God there's so much to comment on 😂 First of all anas you deserve credit for choosing the guests ( you picked the right ppl each have their own unique experience ) Second of all i am so happy to see mrs. Hala on ab talks again( i adore this woman wallahii ) third of all can we please have a part 2 of this talk can't get enough of you guys ( plz plz plz) Now regarding the talk i had so much fun watching this especially the part about ur delivery being a nightmare HAHAHA ,you guys have a refreshing perspectives and courageous enough to bring sensitive points you bring so much value and make so much difference just by talking so never shut up!
I am someone who fully believes in a lot of what Tracy said: I don't dream of marriage and kids and I also don't say I only want to focus my carrier(school for one more year at the moment). I want both, but they're not a combined set of goals. I know I have in me the potential and enough compassion and ambition to keep me safe and satisfied and most importantly content with my life no matter how it ends up to be. Wether you're a guy or a girl, mariage shouldn't be an absolute goal, kids shouldn't be a must either. Everything was so informative and good see being analizde and spoken from a different angle. Thanks a lot for this to the whole team, you guys really rock. 💙🙏🏾
الحمد لله انه في حوار من هدا النوع في عالمنا العربي خصوصا بحضور تجارب حية انه يمكننا نختلف في اختيارات بوعي يخلينا نوصل نعرف ما تريده منا الحياة لنكون عايشين بسلام داخلي وليس العيش في حروب داخلية لتلبية ما يريده منك المجتمع والمعتقد...شكرا
Who thinks Tracy held her own and came with such an inspiring and refreshing vibe! Strong, calm, independent and able to give her point across in such a classy way. We need more ppl like her! Hala Kazim was such a great addition as you need someone with life experience. Such a great episode!
Yes, I noticed the same about Tracey. She did an excellent representation of single ladies who are managing their lives with poise. Nevertheless, she successfully presented her points of view. Thanks to Anas for bringing her among this wonderful group of people. Respect to All.
انا اكتييير فرحان اني اقدرت اسمع هيك اشي بعمر الصغير .. اني اقدرت اتعلم من الناس الاكبر ويلي مرو بتجارب اكتر .... شكرا اكتير انس انك وفرتلنا هيك حوارات لتنشأ جيل اوعى واحسن من يلي قبلوا وانك بتعطينا فرصة ما كانت موجودة عند امهاتنا وابائنا جد شكرا ❤
مجرد شفت حلقتين من البرنامج اليوم اللي هي هاي والحلقة عن الرجولة يعني المناقشات والاراء اللي تنطرح بالحلقات وموضوع الحلقات بحد ذاته يخليك تفكر مرة ومرتبن باللي انت تعرفه او اللي تعتقد انك مقتنع فيي والواقع يمكن انت بس تحس انك مقتنع لان تعتقد مافي شكل ثاني غير اللي انت تعرفه برنامج حلو والحلقات الخاصة هاي ايضا جميلة تحس نفسك كاعد وياهم بالحلقة وكلنا جالسين نتناقش بمواضيع فعلا تستحق اننا نتناقش فيها شكرا الك وللفريق كله على البرنامج الجميل هذا 👍
THIS IS BY FAR THE BEST INTERVIEW I'VE WATCHED ANAS. Huge Respect. It literally felt like I was sitting down in the saloon having a discussion with my friends. We need a part 2 100%. Would love to see more people from our generation talk about these issues. These guests were wonderful, each with their unique point of views. Would've loved to hear more from each one of them. It would also be nice to talk about mental health in the Arab society!!
من احلا الحلقات لمست فيني اشياء كثير والحمدالله في ناس نفس تفكير استمر في الإبداع ا. أنس وهذي الحلقه متأكده بتلهم المرأة و الرجل لكي يتفهم ما تمر فيه. تحياتي
Naido NAILED it! loved his insightful quick interventions! That Spanish girl "beside her killing kindness and beauty" spoke the truth but was not given the chance to fully interpret her thoughts. Mama Hala being in her element "felt like the moderator of the session". Tracy and Anas "the fiminist jury" I mean people in the culture we're living in, are progressing but still have long way to go.
اهلا انس، حابه اشكرك على الحلقه الجميله من جد ساعدتني كثير، انا عمري ٢١ وامي اصرت علي ادخل شوفه شرعيه على ولد حلال وصاحب مواصفات عاليه "وما نلقى هالمواصفات كثير" على كلام الوالده، صار لي اسبوع كامل بس متضايقه وجاني اكتئاب على موضوع الشوفه اللي مفروض ما يكون كبير لذي الدرجه بس لان امي ضغطت علي و قلت لها ماودي ادخل عالولد واصرت لا لازم ادخل و اشوف الولد و اتعرف عليه ممكن فعلا نناسب بعض، واليوم بعد ما فكرت جد انا ليش ضاغطه على نفسي وجايبه لنفسي اكتئاب على حساب غيري.. ليش ساكته؟ و رحت كلمت امي و قلت لها تكلم اهل الولد ان الموضوع مابيصير شوفه ولا شيء والله يوفقه. وفعلا حسيت هم وانزاح . سعادة الانسان بيده وهذا قرار كبير لازم كل انسان يعرف فعلا ايش يبي من حياته مو الناس تختار لك و تقرر عنك مصيرك.
One of my dreams Anas : is to sit front of you, in an interview on your channel, you touch the soul with your attitude, question style and by your high level of education, Anas abu bukhash, I'll remember this name as i know operah Winfrey, lucky us that you have this channel on RUclips to let us see great examples of men 👏
I am from Kazakhstan, but MAAAAN oh Mann!! I could SO DEEPLY relate to this topic . Even on the level where I recently got a haircut just to try something new/ I am 24 and my parents thought it was my way to express rebellion, I remember my mom even saying "you're at peak of your sexuality" and my brother even was like "why did you do that to yourself?" as if my body belongs to my family instead of myself. Yow people, I just got a haircut. I didn't go bald. Anyway, Anas thank you so much for touching on to this subject. BTW it is my FIRST EVER COMMENT ON RUclips!!! It just proves how deeply I am thankful for the work like this video you do! Thank you!
I relate to this interview so much. I got married when I was 23 but to an amazing person and we love each other so much. I am finishing graduate school, I am almost 26 and I receive a lot of pressure from my families, friends, in-laws about having kids. I was surprised because I grew up as a modern Arab and all of a sudden people are coming left and right asking me when to have kids. Like get off my back. I am living my happiest life right now, travelling endlessly with my husband. And tbh.. having kids scares me. I always think that the stress of having kids will jeopardize our marriage. I know that won't be the case but life is so good without kids I don't want it to change. Lol rant over. Anas I think you need to have your own show not just youtube. Great interview!
When I saw1 hour video, I said to myself I will play this very fast but I will not watch one hour's content. But, I did and I loved it. I love seeing men from my culture think the way you do. And the quality of people you have in your life is amazing. I totally vote for more videos like this one, all of us should help our people open their eyes and see the world for what it is today. I am sharing this one with my mom immediately.
شكراً لكم انكم تعبرون عن اشياء دائماً تجول في خواطرنا وكل مره تكون لها اجوبة مختلفة داخلي لان مااقدر اناقشها بصراحه مع احد .مثل موضوع اذا اختار اني ما اتزوج ولا اجيب اولاد .. انا طبيبة واحضر الان الاختصاص لم أرغب يوماً ان انجب طفلاً وهذا شعوري الداخلي فقط . دائماً اهرب من الارتباط بسبب هذا الشعور.لاني اجد نفسي في اشياء كثيره منها عطائي في الطب 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Very interesting topic. I think women don't talk about experiencing postpartum depression because it's also something new to them. A perfectly healthy and smart woman who just gave birth can experience it and not know that she is already experiencing it, so, that is also why it's hard to talk to men about it. It's too much for a woman to handle everything and sometimes, words aren't enough. A human being just came out of this woman, and she has to deal with her body and the changes that happened. Imagine her looking at herself in the mirror and realizing that her stretch marks will never go away and that her c-section scar will be there for the rest of her life. All of these things, plus the pressures of parenthood and society and that yearning to still be the person that you are despite all of the changes is a lot to take in. It's really important for men to be proactive in their roles as husband and father during this stage.
كلام غايه في الروعة خصوصا احنه الجيل الي اصغر منكم وعلى وجه الزواج او متوقع منا الزواج خلتني هذه الحلقه اراجع افكاري عن الزواج لان نفسي لي هسه مامستوعبتها امكانياتي طاقاتي حتى ارتبط بي شخص واعيش حياة جديدة من كل النواحي لازم اسيطر على حياتي واختيارتي قبل لا اخذ هذه الطفرة النوعية مثل تجربة الزواج وان يكون عندي اطفال واهتم بطفل واربي صعبة عقلي يستوعبها رغم اني اعشق الاطفال فا هي مو بس حفلة وفرحوا الاهل هذه حياة راح يعيشوها وحدهم بدون الكل بمشاكل ومصاعبها وسعادتها والهبوط والصعود اعيد واقول حلقة جميلة وياريت تسوون سلسلة وحلقات عن هذا المواضيع وابعادها
Hi, I was just going through this video again and I realized you said you yourself were married for 9 years and divorced. I would like to hear you talk about this in detail if you ever feel comfortable. The reason why I am asking, I would like to hear a man's perspective on divorce and what hardships you had faced being a man calling or deciding on letting go of your marriage. We hear in-depth about women's' hardship, anxiety, and closure quite often but I have never heard a raw emotional ride a man goes through within this process. Mind you that it is a mere suggestion not tryna raid your business. Much love and God bless.
احس كلامكم صح ,لكن الكلام اسهل من الفعل يعني انا مثلا اهلي ما يغصبوني اتزوج لكن الضغط الكبير اللي يحطونه علي وايد حتى لو ساعات يقولونها بالمزح بس خلاص تطفر من ها الكلام وححتى لو البنت قويه ومصره على رايها ما تبي تتزوج ومقتنعة بخيارها الناس دايما بيحسسونها بالنقص لو شو ,وانا حرفيا من تخرجت من الثانوي وعمري 18 لين احين عمري 22 وكل حد يسالني متى اتزوج او يحاولون يقنعوني بالززواج مع اني جدا صغيرة على هذا الشي صح اني اوقف وارد عليهم بس والله ياثر واييد
لا تتخذيه قرار من الثوابت.... ممكن انك اتخذتيه في وقت معين وظروف معينه لكن ممكن تجي لحظه وتتغير أفكارك إحتياجاتك متطلبات حياتك ....يعني ...المتغيرات هي القاعده الثابته في هذه الحياه
عزيزتي ارضاء الناس غاية لا تدرك واحب ان اخبرك سوف يشعروك بلنقص دائما اليوم يقولون متى تتزوجين وغدا متى تنجبين وبعدها سيقولون انجبي المزيد وسيقولون لقد اهملتي نفسك او اطفالك او زوجك او يقولون لما تفعلي كذا وكذا لما شكل اطفالك ليس كذا كذا انها مآساة لا تنتهي صدقيني فلا تهتمي لهم وركزي على نفسك وان جاء الزوج المناسب تزوجي لاجل لنفسك لا لاجل الناس
It's odd how the topics we talk about the least are the ones we most need to connect and grow. Shared life experience is powerful. Thank you for having beautiful humans and stimulating our minds with your conversations. Such an interesting interview. You're doing a great job Anas.
كان خاطري يقولون بهد انه بعد الإجباري انه حتى بحياتنا الطبيعيه انه كل مانبا نسوي شي حتى لو بقص شعري لما تتزوجين لما اي قرار او خاطر لما بتتزوجين ف يصير بعد كانك تنتظر بس تتزوج عشان تحقق أحلامك ومرات يتعمدون يدمرونك ويخلونك مبهدل عشان تيأس وتقول الزواج بينقذني عقبها تصير كارثه أخرى عالعموم جميله المقابله ❤️❤️❤️
الحلقة جميلة ... بالفعل المشكلة ان كثير من الناس عندهم توقعات غير واقعية بالنسبة للزواج و تربية الأبناء و العلاقات بشكل عام... يمرون علي بنات ودي اهزها و اقولها اصحي... انا تعلمت متأخر ان اللي يناسبك او يناسبج مب شرط يناسبني و العكس صحيح.... كل انسان يمشي في مساره الخاص لان كل واحد فينا مميز
When I saw the title I said to my self I will skip the children part because I am not that interested about them ,but wallah I was so shocked of how beautiful this debate, that I didn’t skip a second I even reply some of it , well done all of you touched my heart sincerely.. and I would be happy to see another episode like this may god bless you all
A big applause to this team. Amazing talk! Something I never knew I will come across. Walla, well done👏👏 This is what I needed to hear. I think every women should watch this episode. So refreshing, so relating, connecting and a very good reminder to everyone that it’s okay to not be all the same. I’m a woman and I come from an Arabic background. The amount of times I said that I don’t want to be a mother or a wife is countless and each time I was attacked, for my own opinion for wanting something for Me. So we are grateful to people like you Anas for bringing up such topics so open with respect and awareness.
I like the discussion, but could you please invite each one of them separately, I would love to know more about Tracy Harmoush and Nuraddin Abdo, but I respect all your guests. Thanks for your efforts
The conversation with all the guests very informative so kind, my favorite part was when u said kids don't ask to be born so a parent shouldn't expect things. Tracy my God i love her and anu just amazing. Ur mother love her, God bless all of you
It's such greatt topic and as somali teenager i can see this things such as forcing girls to get married or pressuring them to find someone for themselve or let there parents to arrange for them is really something that we should be aware of and it's really happening alot in my home country somalia. So thank you anas and everyone whom participated in this episode because maybe not alot of Somalis will hear this but i will try to spread the concepts that i learned from this video. All love, Abeer
Loved the episode so much and really felt that it touched me !!! وجداً سعيدة و فخورة انه أشخاص بمجتمعنا قاعد يحاولون يوصلون هذا الوعي بطريقة جدا مقنعة! فعلا استمعت بكل لحظة بالحلقة ، شكرا💙
I am a midwife and i hear so many stories and I know endless experiences and I also always be there when mothers are having baby blues so I think it's a very important topic to talk about and it requires more than one video... Great work I hope you'll talk about more topics
يعني اخوي انا حرفيا تغيرت حياتي من صرت أشاهد برنامجك والمواضيع اللي يتم نقاشها وتمنيت لو كنت اعرفك في حقيقه واتعلم منك أكثر لانا انت بجد شرف كبير لي كل شخص انا اتكون في حياته ربنا يوفقك واحب الوالده جدا مثال لكل أم وان شاء الله راح اربي عيالي مثل ماربتكم شكرا لك
المشكلة احنا نتكلم عن الاطفال والزواج وكأن احنا بيدنا دائما اننا نتزوج ونخلف وننسى انوا احيانا حتى لو بغينا اذا ربي مو كاتب لنا ماراح تتم هذي الاشياء وننسى انوا احنا لازم نكون راضين عن حياتنا بحلوها ومرها بفلوس او بدون بزواج او بدون باولاد او بدون وهذا مايعني انوا احنا مانسعى للافضل طبعا
طرحت الحلقة تساؤلات جذرية عامة وعميقة، و لكن استغرب من تحضير الحلقة التغطية على ذكر دور الدين في اغلب القرارات اللي بتتخذها مجتمعاتنا العربية ، الدين شيء خاص وعام بنفس الوقت و يناسب كل زمن و هو اساس ومسلك حياة حتى و ان يشاب الدين بالتقاليد التي لم ينزل الله بها من سلطان يضل اساس قوي لايمكن التغطية على اثر ذكره في من المقابلات العصرية .
loved the fact that the gusts were different regarding their life situations and the subject of this talk is much needed for us as Arabs thank you Anas
I turned 26 today and as a woman in the middle east I have the same perspective as Tracy and Hala and my parents r so supportive (even close relatives) BUT the society is not that supportive🙄and that’s the reality! When I meet people as a woman, when I say hi and ask them how they r doing, the question I get is so is there anything going on? (Marriage)...all they think is that for me to b successful is for me to b a wife and mother! They don’t see it they way I see it, my education is my happiness and Alhamdellah I got my masters and I’m planning to pursue it further☺️but it’s not acceptable in this region at all! I love babies and all i wanted ever since I was a little girl is to have kids! And inshallah I will!🙄idk but Anas the moment u said u r 26 i started laughing😂thanks for reminding me i still have time and the society’s pressure shouldn’t bother me
This was AMAZING these 3 women are beautifuuuuuuul inside out mashalah 💙 and the guys were so openminded about it, showed so much respect, ugh i am highly touched, impressed, and actually happy to see this kind of conversation being held. Thank youuuu, and please make this a series lol i'll binge watch it ❤
Thank you so much Anas, I’m amazed in the topics you discuss in your interviews. Be sure that you’re helping a lot of people through your RUclips channel, I’m one of the people who is learning new things from the interviews you’re doing with people who have experienced social issues in the their life. Support you from the deepest of my heart.
طرح جميل ، من النادر نشوف الرجال يتحدثون عن هذا و خاصة الوعي في الاكتئاب بعد الولادة ،، والاجمل تنوع الحديث و الاراء المختلفة تجعل الشخص يتفكر ،، ولكن من رائيي الشخصي دون وضع احكام ، فقط للمشاركة و التفكر ،، اعتقد الردود مبنيه على تجاربهم و مثل ماقلت انت في بداية الحلقة مافينا نطبق هذا الكلام او نقارن على الجميع لان الكل له تجربة الخاصة ، البعض ياخذ ردة فعل مباشرة او عكسية لمجرد عاش تجربة ماعرف كيف يتصرف فيها ، فا لو كانت العلاقة غير جيده مع عائلتي وتعاملوا معاي كطفل بطريقة غير جيدة عقلي بيقولي لا تتزوجين و راح احط اسباب مقنعة لذلك مهما كانت صحيحة لي، أو كانت العلاقة رائعة لدرجة التملك، اثر التعلق بياثر علي و عقلي يوجهني للبحث في حياتي عن اشخاص للتعلق فيهم ، كانها دوامة 🌀 ماتنتهي ونكرر قصصنا بشكل او باخر بوعي او بدون . السؤال هو ،، اذا في كل الحالات السابقة هو طريق مؤذي لنفسك قبل الاطفال و الاخرين ،، لماذا ربي وضع كلمة ( زواج ) ؟! وهل هناك اتزان للسير في هذا الطريق بشكل سليم وليس اقصد خالي من العيوب الاننا بشر ؟! شكراً لمشاركتنا حلقات تقودنا للتفكر و العودة لانفسنا و فطرتنا ،، 🙏🏻 كل التقدير و الاحترام و اتمنى لكم التوفيق 😊
such an amazing episode, and what your mother said at the end and questioned about made me really think about what I really wanna do in life... especially that I'm still 19 and I just started studying. I think now I know what is the things that suits me and what doesn't. Thank you Anas!.
I can literally live on these therapeutic AB talks.. This is extremely valuable.. I love your show. Plz have Tracy soon, she’s very smart and has a vision that is worth listening to.. thanks again Anas..
Hala has a very strong point about young girls and the engraving of women's value in marraige and childearing . it starts from the moment they are able to comprehend language . it takes certain experiences and a chance to be able to step outside of that environment to be able to form a different perspective. How do you know there's a different way of life if you've never seen or heard of it .
لك الف تحية اخي انس من مملكة المغربية جد برنامج هادف يناقش جميع عقليات وفي اخير نتفق على انو كل واحد له وجهة نظر خاصة بيه بس نلتقي في نقطة واحدة وهي احترام اراء بعضنا
I think that all this talk from anas and hala is based on previous resentment (with all do respect) I listened to a lot of previous interviews done by him and it's all the same vibes. yes, I can't say that the culture is affecting a lot but that only influenced ppl in the 90s but we are getting out of it in noticable ways. the world is such a diverse place now in a way that there are no rules anymore so I don't believe that the programming thing about marriage discussed is there anymore, it is just a matter of perception just like what tracy said. I liked tracy point of view it made the most sense.
Yooooo this interview was absolutely informative, and I always like when you host this kind of interview/group discussion it’s just mind blowing part 2 please✌🏻💛💛💛
﴿ وَذَكِّرْ فَإِنَّ الذِّكْرَىٰ تَنفَعُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ ﴾ - سُبحان الله - الحَمد لله - لا إله إلا الله - الله أكبر - أستغفِرُ الله - لا حَول و لا قوة إلا بالله - سُبحان الله و بِحمده - سُبحان الله العَظيم - اللهم صلِ و سلم على نبينا محمد.
Okay we totally need more parts of this 🤩 also we need a whole different ep with each of tracy and nido I loved they're way of thinking and I'd love to get to know them a little bit more ❤ looking forward for the next one..
love this topic. I really appreciate when parents support their children about marriage in our youth time. Even when the children think they are ready for it but parent see u are really not ready yet. so they take time to help you really experience the idea about marriage and makes us not focus what society thinks. it also comes to the environment you are place in, the human behavior you are brought up or where you choose to involve yourself in. if you chose to get married then educate yourself and if u married allow yourself to let out the things you are struggling with. coming from west Africa , move to an Arab country living there and now in western country there so many complex way. you got to define yours. love this talk and my respect to Hala.
Amazing i just watched a video of one hour without getting bored. It was really interresing to heard them discuss and debate in peace and calm. Great video!
Wow, I think if I started commenting about this episode I won’t stop. So rich talk (bear with me 😅) Mrs Hala, the moderator 😁, amazing way of interpreting & analyzing each point said by the incredible guests. She’s amazing. Why were you so in a rush to come into this world man?! 😂😅 Nooruddin, I wonderful listener as always, and really nailed it with his “must points”. I loved it when he mentioned how unaware he was about the after delivering depression periods his wife went through. It’s very important that many men really listen to this cause this could last for a while and separation decisions could be taken without realizing the real issue. I could relate to many of what Vero mentioned, living in a big family where everyone is kinda close & you enjoy their company you feel that you actually want your kids to experience the same, but at the end it’s everyone’s own decision & not an obligation. Tracy, I loooooved her, so calm & wise. She’s absolutely right, happiness has nothing to do with getting married or having children, it’s not the only version. We need a friend, a partner, a companion, if it happen then it’s cool, if not, we’re satisfied with ourselves. Hope she finds the right one (are men around her blind or what ?!!😒) I loved the idea you said that if men can’t understand then talk to them, I think the best way to maintain any relationship is “communication”, and it should be bi-directional, whether in this topic or any other topic. Guys, you really have a lot to share, each point, each idea, experience of each one of you, , keep these special episodes going, 1st but not last. Wish you all all the best from the bottom of my heart.
I love this episode, but I would hope if you guys could discuss some of the topics in a series form; 1) Expectations from marriage, partner and children. 2) Healthy mindset for a healthy marriage. 3) Responsibilities for both genders in a marriage. 4) Values vs Traditions that affects marriages. *Take away notes from this video:* 1) Make sure you are getting married for the right reasons. 2) Don't depend on marriage to offer you something that you failed to give yourself (e.g, self love, happiness. etc.) 3) Differentiate between your values and the thoughts that society ingrained in you. 4) Marriage is not as easy as it seems, it is a partnership so no one can "complete" their partner. 5) Success and happiness is defined differently depending on the person. 6) "Don't put all your eggs in one basket." 7) Children will imitate their parents so you should live as an example of what you would hope they would be. 8) A man is not the answer for your happiness or fulfillment. 9) Manage your expectations.
I am a 38 year lady who is not married and does not have a children. Personally, this conversation did not bring something new to what I have already heard. I was waiting for someone to address things as they are (my expectation) and not hide behind your finger.. What about the sexual need ( it is a need/ not just a desire), what about the emotional neeed to be a mum and have your own kids>???? I understand that you have to be your own person and have a life before becoming someone's partner, but if you have achieved all that, do noy u think that we have to fill those needs? It is not an arab related issue, it is a humanistic issue. ? No body addressed these issues better than our prophet PbUH ( all young men, whoever can get married, he/she must do it. It is very much better. Thanks
الزواج صحيح ماهو هدف لكن ماهو بدري على اي غمر لاني في ناس يحتاجون هذا الشي زي اي كائن موجود في الأرض يتكاثر ونحن نحتاج نكون في علاقه عاطفيه لأنها من أبسط احتياجات الانسان و الزواج ماهو الزامي بس بعد الي يبون يصونون نفسهم بالحلال من عمر بدري في منظوركم هو بالنسبة له وقت مناسب اجل ٢٦ بيبي! مو افكر كذا لاني عربية لاني منطقه واحترم وجهه نظركم واتمنى تخترمو الي يبون يتزوجون بعد سن النضج الكل له الحق انه يكون زوجه أو زوج بعد تحقيق ششروط الزواج
Very Informative Anas, great topic discussed with some amazing input by all the guests - Just thinking if 'Our Parents' would have the same mentality as against marriage and kids, how would we "UNIQUE" kids come about this beautiful world and contribute to this world in our "UNIQUE" ways.....I think this lack of knowledge or awareness in today's world regarding marriage and kids, especially when you mention Arab world is Islamic knowledge -I think it is in the best interest to marry and raise good kids, as people humans change after marriage and kids, we all have our flaws and problems, still however there are very few bad marriages etc. Kids as they grow up should have that inclination to support and be of service to their parents especially to their mums who raised them with great difficulty as our religion mentions.....
This is the only show that I could read its comment confidentially . Thank you for such diamonds. One question are you existed in this earth guys or do you have copies? 😂😂
What an interesting topic. I really enjoyed this eye opening conversation, keep up the good work ABTalk team. And yes I would like to see interview with Tracy.
So inspiring 💡 , it is hard to unprogram these ideas and not so many people talk about them and these types of conversation are a wonderful way to start talking about such problems . I deeply deeply appreciate you and your mothers approach to change such reality ... and the guests ughhhh I already virtually love them 😂 but more love is now added TRACY is such an inspiring women ... thank you for this great great effort
All of the guests had amazing insights. Please, PLEASE, we need more of these kinds of conversation, especially coming from and addressing the Arab world.
God there's so much to comment on 😂
First of all anas you deserve credit for choosing the guests ( you picked the right ppl each have their own unique experience )
Second of all i am so happy to see mrs. Hala on ab talks again( i adore this woman wallahii ) third of all can we please have a part 2 of this talk can't get enough of you guys ( plz plz plz)
Now regarding the talk i had so much fun watching this especially the part about ur delivery being a nightmare HAHAHA ,you guys have a refreshing perspectives and courageous enough to bring sensitive points you bring so much value and make so much difference just by talking so never shut up!
salma el-khouly Appreciate your feedback. 🙏🏽
@@AnasBukhash فخورة كتير بوجود التفاهم واللغه الجميلة دي بينكو و ماما هالة الجميلة مثلي الاعلي الجميل بحياتي الفترة الأخيرة اكتشاف لي سعيدة بوجودها💗
I am someone who fully believes in a lot of what Tracy said: I don't dream of marriage and kids and I also don't say I only want to focus my carrier(school for one more year at the moment). I want both, but they're not a combined set of goals. I know I have in me the potential and enough compassion and ambition to keep me safe and satisfied and most importantly content with my life no matter how it ends up to be.
Wether you're a guy or a girl, mariage shouldn't be an absolute goal, kids shouldn't be a must either.
Everything was so informative and good see being analizde and spoken from a different angle.
Thanks a lot for this to the whole team, you guys really rock. 💙🙏🏾
الحمد لله انه في حوار من هدا النوع في عالمنا العربي خصوصا بحضور تجارب حية انه يمكننا نختلف في اختيارات بوعي يخلينا نوصل نعرف ما تريده منا الحياة لنكون عايشين بسلام داخلي وليس العيش في حروب داخلية لتلبية ما يريده منك المجتمع والمعتقد...شكرا
واخرتها حوار بالانجلش
خخخ
حوار بالانقلش وثقافة اجنبية
طيب يتكلمون عربي حتى نفخر بهم وبلغتهم
وما الذي يريده المعتقد، أليس المعتقد يوافق الفطره البشريه، التي انشأها الرب، وهو رب المعتقد
@@user-kq4ge5fd6b عشان معاهم وحدة ما تتكلم بالعربي عشان كذا تكلمو انجليزي
Who thinks Tracy held her own and came with such an inspiring and refreshing vibe! Strong, calm, independent and able to give her point across in such a classy way. We need more ppl like her!
Hala Kazim was such a great addition as you need someone with life experience. Such a great episode!
Yes, I noticed the same about Tracey. She did an excellent representation of single ladies who are managing their lives with poise. Nevertheless, she successfully presented her points of view. Thanks to Anas for bringing her among this wonderful group of people. Respect to All.
انا اكتييير فرحان اني اقدرت اسمع هيك اشي بعمر الصغير .. اني اقدرت اتعلم من الناس الاكبر ويلي مرو بتجارب اكتر .... شكرا اكتير انس انك وفرتلنا هيك حوارات لتنشأ جيل اوعى واحسن من يلي قبلوا وانك بتعطينا فرصة ما كانت موجودة عند امهاتنا وابائنا جد شكرا ❤
امر رائع ان يكون جيلنا الجديد بهذا الوعي
مجرد شفت حلقتين من البرنامج اليوم اللي هي هاي والحلقة عن الرجولة يعني المناقشات والاراء اللي تنطرح بالحلقات وموضوع الحلقات بحد ذاته يخليك تفكر مرة ومرتبن باللي انت تعرفه او اللي تعتقد انك مقتنع فيي والواقع يمكن انت بس تحس انك مقتنع لان تعتقد مافي شكل ثاني غير اللي انت تعرفه
برنامج حلو والحلقات الخاصة هاي ايضا جميلة تحس نفسك كاعد وياهم بالحلقة وكلنا جالسين نتناقش بمواضيع فعلا تستحق اننا نتناقش فيها
شكرا الك وللفريق كله على البرنامج الجميل هذا 👍
حيل حبيت جملتك( تحس انك مقتنع لان تعتقد ما في شكل ثاني غير اللي انت تعرفه ) عظيمه هالجمله لحظه تفكير وصمت 🤍🤍🤍
I hope you could have a separate episode with Ms. Tracy. Her views are so refreshing and very informative. What an eye opening sit down. 👏🏼
Me to
THIS IS BY FAR THE BEST INTERVIEW I'VE WATCHED ANAS. Huge Respect. It literally felt like I was sitting down in the saloon having a discussion with my friends. We need a part 2 100%. Would love to see more people from our generation talk about these issues. These guests were wonderful, each with their unique point of views. Would've loved to hear more from each one of them. It would also be nice to talk about mental health in the Arab society!!
من احلا الحلقات لمست فيني اشياء كثير
والحمدالله في ناس نفس تفكير استمر في الإبداع ا. أنس وهذي الحلقه متأكده بتلهم المرأة و الرجل لكي يتفهم ما تمر فيه.
تحياتي
Naido NAILED it! loved his insightful quick interventions!
That Spanish girl "beside her killing kindness and beauty" spoke the truth but was not given the chance to fully interpret her thoughts.
Mama Hala being in her element "felt like the moderator of the session".
Tracy and Anas "the fiminist jury" I mean people in the culture we're living in, are progressing but still have long way to go.
Hanin Alzaben Glad to see you enjoyed it. Good assessment, and when you have the Queen, you have to let her do her thing. 💛
اهلا انس، حابه اشكرك على الحلقه الجميله من جد ساعدتني كثير، انا عمري ٢١ وامي اصرت علي ادخل شوفه شرعيه على ولد حلال وصاحب مواصفات عاليه "وما نلقى هالمواصفات كثير" على كلام الوالده، صار لي اسبوع كامل بس متضايقه وجاني اكتئاب على موضوع الشوفه اللي مفروض ما يكون كبير لذي الدرجه بس لان امي ضغطت علي و قلت لها ماودي ادخل عالولد واصرت لا لازم ادخل و اشوف الولد و اتعرف عليه ممكن فعلا نناسب بعض، واليوم بعد ما فكرت جد انا ليش ضاغطه على نفسي وجايبه لنفسي اكتئاب على حساب غيري.. ليش ساكته؟ و رحت كلمت امي و قلت لها تكلم اهل الولد ان الموضوع مابيصير شوفه ولا شيء والله يوفقه. وفعلا حسيت هم وانزاح . سعادة الانسان بيده وهذا قرار كبير لازم كل انسان يعرف فعلا ايش يبي من حياته مو الناس تختار لك و تقرر عنك مصيرك.
One of my dreams Anas : is to sit front of you, in an interview on your channel, you touch the soul with your attitude, question style and by your high level of education, Anas abu bukhash, I'll remember this name as i know operah Winfrey, lucky us that you have this channel on RUclips to let us see great examples of men 👏
I am from Kazakhstan, but MAAAAN oh Mann!! I could SO DEEPLY relate to this topic . Even on the level where I recently got a haircut just to try something new/ I am 24 and my parents thought it was my way to express rebellion, I remember my mom even saying "you're at peak of your sexuality" and my brother even was like "why did you do that to yourself?" as if my body belongs to my family instead of myself. Yow people, I just got a haircut. I didn't go bald. Anyway, Anas thank you so much for touching on to this subject. BTW it is my FIRST EVER COMMENT ON RUclips!!! It just proves how deeply I am thankful for the work like this video you do! Thank you!
Ami Kurman TY 🙏🏽
I relate to this interview so much. I got married when I was 23 but to an amazing person and we love each other so much. I am finishing graduate school, I am almost 26 and I receive a lot of pressure from my families, friends, in-laws about having kids. I was surprised because I grew up as a modern Arab and all of a sudden people are coming left and right asking me when to have kids. Like get off my back. I am living my happiest life right now, travelling endlessly with my husband. And tbh.. having kids scares me. I always think that the stress of having kids will jeopardize our marriage. I know that won't be the case but life is so good without kids I don't want it to change. Lol rant over.
Anas I think you need to have your own show not just youtube. Great interview!
Babies are lovely. الحَمدُ لله. I love kids. الحَمدُ لله.
This needs to be a series please. Make more episodes!!!
When I saw1 hour video, I said to myself I will play this very fast but I will not watch one hour's content. But, I did and I loved it. I love seeing men from my culture think the way you do. And the quality of people you have in your life is amazing. I totally vote for more videos like this one, all of us should help our people open their eyes and see the world for what it is today. I am sharing this one with my mom immediately.
We need a solo interview with Tracy!
agreed
شكراً لكم انكم تعبرون عن اشياء دائماً تجول في خواطرنا وكل مره تكون لها اجوبة مختلفة داخلي لان مااقدر اناقشها بصراحه مع احد .مثل موضوع اذا اختار اني ما اتزوج ولا اجيب اولاد .. انا طبيبة واحضر الان الاختصاص لم أرغب يوماً ان انجب طفلاً وهذا شعوري الداخلي فقط . دائماً اهرب من الارتباط بسبب هذا الشعور.لاني اجد نفسي في اشياء كثيره منها عطائي في الطب 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
انا اتفق معاك... الواحد عارف مقدرته وإمكانياته على العطا....
Hala: Your delivery was a nightmare
Anas: Thanks
This killed me😂😂
Nour Walid 😂
All of us i think 😂😂😂
Your mom is look so pretty
@@radhasaha1413 Her beauty is strikingly gorgeous. 🥰
Very interesting topic.
I think women don't talk about experiencing postpartum depression because it's also something new to them. A perfectly healthy and smart woman who just gave birth can experience it and not know that she is already experiencing it, so, that is also why it's hard to talk to men about it. It's too much for a woman to handle everything and sometimes, words aren't enough. A human being just came out of this woman, and she has to deal with her body and the changes that happened. Imagine her looking at herself in the mirror and realizing that her stretch marks will never go away and that her c-section scar will be there for the rest of her life. All of these things, plus the pressures of parenthood and society and that yearning to still be the person that you are despite all of the changes is a lot to take in. It's really important for men to be proactive in their roles as husband and father during this stage.
كلام غايه في الروعة خصوصا احنه الجيل الي اصغر منكم وعلى وجه الزواج او متوقع منا الزواج خلتني هذه الحلقه اراجع افكاري عن الزواج لان نفسي لي هسه مامستوعبتها امكانياتي طاقاتي حتى ارتبط بي شخص واعيش حياة جديدة من كل النواحي لازم اسيطر على حياتي واختيارتي قبل لا اخذ هذه الطفرة النوعية مثل تجربة الزواج وان يكون عندي اطفال واهتم بطفل واربي صعبة عقلي يستوعبها رغم اني اعشق الاطفال فا هي مو بس حفلة وفرحوا الاهل هذه حياة راح يعيشوها وحدهم بدون الكل بمشاكل ومصاعبها وسعادتها والهبوط والصعود اعيد واقول حلقة جميلة وياريت تسوون سلسلة وحلقات عن هذا المواضيع وابعادها
Hi, I was just going through this video again and I realized you said you yourself were married for 9 years and divorced. I would like to hear you talk about this in detail if you ever feel comfortable. The reason why I am asking, I would like to hear a man's perspective on divorce and what hardships you had faced being a man calling or deciding on letting go of your marriage. We hear in-depth about women's' hardship, anxiety, and closure quite often but I have never heard a raw emotional ride a man goes through within this process.
Mind you that it is a mere suggestion not tryna raid your business.
Much love and God bless.
This is a brilliant idea...
Is Anas married?
احس كلامكم صح ,لكن الكلام اسهل من الفعل يعني انا مثلا اهلي ما يغصبوني اتزوج لكن الضغط الكبير اللي يحطونه علي وايد حتى لو ساعات يقولونها بالمزح بس خلاص تطفر من ها الكلام وححتى لو البنت قويه ومصره على رايها ما تبي تتزوج ومقتنعة بخيارها الناس دايما بيحسسونها بالنقص لو شو ,وانا حرفيا من تخرجت من الثانوي وعمري 18 لين احين عمري 22 وكل حد يسالني متى اتزوج او يحاولون يقنعوني بالززواج مع اني جدا صغيرة على هذا الشي صح اني اوقف وارد عليهم بس والله ياثر واييد
تبقى حسب انتي اعتقادج وتفكيرج ماله علاقه
لا تتخذيه قرار من الثوابت....
ممكن انك اتخذتيه في وقت معين وظروف معينه لكن ممكن تجي لحظه وتتغير أفكارك إحتياجاتك متطلبات حياتك ....يعني ...المتغيرات هي القاعده الثابته في هذه الحياه
حرفيا اعيش هذا الضغط عمري 35 وطنشي لا تردي احسن خليهم يسمعو صدى صوتهم
ترا موضوع سخيف جداََ و محرج عشان الوجه الثاني له انهم يبون يعرفون متى انت بتمارس الجـ*ـس و شو دخلهم بهل موضوع الا لو عندهم شذوذ بحث اخر
عزيزتي ارضاء الناس غاية لا تدرك واحب ان اخبرك سوف يشعروك بلنقص دائما اليوم يقولون متى تتزوجين وغدا متى تنجبين وبعدها سيقولون انجبي المزيد وسيقولون لقد اهملتي نفسك او اطفالك او زوجك او يقولون لما تفعلي كذا وكذا لما شكل اطفالك ليس كذا كذا انها مآساة لا تنتهي صدقيني فلا تهتمي لهم وركزي على نفسك وان جاء الزوج المناسب تزوجي لاجل لنفسك لا لاجل الناس
It's odd how the topics we talk about the least are the ones we most need to connect and grow. Shared life experience is powerful. Thank you for having beautiful humans and stimulating our minds with your conversations. Such an interesting interview. You're doing a great job Anas.
حلقة جميييلة.. تمنيت مادام كلكم عرب تتكلمون باللغة العربية والترجمة انجليزي❤️❤️
الانسان يتكلم بطريقه الي تريحه ويحس انه يقدر يعبر فيها انا اتكلم انقليزي وعربي مع بعض وماشوفه غلط لاتتحكمين ب غيرك علشان يعجبونك احترمي طريقتهم
كان افظل
Veronica is not Arabic
Tracy is the best!!! She needs a solo interview.
I honestly didn’t want it to end!! One of the best chapters...looking forward for the next one💯
كان خاطري يقولون بهد انه بعد الإجباري انه حتى بحياتنا الطبيعيه انه كل مانبا نسوي شي حتى لو بقص شعري لما تتزوجين لما اي قرار او خاطر لما بتتزوجين ف يصير بعد كانك تنتظر بس تتزوج عشان تحقق أحلامك ومرات يتعمدون يدمرونك ويخلونك مبهدل عشان تيأس وتقول الزواج بينقذني عقبها تصير كارثه أخرى عالعموم جميله المقابله ❤️❤️❤️
الحلقة جميلة ... بالفعل المشكلة ان كثير من الناس عندهم توقعات غير واقعية بالنسبة للزواج و تربية الأبناء و العلاقات بشكل عام... يمرون علي بنات ودي اهزها و اقولها اصحي... انا تعلمت متأخر ان اللي يناسبك او يناسبج مب شرط يناسبني و العكس صحيح.... كل انسان يمشي في مساره الخاص لان كل واحد فينا مميز
I wish to hear more things by Tracy, especially on women empowerment!! It would be so interesting ❤
I love this!!!
We need more episodes like this one.
When I saw the title I said to my self I will skip the children part because I am not that interested about them ,but wallah I was so shocked of how beautiful this debate, that I didn’t skip a second I even reply some of it ,
well done all of you touched my heart sincerely.. and I would be happy to see another episode like this may god bless you all
A big applause to this team. Amazing talk! Something I never knew I will come across. Walla, well done👏👏
This is what I needed to hear. I think every women should watch this episode. So refreshing, so relating, connecting and a very good reminder to everyone that it’s okay to not be all the same. I’m a woman and I come from an Arabic background. The amount of times I said that I don’t want to be a mother or a wife is countless and each time I was attacked, for my own opinion for wanting something for Me. So we are grateful to people like you Anas for bringing up such topics so open with respect and awareness.
I like the discussion, but could you please invite each one of them
separately, I would love to know more about Tracy Harmoush and Nuraddin Abdo, but I respect all your guests. Thanks for your efforts
The conversation with all the guests very informative so kind, my favorite part was when u said kids don't ask to be born so a parent shouldn't expect things. Tracy my God i love her and anu just amazing. Ur mother love her, God bless all of you
It's such greatt topic and as somali teenager i can see this things such as forcing girls to get married or pressuring them to find someone for themselve or let there parents to arrange for them is really something that we should be aware of and it's really happening alot in my home country somalia.
So thank you anas and everyone whom participated in this episode because maybe not alot of Somalis will hear this but i will try to spread the concepts that i learned from this video.
All love,
Abeer
Abeer Abdalle TY Abeer. 🙏🏽
Loved the episode so much and really felt that it touched me !!! وجداً سعيدة و فخورة انه أشخاص بمجتمعنا قاعد يحاولون يوصلون هذا الوعي بطريقة جدا مقنعة! فعلا استمعت بكل لحظة بالحلقة ، شكرا💙
I am a midwife and i hear so many stories and I know endless experiences and I also always be there when mothers are having baby blues so I think it's a very important topic to talk about and it requires more than one video... Great work I hope you'll talk about more topics
صعوبة الحياة انها لا تقدم لنا كل مانتمناه او نتوقعه...اللهم كن معنا
يعني اخوي انا حرفيا تغيرت حياتي من صرت أشاهد برنامجك والمواضيع اللي يتم نقاشها وتمنيت لو كنت اعرفك في حقيقه واتعلم منك أكثر لانا انت بجد شرف كبير لي كل شخص انا اتكون في حياته ربنا يوفقك واحب الوالده جدا مثال لكل أم وان شاء الله راح اربي عيالي مثل ماربتكم شكرا لك
المشكلة احنا نتكلم عن الاطفال والزواج وكأن احنا بيدنا دائما اننا نتزوج ونخلف وننسى انوا احيانا حتى لو بغينا اذا ربي مو كاتب لنا ماراح تتم هذي الاشياء وننسى انوا احنا لازم نكون راضين عن حياتنا بحلوها ومرها بفلوس او بدون بزواج او بدون باولاد او بدون وهذا مايعني انوا احنا مانسعى للافضل طبعا
أخيرا بعد سنين كنت أبا اشوف حد يتكلم في هالمواضيع والحمد لله ماقصرتو ❤️❤️
طرحت الحلقة تساؤلات جذرية عامة وعميقة، و لكن استغرب من تحضير الحلقة التغطية على ذكر دور الدين في اغلب القرارات اللي بتتخذها مجتمعاتنا العربية ، الدين شيء خاص وعام بنفس الوقت و يناسب كل زمن و هو اساس ومسلك حياة حتى و ان يشاب الدين بالتقاليد التي لم ينزل الله بها من سلطان يضل اساس قوي لايمكن التغطية على اثر ذكره في من المقابلات العصرية .
loved the fact that the gusts were different regarding their life situations and the subject of this talk is much needed for us as Arabs thank you Anas
Sarah Abdullah 🙏🏽
This is the best and most interesting interview ever watched..
Good job Anas👍
Sahithya Akula 🙏🏽
I turned 26 today and as a woman in the middle east I have the same perspective as Tracy and Hala and my parents r so supportive (even close relatives) BUT the society is not that supportive🙄and that’s the reality! When I meet people as a woman, when I say hi and ask them how they r doing, the question I get is so is there anything going on? (Marriage)...all they think is that for me to b successful is for me to b a wife and mother! They don’t see it they way I see it, my education is my happiness and Alhamdellah I got my masters and I’m planning to pursue it further☺️but it’s not acceptable in this region at all! I love babies and all i wanted ever since I was a little girl is to have kids! And inshallah I will!🙄idk but Anas the moment u said u r 26 i started laughing😂thanks for reminding me i still have time and the society’s pressure shouldn’t bother me
Sooo interesting!!
The choice of the guests was on point 😍😍
I would love to hear and get know Tracy more she is amazing ❤❤
شكراً من القلب , حلقه مثريه استمعت و لم احس بالوقت ♥️ ابدعتوا
Nido is a boss! Interview with Nido alone, please.
في اشياء نتفق معاكم فيها وفي اشياء لا
تبقى كل تجربة لها طعمها الخاص
طيب هم قالو كذا
Can't get enough of these interviews, please make Part 2
الله اخيييرا جاب الوالدة العظيمه💛💛💛💛
This was AMAZING these 3 women are beautifuuuuuuul inside out mashalah 💙 and the guys were so openminded about it, showed so much respect, ugh i am highly touched, impressed, and actually happy to see this kind of conversation being held. Thank youuuu, and please make this a series lol i'll binge watch it ❤
Thank you so much Anas, I’m amazed in the topics you discuss in your interviews. Be sure that you’re helping a lot of people through your RUclips channel, I’m one of the people who is learning new things from the interviews you’re doing with people who have experienced social issues in the their life. Support you from the deepest of my heart.
Your mother is so precious 🥺❤️
Hala is adorable. ❤
طرح جميل ، من النادر نشوف الرجال يتحدثون عن هذا و خاصة الوعي في الاكتئاب بعد الولادة ،،
والاجمل تنوع الحديث و الاراء المختلفة تجعل الشخص يتفكر ،،
ولكن من رائيي الشخصي دون وضع احكام ، فقط للمشاركة و التفكر ،،
اعتقد الردود مبنيه على تجاربهم و مثل ماقلت انت في بداية الحلقة مافينا نطبق هذا الكلام او نقارن على الجميع لان الكل له تجربة الخاصة ، البعض ياخذ ردة فعل مباشرة او عكسية لمجرد عاش تجربة ماعرف كيف يتصرف فيها ، فا لو كانت العلاقة غير جيده مع عائلتي وتعاملوا معاي كطفل بطريقة غير جيدة عقلي بيقولي لا تتزوجين و راح احط اسباب مقنعة لذلك مهما كانت صحيحة لي، أو كانت العلاقة رائعة لدرجة التملك، اثر التعلق بياثر علي و عقلي يوجهني للبحث في حياتي عن اشخاص للتعلق فيهم ، كانها دوامة 🌀 ماتنتهي ونكرر قصصنا بشكل او باخر بوعي او بدون .
السؤال هو ،، اذا في كل الحالات السابقة هو طريق مؤذي لنفسك قبل الاطفال و الاخرين ،، لماذا ربي وضع كلمة ( زواج ) ؟! وهل هناك اتزان للسير في هذا الطريق بشكل سليم وليس اقصد خالي من العيوب الاننا بشر ؟!
شكراً لمشاركتنا حلقات تقودنا للتفكر و العودة لانفسنا و فطرتنا ،، 🙏🏻
كل التقدير و الاحترام و اتمنى لكم التوفيق 😊
اشكرك وفاء لانك طرحتي رايك في الحلقة
اوافقك الراي في الكثير مما قلتيه
Fantastic line up and discussion. So many pertinent points made. Look forward to episode 2 with the same panel.
such an amazing episode, and what your mother said at the end and questioned about made me really think about what I really wanna do in life... especially that I'm still 19 and I just started studying. I think now I know what is the things that suits me and what doesn't. Thank you Anas!.
I can literally live on these therapeutic AB talks.. This is extremely valuable.. I love your show.
Plz have Tracy soon, she’s very smart and has a vision that is worth listening to..
thanks again Anas..
Hala has a very strong point about young girls and the engraving of women's value in marraige and childearing . it starts from the moment they are able to comprehend language . it takes certain experiences and a chance to be able to step outside of that environment to be able to form a different perspective.
How do you know there's a different way of life if you've never seen or heard of it .
حلقه ما تكفي عن ذا الموضوع .. حبيييتها جدا
لو كان الحوار باللغة العربية مع الترجمة باللغة الانجليزية يكون أفضل بكثير ...
حتى يكون يكون بإستطاعتنا التركيز بالحوار وليس بالترجمة 😢😢
لك الف تحية اخي انس من مملكة المغربية جد برنامج هادف يناقش جميع عقليات وفي اخير نتفق على انو كل واحد له وجهة نظر خاصة بيه بس نلتقي في نقطة واحدة وهي احترام اراء بعضنا
I think that all this talk from anas and hala is based on previous resentment (with all do respect) I listened to a lot of previous interviews done by him and it's all the same vibes. yes, I can't say that the culture is affecting a lot but that only influenced ppl in the 90s but we are getting out of it in noticable ways. the world is such a diverse place now in a way that there are no rules anymore so I don't believe that the programming thing about marriage discussed is there anymore, it is just a matter of perception just like what tracy said. I liked tracy point of view it made the most sense.
الحلقة من كثر ماهي مشوقة و كمية التجارب الحياتية و المعلوماتية فيها خلتني تعيد كل جزء اكثر من مرة .. انس حرفياً تفوقت على نفسك فيها 🌟👏🏻💜
Yooooo this interview was absolutely informative, and I always like when you host this kind of interview/group discussion it’s just mind blowing part 2 please✌🏻💛💛💛
﴿ وَذَكِّرْ فَإِنَّ الذِّكْرَىٰ تَنفَعُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ ﴾
- سُبحان الله
- الحَمد لله
- لا إله إلا الله
- الله أكبر
- أستغفِرُ الله
- لا حَول و لا قوة إلا بالله
- سُبحان الله و بِحمده
- سُبحان الله العَظيم
- اللهم صلِ و سلم على نبينا محمد.
نظرة المجتمع مستحيل تتغير عن ذا الموضوع واذا كنت حاسس بسعاده راح يضغطوا عليك ويحبطوك
كل شي يتغير بس ممكن يحتاج وقت اطول.. لا تصكرين الابواب.. افتحيها.. تفكير الشعوب يتغير مع الوقت ممكن سنوات طويله
Okay we totally need more parts of this 🤩 also we need a whole different ep with each of tracy and nido I loved they're way of thinking and I'd love to get to know them a little bit more ❤ looking forward for the next one..
It's important to mention religion. It's in the holy Quran that marriage is half of the religion. Programmation isn't just societal.
love this topic. I really appreciate when parents support their children about marriage in our youth time. Even when the children think they are ready for it but parent see u are really not ready yet. so they take time to help you really experience the idea about marriage and makes us not focus what society thinks. it also comes to the environment you are place in, the human behavior you are brought up or where you choose to involve yourself in. if you chose to get married then educate yourself and if u married allow yourself to let out the things you are struggling with. coming from west Africa , move to an Arab country living there and now in western country there so many complex way. you got to define yours. love this talk and my respect to Hala.
Amazing i just watched a video of one hour without getting bored. It was really interresing to heard them discuss and debate in peace and calm. Great video!
I was excited about this topic ❤️
Wow, I think if I started commenting about this episode I won’t stop. So rich talk (bear with me 😅)
Mrs Hala, the moderator 😁, amazing way of interpreting & analyzing each point said by the incredible guests. She’s amazing. Why were you so in a rush to come into this world man?! 😂😅
Nooruddin, I wonderful listener as always, and really nailed it with his “must points”. I loved it when he mentioned how unaware he was about the after delivering depression periods his wife went through. It’s very important that many men really listen to this cause this could last for a while and separation decisions could be taken without realizing the real issue.
I could relate to many of what Vero mentioned, living in a big family where everyone is kinda close & you enjoy their company you feel that you actually want your kids to experience the same, but at the end it’s everyone’s own decision & not an obligation.
Tracy, I loooooved her, so calm & wise. She’s absolutely right, happiness has nothing to do with getting married or having children, it’s not the only version. We need a friend, a partner, a companion, if it happen then it’s cool, if not, we’re satisfied with ourselves. Hope she finds the right one (are men around her blind or what ?!!😒)
I loved the idea you said that if men can’t understand then talk to them, I think the best way to maintain any relationship is “communication”, and it should be bi-directional, whether in this topic or any other topic.
Guys, you really have a lot to share, each point, each idea, experience of each one of you, , keep these special episodes going, 1st but not last.
Wish you all all the best from the bottom of my heart.
Shahnaz Al-Qassab TY for sharing. 🙏🏽
حلقه رائعه فيها من الوعي والتقبل ااكثييير ممتنه لكم جدا جدا جدا
I love this episode, but I would hope if you guys could discuss some of the topics in a series form;
1) Expectations from marriage, partner and children.
2) Healthy mindset for a healthy marriage.
3) Responsibilities for both genders in a marriage.
4) Values vs Traditions that affects marriages.
*Take away notes from this video:*
1) Make sure you are getting married for the right reasons.
2) Don't depend on marriage to offer you something that you failed to give yourself (e.g, self love, happiness. etc.)
3) Differentiate between your values and the thoughts that society ingrained in you.
4) Marriage is not as easy as it seems, it is a partnership so no one can "complete" their partner.
5) Success and happiness is defined differently depending on the person.
6) "Don't put all your eggs in one basket."
7) Children will imitate their parents so you should live as an example of what you would hope they would be.
8) A man is not the answer for your happiness or fulfillment.
9) Manage your expectations.
Lubna 0 👌🏽
Amazing! Hope this will lead to a series with these guests.
I am a 38 year lady who is not married and does not have a children. Personally, this conversation did not bring something new to what I have already heard. I was waiting for someone to address things as they are (my expectation) and not hide behind your finger.. What about the sexual need ( it is a need/ not just a desire), what about the emotional neeed to be a mum and have your own kids>???? I understand that you have to be your own person and have a life before becoming someone's partner, but if you have achieved all that, do noy u think that we have to fill those needs? It is not an arab related issue, it is a humanistic issue. ? No body addressed these issues better than our prophet PbUH ( all young men, whoever can get married, he/she must do it. It is very much better. Thanks
من أجمل الفيديوهات اللي حضرتها عاليوتيوب كلوا، كتير بتعلم و كتير مفيدة، و لازم كل ناس تحضر هل فيديو و تاخد العبرة الصح من المقابلة شكرا أنس❤
تستاهل ألف مليون متابع يا أخي ! اسلوبك في الحوار روعة 🔥♠️
Wow I’m super excited to the point that I’m first
Nore El Hadri 😁
الزواج صحيح ماهو هدف لكن ماهو بدري على اي غمر لاني في ناس يحتاجون هذا الشي زي اي كائن موجود في الأرض يتكاثر ونحن نحتاج نكون في علاقه عاطفيه لأنها من أبسط احتياجات الانسان و الزواج ماهو الزامي بس بعد الي يبون يصونون نفسهم بالحلال من عمر بدري في منظوركم هو بالنسبة له وقت مناسب اجل ٢٦ بيبي! مو افكر كذا لاني عربية لاني منطقه واحترم وجهه نظركم واتمنى تخترمو الي يبون يتزوجون بعد سن النضج الكل له الحق انه يكون زوجه أو زوج بعد تحقيق ششروط الزواج
الرضا والقناعه اساس السعاده🤍🤍 وما ننكر المال والبنون زينه الحياه الدنيا
أنس شكرا لك على هذه الحلقة، فعلا مهم نعرف وين سعادتنا وشو بدنا مش بس توقعات، وبلا مقارنات ، وهل نحن حمل كافي لمسؤولية الزواج، بتوقع قلة ثقافتنا عن دستورنا القرآن والسنة و الصحابة سيرتهم بتأدي لأفكار غريبة، احنا بحاجة نسمع أكتر عن مواضيع الحياة، وكيفية العيش لنيل الآخرة
حبيت الحلقة كانت ممتعه واستفدت اشياء كثيره 👏🏻🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Excited! And a great topic.
Dorita D'souza Enjoy 🙏🏽
Anas I think your mom needs her own channel, she is so wise Mashallah.
Very Informative Anas, great topic discussed with some amazing input by all the guests - Just thinking if 'Our Parents' would have the same mentality as against marriage and kids, how would we "UNIQUE" kids come about this beautiful world and contribute to this world in our "UNIQUE" ways.....I think this lack of knowledge or awareness in today's world regarding marriage and kids, especially when you mention Arab world is Islamic knowledge -I think it is in the best interest to marry and raise good kids, as people humans change after marriage and kids, we all have our flaws and problems, still however there are very few bad marriages etc.
Kids as they grow up should have that inclination to support and be of service to their parents especially to their mums who raised them with great difficulty as our religion mentions.....
This is the only show that I could read its comment confidentially . Thank you for such diamonds. One question are you existed in this earth guys or do you have copies? 😂😂
What an interesting topic. I really enjoyed this eye opening conversation, keep up the good work ABTalk team.
And yes I would like to see interview with Tracy.
يالله قد ايش هاذي الحلقه لامستني فعلا و انا جدا مبسوطة ان ترايسي كانت من ضمن هاذي الجلسه لانها تعكس حال بنات كثير وانا اولهم .
So inspiring 💡 , it is hard to unprogram these ideas and not so many people talk about them and these types of conversation are a wonderful way to start talking about such problems . I deeply deeply appreciate you and your mothers approach to change such reality ... and the guests ughhhh I already virtually love them 😂 but more love is now added TRACY is such an inspiring women ... thank you for this great great effort
Aside from the content, the amazing interviews, i really love hearing and watching the intro 😂😂🥰🥰
Love this so much💞💞💕
Loved every second of the video, very constructive loved the good choice of the guests, perfect debate 👌
Anas good job! I would love to see you as a guest on your own show Plz
All of the guests had amazing insights. Please, PLEASE, we need more of these kinds of conversation, especially coming from and addressing the Arab world.
This hands down one of my favourite videos in this channel!
So excited to watch this epic talk
Thank yu for this amazing conversation very interesting
Fantastic topic 👌💚
من الآن هذا البرنامج أعتبرها مدرسة أفكار تزيد من إدراكنا وتوعية وإكتساب معلومات قيمة 💚
متابعة لكم من الفلبين ❤️