6:25 "There's nothing to discuss,Michael. You made a decision without me,so I'm making one without you" Yeah,frankly according to his logic, they're even
Why would she have even allowed the marriage to continue? The trust was broken from the beginning. The marriage started with a mess and does not portend a better future… I am disappointed in OP for not recognizing the disrespect by her husband only hours after the wedding…
@@tonychan8558 Missing the major point! Respecting family is a good thing…but taking a person on the HONEYMOON and doing so WITHOUT GETTING THE NEW SPOUSE’S APPROVAL IN ADVANCE is tantamount to dishonesty and disrespect, two important elements for a new, lifelong commitment. So many things could have been decided TOGETHER to accommodate the sibling in need… delaying the honeymoon, having a relative stay with the sibling, etc. But making a huge decision financial as well as with an understanding of the purpose of such trips to establish lifelong memories as a couple without the spouse’s input does not bode well for future collaboration and decisionmaking. When I first married my husband in mid 1980s, I never bought anything over $100 without getting my husband’s approval…and at that time, I was the major breadwinner for our new family, out of respect for him and to establish a trust between us.What other decisions would be taken out of OP’s hands and how could she trust her new spouse on any decision going forward?
@@tonychan8558 He not married to his sister. His sister can get her own husband/ or man and go on a vacation by herself. He's supposed to cleave to his wife. Not his sister. She can go to their parents or other family members for comfort. Ridiculous.
@@tonychan8558no he can look out for his sister but not at the expense of his new wife’s happiness. Did the sister take him on her honeymoon? I would think being on their honeymoon would be a very sore reminder of a failed marriage like rubbing salt in the wound.
Nope. That boy stepped into it big time. As for the marriage, I'd have cut my losses and been glad to have found out I was second fiddle to the sister and ran as fast as possible to a divorce lawyer. You start a marriage off on a lie, they don't stop, they keep getting bigger.
This is another story where a couple supposed to be going on a honeymoon and the husband invites a relative. In other story, he invites his mother, which that was totally creepy and then this one the husband invited Sister because she went through a bad divorce so she needed to get away so what. Get it through your thick heads that a honeymoon is two people, husband and wife, not husband and wife and sister.!!!!!!!!!
Emma, you should've divorced Michael and allowed both him and his sister to stick together. If I was married and hoping to consumate the marriage but my husband sprung a surprise telling me that members on his side of the family were going to interfere with any consumation plans, I would cancel the honeymoon and divorce the guy and allow his side of the family keep him.
Marriage is a Bond between two souls an a partnership! Not 1 an 2 people living together with a piece of paper. its only 1 unit between two people. Individual mind set in a marriage is asking to be cheated on because it wont feel like a marriage an not working together in a marriage trying to be two people will also end in arguments. Gains only made when two people work together as one unit. But Honestly i understand that the honey moon should be about them. But going on a seperate trip is kinda ridiculous way to handle it. He an his wife could have arranged for his sister to go else were an had a talk about things an how to fix the situation.
The sister should have rejected the invitation to join them on their honeymoon she is just as much at fault as the husband. Misery loves company it’s possible because she is going through a divorce she unknowingly wanted unhappiness for her brother as well. They both are at fault equally she needed a therapist not stroking by her brother and intruding on what should have been a very intimate time for newly weds. Big red flag and a no return for me certainly a hill to die on
Different perspective: Michael has known his sister longer than his wife. His sister is in trouble and needs help. This doesn't take a day off just because you are going on honeymoon. Taking your sister to your honeymoon is weird. Not telling your wife is wrong...... but he had his sister's best interests at heart. That counts for something.
Wtf he only wanted to help her sister why did she have to make such a scene of it was me this meant divorce don't want to lev with a woman who have no respect for me or my family
So if he feels that way about his new marriage, why get married at all? He's catering to his sister needs instead of his wife. It's clear the respect, morals and boundaries have mean nothing. I would've left also, and filed for divorce his ass. Ridiculous.
Why would a sister want to go on honeymoon with her brother and new bride? And what brother would invite her? So creepy.
6:25 "There's nothing to discuss,Michael. You made a decision without me,so I'm making one without you"
Yeah,frankly according to his logic, they're even
Why would she have even allowed the marriage to continue? The trust was broken from the beginning. The marriage started with a mess and does not portend a better future… I am disappointed in OP for not recognizing the disrespect by her husband only hours after the wedding…
Is it disrespectful that he is looking out for his sister?
@@tonychan8558 Missing the major point! Respecting family is a good thing…but taking a person on the HONEYMOON and doing so WITHOUT GETTING THE NEW SPOUSE’S APPROVAL IN ADVANCE is tantamount to dishonesty and disrespect, two important elements for a new, lifelong commitment. So many things could have been decided TOGETHER to accommodate the sibling in need… delaying the honeymoon, having a relative stay with the sibling, etc. But making a huge decision financial as well as with an understanding of the purpose of such trips to establish lifelong memories as a couple without the spouse’s input does not bode well for future collaboration and decisionmaking. When I first married my husband in mid 1980s, I never bought anything over $100 without getting my husband’s approval…and at that time, I was the major breadwinner for our new family, out of respect for him and to establish a trust between us.What other decisions would be taken out of OP’s hands and how could she trust her new spouse on any decision going forward?
@@tonychan8558It's OK to look after a sibling, but other arrangements could have been made as to not infringe on the honeymoon plans.
@@tonychan8558 He not married to his sister. His sister can get her own husband/ or man and go on a vacation by herself. He's supposed to cleave to his wife. Not his sister. She can go to their parents or other family members for comfort. Ridiculous.
@@tonychan8558no he can look out for his sister but not at the expense of his new wife’s happiness. Did the sister take him on her honeymoon? I would think being on their honeymoon would be a very sore reminder of a failed marriage like rubbing salt in the wound.
He straight out Lied, to her face, in the car.
Even if she Was OK with the sister coming with them on the honeymoon, he Lied to her!
Emma was right ✅ Michael should've confronted her first
Nope. That boy stepped into it big time. As for the marriage, I'd have cut my losses and been glad to have found out I was second fiddle to the sister and ran as fast as possible to a divorce lawyer. You start a marriage off on a lie, they don't stop, they keep getting bigger.
This is another story where a couple supposed to be going on a honeymoon and the husband invites a relative. In other story, he invites his mother, which that was totally creepy and then this one the husband invited Sister because she went through a bad divorce so she needed to get away so what. Get it through your thick heads that a honeymoon is two people, husband and wife, not husband and wife and sister.!!!!!!!!!
Hey Angie how would you like a third wheel on your honeymoon ... I don't think so
Emma, you should've divorced Michael and allowed both him and his sister to stick together. If I was married and hoping to consumate the marriage but my husband sprung a surprise telling me that members on his side of the family were going to interfere with any consumation plans, I would cancel the honeymoon and divorce the guy and allow his side of the family keep him.
Why would he invite his sister to come on their honeymoon, better yet why would she go
Total disrespect probably it was an ongoing behavior during their courtship.
So gross to invite someone to a romantic honeymoon. Where is she supposed to stay their room?
Me thinks that he and his sister are closer then we think?
This is immediately you where you say it her of the marriage. Pick one of us
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Marriage is a Bond between two souls an a partnership! Not 1 an 2 people living together with a piece of paper. its only 1 unit between two people. Individual mind set in a marriage is asking to be cheated on because it wont feel like a marriage an not working together in a marriage trying to be two people will also end in arguments. Gains only made when two people work together as one unit. But Honestly i understand that the honey moon should be about them. But going on a seperate trip is kinda ridiculous way to handle it. He an his wife could have arranged for his sister to go else were an had a talk about things an how to fix the situation.
The sister should have rejected the invitation to join them on their honeymoon she is just as much at fault as the husband. Misery loves company it’s possible because she is going through a divorce she unknowingly wanted unhappiness for her brother as well. They both are at fault equally she needed a therapist not stroking by her brother and intruding on what should have been a very intimate time for newly weds. Big red flag and a no return for me certainly a hill to die on
Would have done the same thing
That is an overkill reaction.
Different perspective: Michael has known his sister longer than his wife. His sister is in trouble and needs help. This doesn't take a day off just because you are going on honeymoon.
Taking your sister to your honeymoon is weird. Not telling your wife is wrong...... but he had his sister's best interests at heart. That counts for something.
Still needs to be discussed with his partner. I'm all about helping when needed,but the brother could have handled the situation more delicately.
So, no palpable?
Or sun casting long shadows
Wtf he only wanted to help her sister why did she have to make such a scene of it was me this meant divorce don't want to lev with a woman who have no respect for me or my family
Damn she flipped out that bad. I think my dude need to divorce her ass.
So if he feels that way about his new marriage, why get married at all? He's catering to his sister needs instead of his wife. It's clear the respect, morals and boundaries have mean nothing. I would've left also, and filed for divorce his ass. Ridiculous.