I Got Rid of Everything for a Simpler Life ~ My Life Changing Story

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  • Опубликовано: 1 фев 2025

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  • @ConnieRiet
    @ConnieRiet  11 дней назад +13

    I'm thrilled to announce my Happiness Journal is now available on Amazon! www.amazon.com/dp/B0DHPP8K42

    • @tjp-re4du
      @tjp-re4du 10 дней назад +2

      wow, will it MAKE me happy? or just pay your rent??

  • @edwardjacknitsky5630
    @edwardjacknitsky5630 11 дней назад +108

    Life is so funny. The younger me strived for more, more, more. The older me strives for less, less, less! Beautiful video.

    • @Areutherehello
      @Areutherehello 11 дней назад +8

      Me too. I hate having lots of stuff. Constantly drowning in clutter is a slow death.

    • @williamclark1244
      @williamclark1244 8 дней назад +2

      I feel the exact same way.

    • @TheHeartWeCarry
      @TheHeartWeCarry 7 дней назад

      Yes! I bought my first house when I was 19-years-old. Filled it with many things that didn't end up being all that important. Now at 41-years-old, I've been living full time in an RV for the past 6 months. I have a 5 x 10 storage unit that has some things I'd like to keep in the family, but otherwise the rest of it is GONE. I enjoy the smaller space and am looking at an acreage/tiny home situation for the rest of my working life. I feel like my burden has been lifted!

    • @SIERRATREES
      @SIERRATREES 6 дней назад

      me too... it happens... ( & if I do need something, shopping in thrift stores mostly now also.. )

  • @briane.travers9162
    @briane.travers9162 4 дня назад +3

    "For You, O LORD, will bless the righteous; With favor You will surround him as with a shield." Life is about how you live, not what you have. The greatest peace is found in simplicity and living for God. Thank you as always Connie!

  • @lindaanderson4990
    @lindaanderson4990 11 дней назад +42

    I am 65 years old, burnt out nursing manager. Just quit. I'll be fine financially but certainly didn't plan for this so abruptly. Just couldn't do it another day. Looking to simplify, downsize, minimize expenses to be stress-free.

    • @mae9064
      @mae9064 11 дней назад +3

      You did the right thing for you. The abruptness of your decision will be probably one of your best life decisions ever. You know when you know that you have to just go !,, I’m happy for you 🤗

    • @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx
      @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx 10 дней назад +1

      I so relate

    • @JJ-cx8gl
      @JJ-cx8gl 9 дней назад +1

      The day I quit full time work I felt FREE. The next day I drove to a local zoo with much land. It was wonderful. I now take time to drive the scenic route, read, walk, chat with those I love. I wish I could talk my family member not to use siri to find the "fastest" route.. even when it is (literally) 2 minutes faster and she expects me to drive it. It drives me crazy... but I love her and I know this ride "will soon pass". Your videos are a breath of sun-kissed air. Thank you.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      It seems like you listened to your intuition for guidance. That's beautiful. When you feel at peace, is usually when you are on the right path.

    • @CPAndy-x5x
      @CPAndy-x5x 6 дней назад

      Same here. Exact same career and story. Just stopped at 65. Just. Stopped.

  • @DW...
    @DW... 11 дней назад +29

    The constant cleaning, organizing & storing becomes overwhelming! Consuming too much is exhausting 😢 letting go of stuff brings peace, time & more energy for family❤️

  • @janicegardner5027
    @janicegardner5027 7 дней назад +5

    Connie - you looks sooo young and happy!

  • @bex438
    @bex438 День назад

    Thank you for sharing Connie, it is my hope & my dream to simplify my life as much as possible & live with only the things that I truly need/love so I can truly feel free & focus on the important people & things in my life ❤️

  • @homemoviesandotherstuff3419
    @homemoviesandotherstuff3419 6 дней назад +3

    As i grow older, i resonate more and more with the idea of minimaalism, and although i still have many possessions, i am more aware of how they harness me and keep me tethered. I'm working now on following your advice about minimaalizing my closet, and also going through drawers, closets, paperwork, and kitchen utensils little by little with the intention of releasing them. That energy will free me up to bring more quiet gentleness into my life. I think some of this is a protest against the excessive need to possess "things" to feel happy. It's a journey.

  • @KimberlieOtt
    @KimberlieOtt 10 дней назад +10

    You look so radiant and happy. I love, love, love your hair, it is so pretty! Thanks for reminding me of what matters, what truly matters. I love your work, thank you!!!

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      Thank you for your kind words! I'm so glad that my content resonates with you. I'm trying to grow my hair out from a pixie cut. Because I cut my own hair, it's a learning curve.😆

  • @cindygaudet1390
    @cindygaudet1390 7 дней назад +2

    Between your channel, and reflections of life channel, and a few slow living ones, I feel such peace. Thank you❤

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 11 дней назад +8

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom connie the more simple I learn to live the greater the space is in my head to allow peace and contentment minimalism and slow living has changed my whole mindset and my life it’s lifted me out of pretty dark place and given me peace and wholeness I’m still working on it as I’m not as organised as I’d like to be but i have hope in my heart that this year is going to be the final stages of being organised and in a place I can be happy to call myself a minimalist slow living person it’s taken me 3 years to get to where I am and I’m felling so much better and happier I have also started yoga and lost weight as I’m eating more mindful everything is changing and for me it’s for the best thank you Connie you have been a great help in my life I appreciate you 🌻

  • @fredalearhinan6693
    @fredalearhinan6693 10 дней назад +5

    People have mostly always been what we today call minimalist.. we saved what we could, planned meals and only had what we needed. The modern world is geared up to spend spend and accumulate more. It's a good thing that this way of life is coming back as with less life is so much calmer and less stress just enjoying our life simply.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      I agree! I feel as if I was born in the wrong time. I'm much more content living a simple lifestyle much like the 1940's.

  • @Kahala-ln1qu
    @Kahala-ln1qu 7 дней назад

    So needed to hear this. Thank you. On journey 10 years in of trying for extreme minimalist. Love it. BFF who is very materialistic, sent me message she doesn't like how I'm living. Haha. Lost our home. Staying with friend in partially unfinished bungalow on a beautiful pond. Getting off grid training. Accepting n living n loving. Was able to lovingly explain all fine. I don't care what she "see" as not right living. These types will never get it . Oh well.

  • @Awaken218
    @Awaken218 11 дней назад +11

    I was a minimalist before I met my husband four years ago. I am grateful for having my own bedroom so I can, at least, keep that part LESS. He is the opposite of a minimalist and I have solice in my own space.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      I'm so glad you have your own space to be mindful of your own needs. It can be a challenge to live with a partner who has a different lifestyle than you.

  • @charlenehyle9700
    @charlenehyle9700 11 дней назад +4

    Connie, thank you for this video. It came at the perfect time, when I am stressing myself out over a renovation we are doing that has gone horribly wrong. Divine Timing! I see now that the trade-off of health for things is just not valuable for me. Bless you for reminding me of my mindfulness training❤

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      Thank you so much for sharing your experience and for reminding me why I make these videos.

  • @lyndarossi933
    @lyndarossi933 11 дней назад +12

    I have a plaque ( only one ,lol) on my front door that says Less House,More Home!!

  • @CarlaBrown-iq2en
    @CarlaBrown-iq2en 11 дней назад +4

    Perfectly said! Wherever you are at, it looks amazing ❤

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      I'm so glad you think so! I'm in Spain

  • @janicegiordano3688
    @janicegiordano3688 11 дней назад +3

    Thanks for sharing your journey with us. Spain is beautiful.

  • @Mo_urad
    @Mo_urad 2 дня назад

    You are writh ❤🎉 You are merveilleuse ❤

  •  11 дней назад +2

    We have downsized and moved into senior apts. over five years ago. Housework is less, less stuff to keep up with. We gave personal items to his side of family incl photos. I also donated books to small libraries and group homes. Kitchen gadgets and cookware was downsized. Dietary changes make meal prep easier.

  • @angelasinyard3743
    @angelasinyard3743 11 дней назад +5

    I am in my upper 40's. I find it much easier to have so much less; it has created much peace, thriving joy, and inward satisfaction.
    I was never involved in trends and desired to be above and beyond.
    I have made steps to be more financially secure and have grown spiritually. Freedom is true freedom when, inwardly, you have desires in the right direction.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      I am so happy to hear that you are thriving in your minimalist journey! ❤

  • @benbates9328
    @benbates9328 10 дней назад +1

    I am truly inspired by your story I am a almost 37 year old man who’s life goal is to live a slow simple lifestyle once I am able to retire. I started my 401k at 18 years of age and I am still working towards it. If there is more things I can learn to live a slow simple lifestyle I am open to learning more. As always love your videos.😊

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад

      Hi Ben! 401k at 18 is so impressive. Living a slow, simple life comes down to small daily actions and mindset. I'm glad you are part of our mindful community

  • @carlosquijano2827
    @carlosquijano2827 11 дней назад +7

    What a beautiful woman you are, Connie. 🎉

  • @marykatecurtis9557
    @marykatecurtis9557 11 дней назад +2

    What a beautiful area you are in 😊

  • @katygonzalezvargas7741
    @katygonzalezvargas7741 11 дней назад +2

    Precioso vídeo,te admiro profundamente❤

  • @RolandTsing
    @RolandTsing 8 дней назад +1

    Dear Connie, you are so beautiful !

    • @Marie-cd7vb
      @Marie-cd7vb 8 дней назад

      What if she was plain ? She would be as interesting.

  • @j.sahulka9024
    @j.sahulka9024 10 дней назад +1

    I would like that granola recipe! That looks delicious. I’m trying to have as little processed food as possible. What a lovely video. It gave me some good ideas. Thank you.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад

      Thank you! I'll post the granola recipe in the comments below. www.connieriet.com/homemade-granola

  • @yardboy3955
    @yardboy3955 11 дней назад +2

    Less is really better. I wish I knew this when I was younger. I like your video. It’s really true.

  • @TizianaTrementozzi
    @TizianaTrementozzi 8 дней назад

    Provo tanta ammirazione ,complimenti!!!

  • @TheMennomilist
    @TheMennomilist 9 дней назад

    I love that you packed all you owned into a suitcase. That's something two people I know were able to do in their teens/early twenties and it was inspiring and got me to live towards minimalism shortly afterwards. I am glad you don't want to fit in like the Joneses but instead want to be like Connie Riet. :) Keep valuing yourself.
    I don't think I'd ever see an Eddie Vedder lyric/quote used for minimalism, but good job!

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад

      I love Eddie Vedder and minimalism! Thank you for sharing this thoughtful comment.❤

  • @KodeyWhiteWolf
    @KodeyWhiteWolf 11 дней назад

    Amazing mindful changes are slowly changing physical aspects within my life. Ahhhhh ....nice. Thank you for this ( all of your) video. Enjoy your day 🤗💖

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад

      It's so wonderful to hear that you are embracing mindfulness. Sending positive vibes your way. 🤗

  • @MayaHendersonKina18357
    @MayaHendersonKina18357 11 дней назад +6

    I don't believe in taking things to the extreme.
    A balanced approach to things is key to living a healthy, stable, fulfilling life.
    To each their own I guess.

  • @marianaimolihudson8369
    @marianaimolihudson8369 11 дней назад +2

    I have been minimalist for the last 2 years. I am happier and feel relief, really .I don't desire things. I am very frugal nel spending money . I love to buy memories like a walk, a coffee ,moments spending with my family. My husband is the opposite and is painful. We can't sleep in the same room.. he has got a lot of stuff a lot. But I think he is learning because he is spending less money now ❤

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад

      Thanks for sharing!! I know that many people have the same situation. It's difficult when we are not on the same page as our spouse, no matter what the topic is. Try to find the areas that you both see eye to eye on.

  • @alejandraferraro7183
    @alejandraferraro7183 10 дней назад

    Gracias!!😊❤

  • @melissalengyel5868
    @melissalengyel5868 11 дней назад +10

    I am 50 years old, burnt out, depressed....unfulfilled in my career but not good at anything else...used to my salary and finding a job that pays me what I make now seems impossible. I need advice ....I am lost.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  11 дней назад +9

      I'm sorry that you are feeling this way. Life is not always easy or fair. Try to notice the small things that bring a smile to your face and warm your heart. All joy begins with shining a light on the good moments. Sending you thoughts of peace and happiness☺

    • @suzanneireland5558
      @suzanneireland5558 11 дней назад +3

      Praying for you to find peace and purpose.

    • @kathyschwartz6009
      @kathyschwartz6009 10 дней назад +5

      I can remember when I was 50 now 78 yrs. My goodness you are young. Start thing about what you would like to do when you are at retirement age. Sounds like you need a change of pace and something new even if it is less money. Burn out and depression is doing a number on your health and it won’t change unless you do. No money is worth I’ll health. My 70s were a bigger change than turning 60 was. Don’t be afraid of change. Get ahead financially for a bit so you can retire early, slow down and enjoy life(being with good friends). Feeling burnt out is a sign it’s time for change or take a little sabbatical to regroup. The thing I would have changed earlier than I did was trying to keep everyone happy and help paying kids bills. Having high expectations will not work if you have ill health
      In your retirement years. Set a goal then plan and stick to it. The years go faster than your think. Good luck.

    • @melissalengyel5868
      @melissalengyel5868 10 дней назад +2

      @kathyschwartz6009 Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

    • @terrilloyd3691
      @terrilloyd3691 День назад +1

      Wishing you the best in what comes next. Immerse yourself in videos like this one. A simpler life is so much better. I started this journey several years ago. I’m now retired. I have more time to do things I want to do.

  • @AN-ge2wm
    @AN-ge2wm 10 дней назад +1

    Hi Connie! Currently binge watching your videos! I see you have a few on skin and hair care but I haven’t heard you mention what you use as body wash? This is a struggle for me as I want to stay minimal but also want to use products that are nourishing for my skin. Any recommendations? I know minimal folks like Dr. Bronners but I have heard it can really strip your skin of its natural oils so I’m hesitant
    Thanks for all you share with us! I love watching your journey! ❤️

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      I'm thrilled that you enjoy my videos! I've used Dr. Bronners and find it to be good option. Currently, I buy any body soap that is 100% natural and fragrance free.

  • @lorieann4748
    @lorieann4748 11 дней назад

    Thank you for the wonderful video.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  11 дней назад

      I appreciate you watching! Glad you enjoyed it

  • @manisharai953
    @manisharai953 11 дней назад +3

    Simplicity is for mind. You can live in palace yet be simple. It means seeing the life the way it is rather than conforming to any idea or pattern because inevitably man is tired of living in pattern.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  11 дней назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom.

    • @manisharai953
      @manisharai953 11 дней назад

      @@ConnieRiet I like your videos and your perspective too.

  • @tanyajohnston8262
    @tanyajohnston8262 11 дней назад +2

    I am retired and find I need hobbies or I am bored. I like to create junk journals and crochet. I also started a RUclips channel. These keep me enjoying each day. What do you do to keep somewhat busy ? I realize that having a RUclips channel can be busy but I would need more to do. I thrift all my clothes. Household items and most of our furniture. But I also try to keep my home not cluttered. I see you bake and cook, maybe that keeps you busy?

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад

      Thank you for sharing your story with us. My website, mindfulness life coaching, posting meditations on Aura, and YT keep me pretty busy. I love hobbies!!! I bake, cook, knit, do yoga, and hike.

  • @Fulfill_Your_Potential
    @Fulfill_Your_Potential 8 дней назад

    How do you balance slow living with trying to live a meaningful life? The work I do is very meaningful to me, so I am okay with some stress. I plan on studying purpose development in adolescents and young adults in grad school.

  • @catherinewieynk4149
    @catherinewieynk4149 11 дней назад +1

    Dear Connie, thank you very much for your beautiful videos, I Like your voice too and the was you express what hast meaning to you.
    Without any critisizm (!) I would like to ask, how you deal with the fact, that your was of life - with owning very little, and instead renting a house for eyample - ist only possible, because others own much and built, repair the house you rent for example. To me the thought, that this is the way you / or I choosed the way of living and the owner of the House (example) choosed His way (of owning very much) would be too simple.
    Mybe IT IS a question of society developnent too?
    What do think about this?
    Thank you very much and warm greetings from Germany, Catherine

  • @Feliciaaron
    @Feliciaaron 11 дней назад +163

    I was a stay at Home mom with no money in my IRA or any savings of my own, which was scary at 53 years of age. Three years ago I got a part time job and save everything I make. After 3 years, I am 56 yo and have put $9,000 in an IRA and $40,000 in my portfolio with CFA, Evelyn Infurna. Since the goal of getting a job was to invest for retirement and NOT up my lifestyle, I was able to scale this quickly to $150,000. If I can do this in a year, anyone can.

    • @Tonya704
      @Tonya704 11 дней назад

      I know this lady you just mentioned. Evelyn Infurna Services is a portfolio manager and investment advisor. She gained recognition as a former employee at Goldman Sachs; a renowned investor she is. Evelyn Infurna has demonstrated expertise in investment strategies n has been involved in managing portfolios and providing guidance to clients.

    • @LoraMinadan-er9fe
      @LoraMinadan-er9fe 11 дней назад

      I went from no money to lnvest with to busting my A** off on Uber eats for four months to raise about $20k to start trading with Evelyn Infurna. I am at $128k right now and LOVING that you have to bring this up here

    • @NianLisa
      @NianLisa 11 дней назад

      This is interesting. I heard a lot about the same person not long ago, please how can I contact her?

    • @Feliciaaron
      @Feliciaaron 11 дней назад +1

      Can't share much here, I take guidance from ‘Evelyn Infurna’ a renowned figure in her industry with over two decades of work experience. I'd suggest you research her further on the web.

    • @Feliciaaron
      @Feliciaaron 11 дней назад +1

      SHE’S MOSTLY ON TELEGRAMS APPS WITH THE BELOW NAME.

  • @cherrycain6425
    @cherrycain6425 8 дней назад

    I have always been a mentalist, I guess. I hate to spend money or waste things. I learned from my precious mom. She was born in 1934 in a family of 12 kids. My son was taught by myself and his grandma. He is pretty good with his money. But, he says I’m tight.

  • @VEGANISIMOUA
    @VEGANISIMOUA 11 дней назад

    Thank you!))

  • @mornat4638
    @mornat4638 7 дней назад

    Where is this country? Thank you

  • @debra9024
    @debra9024 9 дней назад

    Hi Connie I tried to use your code provided to join your community but I receive an error message saying it’s expired. Just wanted to let you know. Thx

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад

      Thank you for letting me know! I'll look into it right away. ❤ I fixed the issue.

  • @ClaraWsfreedom
    @ClaraWsfreedom 11 дней назад

    where is the clothes rack from? 🙌

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад

      I don't know. It came with the house we are renting.

  • @siskawulandari1276
    @siskawulandari1276 10 дней назад

  • @maydeegomez1716
    @maydeegomez1716 6 дней назад

    Porqué el título de tu video está en español y tu hablas inglés?

  • @maramara3263
    @maramara3263 11 дней назад

    I would love to be more minimalistic, but I'm a preschool teacher. I need so many manipulatives for children. Any suggestions folks?

    • @margotabbott8949
      @margotabbott8949 11 дней назад +1

      Have you heard of Dana K White's container concept? It's a good way to limit having too much whilst recognising that sometimes we do need things.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      You are a rockstar for teaching those young minds! It's a tough job and thank you for being an educator. There is no "right" number of things to own. It's perfectly fine to have as many things that are needed for your job. If it's about the organization, try to eliminate all crafts/toys that are broken or unused. Organize into clear containers to help you and the kiddos see what's inside.

  • @suzanneireland5558
    @suzanneireland5558 11 дней назад +1

    What a beautiful video! Would you please share your granola recipe? ❤

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад +1

      Thank you! www.connieriet.com/homemade-granola

  • @sannak9617
    @sannak9617 10 дней назад

    ❤🙏

  • @kiarntz
    @kiarntz 8 дней назад

    ⚘️

  • @edwizard62
    @edwizard62 11 дней назад +3

    I try to keep things to a minimum but every time I turn around, my house partner buys the next new kitchen gadget, or another lamp because the corner is dark, or the shiniest candle holder thing-a-ma-jig. We sold our house last year and got rid of 99% of stuff, and now she's already accumulating more stuff again. It's draining.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  8 дней назад

      I'm so sorry, you're going through this. It's a tough challenge.

  • @angelgirldebbiejo
    @angelgirldebbiejo 11 дней назад +1

    I'm mostly attached to my dogs, not so much too stuff. Minimalist here. My neice was always a label whore but i never was, could care less.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  11 дней назад +1

      Our pets bring so much joy into our lives❤

  • @robertross8565
    @robertross8565 8 дней назад

    The older I get the less I want to own.

  • @danryan4137
    @danryan4137 11 дней назад +7

    I am a Canadian and if Trump takes us over…. I’m moving.😂 Not that I think it will be a cake walk for him. Spain looks gorgeous. I enjoy the message and resonate with minimalism.

    • @Momma_AL
      @Momma_AL 11 дней назад +4

      No one cares about your political opinions.

    • @kathyschwartz6009
      @kathyschwartz6009 10 дней назад +2

      I don’t think the Trump wants Canada. We have enough social issues here to handle. You think everything looks greener on the other side, well it doesn’t. I know people who have moved to Europe saying it’s just a little vacation and end up back in the USA. Think twice.

    • @judithburgess952
      @judithburgess952 10 дней назад +3

      We have no interest in your political reasons for moving.