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If only Western countries such as Australia, did the same thing as countries like Thailand with keeping the Thai land, Thai owned. Makes perfect sense to me.
I'm from Australia. The problem is we are a multicultural country so it's hard to know who an Australian is, unless only allow indigenous Australians to own land. Even then it's controversial to decide who an indigenous person is.
My own recommendation, and what I work toward myself is, 'Never invest more than you're willing to walk away from'. Say my wife of 12 years did boot me out. She's already given me an amazing 12 years so far. I want her to have somewhere secure to live out her days, whether I'm there or not. I get two government pensions (work, age) so I'll be fine no matter what. I could add a bunch of psychobabble, but I'll try to condense it down to not becoming overly attached to "stuff". "Stuff" can be replaced. At least for me, "stuff" isn't what gives value to my life.
Some old boy said that to meany years ago coming over there and that’s the way I go at everything plus I got kid here so not fussed. If I walk away from my house it’s only half a years wages to get back !
I just built a nice house, large carport, etc in NE Isaan. I know the risk. Been married for over 10 years. I too built the house for my wife as we both get older. I lost 3 houses and ALL my money in Aussie. The legal bill alone was 120 k USD. The whole thing bankrupted me. NEVER going back to Aussie. EVER.
G,day, Thanks for your channel.l have a Thai/Australian daughter l bought up in Australia on my own.We have no relationship with the mother however l have been buying property in Thailand in my daughters name with the plan of living in Thailand on the properties for certain periods during the year. Cheers
I live on the GC Australia, and I can assure you that a person doesn't need to go all the way to Thailand to lose their home in a relationship break-up
The law is 50/50 in Thailand on divorce and assets and that goes for the parental courts too. I'm much better here than I would have be in the UK/Oz. I have 50% legal custody which almost never happens in the west. And if I had the slightest wiff of drugs on her, I would have got 100%.
My Thai in laws have never asked me for anything , if I give anything to them it is done with love , they are good people not gold diggers and have welcomed me into their home . In the Uk there’s plenty of people who have been taken to the cleaners by their spouses sadly .
@@thenakedguru the best time of my life was during songkran , I went on a trip around the local villages and the people were so kind , asking where I was from , shook my hand , it was amazing the Isan people are wonderful 🇹🇭.
I have absolutely zero interest in having kids, but I still do not understand why people complain about paying child support! They're your kids, support them.
@@mattivirta That's not how child support works. The man doesn't totally support the child after divorce, he pays towards the maintenance of the child, as he should because he's 50% responsible for the child existing in the first place.
All this varies greatly with the person, country, and situation. My young wife died in a car accident in East Africa. Her grandfather invited me to build on his land next to his house. My two small kids run in and out of both houses. Like you, I don't think of my African house as mine. It is for my kids to have when I'm dead. I built the house myself with the help of two of my late wife's brothers. It was very cheap.
You are so right-you have improved your children's legacy and the whole thai family-life is a long journey and whatever happens the children have security and the land is protected
I do not believe that there were more happy marriages before divorce became socially acceptable, that people tried harder, got through their rough times, and were better off. I believe that more people suffered. As "Divorce isn't such a tragedy. A tragedy's staying in an unhappy marriage, teaching your children the wrong things about love. Nobody ever died of divorce."
Totally agree with you. I have lived in Muslim countries where divorce is less acceptable. The number of women that are stuck in soul crushing "marriages" is atrocious. We shouldn't look back on the past with rose tinted glasses.
No fault divorce is a key cause of societal breakdown; seeking the undefined emotional feelings of 'happiness' is destroying family, ending in significant numbers of children finding their way to prison. The stats are in!
G'Day mate, love the way you rave, it is refreshing and down to earth, Fuck all the negative nobodies, they haven't done anything like you, you live exactly as you wish. Really enjoyed your stoic chat on manhood, most whimps are busy worrying about themselves, you are way up the track of looking after your family.
I signed a 30-year land lease with my "ex-wife," my daughter's mother. I have 7 years left on it. In doing so, my name (witten in Thai) is on the back of the chanote. Years back, I told my "ex" that it was some kind of security for me, in case someone in her family felt that they could use the property as collateral. After this 30 year lease is complete, I'll do something like this again. The contract we signed together is excellent as well.
My wife and I have bought a $60000 home in a nice village. There is a way to share ownership by creating a mortgage instrument. I immediately gave half to my wife because this is a home for her so I don’t have to worry about her future protection. It is security for her and that was my intention. We have agreed that the survivor will leave everything to our combined families. My Canadian wife, of 26 years, took me to court and pissed away much more than this house is worth. I wish someone had warned me about Canadian women like they do about Thai women.
You are spot on with all your points! I would stick the property in a trust giving your wife and children equal shares so that in the future they have no issues. Also here in the UK, I go out to work for 10 hours (including travel time) so sleeping with the Mrs is not so much a problem, but if one of the kids is away, I sleep in their room. I need my space like you, I sleep at 1am and up by 6.30am and having the distance does not mean I love her any less. Everyone is different and having what works causes less stress for all.
This system can be easily be beaten regarding housing in Thailand or in other Countries. My home is a 40ft container ship I fitted out like a boat house That is transportable around the world so if the relationship breaks up I simply move the containership that's fitted out better than any bungalow I've owned with every thing I need in life then lifted on a lorry or a ship to be moved any where in the world. Containership housing is certainly the future of building a cheap priced home that's mobile.
@@tooyoungtobeold8756 DCA is dollar cost average, meaning buying in small steps while the price is moving down, and selling in small steps while price is moving up. Averaging your buy and sell prices instead of doing it all at once, which can be a sensible strategy. Sats are satoshis, the denomination of bitcoin. 1 sat is 0.00000001 Bitcoin. Enjoy the bullmarket !
@@tooyoungtobeold8756 buy Satoshis. 1 BTC = 100 million sats Satoshi Nakamoto is the creator of Bitcoin, and in the code you actually have satoshis not bitcoins
@@tooyoungtobeold8756 sats are short for Satoshis. Satoshi Nakamoto is the person who invented and gave the world Bitcoin so sats are in honour of their name. There are 100,000,000 satoshis to 1 Bitcoin. Stacking sats is basically slang for buying or receiving small denominations of Bitcoin. There is also the constant debate whether the denominations should be called "bits" or "sats" but sats have the majority of support. The classic saying is "stay humble, stack sats" Also DCA means to dollar cost average your buys, so as time goes buy you will have an average price of Bitcoin , this is also used in many investment strategies and is a good way to invest for anyone who doesn't really understand cycles.
That's a great point regarding regret. If we look back to certain aspects of our past self and shake our heads in disbelief, its because we have actually changed, we are more conscious.
Built nice house for wife,dauther,so they have good home,married 15 years now,wife has 32rai farm 600 rubber trees,18rai under rice,hopefully she gets red document for farm,which be hugh win,bought 6rai for dauther future on main road,future development,good investment for her.
Im a web3 guy. So i was surprised you were mentioning bitcoin. I do have a question though. how do you offramp it in Thailand and how is the stance of the Thai regime about it. At this moment have a bybitaccount in thailand.
I can off-ramp in the UK as I have an address there. Thailand just approved ETF here too. If I needed to off ramp in Thailand I just use P2P but for BTC I never off ramp 😊🙏
@@thenakedguru Is P2P through a platform? Never done that. Saw something like that in bybit i think. Basically sell and the amount will be tranferred to a thai bankaccount. I only offramp when need to pay the bills
Ryan, good video and information. My Thai wife of 13 years and I bought some rural property in Doi Saket near Chiang Mai. We have only 1/2 Rai but it is just the two of us and as I am retired from FedEx in USA, it is all we need. If you come to Chiang Mai, stop to visit. Chuck Lyon
Michael Sailor is a genius. I have listened to him for years and he has a track record of picking the next tech, just look at his book the mobile wave in 2010
Hua Hin and other places allow land lease of 30 years, your name will be on the back of the chanote and that's the safest you can get. The lease will renew if you sell, or if you sell to a Thai National, he/she can get the Chanote and end the lease. Trust is good, paper is better.
I ran into the same situation when I lived in Pattaya but not from a gold digger, but her family (dad) up in Burriam was. The second time I went with her to visit her family, her dad told me he would give me the plot of land next to his house so I could build my own. Yea, right! He owned 36 rai of rice land and directly across the dirt road from his house he had a little fenced off area that he had a few chickens, a hog, some plants on and a small plastic lined sump on. He told me he'd like for me to send him $300 a month so in the off season he didn't have to push his Walls ice cream wagon around because it was too hot and he could just stay home and tend to his little mini farm across the street. This was in 2002. The Thailand shiny wore off for me after about 5 years, but I had to stay and teach English for an income until my pension kicked in for another almost 5. When it hit, so did I and moved out of Thailand. I've never looked back either!
Please be careful with Bitcoin ok I know to many people who lost a lot of money and they are smart people who run and own businesses. Love you’re vlog and seeing your family grow over these past few is been a joy to watch you and your family share your lives with us and showing the Thai culture outside of the tourist zones and what the real Thailand is about thank you very much and keep up the awesome work. Take care from Canada the great white north
My Thai partner has a long time friend who is building a house on her land for us to live in. The land is cleared and levelled. No hurry as we are renting a nice place near the sea in a beautiful quiet part on the gulf of Thailand. Still not having to pay rent will allow us to start travelling again whenever we get the urge. The only thing I want in the new place is a nice swimming pool for those hot days.
Hey "dude in a hat standing in the middle of field". I've been watching your channel and just subscribed. You are one of the better youtubers. I like your delivery style and content. Thank you for sharing your experiences. If you're every in the Bangkok area, please reach out. I'll treat you to lunch. Peace & Blessings! By the way, you have a very beautiful family. Well Done!
I like your channel, it fits more my goals. I'm American ex-pat living/working in Korea. I soon to be wife I met at her aunts restaurant in Pattaya, be we both agree Isan is more relaxing. When I get the what if she takes advantage you when I retire I just tell them I have 10+ yesr before I retire I think I can figure out if she is Gold Digger by then.
I find it fascinating that people think that their way is the only way. My folks have slept in seperate rooms for years and are 54years happy together. You can tolerate your significant others others Idiocracies sooo much better if you've got a good night's sleep. Besides if your relationship isn't strong enough cope with sleeping separate then your relationship isn't strong is it?
If you are worried about the land being hocked to the bank to pay gambling debts then all you do is get a solicitor to draft a mortgage between your wife and you over the land. You would do the 30 year renewable lease as well
Seeing that 250K baht property just sparked a conversation with my Thai wife and me. We have 2.7 year old child and want to leave something for him. Anyway....thanks for the spark. Love your channel.
We literally just bought a small property last week close to Amphur in our village. 250K also! Plans for maybe a small rental unit or snack shop. We don't plan on having children though.
Most people only learn how to spend money, not how to save it or invest it. For example, instead of buying a car back in, say 2010 for 10000 dollars, you bought Apple stock, today that small investment would be worth more than a million dollars. If you learn how to make better choices with your money and your heart, life is not that bad. If you value the wrong things and buy into societal norms you can find yourself broke and miserable. I like that Ryan marches to the beat of his own drum but isn't totally dismissive of those who take a different path.
@@vintageexcellence I’m not a financial advisor and simply bought the companies I liked and used their products. I never really listened to others and followed my own advice.
@@villagefarang I’m just trying to hear one of your future picks, only since there was a confident past dollar figure given. Easy to talk about the past but hard to talk about the future 😆 I’ll go first- I think MSTR will double by the end of this crypto cycle. Nobody’s looking for financial advisors here we’re just throwing content into the ether. 😇
@@vintageexcellence At my age I am not making bets on the future. I am happy to just manage what I already have. Sorry about that but I am not going to play the game.
Thank you Ryan 😊 I agree with what you say about living arrangements.... It's your personal agreement with your wife.... I think it's a healthy and okay...... Love watching your Channel and your content is interesting 👌 ❤
Good content. Can I ask which exchange you are with and can you convert to thb and send to bank account or do you transfer to usd and use the usual route of moving money around? Regards
Built a house with my thai wife. 7 years ago. Still together and live mainly in the UK, but the money is forgotten and wouldn't even expect anything back. Probably would feel different if it was a huge place with a pool though
Nice place you are building there, would go nicely on my wife's land outside Udon too. As my wife's land is prone to flooding for a couple of months per year, how much extra do you think building on pillars would have added to the build?
I would personally get trucks of mountain soil and raise the land which is what we did - like 200 trucks full a couple years before- the issue with the pillars is when we get old you have to get up and down - many Thais end up building and living under them 😁👍🙏
@@thenakedguru Thanks for your reply. We already have a large 'platform' of soil which we trucked in and spread out three years ago, but have been advised we still need load-bearing pillars through the soil platform to the natural level of the land. Yes, the pillars will only be high enough to reach ground level, no higher than that. The pillars will bear the majority of the house weight, a concrete slab will just provide a flat surface for car port, veranda, tiling etc.
When you build on Thai land, the land is not yours but the building materials are owned by you, you can sell the materials or take them away to rebuild on another area of land.. which would save you re-investing the same amount of money to start again.
So often the blokes who have bad experiences cry the loudest and blame large groups of a foreign society while the rest of us are quietly enjoying our lives. There is danger and beauty everywhere and the perspectives that see the world through are the lens that decides how enjoyable life can be. Great channel man 🙏
I have been with my Thai wife for 22 years, but I hate what I wrote, I have been with my wife for 22 years. Why do we need to qualify her as Thai? We have a few properties here, a 18 years old son and are happy to be together, as we always were. Nothing to do with her nationality.
Re BTC or other crypto, have you set up wallets in your wife's name or are they in your name? and, do you have a crypto account at a Thai exchange? Re the later question, asking simply because I've been told by a couple of them that foreign accounts are disallowed. Also to mention, if/when in the event of your demise, does Damo know how to access and manage crypto exchanges and wallets? :)
The cold wallets don’t have names only a seed which allows you to access the BTC on the blockchain - she could join any exchange and so long as she has the seed she could covert and withdraw the BTC. In the event of my demise she follows a step by step process to access it which is in my will 👍🙏
Nice, decent guy and I enjoy the videos. Plenty of sensible advice here, he's living his dream. Totally respect the guy but my eyes glazed over a little when the poor bugger started talking crypto. Plenty to learn from this channel. I've subscribed & upvoted.
This is a touchy subject and I would think no matter the opinion it will have many detractors. I’ve been watching videos from several content providers about this subject. Not necessarily the problems of being vulnerable but would I enjoy the life that these countries could provide. If you are finding your present life financially stressful and are considering finding relief by moving to a place where you think that stress can be relieved then where does marriage to a local come into it? If it is a priority then there are more problems you are dealing with than finances. If you want a friend then be a friend. If you want an honest relationship then don’t go into it feeling you control it with finances. Rent for a few years. Make friends. Show yourself worthy of relationships. Learn how to get by learning enough of the language to at least be understood. Don’t show off by flashing money. Remember, you are probably there because you really aren’t that well off anyway. If some lady at some point sees you are real and you are friends before anything else then the problems others talk about won’t happen to you. If you go looking to buy a slave who you feel should be so grateful to you because you think you lifted her out of poverty then you absolutely deserve what you get.
You say that people don't hear very often about successful marriages? They dont because there is no such a thing in Thailand (with a Thai and foreign national). It is easy to count failed marriages (because that event is final), but how does one count successful marriages? A successful marriage is successful only until it does not fail. It could be successful today but failed tomorrow. On the other hand, a failed marriage today is always a failed marriage. You have kids so your situation is a bit diff. The main point is not to put all your eggs in one basket .. so that even if your kids and wife dump you tomorrow, you still have something to fall on. (I know that sounds horrible, but risk management has to consider worst case scenarios).
That’s the point of point 2 I’ve got tons of subscribers that have been married to Thais 20-30 years and are nearly dead - I’d say they were pretty successful 👍
I watched a video of James Abroad, and he put his house in his daughter's name when she was old enough. This is a good idea for peace of mind in the future.
Hey Joe, this is a good idea, only there is one reason that Thais don't do it so i am told. Its that the kids sometimes sell the land from under their parents if there is a fall out, disagreement, or they want to buy something. In this day and age there are many fall outs and reasons to buy things as im sure you can imagine :)
My Thai wife and 10 year-old daughter often ride together on a motorbike near our home in rural Thailand, where the road accident statistics are absolutely horrific. Under Thai law, if my wife and daughter pass together, then I have zero rights over the house I have built and paid for. For this reason only, I will seek legal advice to protect myself to the maximum possible. I believe all people should do the same.
You can arrange a long term lease to secure your investment in that case. Get your wife to make a will, see a lawyer you can protect yourself from this.
This can happen and l mentioned this to my wife 5years ago when buying our land. We both agreed a usufruct was our best option which we now have. All the best.
Is it me or would the best protection and focus not be a car? I drive Otis to school and other than the saleng for small trips I don’t let them on motorbikes - I will never buy my boys a bike because it’s just asking for trouble they can take the bus 👍🙏
If no kids together, the smart way to buy a home in Thailand is to get your wife or gf to take out a mortgage on it & have an agreement made up that you'll pay agreed monthly payments towards it...say/around what you'd be paying if renting the same. As long as you're together in the house, this is the agreement, if you split up, the agreement ends but of course the house is hers. It can work very well & both parties are invested.
Also, I am married to a Thai lady that I met online. Only way to get to know her was with chat online, go visit(I did twice) before I brought her to California. Coming up on 6 years of marriage, I'm now retired. She works here and loves to work. I support her with everything, his retirement, so she can work and save money. She buys what she wants, had lots of money and we enjoy life. She's the best person I've ever met and plan to buy a house there so she can have something when I'm gone. My kids are good, now she needs to be good 👍
What a genuine honest and loving man you are... an evolved pure SOUL., who are few and far. My wishes and love extend to share with your beautiful family. Love, light with much laughter 🎉eternities ❤😊😂
Hei bro. I am sorry for asking, I used to look at your videos before, way back. Didn't you build a house before, with that small pool and the bar, or do I remember wrong? My memory is not the best. I live in Khon Kaen btw, 15 years in. Work abroad ,on a 5 week work, 5 week holiday kinda thing. Fisherman.
Yes on my main channel we built a cottage - this is not a new build on the land - you can follow it here: youtube.com/@lifeinruralthailand?si=wAfppGaHfRwPnJUC
@@thenakedguru Thanks brother. Your story caught my interest when you started telling more honestly about yourself.Made me feel a little more normal anyway.Thanks for sharing.Appreciate it. And good luck with everything.
Same thing happens with Thai nominee businesses. The fortunes that have been walked away from are huge. All over the world always use the Vegas rule. Never invest more than you can walk away from at anytime.
Damo comes across to me as a loving, caring and dedicated wife. Ignore the haters mate. They've obviously been burnt before, or are angry at past relationships. I strongly believe in you two. You know what you are doing, and don't let anyone question that. Ever. Peas in a pod.
As ever always appreciate the support my friend - by the way the Matt thing never materialized a I.e she is not making them at the moment and sold the others 🙏🙏🙏
I agree with You 💯 % I think new people that want to stay with their family and Live in Thailand forever... should listen to Your advice 💯 % You have Your Life very well set in a Great way 👍..!! Thank You..!!!
I think the biggest difference is that you have kids with your thai wife, most of those guys do not have kids with their lady so there is no bond other than the relationship. Makes a huge difference in my opinion.
I was wondering about the other property whether you already done something with it. I also build a simple home on the property in the covid era, and took useful tips from your build. 👍
Congrats about your Bitcoin treasury strategy. Michael Saylor is a great mentor. Nice to see you combining future of money with traditional values investing in farm. What about Tesla Solar going off grid and charging Tesla EV? Elon is another icon!
@@JohnRoberts-uq6hn Both have 10x in ten years, which is enough "time will tell' for me. But as InvestAnswers says, it is not what you 'make', but what you 'keep'! Have your exit/entry strategies for surviving those cycles.
Divorce rate statistics are based on counting marriages rather than people. Imagine a group of eight people, seven of whom have been married once and never divorced (and none are married to each other). The eighth person is Elizabeth Taylor who has been divorced seven times (pretend she's still alive.) This group represents a 50% divorce rate. Hmmm....?
Damn. My grandparents slept in separate beds for the majority of their lives. They lived together and took care of each other until they were in their late 90s. I don't think it's a downward spiral. I think it's about what works for you and your partner. Weird.
I've no interest in having kids but I'd like to know what's the resdiential status for someone with a valid passport. Is an application process involved to be able to stay in Thailand during the long term?
I have to respectfully disagree on a number of points but most adamantly about the shame and "stupid" parts regarding our younger selves. Could we have been better? Always. Did we do the best we knew at the time? We tried, we failed sometimes, but we tried. I attempt to look back in compassion at what my younger self did. He just didn't know better, he wasn't stupid, he was ignorant, those are vastly different thigs. That viewpoint helps me figure out solutions to life without having a constant stream of negativity. Asking myself "Is there anything I'm missing" vs "Am I being stupid" has a serious narrative shift imo.
Not everyone did the best they could at the time nor did they try Many of us did what we would class as categorically stupid acts Ignorant may be a better word but it’s semantics Have compassion either way, the message is the growth 👍
I would actually be open to having my own bed rather than having to share. I am such a chronic insomniac I really struggle to sleep in the same bed as someone if left to my own devices I would probably go to sleep between 1AM and 3AM depending and get up at lunch time.
Great to see a significant section on Bitcoin, very wise move to save in BTC especially in Asia due to hyper inflation risks. For UK fellows, you can compliment self custody of BTC and buy MSTR stock which is a BTC proxy and add to an ISA leveraging tax free efficiencies. Boom!
Agree. Married 21 years. Very important to have your own “ interests”. We are much happier when we have time to ourselves- my time usually with the kids to give her a break in the garden- her favorite time. I watch couples who can’t take a bm without the other one waiting- very dysfunctional in my eyes. I can not live in Thailand- meaning after a month or 2 difficult not to get more irritated with “ the way things are done here”. Just me. I enjoy my visits- not retired yet. I love seasons as well- 4 where I live. When retired 2 months a year Thailand is plan. I have acreage in the mountains of California and enjoy my time there- mtb, hiking, Sup, motocross- doing those things with my kids. My youngest going on 13- so less time with my kids- but still enjoy my activities and importantly my job. I appreciate home after my month in Thailand 😆. Leaving this week- kids and wife staying another month in the village- we have done this every 1-2 years.
Greetings from Finland, you doing great, i totally agree with your stance, we live for the children . Before i used to think too much "what i want" , after having a child "what i could do for her".
just gonna rent a place out there and keep my freehold home back in UK and just rent it out..... simples!! But agree.. not EVERY Thai woman is a gold digger or bar girl!
There is no guarantee with anything in life. All we can do is plan well, as you have done. Should a relationship fail, those with integrity will ensure that each person is honoured and looked after as best as possible, but children are number one priority. Both of you have great values and living a quality life. Well done and I wish your little family much happiness going forward ❤ 🙏
To me damo is a giver not a taker to me she likes to make sure everyone else have what they need before herself to me that’s a beautiful trait to have ( sorry if I’ve spelt her name wrong ) x
“When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro”. Ryan, I appreciate your weekly post and exploring the nuances in Thai culture. A “Big Mistake” can happen anywhere. I was married for 32 years before my relationship imploded in divorce. I live in California where everything acquired during a marriage is considered community property including retirement plans. I’ve been in the court system for 8 years. The pandemic played a part in my divorce taking so much of my life. I’ve paid over $50,000 in attorney fees. When I hear somebody say that their Thai wife took them for everything they own, I want to say, “Divorce and a fractured heart are not unique to Thailand”. Divorce is a bitch, but, nobody wants to hear us bitch. The divorce will have cost me well over $1,500,000 USD by the time everything is divided. I could warn the Ryanian community that it’s just another California girl gone bad, which would be bullshit. It takes 2 people to make a marriage work, and 2 people to watch it fail. The divorce rate in California is almost 60%. Most divorces occur with 7 years. Now, compare that with the Thai Woman that someone marries… you get my point. I will have lost the equivalent of a small fortune at an age where I am unable to amass the personal property and assets again. However, I’m not going to blame my ex-wife because I know when I look in the mirror that I was difficult to live with. I lost ‘stuff’ that, in reality, was just purchased for conspicuous consumption…. To look good. In truth, I’m better off without it. I may have lost a lot of stuff., but, I still have 2 adult daughters who think the Sun rises and sets in me. We live a life eternal in the hearts of those we love who love us in return. I apologize for the digression…my blood’s too thin for California.😮
Nothing wrong with your wife sleeping with the kids, my wife does it here in Thailand. The pros are, I get to sleep in my own space. Only cons are, she’s not there for morning glory, but let’s be right, when you’ve got 2 kids there’s a time for it. 😂 Kids are hard work but so is being married. That’s how life is sometimes.
It's time for land ownership rules to be reciprocal.... That is if we can't own land in Thailand, Philippines etc, then they can't own land in our countries. That's only fair.
Will never happen - its good that Thai law favours Thai people over foreigners. Unlike Australia NZ Canada the US etc where local people have been priced out of the market due to more wealthy foreigners with lots of "hot" money being used to park in safe haven countries like ours by buying property, much of it being left vacant while we deal with a rental & housing crisis
Tell me if I'm wrong, but you're correct that foreigners can't own land...... But Americans can. I was there looking at homes with my Thai wife and the real estate lady said that because I'm an American, I can own land. I think we're the only country that can, might be via LLC but she said I could own the land.
You may be thing if this 👍🙏 The Treaty of Amity is a treaty between the United States and Thailand that aims to promote economic cooperation and trade between the two countries. Under this treaty, American businesses enjoy certain privileges in Thailand, such as the ability to own businesses and participate in certain economic activities with fewer restrictions compared to other foreign businesses. However, it's important to note that while the treaty facilitates business operations, it does not grant American citizens direct ownership of land in Thailand.
@@thenakedguru that could be in because honestly I only was aware of the LLC. But when our real estate agent told me I could, I didn't ask her about it more. I will next time.
Silver and gold are also good and are about to go much higher, I prefer silver though as its upside potential is huge in comparison. Bitcoin is good until we get hit with the "cyber attack", which is probably not too far away
bro you dont know what you're talking about. to break bitcoin you would have to break SHA256, which would render the entire internet and world economy destroyed. if there is any concern that could happen bitcoin devs will update to use a more secure hashing algo. maybe spend at least a few hours researching something before you try to sound smart online. bitcoin is the most secure network in the world. thats not hyperbole. do literally any amount of research.
If you marry a Thai she will get at least 50% of the house if you get divorced. If you own it! This is normal court ruling. Some here buy in their wife's name so that's bye bye straight away in that case. Note: I said at least because you will have to get her out and agree to sell. If you have kids you'll probably lose the house. Answer, unless you want to potentially loss all you investment don't get married. I wouldn't get married in the UK either. And a Thai company ownership is the usual route for foreigners to own land but that won't be safe from a divorce either. I've lived in Thailand 21 years.
all true except with my rules you can have your cake and eat it cheap house that costs less than 10% of net worth give her and the kids 100% of the house in case of divorce keep your assets in high quality property under your full control
Another interesting vlog Ryan. But my word there are an oddball or two watching your videos it seems! The stereotypical view of Thai women (& perhaps women in general?) seems to me to be the cause of some of these opinions and comments you receive.
@@thenakedguru if your in a long term Marriage with children like yourself building homes and buying land is great. Problem is men build houses a month after meeting a bargirl .
I agree 👍 My videos are trying to warn people Failing this make sure they have a 10% max allocation and exit strategy Thought the brother comment was funny though 👍😁
@@thenakedguru the brother act is super common. I’ve been married living in Pattaya for 20 years with children the shit these men blow their money on is breath taking.
Very good points. I won’t say ‘advice’ because of your caveat that you are just a dude in a hat. Our kids are grown and live in the US. Our Thai house will go to a nephew whom we love and admire and who will be entirely surprised when the time comes.
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction
00:13 Foreigners Cannot Own Land In Thailand
00:36 Disclaimer
00:58 Thai Wife Is A Gold Digger
01:30 Western Men Getting Wiped Out
02:23 The Old Drinking Well
02:41 My Circumstances Building In Thailand
03:00 Costs Of Building Here Vs The West
03:59 Building On My Wife's Land.. Why!
05:14 Superficies Agreement & Pre-nuptial Agreement
05:27 Sneaky Partner Taking Loans
05:53 Me & My Wife
06:04 Bitcoin Treasury Strategy
08:35 My Wife & Past Chances To Take Me To The Cleaners
09:02 Child Support
10:25 What I Want In Life
11:25 Looking Back At Shame & Regret
12:07 A Subscribers Take On The Matter
12:57 My Wife & I Don't Sleep Together
15:06 Loan Sharks Came To The House
15:33 Conclusion
If only Western countries such as Australia, did the same thing as countries like Thailand with keeping the Thai land, Thai owned. Makes perfect sense to me.
Agree
100%
Yes, our governments are selling our countries from under us, bumping up prices making it impossible for us to have property or even rent.
horse bolted decades ago but only became media focus recently with china. apparently ok when our good friends singapore, uk, usa were buyers lol
I'm from Australia. The problem is we are a multicultural country so it's hard to know who an Australian is, unless only allow indigenous Australians to own land. Even then it's controversial to decide who an indigenous person is.
My own recommendation, and what I work toward myself is, 'Never invest more than you're willing to walk away from'. Say my wife of 12 years did boot me out. She's already given me an amazing 12 years so far. I want her to have somewhere secure to live out her days, whether I'm there or not. I get two government pensions (work, age) so I'll be fine no matter what. I could add a bunch of psychobabble, but I'll try to condense it down to not becoming overly attached to "stuff". "Stuff" can be replaced. At least for me, "stuff" isn't what gives value to my life.
this is the way!
Unless it’s gone ….
Some old boy said that to meany years ago coming over there and that’s the way I go at everything plus I got kid here so not fussed. If I walk away from my house it’s only half a years wages to get back !
I just built a nice house, large carport, etc in NE Isaan. I know the risk. Been married for over 10 years. I too built the house for my wife as we both get older.
I lost 3 houses and ALL my money in Aussie. The legal bill alone was 120 k USD. The whole thing bankrupted me.
NEVER going back to Aussie.
EVER.
Thanks for sharing
Keep living the dream 😁
My German ex wife took everything too....everything.
Including emptying our joint bank accounts prior....
G,day,
Thanks for your channel.l have a Thai/Australian daughter l bought up in Australia on my own.We have no relationship with the mother however l have been buying property in Thailand in my daughters name with the plan of living in Thailand on the properties for certain periods during the year.
Cheers
Great plan Shaun!
You are the kind of story that isn’t told because happiness isn’t good for “click bait”.
May you both live in Love, happily forevermore🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I live on the GC Australia, and I can assure you that a person doesn't need to go all the way to Thailand to lose their home in a relationship break-up
The law is 50/50 in Thailand on divorce and assets and that goes for the parental courts too. I'm much better here than I would have be in the UK/Oz. I have 50% legal custody which almost never happens in the west. And if I had the slightest wiff of drugs on her, I would have got 100%.
My Thai in laws have never asked me for anything , if I give anything to them it is done with love , they are good people not gold diggers and have welcomed me into their home . In the Uk there’s plenty of people who have been taken to the cleaners by their spouses sadly .
Ditto 👍
@@thenakedguru the best time of my life was during songkran , I went on a trip around the local villages and the people were so kind , asking where I was from , shook my hand , it was amazing the Isan people are wonderful 🇹🇭.
@@Aware596 Songkran in the village is such a blast! 🎉
I have absolutely zero interest in having kids, but I still do not understand why people complain about paying child support! They're your kids, support them.
bingo
@@mattivirta That's not how child support works. The man doesn't totally support the child after divorce, he pays towards the maintenance of the child, as he should because he's 50% responsible for the child existing in the first place.
The colour of the water in that pond means it is full of aluminium. Most likely aluminium sulphate for coagulation. Not fot for drinking.
All this varies greatly with the person, country, and situation. My young wife died in a car accident in East Africa. Her grandfather invited me to build on his land next to his house. My two small kids run in and out of both houses. Like you, I don't think of my African house as mine. It is for my kids to have when I'm dead. I built the house myself with the help of two of my late wife's brothers. It was very cheap.
You are so right-you have improved your children's legacy and the whole thai family-life is a long journey and whatever happens the children have security and the land is protected
I do not believe that there were more happy marriages before divorce became socially acceptable, that people tried harder, got through their rough times, and were better off. I believe that more people suffered. As "Divorce isn't such a tragedy. A tragedy's staying in an unhappy marriage, teaching your children the wrong things about love. Nobody ever died of divorce."
Totally agree with you. I have lived in Muslim countries where divorce is less acceptable. The number of women that are stuck in soul crushing "marriages" is atrocious. We shouldn't look back on the past with rose tinted glasses.
Sadly no one thinks of the impact to the children. Solipsism is out of control
I’m definitely for divorce- just don’t get screwed over on the process 😁
No fault divorce is a key cause of societal breakdown; seeking the undefined emotional feelings of 'happiness' is destroying family, ending in significant numbers of children finding their way to prison. The stats are in!
Well said…I did my time…32 years.
G'Day mate, love the way you rave, it is refreshing and down to earth, Fuck all the negative nobodies, they haven't done anything like you, you live exactly as you wish. Really enjoyed your stoic chat on manhood, most whimps are busy worrying about themselves, you are way up the track of looking after your family.
Cheers Allan, appreciate it 👍
I signed a 30-year land lease with my "ex-wife," my daughter's mother. I have 7 years left on it. In doing so, my name (witten in Thai) is on the back of the chanote. Years back, I told my "ex" that it was some kind of security for me, in case someone in her family felt that they could use the property as collateral. After this 30 year lease is complete, I'll do something like this again. The contract we signed together is excellent as well.
Can you renew another 30 years?
I promised that I would do it for only 30yrs. By then, my daughter and her can decide what to do together. I'll hand the keys over like I promised
My wife and I have bought a $60000 home in a nice village. There is a way to share ownership by creating a mortgage instrument. I immediately gave half to my wife because this is a home for her so I don’t have to worry about her future protection. It is security for her and that was my intention. We have agreed that the survivor will leave everything to our combined families. My Canadian wife, of 26 years, took me to court and pissed away much more than this house is worth. I wish someone had warned me about Canadian women like they do about Thai women.
Come to Malaysia. You can own land or properties perpetually. Similar laws as in the UK. Subject to local financial requirements.
You are spot on with all your points! I would stick the property in a trust giving your wife and children equal shares so that in the future they have no issues. Also here in the UK, I go out to work for 10 hours (including travel time) so sleeping with the Mrs is not so much a problem, but if one of the kids is away, I sleep in their room. I need my space like you, I sleep at 1am and up by 6.30am and having the distance does not mean I love her any less. Everyone is different and having what works causes less stress for all.
This system can be easily be beaten regarding housing in Thailand or in other Countries. My home is a 40ft container ship I fitted out like a boat house That is transportable around the world so if the relationship breaks up I simply move the containership that's fitted out better than any bungalow I've owned with every thing I need in life then lifted on a lorry or a ship to be moved any where in the world. Containership housing is certainly the future of building a cheap priced home that's mobile.
Like the way you put your way loud and clear and honest…..like you people
Absolutely love to hear you've DCA'd BTC. Legend bro!
Stack Sats!
What does that mean?
@@tooyoungtobeold8756 DCA is dollar cost average, meaning buying in small steps while the price is moving down, and selling in small steps while price is moving up. Averaging your buy and sell prices instead of doing it all at once, which can be a sensible strategy.
Sats are satoshis, the denomination of bitcoin. 1 sat is 0.00000001 Bitcoin.
Enjoy the bullmarket !
@@tooyoungtobeold8756 buy Satoshis. 1 BTC = 100 million sats
Satoshi Nakamoto is the creator of Bitcoin, and in the code you actually have satoshis not bitcoins
@@tooyoungtobeold8756 sats are short for Satoshis. Satoshi Nakamoto is the person who invented and gave the world Bitcoin so sats are in honour of their name. There are 100,000,000 satoshis to 1 Bitcoin. Stacking sats is basically slang for buying or receiving small denominations of Bitcoin. There is also the constant debate whether the denominations should be called "bits" or "sats" but sats have the majority of support.
The classic saying is "stay humble, stack sats"
Also DCA means to dollar cost average your buys, so as time goes buy you will have an average price of Bitcoin , this is also used in many investment strategies and is a good way to invest for anyone who doesn't really understand cycles.
I'd even suggest men are more likely to be taken for a ride in the West than the East.
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That's a great point regarding regret. If we look back to certain aspects of our past self and shake our heads in disbelief, its because we have actually changed, we are more conscious.
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Built nice house for wife,dauther,so they have good home,married 15 years now,wife has 32rai farm 600 rubber trees,18rai under rice,hopefully she gets red document for farm,which be hugh win,bought 6rai for dauther future on main road,future development,good investment for her.
Great take on Bitcoin man!
Cheers brother 👍🙏
One of your best videos. I have been with my wife 32 years and tell people “the secret of a long relationship is don’t spend all your time together “!
🙏👍 bingo
Yes the secret to a long marriage is easy. I live upstairs and she lives downstairs.
Hahahaha 😊. It is true, my wife sleeps in different room and we are marrying for 35 years.
Im a web3 guy. So i was surprised you were mentioning bitcoin. I do have a question though. how do you offramp it in Thailand and how is the stance of the Thai regime about it. At this moment have a bybitaccount in thailand.
I can off-ramp in the UK as I have an address there. Thailand just approved ETF here too. If I needed to off ramp in Thailand I just use P2P but for BTC I never off ramp 😊🙏
@@thenakedguru Is P2P through a platform? Never done that. Saw something like that in bybit i think. Basically sell and the amount will be tranferred to a thai bankaccount. I only offramp when need to pay the bills
Yes can be done on Bybit - I’ve never had a issue with P2P 👍
Ryan, good video and information. My Thai wife of 13 years and I bought some rural property in Doi Saket near Chiang Mai. We have only 1/2 Rai but it is just the two of us and as I am retired from FedEx in USA, it is all we need. If you come to Chiang Mai, stop to visit.
Chuck Lyon
Cheers Lyon - wi do if I am up that way 😁
Michael Sailor is a genius. I have listened to him for years and he has a track record of picking the next tech, just look at his book the mobile wave in 2010
I listen to the saylor with background music to go to sleep :)
ruclips.net/video/K7Ny64iMMPY/видео.html
thank me later haha
@@thenakedguru I really like the Breedlove and sailor series what is money. I have listed to it twice
Hua Hin and other places allow land lease of 30 years, your name will be on the back of the chanote and that's the safest you can get. The lease will renew if you sell, or if you sell to a Thai National, he/she can get the Chanote and end the lease. Trust is good, paper is better.
I love your perspective on life. May all good things continue to come your way 🙏
Cheers Tom 👍
I ran into the same situation when I lived in Pattaya but not from a gold digger, but her family (dad) up in Burriam was.
The second time I went with her to visit her family, her dad told me he would give me the plot of land next to his house so I could build my own. Yea, right!
He owned 36 rai of rice land and directly across the dirt road from his house he had a little fenced off area that he had a few chickens, a hog, some plants on and a small plastic lined sump on.
He told me he'd like for me to send him $300 a month so in the off season he didn't have to push his Walls ice cream wagon around because it was too hot and he could just stay home and tend to his little mini farm across the street. This was in 2002.
The Thailand shiny wore off for me after about 5 years, but I had to stay and teach English for an income until my pension kicked in for another almost 5.
When it hit, so did I and moved out of Thailand. I've never looked back either!
Thanks for sharing!
o no u found a tai ho
Is there a way to put your bitcoin is a Thai tax free savings account like a British ISA etc?
Please be careful with Bitcoin ok I know to many people who lost a lot of money and they are smart people who run and own businesses. Love you’re vlog and seeing your family grow over these past few is been a joy to watch you and your family share your lives with us and showing the Thai culture outside of the tourist zones and what the real Thailand is about thank you very much and keep up the awesome work. Take care from Canada the great white north
Thanks 👍🙏
Did not expect the part about BTC. But it is welcomed. Wish more people were opened to a BTC savings standard.
Oh my! The sky, the sunlight, and the field! Nice topic, and thank you for sharing and giving good advice.🙏🤗😍
My Thai partner has a long time friend who is building a house on her land for us to live in. The land is cleared and levelled. No hurry as we are renting a nice place near the sea in a beautiful quiet part on the gulf of Thailand. Still not having to pay rent will allow us to start travelling again whenever we get the urge. The only thing I want in the new place is a nice swimming pool for those hot days.
Hey "dude in a hat standing in the middle of field". I've been watching your channel and just subscribed. You are one of the better youtubers. I like your delivery style and content. Thank you for sharing your experiences. If you're every in the Bangkok area, please reach out. I'll treat you to lunch. Peace & Blessings! By the way, you have a very beautiful family. Well Done!
Hey Daniel, appreciate it my friend
I'd just like to say I subbed before you mentioned btc - which would have been a shoe-in anyway xD Godspeed
I like your channel, it fits more my goals. I'm American ex-pat living/working in Korea. I soon to be wife I met at her aunts restaurant in Pattaya, be we both agree Isan is more relaxing. When I get the what if she takes advantage you when I retire I just tell them I have 10+ yesr before I retire I think I can figure out if she is Gold Digger by then.
I find it fascinating that people think that their way is the only way. My folks have slept in seperate rooms for years and are 54years happy together. You can tolerate your significant others others Idiocracies sooo much better if you've got a good night's sleep. Besides if your relationship isn't strong enough cope with sleeping separate then your relationship isn't strong is it?
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If you are worried about the land being hocked to the bank to pay gambling debts then all you do is get a solicitor to draft a mortgage between your wife and you over the land. You would do the 30 year renewable lease as well
They can still loan shark the land in the village unfortunately but with the bank what you suggested would help 👍
@@thenakedguru because I am holding the land title as mortgagee, my rights over the land would take priority to any loan shark who holds no security.
Seeing that 250K baht property just sparked a conversation with my Thai wife and me. We have 2.7 year old child and want to leave something for him. Anyway....thanks for the spark. Love your channel.
Cheers Jim 👍👍
We literally just bought a small property last week close to Amphur in our village. 250K also! Plans for maybe a small rental unit or snack shop. We don't plan on having children though.
Brilliant. Enjoyed this. Couldn't agree more.
Most people only learn how to spend money, not how to save it or invest it. For example, instead of buying a car back in, say 2010 for 10000 dollars, you bought Apple stock, today that small investment would be worth more than a million dollars. If you learn how to make better choices with your money and your heart, life is not that bad. If you value the wrong things and buy into societal norms you can find yourself broke and miserable. I like that Ryan marches to the beat of his own drum but isn't totally dismissive of those who take a different path.
Thanks Village Farang, appreciate it
So what’s your current future investment pick? Since you are naming winners of the past what’s the winner of the future?
@@vintageexcellence I’m not a financial advisor and simply bought the companies I liked and used their products. I never really listened to others and followed my own advice.
@@villagefarang I’m just trying to hear one of your future picks, only since there was a confident past dollar figure given. Easy to talk about the past but hard to talk about the future 😆 I’ll go first- I think MSTR will double by the end of this crypto cycle. Nobody’s looking for financial advisors here we’re just throwing content into the ether. 😇
@@vintageexcellence At my age I am not making bets on the future. I am happy to just manage what I already have. Sorry about that but I am not going to play the game.
Living relaxing in Thailand. Married 21 years. Never think about”gold diggers” my wife has many properties so who is the “gold digger”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Maybe we are the gold diggers considering my wife has 30 Rai 🤣
Yes 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Most think to much over. Just enjoy your short stay on earth. And when you die you cannot bring anything with you.
I was surprised how many Rai my wife has. More than I have back in the USA.😳
Is your girl side hustling...... hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Source of her income?
@@HisHimmer BTC
Thank you Ryan 😊
I agree with what you say about living arrangements....
It's your personal agreement with your wife....
I think it's a healthy and okay......
Love watching your Channel and your content is interesting 👌 ❤
Thank you Mary 🙏😁
Good content. Can I ask which exchange you are with and can you convert to thb and send to bank account or do you transfer to usd and use the usual route of moving money around? Regards
I use SwissBorg for UK account and Bybit p2p trading to buy BTC with Thai baht 👍🙏
Perfect, thanks
Built a house with my thai wife. 7 years ago. Still together and live mainly in the UK, but the money is forgotten and wouldn't even expect anything back. Probably would feel different if it was a huge place with a pool though
Nice place you are building there, would go nicely on my wife's land outside Udon too. As my wife's land is prone to flooding for a couple of months per year, how much extra do you think building on pillars would have added to the build?
I would personally get trucks of mountain soil and raise the land which is what we did - like 200 trucks full a couple years before- the issue with the pillars is when we get old you have to get up and down - many Thais end up building and living under them 😁👍🙏
@@thenakedguru Thanks for your reply. We already have a large 'platform' of soil which we trucked in and spread out three years ago, but have been advised we still need load-bearing pillars through the soil platform to the natural level of the land. Yes, the pillars will only be high enough to reach ground level, no higher than that. The pillars will bear the majority of the house weight, a concrete slab will just provide a flat surface for car port, veranda, tiling etc.
Oh if you mean building on pillar’s subterranean then not much at all probably not more than 10,000 baht 👍🙏 depends on your builders though
@@thenakedguru Thanks - I'll be sure to get a few quotes. Good luck with your build! 🍀
Well said.
When you build on Thai land, the land is not yours but the building materials are owned by you, you can sell the materials or take them away to rebuild on another area of land.. which would save you re-investing the same amount of money to start again.
Some years ago you said you were all in on Virgin Galactic. How did you do on that?
Good memory 😁 updated back then - bought at $16 sold at $52 👍
Really could not find anything to disagree with here. Nice vid mate.👍
So often the blokes who have bad experiences cry the loudest and blame large groups of a foreign society while the rest of us are quietly enjoying our lives. There is danger and beauty everywhere and the perspectives that see the world through are the lens that decides how enjoyable life can be.
Great channel man 🙏
I have been with my Thai wife for 22 years, but I hate what I wrote, I have been with my wife for 22 years. Why do we need to qualify her as Thai? We have a few properties here, a 18 years old son and are happy to be together, as we always were. Nothing to do with her nationality.
Agree - it’s also done with farang husband a lot 👍
@@thenakedguruSure, you will always be the Farang husband, pua Farang. For the Thaïs who do not know you. But it stopped bothering me long ago. 😁
Re BTC or other crypto, have you set up wallets in your wife's name or are they in your name? and, do you have a crypto account at a Thai exchange? Re the later question, asking simply because I've been told by a couple of them that foreign accounts are disallowed.
Also to mention, if/when in the event of your demise, does Damo know how to access and manage crypto exchanges and wallets?
:)
The cold wallets don’t have names only a seed which allows you to access the BTC on the blockchain - she could join any exchange and so long as she has the seed she could covert and withdraw the BTC.
In the event of my demise she follows a step by step process to access it which is in my will 👍🙏
Nice, decent guy and I enjoy the videos. Plenty of sensible advice here, he's living his dream. Totally respect the guy but my eyes glazed over a little when the poor bugger started talking crypto. Plenty to learn from this channel. I've subscribed & upvoted.
Always interesting and informative and entertaining
Cheers Michael!
This is a touchy subject and I would think no matter the opinion it will have many detractors. I’ve been watching videos from several content providers about this subject. Not necessarily the problems of being vulnerable but would I enjoy the life that these countries could provide. If you are finding your present life financially stressful and are considering finding relief by moving to a place where you think that stress can be relieved then where does marriage to a local come into it? If it is a priority then there are more problems you are dealing with than finances. If you want a friend then be a friend. If you want an honest relationship then don’t go into it feeling you control it with finances. Rent for a few years. Make friends. Show yourself worthy of relationships. Learn how to get by learning enough of the language to at least be understood. Don’t show off by flashing money. Remember, you are probably there because you really aren’t that well off anyway. If some lady at some point sees you are real and you are friends before anything else then the problems others talk about won’t happen to you. If you go looking to buy a slave who you feel should be so grateful to you because you think you lifted her out of poverty then you absolutely deserve what you get.
Which platform do you use to buy sell or hold crypto? I have a hard time choosing because reviews are mixed on all of them!
SwissBorg UK - Bybit P2P Thailand
Never hold BTC on a platform
Cold storage only 👍
You say that people don't hear very often about successful marriages? They dont because there is no such a thing in Thailand (with a Thai and foreign national).
It is easy to count failed marriages (because that event is final), but how does one count successful marriages? A successful marriage is successful only until it does not fail. It could be successful today but failed tomorrow. On the other hand, a failed marriage today is always a failed marriage.
You have kids so your situation is a bit diff. The main point is not to put all your eggs in one basket .. so that even if your kids and wife dump you tomorrow, you still have something to fall on. (I know that sounds horrible, but risk management has to consider worst case scenarios).
That’s the point of point 2
I’ve got tons of subscribers that have been married to Thais 20-30 years and are nearly dead - I’d say they were pretty successful 👍
I watched a video of James Abroad, and he put his house in his daughter's name when she was old enough. This is a good idea for peace of mind in the future.
Hey Joe, this is a good idea, only there is one reason that Thais don't do it so i am told. Its that the kids sometimes sell the land from under their parents if there is a fall out, disagreement, or they want to buy something. In this day and age there are many fall outs and reasons to buy things as im sure you can imagine :)
@@thenakedguru ooh that would be a nasty situation !
My Thai wife and 10 year-old daughter often ride together on a motorbike near our home in rural Thailand, where the road accident statistics are absolutely horrific. Under Thai law, if my wife and daughter pass together, then I have zero rights over the house I have built and paid for. For this reason only, I will seek legal advice to protect myself to the maximum possible. I believe all people should do the same.
You can arrange a long term lease to secure your investment in that case. Get your wife to make a will, see a lawyer you can protect yourself from this.
This can happen and l mentioned this to my wife 5years ago when buying our land. We both agreed a usufruct was our best option which we now have.
All the best.
Is it me or would the best protection and focus not be a car?
I drive Otis to school and other than the saleng for small trips I don’t let them on motorbikes - I will never buy my boys a bike because it’s just asking for trouble they can take the bus 👍🙏
@@thenakedguru no it’s not just you. My wife the same and atm two kids in university with no scooters allowed they are aged 19&20.
Get a car dude
If no kids together, the smart way to buy a home in Thailand is to get your wife or gf to take out a mortgage on it & have an agreement made up that you'll pay agreed monthly payments towards it...say/around what you'd be paying if renting the same.
As long as you're together in the house, this is the agreement, if you split up, the agreement ends but of course the house is hers.
It can work very well & both parties are invested.
Also, I am married to a Thai lady that I met online. Only way to get to know her was with chat online, go visit(I did twice) before I brought her to California. Coming up on 6 years of marriage, I'm now retired. She works here and loves to work. I support her with everything, his retirement, so she can work and save money. She buys what she wants, had lots of money and we enjoy life. She's the best person I've ever met and plan to buy a house there so she can have something when I'm gone. My kids are good, now she needs to be good 👍
Congratulations 👍🙏
Lovely video God bless you all always 🙏 ❤️
What a genuine honest and loving man you are... an evolved pure SOUL., who are few and far. My wishes and love extend to share with your beautiful family. Love, light with much laughter 🎉eternities ❤😊😂
Comparable to making a donation (to children) while keeping the usufruct (right to live in the house)
Hei bro. I am sorry for asking, I used to look at your videos before, way back. Didn't you build a house before, with that small pool and the bar, or do I remember wrong? My memory is not the best. I live in Khon Kaen btw, 15 years in. Work abroad ,on a 5 week work, 5 week holiday kinda thing. Fisherman.
Yes on my main channel we built a cottage - this is not a new build on the land - you can follow it here:
youtube.com/@lifeinruralthailand?si=wAfppGaHfRwPnJUC
@@thenakedguru Thanks brother. Your story caught my interest when you started telling more honestly about yourself.Made me feel a little more normal anyway.Thanks for sharing.Appreciate it. And good luck with everything.
Appreciate it - all the best in Khon Kaen 👍🙏
Same thing happens with Thai nominee businesses. The fortunes that have been walked away from are huge.
All over the world always use the Vegas rule.
Never invest more than you can walk away from at anytime.
Bingo
Damo comes across to me as a loving, caring and dedicated wife. Ignore the haters mate. They've obviously been burnt before, or are angry at past relationships. I strongly believe in you two. You know what you are doing, and don't let anyone question that. Ever. Peas in a pod.
As ever always appreciate the support my friend - by the way the Matt thing never materialized a I.e she is not making them at the moment and sold the others 🙏🙏🙏
@@thenakedguru No worries mate - thanks for letting me know. Appreciate everything! Love to you all.
I agree with You 💯 % I think new people that want to stay with their family and Live in Thailand forever... should listen to Your advice 💯 % You have Your Life very well set in a Great way 👍..!! Thank You..!!!
thanks for creating and sharing
I think the biggest difference is that you have kids with your thai wife, most of those guys do not have kids with their lady so there is no bond other than the relationship. Makes a huge difference in my opinion.
@@michaelstark5663 what does that have to do with my comment? I think you missed the point 🤷♂️
I was wondering about the other property whether you already done something with it. I also build a simple home on the property in the covid era, and took useful tips from your build. 👍
We are focussing on this build at the moment it could be a few years before we start the farm house i think :)
Hey,I'm a newbie on your channel if your arrangement works more power to you guy thanks for sharing.❤
Congrats about your Bitcoin treasury strategy. Michael Saylor is a great mentor. Nice to see you combining future of money with traditional values investing in farm. What about Tesla Solar going off grid and charging Tesla EV? Elon is another icon!
Tesla is the only share I also hold long 🙏
@@JohnRoberts-uq6hn Time told as I bought a long time ago, but it will likely tell again.
@@JohnRoberts-uq6hn Both have 10x in ten years, which is enough "time will tell' for me. But as InvestAnswers says, it is not what you 'make', but what you 'keep'! Have your exit/entry strategies for surviving those cycles.
Divorce rate statistics are based on counting marriages rather than people. Imagine a group of eight people, seven of whom have been married once and never divorced (and none are married to each other). The eighth person is Elizabeth Taylor who has been divorced seven times (pretend she's still alive.) This group represents a 50% divorce rate. Hmmm....?
Damn. My grandparents slept in separate beds for the majority of their lives. They lived together and took care of each other until they were in their late 90s. I don't think it's a downward spiral. I think it's about what works for you and your partner. Weird.
Thanks for sharing - I enjoy such stories 👍
I've no interest in having kids but I'd like to know what's the resdiential status for someone with a valid passport. Is an application process involved to be able to stay in Thailand during the long term?
Question. Are the mushrooms the psicodélica?
No they are lionsmane, reishi and Turkey take extracts 🙏
I have to respectfully disagree on a number of points but most adamantly about the shame and "stupid" parts regarding our younger selves. Could we have been better? Always. Did we do the best we knew at the time? We tried, we failed sometimes, but we tried. I attempt to look back in compassion at what my younger self did. He just didn't know better, he wasn't stupid, he was ignorant, those are vastly different thigs. That viewpoint helps me figure out solutions to life without having a constant stream of negativity. Asking myself "Is there anything I'm missing" vs "Am I being stupid" has a serious narrative shift imo.
Not everyone did the best they could at the time nor did they try
Many of us did what we would class as categorically stupid acts
Ignorant may be a better word but it’s semantics
Have compassion either way, the message is the growth 👍
I would actually be open to having my own bed rather than having to share. I am such a chronic insomniac I really struggle to sleep in the same bed as someone if left to my own devices I would probably go to sleep between 1AM and 3AM depending and get up at lunch time.
It’s your choice my friend 👍👍
Great to see a significant section on Bitcoin, very wise move to save in BTC especially in Asia due to hyper inflation risks. For UK fellows, you can compliment self custody of BTC and buy MSTR stock which is a BTC proxy and add to an ISA leveraging tax free efficiencies.
Boom!
Also hold MSTR :)
Agree. Married 21 years. Very important to have your own “ interests”. We are much happier when we have time to ourselves- my time usually with the kids to give her a break in the garden- her favorite time. I watch couples who can’t take a bm without the other one waiting- very dysfunctional in my eyes. I can not live in Thailand- meaning after a month or 2 difficult not to get more irritated with “ the way things are done here”. Just me. I enjoy my visits- not retired yet. I love seasons as well- 4 where I live. When retired 2 months a year Thailand is plan. I have acreage in the mountains of California and enjoy my time there- mtb, hiking, Sup, motocross- doing those things with my kids. My youngest going on 13- so less time with my kids- but still enjoy my activities and importantly my job. I appreciate home after my month in Thailand 😆. Leaving this week- kids and wife staying another month in the village- we have done this every 1-2 years.
Greetings from Finland, you doing great, i totally agree with your stance, we live for the children . Before i used to think too much "what i want" , after having a child "what i could do for her".
just gonna rent a place out there and keep my freehold home back in UK and just rent it out..... simples!! But agree.. not EVERY Thai woman is a gold digger or bar girl!
good plan
There is no guarantee with anything in life. All we can do is plan well, as you have done. Should a relationship fail, those with integrity will ensure that each person is honoured and looked after as best as possible, but children are number one priority. Both of you have great values and living a quality life. Well done and I wish your little family much happiness going forward ❤ 🙏
Well said 🙏
To me damo is a giver not a taker to me she likes to make sure everyone else have what they need before herself to me that’s a beautiful trait to have ( sorry if I’ve spelt her name wrong ) x
this is very true Jean
“When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro”.
Ryan, I appreciate your weekly post and exploring the nuances in Thai culture.
A “Big Mistake” can happen anywhere. I was married for 32 years before my relationship imploded in divorce.
I live in California where everything acquired during a marriage is considered community property including retirement plans. I’ve been in the court system for 8 years. The pandemic played a part in my divorce taking so much of my life. I’ve paid over $50,000 in attorney fees.
When I hear somebody say that their Thai wife took them for everything they own, I want to say, “Divorce and a fractured heart are not unique to Thailand”. Divorce is a bitch, but, nobody wants to hear us bitch.
The divorce will have cost me well over $1,500,000 USD by the time everything is divided. I could warn the Ryanian community that it’s just another California girl gone bad, which would be bullshit. It takes 2 people to make a marriage work, and 2 people to watch it fail.
The divorce rate in California is almost 60%. Most divorces occur with 7 years. Now, compare that with the Thai Woman that someone marries… you get my point.
I will have lost the equivalent of a small fortune at an age where I am unable to amass the personal property and assets again. However, I’m not going to blame my ex-wife because I know when I look in the mirror that I was difficult to live with.
I lost ‘stuff’ that, in reality, was just purchased for conspicuous consumption…. To look good. In truth, I’m better off without it.
I may have lost a lot of stuff., but, I still have 2 adult daughters who think the Sun rises and sets in me. We live a life eternal in the hearts of those we love who love us in return.
I apologize for the digression…my blood’s too thin for California.😮
Congratulations on finding teachings in the suffering - thanks for sharing 👍🙏
Nothing wrong with your wife sleeping with the kids, my wife does it here in Thailand.
The pros are, I get to sleep in my own space. Only cons are, she’s not there for morning glory, but let’s be right, when you’ve got 2 kids there’s a time for it. 😂
Kids are hard work but so is being married. That’s how life is sometimes.
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It's time for land ownership rules to be reciprocal....
That is if we can't own land in Thailand, Philippines etc, then they can't own land in our countries.
That's only fair.
Will never happen - its good that Thai law favours Thai people over foreigners.
Unlike Australia NZ Canada the US etc where local people have been priced out of the market due to more wealthy foreigners with lots of "hot" money being used to park in safe haven countries like ours by buying property, much of it being left vacant while we deal with a rental & housing crisis
Tell me if I'm wrong, but you're correct that foreigners can't own land...... But Americans can. I was there looking at homes with my Thai wife and the real estate lady said that because I'm an American, I can own land. I think we're the only country that can, might be via LLC but she said I could own the land.
There are ways -I say for the most part for this reason - if you make a company foreigners can only own 49% 🙏👍
@@thenakedguru ok.. that's what I thought too. But the rules are different for Americans. I'll see if I can find out more about that difference.
You may be thing if this 👍🙏
The Treaty of Amity is a treaty between the United States and Thailand that aims to promote economic cooperation and trade between the two countries. Under this treaty, American businesses enjoy certain privileges in Thailand, such as the ability to own businesses and participate in certain economic activities with fewer restrictions compared to other foreign businesses. However, it's important to note that while the treaty facilitates business operations, it does not grant American citizens direct ownership of land in Thailand.
@@thenakedguru that could be in because honestly I only was aware of the LLC. But when our real estate agent told me I could, I didn't ask her about it more. I will next time.
I also watch Thai talk with Dan. Intreasting stories. Regarding gold diggers Worth a watch. Love your videos ❤
Silver and gold are also good and are about to go much higher, I prefer silver though as its upside potential is huge in comparison. Bitcoin is good until we get hit with the "cyber attack", which is probably not too far away
Yes gold is a good back up 👍
bro you dont know what you're talking about. to break bitcoin you would have to break SHA256, which would render the entire internet and world economy destroyed. if there is any concern that could happen bitcoin devs will update to use a more secure hashing algo. maybe spend at least a few hours researching something before you try to sound smart online. bitcoin is the most secure network in the world. thats not hyperbole. do literally any amount of research.
If you marry a Thai she will get at least 50% of the house if you get divorced. If you own it! This is normal court ruling. Some here buy in their wife's name so that's bye bye straight away in that case. Note: I said at least because you will have to get her out and agree to sell. If you have kids you'll probably lose the house.
Answer, unless you want to potentially loss all you investment don't get married. I wouldn't get married in the UK either.
And a Thai company ownership is the usual route for foreigners to own land but that won't be safe from a divorce either.
I've lived in Thailand 21 years.
all true
except with my rules you can have your cake and eat it
cheap house that costs less than 10% of net worth
give her and the kids 100% of the house in case of divorce
keep your assets in high quality property under your full control
@@thenakedguru Absolutely mate totally the way to go.
@@thenakedguru I Always tell people don't invest anything in Thailand you can't afford to lose.
Bingo 👍
Well said Mate!!! You are a good Man!!!!
When I go back to Chiang mai, I am going to get a scooter with a shade cover like you, pro move.
Keep fighting the good fight. Living the dream bro
I have salang envy...
Another interesting vlog Ryan. But my word there are an oddball or two watching your videos it seems! The stereotypical view of Thai women (& perhaps women in general?) seems to me to be the cause of some of these opinions and comments you receive.
I think you could be correct 👍
Very good keep up the good work.....
Very sweet of old foreign men to build young Thai women and their Thai husband ( pretending to be her brother) a new home.
🤣🤣🤣
ruclips.net/video/IsVlc9CHwj4/видео.htmlsi=OVyDTEUe_tYBmxcW
@@thenakedguru if your in a long term
Marriage with children like yourself building homes and buying land is great. Problem is men build houses a month after meeting a bargirl .
I agree 👍
My videos are trying to warn people
Failing this make sure they have a 10% max allocation and exit strategy
Thought the brother comment was funny though 👍😁
@@thenakedguru the brother act is super common. I’ve been married living in Pattaya for 20 years with children the shit these men blow their money on is breath taking.
yeah i agree, in that video i linked i talk about it 👍👍
Very good points. I won’t say ‘advice’ because of your caveat that you are just a dude in a hat. Our kids are grown and live in the US. Our Thai house will go to a nephew whom we love and admire and who will be entirely surprised when the time comes.