remember ladies and gents, they let you go. you gave them everything and they ended it. time to do you for awhile and realize how important and special you are. they lost the best thing that has happened TO THEM.
@@edrinablissg I'm actually doing for a second time but I'm not going back to her. If she can't realize what she had when she had it then so be it. I'm better off without her.
@_ BUDDHA _ What happen exactly? If she cheated or out of nowhere just broke it off then I would completely leave her allow. As man you are the prize and a lucky lady will recognize that. Just do you. If she reaches out don't text her back right a way. Wait like 3-4 hours to. It shows that your busy. If you talk to her on the phone, give it 3 minutes tops and get off first. Don't tell her you miss or you love her. Let her do all of the work but be open. Also don't ask her if she's seeing anyone. That's a sign of insecurities. Keep doing you. If a man had business and woman which one of those are going to leave you quicker then the other. You build a business but a woman is gonna come and go. Im RANTING. MY BAD.
There is no reason to ignore an ex, setting boundaries is way better. Like: I have no interests in being your friend, if u want to work things out i am willing to talk. I respected your breakup, respect my not being friends.
@@TruePathLiving Well for one, it breaks the "no contact" rule. What would that do though? Nothing no contact wouldn't have already implied. Simply not talking to your ex already implies that you have no interest in staying in contact or just being friends. Actions speak louder than words and you're already setting the same boundaries by not talking to them.
Did ‘No contact’ two weeks after the break up, in which there was a lot of arguing and her wanting me to stay friends in which I said no. 6 days into no contact, she called me twice. I didn’t answer. No contact is 100% hard to do. But respect yourself enough to not contact someone who chose to walk away. Let them feel what they lost. If you ever meant anything to them, they will contact you again. And if they don’t ever contact you again, let that be the answer. You deserve so much more! Stay strong, I know it’s hard ❤️
THE NO CONTACT WORKED AND NOW WE’RE BOTH HAPPY AND THE RELATIONSHIP SEEMS HEALTHIER THAN BEFORE. I’m so thankful Thank you for this video ❤️ I’m Forever grateful.
2nd time enforcing NC......trust me, it worked the first time. Thanks Edi. It's so hard to do when you've been with someone so long but watching your videos keeps me sane!
NC works unless they left you FOR someone else. In that case, they've already lost all of the interest and attraction they had for you, and won't even have to feel the pain of losing you because they're too busy being with their new guy.
Im having such a hard time emotionally and physically. My head hurts, my heart hurts, my stomach hurts. I keep throwing up and feeling sick. I just don’t know how to handle this
Pablo Quinoa You’ll be ok. You WILL get through this. I promise. You aren’t alone. The sickness passes. Allow yourself to grieve and don’t think you’re weird or shame yourself. ❤️
Pablo Quinoa I know. But you are strong. You can do literally anything you put your mind too. Focus on you and better yourself. That advice sucks but I promise you’ll see what I’m saying in a few weeks. Because it can make you focus on all the positives too. ❤️
I’m going through exactly the same thing. Talking to family and friends is so all that’s getting me through it. Don’t drink, don’t do any drugs (not yet anyway) as they just make it worse. Hang out with friends and family. It’s all you can do at the stage your in.
lola brini - I have to watch all her videos twice- first under the distraction of her incredible natural beauty, then secondly to actually concentrate to what she’s teaching. She said her boyfriend dumped her!?!? Is he on crack!
Exactly , because its all built off negative energy . Most people ex are probably wishing they respond to the no contact or break up in a NEGATIVE way . When you level your life up it literally shocks them , good point bro .
Kyle hamby.. There's never a way you can cast a love spell by your self.. I can recommend a great and powerful spell caster who helped me get my ex back within seven days..
It’s day 3 of no contact for me. I messed up in the relationship and my girlfriend broke up with me, asked for space, and said we both need to think hard about what we want/need and focus on self-reflection and improvement. It’s rough, I’m always tempted to text her but I know I have nothing of substance to say. I want to respect her wishes and I really want to/have been reflecting on myself, my flaws, and toxic behaviors that negatively impacted our relationship. It hurts to think we may never get back together again, but I know that if I focus on improving myself, I’ll become a better person no matter the outcome. I truly believe like you said, if I improve myself then I will be more appealing to her as well because if I prove to be the same version of myself that I was before, we’ll end up in the same place. I appreciate your advice and experiences!
I'm going through the same thing.I made the biggest mistake of my life.we were together for 5 years.I initiated the break up and regret it.I really took her for granted and want one final chance.Im leaving to the military soon.I told her that no matter if she moves on and dates other people I will always love her.
@@Susanoo179 I believe you still stand a chance to win her love back forever, with Mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good results. Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.
I was never in a relationship with this person but I lost all contact with him because he was in a relationship already and deleting his number,pictures,and removing him from social media really helped and he would text me but I never responded. I’m so glad Im finally getting over him and I realized my worth.
So did you reply to him? I received a missed call from her without any followup text. Was so hard to ignore it but i did. Only wondering as to why she was doing that. It was a straight up call not like whatsapp call or facetime
So I have done the no contact for 2 weeks and my ex contacted me today ask a bunch of questions, how am I how's my family and I have kept my answers short and positive telling him I'm doing great, now what should I do next ?
I have no ex... I don't know why I'm watching this 😂 Last relationship I was in was 3 years ago and I implemented NO CONTACT and they did all these things lol. Simply ignored them haha GREAT VIDEO GIRL👌🏾 You're speaking facts.
After 2 days of no-contact she send me message and wanted to meet. After we met we argue and everything went downhill . Now i decided to go all the way in no-contact . Guys what ever you do don’t fall for the click-bait text msg
I never do , only time i respond is if one SHE takes accountability for what they did i want them to APOLOGIZE and change the way the think and if its issue COMMUNICATE with me
What's your take on begging and pleading for those that made the mistake of doing it. They still find it effective? Also i know the times are different for each but how long was it for yours to contact.
@Apex Animal Hey thank you for your response, I over pursued and got blocked everywhere too, our relationship was only 4 months.. prior we worked together 1 year too. I haven't heard from her since early April, missed phone call she denied making, been Nc since.. i just don't think there's enough that she'll come back and it hurts but hurts different now.. i miss a connection with someone more than having her now.
Edi I think that you are a very genuine girl ; who has suffered alot in your own life , with either failing or abusive relationships . I am continuing to work on myself everyday to become a stronger man with his own sense of purpose and self esteem . I am wishing you a Happy New Year in 2021 ! All the best to you in love & in life ! 01/01/2021 Steven
Your videos are really good cuz they are short and easy to remember... Other videos of other coach are boring cuz most of what they say are what i already know... Make them short and easy...
I’m the one who initiated the no contact period. Can’t be called a break up cuz we were seeing each other for 4 months but I’ve felt so manipulated and used , he was trying to coerce me into accepting a situationship I’ve never wanted at the first place during this short amount of time that I’ve decided to take some distance until I figure my shit out . It’s been 1 week and I feel better day after day . He tried to reach out poorly with a “ hey how r u” and he interrupted the convo ( that I did not even want to feed ) Sometimes like in my case , no contact is to be used to exit yourself from an unhealthy situation , either he/ she realizes you need to discuss then keep the door opened , either there is literally no re questioning from their side , thus there is no point to feed their attempts to reach out
I love watching these videos they make rethink and think about how I feel and that I will feel better. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me and I’m just so confused and mix feelings and he removed me off everything. I’m on day 4 . I hope I feel better
Watching your videos made me realize out there are other girls worth not giving up. You are smart and extremely beautiful. I'm using the no contact strategy for my ex which broke up with me because "I'm too good for her and i should find someone better". If she wanted me to be happy, she wouldn't leave at first place. I hope i feel better soon and move on. I love her extremely much but i don't even know if i want her back anymore. I spent the last days thinking i could never find someone better and that's not the case.
she broke up with me,gave no reason,so I went no contact immediately,shortly after I see and hear she is in another relationship,probably a rebound,,and that ended eventually as well,,after sometime she tried to reconnect but I told her life is hard enough as it is and we all make choices in life,,some good and some bad,,you made yours and I had no choice but to move on in life and find someone that wants the same things in life as I do,,i wished her well in her journey throughout life...shes now mad and still wants to have her cake and eat it to...The lesson here ladies,,,dont blow it with a good guy because there aren't many of us left around.
My ex ghosted me blocked me on mostly everything except Instagram without any explanation, two weeks later he then blocks me on Instagram. I’m confused as to why he just now blocked me on there, like we've been no contact for two weeks, what made him decide to do it now?
Yea he found some other chick , we usually do that when we get a female we been wanting . I strongly encourage you to level your life up T . Get yo credit right , hit the gym if you can and pick up new hobbies
What if 3 weeks into no contact they text you, “hey”. shouldn’t you respond casually and act like you don’t care, rather than just ignore? I feel like if you’re dry to the person they might want to keep texting you because it’ll create some mystery. And if they ask, “how are you doing?” Is it good to say you’re doing good or great, and tell them something interesting like, “I’ve been good, finally got a haircut” ? And then just let them do the talking until the conversation is over and wait for them to text you again. Is that a good idea?
I just came back (this is 2 months later) to let yal know, I DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT THE GUY I WAS FULL ON HEART BROKEN ABOUT. LOL You are just experiencing withdrawals because you might of texted, saw each other a lot. Time will make it feel so much better trust me. Even if my mind thinks about him, it is that I am so glad I went through it! Because it taught me more about what I REALLY do want in a man and what I'm willing to accept in the future! You are stronger than you think guys!! So much love
Hey Coach... About two weeks ago my girlfriend dumped me and I was needy and begged her not to give up on us. I offered to bring her clothes to her house or meet up to get her clothes from me and she refused and said that she will come get them her after the Quarantine period... I sent her an sms two days later to explain my actions and she replied with a long message about how I took her for granted and how she hoped I'd learn and change my ways, but she didn't even tell me about those issues to start with and said "it's not that she doesn't think about me, she is just deeply hurt" . I asked to call her the following day she said "at this point I don't want to talk" and I replied "I respect that" than I went silent. It's been 2 full weeks of NO CONTACT since I spoke to her and going on 3 weeks now... She has not contacted me and I am worried that I have lost her... Am I on the right path or should I just forget she'll come back?
Its been 3months of nc since she broke up with me and blocked me(2years of relationship), these days she unblock me and didn't answer or call me, ive just noticed it because her picture showed again but I did not contact her.. So she blocked me again 3 days later (whatsapp) 😔, I guess she was thinking I was going to text her desesperate like I always did
Dear be strong...am kind going through the same thing here...i don't know why some people hurt us and play with our emotions even after showing and showering them with love... Let it be...the best is yet to come...
@@edrinablissg Thank you, i speak from being in that position, Curiosity.. no matter who it is.. always beats you. What's the harm in a little peak will become rational thinking eventually.
I could really use some advice/opinion here. My ex and I broke up 3 months ago. We tried friends for 2 months but i constantly found her stopping it going further when we met up, even do we both wanted something to happen she would always be the one to stop it. So she said we need to do no contact. It's been a month now, a rollercoaster of emotion and feelings of a month and I still miss her. I've tried dating other girls but have constantly found myself unable to let her go or stop thinking about her when I'm with these other women. I had hoped she would have reached out by now but every day that passes my hope fades and it hurts because of how close we actually where, she was more or less my best friend and it's killing me to think I may never have her in my life again. I have moved on with certain parts of my life, have started going to the gym, taking salsa lessons for the first time and have began setting goals. But I just want to know, am I fool to think she will one day contact me or should I just forget about her for good?
I am 1.5 months into mine and it is difficult! I started journaling, working out, therapy, volunteering and really focusing on myself and school and I'm not the only person who has noticed a difference. He saw how great I was doing, how many positive changes I had made to my life and how happy I was and now he is asking me to talk! There is hope!!! Just focus on YOU and bettering your own life. Do it for yourself though, I cant stress that enough. I noticed a huge shift when I started healing and better things for me not him or us. I am sorry you are hurting Charles but I believe you can come out a stronger, better person whether she comes back or not. :)
@@amymyklebust8402 Thanks for the advice Amy. I think putting all my energy into myself for a while is the best way to go, and hopefully I'll grow into a better person from this
Hey. I am going through breakup too. We have broken up for over a month, but I kept being “friends” for that time until yesterday when I said he doesn’t deserve me to be in his life when he threw it all away. I understand you. I am scared too he won’t ever come back and realize what he has done. I know it’s hard, but I think it’s the right thing to do NC. Keep doing it and work on yourself. If she is the one and love is strong she will come back! Show her what she could have and be happy for you, not for her! I am trying it too :-)
So 3 weeks ago me and him broke up after being together for more than 5 years because he said he wasn’t ready for a commitment. We are both going through hard moments, he wants to become successful and I have always supported and motivated him to become Great in life. Unfortunately, his always so busy since he works 7-7 and his really into the gym. He did said he loved me and he cared for me and whenever he felt ready for a commitment again, I would probably be the first person he would want to have it, but he couldn’t promise me nothing. We came to an agreement to become friends because he still wants to know how I’m doing and we enjoy talking with each other. But last night we hang out and I ask him if he still loved me and responded he had love for me but he didn’t felt in love with me anymore. I want to start the NO CONTACT RULE even though is so had to do it to the person I love the most. But I need to know if his the right one for me.
Alondra Gonzalez I’m going through the same thing girl, stay strong girl, it’s so hard but you also deserve someone who is willing to love you, like you deserve.
Alli thank you ! Wish you the best to you! And yes it’s being so hard! We hang out on Saturday and that same night I send him kinda like a goodbye message wishing him the best in life and giving him blessings and he responded Monday morning saying he wish me the best as well and his extremely thankful for playing a big role in his life and wants to see me succeed and accomplish the things I set up in life with or without him. He keeps giving me a bunch of mixed emotions but I never responded. I’m scared his going to forget about me though. He has being following and liking girls pics and that was one thing we never did during the time we were together. It hurts but I’m trying my best not to communicate even if it’s just to hear his voice or see him one more time.
Number one is OH MY GOD. ON POINT. idk you but ily. Thanks for giving me some hope. He mainly calls me when he's drunk. It's kind of funny. But I'm just going to ignore him now. Maybe it'll make him say something nice
Never grovel, and go no contact. Excercise and clear your head. Act as if its completely over for good. Remind yourself that you were born with all the dignity you ever need. That you dont need to be where you arent wanted. If someone loves you and sees your value they will make the effort to see you. Dont frets. He wants and expects you to chase him. If you dont call or text him for any reason and go NO CONTACT he will contact you eventually. When he does if it's by text wait until the next day to respond, or even a few days. If he asks why, just say you are busy working on yourself and just wanted to take your time to respond. When you speak to him be positive fun and up beat. Dont bring up the relationship or the past. If he does dont get emotional and again be positive and fun. Make sure that you are the one to end the call first. Just say it was great to hear from you. I gotta run sweetie and hop off. When you dont grovel and keep it positive and fun they usually always come back if you broke up over stupid stuff. How you handle it (by not being dramatic or emotional) and keeping it fun is what makes the difference. Most times as hard as it seems the best thing to do is take time to work on your problems that were your fault and move on with your life. If someone cant see your value, most of the time they never will. We have all had 'the one' and then later in life after we've broken up and time moves on we are glad it went the way it did. This will be the same most likely. Obviously if they have to move away for school ir work that's different, but again if they cant see your value and dont want to make things work they probably never will.
@@alejandraramirez8408 just seeing this. It's always good to go no contact especially if they were the one who ended it. If you didnt give them any good reason to not trust you then that is another entire subject.
4 days in the breakup was initially a break that was a break up. I struggled with feeling like i was being strung on, so after a week of it i talked to her explaining i was struggling and she said she started to find it easier because her feelings had been declining for a while so i decided the breakup should just be a breakup and she agreed. I told her i might not be able to be her friend and she brought up the possibility of friends with benefits but i said if that were to happen i wont be chasing her. I hope we can get back together coz i think theres something real here but im not waiting for it anymore. If things dont work out i am moving as i am going to university next year. Depending on what happens the move may be permanent
Just bc he a saud "no more", doesnt mean that he meant it. Go nc for the next 5 days, he will contact u. Esp, if you guys were fighting at the time. I am dealing with a breakup, not our first, but the most serious bc her family is also involved, Vietnamese, very close and very hard to always make happy. Lemme know if you need advice.
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I'm 6 days into no contact. I don't know if it's working or not. My ex hasn't messaged me at all. She was the last one to message but still.. She is liking all of my insta pictures and that's about it.
I don't know if you read the comments but, it would be really nice of you to inform us on how to glow from within. How to rebuild ourselves and taking a break if you must but for yourself and not for our ex's but for ourselves. Thank you, I hope you respond. 😙
Lisanne Koning my ex is so stubborn and our breakup was VERY messy (my fault) iv been in no contact for 2 weeks and 1 day and he contacted me❤️ Stay Strong ❤️❤️❤️
I'm on day 12 and he texted on day 11 and 12. First day was definitely a temperature check. He said "Just checking on you. How are you?" The next day the text sounded like he has come to grips that I'm not going to respond. It was a positive message about how he'll always be there for me and he understands why I'm not responding. How he cares about me...
Why did My ex blocked me on 17th day of no contact ? (I can’t see their profile picture on WhatsApp that’s how ik) it was a festival on that day and I was in a no contact and I didn’t wish her and next day I was blocked ,I’m on 22nd day of no contact ? I’m scared is my no contact pushing her away or did she block me to get her notice ?
She blocked you to get notice I’ll say. If it was the 17th day of no contact she was still thinking about you, so she blocked you because you didn’t contact her. And she wanted a reaction from you
@@baileypryor6348 hey,on 24th day she blocked me on imsg (I didn’t give her a reaction and stayed with my no contact) and on 27th day she changed her Instagram dp which is really hot and catchy but I stayed in no contact and followers are increasing , I’m on 41st day of no contact but after 27th day there are no signs of her :(( I feel so sad now and I’m losing hope… what should I do ? 27th July is a special date for us but I’m blocked everywhere and 29th July is the date when our long distance started :(( what should I do ? Break the no contact ? I want to make things alright but I fear rejection ? Can I see something positive here ? Please help
man I screwed up and caved 4 weeks in. sent him a heartfelt paragraph and got no answer. felt extremely hurt and sent an angry and mean message. is it too late to try no contact? or did i screw it up. i’m sooooo dumb for caving in,, it deadass made me relive the breakup again for a whole week... shittt i’m only human :(((
It happened to me too in the past. Dear, maybe it is best if we move on with our lives just like they are moving on with theirs. I don't think the no contact thing is a "rule". Some people just don't want anything to do with you anymore... with us anymore.
Gf of two years randomly broke it off last night, said she needed to find herself because she isn't happy with herself. Said that we could still talk but not everyday all day. I did tell her I hope that we can get back to us and she said "So do I, but we can't be us if I'm not me" this is the first day we haven't talked and I'm hurting really bad. I can't stop crying :(
In the start of the no contact when the ex saw my sister in public he said hi n was smiling. Fast forward 8 months later my sister just told me that she saw him and his friend in the city n the ex started laughing real load. I just find that so disrespectful. Is he trying to piss me off.. It's so mean . At least be civil in public
It's funny I saw the thing with a so called friend of mines she didn't want to talk to me. But at the same time she would like my photos on Instagram without saying anything to me than I block her and deleted her number.i told her the reason why I stopped talking to her is due to my family and my kids. Iv been super busy with my life though.. we live in the same city ..we are both mothers . But at the same time why us mothers come together ... But honestly that how life goes..
My girlfriend cheated on me and then she say that she is not worth of my love ...we were together 2 Golden happy years, I started no contact rule today .. wish me luck ...
No contact don't help anywhere, it rather make things worse. . If you really love your ex i can introduce you to the man who helped me bring back my husband when he broke up with me.
She is checking my social media and talk to me sometimes but I reply after no contact and she is still with rebound guy and feel boring in his life ...
Oh no my ex told me "this is the right thing to do. i can't pretend. i don't love you anymore." So how possible no contact will work for me? I'm going crazy
It'll work... Trust the time... Time is the best healer.... Jus keep u busy all day n jus don't contact.. He'll definitely analyze his decision once again... He'll rethink.. If he still doesn't care abt u even after a month or two... Don't worry... This no contact fr two months will make u think do I even want him anymore... That's the bitter truth of it... If u have hope jus go else grow thyself duh ❤
@@polinarutka430 we're still exes but time works differently in every relationship like i don't stress myself oh it's been 2 months and we still haven't gotten back together . I also learned he had a pretty serious injury less than 2 months ago and now he's trying to recover. I felt awful that I'm finding it out 2 months after it happened and i felt very selfish for not checking up on him just bc i was doing no contact (idk if it'd work otherwise bc i learned abt the injury from a mutual friend not from him)
My ex ghosted me for a month and then started messaging me on an anonymous account asking me questions about my life. He eventually admitted it was him and told me he was sorry for missing one of my most important days and asked if we could be friends. He told me he moved to a different state and we would never see each other and then the next day told me he would be back in 2 weeks and wants to see me. I have no idea what to think or do, is he messing with my feelings again or is he actually wanting to fix something.
Messing with your feelings boo boo don’t let him come back to get in your mind and pants because he is going to keep doing you the same way until you stop him from treating you like 💩
I got a missed call from my ex girlfriend last weekend after 6 months this past Saturday night when I was sleeping. The next day I tried to call back and I was still blocked. So I emailed and asked if everything was ok I got a missed call from you. Then she said oh that was my bad, I was deleting voicemails and accidentally pressed the wrong button. Then I said oh ok thanks for letting me know. Mind you I’ve been in no contact for 6 months and she broke up and left me. What’s your opinion guys?
@@mateagalic1378 No contact don't help anywhere, it rather make things worse. . If you really love your ex i can introduce you to the man who helped me bring back my husband when he broke up with me . if you so wish
@@WinyMary Aw too late but update: right after i posted this my ex hit up my best friend to ask how I was doing after almost 2 weeks of me setting my boundaries. So perhaps its situational
No because it make you feel like a psycho, just silence, don't get anxious about him while he just ok with his life. You can contact him again if you are ready for the worse.
Lola C been 4 months and still nothing. Pretty sure she’s with the guy she told me not to worry about. Still hurts just the same but have to move on I guess. If it’s meant to be then it will be...
day 5 of no contact! before that i was full on pleading my case of why we are so great together + sending essays of what he did was so disrespectful (broke up with me through a voice message), my emotions was all over the place, angry, sad, confused. then there was a moment when i was hysterically crying on my bedroom floor and looked in the mirror at myself and was like, THIS IS PATHETIC. HE broke up with me. I added so much to his life, encouraged, supported, brought so much energy and laughter and excitement, etc. and he breaks up with me through a voice message?!!?! Couldn't even do it in person with a real reason. Since that night, I picked myself up and have been working on my business, been to the gym/training, journalling, meditating, wrote out a whole list of things I am going to work on to better myself and get out of my comfort zone in this no contact period! Of course I still wish he contacts me and wants to get back with me, but I know from previous breakup experiences that this pain is temporary. If you just focus on getting through each day, each day turns into a week, then turns into a month, etc and you slowly start to feel better. Then you realise WOW you have completely changed. It's hard asf because yes, there will be moments where you're going to have a battle in your head of missing him and then anger coming back of how can they do this to me?!!?! Remember this is the time and space they need to MISS YOU. To realise what is like life WITHOUT YOU in it. So I won't be contacting him unless he clearly states he wants to talk in person to fix things, otherwise I am going to move on. I had been messaging/calling and pleading him to work things out with me for days right after the breakup, but he didn't even want to see me in person. MAKE THEM REALISE THAT YOU ARE A FREAKING GEM AND THEY CAN'T TREAT YOU THAT WAY. If they come running back and you still want them, MAKE SURE THEY EARN YOUR TRUST BACK. Let them repair that trust THEY BROKE. Remember how confident, free, alive and happy you were when you first met this person???? We are going to get back to that and EVEN BETTER. BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF YOU GUYS. Whether they come back or not, this is the ultimate WIN WIN. Harness the pain of the breakup (literally best way to make the most out of this situation)!
Do NOT be friends afterwards! To do so you may as well hand in your guy card! Total sign of weakness...just say "sorry, but no...we are(were) much more than friends... but hey, when whatever you are doing doesn't work out? Give me a call..." do NOT be friends!
Hey Edi, looking for some advice... My bf of 7 months just dumped me yesterday over text while I'm currently on vacation in Mexico and also a week before we were supposed to go to Hawaii together! I'm obviously devastated but your videos are helping a lot so i'm wondering while he's gone in Hawaii am i breaking the no contact rule by going to his house and asking his parents if I could drop off some clothes I bought specifically as presents from this trip for him and pick up some of mine? I don't know if this seems like I care way too much or I'm moving on? What would you do? Thanks, much love.
Katherine Williams You can get your stuff I don’t see anything wrong with that but I don’t want you to look like you’ve been crying or that you’re sad in front of his parents as they will probably tell him therefore making him feel like he has the upper hand. DON’T give him the gifts that you had bought for him. He’d probably think that you’re trying to get back with him again hence being very full of himself.
He basically broke up with me over txt he didn’t actually say we were broken up but he said he didn’t know if us being long distance would work if we were so far from each other, then he stopped responding to my txts and calls and stopped calling me as well. But he don’t delete me on facebook and kept our relationship status up and all my pictures too. I’m confused 🙄😒 he hasn’t contacted me in 2 days nor have I contacted him since he went silent
When I break up with him we had a horrible argument and said horrible things to each other. I decided to broke up with him, because we been arguing way too much. I feel good about my decision. I’m still doing the no contact rule. I’m not waiting for him to contact me or whatever. I just need to move on with my life and love myself.
I just broke up with my ex last night and i felt so sad and down waking up this morning. This is 3rd videos of yours that I'm watching right now. Your advice and positive energy heals me somehow. Thank you so much ♡
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I broke up with my gf about 4 weeks ago for something small. I told her I was sorry that day but through text and I have come back to her but she told me she didn’t know and now she hasn’t texted me in a day it’s my birthday today. She hasn’t said happy birthday or anything, I see her everyday in high school. I also think she’s talking to someone else but it would kinda be a long distance relationship. Any advice?
@@TheDjMoogle yeah that's a valid reason but I mean if he broke up cause he needed space, for your sake or just in any good intention then maybe the time wasnt right for the two of you and later on in the future the ex will be ready and much more equipped to be in a ling lasting relationship.
I broke up with him ...is it the first step ..cause i did it ..n its my first day without him ..m feeling bad ..techincally speaking we both did break up
remember ladies and gents, they let you go. you gave them everything and they ended it. time to do you for awhile and realize how important and special you are. they lost the best thing that has happened TO THEM.
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I broke up with my ex because of distance , i never wantes to let him go
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Silence is the best form of revenge.
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@@edrinablissg I'm actually doing for a second time but I'm not going back to her. If she can't realize what she had when she had it then so be it. I'm better off without her.
True that
@_ BUDDHA _ What happen exactly? If she cheated or out of nowhere just broke it off then I would completely leave her allow. As man you are the prize and a lucky lady will recognize that. Just do you. If she reaches out don't text her back right a way. Wait like 3-4 hours to. It shows that your busy. If you talk to her on the phone, give it 3 minutes tops and get off first. Don't tell her you miss or you love her. Let her do all of the work but be open. Also don't ask her if she's seeing anyone. That's a sign of insecurities. Keep doing you. If a man had business and woman which one of those are going to leave you quicker then the other. You build a business but a woman is gonna come and go. Im RANTING. MY BAD.
@_ BUDDHA _ Just focus on you. Who cares about making her hurt. The best revenge is silence and success.
There is no reason to ignore an ex, setting boundaries is way better. Like: I have no interests in being your friend, if u want to work things out i am willing to talk. I respected your breakup, respect my not being friends.
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Well that won't work
@@James-ii2ff why not ?
@@TruePathLiving Well for one, it breaks the "no contact" rule.
What would that do though? Nothing no contact wouldn't have already implied. Simply not talking to your ex already implies that you have no interest in staying in contact or just being friends.
Actions speak louder than words and you're already setting the same boundaries by not talking to them.
@@TruePathLiving Ever been cheated, humiliated and beaten on?.......I rest my case.
Did ‘No contact’ two weeks after the break up, in which there was a lot of arguing and her wanting me to stay friends in which I said no. 6 days into no contact, she called me twice. I didn’t answer.
No contact is 100% hard to do. But respect yourself enough to not contact someone who chose to walk away. Let them feel what they lost. If you ever meant anything to them, they will contact you again. And if they don’t ever contact you again, let that be the answer. You deserve so much more! Stay strong, I know it’s hard ❤️
THE NO CONTACT WORKED AND NOW WE’RE BOTH HAPPY AND THE RELATIONSHIP SEEMS HEALTHIER THAN BEFORE. I’m so thankful
Thank you for this video ❤️ I’m Forever grateful.
I started no contact today I hope its not too late
How long ? Did it took you?
I'm on day 4
Josef Madrid 111 it took over a month, about 40 days
Genesis Cuevas you got this! Just try to do you and don’t worry about anything else
Day 1 of no contact, already got a message this morning. I was very tempted to respond but I didn't. Woohoo me 🙌
All the best
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2nd time enforcing NC......trust me, it worked the first time. Thanks Edi. It's so hard to do when you've been with someone so long but watching your videos keeps me sane!
Did it work?
Me also the second break up after no contact she fould me so now iam moving on its my life
NC works unless they left you FOR someone else. In that case, they've already lost all of the interest and attraction they had for you, and won't even have to feel the pain of losing you because they're too busy being with their new guy.
Im having such a hard time emotionally and physically. My head hurts, my heart hurts, my stomach hurts. I keep throwing up and feeling sick. I just don’t know how to handle this
Pablo Quinoa You’ll be ok. You WILL get through this. I promise. You aren’t alone. The sickness passes. Allow yourself to grieve and don’t think you’re weird or shame yourself. ❤️
Rebekah Cromey it’s so hard when you’ve shared so much with one person that everything reminds you of them.
Pablo Quinoa I know. But you are strong. You can do literally anything you put your mind too. Focus on you and better yourself. That advice sucks but I promise you’ll see what I’m saying in a few weeks. Because it can make you focus on all the positives too. ❤️
I’m going through exactly the same thing. Talking to family and friends is so all that’s getting me through it. Don’t drink, don’t do any drugs (not yet anyway) as they just make it worse. Hang out with friends and family. It’s all you can do at the stage your in.
it will get better. i was there a month ago!! i thought i wouldn’t ever feel good again. you will. 🤍
lol this girl gets more beautiful every video haha
She's perfect. Adorable ❤️ real
lola brini - I have to watch all her videos twice- first under the distraction of her incredible natural beauty, then secondly to actually concentrate to what she’s teaching. She said her boyfriend dumped her!?!? Is he on crack!
@@joek550 She is hot but that's no reason not to dump her
She is so beautiful 🌹😍😘
Stg she do , thought i was goin krazy lol
the best way to get back at someone is by being happy and successful in your own life
Exactly , because its all built off negative energy . Most people ex are probably wishing they respond to the no contact or break up in a NEGATIVE way . When you level your life up it literally shocks them , good point bro .
Day 1 of no contact and I’m feeling better. Just deleted his number and muted him on social media. Will update.
I'm like on day 4.. he just blocked me on WhatsApp all of a sudden 🤔
Genesis Cuevas great sign
Wow same @brittmg13
Day 2 I am not doing well. Crying so hard tonight. I miss him and want to message him so badly. This hurts.
@@brittmg13 I just got back with her
No contact works finally im happy & hes doing him with out contacting me 🙌🏾😘
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It’s day 3 of no contact for me. I messed up in the relationship and my girlfriend broke up with me, asked for space, and said we both need to think hard about what we want/need and focus on self-reflection and improvement. It’s rough, I’m always tempted to text her but I know I have nothing of substance to say. I want to respect her wishes and I really want to/have been reflecting on myself, my flaws, and toxic behaviors that negatively impacted our relationship. It hurts to think we may never get back together again, but I know that if I focus on improving myself, I’ll become a better person no matter the outcome. I truly believe like you said, if I improve myself then I will be more appealing to her as well because if I prove to be the same version of myself that I was before, we’ll end up in the same place. I appreciate your advice and experiences!
I'm going through the same thing.I made the biggest mistake of my life.we were together for 5 years.I initiated the break up and regret it.I really took her for granted and want one final chance.Im leaving to the military soon.I told her that no matter if she moves on and dates other people I will always love her.
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I was never in a relationship with this person but I lost all contact with him because he was in a relationship already and deleting his number,pictures,and removing him from social media really helped and he would text me but I never responded. I’m so glad Im finally getting over him and I realized my worth.
Day 10 of no contact, he texted me asking if everything was okay!!
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So did you reply to him? I received a missed call from her without any followup text. Was so hard to ignore it but i did. Only wondering as to why she was doing that. It was a straight up call not like whatsapp call or facetime
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@@uss1992 bro.. has she texted yet after that call ? ... I'm on the same boat
I’m so glad you make these videos! You helped me get over my ex. I think he likes me still but I don’t want nothing to do with him! Thank you!
You are the first person that makes sence explaining this stuff 😂😂 thanks
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So I have done the no contact for 2 weeks and my ex contacted me today ask a bunch of questions, how am I how's my family and I have kept my answers short and positive telling him I'm doing great, now what should I do next ?
I have no ex... I don't know why I'm watching this 😂
Last relationship I was in was 3 years ago and I implemented NO CONTACT and they did all these things lol. Simply ignored them haha
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You're speaking facts.
After 2 days of no-contact she send me message and wanted to meet. After we met we argue and everything went downhill . Now i decided to go all the way in no-contact . Guys what ever you do don’t fall for the click-bait text msg
I never do , only time i respond is if one SHE takes accountability for what they did i want them to APOLOGIZE and change the way the think and if its issue COMMUNICATE with me
Can you do a video about radio silence? Do you still post on social media during no contact?
no
You are so insightful, I needed to hear this
No contact is very effective now I have 2 ex girlfriends contacting me
What's your take on begging and pleading for those that made the mistake of doing it. They still find it effective? Also i know the times are different for each but how long was it for yours to contact.
@Apex Animal Hey thank you for your response, I over pursued and got blocked everywhere too, our relationship was only 4 months.. prior we worked together 1 year too. I haven't heard from her since early April, missed phone call she denied making, been Nc since.. i just don't think there's enough that she'll come back and it hurts but hurts different now.. i miss a connection with someone more than having her now.
Got em beggin 😂 , love seein em burn stg bruh
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I’m the one who initiated the no contact period. Can’t be called a break up cuz we were seeing each other for 4 months but I’ve felt so manipulated and used , he was trying to coerce me into accepting a situationship I’ve never wanted at the first place during this short amount of time that I’ve decided to take some distance until I figure my shit out . It’s been 1 week and I feel better day after day . He tried to reach out poorly with a “ hey how r u” and he interrupted the convo ( that I did not even want to feed )
Sometimes like in my case , no contact is to be used to exit yourself from an unhealthy situation , either he/ she realizes you need to discuss then keep the door opened , either there is literally no re questioning from their side , thus there is no point to feed their attempts to reach out
I love watching these videos they make rethink and think about how I feel and that I will feel better. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me and I’m just so confused and mix feelings and he removed me off everything. I’m on day 4 . I hope I feel better
Im going to initiate no contact with Edi Gibson. No more comments after this. Wish me luck guys.
How’d it go
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Watching your videos made me realize out there are other girls worth not giving up. You are smart and extremely beautiful. I'm using the no contact strategy for my ex which broke up with me because "I'm too good for her and i should find someone better". If she wanted me to be happy, she wouldn't leave at first place. I hope i feel better soon and move on. I love her extremely much but i don't even know if i want her back anymore. I spent the last days thinking i could never find someone better and that's not the case.
she broke up with me,gave no reason,so I went no contact immediately,shortly after I see and hear she is in another relationship,probably a rebound,,and that ended eventually as well,,after sometime she tried to reconnect but I told her life is hard enough as it is and we all make choices in life,,some good and some bad,,you made yours and I had no choice but to move on in life and find someone that wants the same things in life as I do,,i wished her well in her journey throughout life...shes now mad and still wants to have her cake and eat it to...The lesson here ladies,,,dont blow it with a good guy because there aren't many of us left around.
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@Lika Vazhnaya unfortunately I do not want her back and that's why I went no contact.
My ex ghosted me blocked me on mostly everything except Instagram without any explanation, two weeks later he then blocks me on Instagram. I’m confused as to why he just now blocked me on there, like we've been no contact for two weeks, what made him decide to do it now?
He moved on girl and I hope you did to
Yea he found some other chick , we usually do that when we get a female we been wanting . I strongly encourage you to level your life up T . Get yo credit right , hit the gym if you can and pick up new hobbies
literally this is what I needed to hear- why can’t you be my friend that I just go to when shit happens in my life I swear
Doesn't really work when they broke up with you for another girl. That being said, no contact at least gives you your dignity back.
What if 3 weeks into no contact they text you, “hey”. shouldn’t you respond casually and act like you don’t care, rather than just ignore? I feel like if you’re dry to the person they might want to keep texting you because it’ll create some mystery. And if they ask, “how are you doing?” Is it good to say you’re doing good or great, and tell them something interesting like, “I’ve been good, finally got a haircut” ? And then just let them do the talking until the conversation is over and wait for them to text you again. Is that a good idea?
ALEX3000in do not respond. They testing to see if you will come back like a dog. Man up and continue the no contact until she is serious about talking
I just came back (this is 2 months later) to let yal know, I DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT THE GUY I WAS FULL ON HEART BROKEN ABOUT. LOL You are just experiencing withdrawals because you might of texted, saw each other a lot. Time will make it feel so much better trust me. Even if my mind thinks about him, it is that I am so glad I went through it! Because it taught me more about what I REALLY do want in a man and what I'm willing to accept in the future! You are stronger than you think guys!! So much love
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I sent her an sms two days later to explain my actions and she replied with a long message about how I took her for granted and how she hoped I'd learn and change my ways, but she didn't even tell me about those issues to start with and said "it's not that she doesn't think about me, she is just deeply hurt" . I asked to call her the following day she said "at this point I don't want to talk" and I replied "I respect that" than I went silent.
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Its been 3months of nc since she broke up with me and blocked me(2years of relationship), these days she unblock me and didn't answer or call me, ive just noticed it because her picture showed again but I did not contact her.. So she blocked me again 3 days later (whatsapp) 😔, I guess she was thinking I was going to text her desesperate like I always did
Dear be strong...am kind going through the same thing here...i don't know why some people hurt us and play with our emotions even after showing and showering them with love...
Let it be...the best is yet to come...
More than likely she was curious to see if you'd notice and message, Also to get a look at your profile pic.
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@@edrinablissg Thank you, i speak from being in that position, Curiosity.. no matter who it is.. always beats you. What's the harm in a little peak will become rational thinking eventually.
I have 4yrs of relationships. My ex girlfriend broke up with me 1day after the break up she has a new boyfriend. Im on 2months of no contact
it's most definitely a rebound she's gonna get her karma
Hi Edi, I can't imagine what a guy was thinking to break up with you. What was he thinking??
I could really use some advice/opinion here. My ex and I broke up 3 months ago. We tried friends for 2 months but i constantly found her stopping it going further when we met up, even do we both wanted something to happen she would always be the one to stop it. So she said we need to do no contact. It's been a month now, a rollercoaster of emotion and feelings of a month and I still miss her. I've tried dating other girls but have constantly found myself unable to let her go or stop thinking about her when I'm with these other women. I had hoped she would have reached out by now but every day that passes my hope fades and it hurts because of how close we actually where, she was more or less my best friend and it's killing me to think I may never have her in my life again. I have moved on with certain parts of my life, have started going to the gym, taking salsa lessons for the first time and have began setting goals. But I just want to know, am I fool to think she will one day contact me or should I just forget about her for good?
I am 1.5 months into mine and it is difficult! I started journaling, working out, therapy, volunteering and really focusing on myself and school and I'm not the only person who has noticed a difference. He saw how great I was doing, how many positive changes I had made to my life and how happy I was and now he is asking me to talk! There is hope!!! Just focus on YOU and bettering your own life. Do it for yourself though, I cant stress that enough. I noticed a huge shift when I started healing and better things for me not him or us. I am sorry you are hurting Charles but I believe you can come out a stronger, better person whether she comes back or not. :)
@@amymyklebust8402 Thanks for the advice Amy. I think putting all my energy into myself for a while is the best way to go, and hopefully I'll grow into a better person from this
Hey. I am going through breakup too. We have broken up for over a month, but I kept being “friends” for that time until yesterday when I said he doesn’t deserve me to be in his life when he threw it all away. I understand you. I am scared too he won’t ever come back and realize what he has done. I know it’s hard, but I think it’s the right thing to do NC. Keep doing it and work on yourself. If she is the one and love is strong she will come back! Show her what she could have and be happy for you, not for her! I am trying it too :-)
update?
So 3 weeks ago me and him broke up after being together for more than 5 years because he said he wasn’t ready for a commitment. We are both going through hard moments, he wants to become successful and I have always supported and motivated him to become Great in life. Unfortunately, his always so busy since he works 7-7 and his really into the gym. He did said he loved me and he cared for me and whenever he felt ready for a commitment again, I would probably be the first person he would want to have it, but he couldn’t promise me nothing. We came to an agreement to become friends because he still wants to know how I’m doing and we enjoy talking with each other. But last night we hang out and I ask him if he still loved me and responded he had love for me but he didn’t felt in love with me anymore. I want to start the NO CONTACT RULE even though is so had to do it to the person I love the most. But I need to know if his the right one for me.
Alondra Gonzalez I’m going through the same thing girl, stay strong girl, it’s so hard but you also deserve someone who is willing to love you, like you deserve.
Alli thank you ! Wish you the best to you! And yes it’s being so hard! We hang out on Saturday and that same night I send him kinda like a goodbye message wishing him the best in life and giving him blessings and he responded Monday morning saying he wish me the best as well and his extremely thankful for playing a big role in his life and wants to see me succeed and accomplish the things I set up in life with or without him. He keeps giving me a bunch of mixed emotions but I never responded. I’m scared his going to forget about me though. He has being following and liking girls pics and that was one thing we never did during the time we were together. It hurts but I’m trying my best not to communicate even if it’s just to hear his voice or see him one more time.
Alondra Gonzalez update?
Girl he ain’t shit. Leave that man alone pls
Number one is OH MY GOD. ON POINT. idk you but ily. Thanks for giving me some hope. He mainly calls me when he's drunk. It's kind of funny. But I'm just going to ignore him now. Maybe it'll make him say something nice
The longer I do this the less I want him back!
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My ex was saying that he doesn't want us to be together again. That there's no way to convince him . it looks like he's moving on. What cant I do !?
Never grovel, and go no contact. Excercise and clear your head. Act as if its completely over for good. Remind yourself that you were born with all the dignity you ever need. That you dont need to be where you arent wanted. If someone loves you and sees your value they will make the effort to see you. Dont frets. He wants and expects you to chase him. If you dont call or text him for any reason and go NO CONTACT he will contact you eventually. When he does if it's by text wait until the next day to respond, or even a few days. If he asks why, just say you are busy working on yourself and just wanted to take your time to respond. When you speak to him be positive fun and up beat. Dont bring up the relationship or the past. If he does dont get emotional and again be positive and fun. Make sure that you are the one to end the call first. Just say it was great to hear from you. I gotta run sweetie and hop off. When you dont grovel and keep it positive and fun they usually always come back if you broke up over stupid stuff. How you handle it (by not being dramatic or emotional) and keeping it fun is what makes the difference. Most times as hard as it seems the best thing to do is take time to work on your problems that were your fault and move on with your life. If someone cant see your value, most of the time they never will. We have all had 'the one' and then later in life after we've broken up and time moves on we are glad it went the way it did. This will be the same most likely. Obviously if they have to move away for school ir work that's different, but again if they cant see your value and dont want to make things work they probably never will.
@@joec1212 okay thank you so much. But is it good to go no contact when the relationship ended because of lack of trust ???
Alejandra Ramirez move on
@@alejandraramirez8408 just seeing this. It's always good to go no contact especially if they were the one who ended it. If you didnt give them any good reason to not trust you then that is another entire subject.
@@joec1212 yeah they don't trust me. Plus I live with this person. I feel like I haven't made no progress
4 days in the breakup was initially a break that was a break up. I struggled with feeling like i was being strung on, so after a week of it i talked to her explaining i was struggling and she said she started to find it easier because her feelings had been declining for a while so i decided the breakup should just be a breakup and she agreed. I told her i might not be able to be her friend and she brought up the possibility of friends with benefits but i said if that were to happen i wont be chasing her. I hope we can get back together coz i think theres something real here but im not waiting for it anymore. If things dont work out i am moving as i am going to university next year. Depending on what happens the move may be permanent
It's only been 5 days of NC and it feels like an eternity! I am so afraid he is masking the pain of the break by sleeping around : (
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I went almost 20 days and now she’s dating 🙃
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hi edi... my ex broke up with me and at the end time i just asked him i f he still loves me.. he said “no more...” , it hurts a lot... 💔
Just bc he a saud "no more", doesnt mean that he meant it. Go nc for the next 5 days, he will contact u. Esp, if you guys were fighting at the time. I am dealing with a breakup, not our first, but the most serious bc her family is also involved, Vietnamese, very close and very hard to always make happy. Lemme know if you need advice.
So, it's my first day. Now, what i want? It's 50/50. To get her back/ to forget her.
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I'm 6 days into no contact. I don't know if it's working or not.
My ex hasn't messaged me at all. She was the last one to message but still..
She is liking all of my insta pictures and that's about it.
I’m in the same exact position as you. I do however still Snapchat. I’m sad and confused
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I don't know if you read the comments but, it would be really nice of you to inform us on how to glow from within. How to rebuild ourselves and taking a break if you must but for yourself and not for our ex's but for ourselves. Thank you, I hope you respond. 😙
Im on the last week halfway and he still hasnt contacted me i dont think this is going to work for me😔
Lisanne Koning my ex is so stubborn and our breakup was VERY messy (my fault) iv been in no contact for 2 weeks and 1 day and he contacted me❤️ Stay Strong ❤️❤️❤️
Lisanne Koning has it?
I'm on day 12 and he texted on day 11 and 12. First day was definitely a temperature check. He said "Just checking on you. How are you?" The next day the text sounded like he has come to grips that I'm not going to respond. It was a positive message about how he'll always be there for me and he understands why I'm not responding. How he cares about me...
Any update?
We were together for 6months, now he said he doesnt know what he want...i really dont know what to do😥
same :(
nadjak131 trust watever a man says give him space .. treat yourself better keep lovin yourself. .when he understand wat he wants then maybe
Why did My ex blocked me on 17th day of no contact ? (I can’t see their profile picture on WhatsApp that’s how ik) it was a festival on that day and I was in a no contact and I didn’t wish her and next day I was blocked ,I’m on 22nd day of no contact ? I’m scared is my no contact pushing her away or did she block me to get her notice ?
She blocked you to get notice I’ll say. If it was the 17th day of no contact she was still thinking about you, so she blocked you because you didn’t contact her. And she wanted a reaction from you
@@baileypryor6348 hey,on 24th day she blocked me on imsg (I didn’t give her a reaction and stayed with my no contact) and on 27th day she changed her Instagram dp which is really hot and catchy but I stayed in no contact and followers are increasing , I’m on 41st day of no contact but after 27th day there are no signs of her :(( I feel so sad now and I’m losing hope… what should I do ? 27th July is a special date for us but I’m blocked everywhere and 29th July is the date when our long distance started :(( what should I do ? Break the no contact ? I want to make things alright but I fear rejection ? Can I see something positive here ? Please help
man I screwed up and caved 4 weeks in. sent him a heartfelt paragraph and got no answer. felt extremely hurt and sent an angry and mean message. is it too late to try no contact? or did i screw it up. i’m sooooo dumb for caving in,, it deadass made me relive the breakup again for a whole week... shittt i’m only human :(((
It happened to me too in the past. Dear, maybe it is best if we move on with our lives just like they are moving on with theirs. I don't think the no contact thing is a "rule". Some people just don't want anything to do with you anymore... with us anymore.
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Gf of two years randomly broke it off last night, said she needed to find herself because she isn't happy with herself. Said that we could still talk but not everyday all day. I did tell her I hope that we can get back to us and she said "So do I, but we can't be us if I'm not me" this is the first day we haven't talked and I'm hurting really bad. I can't stop crying :(
In the start of the no contact when the ex saw my sister in public he said hi n was smiling. Fast forward 8 months later my sister just told me that she saw him and his friend in the city n the ex started laughing real load. I just find that so disrespectful. Is he trying to piss me off.. It's so mean
. At least be civil in public
trendafile he’s just trying to get a response
It's funny I saw the thing with a so called friend of mines she didn't want to talk to me. But at the same time she would like my photos on Instagram without saying anything to me than I block her and deleted her number.i told her the reason why I stopped talking to her is due to my family and my kids. Iv been super busy with my life though.. we live in the same city ..we are both mothers . But at the same time why us mothers come together ... But honestly that how life goes..
one week of no contact. my ex messaged me on snapchat last night but i ignored. i’ll keep you updated:)
My girlfriend cheated on me and then she say that she is not worth of my love ...we were together 2 Golden happy years, I started no contact rule today .. wish me luck ...
No contact don't help anywhere, it rather make things worse. .
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Update?
She is checking my social media and talk to me sometimes but I reply after no contact and she is still with rebound guy and feel boring in his life ...
I just have to wait until she left him and know what she lost ...
Dr.Ahsan Nadeem Ahmad what’s up are you guys back ?
Oh no my ex told me "this is the right thing to do. i can't pretend. i don't love you anymore." So how possible no contact will work for me? I'm going crazy
It'll work... Trust the time... Time is the best healer.... Jus keep u busy all day n jus don't contact.. He'll definitely analyze his decision once again... He'll rethink.. If he still doesn't care abt u even after a month or two... Don't worry... This no contact fr two months will make u think do I even want him anymore... That's the bitter truth of it... If u have hope jus go else grow thyself duh ❤
Any Updates??
@@polinarutka430 we're still exes but time works differently in every relationship like i don't stress myself oh it's been 2 months and we still haven't gotten back together . I also learned he had a pretty serious injury less than 2 months ago and now he's trying to recover. I felt awful that I'm finding it out 2 months after it happened and i felt very selfish for not checking up on him just bc i was doing no contact (idk if it'd work otherwise bc i learned abt the injury from a mutual friend not from him)
My ex ghosted me for a month and then started messaging me on an anonymous account asking me questions about my life. He eventually admitted it was him and told me he was sorry for missing one of my most important days and asked if we could be friends. He told me he moved to a different state and we would never see each other and then the next day told me he would be back in 2 weeks and wants to see me. I have no idea what to think or do, is he messing with my feelings again or is he actually wanting to fix something.
Messing with your feelings boo boo don’t let him come back to get in your mind and pants because he is going to keep doing you the same way until you stop him from treating you like 💩
I got a missed call from my ex girlfriend last weekend after 6 months this past Saturday night when I was sleeping. The next day I tried to call back and I was still blocked. So I emailed and asked if everything was ok I got a missed call from you. Then she said oh that was my bad, I was deleting voicemails and accidentally pressed the wrong button. Then I said oh ok thanks for letting me know. Mind you I’ve been in no contact for 6 months and she broke up and left me. What’s your opinion guys?
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himahsnu sarda yes and opinions
Let it go, or just ask to talk as friends
Day 6 of NC rule. I’ll keep y’all posted
Matea Galic update??
ButterSyrup he texted me saying he’ll call me when he wakes up
Day 3😭
Sheya.So. Savage i gave up
@@mateagalic1378 No contact don't help anywhere, it rather make things worse. .
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does no contact rule work if you tell them not to contact you anymore lol
K. M. Don’t tell them just disappear sis 🤞🏾❤️ if your absence doesn’t affect them than your presence didn’t mean a thing x
@@WinyMary Aw too late but update: right after i posted this my ex hit up my best friend to ask how I was doing after almost 2 weeks of me setting my boundaries. So perhaps its situational
No because it make you feel like a psycho, just silence, don't get anxious about him while he just ok with his life. You can contact him again if you are ready for the worse.
What if your ex was mean and also ignored your texts? Then you just go no contact and haven’t heard anything in over a month.
My exact situation. What’s your update? Did your ex reach out?
Lola C been 4 months and still nothing. Pretty sure she’s with the guy she told me not to worry about. Still hurts just the same but have to move on I guess. If it’s meant to be then it will be...
Update now she has blocked me on social media after 4 months as well
Did they come back?
day 5 of no contact! before that i was full on pleading my case of why we are so great together + sending essays of what he did was so disrespectful (broke up with me through a voice message), my emotions was all over the place, angry, sad, confused. then there was a moment when i was hysterically crying on my bedroom floor and looked in the mirror at myself and was like, THIS IS PATHETIC. HE broke up with me. I added so much to his life, encouraged, supported, brought so much energy and laughter and excitement, etc. and he breaks up with me through a voice message?!!?! Couldn't even do it in person with a real reason. Since that night, I picked myself up and have been working on my business, been to the gym/training, journalling, meditating, wrote out a whole list of things I am going to work on to better myself and get out of my comfort zone in this no contact period! Of course I still wish he contacts me and wants to get back with me, but I know from previous breakup experiences that this pain is temporary. If you just focus on getting through each day, each day turns into a week, then turns into a month, etc and you slowly start to feel better. Then you realise WOW you have completely changed. It's hard asf because yes, there will be moments where you're going to have a battle in your head of missing him and then anger coming back of how can they do this to me?!!?! Remember this is the time and space they need to MISS YOU. To realise what is like life WITHOUT YOU in it. So I won't be contacting him unless he clearly states he wants to talk in person to fix things, otherwise I am going to move on. I had been messaging/calling and pleading him to work things out with me for days right after the breakup, but he didn't even want to see me in person. MAKE THEM REALISE THAT YOU ARE A FREAKING GEM AND THEY CAN'T TREAT YOU THAT WAY. If they come running back and you still want them, MAKE SURE THEY EARN YOUR TRUST BACK. Let them repair that trust THEY BROKE. Remember how confident, free, alive and happy you were when you first met this person???? We are going to get back to that and EVEN BETTER. BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF YOU GUYS. Whether they come back or not, this is the ultimate WIN WIN. Harness the pain of the breakup (literally best way to make the most out of this situation)!
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well, you getting joy from the results you seek for no contact means you still want a relationship with him. am i wrong on that assumption?
Thanks for the video Edi! I think you should make a video talking about just being friends after a break up, I would totally watch that!
Do NOT be friends afterwards! To do so you may as well hand in your guy card! Total sign of weakness...just say "sorry, but no...we are(were) much more than friends... but hey, when whatever you are doing doesn't work out? Give me a call..." do NOT be friends!
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Do not be friends trust me you don’t want to know your ex getting smashed by some other dude.
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You remind me of my Ex 😔 she's beautiful I miss her so much
What about for long distance relationship?????
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Broken up since May 14th. He took me off from his phone plane. I guess it officially over.
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Hey Edi, looking for some advice... My bf of 7 months just dumped me yesterday over text while I'm currently on vacation in Mexico and also a week before we were supposed to go to Hawaii together! I'm obviously devastated but your videos are helping a lot so i'm wondering while he's gone in Hawaii am i breaking the no contact rule by going to his house and asking his parents if I could drop off some clothes I bought specifically as presents from this trip for him and pick up some of mine? I don't know if this seems like I care way too much or I'm moving on? What would you do? Thanks, much love.
Katherine Williams You can get your stuff I don’t see anything wrong with that but I don’t want you to look like you’ve been crying or that you’re sad in front of his parents as they will probably tell him therefore making him feel like he has the upper hand. DON’T give him the gifts that you had bought for him. He’d probably think that you’re trying to get back with him again hence being very full of himself.
What if I chased her when she was cold ....and now Im going no contact??
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Well... he didnt show any of this signs , i guess he just doesnt give a f*ck
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He basically broke up with me over txt he didn’t actually say we were broken up but he said he didn’t know if us being long distance would work if we were so far from each other, then he stopped responding to my txts and calls and stopped calling me as well. But he don’t delete me on facebook and kept our relationship status up and all my pictures too. I’m confused 🙄😒 he hasn’t contacted me in 2 days nor have I contacted him since he went silent
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When I break up with him we had a horrible argument and said horrible things to each other. I decided to broke up with him, because we been arguing way too much. I feel good about my decision. I’m still doing the no contact rule. I’m not waiting for him to contact me or whatever. I just need to move on with my life and love myself.
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What if they don’t text you negative awful things ? Does that mean they don’t care anymore ?
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What are the signs of spiders stalking you? Great video and no contact content as always.
If you started no contact for a few weeks and she reaches out to say hey , should I continue to to keep my focus on no contact or give in ? Thanks
What to do when the breakup happened because of family issues?
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Very personable. Down to earth. Excellent presentation.
During no contact period he blocked me and deleted all of our photos 🤔
fame y same update for us
No contact don't help anywhere, it rather make things worse. .
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@@brianaortiz1016 day 17 still same
@@innogee8423 thanks but I think he really doesn't want me anymore. There's nothing to do
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My ex broke up with me about 3 months ago and I am trying no contact now but she is now with someone else and all Hope feels lost
No contact don't help anywhere, it rather make things worse. .
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I broke up with my gf about 4 weeks ago for something small. I told her I was sorry that day but through text and I have come back to her but she told me she didn’t know and now she hasn’t texted me in a day it’s my birthday today. She hasn’t said happy birthday or anything, I see her everyday in high school. I also think she’s talking to someone else but it would kinda be a long distance relationship. Any advice?
If they broke up with you don’t try to get them back just move on and ignore them 🤷🏾♂️
Terrible advice especially if he did it for good reason to better himself individually or if you caused him to breakup.
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@@TheDjMoogle yeah that's a valid reason but I mean if he broke up cause he needed space, for your sake or just in any good intention then maybe the time wasnt right for the two of you and later on in the future the ex will be ready and much more equipped to be in a ling lasting relationship.
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I broke up with him ...is it the first step ..cause i did it ..n its my first day without him ..m feeling bad ..techincally speaking we both did break up
Bushra Nizam that’s my situation and I’m on day two 😭
How is it going so far? Did he ever text u back?