NO BUYS| OVERSPENDING🤯| HOW DID WE GET HERE ⁉️TIPS TO AVOID RECKLESS SPENDING & GOING BROKE💯

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024

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  • @agents3409
    @agents3409 Месяц назад +6

    Just discovered your channel and you are gorgeous! I'm glad to see more youtubers calling out overconsumption. Overconsumption is consuming us. I've long deleted tiktok and IG off my phone due to doom scrolling and the constant push for consumption and it's been so freeing! I've got my history turned off on YT so i get less recommendations on what video i should consume next. These apps are really designed to keep us logged on and constantly buying. Frankly I was tired. I loved this raw and honest video, especially when you touched on looking inwardly for the reason for excessive collections. Where there is excess, there is lack. What lack are we trying to overcompensate for with our excessive purchases? I'm here for no buys and declutters because the line between collector and hoarder can get blurry when we are constantly bombarded with the next best thing to own and we don't truly get use or find joy in what we have. Thank you for this kind of content!❤

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@agents3409 OMG! Yes thank you for all of this! I couldn’t touch on everything I wanted in this video. It would be too long of course, but you hit the nail on the head with this. I do have IG but I literally post and get off. Mostly my scent of the days and RUclips content. Otherwise I stay off of there. You will look up and be on there 8 hours lol. I never got into tik tok and the way it has everyone in a chokehold with the impulse buys, and low attention spans, I never want to. I can’t do it. RUclips is my only true influence. It’s been that way since those early days of the platform. It’s enough for me. I have limited my influences here too. I really enjoy a wide variety of content so much more than what I share here in my channel. Like cooking for example, or home decor, lots of decluttering , and organization. Thank you so much for adding to the conversation. Also for watching the video in its entirety🥰. I absolutely have been making up for something and I know it all to well. Another video for another day lol . I soo appreciate you sharing this. I’ll be pinning this comment!❤️🙏🏾😘

  • @brendaschenk9390
    @brendaschenk9390 Месяц назад +17

    I love this because I definitely fell in hard. I have over 100 full size bottle… so many 10 mill… so many samples. Not to mention the oils🤦🏾‍♀️I must say though I love 95 percent of them all. Let’s not forget about B&BW fragrance mist. I love RUclips. I thought I was going to do hair reviews too. I love your channel. Your content is on point and you will TELL WHO NEEDS TO BE TOLD… PERIOD!! I’m 55 and I love watching you. Whatever you put out I’m her for it. Peace and blessings 🙏🏾

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +4

      @@brendaschenk9390 Thank you so much for this! I so appreciate comments like these. If you love and use what you have. That is all that matters. I realized I had over 100 fragrances and started feeling overwhelmed, I knew it was time to make some changes and redirect! Thank you for all your support and being a loyal subscriber ❤️

  • @ShannDiior
    @ShannDiior Месяц назад +11

    Girlllllll this video is everything!!!! Last year I got into watching fragrances videos and now I have over 50 perfumes & about 60 body mists. It’s so overwhelming to choose what to wear & overconsumption is so easy. Amazing video!!! 💕💕💕💕 & you’re so pretty! I deff subscribed!!

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@ShannDiior Aww thank you so much boo! It’s so easy to go overboard and it makes it so hard to choose what to wear. Likely what caused me to start layering so much lol! Welcome to the gang 😘

  • @JustRachelleW
    @JustRachelleW Месяц назад +5

    This video is definitely on POINT! I agree with everything you said wholeheartedly. I quickly fell down the rabbit hole! Just like you, I had to check myself and do the work and ask, “Why am I buying ALL these perfumes?” “What is really going on with me, and what void am I trying to fill?” Once I answered that, I was able to slow down on purchasing and SAVE more money because my collection was getting out of control. Sad part is that I only started collecting about a year ago, and I have a smaller collection of less than 100 fragrances, but a lot are niche (quality) fragrances. Thanks for the video! ❤

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@JustRachelleW Thank you so much for sharing sis I appreciate it❤️😘

  • @JustSayLette_16
    @JustSayLette_16 Месяц назад +3

    I was new to Middle Eastern perfumes and found TikTok. I fell for the hype. Once. After that, I started paying attention to that influencer and I realized that like you said, she was all about the money because over half the scents she recommended were trash. I started doing my research and I got back into the store to smell different scents to see what I liked before I bought anything. I've learned to stick with fragrances REVIEWERS versus INFLUENCERS because there is a difference. Also, let me say this. I respect you because you keep it real REGARDLESS. I come to you to learn about what's new, what's not hot, what may be worthy of more research. Keep doing you Beautiful, I'm here for it!❤❤❤

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@JustSayLette_16 Thank you for this! There absolutely is a difference! Thank you for pointing that out. I literally just want to share my thoughts with others. Especially if it’s opposing, just to give a difference in opinion because for some reason, it seems ppl are afraid to do that. At least I don’t see it enough lol. I think all of us went down that middle eastern rabbit whole 🤦🏾‍♀️ it is hard to get out of. Thank you so much for always supporting 💯💯❤️❤️

    • @JustSayLette_16
      @JustSayLette_16 Месяц назад +1

      @@CreTaylor I support who's real. Always. ❤️

  • @Ayanaxox2
    @Ayanaxox2 Месяц назад +4

    This is some of the realest ish in the fragrance community that I've heard so far! Thank you Cre for that😊💐I'm pretty much in a good place with my collection being around 25-30 perfumes; that includes my oils and body sprays as well.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@Ayanaxox2 Yes you are. That’s where I want to be someday. I think that is a very reasonable size. More than a few. And not so many that you can’t make a decision on what to wear. Thank you for watching and sharing sis!

  • @renee8383
    @renee8383 Месяц назад +4

    "Can you reach literally blindfold in your collection and say I'm happy with that" Preeach 🗣!! Im about to close my eyes and test this out because you're absolutely right! I should at lease enjoy each fragrance I reach for and if I don't it should go

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@renee8383 Thank you for the feedback sis! I appreciate you tuning in ❤️😘

  • @bonnie4734
    @bonnie4734 Месяц назад +6

    I soooo appreciate you putting this out! I've always been into makeup, fashion, and fragrances. I, like you, fell in hard and quickly accumulated a fragrance collection of over 100 perfumes. Now I'm finding that I need to curate what I have and declutter what I have. I have unsubscribed to some reviewers as well, but will definitely keep you on deck for keeping it 💯 with your followers!

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@bonnie4734 Thank you soo much for sharing and supporting. We are in this together sis!

  • @VeronicaSays
    @VeronicaSays Месяц назад +1

    "Your wheat bread is just fine over there!" Favorite line and TRUE. Loved all the inserts of the makeup and clothing days. You are beautiful! 😊😊😊 Loved your messaging throughout.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@VeronicaSays 🤣🤣 thank you soo much! I appreciate you tuning in 🥰🥰 you’re amazing!

  • @LoSoNatural
    @LoSoNatural Месяц назад +8

    I’m starting a new series soon and I feel like it’s so many of us on the same wavelength…. Okay maybe not so many but those who are in tune 😅Great tips

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@LoSoNatural lol okayyy right!! I’m definitely tuning in! ❤️

  • @tann3081
    @tann3081 Месяц назад +6

    Real video hon. Love this❤. Most people start RUclips for the love of it but eventually it turns into a job and becomes the main source of income hence the “influencing” really start. It moves from honest reviews to slightly honest to paid reviews 🤷🏾‍♀️. As a consumer of the content we have to keep that in mind.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +2

      @@tann3081 Exactly! That’s all I want people to be mindful of… I don’t want anyone going into debt behind any of it.

  • @alexandracascante5861
    @alexandracascante5861 Месяц назад +3

    This is such a good video. It is most needed. Something else to think of is not every fragrance in a person's collection has to be full size. It's alright to have travel size or anything between a travel and under an ounce. It become so easy to get influened to buy only full bottles.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@alexandracascante5861 Yes I agree. Thank you for watching and adding to the conversation ❤️

    • @alexandracascante5861
      @alexandracascante5861 Месяц назад

      @@CreTaylor you're welcome 😊

  • @FickleBeat
    @FickleBeat Месяц назад +2

    I wish I could like this video 100x over! Thank you for keeping it SO real.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@FickleBeat You are so welcome. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @loyalm2327
    @loyalm2327 Месяц назад +1

    Nothing but straight facts from the beginning to the end of this video! I found myself going to down a rabbit hole, until I had to get back to reality. Every mist, perfume, oil etc that comes out or a sale I don’t need to buy it, but focusing on what I currently have and appreciate it. You can easily find yourself using more of your credit cards, opening up new cards and too many buy now pay later open. There’s only 5 or 6 people I’m subscribed to and you’re 1 of them. I pay attention to “realness”. Soon as I see “commission” is involved when reviewing products or PR I can feel the xtra-ness in the review. So glad you spoke of this too. It took me awhile to subscribe to the 6 RUclipsr’s until I felt a sense of realness and everything wasn’t about commission/PR and not afraid to say you don’t like something. It’s not hard to tell, when ykyk. Appreciate this video 😉

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@loyalm2327 YESSS heavy on the you can feel the extraness. It’s definately not hard to tell. People see what they want to see TBH. Thank you so much for sticking around. I really appreciate that!

  • @notimportant123
    @notimportant123 Месяц назад

    Jeremy Fragrance was the best thing for my fragrance journey. I'm so glad I started when he was still on! He promoted the same designer/affordable perfumes over and over, was authentic and had great universal, palatable taste. His top suggestion REMAINS my #1 even years later. And it was a blind buy! Dior Poison Girl EDP.

  • @Mamabearperfumechannel
    @Mamabearperfumechannel Месяц назад +4

    Facts🤓🙌🏻 iv been so guilty of blind buying🙈 Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t but it’s still not a good habit to get into.
    I love this video🤗🥰🥰🥰

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@Mamabearperfumechannel Thank you for watching girly! It is addictive! I’m still trying to break the habit 🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s a daily struggle…

  • @ebonybrady6270
    @ebonybrady6270 Месяц назад +2

    Yes I really needed to hear this even though I’ve been personally on a budget ever since I started my fragrance journey I love body care so I do have a lot of bath and bodyworks I’m just tapping into the perfume part of it but I do look at and monitor the price tags as well I am a huge budget friendly fragrance lover so I do enjoy a good price tag but my collection have grown immensely because I shop the sales of course but I will be going on a no buy and shopping my collection of what I have I’m not really that big on perfumes but I love me a good perfume oil so yea I will be taking all your tips and info in and shopping my stash for the rest of the year maybe into next year as well too just do that I can start really saving my funds!!!

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@ebonybrady6270 Yes love! Save those coins, you never know what’s ahead. Fragrance will always be there. Thank you so much for a sharing and watching ❤️😘

  • @mrs.hopson9426
    @mrs.hopson9426 Месяц назад +2

    Fragrance makes me happy, but I definitely have went too far . So I’m trying to stop. As far as makeup. I am a minimalist with that I like a natural makeup look which you can achieve with concealer. I barely ever wear foundation but got over 20 bottles of it . And for what ? So I’m trying to not by anymore perfume and makeup products only when I run out of something I wear a lot

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@mrs.hopson9426 I completely understand sis! You got the right idea!

  • @mikale2005
    @mikale2005 Месяц назад

    I soulfully agree with you about buying a lot of cheap fragrances to makeup for the OG fragrance! I see a lot of RUclipsrs that constantly buy backups after backups just to get the best dupe for the OG! I have done it myself with PDM Valaya and Bond no 9 Greenwich village! I tend to buy from Dua more than usual bc of the longevity and 90% of the time their blend is either the same or better! HOWEVER, I do buy perfume oils bc i can push a dupe or I can wear it alone and still smell amazing!
    I work 12hr shifts at a warehouse so all my fragrances I wear except about 5 are work scents bc I love to layer (REAL BAD 🤣)
    Thank you for this video bc it’s an eye opener to content creators and subscribers of falling into the rabbit hole by over buying, and trying to keep up with trends! I definitely need to put a freeze on purchasing and enjoy what I have, and put some dents in them! ❤ ur content! I will love to see more layering videos from you

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@mikale2005 aww thank you soo much for always supporting and sharing sis! I definitely have more layering videos in the way. That’s actually one of the main reasons I started layering. To try and find ways to use up certain scents. Specifically the ones I didn’t love. Then it just became second nature to later everything! I need to start using more of my perfume oils also. We all have to be more conscious of our spending in these times 😘

  • @tsg336
    @tsg336 Месяц назад

    All valid points !

  • @AuggMama
    @AuggMama Месяц назад +1

    💯and spot on!!

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@AuggMama ❤️🙏🏾

  • @tsg336
    @tsg336 Месяц назад

    No explanations needed, especially to strangers. Do what's best for you and your pocket.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@tsg336 ❤️😘🙏🏾

  • @LivingCourtside
    @LivingCourtside Месяц назад +1

    Girl I soooo felt this video!!!! I was never going to unsubscribe but this entire message made me say….see that’s why she’s my girl!!! Wtbs I’m definitely here for the long haul!!!!❤

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@LivingCourtside aww thank you soo much! I was really hoping this was well received. I mean well!! So thank you 🙏🏾

  • @Ursula-bz9jr
    @Ursula-bz9jr Месяц назад

    Realist of the real❤

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@Ursula-bz9jr ❤️❤️Thank you!

  • @SomeOne-ry6qo
    @SomeOne-ry6qo Месяц назад

    Great video thank you love you!

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@SomeOne-ry6qo You are welcome ❤️😘

  • @nayelyvela
    @nayelyvela Месяц назад +1

    SO WELL SAID!!!!👏🏼

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@nayelyvela thank you so much 🙏🏾❤️

  • @rashidagriffith251
    @rashidagriffith251 Месяц назад

    For whatever reason this came across my timeline. Many good points were made in this video. I just want to add that something that helps is to keep inventory, know how long certain products last and compile lists of what you want and keep a tally of how much that costs…it helps you to keep focused. Also in addition to that set a budget of what you’re able to spend each month to try to limit overspending.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@rashidagriffith251 Agreed. Thank you for watching and sharing.

  • @analezaa6306
    @analezaa6306 Месяц назад

    This is really good content. We learn these things through living, but it's helpful to hear this to develop balance and discernment. Scent like anything, is so personal. A while back I started buying travel sizes because I thought I've wasted my money on full sizes. But in truth, I've wasted my money on travel sizes lol. But there are companies now offering decants, which is awesome.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@analezaa6306 I completely understand! 💯 Thank you for sharing your experience and tuning in ❤️

  • @shellisawilliams6410
    @shellisawilliams6410 Месяц назад +3

    Yes. I'm learning to appreciate what I have. I stopped watching a lot of haul videos.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@shellisawilliams6410 Thank you for sharing!

  • @jasminejohnson5089
    @jasminejohnson5089 Месяц назад

    Girl you are preaching today!! Thanks for sharing

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@jasminejohnson5089 thanks for tuning in ❤️

  • @dominiquekendrick8328
    @dominiquekendrick8328 Месяц назад

    Queen, excellent video. I so needed to hear all of this, thanks!😊

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@dominiquekendrick8328 You are so welcome ❤️

  • @sagacious4
    @sagacious4 Месяц назад

    Love this video. I am certainly downsizing my fragrance collection, both mist and perfume. 😊 thank you.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@sagacious4 Thank you, and good for you sis! I’ll be sharing my collection and declutters very soon. 😘

  • @Jus_asha
    @Jus_asha Месяц назад

    THISSSSSS 🙌🏾💯🙌🏾💯

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@Jus_asha ❤️🙏🏾😘

  • @sheniquamartin3080
    @sheniquamartin3080 Месяц назад

    Omg I really needed to hear this thank you

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@sheniquamartin3080 Blessings to you sis 🙏🏾❤️😘

  • @shante9700
    @shante9700 Месяц назад

    This video is for me!!! Somewhere down the line I've just gotten out of control with my collection. I want to go on no buy but I'm also a RUclipsr :/

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@shante9700 listen it’s not easy, but you can do it girl. Just sit down and map out your content ideas. I’ll check you out! ❤️

  • @kara8911
    @kara8911 Месяц назад

    Good points.

  • @operationsreviewed6615
    @operationsreviewed6615 Месяц назад

    Speaking all facts..I buy according to my budget and I make no regrets about it😂😂 and not making time for the ppl who support ur channel is just ridiculous..it’s not like ur Oprah status😂😂 but I understand sis this realm is definitely a tricky rabbit hole!

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@operationsreviewed6615 Exactly. Ppl really be ignoring the whole comment section. 🤦🏾‍♀️ That’s crazy to me. Thank you for watching sis. I’m trying to stick to the budget going forward ❤️

  • @chinazaified
    @chinazaified Месяц назад

    I agree I bought Shagaf oud and literally no one seems to want it on Mercari, like why did I buy this knowing that I like fresh scents😩

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@chinazaified lol girl I did the same. I sold mine for dirt cheap! But see everyone on RUclips seemingly loves it 😏🙃🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Lunarangst
    @Lunarangst Месяц назад

    Faaaaabulous video ( no need to respond 😅)

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@Lunarangst 🫶🏾

  • @tsg336
    @tsg336 Месяц назад +1

    How about the ones who are in the stores showing products and never buying any. Yet telling people to buy this and buy that lol.All their footage is in store.

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад

      @@tsg336 lol omg a whole mess! I feel like we can tell who we can trust. Ppl who really enjoy certain fragrances. Never stop talking about them. If they say they love it and you never hear about it again.. then we know. These days I just wait it out unless it’s something I planned to get. Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @Virgoblood26
    @Virgoblood26 Месяц назад

    Maybe we cousins cause we one in the same ❤

  • @Virgoblood26
    @Virgoblood26 Месяц назад

    Whats the name of that blonde hair in the beginning?

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@Virgoblood26 girl that wig so old lol. I don’t think they even make it anymore it’s called outre zenn

  • @Starrshine1988
    @Starrshine1988 Месяц назад

    Just look into how terrible all these perfumes are for your health, its actually crazy!!! That will help you dwindle your collection. Im sorry for telling you this though if you actually do lol. Its kind of sad for someone who loves fragrances 😢

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +3

      @@Starrshine1988 right up there with everything else, like the air we breathe and food we eat. Disheartening. Thank you for sharing!

    • @Starrshine1988
      @Starrshine1988 Месяц назад

      @@CreTaylor that's very true!!! But at least those have some sort of regulation on them albeit terrible lol.

  • @tyronaalston3708
    @tyronaalston3708 Месяц назад +1

    Hey boo! Thank you for being RAW, UNCUT and TRANSPARENT always. This video and the information provided is very helpful.🫶🏽

    • @CreTaylor
      @CreTaylor  Месяц назад +1

      @@tyronaalston3708 Hey love. Thank you soo much for tuning in! ❤️