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6 Things Girls Wish That Guys "JUST KNEW"

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  • @amauryantoine418
    @amauryantoine418 4 months ago +194

    What girl don't realize.... is that as men....
    we feel the same 😭

  • @RichardSheaves-Bein
    @RichardSheaves-Bein 4 months ago +137

    Some comments from a guy who's been married for 31 years....
    #3: Consistency vs. intensity. The #1 reason that guys lower their intensity is not that they feel comfortable. It's because they don't see any reciprocation from the woman. And the message we've been hearing from women is that if we don't start with that intensity, we're not worth it. And also, it's really hard to maintain a high level of intensity. Of course effort diminishes after a while, otherwise we burn out. We don't, DO NOT, like the chase. But we're consistently told that women are turned off by not being chased. When we hear "If a guy isn't willing to drop 100 dollars for a first date, don't bother", asking for consistency at that point is unsustainable. Plus, every woman has a different opinion of what level of energy and commitment is acceptable. Asking us to 'just know' that IS mind-reading.
    #5: Her noticing little things: If a woman notices changes in a man's behavior before he's noticed the reason that it's happening, then her pushing to dig deep into whatever it is looks to him like she's trying to tell him how he feels rather than accept his rate of processing it. This is incredibly uncomfortable to men. Also, he may be concealing it as a way of protecting her (depending on the level of the relationship) from events and stresses that he's not ready to share with her yet.
    #2 and #5: Noticing little things in general: What these two are saying, together, is that men should change how they work with relationships to the way that women do. This is asking for a change to how men have been socialized for their entire lives (possibly even longer, evolutionary roles also play a factor in this). This is not to say that that is completely a bad thing, both men and women could do well to learn and adapt to how the other processes emotions and relationships, but to mention one without admitting the existence of the other is problematic.
    #6: Wants you to care without being told how: I'm sorry. This one is just setting the man up for failure. EVERY woman has different standards for how she wants to be cared for. Some are common, of course, but if a woman wants specific behaviors from a man, she's going to have to use her big girl words and let him know what she wants/needs. One saying that I have that has saved me a lot of pain and heartache in my relationship is: "Until such time as mechanical, reliable, and affordable telepathy becomes available, mind-reading IS NOT, and WILL NOT BE, part of my job.".
    I realize that a lot of this may be useful in the companion "What guys wish girls just knew" video. By all means, feel free to utilize as you like.

    • @potatobro5096
      @potatobro5096 3 months ago +6

      Agreed with #3 and I have an addition. Too many women want an emotional rollercoaster and will think consistent = boring.

    • @idktbh_idk
      @idktbh_idk 3 months ago

      ​@potatobro5096EXACTLY

    • @abraxastulammo9940
      @abraxastulammo9940 Month ago +3

      Amen, been told afterwards what she secretly expected from me and that we don't fit together for that reason is just not very fair or mature as long as mind reading is not a thing. 🥴

    • @thestudent-pr0
      @thestudent-pr0 Month ago +2

      Wow

  • @Zeuus893
    @Zeuus893 4 months ago +85

    You say girls like consistency over intensity and that if a man stops doing things after a while, girls hate that, because its like the guy would like the chase instead of the person, but the reality is, no man likes to chase, they just do it to have a chance to be with the woman. And if a girl demands things like that forever the guy feels like he is a buttler insteat of a parter, so pls dont get it twisted and be thankful you get the chase in the first place.

    • @adarshuchiha2935
      @adarshuchiha2935 4 months ago +9

      True

    • @AshYT-jv5sk
      @AshYT-jv5sk 3 months ago +2

      If you can't handle a chase, you never cared enough anyway.

    • @JedidiahHan
      @JedidiahHan 3 months ago +16

      ​@AshYT-jv5sk so the girl who isn't chasing doesn't care by your logic 😅

    • @AshYT-jv5sk
      @AshYT-jv5sk 3 months ago

      ​@JedidiahHanGirls are a bit different than boys. What I said applies to the masculine gender (PROBABLY inclusive of transgendered males), not females.
      Females want men to PROVE their love. They may care, but they won't accept you just because you PROFESS you do, you need to display it in live action. They're just experimental like that.

    • @urielmartinez2161
      @urielmartinez2161 2 months ago +1

      @AshYT-jv5skthis. But it also has its limits

  • @StephenAppiagyeiPoku
    @StephenAppiagyeiPoku 3 months ago +14

    I correct me if I'm wrong but this video is more for when you want to show a girl you care without coming off as desperate with bland words.
    In conclusion: Actions speak louder than words

  • @Hippington
    @Hippington 4 months ago +6

    Clippy would never expect you to be a mind reader.
    If men received unconditional love, we would be more willing to give it.

  • @AlekThink
    @AlekThink Month ago +2

    Her: you didnt notice my scarf
    Me: babe, i have no idea even about what i was wearing

  • @-KorruptionOfLight-
    @-KorruptionOfLight- 4 months ago +16

    I'm a guy and I do much of this already, but if a girl isn't attracted to you in the first place, this all is fruitless and won't be seen. This is for boyfriends.

    • @Eros_000
      @Eros_000 3 months ago

      Yea i agree, if girls dont have interest in you in the first place, then watching this is pointless.

    • @chrisharris6462
      @chrisharris6462 2 months ago

      Close. It's for Chads and Tyrones

  • @CaptiveManAudience
    @CaptiveManAudience 4 months ago +44

    If you want to know, ask.
    If you want us to know, tell us.
    Dont ever expect the other should "just know".
    We live in equality age.
    Women need to do this to their men too.

  • @arcanemite2.081
    @arcanemite2.081 4 months ago +6

    As a guy, I can say that these things are the for guys, or at least for me. I could care less about looks, but if you notice me see these small things and make it known that you see them, then you've just made my week.

  • @silentslayergaming8469
    @silentslayergaming8469 4 months ago +57

    women need to communicate better, and stop getting mad over every little imperfection.

    • @DhanyaPramod1670
      @DhanyaPramod1670 3 months ago +4

      Ok bro now chill out. Don't just put in "women" in there cause at that point your offending women who aren't like that. Just like some boys are Greedy, Lazy Short-tempered and some boys are a damn Gentleman That works for women too. Only some of them are like this but the rest of them are innocent or Probably the nicest people you can ever meet.

    • @silentslayergaming8469
      @silentslayergaming8469 3 months ago +4

      @DhanyaPramod1670I believe you but from my experience, women have hurt me too deeply and I’ve yet to not get betrayed or cheated on by one. They leave over the slightest disagreements

    • @DhanyaPramod1670
      @DhanyaPramod1670 3 months ago +3

      ​@silentslayergaming8469Damn bro.. That must really hurt. As a boy what I would do is probably test them before dating them to see if they are the type I like or the type I dislike.. Yk offering small gifts to see if shes grateful or not, tease her and make fun of her in a playful way to see of she gets mad, sad or just laughs You get what I mean? In my perspective that's what I think the best thing to do before getting into a relationship.

    • @efml
      @efml 3 months ago +1

      Fr and not every woman is the same so we can't really assume

    • @THECREATION-creation
      @THECREATION-creation Month ago

      @efml hey yo what the hell girls will say all men suck and then get mad at men for saying not all men and then say shit like this get out of here

  • @doyokgonzalez
    @doyokgonzalez 4 months ago +3

    Time to call wifey and tell her, "I'm here with you...Everything will be alright"❤

  • @Snorlax054
    @Snorlax054 3 months ago +2

    As a guy, I already do everything besides 4. I just looovvee fixing problems and when there is a problem with a simple solution I jump to fixing without thinking twice.

  • @legodudelol9a
    @legodudelol9a 4 months ago +11

    Huh, as I guy dating the woman of his dreams I watched this thinking I'd learn something new, but much to my surprise I had already pieced together most of this or naturally did it from the get-go despite this being my first relationship. Glad to know that I'm doing somethings right that I thought every guy was already doing.

  • @SKEPTICsss
    @SKEPTICsss 3 months ago +4

    im not sure about the third point , im tired of trying to prove myself wrong but consistency kills attraction .....

  • @sinthiaonik6651
    @sinthiaonik6651 Month ago +1

    1.I can't
    2.I can and I need the same thing
    3.I can't (I don't even understand what it is)
    4.I can't
    5.I can't (I don't understand what it is)
    6.I can't
    Honestly I think I won't gonna put effort in any relationships cuz you love me so love you don't leave I'm not gonna put any effort

  • @MutatedPizzaBoi
    @MutatedPizzaBoi 3 months ago

    If only they could give me 9 micro-subtle hints of what they want, then call me a freak for acting on any of them.

  • @lorischnieders
    @lorischnieders 4 months ago +3

    What if I try to be vulnerable to my crush but subconscious instincts puts up the walls?

  • @KuldeepKumar-kv6yz
    @KuldeepKumar-kv6yz 4 months ago +38

    ok then i have done all of this unintentionally then why the hell i got friend zoned 😑😑

    • @azmodanpc
      @azmodanpc 4 months ago

      Not attractive enough. They want these stuff from the men they want to sleep with and make them wet, not the safe orbiter.

    • @AwTysm0_0
      @AwTysm0_0 4 months ago +14

      some girls don't understand that actual love is someone that can make them comfortable and calm, not someone that make them heart pounding or smt like that. just let her be, she's still trying to figure it out. that or she's just straight up redflag lmao

    • @kri249
      @kri249 4 months ago +1

      Because those girls weren't attracted to you. Being prime boyfriend material doesn't get you around looks. Women really are just as superficial.

    • @Lavinho675ye
      @Lavinho675ye 4 months ago

      Some girls are weird like that

    • @JogadorPessoal-u1p
      @JogadorPessoal-u1p 4 months ago

      Personally I don't hate girls but I live enough to say girls don want comfort they want games and attention be the guy who listens but don't care, stay there but vanish after some time, make she dout about a lot of things of you to make her "happy" be the guy that don't care about there opinions, be the guy that are not desperate for a relationship, be the "bad guy"

  • @brandyxx1873
    @brandyxx1873 Month ago +1

    Le numéro 3 à été ma plus grosse erreur 😔

  • @adarshuchiha2935
    @adarshuchiha2935 4 months ago +6

    3:05 Intensity over consistency and gets angry ..? They want a boy to chase her for life ..? Wtf no boy like to chase a girl if he is trying then show him a little appreciation or just reject him and girl should be more open to talks and ask what she wants rather then being angry and idiotic , we boys try our very best to understand you all so you should try understand us too rather than being selfish.

    • @vgamerbg1000
      @vgamerbg1000 3 months ago

      They want a man who just doesn't stop the little flirts complements and stuff after getting them not like you get a gf and stop loving her

  • @josedavinj3645
    @josedavinj3645 4 months ago +2

    The first video which shows absolutely true facts...very helpful...love it

  • @Ohn-w8h
    @Ohn-w8h 3 months ago +10

    I did see and do all of then but my crush still don't care

    • @chrisharris6462
      @chrisharris6462 2 months ago +3

      This advice is only for Chads and Tyrones. Not for you

    • @AmIne-kw9jq
      @AmIne-kw9jq Month ago

      because she's your crush , not your gf

  • @King_of_Mercenaries
    @King_of_Mercenaries 4 months ago +8

    0:53 I care but I doubt I have the right to

  • @Marinette-z4o
    @Marinette-z4o 4 months ago +27

    Yes absolutely, this is 100% correct

    • @psysigns_YT
      @psysigns_YT 4 months ago +2

      Glad you agree ❤

    • @ahoubus1646
      @ahoubus1646 3 months ago +1

      But why tho

    • @Marinette-z4o
      @Marinette-z4o 3 months ago

      ​@ahoubus1646 i dunno honestly maybe we're just wired that way 😅
      There is also a video on things guys wish girls just knew and honestly watching the two videos opened my eyes to alot of things. It's really up to two people inlove to sit and communicate and understand that they think differently and make it work out 😊

    • @ahoubus1646
      @ahoubus1646 3 months ago

      ​@Marinette-z4owait... Theres an accual video about what guys wish girls knew? And its not 10 seconds long?

    • @Marinette-z4o
      @Marinette-z4o 3 months ago +1

      ​@ahoubus1646 😂😂yes there is
      Thats what i love about this channel actually. The videos are made in two's most of the time that way you can see how men and women think and it really explains alot and helps understand more

  • @supradeepdam3066
    @supradeepdam3066 3 months ago +3

    Thanks for your advice but I still choose to be single because this will work until you are not married after marriage a man duty triples if not more plus if we have children this is next to impossible to carry out now what will be more important focus on career and job or all emotional stability of your family (wife and child)

  • @storypop-k2l
    @storypop-k2l 4 months ago +2

    I agree with these
    Especially sign 2 girls really do love it when their partner or someone they like notice little changes and things about them.

  • @ikntc514
    @ikntc514 3 months ago

    I did everything but failed at 3.
    That was my sincere biggest mistake that cost the love of my life to stop wanting to even ever see me again man

  • @Umeshkanthbuthewill
    @Umeshkanthbuthewill 4 months ago +1

    Basically being a normal human 💔🥀🙏🏽

  • @Kanshemonio
    @Kanshemonio Month ago

    Hah, luckily as a boy, I know all of these! The 5th one was special tho, finally understood it, so true!

  • @Vikingr4Jesus5919
    @Vikingr4Jesus5919 4 months ago +12

    'They just need a guy who tries hard', yeahhhhh...trying hard with what you have can still fall short of what she may perceive as "trying hard".
    I honestly think we just got the whole idea of love over complicated and wrong. I'm of a mind to say, it's nothing more nor less than learning to love the other as you love yourself, to be willing to grow together towards something meaningful -- be it raising a family, writing a meaningful book/story together, farming together, learning new things together intentionally (like philosophy, history, music, art) and allowing each other the space to make mistakes whilst growing. There are few things more trust-building than seeing each other in the vulnerable "this is new to me" state.

    • @Kais-z4p
      @Kais-z4p Month ago

      Stand proud you can cook

  • @harshrajput6291
    @harshrajput6291 3 months ago +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this

  • @gabbo4039
    @gabbo4039 3 months ago

    I understand it now

  • @Minihirsch
    @Minihirsch 4 months ago +5

    about Point 3. I slow down with consistency because i run out of things to say and not because i feel comfortable. After a while it just turns into a chore/job that you feel forced to do but dont want to. And its not because of lack of interest, its because of the same answers you get after a whilewhen you ask "how was your day" or " what are you doing right now ". And to be fair thats normal, 99%of everyones days is the same usual things you do. Your job,chores and hobbys just repeat endlessly. There just isnt much to chatt with each other unless you plan to do something together.

  • @vinukrishna1212
    @vinukrishna1212 4 months ago +4

    I have a new topic for a video. " things guys wish girls knew " and also think it will a lot of girls.
    By the way i love this video and as always i love the effort you put into it too ❤❤❤

    • @psysigns_YT
      @psysigns_YT 4 months ago +1

      Hey friend 😊
      Thanks for the title idea 😊❤
      Will start working on it and post it as soon as I can

    • @vinukrishna1212
      @vinukrishna1212 4 months ago

      ​@psysigns_YT take your time dear ❤

    • @ahoubus1646
      @ahoubus1646 3 months ago

      Dude that video would be like 10 seconds long lol😂

  • @ABCD-k6j2e
    @ABCD-k6j2e 4 months ago +1

    OMG that's true ......... Thank uu for making this video ❤

  • @connorjade5460
    @connorjade5460 2 months ago +1

    And the guy who do all of this will be left alone by the very girl he loved...

    • @pranav.chillss
      @pranav.chillss Month ago +1

      Yeah Fr she never loved me back even after I confessed, she loved another guy and she never gave me a chance , she never shared anything now she says she likes another guy I changed my mind and I stopped putting efforts for good...

  • @Arnab-f5i
    @Arnab-f5i 3 months ago

    Thx I learned a lot today 😸

  • @AliMiri-s3d
    @AliMiri-s3d Month ago

    new word//hintfull❤😂

  • @ManishBhatta-x5z
    @ManishBhatta-x5z 16 days ago

    Do apply to my friends😂😂

  • @OliviaCampbell-k4s
    @OliviaCampbell-k4s 4 months ago +6

    Sign 3 is very true ❤

  • @SkandavelPurushotham
    @SkandavelPurushotham 4 months ago +2

    First i should be a le to find a girl 😢

  • @MihaelaMacukovolieva
    @MihaelaMacukovolieva 4 months ago +1

    Hii sorry for being late😊
    And love the video❤

  • @CharlieAnimates
    @CharlieAnimates 2 months ago

    Lowk why did I think this is a song-

  • @Notfound443
    @Notfound443 4 months ago +5

    my single as watching at night 3 am

    • @mvkk-y2z
      @mvkk-y2z 4 months ago

      Yeah bro, funny right... While in this video the words reiterating like.. "She feels like this... She wants this.." When we are watching this and nodding, understanding seriously, when we don't even have that.. "SHE"...

    • @Notfound443
      @Notfound443 4 months ago

      ​@mvkk-y2z us🤝

  • @voidrix_editz_20
    @voidrix_editz_20 4 months ago +4

    Very helpful but I just don't have a girl 😅

  • @PLZFrosty
    @PLZFrosty 3 months ago

    Ladies, guys are taught to not have emotions. How do you expect us to show things we were taught to discard? It's like... explaining how to race a race car vs actually doing it...
    The manual is great, and I appreciate it, but if I never had the permission to practice, I'll never know what to do. Think about the guys too. Not all of them had the opportunity to learn these things. Give clear signals and well learn it so that it will become second nature

  • @OrrevYT
    @OrrevYT 4 months ago +2

    Im a boy, im just curious about this topic 😄🤣

  • @Greenlightning121
    @Greenlightning121 4 months ago +2

    Wow! Did you notice the mole on your forehead? 😂

  • @goodytyt
    @goodytyt 4 months ago +10

    Why the hell i am even watching thisw ammi in love?

  • @ishigami5071
    @ishigami5071 4 months ago +1

    Once had a talking stage with a girl in my class… she was beautiful, probably the most beautiful in college and one night i talked about how much i liked her hair when it was curly (she straighten it a few months prior) and the next day she curled her hair again…. She was so beautiful but i was too shy to compliment her 😭 i wish i complemented her and told her how beautiful she was but for some reason i thought i would seem like a creep…… now we don’t even talk anymore…. I fumbled hard…. She was a 10/10 and i was a 3/10 🥀 i miss her so much but now she is in another state working a job…. I miss her so much i don’t know how to express it with words

    • @psysigns_YT
      @psysigns_YT 4 months ago +3

      Your story really hits different my friend.
      First, you were not a 3/10 she literally changed her hair for you. That's a huge signal.
      That regret you're carrying? It's heavier than any 'no' you could have gotten. For your own peace, find a way to reach out. Just a simple, honest message. Worst case, you get the clarity you need to move on. Best case? You reconnect. But you'll finally stop wondering 'what if. Do it for past you and so you don't have any regrets 😊❤

    • @Aereptiveyaboi
      @Aereptiveyaboi 4 months ago

      i am so sorry for you brow. follow @psysigns_YT advice tho

    • @AshYT-jv5sk
      @AshYT-jv5sk 3 months ago

      This brings out sympathy.
      Travel to the state! You know where she stays. Get flowers or something - or don't get anything, as gifts pale to actions - and go find her! It's a rare opportunity you have to go find her and tell her how you feel. Please. For your sake, go and talk to her. Failing once can be regrettable, but you have a second chance.

  • @galngamkuki9119
    @galngamkuki9119 3 months ago +1

    Watching this without a gurl btw

  • @IbnoxRu
    @IbnoxRu 4 months ago +4

    This is so true 😂😂
    We tend to overthink sometimes so reassurance every now and then helps❤

  • @Chompify
    @Chompify 27 days ago

    oh

  • @im__Rizx
    @im__Rizx 4 months ago +3

    I'm an 18 year old... Can't I find a wife from the comments of these types of vids?

    • @elpi2804
      @elpi2804 4 months ago +2

      Higher chance to find yourself a partner by actually meeting and talking to them.

    • @NameIsSurya-x3m
      @NameIsSurya-x3m 4 months ago

      Higher chance of finding a bro or a homie from these videos than a wife...
      Wait a f**king minute... Why the f**k you want a wife at 18??
      Nga first get settled in life

    • @priyanshupriydarshi7673
      @priyanshupriydarshi7673 4 months ago +1

      You are 18 there's still like 10 years to think about marriage.

    • @jackdemoncat
      @jackdemoncat 3 months ago +1

      I would.. uhm.. rather get a stable life before thinking about marriage.. Just an advice..
      Just saying, not to preassume you don‘t have one- You‘re just 18 years old and still have a lot to live for. I wouldn‘t start so early with something as important and significant as that.

  • @sudhanshumahurkar2019
    @sudhanshumahurkar2019 4 months ago +1

    Why iam here iam single

  • @SPGM1903
    @SPGM1903 4 months ago +13

    Women want these points to be noticed by guess yet about what men want are such clueless persons...or they know but just don't care. You know, I've been there trying to do ALL those points and choosing a guy that doesn't behave like someone that follows these hints leaving me alone or just as a "friend". So I'm tired of it and if a girl doesn't like me like I am - just go awa and don't waste my time.
    That's why this id makes me angry, because it's such an hiperindividualistic wishful thinking.

  • @Blackpink__blink13
    @Blackpink__blink13 4 months ago +1

    Can you make a video on, signs that they're the one for you?

    • @psysigns_YT
      @psysigns_YT 4 months ago +2

      Hey 👋😊
      Thanks for watching and I love this title idea so I am definitely going to make a video on it so stay tuned 😊
      But it might take a while because I already have scheduled video requests but will definitely make a video on it.

    • @Blackpink__blink13
      @Blackpink__blink13 4 months ago

      ​@psysigns_YTsuree ofc, thanks for considering my suggestion

    • @psysigns_YT
      @psysigns_YT 4 months ago

      ​@Blackpink__blink13 ok then
      Thank you for watching and commenting 😊❤
      Hope you remain a member of the psysigns family

  • @NarutoUzumaki-k4m2p
    @NarutoUzumaki-k4m2p 3 months ago

    I am singal 🤧

  • @ahoubus1646
    @ahoubus1646 3 months ago +5

    Hell nah i aint remembering all that

  • @AkinbamiIfeoluwa-s5c
    @AkinbamiIfeoluwa-s5c 4 months ago

    Can you please do the one for guys

  • @tobi_ziin
    @tobi_ziin 3 months ago

    1st step get a girl..

  • @THECREATION-creation

    Girls are so hard to read I need to watch RUclips tutorials for it
    If I'm being honest
    I just don't want to be lonely anymore

  • @fl4me.mp4
    @fl4me.mp4 3 months ago

    What about the men 😭😭😭

  • @stevelyons2744
    @stevelyons2744 4 months ago +1

    We ain't psychic. Try English.

  • @vgamerbg1000
    @vgamerbg1000 4 months ago +2

    Most of the comments are simply stupid like learn something you don't need these for only your partner you ca use these to comfort your mother or sister afterall they are also girls and you can make them safer using those

  • @niallhamblin
    @niallhamblin 3 months ago

    Sub Jutsu ⚡️ Thank you! 🫡🙇‍♂️😁

    • @psysigns_YT
      @psysigns_YT 3 months ago +1

      Thank you for subscribing 😊❤

  • @Painting-the-stars
    @Painting-the-stars 4 months ago

    I can’t wait for the future when it’s possible I can use the information in this video 😅🥲