You Took It, You Pay
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
- The plaintiff says she dated and lived with the defendant until she discovered he was actually married when his wife - the co-defendant - reached out and called her a homewrecker. She’s suing her ex and his wife for property and emotional distress. The defendants claim they were separated but later reconciled. They’re countersuing for storage fees and emotional distress.
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He didn’t want his family back he ain’t have no where to go
exactly
Big facts! He was whack!!
Exactlllllyyyyyyy! Got kicked out of the military..things went wrong with the jump off now you want your family back...gtfoh
That part
Facts.
Baby your HUSBAND did this to you. That woman didn’t do shit to you. That hug was respectable though
Yes but did see her eyes shift?
Glad they see its him, and don't even waste yall time fighting over him
Chile I wouldn't couldn't . I saw that shift in them eyes to
Sho was! Very respectful and noble.
I thought the hug was creepy but maybe they needed that.
Look at him standing there looking stupid 🙄😂
@Elle Amarí 😂
😂🤣😂🤣 I needed that laugh. Thank you!
You took the words right out of my mouth! 😂😂😂
AF
Hahaha I'm laughing so hard right now.This comment had me on the floor
Them hugging at the end shows how fed up they are with this man's mess 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
What man? I didn’t see one.
@@NC-wf4ki that’s why military let him go, they couldn’t make him a man 😆
@@NC-wf4ki 🎯🎯indeed!
And it wasnt a quick hug. The wife had an embracing moment. The wife is fed up! It could be she saw tge light!
This man doesn’t deserve either one of these ladies.
Agreed!!!
After that handshake and hug, he might get hella lucky!
Both ladies were 100 and he is a 0.
*Perfectly stated!*
😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
So the women hugged it out but he stood there like he was suffering from stupid. Great job judge Mathis.
she's also the one who did all the talking at the end lmaooo!
Suffering from stupid. 😂🤣😂.
I’m stealing that expression!😂🤣😭
Suffering from stupid🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the way I hollered🤣🤣🤣I can’t wait to use this phrase on somebody🤦🏾♀️. Just hope I don’t mess it up by laughing.
I’m with Judge Mathis he would be there standing alone, that’s his mess he created! Dogs love to roam then come back home
Ok 👍
That's an insult to dogs though,...at least dogs are loyal. ;)
Right
Truff
Don't forget she got a baby by another man so she's just as messy and nasty....and fat
Doyle said “That should have been a sign for her,The military didn’t want him” He hit the nail on the head with that comment!!
Right Doyle got some black power in him, he always says the right statement.😀
I laughed my tongue out 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I gaaaaaaaaagggggged! 😂😂
He was mad about that too 3:09 😂😂
+he's a dishonorable discharge will bar him from good federal government careers, & sometimes the after life of the VA & all affiliates including; education, VHA $$ for homes, home improvement, & GOD fearing Homegoing Celebration whenever you pass away!!
Every home wrecking husband need to see this. They create drama and run and hide and have the wife fight the battle. Disgusting. Grow the eff up. The ending made me very proud.
You better say that!!! Have the wife looking stupid because of his lies, then BAM out come receipts! Smh
Stop playing all parties knew what was going on. Neither of these women have self-respect. They keep playing around with boys instead of looking for a real man. And it’s hard for them to find a real man because they don’t attract real men because they have no self-respect.
Soon as women quit dealing with clowns like this instead of getting damaged further these would stop…they hugged it out but back with his ass 😒
Did you miss the part where the girl said his wife got pregnant by another man? I’m not sure but that had to be a reason why they wasn’t together and after all his mess she still stayed by his side. It’s reasons for that not always on the husbands lady’s
@@SuperBRIANWILSON accountability a mf
This man should be ashamed of himself he's just trifling
Military DOOOGGSSS!
Yea, for dating women who look like that 😂
@@Druxluxe Really?? Wow, that was a crappy thing to say.
@Shoober yes and by the looks of that pic of his 😬 lol
@@Druxluxe this dude. Yo I’m so glad you are god’s gift to women
The worst breakups are the ones where you take a financial loss when it's over. If you dont want me, fine, but don't leave me with less than I had before I met you.
That part
💯💯🙌🏽
Wisdom
Facts 💯
Well put
Whole time his ass was scared to talk because he know he had been lying to his wife too!! Stuttering & shit🤣
U caught that too
Lmao right
😂
She should have socked his ass in the face right there... judge Mathis probably would have let her🤣🤣🤣
I could not do court I stutter tryna say a riddle lol
He was using her he should be ashamed of himself.
Ain't as slick as he thought,
This man is so damn trifling and he’s stuttering clearly he’s a liar.
Some people stutter
@@mychannel9403 agreed my son stutters but he was trying to lie
Definitely trifling. Laying down with women who look like that 😂
@@queenofthreeprinces854 everyone who stutters aren't lying. We're excited. Are blood races when talking fast. We just need to calm down.
@@54601nina nah yall be lying lmao
LMMFAO! when ol boy said "he realized he wanted his family" and judge Mathis said "let's realize about her furniture first"😂😂😂bruuuuuuh that shit had me rolling💀💀
I love judge mathis I wish judge mathis would clowned his ass
🤣🤣🤣
Hell yeah had to let my wife hear tht 😂
They always realize when they fall down and need help🙄🙄
Lol 😂
The ending gave me HOPE that the wife got a full picture of her husband and his nonsense and will soon be gone....THAT I WANNA HUG YOU AND SHAKE YOUR HAND SHOWED THE POWER THESE WOMEN HAVE
Yes don’t fight over no man ever
@@Sunshine134chick amen
His reaction was like "ahh shit".lol
The wife new was up.. she had a baby by another man.. they both did they own thing..lol she was mature about it at the end. Kudos to her
Did you miss the part where she got pregnant with someone else child 1:34? They belong together lmao
".......I'm not dealing with YOU on this, ma'am! You deal with HIM at HOME" spoken like a REAL man and HUSBAND! I not ONLY love Judge Mathis but I have THE upmost respect for him!
Utmost...
Anybody else binge watch this show??? I love it, lol.
Been looking at this all day 😂😂
Man I do. I wake up looking for new videos posted and watch it til I go to bed. Im still watching the old ones so havent seen them all yet but I'm sure i will soon. Lol
Yeah. Used to watch Judge Judy too. But I see she's way out of touch with the times & reality of how life out here is now
Yes!!!!! Since day 1 lol
What I think lol
He realized that he wanted his family after he got kicked out of the military
Cause he had no where to go.
Exactly!
I’m with judge gotta stand on ya own bs 💯
He’s trying to lie to Judge Mathis like he lies to his wife...wrong move homie, LOL
I can respect this she wasn't trying to be Shady she thought this man was divorced, and it seems as though once you found out he wasn't she respected their relationship but wanted her stuff
That’s all I really wanted
@@nakebaedwards5388 I feel like he slipped up and said he put it in storage so just in case things didn’t work out with his family. I could be wrong but I thought I heard him say he realized he wanted his family but just in case 🤦🏽♀️
@@Natas_Nico08518 I caught that too
Exactly I’m so proud of her not continuing a relationship with this man after learning he was married. Some women will become his side chick for 30, 40, 50 years 🙄 unbelievable. I’m glad they hugged at the end, amazing sisters both of them
The women were very mature about it....I loved to see it!
Sadly and all too often, they aren’t mature about who they link up with. 🤷🏾♂️
You gotta be when you built and look like that.
Respectful queens
@@Druxluxe I know u not talking tryna put down black women when u look like that...have several seats sir😂😂😂
Yess they was I loved the ending
That lady didn't bring you into anything ma'am. YOUR husband brought it into YOUR marriage.
Maybe you missed the part where the plaintive said that the wife had a baby by another man
He Standing There Looking Like A Damn Fool
Looking like what he is
Naw his "wife" is.😂
How did SHE drag the wife into it? Everything comes around to the husband. There would be no side girl without the husband. So no ma’am SHE did not drag you into anything. Just like judge said 💯
Exactly!
Y’all I promise I didn’t call that lady
. I'm glad that you won!!! :-)I know that you didn't
Amen!
@@nakebaedwards5388 You handled yourself with class.
Judge Mathis is right!!! Keep your wife out of drama she didn’t create 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
He was going to let her stand right there and fight bout sumthin he knows he been lying bout but jm shut it down b4 it could even get started. I swear. Some women so stupid. They go fighting everybody but the person responsible. Wtf is she hugging that woman for? She is taking the problem home with her. He didn't want no family back. He didn't have nowhere else to go. His wife probably was doing really good. got all the bills paid. got money saved. His grandmama probably told him how good she was doing. I bet she ain't got shit now.
Two women being respectful!!! Love to see it
I respect those young ladies hugging at the end
Doyle!! If the army didn’t want him you shouldn’t want him! 😂🤣
I actually like how she hugged the lady at the end. Definitely something a grown woman does
So glad the Judge said something about his wife standing up there with him. Ain’t got nothing to do with her. The husband needs to handle this mess.
DOYLE!!! LMBO! That man is a fool! LMBO! If the Army didn't want him, that definitely was a sign lol.
That had me 🤣🤣🤣😂
@Nerdy Teddy, when Doyle made that comment home boy 👀 a way he wasn’t feeling that ish @ all!😂😂#staywokeppl✌️
Hahahahahaaaa, the look on the man's face when he said that.
Right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love how Judge Mathis speaks to these messy men! Don’t drag your wife in your mess!
I’m glad that they hugged each other. These women did not curse at each other. I’m proud of these to have respect for one another. He’s going to do it again.
Good job ladies for maintaining your dignity AND self respect!!
He been playing that xbox 1 everyday since they delivered it to his momma house !! Lol
Judge Mathis is EXCELLENT at Holding a mirror up to people to cause Accountability
I’m glad they hugged. He’s a piece of work.
Wife: 😔I would like to shake your hand
Side boo: 🤗I'm gonna hug you
Dude: 🤯
She bouta leave his ass 🤣.... hopefully
💪🏾🥴🥴😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😆😆😆😆. That hug was weird
That hand shake and hug right there to just finish it and move on... that's the power move for both women. Move forward, don't look back.
She gone quit him when they get back home.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂yupppppp!
😆😆😆😆😆😆 And then he gone cry in the car.
No she's not she was still trying to blame the other woman
Doubt it
No she won't
Am I the only one trying to figure out why he was kicked out the military?🤦♀️
I’m surprised judge Mathis didn’t ask lmao probably for that cheating
@@thetallgiirl I totally agree! He normally asks! I was waiting too! 😂
Yeah judge Mathis slipped on that one.
Probably found out he was cheating on his wife or he was lazy
@@tamarshawilliams93 you can get kicked out for cheating???
I’m some obsessed with this show I dreamt I was riding around my hometown in the Bahamas with Judge Mathis 🥴🥴😂
Lmaooo
Kmlll
Okay but was Doyle there? We need ALL the tea ☕️ sis 😂
@@KPbouj Doyle was not there unfortunately. The car was raggedy too 😂😂😂. I told him I see why he said he deserved a new car cause he really did. He gave my sons a lot of life lessons like he does on the show. We ate good and then he dropped me off at home. It was a good dream!
@@queenofthreeprinces854 😂😂😂 I stay having crazy dreams so I’m just so tickled by this.
"And I hope God can... be good to you. He always is."
She was gonna say something shady, but she remembered she on TV.😂😂
At the end Mr. Trifling was looking like this some BS when they hugged....LMAO
😂😂😂😂
later realized he wanted to reconcile exactly why you shouldn’t date seperated men .
He was kicked out of the military and wasn't sure what his future would be with this new woman so he jumped on Old dependable... I'm happy to see in the comments that women are finally saying no they're fed up with men who use and abuse them there are very few straight black males available to straight black women and they take advantage of that they know clearly that a woman wants to be with a man... You can always keep a Rolodex of men you do not have to settle
Lol
He told her that he was divorced.
Say that again!!! A separated man is still a married man. But this fool even lied about that.
@@valeriepetty5853 exactly !!👏👏
TELEVISED embarrassment to his wife, help it lord😭
And she still standing there trying to defend who contacted who 1st,a moot point. Ma'am, your husband probably put that woman message in your damn inbox. Who da f cares? Talking bout everything but the right thing. Talking to everyone but the right one. Wtf is y'all hugging for? I would not be hugging no woman my husband been laying up with. That damn woman supposed to been moving in with yo man and he stopped answering the phone. Naw. I'm not hugging no damn woman like that. That woman still in love with him. We ain't damn friends and I'm not bout to make her think we are by hugging her.
@@MUTTLEYSWOMANShe's hugging her because she came in there initially angry with the wife, hence the reason she threw shade immediately in the beginning of her testimony. But they both probably realized by the end of the hearing that Judge Mathis was correct; they have no discourse between them the husband is the problem.
The Husband lied to that woman and told her he was divorced. He then went home and lied to his wife about his correspondence with the plaintiff. He should have sent the woman her stuff in February when it arrived. He should have answered the phone or at least text her back so they could coordinate where to send her belongings. And her property shouldn't have been sitting in his Mother's basement until April. And it certainly should not have been put in storage.
And if the wife can hug a man who pledged his allegiance but betrayed her by dishonoring that pledge by laying up with another woman. A Husband who cared so little for her that he brought her on national TV airing their dirty laundry allowing the nation to put a face to his Wife. She can hug a stranger who made no such promise. A stranger who was only a victim of her Husband's conniving ways.
Everyone wants their family back when all else fails 🙄
I give the highest respect to you both women for the respect you gave each other!!!!!
I would NEVER be standing next to my husband in this type of situation! This is crazy!
She thinks she won the prize because he with her. He’s only with the wife because he had nowhere to go after he was kicked out
My heart broke when she said "you brought me into this" as if her husbands cheating didn't start all of this. But it goes to show how the hurt will have you delusional😢 The ending was everything tho
I don't feel sorry 4 her......Love Urself.........
They lying...they were talking about more then some furniture and stuff on the phone. Both stumbling and bumbling. No way I could stand beside my husband without being held in contempt of court. 🤜
Right👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I MUST say, that was a VERY respectful ending. That is how WOMEN finish things off. Hats off to the ladies that were dragged into this situation by that dirty dog.
That was the most mature handling from 2 black women a hand shake and a hug great to see this
He’s trifling and she’s ridiculous standing by him boy the desperation 🙄🙄🙄
It's hard out there for a pimp
Say it again
Cuz she’s just as bad as he is having a whole ass baby outside the relationship. They deserve each other!
And then talking shit at the end... Like gurl she jus wanted her stuff
Right. And wtf is she that woman for? I wouldn't be hugging no woman my husband been laying up with. Men like this will help you keep yourself 100 lbs over weight and fighting battles that's not yours. He is the worst type. Must not be nuthin but animals where they from if this what she fighting for. Damn
These ladies are so sweet and being grown women!!!🥰🙌🏽
The hug...thanks my dear he is all yours sweetheart!! In a couple of years u will be in court standing as the plaintiff and some other fool will be standing at his side.
The ex won in more ways than one. He is no prize! He went back to his wife because he didn't have a pot to piss in 🤦🏾♀️.
Doyle with the shade! Should have been a sign if the army didn’t want em 🤣🤣
That just hurt his whole soul when they hugged.
"don't you get on tv with me and be standing there embarrassed" now that's what a real man would've said!
I appreciated that hug. Us ladies gotta stop being mad at each other because of a guy's foolishness
I'm uncertain why women always go after the "other woman" when it's ALWAYS the husband that goes against their vow to one another. The wife got it wrong, it was her husband that dragged her into that mess! it was like she heard nothing Judge Mathis said! But at least they hugged at the end!
Exactly she heard nothing
It depends if the woman knew about the wife before hand or not. If the woman knew about the wife and still got with the husband then yeah blame the woman. If the woman didn't know about the wife and found out after she got with the husband then yeah it's 100% all the husband fault.
yeah it looks like Nakeba was under the impression that the guy was divorced. Looks like the husband gave a misrepresentation on the status of his marriage.
The wife was wrong to call that lady a home wrecker. She was clearly separated from her husband. I mean the lady had a whole baby with another man. So they were “done” until they weren’t.
@@diodio9494 WRONG! Here's a little MARRIAGE 101! A marriage contract is an agreement between TWO people. If the husband or the wife step out of that agreement, even during a separation, THAT PERSON has broken the contrac! The OTHER woman or man has made NO CONTRACT with either the husband or the wife and therefore are under no obligation to either of them! The couple ARE THE ONLY ONES BOUND BY THAT CONTRACT! C'mon people, it's 2021... Evolve in your understanding of what a marriage REALLY IS!
I’m so glad they hugged too. But I just wanna add it’s not “always” “only” the husbands fault. Some women know full well a man is married and will willingly carry on an affair with him for sometimes 30, 40, 50 years. In which she would be a participant to the “crime” of adultery because she wasn’t forced or deceived. Also, I know of cases where “the other woman” was a friend or relative. In fact Google the case where the mistress was sleeping with her cousin’s husband then killed their married couples kids because he did not want to move away with her and leave his children behind. So I say this to say, each case is a case by case situation and at the end. The Almighty will judge who is guilty of adultery and who is cleared. I’m so proud of both these ladies for forgiving one another and be careful trusting the words of this man moving forward. He need to really show himself approved
Chile, the wife looking like a whole fool standing there...lawd. 😒
Gul u tickled me
Right cause I damn sure wouldn’t be . that’s your mess handle it on your own. Plus why tf you giving this woman the run around over her stuff
A whole duck🙄
I am happy the two sisters act like real sisters and hugged.😊
At the end the wife saying the mistress contacted her first. 🙄 Really that's what you stuck on?
I really didn’t contact her. She found my name and looked me up on Facebook
Right?!? And it wasn't true!
@@nakebaedwards5388 I hope he paid you. Or is it true the show pays the judgement?
@@jennevamadison3803 the show paid me. I’m not sure if he had to pay them back though.
@@nakebaedwards5388 girl we know she’s lying, why would you contact his wife if you didn’t even know he was married? - she really tried it lol
He was pathetic.
Still probably is
@@highrawvegan 😂😂😂
He IS pathetic!
The hug at the end. 🥰 he will never live that one down. He can educate others on , not what to do. 😂
This gives stand by your man a whole new meaning.
I am glad to see these two sisters embrace each other. Too many men do foolishness and then women attack each other when it is the man that cause the mess. Love this episode. Magistrate handled it perfect.
So nice to see that these women didn't let a sorry man make them enemies..
Judge: where were her things shipped
Defendant: It took awhile to be shipped
Judge: Understand that. Where were they shipped
Defendant: Well actually they were going to my grandmothers house
Judge: Where were her things shipped?
Lmfaoo just get to the point man all them unnecessary lies. Then the wife standing up there ready to defend him till no end😩
😂😂
That hug was POWER!!!
No one falls back in love faster than someone who's out of options
These women displayed such maturity. The man, immature and irresponsible. The judge kept it real and relevant with no nonsense.
Yes the wife needs a hug and some blessing to pull her through this mess of her husband... 🤦🏾♀️
He was livid when those ladies hugged. On the other hand awesome job ladies, this was an awesome moment.
Real women. There was no reason for the women to fuss and fight at all.
"No No No I'm talking to him Ma'am, I'm not dealing with you on this!, have a good day, you deal with this at home!"
Face drop!!!
Bianca: i would like to shake your hand
Nakeeba: I’m going to hug you.
Nakeeba also: I still want my money
His wife should be ashamed to even be standing next to him. My husband would of been standing in court alone
I’m glad they hugged it out.
Yoooo what did it for me is the judge saying "Oh my goodness!! You put your wife in this!!"!...... I am hollering 🤣, all he needed was some pearls and put his hand over his heart! That high pitch voice had me rolling. 😂😂😂😂😂 That Defendant is pitiful at best!
Judge Mathis! Really demonstrated integrity within the standard of marriage, responsible manhood and mistress abandonment. He dealt with the man! Who created the problem.
Kudos JM
The defendant is a real piece of work. A big trifling, liar, and a user. The wife needs to divorce him.
Don’t forget she went and had an outside baby from another man. He just bought home some furniture and a xbox1.
Lol I think people got caught up and forgot about that part. They both was trifling.🤷🏽♀️
I missed that part.
@@jasonr.9863 Go to beginning.
@@kevinjones6392 I meant the first time I watched it, I came back to it now and caught it. My comment was clear... I don’t feel as bad for her anymore
@@jasonr.9863 Oh ok bra.
“Deal with him at home” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Excellent advice, Judge!!
This goes to show ppl secure men can’t stand men who cheat on their wives because they know how pathetic it is.
Not our business. Every man is his own man. And we don't judge each other. Do you🤔
Typical with those types of men. No backbone. Ready for women to fight their battle. I been married for 20 years, my husband ain't neva did no type of shit like that but I have his back and he's got my back no matter what. Lord thank you for answering my prayers for a good man 21 years ago and you have still blessed him 20 years later to be a beautiful soul. ❤
That's what you have to do. Asked God for a good mate. I did.
Congratulations on your marriage
Love how the judge handle this case#JudgeMathisRocks💞
The man standing there lookin like “This is beyoooond ME!” *Ha Ha Davis voice* 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆. Cheat man ! Cheat man ! Yeah that's me! Explaining to JM what happened 'bout to be a breeze 😆😆😆😆
Ty Judge Mathis put that respect back on the table! You go brother!
I loveeeeee how judge Mathis handled this case.....he didn't play about the mans embarrassing his wife. This is yo shit now you gotta lay in it! Deal with it! And fix your family!!!! Fix yourself sirrrrrr!!!! ❤
The plaintiff hugged the wife because she knows that the poor lady needs all of the help that she can get with that guy!!!
I wish the judge had pressed him more on why he got kicked out the army
Probably for cheating. Maybe the wife called his commander for 1st sgt
And allowed the plaintiff finish how defendant's wife has a baby with another man. Just for gossip's sake lol
What if during the hug the wife whispered in her ear "don't let me catch u outside " ?😳
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Those would be considered fighting words 🤷🏾♀️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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@@nakebaedwards5388 like your attitude!
Wow! What a sorry excuse for a man. I'm 44 with a great man. I never settled for anything less than greatness my whole life. Watching this kind of mess makes me realize how blessed I am. I never understood all my life how and why women put up with and go thru such disrespect and nonsense. When I was a small child my father told me if a man cant treat you better than me you dont need him. I have always remembered that and it served me well. My mama told me as a child to always protect your heart. These 2 simple pieces of advice was everything. Having self esteem and loving yourself is soooooo important ladies. Please teach your children this as well.
This man was kicked out of the military, good grief! The ending was a great show of respect and maturity on both women’s parts.
The fact that the wife is blaming this woman and not her husband.