We love u, we support u, stay strong and get her the gett. U are a light, show the world the darkness that's in the cult and liberate women, you are one brave woman!!!! Adonai itchen!!!
He's a mentally ill man, telling his little girls to refrain from sitting on his lap because he may get excited. U want that for them?? What values are those???
She is not an "agunah" it is a misappropriation of the word. The word "agunah" has always meant a woman who wants her husband but can't find him. Because the rabbis made special laws for agunahs its very important to make the distinction and clarify the true meaning of "agunah". Sometimes it may happen that he was not held back by an accident, and she would think that he was held back by an accident and she would be an agunah, and sit waitng for him Ketubot 3a. SHE WOULD BE AN AGUNAH, AND SIT WAITNG FOR HIM, meaning that an "agunah' is one who waits for her husband not a woman who runs away or locks the man out of the house. Though the rabbis accepted one witness to prevent agunah that is because a woman is expected to thoroughly search out the matter before she remarries, and because she did not do so in this instance, she is penalized. Mishnah Yevamot 10. SEARCH OUT THE MATTER meaning that she has to want him and ask around to make sure he is not alive.
If so many community leaders are in favor of this Gett, I'm confused as to way they can't make an exceptional ruling and grant Malky a Gett without her ex-husband's participation? Surely, there is a rational exception that can be made in extreme cases.
The flatbush girl gets $50k at front for every case that she is engaged in it. she doesn't have any problem with a get she doesn't believe in a get She said multiple times that she will remarried without or with a get
I a gentile noahid I was taught by the Rabbi that to get married. In that marriage you have to have respect for each other as partners in that marriage, and that is the KEY.. He has disrespected her based on his side, but SHE has even greater disrespected him via this forced get.. So if I had a spouse and they were doing everything to DISRESPECT me, why would I want to have a CHAIN attached to them, OR THEM ATTACHED TO ME???!!! To me it does not MATTER which spouse is DISRESPECTING the OTHER, when the DISRESPECT via EITHER PARTY begins, what insues by the PARTY being DISRESPECTED from their POINT OF VIEW leads to even GREATER DISRESPECT to the other party who disrespected them in the first place. So I have NO POSOTIVE OR NEGATIVE VIEW ON EITHER PARTIES behalf other than to say this. When YOU STEP ON GUM in the street, it gets all over the place until you physically SCRAPE it off of your shoe. It takes a lot of time especially on a hot day to GET GUM off of your shoe, and until you do it gets all over the place as you walk along, and if you take it into a carpeted room!! So it is easyer the moment you sense that GUM on the bottom of your shoe, that you SCRAPE it off and get rid of it before it gets all over the place and makes a BIG OLD MESS THAT YOU THEN HAVE TO CLEAN up from all over the place!! SO this sticky gum of an issue has gone all over the whole world. SO THIS IS THE GREATEST FORM OF DISRESPECT on BOTH PARTIES SIDES THE ONE TO THE OTHER...
why doesn't "Malky" just agree to joint custody of the children so she can have her gett? He has his male leverage (gett) and she has her female leverage (courts like mommies), but you're acting like this is abuse? this is 'use', he's using the gett in the way it is supposed to be used
1:40 Flatbush girl have destroyed the support from the community because of her crazy antics, like like yelling about "beautiful woman" in front of the kollel.
So she does not want him to ever see his children only on her terms and he has to pay per month for the right to see his children and she cries aguna waaa waaawee
Another reminder of real life 😭 I have long been in favor of a Takanah = ruling in which the Rav doing the Hupah also must explain beforehand the creation of a new united entity [in eternity] known as this particular couple, AND that the Rav must also be involved in Shalom Bayit when the need comes. If you want to be a Rav to make weddings then you must involve your soul spritually with them, till your dying day. Perhaps Rabbis will get serious about making marriages, if they need be involved in the dirty stuff of peace making, and not only in the party and getting some payment. As for this particular case, one should not comment if one does'nt know the fine details. But I will say no Jew has a right to leave a women an Agunah over 2 yrs. Between year 1 and year 2 of separation either get back or give a divorce. Maybe these people never heard of 'ego - trips'
That might apply in a case of the. man abandoning the woman. That would not apply in a case of the reverse (and certainly not if the woman not only abandoned the husband without fault, but also took the assets and the children)
Las cosas se arreglan dialogando y cuando no se puede dialogar esta las leyes y los rabinos a como va que todo evoluciona deberian reeber las leyes rabinoca para que aiga orden y paz cuando una pareja no quiere continuar conviviendo y no retenerla por un bien material o emocional sino la salud de los niños y los projenitores el eterno reina donde hay armonia y si hay peles discusiones espara ordenarlo arreglarlo para que haiga paz y buscar lo mejor para las familias y continuar con la educacion de los niños peronde una manera mas llevandose bien y con respeto entre las partes y reever las leyes rabinicas y trabajar en las parejas cuando hay un conflicto y solucionarlo de la mejor manera posible para ambas partes y terminar bien aunque la pareja no sigue amandose y los niños mas tranquilos por favor 😢
1:31 this is a lie, I read some of the letters shown. It is not at all creepy it is a father expressing that he misses his children and he hopes they have a good Tu BiShvat. The letters are not dated, we don't know when he wrote them they can be from 4 years ago. FG didn't present a stack of hundreds of letters, it's been four years he could have written hundreds as a creepy person would. Literal translation of the first letter. "Tu b'shevat is a yom tov for the trees and for the fruits Hashem should help for our kids which are the fruits of our tree and Hashem should already write/sign a happy good blessed year for us I miss very much and I hope that you and the kids will enjoy from the good fruits. Your husband Wolf."
I dont get why he dosent give a get if its beacuse she is denying his right to see his kids...then the beis din or court should decide who gets custody and if they are both fit both have the right to see their kids as a parent and if one is dangerous for them then the beis din or court should decide that
So sorry to say. But the US Divorce Court is catered for women, a unjust justice system, and bes din is also Corrupted, what should a guy do if he is not seeing his children, taken away all of his money, And she is saying that he is Sexually Abusing his own children, WOULD YOU GIVE A GET?
If his mental health is deteriorating, he is not obligated to give a get it’s latchilu a marriage that is a mistake so he is not obligated to give a get she can remarry no problem according to the Jewish law
But she can't marry some of the 1% she wants to but you do have a point Maybe religion sucks idk I'm from a chassidishe (hasidic) family but I don't give af about religion :)
We love u, we support u, stay strong and get her the gett. U are a light, show the world the darkness that's in the cult and liberate women, you are one brave woman!!!! Adonai itchen!!!
0:13 no evidence was presented that he had mental health issues.
This is just something Flatbush girl is saying to make his family look bad.
Is his financial situation the cause for the hesitation? If this were solved, would the hesitation go away?
Kids in the house? "Never give the get" until he gets back with his kids
He's a mentally ill man, telling his little girls to refrain from sitting on his lap because he may get excited. U want that for them?? What values are those???
She does not mean anyone but herself. Just be busy with yourself and dont spread hate.
You don't walk into a shul yelling like this, eesha chatzufa
It is wrong to call his time with his children "visitation". He is not a zoo animal
Flatbush girl is saving the world I don’t know what we’ll do without her😂😅
This is how you save a world? To destroy an entire family? Are you serious?? Do you take any responsibility for this all??
@@YiddishChannel Yes I meant it sarcastically
Got you😂 be more clear next time..
2 sides of each story
Yup, so true
Can we get both sides on one radio show or popodcast so we can hear both sides ? Or we just have to trust Mrs Sash at her word.
Pls put the siruv here so I can read it
Is he fit to see his children?
Yes he is
If you would have known his situation and they wouldn’t have been separated, would you have called CPS to take away the kids?
0:29 this recording sounds like a mother in pain, sounds like they treated her son extremely bad/nasty.
She is not an "agunah" it is a misappropriation of the word. The word "agunah" has always meant
a woman who wants her husband but can't find him. Because the rabbis made special laws for agunahs its very important to make the distinction and clarify the true meaning of "agunah".
Sometimes it may happen that he was not held back by an accident, and she would think that he was held back by an accident and she would be an agunah, and sit waitng for him
Ketubot 3a.
SHE WOULD BE AN AGUNAH, AND
SIT WAITNG FOR HIM, meaning that an "agunah' is one who waits for her husband not a woman who runs away or locks the man out of the house.
Though the rabbis accepted one witness to prevent agunah that is because a woman is expected to thoroughly search out the matter before she remarries, and because she did not do so in this instance, she is penalized. Mishnah Yevamot 10.
SEARCH OUT THE MATTER meaning that she has to want him and ask around to make sure he is not alive.
If so many community leaders are in favor of this Gett, I'm confused as to way they can't make an exceptional ruling and grant Malky a Gett without her ex-husband's participation? Surely, there is a rational exception that can be made in extreme cases.
0:42 His family says that Malky is withholding the kids and that they haven't seen the kids in 4 years.
Stood in the yeshiva, denouncing the faith. Then asking pll to daven for her bit rich that .
The flatbush girl gets $50k at front for every case that she is engaged in it. she doesn't have any problem with a get she doesn't believe in a get She said multiple times that she will remarried without or with a get
Flatbush Girl should mind her own business.
I a gentile noahid I was taught by the Rabbi that to get married. In that marriage you have to have respect for each other as partners in that marriage, and that is the KEY.. He has disrespected her based on his side, but SHE has even greater disrespected him via this forced get.. So if I had a spouse and they were doing everything to DISRESPECT me, why would I want to have a CHAIN attached to them, OR THEM ATTACHED TO ME???!!! To me it does not MATTER which spouse is DISRESPECTING the OTHER, when the DISRESPECT via EITHER PARTY begins, what insues by the PARTY being DISRESPECTED from their POINT OF VIEW leads to even GREATER DISRESPECT to the other party who disrespected them in the first place. So I have NO POSOTIVE OR NEGATIVE VIEW ON EITHER PARTIES behalf other than to say this. When YOU STEP ON GUM in the street, it gets all over the place until you physically SCRAPE it off of your shoe. It takes a lot of time especially on a hot day to GET GUM off of your shoe, and until you do it gets all over the place as you walk along, and if you take it into a carpeted room!! So it is easyer the moment you sense that GUM on the bottom of your shoe, that you SCRAPE it off and get rid of it before it gets all over the place and makes a BIG OLD MESS THAT YOU THEN HAVE TO CLEAN up from all over the place!! SO this sticky gum of an issue has gone all over the whole world. SO THIS IS THE GREATEST FORM OF DISRESPECT on BOTH PARTIES SIDES THE ONE TO THE OTHER...
0:11 lie number one, they did not both decide to end the marriage.
why doesn't "Malky" just agree to joint custody of the children so she can have her gett? He has his male leverage (gett) and she has her female leverage (courts like mommies), but you're acting like this is abuse? this is 'use', he's using the gett in the way it is supposed to be used
1:40 Flatbush girl have destroyed the support from the community because of her crazy antics, like like yelling about "beautiful woman" in front of the kollel.
1:59
So she does not want him to ever see his children only on her terms and he has to pay per month for the right to see his children and she cries aguna waaa waaawee
A Abuser has to see his kids?
Learn the facts before commenting
He’s a huge creep. Wouldn’t want him around the kids either.
@@nireller.4749 you sound even creepier
@@nireller.4749and you know this how exactly?!
You guys have proof? Or when it come to your feminism, made up facts can also be used? #AFAF
Like bro she doesn’t want you. Also he sounds like a huge creep so don’t blame her at all.
Oh really??? He “SOUNDS” like a creep?? This is smart judgement, you should be proud of yourself.
People were making fun of this .. this is not funny .. it is very sad for both parties 😢
Another reminder of real life 😭
I have long been in favor of a Takanah = ruling in which the Rav doing the Hupah also must explain beforehand the creation of a new united entity [in eternity] known as this particular couple, AND that the Rav must also be involved in Shalom Bayit when the need comes. If you want to be a Rav to make weddings then you must involve your soul spritually with them, till your dying day. Perhaps Rabbis will get serious about making marriages, if they need be involved in the dirty stuff of peace making, and not only in the party and getting some payment. As for this particular case, one should not comment if one does'nt know the fine details. But I will say no Jew has a right to leave a women an Agunah over 2 yrs. Between year 1 and year 2 of separation either get back or give a divorce. Maybe these people never heard of 'ego - trips'
That might apply in a case of the. man abandoning the woman. That would not apply in a case of the reverse (and certainly not if the woman not only abandoned the husband without fault, but also took the assets and the children)
Las cosas se arreglan dialogando y cuando no se puede dialogar esta las leyes y los rabinos a como va que todo evoluciona deberian reeber las leyes rabinoca para que aiga orden y paz cuando una pareja no quiere continuar conviviendo y no retenerla por un bien material o emocional sino la salud de los niños y los projenitores el eterno reina donde hay armonia y si hay peles discusiones espara ordenarlo arreglarlo para que haiga paz y buscar lo mejor para las familias y continuar con la educacion de los niños peronde una manera mas llevandose bien y con respeto entre las partes y reever las leyes rabinicas y trabajar en las parejas cuando hay un conflicto y solucionarlo de la mejor manera posible para ambas partes y terminar bien aunque la pareja no sigue amandose y los niños mas tranquilos por favor 😢
1:31 this is a lie, I read some of the letters shown. It is not at all creepy it is a father expressing that he misses his children and he hopes they have a good Tu BiShvat.
The letters are not dated, we don't know when he wrote them they can be from 4 years ago.
FG didn't present a stack of hundreds of letters, it's been four years he could have written hundreds as a creepy person would.
Literal translation of the first letter.
"Tu b'shevat is a yom tov for the trees and for the fruits Hashem should help for our kids which are the fruits of our tree and Hashem should already write/sign a happy good blessed year for us
I miss very much and I hope that you and the kids will enjoy from the good fruits.
Your husband Wolf."
Thank you so much Adina for being the voice for so many. You’re incredible.
I dont get why he dosent give a get
if its beacuse she is denying his right to see his kids...then the beis din or court should decide who gets custody and if they are both fit
both have the right to see their kids as a parent and if one is dangerous for them then the beis din or court should decide that
So sorry to say. But the US Divorce Court is catered for women, a unjust justice system, and bes din is also Corrupted,
what should a guy do if he is not seeing his children, taken away all of his money,
And she is saying that he is Sexually Abusing his own children,
WOULD YOU GIVE A GET?
Forget about the Beit din
Mind your own business, period.
why are you posting this to the world to cause a fight, in between Jews. This is a family problem don't post it on social media. thank you
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Free everyone
I'm free but thank-you bro
I'm glad I'm not married lol 😂
If his mental health is deteriorating, he is not obligated to give a get it’s latchilu a marriage that is a mistake so he is not obligated to give a get she can remarry no problem according to the Jewish law
I dont see how this affects anyone or why this is an issue. She is completely free to marry 99.9% of men on the planet
But she can't marry some of the 1% she wants to
but you do have a point
Maybe religion sucks idk
I'm from a chassidishe (hasidic) family but I don't give af about religion :)
What is this?