Koom Txiv Tsis Koom Niam Thiaj Tsis Sib Hlub. 12/30/2023
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Tus tsis txawj xav ces koom niam koom txiv los yeej tsis paub sib hlub. Txhob tu siab. Koj twb pom lawv coj li ntawv tsis zoo. Ces qhia yus cov menyuam kom txhob coj li lawv xwb. Good story thiab hais tau zoo kawg
Txhob txhawj vaj tswv tuaj koj tog lawm os mi kwv ntawg aw
Kv lub neej zoo li thiab 😢😢😢
Txhob tos lawm os. Hlub yus tus kheej xwb.
Niam ntsuab teev aws xav thov kom koj hais ib hnub no koj hais ob zag neej neeg thiaj tsis laj2 tos os
Tus no nej tsis paub nws yog hom neeg zoo li cas los lawm lod. Cas yuav ruam thiab caum nws li no na
Lug ntseeg Vasjtswv tsis need hmoob kevcai. Hmoob kevcai tsis muaj kev hlub. It is designed only to separate not unify people.
Peb cov Hmoob lub tswv yim txoj kev xav tseem poob qab deb dhau lawm. Txawm ntseeg thiab coj kev cai dab tsi los yeej ua tau kawg
Peb zoo li nej thiab tabsis peb ho ysis coj li nej txawm lawv txiv tsis hlub peb los peb yeej hlub lawv es dawv daws yuav tau ua siab loj nawb mog
Don’t feel too sad. Even sometimes the ones with the SAME mom and dad don’t know how to love each other. There’s a shift coming to Hmong families too now that we’re in America. We make and have our own families and love those who love us. Don’t dwell on sadness.
ก็ืที่ช ชขข😅ททท บ
มี😊😊ในใจ
ใน
😂
Txob tu siab, ib txia koom niam koom txiv ib plab kiag los twb tsis si hlub. Muaj tej pab mas sawv daws koom ua rau ib tug. Tu siab thiab los txob tu tag tag.
Thov kj tug f os niam laus
Txhob tu siab os g yg niam yug los lo txhob tu siab hv2 os cuag ib co twb yg niam yug kiag lo twb g sib hlub os
I hate blended families for this reason. I always say that if you can't love their children, don't marry them. I have a step daughter and I have never treated her any differently. She has her mom who's still here and that's where her loyalty lies. I treat her well and she treats me well. The thing about children is that they will reciprocate back how you treat them. Because she was your mother, you will never know how your siblings feel. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, try to put yourself in their shoes.
Hmoob ces yeej kawg li os.nyob kev txom nyem thiaj txawj sib hlub xwb os
Cia neb ob tug uas koom niam los sib hlub xwb os mog
Wow koj tus nus lawv tsis txawj xav kiag li os yom
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May aw ! Thaum peb hnov txog npis toj xeem txawj tsu lub qe tsw lwj lawm cia li ua rau sawvdaws tsis xav tuaj mloog thiab txhawb nqa neb tshooj RUclips los yog mloog koj hais neej neeg ntxiv li lawm.
Dag ua luaj peb tseem niaj hnub mloog ne. Koj tsis mloog cas koj hos tuaj txog no. May txhob tu siab rau tus neeg muaj kev ntxub ntxaug no peb hlub koj heev os
Tsis thas tu siab lI os nyob rooj teb no lawm cesvleej twg hlub yus ces hlub xwb hos yog luag tsis hlub yus ces txav kom deb xwb mas.
Hos hais txog qhov ua tus yau poob es yus niam muab yus ntaus ntawv ces tsis yog niam tshiab thiaj ntaus xwb. txawm yog niam yug kiag los yeej ntaus peb twb mag thiab nev yog thaum peb ua peb tus yau poob na.
ntawv thiab peb cov viv ncaus thiab tus muag txawm peb yog ib tus txiv yug es nyias muaj nyias niam los peb yeej sib hlub li yog khoom ib leej niam yug ❤❤
Lub neej no yog Leej twg rov taws tuam ntuj rau niam thiab txiv txawm yog niam tshiab txiv tshiab los yeej muaj kev npam nawb mog kev phem kev tsis txawj sib hlub yog cov laus lub neej xwb yus lub neej yus yuav tau los sib kho sib hlub thiaj yog
Yeej tsis yog tim Leej niam xwb yeej yog tim pab tub pab ntxhais uas yog niam tuag lawm cov me nyuam yeej tim ob tog
Vim yog koj niam phem Nev nyob qab ntuj nov puas puas muaj ib tug niam tshiab siab zoo li os hmoob
😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭
Kuv lub neej ces yeej zoo li zaj neej neeg no thiab. Kuv koom txiv tsis koom niam thiab os. Tabsis kuv niam mas ho yog ib tug neeg hlub hlub kuv txiv tus niam nram ntej cov me nyuam os. Tsuas yog lawv tsis nyiam kuv niam ces lawv tsis hlub kuv xwb😭. Luag cov koom niam ces luag ua dabtsi los luag yeej cais kiag yus li os💔. Kuv yeej tu siab kawg tabsis kuv niam hais rau kuv tias luag tsis hlub yus los kav liam es yus thiaj tsis tshuav luag nqi hlub them pauj rov rau luag no.
Txhob tusiab, txhob ua neej caum kwvtij, caum pab pawg, don't leave by a clans. Txhob uazoo rau tus neeg ua phem rau yus
Haiv hmong nyob hau lub ntiaj teb no ces yog cov ua phem tsaj plaws.
1. Es yog koom niam g koom txiv ne peb hmoob puas txawj sib hlub ma..
2. Es yog lewj txiv yuav niam yau yeej ib tug tub lo sab nrauv lo g koom txiv thiab g koom niam li ho puas sib hlub mas lo
Cov uas coj li ntawv ces yog neeg twm siab xwb os .
Koj hais me me los kuv yeej paub ntau vim kuv lub neej zoo li koj lub thiab tabsis kuv ho yog niam hlob yug. Peb ho yog cov tsawg.
Let me put it this way, as a parents if you loved and show caring to all kids rather they are your blood born or not they will love you back. Kids only know what you show them. Yus yog leej niam yus xub hlub lawv ces lawv yeej hlub yus xwb
Agree.
Niam tshiab feemcoob yeej siab phem thiab tsis hlub cov menyuam uas yog niam nram ntej cov menyuam.
Yog tshaj
I agree.
8 against 1? Nah, them 8 brats wouldn’t want any women to replace their dead mother. Being that that step mother was young and father must have loved on her, them 8 kids would rebel and ganged up in her for sure
Tsev neeg siab ruam uas tsis txawj sib hlub, tsis paub txoj kev sib zam txim.
Feem ntau ces cov niam tshiab yeej tsis hlub niam loj cov me nyuam os.
Cov menyuam koom niam tsis koom txiv, koom txiv tsis koom niam pheej muaj teebmeem tsis sib haum. vim niam txiv tsis txawj coj, hos cov menyuam tsis kam hloov los ua zoo. Ces yog tag nrho sawvdaws yeej phem sib xws.
Vim ntse tsis txaus ne.
Vim koj niam yeej tsi hlub lawv 2 thiaj li chim tag npaum li ntawd.
Tus me niam tsev aw ..lawv coob ce lawv yeej tsis hlub neb 2 nus muag o nawb ..
Yus 2 nus muag hlub2 yus tus kheej thiab twj me nyuam xwb ..neb txawm yuav hlub lawv..thiab tsis hlub los lawv yeej muaj txiaj ntsim dab tsis o mog .
Peb yog niam loj yu thiab tas lub sij haw peb xa tau kev pab lo ntawm peb txiv cev yeej thov g tau li os tas sis niam tau cov me nyua cev xa tau a g lo tau tas nro g nyua siab da g lo yeej muaj tas noj g nqe leej twg hna g txhaw leej twg oh peb cov yog niam loj tus cev xav tau ma mus kwb2 nyiaj lo mus yuav lo rau tus xwb kv lo yeej xav pau tias cas niam tau pheej qia nws cov me nyua tau niam loj cov me nyuam ua a g ma phej hais tias so g pau nej pab now tij ko a cev li no rau niam loj pab me nyua xwb os.
Neb 2 nug muag ces yog DEV xwb luag twb ntxub yus ua luaj los tseem niaj hnub ua DEV mus saib lawv cov neeg paub hlub neeg thaum yuav tuag tsis musj nqi tuag tsuaj tsuaj kom tag thiaj tsis musj cov lim hiam li tus tij DEV ko
Cia nyias ua nyias lub neej xwb tsis txhob sib hlub los tau kawg
Niam ntsuab teev tus me niam hluas puas yog lawd cem cem koj los yog koj khwv khwv es koj nyuaj nyuaj siab cas tau ib ntus no koj hais neej neeg dab neeg yuam kev rhua lawm os tos maj mloog koj txhua lub sij hawm tab sis tshwj koj tus kheej zoo es kom koj tseem yuav hais tau story entertain peb kom peb qab siab ua hauj lwm thiab sij hawm mus sai hnub txhob ntev7 nawb mog nyob zoo Xyoo tshiab rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg
The problem is the parents of these divorce and widow folks. When you agreed to remarry and married a man or woman that have children you knowingly accept the whole package. You have to be able to accept the children and love them as yours and be a good parent to them as well as yours too. You expect your new husband or wife to love and accept their. You should do the very same thing too. If you cannot be a good step parent than do not marry that person. Go and marry someone who have no children but she or he probably won't love or accept your children either.
Txhua tus niam rshiab ces siab yeej phem
Ib yus tsis yog lawv niam ces lawv tsis Xav hlub tus niam tshiab no
Kuv lub neej los nim koom txiv thiab xwb tsis koom niam os es tu tu siab kawg thiab os 😭
Tus viv aw!! Txhob tu2 siab os luag hlub yus ntau los yus mam hlub ntau es yog luag hlub yus tsawg los yus hlub tsawg xwb mog .
Nej niam tsis hlub lawv los lawv yuav tau to taub tia vim Tsis yog lawv niam lawv txhob muab lub Txim pov rau nej nws siab phem zog lawm os Tus niam laus.
Koj yog ib tus muam ruam dhua ib tus neeg pheem tsis muaj siab hlub leeg tug tsis tag hlub li os
Cov koom niam koom txiv los tsam no twb tsis sib hlub lawm thiab os.
Yog kawg cov niag niam tshiab yeej siab phem2 os cov niag leej txiv ces lawv liag xwb
Nyob ntawm tus neeg siab phem los siab zoo xwb os. Kuv twb yog ib tug niam tshiab thiab tab sis kuv hos tsis coj lis tus viv ncaus no thiab as.
Dont blame ur mom. U will never understand a mother til u become one. It's not easy. Please understand your mother while u also understand ur other siblings who disliked ur mother.
No one will love u as much as ur mom. 💓 Remember there are 3 sides to every each STORY, and life doesn't revolve around the siblings that disliked ur mother. Ur mother's side is also important too ok.
Kuv yuav hais txog koj niam lub neej los ua niam tshiab rau ib pab mi nyuam uas rov taw tuam ntuj. Koj niam tsis txhaum hlo li. Koj niam txhaum 1, nej niam loj cov mi nyuam txhaum 2. Vim tias lawv yog mi tub mi nyuam lawv twb tsis fwm neb niam los sis niam tshiab li na! Neb tus tij laug hlob yog yog ib tug tij laug siab phem lim hiam tshaj plaws. Nws tsuas nrhiav neb 2 nus muag thaum nws muaj teebmeem, tau kev tws xwb. Neb cov tij laug cov muam hlob yeej siab phem ib yam nkaus. Neb 2 mi nus muag sib2 hlub neb thiaj tau kev tso pa es txhob cia siab thiab txhob ntntseeg neeg tej lus dag nawb. Lawv cov hlob tsis hlub neb, lawv tsuas paub thaum lawv kev tws xwb mog! ❤❤
Tseem2 kwv tij-viv ncaus yeeb ncuab tiag😂😂😂 tu siab tshaj uas xaiv tsis tau los yug????😞😞😞
That rigth, yus tsis yog lawv niam lawv yeej tsis hwm yus yeej tsis hlub yus yeej muaj lub diab ntxub yus, lawv los tsis yog yus yug yus yeej tsis hlub tas tas ib yam, tsuas hlub kom tau zaub mov noj ris tsho hnav xwb ib tug tsis txhob tu siab rau ib tug nyias yeej muaj nyias qhov tsis sib hlub!
Everyone has their own hurt and sadness. Some hurt can't be healed. Sometimes, it's best to let go and live in your own peace. Not all relationships have to be saved.
Hmoob ces yeej siab loj tsis tau. hlub tsis tau tej menyuam tsis yog nws yug. Tej teeb meem no ua ntu zus ib txheej dhau ib txheej. It's a karma that recycled in Hmoob families.
Dont ever depend on your half siblings, different from your mom or dad they will never love or care about you. Sister, you did the right thing. Stay strong. You have a good heart. Forgiveness is the key. Its sad that your older brother forgives you and your brother because he's sick...thats not forgiveness but it a lie to care for him.
Yeej tsis muaj ib tug nam tshab kws yuav hlub mivnyuav les os, especially quaspuj Moob.
Teeb me me xwb koj niam twb foom koj lawm ces koj niam yeej yog neeg phem tiag os
Vivncaus koj paab niam nus siab phem npaum ko ra nb ob nus muag es cas koj tseem yuav k txog thiab mus pab ua dabtsi na. Tsis tas quav ntsej li lawm os siab phem lim hiam li ko ces tsis txhob mus khiav lawm os Vivncaus aw nyob teb chaws no nyias khwv tau rau nyias noj lawm os tsis tos leejbtwg hlub yus lawm os.
Niam tshiab yeej tsis hlub cov me nyuam ntsuag tas2 os yog niam tshiab txawj hlub cov me nyuam ces lawv yeej txawj hlub niam tshiab thiab
Txhob tu siab. Even some full blood siblings don’t know love each other. These day only love and help the one that love and help you.
Niam tshiab siab phem ne
Shiat. Yuav tuag es mam li thov txim pab tsis tau dabtsi lawm os.
My family is a blended family, and we dont despise one another. We respect and support each other.
Now let's hear from the older half-siblings side. Lol. Ppl always wanting two sides and now i want two sides too.
From other families and your father, your mother was not a good stepmother to your older siblings. It’s sad. I can understand they’re upset with your mom but they shouldn’t have taken that on you and your brother. It’s ok, don’t dwell on the past. Your brother and your children are your family. Love the people who love you and move on. It’s sad your half siblings treated you and your brother that way even though you had nothing to do with how they were treated by your mother.
Tus niam tsev aw. Lawv pab nus muag twb yeej ib txwm tsis hlub neb 2 nus muag es ziag no nyias twb laus nyias tag lawm txhob ntshaw lawv txoj kev hlub lawm os. Neb twb muaj 2 nus muag ces neb sib hlub neb xwb zoo dua. Neb hlub lawv los twb tsis muaj nqis rau lawv. Lawv txawm tsis hlub neb los neb twb nyob xws teb xws chaw ces yuav li xwb. Txhob tu tu siab nkim sij hawm xwb. Leej twg hlub yus, yus mam hlub tus ntawd xwb.
I feels your pain sister! We only live once and I just don’t understand it too
Koj tus nus Ntxawg neb yuav tau los sib hlub xwb
Kuv ntseeg lawm hais tias koj tus num neb yeej pom thiab paub tias koj niam yeej thiab koj tus nus nej yeej sawv daws tsis hlub lawv cov muag nus ntsuag mos es koj thiaj li pheej mus taug xaiv rau koj niam…. Yog tias koj niam tsis hlub lawv xwb mas lawv yeej tsis tu siab rau neb li os
It all starts with your mom. If she had loved and teach them well they wouldn't be so tu siab. But what your mom did, you and ur brother paid her debt by suffering after she passed. At this point, let bygones be bygones and move forward is all u can do
Most of the time is the parent but I’ve seen kids who are as bad. So not all step parents are the ones that starts.
So true..
Cas neb yuav muaj kev tu siab ntau ua luaj luag hlub yus los yus kuj hlub luag rov xwb luag tsis hlub tsis nyiam yus los yus kuj sib hlub xwb cas pheej yuav mus ntshaw cov hlob kev hlub ua dabtsi kuv tsis to taub koj li os
Don’t ever marry someone with kids if you can’t love their kids wholeheartedly. Why bother? Save yourself and those innocent children from a lifetime of trauma and bad karma!
Tus niam tsev aw... tsis Church nas yog Funiral home nas kuv tsis to taub tuas cas nej pheej muab hu ua Church no twb tsis pom daim side tias Church nyob ntawd li ne lod...
Same dad and different mom, the kids will hate each other because it's neither the step mom is evil to the kids or the step dad is mean to the kids, but if same mom and different dad the kids love each other more.
Your other half siblings phem ib yam nkaus li koj niam thiab. They are bad as your mom. U both shouldn't feel bad that they take u both. U let them be. Lawv los phem kawg kavliam xwb.
Your older siblings pretty did it to themselves like you told your older brother! Even if your mom didn't care for them, if they really wanted a relationship with you and your younger brother, they should have step up, be the mature ones, and love you both! Shame on them! SMH!
To koj niam tsi hlub thiab lo koj cov nu ntawv yeej phem
Yay so you’re not gonna quit your stories telling job ty you have too many ppl live you
Koj tus nus twb mus lawb dab lawm ces yus nyob yus xwb tsis txhob mus thab tej niag ntsej muag liam lawm xwb
Sometimes we gotta set our differences aside and love each other because at the end of the day we only have each other regardless if your half or full blooded I come from a family of niam loj niam yau i understand
If the old people can't even get along and pit the kids against each other, would be pretty hard not to have any hard feelings.
@@monkeybanana9269 I can understand that my mom is niam yau i will tell you my dad has not been there for my siblings from my niam
Loj side and i understand how they feel they said they have no father back in Laos my dad was with my siblings and my step mom but when we came to USA my dad just stuck with my mom for the last 30 years it’s sad because whatever event my stepmom has my blood siblings and I attend but not my dad but my mom forces him to go for the sake of his kids he has with my step mom
Haub yau, mi viv ncaus aw, los yog mi Ntxhais, niam Ntsuab Teev aw, zoo li koj twb paub lus Hmoob zoo heev sa, yog los ntawm koj los yog los ntawm tus tswv neej neeg no? Leej twg qhia koj tias koj tus txiv tuag es koj ho mus hu koj tus dab laug hlob/dab laug yau tuaj ua qab tu rau koj tus txiv na?? Tsis paub tab tsuas yog koj xwb los pos, cas koj tus txiv neb pab tseem ho tsis paub tab thiab los? Tsuas yog hu tuaj ua txiv dab laug zaum rooj xwb os!!!
I'm pretty sure that if other people see it then its true. Your mom probably didn't love your older siblings, but your older siblings shouldn't divide you guys. They probably did that because of jealousy and all the hurt they hold for your mom.
Don't feel too bad. Even siblings from the same parents don't get along too.
Seems like everyone is just misunderstanding each other and just shoved it under the rug to ignore the problem. You didn’t understand the drama but to them you betrayed by snitching to your mom and your mom is upset to call them out. Both sides are not willing to walk you through what the problem is. You should just let the siblings know that you don’t know what their problem is but as their half sister, you love them no different than if you have the same mom. Whatever drama they have with your mom is between them but don’t involve you who love them regardless.
Wow! This one is really sad... made me emotional and cry..
I don't blame the older step-kids. Most step-moms never love the kids except her own flesh and blood. At the end of the day, u will pick your mom over your half-siblings anyways so why be sad that they don't love u? Whatever they tell u, u go gossip to your mom and she gets mad at them. That's already a sign that u pick your mom over them and that u will never be faithful to them. I think it's good they keep their distance from u bc i honestly don't think u would love them as your own siblings too.
Ntuj aw seb leej twg laus dua muaj tswv yim dua xwb mas. Koj niam yog neeg laus lawm txawm koj yuav hais tias niam loj cov me nyuam tsis hlub koj niam no los tsis muaj neeg ntseeg koj os lawv tseem yau yau xwb lawm txawj phem li cas rau koj niam naj
Koj hais tias koj twb hnov koj txiv hais kom koj niam hlub lawv txhua leej twb hais tias koj niam tsis hlub lawv thiab no ne. Ces yeej yog koj niam phem tiag yog koj niam zoo zoo ces tsis muaj neeg hais li os koj ces phem li koj niam thiab koj thiaj tawm tuaj qhia hais tias koj tsev neeg phem li cas os
You may have been to young to understand the dynamic between your mom and the other siblings. From what your story tells, I can tell the siblings didn’t care about you guys much either so your mom had some truth to what she said. Especially not calling you guys for little and simple things. This goes to your mom too, she didn’t care much for her step kids.
Well, I agree with your mom. Depends when your mother remarried? How old the other children are? If the other children are small then yes your mother is wrong, but if she remarried and the other children are grown then is hard, they will never care, love, like your mother. I completely understand your mother when the children are grown already and especially children nowadays they will not respect the step mother.
If all the relatives can see that your mom don't love your half siblings then she probably never love them
I agreed. When there's that many eyewitnesses. Of course her mother is perfect to her. It's her mother.
Hmong lub siab yeej phem,hais txog niam tsiab thiab niam yaus ces yeej phem ib yam😮.
This is very sad. My parents are divorced and I have 2 half siblings from each parents. Recently, one of my younger half sister asked about why things are the way they were with her mom who’s our step mother. She said she acknowledge and see the things her mom did that was unfair to us. It’s best to talk and make sure there’s peace within the siblings. Our parents have failed us, therefore we should do better and be there for one another. We are the ones who can stop the toxicity parenting life style and do better.
The fact that your own mom still cursed you should already tell you how your mom was and might have treated your half-siblings.
I am sorry this happened to you. You don’t deserve this type of treatment. Your half siblings need to get therapy. It doesn’t make sense that their grudges lasted a lifetime. Thank you for sharing this story.
Very sad.
Sorry os sister vim tej zaum koj niam phem2 rau lawv es tsi hlub lawm es lawv tu2 siab thiab os😢😢
Don't feel bad. Some siblings from the same mom and dad don't even love one another. So don't feel too sad.
I believe that your older siblings are the bad ones. Your mom might of tried to love them but because there were many of them, they just didn’t care. Just like how they didn’t care to love you and your brother.
It’s your mom