Since my original post two weeks ago, I noticed a couple brothers kindly making an effort to help answer the problem I’m dealing with, even going as far as to suggest or point me in the direction of other videos. As such, I thought I’d make my question more clear, and thank you all for your sincere help. The precise questions is: We know there will ‘likely’ be a ‘minority’ (I don’t know how accurate the word ‘minority’ is here) of non-Muslims that will enter Jannah. Furthermore, we know the rule is that Shirk is not forgiven after death, but that there are ‘possible’ exceptions to the rule. If that is the case, I want to know why we must always avoid having the presence of mind or holding out hope for the chance our beloved parents, family, friends, etc. will enter Janah and be amongst those exceptions to the rule, in particular, why can’t we have this hope and presence of mind during prayer and/or through prayer? What good or wisdom is there in having hope without prayer? Also how can I reconcile that? So when such a person dies it’s unacceptable/forbidden for your response to be “I pray for the best.” Why is that? This action doesn’t appear logical at all when you consider what we apparently believe. Again, my hope is for an hour lecture over this question from the sheikh. I hope he reads this.
Your speech was very good and should reach people, I pray for your good health. Do not reply to the msg of negative people who are messaging here, these people do msg for this reason, rply my comment
I don't know why some people don't want to accept that Islam has his own way of clothing. Every year the same topic... It's like talking about gravitational force again and again, but some people don't want to accept this principle.
Modesty is one part. There are other parts too which characterizes the islamic way of clothing: Cleanliness, no arrogance (e.g. wearing of gold for men, length of trousers/ garment), no imitating of opposite gender(e.g. unisex clothing, some colours), differentiating from the nonbelievers (e.g. hijab, beard, no amulets) and some traditions like garment, head covering for men etc. This is what I called islamic way of clothing. Our religion gives us many freedoms, of course we don't need to wear exactly the same things like in some other religions, we have many choices 👍
@@lightman2258 imitating other genders is not same as unisex clothing. For example unisex shoes or a hoodie is fine. Imitations refers to features that are distinctly made for the other gender. When you can tell a man is a man and a woman is a woman even in unisex items, there is no issue. When a man wears heels, or a woman tries to wear male suit with short hair, etc is when you run into issues
Watch this : Understanding the ruling and wisdom of hijab by Yasir Qadhi . By the way, not forced, never forced.. I did my research and I’m much comfortable being covered.
I have a question. My husband (and I) believe that a hat covering the hair and the ears with a scarf wrapped around the neck that covers the neck and chest meets the headscarf requirements (provided of course that the rest of the clothing covers obviously). So in otherwords it meets the "hijab" (modern-day hijab term) requirements. So it doesn't need to be an Islamic stereotypical headscarf so long as the head, hair, neck and chest is covered. Would you agree?
You don't need a stereotypical hijab. There are already different styles in different countries. I think some African countries have this tradational hat style covering they use to cover their hair. You could technically wear a beanie and a hoodie on top and you would be meeting the requirement. Only thing with going into these other options is that sometimes you start focusing on style and looks, whohc defeats one of the purposes of hijab.
*Summary of this Hijab talk* - Ruling of Hijab came down to 5H - Surah An-Noor c24 v31 mentions Khumur "Let them draw their veils over their chests" - Khumur is the plural of Khimar that has root word khamar (Conceal, Cover). Earlier times, in Arabs, Khimar was any head covering for man or woman. - Surah Ahzab c33 v59 (Jilbab) "O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their cloaks over their bodies." - The modern day term Hijab is what the Quran refers to as Khimar. Khimar => Hijab - Those days, ladies of every tribe and culture would cover their head and through the hanging loose ends of clothes behind their neck. - What the Quran says - head scarf (Khumur) should be loose and let the hanging cloth come down to cover the chest in front of non-mahram. - The Quran mandates both Khimar and Jilbab for women. - Hijab in Quran is used as a curtain specifically for Prophet's wives c33 v53 "And when you believers ask his wives for something, ask them from behind a barrier.", This curtain is not a compulsion on other women. - Burqa and Niqab worlds are not mentioned in the Quran.
Jizaksllsh khairan for another excellent thought provoking and inspiring lecture. If we could rename our hijab products as Khumar products and our abaya as Jilbab, it will become easy for people look at "Hijab" ruling g in Quran.
Always a good presentation by Dr Qadhi. I completely agree with modesty and I accept that the khimaar is a given in our way of life. However, this is a general discussion. Growing up in Muslim Joburg, wearing a headscarf didn’t mean you were modest. Actually quite the opposite 😂 in fact it’s the reason why I choose to be a sinner and not wear the headscarf, I prefer showing modesty with akhlaaq rather than dressing.
This discussion reminds me of how badly I wish there was a lecture of the wisdom of hijab addressed to the target audience of the average Muslim female and what it means for her in her life circumstances (NOT a discussion of the consequences of porn, which we all know already and do hear lectures over even if sheikhs act like porn is still a taboo topic to bring up)
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One qenuine question sheikh: if khimar was a cultural thing which Allah told how to style properly n cover the chest... what if khimar is not in our culture now, can we cover our shoulders and chest with shawl? (A muslim woman considering hijab but wants to make sure if the headcover is %100 obligatory) thanks!
dear syakh, what is your opinion of the Usuli Institute based in Texas? They claimed the khemar (hijab) for muslim women is not mandatory. Also they are more open to keeping dogs at home. Your opinion, please.
It's strange in india what I see is so much emphasis to wear the burqa but not on regular prayers ..... I see people go for outings ,restaurants and other entertainment without even a little thought that it's maghrib time ....beaches and eateries full of burqa....
Are you saying people should stop claiming to be Muslim if they can't be perfect? In that case, no one in the world can claim to be Muslim. No one should say Salam, no one should wear Islamic clothing, etc. since they can't be perfect
@@abu_six19 obviously ur not understanding what i am saying ..... on the day of judgement a muslim will first be accounted for his salah ....and people don't wake for fajr ,pray jumma jumma ,evening azan is on and burqa women busy shopping or eating especially in Muslim majority areas so for me a person who doesn't observe their regular prayers but claim to have lot of imaan just because they wear burqa.....and the men of the house don't pray don't care if their women don't pray but ohhh that burqa has to be there
@@hamidamahmud53.... bhindi bazar, mohammad Ali road ,please go there not possible thousands of women menstruating at the same time ...when I have periods don't even get out of home for 2 days forget about enjoying street food ....plus I know many people amongst relatives and community who wear burqa religiously but not so observant about Namaz ....
Because they are kuffaar. The Prophet SAW wasn't allowed to make dua for his uncle nor his own mother because they died as non Muslims. Allah does not forgive the sin of shirk, except if He alone wishes too without us asking for it.
@@WaqasAli-ct7ly thank u for your answer. However, I already know all this, yet I’m still struggling with it. I really would appreciate an hour or so long lecture over this topic from the sheikh
it may not answer all your questions and perhaps you've already seen it, but I would recommend searching on youtube for "What is The Islamic Ruling Regarding The Fate of 'Good 'Non Muslims | Ask Shaykh YQ #13" May Allah make it easy for you if you are dealing with this
@@yetisplash4808 Another video that might be of help (I'm not 100% sure about this one it's been a while since I've watched it) I think Yasir Qadhi touches on the subject as well in the seera series he made if you search for "Seerah of Prophet Muhammed 19 - Death of Khadija & Abu Talib - Yasir Qadhi | January 2012" (in case you don't know Abu Talib died as a disbeliever and it pained the Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) InshaAllah these are of some help
So when we put a very thick wintercoat with arms, is this not correct? And when we cover the head, can the silhouette of the head been seen or must the khimar fall down? Barak Allah fik !!!
While this makes it clear about the head and body around the chest. How do we know from these narrations the extent to which the hands or lower legs should be covered ?
Well I’m not knowledgeable enough, but suffice to say is that the body of women is awrah except the hands and the face. This is the methodology( madhab) of shaafi which I generally follow. What is biologically clear is that a women’s lower body is appealing, so she must wear loose garment like an abayah. I hope I explained jazakallahu khairan.
The word used in the Qur'an for women covering themselves is "jilbab" which basically is a cloth that covers the entire body except the face, hands upto the wrists and legs upto the ankles.
@@WaqasAli-ct7ly but we cover our hands and only reveal the palm. Can the hands (like 3-4 th sleeve) be revealed too ? I would really if you can point towards the exact resources for this.
There is a clear hadith from prophet saw: Asma’ bint Abi Bakr entered upon the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) wearing a thin dress. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) turned away from her and said, “O Asma’, when a woman reaches the age of puberty, nothing should be seen of her except this and this” - and he pointed to his face and hands. Abu Dawood
Assalamu Alaykum, I have already watched the full lecture on another channel alhamdulillah. I have a question which doesn't seem to be answered within this lecture. In terms of women wearing baggy/loose trousers/jeans, what is the Islamic ruling behind it? As it shows a shape but not an exact shape. Can it be classed as a silhouette? Just showing the outer lining? Any knowledgeable answers will be appreciated
Loose clothing is ok..as long as no body is bare in visibility. Tight fitting with visibility of body shape is not so good. Only her guardians.. father, brother, husband and son can only advice her but not force or be brutal against her choice. It is her life not anyone else's...💯🎯💃🕺🤝👍❤
Walaikum Asalaam, Shiekh Yasir Qadhi has talked about that in a different lecture. He said with loose/baggy pants your over shirt has to be below your knees. Hope this helps.
@@bullseye9723 True.. but as a Muslim it is only her guardians that have a say.. and most parents let their daughter's do as they please. My point is no one else has a say but only her family.. no outsiders. Anyway, why you getting so upset..😂🤣. We muslim men love our sisters, daughters & women as we Muslims were born from them. Only KUFF'ARRS & KAA'FIRR'S disagree with our views. Look at Europe.. FREE DO WHAT ONE WANTS.. so who has a say..? Why are muslim women wearing hijab & niqab..? They want to...💯🎯❤. Our muslim mothers, sisters and daughters are free to do as they please.. but we as the guardians assist them in the righteous path to please Allah. THE END OF TOPIC. 🧕🧕🧕🧕🧕🧕🧕🧕🧕🧕🧕🧕🧕 💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯. I got 6 likes.. how many did you get.. zero..0...😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣❤
From what u have said it doesnt have to be an abaya maximum ? Because they are overthrow coats which come till the knees and there are pants underneath some till just above the ankles , is that also hijaab at maximum or minimum...bacuse we are taught abaya is the ultimate hijab
@@xxamazingfruitsssxx by this logic every sin we commit is classified as kufr. Isn’t this what the khawarij said against Ali RA. I suggest you sit with your local sheik or imam and he can clarify your questions
Great lecture. I was wondering if anyone knew in regards to dress and it’s stated that men should not see others mens private parts and vice verce however, does this change if the man as 2/3/4 wives. For example if he lives in large house with a private pool. And it’s just himself and his 2/3/4 wives is it permissible to all be in western summer attire. As you are under Nikah and are believers and practice prayer and give zakat.
The way sheikh has to disclaim everything he says is really sad. Especially about hijab. Tell me, what good has ever come from showing off your awrah.????!!
Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute! So, basically men only need to make sure their privates are covered, and this suffices as being a modest way of dressing? From the navel to the knee (22:09)? So bulking up and showing out on the beach is ok? Men really act like women don't have desires and temptations as well. Just read the story of the prophet Yusuf (AS) and you can understand. I was really coming in with an open mind, but... this seems to hold a bias. I'm learning Arabic so that I can really understand what these verses mean in shaa Allah. When words literally mean one thing, and people interpret them to be suggesting something else, it just lets me know I really need to understand this myself because there seems to be a subjective aspect to Qur'anic interpretation. Anywho, Allah knows best. I do commend people like this sheik though for trying to positively change the way society is going, especially in terms of the way women are increasingly compromising their purity and self-respect, and making an impact on men in this regard too.
From my understanding, showing off is not allowed and Allah even asks with men to guard their gaze. As to why only cover between navel and knee, it is because men used to work hard under hot sun or had lack of clothing. If the intention is to show off or make women lust after them, it automatically becomes prohibited. *It is my personal opinion and I am no scholar
You say that but many men still don’t cover this area and some wear right clothes in this area too so it is still somewhat more As for reasoning, women are less attracted to men generally I believe due to lower testosterone levels and a smaller SDN, and so less has to be covered BUT from what I understand, both men and women aren’t really meant to wear clothes that purposefully encourage strange gazes so if a man is purposefully showing off his six pack and making a strange face at the camera, that is no longer ok. Both men and women are taught to lower their gazes from what attracts them too and taught to stay away from what leads to sin- (all is from what I understand)
Porn is nothing to do with normal life it is a hidden business for people who enjoy its pleasure. whoever cannot control themselves cannot blame porn but only themselves. COVERING A WOMEN TOP TO TOE doesn't mean men will control, as sexual harrassment in muslim world is widespread even without PORN BEING PREVALENT. Sheikh Qadhi - Teach Men to respect Women's body regardless of how much is covered or not.
I think he made that point. Men should care for themselves and watch their eyes and what they look at, but the fact is men like women who who are undressed and showing off their bodies. If it was not for porn and strip clubs, more men would be married. I don't think it can be denied.
@@kingneptune3534 wrong if marriage wasn't so expensive for example a hook up costs $300 and you are done. a wedding $30000+ with responsibility and God forbid you are from the wrong culture or don't six figure income. Or you have to be from the right religion etc the only solution is to cheapen the institution of marriage male marriage easy and divorce not taboo
"Do not suppose the statements of the prophets to be true; they are all fabrications. Men lived comfortably till they came and spoiled life. The sacred books are only such a set of idle tales as any age could have and indeed did actually produce." -Al-M'arri, Syrian Arab philosopher, poet & writer of the Medieval era (Islamic Golden Age). "They recite their sacred books, although the fact informs me that these are a fiction from first to last. O Reason, thou (alone) speakest the truth. Then perish the fools who forged the (religious) traditions or interpreted them!" ~ Al-Maʿarri
I don't see how people can't see the flaws in this type of interpretation... the Qur'an never explicitly mandates a headcovering. It makes the cultural assumption that the women are already wearing a khimar. For a culture in which the khimar/hijab is not the norm (like the west), we cannot mandate the hijab. It really shouldnt be mandated by law at all since It was never the practice of the sahaba and the people of Medina to mandate hijab anyway. This is between a woman and her lord. In fact Umar ibn al Khattab forbid the non believing women of Medina to wear hijab to distinguish them from the muslim women. There is also a lot of nuance to the history of the scholarly opinion in this area. Slave women used to not even cover their breasts in Medina. This not purely a sexual issue yet that is often how it is articulated by many contemporary scholars. It's disappointing that the hijab is always framed as a way to mitigate male proclivity to gaze at women and yet the deeper spiritual significance of the hijab and its beauty are always ignored. Dress modestly. That is the quranic principle. Is the hijab the optimal and best way for Muslim women to dress modestly? Yes. We should encourage the hijab and teach its importance. However it should not be forced upon women and it is not a fard.
Would it be ok to tell a hindu woman to stop dressing modestly y because India is a secular country. This will not just hurt Muslims in India, it will hurt the whole country.
Bold and Beautiful!! Best justifications against the justifications of feminist women who don't like to wear the hijab!
The beauty of Islam. Makes society more beautiful ❤️
What a search and lecture. May Allah increase you more in knowledge. SubhanAllah
May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!
Thankyou sooo much for this. May Allah grant you with health and hidayat and gifts in this world and the next
Islam is the solution to the problems of the world ❤️
Zabardast 👏 Extraordinary lecture.. may Allah reward him.
Courageous, academic and easily comprehensible. Jazakallah Khair Sheikh.
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JazakAllahu Khairan shaykh
Since my original post two weeks ago, I noticed a couple brothers kindly making an effort to help answer the problem I’m dealing with, even going as far as to suggest or point me in the direction of other videos. As such, I thought I’d make my question more clear, and thank you all for your sincere help. The precise questions is: We know there will ‘likely’ be a ‘minority’ (I don’t know how accurate the word ‘minority’ is here) of non-Muslims that will enter Jannah. Furthermore, we know the rule is that Shirk is not forgiven after death, but that there are ‘possible’ exceptions to the rule. If that is the case, I want to know why we must always avoid having the presence of mind or holding out hope for the chance our beloved parents, family, friends, etc. will enter Janah and be amongst those exceptions to the rule, in particular, why can’t we have this hope and presence of mind during prayer and/or through prayer? What good or wisdom is there in having hope without prayer? Also how can I reconcile that? So when such a person dies it’s unacceptable/forbidden for your response to be “I pray for the best.” Why is that? This action doesn’t appear logical at all when you consider what we apparently believe.
Again, my hope is for an hour lecture over this question from the sheikh. I hope he reads this.
Mashaallah. May Allah give you more knowledge in deen and bless dunya walaakhirah
Mashallah very nicely explained I am from India, karnataka.. Jazak Allah khair
Jilbab( word) in surah e Ahzab means ," large piece of cloth worn on the head which will cover face and chest
jazakAllah khairun katheeraa
Jazakallahu Khayran Ahsanul Jaza
Shukran for your excellent lecture. I really enjoy listening to you Shaik.
Your speech was very good and should reach people, I pray for your good health. Do not reply to the msg of negative people who are messaging here, these people do msg for this reason, rply my comment
I don't know why some people don't want to accept that Islam has his own way of clothing. Every year the same topic...
It's like talking about gravitational force again and again, but some people don't want to accept this principle.
There is no such thing as Islamic dress. It talks about modesty (for both men and women) in one place. That's about it.
Modesty is one part. There are other parts too which characterizes the islamic way of clothing: Cleanliness, no arrogance (e.g. wearing of gold for men, length of trousers/ garment), no imitating of opposite gender(e.g. unisex clothing, some colours), differentiating from the nonbelievers (e.g. hijab, beard, no amulets) and some traditions like garment, head covering for men etc.
This is what I called islamic way of clothing.
Our religion gives us many freedoms, of course we don't need to wear exactly the same things like in some other religions, we have many choices 👍
@@SitarJourney did you watch the lecture hasib? The scholar clearly mentioned the clothing mentioned in Qur'an!
@@lightman2258 imitating other genders is not same as unisex clothing. For example unisex shoes or a hoodie is fine. Imitations refers to features that are distinctly made for the other gender. When you can tell a man is a man and a woman is a woman even in unisex items, there is no issue. When a man wears heels, or a woman tries to wear male suit with short hair, etc is when you run into issues
Jazakallah khayr sheikh
Beautiful jazakallah Sheikh Allah preserve you and increase you and benefit us through your ilm
Excellent lecture ❤
Watch this : Understanding the ruling and wisdom of hijab by Yasir Qadhi . By the way, not forced, never forced.. I did my research and I’m much comfortable being covered.
Ma sha Allah ! such a wonderful thoughtful lecture :)
😥😥😥😥😥 sad but the reality
May Allah protect us
I have a question. My husband (and I) believe that a hat covering the hair and the ears with a scarf wrapped around the neck that covers the neck and chest meets the headscarf requirements (provided of course that the rest of the clothing covers obviously). So in otherwords it meets the "hijab" (modern-day hijab term) requirements. So it doesn't need to be an Islamic stereotypical headscarf so long as the head, hair, neck and chest is covered. Would you agree?
Yep.
If you are covered not extravagantly then you’re good sister
You don't need a stereotypical hijab. There are already different styles in different countries. I think some African countries have this tradational hat style covering they use to cover their hair. You could technically wear a beanie and a hoodie on top and you would be meeting the requirement. Only thing with going into these other options is that sometimes you start focusing on style and looks, whohc defeats one of the purposes of hijab.
*Summary of this Hijab talk*
- Ruling of Hijab came down to 5H
- Surah An-Noor c24 v31 mentions Khumur "Let them draw their veils over their chests"
- Khumur is the plural of Khimar that has root word khamar (Conceal, Cover). Earlier times, in Arabs, Khimar was any head covering for man or woman.
- Surah Ahzab c33 v59 (Jilbab) "O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their cloaks over their bodies."
- The modern day term Hijab is what the Quran refers to as Khimar. Khimar => Hijab
- Those days, ladies of every tribe and culture would cover their head and through the hanging loose ends of clothes behind their neck.
- What the Quran says - head scarf (Khumur) should be loose and let the hanging cloth come down to cover the chest in front of non-mahram.
- The Quran mandates both Khimar and Jilbab for women.
- Hijab in Quran is used as a curtain specifically for Prophet's wives c33 v53 "And when you believers ask his wives for something, ask them from behind a barrier.", This curtain is not a compulsion on other women.
- Burqa and Niqab worlds are not mentioned in the Quran.
Allah ❤
Jizaksllsh khairan for another excellent thought provoking and inspiring lecture.
If we could rename our hijab products as Khumar products and our abaya as Jilbab, it will become easy for people look at "Hijab" ruling g in Quran.
So many women today wear the hijab like that just covering the hair. May Allah guide us.
We need a follow up video covering the topic of hijab for salah. The fiqh of that. What do non-Hijabi Muslim women do when it comes to prayer?
They need to put a hijab on
His lectures on fiqh of Salah covers all of these topics. You can find them on RUclips.
They put it on for prayer
Guys I know that, I’m making a point that one the one hand some women reject the Quranic command and yet wear Hijab for salah.
@@spiritzen ooh OK, yeh good question hmm
Always a good presentation by Dr Qadhi. I completely agree with modesty and I accept that the khimaar is a given in our way of life. However, this is a general discussion. Growing up in Muslim Joburg, wearing a headscarf didn’t mean you were modest. Actually quite the opposite 😂 in fact it’s the reason why I choose to be a sinner and not wear the headscarf, I prefer showing modesty with akhlaaq rather than dressing.
Excellent lecture nicely explained
Well done!
Follow our rasule and holy quran
Assalamu Alykum WRWB from Nottingham Uk
This discussion reminds me of how badly I wish there was a lecture of the wisdom of hijab addressed to the target audience of the average Muslim female and what it means for her in her life circumstances (NOT a discussion of the consequences of porn, which we all know already and do hear lectures over even if sheikhs act like porn is still a taboo topic to bring up)
One qenuine question sheikh: if khimar was a cultural thing which Allah told how to style properly n cover the chest... what if khimar is not in our culture now, can we cover our shoulders and chest with shawl? (A muslim woman considering hijab but wants to make sure if the headcover is %100 obligatory) thanks!
dear syakh, what is your opinion of the Usuli Institute based in Texas? They claimed the khemar (hijab) for muslim women is not mandatory. Also they are more open to keeping dogs at home.
Your opinion, please.
It's strange in india what I see is so much emphasis to wear the burqa but not on regular prayers ..... I see people go for outings ,restaurants and other entertainment without even a little thought that it's maghrib time ....beaches and eateries full of burqa....
Are you saying people should stop claiming to be Muslim if they can't be perfect? In that case, no one in the world can claim to be Muslim. No one should say Salam, no one should wear Islamic clothing, etc. since they can't be perfect
@@abu_six19 obviously ur not understanding what i am saying ..... on the day of judgement a muslim will first be accounted for his salah ....and people don't wake for fajr ,pray jumma jumma ,evening azan is on and burqa women busy shopping or eating especially in Muslim majority areas so for me a person who doesn't observe their regular prayers but claim to have lot of imaan just because they wear burqa.....and the men of the house don't pray don't care if their women don't pray but ohhh that burqa has to be there
@@raffatshaikh6335 The women could be on their period.
@@hamidamahmud53.... bhindi bazar, mohammad Ali road ,please go there not possible thousands of women menstruating at the same time ...when I have periods don't even get out of home for 2 days forget about enjoying street food ....plus I know many people amongst relatives and community who wear burqa religiously but not so observant about Namaz ....
@@shahanjahan2368 very true
Sheikh can you please why we cannot pray for deceased non-Muslims, with an emphasis on non-Muslim parents/family members
Because they are kuffaar. The Prophet SAW wasn't allowed to make dua for his uncle nor his own mother because they died as non Muslims. Allah does not forgive the sin of shirk, except if He alone wishes too without us asking for it.
@@WaqasAli-ct7ly thank u for your answer. However, I already know all this, yet I’m still struggling with it. I really would appreciate an hour or so long lecture over this topic from the sheikh
@@yetisplash4808 which aspect of it are you struggling about
it may not answer all your questions and perhaps you've already seen it, but I would recommend searching on youtube for "What is The Islamic Ruling Regarding The Fate of 'Good 'Non Muslims | Ask Shaykh YQ #13"
May Allah make it easy for you if you are dealing with this
@@yetisplash4808 Another video that might be of help (I'm not 100% sure about this one it's been a while since I've watched it) I think Yasir Qadhi touches on the subject as well in the seera series he made if you search for "Seerah of Prophet Muhammed 19 - Death of Khadija & Abu Talib - Yasir Qadhi | January 2012" (in case you don't know Abu Talib died as a disbeliever and it pained the Prophet Mohammad (PBUH)
InshaAllah these are of some help
So when we put a very thick wintercoat with arms, is this not correct?
And when we cover the head, can the silhouette of the head been seen or must the khimar fall down? Barak Allah fik !!!
While this makes it clear about the head and body around the chest. How do we know from these narrations the extent to which the hands or lower legs should be covered ?
Well I’m not knowledgeable enough, but suffice to say is that the body of women is awrah except the hands and the face. This is the methodology( madhab) of shaafi which I generally follow. What is biologically clear is that a women’s lower body is appealing, so she must wear loose garment like an abayah. I hope I explained jazakallahu khairan.
There are other narrations where the Prophet SAW said the awrah of a woman is all except the hands and face
The word used in the Qur'an for women covering themselves is "jilbab" which basically is a cloth that covers the entire body except the face, hands upto the wrists and legs upto the ankles.
@@WaqasAli-ct7ly but we cover our hands and only reveal the palm. Can the hands (like 3-4 th sleeve) be revealed too ? I would really if you can point towards the exact resources for this.
There is a clear hadith from prophet saw:
Asma’ bint Abi Bakr entered upon the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) wearing a thin dress. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) turned away from her and said, “O Asma’, when a woman reaches the age of puberty, nothing should be seen of her except this and this” - and he pointed to his face and hands.
Abu Dawood
Assalamu Alaykum, I have already watched the full lecture on another channel alhamdulillah. I have a question which doesn't seem to be answered within this lecture.
In terms of women wearing baggy/loose trousers/jeans, what is the Islamic ruling behind it? As it shows a shape but not an exact shape. Can it be classed as a silhouette? Just showing the outer lining?
Any knowledgeable answers will be appreciated
Loose clothing is ok..as long as no body is bare in visibility.
Tight fitting with visibility of body shape is not so good.
Only her guardians.. father, brother, husband and son can only advice her but not force or be brutal against her choice. It is her life not anyone else's...💯🎯💃🕺🤝👍❤
Walaikum Asalaam, Shiekh Yasir Qadhi has talked about that in a different lecture. He said with loose/baggy pants your over shirt has to be below your knees. Hope this helps.
@@سبحانالله..الحمدلله..هوكليالله ". It is her life not anyone else's" this exactly why muslims are like this today !!
@@hw2334 is that lecture online?
Can u please give me the link......
@@bullseye9723 True.. but as a Muslim it is only her guardians that have a say.. and most parents let their daughter's do as they please. My point is no one else has a say but only her family.. no outsiders. Anyway, why you getting so upset..😂🤣.
We muslim men love our sisters, daughters & women as we Muslims were born from them. Only KUFF'ARRS & KAA'FIRR'S disagree with our views. Look at Europe.. FREE DO WHAT ONE WANTS.. so who has a say..? Why are muslim women wearing hijab & niqab..? They want to...💯🎯❤.
Our muslim mothers, sisters and daughters are free to do as they please.. but we as the guardians assist them in the righteous path to please Allah. THE END OF TOPIC.
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I got 6 likes.. how many did you get.. zero..0...😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣❤
41: 45. Root word for jilbab, ج ل ب ؟ am I right? We can find this word in QURAN in Durah e AL ISRA AYAT 64 ( AJLIB ( اجلب ) plz reply if I'm right.
Want a wide lecture on "Respect to Woman" in light of Quran and Sunnah from You.
From what u have said it doesnt have to be an abaya maximum ? Because they are overthrow coats which come till the knees and there are pants underneath some till just above the ankles , is that also hijaab at maximum or minimum...bacuse we are taught abaya is the ultimate hijab
So i have to watch the other video about hijab first, then come back. Ok 🙂
would not wearing the hijab classify as kufr or major sin
No
@@SS-zj6qg isn't Kufr the rejection of a commandment of Allah and since it's stated in Quran to wear hijab , wouldn't it be kufr
@@xxamazingfruitsssxx by this logic every sin we commit is classified as kufr. Isn’t this what the khawarij said against Ali RA.
I suggest you sit with your local sheik or imam and he can clarify your questions
Great lecture.
I was wondering if anyone knew in regards to dress and it’s stated that men should not see others mens private parts and vice verce however, does this change if the man as 2/3/4 wives.
For example if he lives in large house with a private pool. And it’s just himself and his 2/3/4 wives is it permissible to all be in western summer attire. As you are under Nikah and are believers and practice prayer and give zakat.
Can't use physical force on an adult - Waseem Azeem must have missed the lecture.
The way sheikh has to disclaim everything he says is really sad. Especially about hijab. Tell me, what good has ever come from showing off your awrah.????!!
What does hijab have to do wtih porn, lol
Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute! So, basically men only need to make sure their privates are covered, and this suffices as being a modest way of dressing? From the navel to the knee (22:09)? So bulking up and showing out on the beach is ok? Men really act like women don't have desires and temptations as well. Just read the story of the prophet Yusuf (AS) and you can understand. I was really coming in with an open mind, but... this seems to hold a bias. I'm learning Arabic so that I can really understand what these verses mean in shaa Allah. When words literally mean one thing, and people interpret them to be suggesting something else, it just lets me know I really need to understand this myself because there seems to be a subjective aspect to Qur'anic interpretation. Anywho, Allah knows best. I do commend people like this sheik though for trying to positively change the way society is going, especially in terms of the way women are increasingly compromising their purity and self-respect, and making an impact on men in this regard too.
From my understanding, showing off is not allowed and Allah even asks with men to guard their gaze. As to why only cover between navel and knee, it is because men used to work hard under hot sun or had lack of clothing. If the intention is to show off or make women lust after them, it automatically becomes prohibited.
*It is my personal opinion and I am no scholar
Learn Quran interpretation from scholar, learning Arabic only will get you no where
It is very unfair. Sexist
You say that but many men still don’t cover this area and some wear right clothes in this area too so it is still somewhat more
As for reasoning,
women are less attracted to men generally I believe due to lower testosterone levels and a smaller SDN, and so less has to be covered BUT from what I understand, both men and women aren’t really meant to wear clothes that purposefully encourage strange gazes so if a man is purposefully showing off his six pack and making a strange face at the camera, that is no longer ok.
Both men and women are taught to lower their gazes from what attracts them too and taught to stay away from what leads to sin- (all is from what I understand)
Pornography is worse in Pakistan…
Porn is nothing to do with normal life it is a hidden business for people who enjoy its pleasure.
whoever cannot control themselves cannot blame porn but only themselves.
COVERING A WOMEN TOP TO TOE doesn't mean men will control, as sexual harrassment in muslim world is widespread even without PORN BEING PREVALENT.
Sheikh Qadhi - Teach Men to respect Women's body regardless of how much is covered or not.
I think he made that point. Men should care for themselves and watch their eyes and what they look at, but the fact is men like women who who are undressed and showing off their bodies. If it was not for porn and strip clubs, more men would be married. I don't think it can be denied.
@@kingneptune3534 wrong if marriage wasn't so expensive for example a hook up costs $300 and you are done. a wedding $30000+ with responsibility and God forbid you are from the wrong culture or don't six figure income. Or you have to be from the right religion etc the only solution is to cheapen the institution of marriage male marriage easy and divorce not taboo
jilbaba literaaly means women covering herself completely!
According to a very minority opinion.
The Quran required a jilbab and khmar, why are you saying the Quran encourages it . Stop watering down to appease the weak
"Do not suppose the statements of the prophets to be true; they are all fabrications. Men lived comfortably till they came and spoiled life. The sacred books are only such a set of idle tales as any age could have and indeed did actually produce."
-Al-M'arri, Syrian Arab philosopher, poet & writer of the Medieval era (Islamic Golden Age).
"They recite their sacred books, although the fact informs me that these are a fiction from first to last. O Reason, thou (alone) speakest the truth. Then perish the fools who forged the (religious) traditions or interpreted them!" ~ Al-Maʿarri
So this Al-M’arri, how are her quotes different than quoting scripture exactly??
Wow. Some random dude thought the Quran was wrong.
I don't see how people can't see the flaws in this type of interpretation... the Qur'an never explicitly mandates a headcovering. It makes the cultural assumption that the women are already wearing a khimar. For a culture in which the khimar/hijab is not the norm (like the west), we cannot mandate the hijab. It really shouldnt be mandated by law at all since It was never the practice of the sahaba and the people of Medina to mandate hijab anyway. This is between a woman and her lord. In fact Umar ibn al Khattab forbid the non believing women of Medina to wear hijab to distinguish them from the muslim women. There is also a lot of nuance to the history of the scholarly opinion in this area. Slave women used to not even cover their breasts in Medina. This not purely a sexual issue yet that is often how it is articulated by many contemporary scholars. It's disappointing that the hijab is always framed as a way to mitigate male proclivity to gaze at women and yet the deeper spiritual significance of the hijab and its beauty are always ignored.
Dress modestly. That is the quranic principle. Is the hijab the optimal and best way for Muslim women to dress modestly? Yes. We should encourage the hijab and teach its importance. However it should not be forced upon women and it is not a fard.
yeah no its fard
Muslim girls are not allowed to wear hejab in India do what you like..This is India if you want hejab go to pakistan
Is India not a secular nation?
Would it be ok to tell a hindu woman to stop dressing modestly y because India is a secular country. This will not just hurt Muslims in India, it will hurt the whole country.
@@WaqasAli-ct7ly if you want it to secular it will be secular. It is Hindu majority and we will run it the way we want
@@hw2334 Hindu or any other religion women do not bring religion in to equation like muslims do. If you want to wear hijab go to pakistan.
@@anilrohilla4379 how does covering your hair interfere with your education?