luck. I’ve dealt with something quite similar, and Bella deserves so much better.
...awe 💔
Im so sorry youre going through this, ik its not easy but pls juss keep being yourself and just keep it pushing like our late friend Mr. Miller had said.
Things like these are not easy, but you are above this. An intelligent and remarkable human being, there is nothing but great things that await you and the ppl most closest and real to you.
All the love and best wishes pls be safe 💌🥺
'Be you. Youll be fine.'
~Mac Miller
I have never seen Bella cry and that almost had me in tears seeing what she has to go through
Enough With the Negativity!! Go Watch some Uplifting stuff
I'm only a kid and i dont know what that I'm sorry
The way your voice was shaking this entire time. I’m honestly surprised. You don’t deserve the hate you get Bella. I almost cried whilst watching this. Just know that there are many people out there to support u (including me🦋). Stay strong, much love🫶🏻🤍
Bella it’s ok. Even if you don’t have someone extra special in your life (apart from your doggos they radiate unconditional love) you will always have us here for you ❤️