The Spark Is Gone: Robert Henderson v Monique Henderson S24 E16
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- Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024
- Robert says Monique shows him no affection and has gone on a sex strike. She says she loves Robert, but she is not there for his sexual gratification and needs him to try harder.
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Judge Star Jones is bringing marriage back to classy and communicative. I love the calm yet entertaining season of Divorce Court. We all need a sense of CALM these days!
Agreed very calm I love it
Yaaas I think I'm diggin this new one. 😄
Like Judge STAR very much, BUT Judge Lynn Toler Will always b my favorite! She's the complete pkg of smart, classy, funny, etc!!!! IMO
@@midnightblu3388 Yes, Judge Toler is the GOAT! But I re-started watching divorce court with Judge Star. She has an old school Judge Mablean feel in how she runs her court and her personality. I enjoy watching her and the calm and wisdom she brings.
When has marriage not been classy?
She don't want that man anymore, but if he leave she will never find a man like him again.
BINGO no man is looking for a 50 year old woman with 4 kids
I disagree I think she hold on to little things that comes up strangely right before intimacy. I say this cuz it happens to me sometimes.
@@GETBIG4WARD my sister got married for the 3rd time at 54 years old. She has two kids and grand kids. She makes man with a great career. Never say never.
@@kittyb275 I agree it’s not a definite never but probability is well ya know certain women know how to get tons of men and some women can’t even get one tell me I’m lying
big fact I totally believe she want out of this married, I hope it not cause she want another guy or she wanted to be single again and if true on both she never going find another dude like him
I didn't know how I was gonna feel about Miss Star Jones taking over Divorce Court, but after listening to a few episodes she brings it and I like it! Great show .
I still miss my girl Judge Lynn Toler nobody will ever take her place
I can agree to that.
@@jeanettebennett2421 she will forever be in our hearts
Same here I LOVE HER!! I HOPE SHE STAYS!
@@jeanettebennett2421 right she had the gift to give great advice. 🧡
He seems like such a nice, loving husband. Lots of women would love to have a husband like him.
On point
On point
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Not with that stink cigarette smoke
Real talk
It's VERY rare to see man still in love with his wife like this after 25 years. I think she might be a little burnt out with him, she probably needs a break or she's just tired. She's hiding how she truly feels
This is not rare at all smh
If that’s true that’s sad
I totally agree with you.
She doesn’t deserve him
The way her husband walked towards her says everything about how he really loves her , I hope she learns the grass isn’t greener on the other side.
Her relationship sounds great compared to most of the couples. She likes to complain or she's over him idk
Amen!
Maybe she fell out of love with him. You never know what's go on behind closed doors.
She gona learn the hard way
After 20 years and this man still doing all this.....i think that's awesome....he seems like a good guy...what's up with her??? Women would kill for this!
Judge Star is doing her thang!!! I really appreciate that she took the position!
Agree! I was on the fence but loving this season so far!!
I agree
She is killing it, I love it
Yes real divorce court fans understand. She brought back my love for the show!
Okay!! She is the best! This show is on point from the fashions, vibes, the intro EVERYTHING🥰🥰🥰
She is totally disengaged and detached from this man and marriage
A whole year of holding out sex is total disengagement…she’s better be happy he’s not cheating
@@andreawashington5430 He seem so family committed it hurts to see him go throught this abuse.
@@andreawashington5430 as they say you don't get it from her he will give somebody else the d she should be lucky Don't appreciate nothing
@@andreawashington5430 💯
@@summerjenkins1888 I agree
If she mention those grown adult kids one more time as her excuse
My thought exactly those kids are old like come one...
Seriously!!!! Dem kids are good and grown! The 15 year old can fix some cereal, sandwich or cup of noodles. Girl bye! Now I do understand the smoking being a turn off. But the wife is over this relationship.
15 year old is still a child. It's the age where kids need you the most so they don't get lost.
I know that’s right 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@@kittyb275 that age shld b able to fend for them selves for a few hours.
This woman had more excuses than a high school attendance office. 😂 She better love on her husband before someone else appreciates what she doesn’t.
She doesn't appreciate him at all. It don't matter if he's wearing "grandpa boxers" or some sexy boxer briefs, you need to give that man some love or someone else will!!
Man, she acts like a crabby old lady!! She not that old - why is she so cranky?? He's really trying and she's just saying no all the time!!!
She just doesn’t seem to be into him
That happens.
They just need to reignite the flame. They love each other
Wow. Brother is really into his wife but his wife is so disconnected. She continues to draw on excuses over and over again and cannot be straight up with her answers. She could not tell what she needs from him to make her more attracted to him. More than likely when he went to smoke, he was like let me get this in because I know I am not going to have any sex so at least I won't feel so stressed, etc. All of a sudden she wants to be sexy out of the blue? Well, nuff respect to Judge Starr and providing some good recommendations because that lady seems so dull and sad that she can drain anyone's joy.
That's bcoz she seeing someone else, judge Star trying to keep them together, she's clearly seeing someone else.
The wife is full of excuses and draining my energy. She wants to have sex with someone else, end of story.
He loves her...
She is not cheating....they just need to reconnect
I think they love each other. If he gives up the smoking, gives her just a little space, and assist more with their son - things can quickly turn around in their marriage.
She's definitely cheating
@@shorts26
Those are your assumptions with no logic to back it up.
I agree with you.
@@God-Love-Freedom those are actual facts with more than enough experience to back it up and not just mine and I've been on both ends of the spectrum .. you're just denying what women do and the signs especially the fact it's been a year among other things he's definitely not her type..whenever she's done doing what she's doing she's going to reconnect when her options dwindle down and she sees hes the only option that wants to be with her long term past sex but by that time he'll most likely be gone due to her pushing him away...there's no way in hell a sexually healthy woman who is really attracted to her spouse would make him wait longer than a week
Great choice for a host! I was really upset after Judge Lynn Toler left. I still miss her, but Star Jones is doing a MARVELOUS job!
I miss judge Lynn soo much!! And I though I won’t be able to watch divorce court anymore cause nobody would compare/do as good but this judge surprised me so far!! She is doing great!
Judge faith was not good at all
@@laraderose7898 at all!!
@@miamiinnovember2668 😂😂😂 nope
I felt the same way when judge Maybelline left...🤔
She seems tired like she’s dealt with a lot over the years and just the idea of having to be intimate feels like a job on top of everything else
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Seems right
The smoking doesn’t help
'she is a wife she supposed to have sex with her husband like he's supposed to with her if you can't satisfy your husband of wife just leave the marriage I'll get an annulment if my future wife won't have sex
No she seems ungrateful!!….she been married a long time and she wants to get back in the streets…..she is 50 she better stay her elderly self right next to her husband
She may very well be peri menopausal. She looks like she has a lot on her mind, cigarette smoke is highly disgusting.
I am willing to bet money ofnshe had sex with him more often he wouldn't smoke as much...he is replacing his lack of sex with smoking
Her nature is gone
The cigarettes alone would turn me off. I can’t be with a man who smokes cigarettes.
I don't like smoking period. Everyone in my family smoke. Thank god, I don't.
I was thinking the same thing: She may indeed be moving through peri menopause.
It’s menopause and I have been there. It’s not that I didn’t love my husband, I was going through menopause and didn’t even realize it. She needs to get checked out.
What did your husband do
You are so right! She needs hormone replacement therapy. People do not understand how it affects women. And she may be depressed due to her hormones. Problem is that many Drs do not understand or get it.
My exact thoughts.
Yea, she seems either overwhelmed by life or menopausal. You can see in her eyes she is tiered and drained emotionally. She loves her husband. Judge gave her great advice. But I hope she reads this comment section.
nah ima stick with menopause
If a man says it's been a year then it's been a year. Truth me, we keep track.
Lol yup
Nah when a man says it has been a year, it's probably been a month to 6 months. 🤪😂
A year and he haven't cheated? Wow
That’s insane!
Definitely menopause, she just dosent know it. But that's what this is.
Now that you said it and considering her age that might be what is. She could also be depressed
That's exactly what I'm thinking too...and I think she's scared to sleep with him bcuz of that heart condition...
It never slowed me down.
Possibly but it seems like something else
@@nonilovechild5524 menopause hits women differently, some women have different symptoms
I didn’t think I would like Star but she brings a classy mature vibe to the show. People that actually has been through things can speak from wisdom and experience. Good episode.
Star Jones You're Doing a Great Job 💯💯💯💯💯
Yup
I was skeptical about Star Jones being on Divorce court. But baby she looks fantastic every episode and she is genuine and entertaining ❤❤❤
She could be peri/menopausal. That thing does a job on women. She may not even know it. She should see her gynecologist.
Very true. It lowers the libido. She may not be aware of it. The cigarettes and arguements dont help I suppose. But its repairable
I was waiting on her to say that. That is/was the problem with my wife. However there are solutions like lubricant and things to help at least with the dryness. Despite that fact, you can't make your personal issues a permanent problem. Meaning we might have to cut back on the frequency of sex, but at the same time, we are not going to stop all together. There are women who have sex during menopause. Plus any woman knows that she better give her husband some or some other woman will. I went over a year without any sex or kisses. Then she wondered why I started treating her like a roommate.
@AaronHill before you go treating her like a room mate,please educate yourself. Although there are lubricants that will help with moisture,lubricants can't bring back DESIRE.!!! We need Estrogen etc. !! That is the main hormone that feeds our desire as women. When that Hormone begins to DECLINE in perimenopause,this is when many women don't have the same sexual desire. This can be accompanied by other symptoms that we may not notice right away. Our moods can shift. This is due to hormone loss. We can begin to gain weight. We experience joint pain,sleeplessness,hot flashes, heart disease can occur. Yes,even heart disease. Again,because of hormone loss. Our skin changes,possible hair loss and more. This affects our overall health and well being as women. How about ask your wife what her Dr said. Go with her to the Dr. Do your own reading. I can guarantee you,the information will shock even you. I don't think treating her like a room mate is going to fix her existing issue. The menopause is the root cause. Perhaps she can get HRT. Not all women are candidates though. HRT will once again increase the ESTROGEN. The Estrogen is responsible for SEXUAL DESIRE AND MOISTURE. Does your wife know this? Also,if your wife isn't adequately Lubricated,you could tear her Vaginal tissues inside. Which would be painful and lead to infection. If you piss off your wife with your attitude, I can guarantee she won't even tell you if she looked into any of this. Your attitude can further make or break the situation. 🙏
@@kerrywhite5253 you brought up some very good points. Unfortunately, we are heading to divorce court. There are more issues behind the scenes. Even taking sex out of it, you still have a heart to love. I don't think that the love was there anymore on her part. It was a fun run. I would definitely say that if I ever got married again, premarital counseling will be a must.
@Aaronhill I'm so very sorry to hear about the divorce. Yes,even with Menopause we still have the capacity to love. Don't underestimate the power and potential horror that meno can bring. It does terrible things physically and emotionally. God bless you going forth.
Ma'am you are lucky to have a faithful, and loving husband . Give him some
😍 I love Judge Star more and more with every episode. She is wonderful.
I said the exact same thing. She has really surprised me.
I am so glad that Judge Star is utilizing Dr Gary Chapman "Love Languages" authored in 1992. The title of the book is The Five Love Languages by Dr Gary Chapman. The five love languages are Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, and Quality Time.
Star you are a refreshing new face to divorce court .
She has checked out. He is smoking because you are not there with him.
Honestly all of her excuses are coming up very short. He seems like he wants to be in the marriage and she does not. Love Judge Starr!
Im with him,, he still is attracted to his wife after all these years. No sex,, maybe she is menopausal.
She should get an evaluation by a dr that specializes in hormone replacement therapy. Changed my life and attitude and definitely got my groove back.
@@lydiamatthews9753 I gotta look into this. Tnx u
Please do! Not all drs believe in it. For me it was a testosterone pellet because women do produce it while young. It help with weight loss, clear mind and your hubby will wonder wth is going on on in the bedroom! I've been doing this for the last 10+ years. It has changed my life, energy, mind. It saved my marriage.
@@lydiamatthews9753 thank you so much cuz this I feel helpless.
@@diamonddiamond2024 I truly hope you find the help you need. It has been life changer for me. Just know that a lot of "regular" doctors don't know sext about a womans hormones. And they just like oh well you going through menopause. Hell no do not accept that lame answer. But you do have to do research on your own so you understand your symptoms, body etc. I b.v wish you the best. It took me years to reclaim my life and body.
Ok I’m LOVING this judge ❤️❤️💅🏾💅🏾
I felt second hand hurt watching this entire episode. If she is not cheating maybe she is menopausal or has an STD or maybe some type of infection that she’s embarrassed about and doesn’t want him anywhere near her.😢
She probably has low libido and is going through the change of life. She should look into that
Or maybe maybe she doesn t want him to smoke again or what ever.
Or he doesn t listen listen to her
Or something way different. Just saying.
STD?
She’s behaving like I did when I started menopause. I, also, couldn’t use birth control and definitely didn’t want to get pregnant.
It's hard to call this one because something isn't adding up in regards to the wife. I understand the smoking because that's a deal breaker for me, but she looks checked out, unhappy, and like she's in a different world than her husband. I like when he said, he would throw her out the window, run down and catch her, and sex her all the way backup.... I'm a twenty something, but that was cute!!! and seemed old school. She's worrying about grown kids, and a 15 year old.... those are just the excuses she keeps coming up with. I hope they be okay, but if she can't be totally honest about what she's feeling deep down, either go seek a marriage counselor, or just go your separate ways. Life is to short to be unhappy.
So basically she is turned off by his lack of care for his health and the cigarettes. She doesn't like kissing or making love to someone who tastes like and smells like an ash tray. Maybe she is fearful of him dying and leaving his family alone.
But she has to understand that he's going to assume she's cheating if his ego is hurt. Maybe he should chill out and let her take the driver's seat and make the first move. Stop smoking for a month and see if it changes her mood about being intimate with him.
Took the words right out of my mouth.
Sorry she making up excuses of him smoking 🚬 the first met her smoking she stayed with him for over 24 years. 😎
She needs to get it together!!! Her kids are GROWN!!! This man is still attracted to her after all those years. I applaud him for remaining faithful to her and not stepping out, because I know a whole lot of men who would cheat. Now, I understand about the smoking. I can't do it either.
Did she just say "ambalamps?"
I feel she is eyeing someone else, probably a little younger..this man is doing all this and she is so unmotivated by him..the grass isn't always greener on the other side..
For the first time on Divorce Court I must say this is the type of treatment I would want from my husband after years of marriage...
As soon as he starts CHEATING, than he’s WRONG🤦🏾♀️ sis get it TOGETHER 🙄
I also think her problem might be she may be experiencing the beginnings of empty nest syndrome. Not sure what she will do once her children are all gone and living their lives. And since, as a mother, she isn't as busy taking care of the children, she is starting to see more of who she has been with for the last 20 something years and may not like what she sees or deals with as much. Children become the scapegoat. It happens, unfortunately.
Menopause
@@5822huron dat too
If he did her like that then she will be think he was cheating. She have to do better and give that man some if not let him go. She blaming him for everything to change his mind off sex
Love, love, love Judge Star!!!
he's so cute & judge star stopped miss thang talking about heart disease i love this
Judge Star was what this show needed to get it back on track after judge lynn, i feel bad for faith because it wasnt really her fault it was the people/cases she got, i feel like they did that because of her age. But overall judge star has been killing it
Adorable couple ... I hope they find their way back to love/ each other! Wish she had sent them to counseling! I'm rooting for them!
She's out here unknowingly advertising her husband. You hear this man said it's been almost a year and all of the things he has attempted to do to get with her and she still refuses! Do you know how many women are probably in his inbox as of today? I seriously hope they've been able to work it out counseling doctor visits something.
that man knows how to keep a relationship spontaneous......other men should follow.
she'll miss his love and passion when he's gone.
I’m loving Judge Star . . She’s reminds me of Judge Toler 👏🏾❤️
Something tells me that even if he worked on his health and quit smoking she still wouldn't sleep with him again. I don't think they're sexually compatible and she really just looks bored.
I think she needs to workout to get the juices flowing down there again...self care helps the libido so much
She just don't want him but don't know how to say it to him maybe she doesn't want to seem ungrateful 🤷♀️
She needs to be glade he still wants her after all these years. He loves her
The wife is just scared cause he has that heart condition and won’t stop smoking. The way she described how his heart condition affects him, I felt like she could’ve cried. Having to stop his heart and it starts back again. She is just so scared of losing him and she is responding the only way she knows how. I think they will get it together. No one wants to lose someone so precious to them over something that doesn’t have to happen. Blessings to them
Women enabling other women
I am so glad they changed the judge this was so needed unfortunately the last judge just was dry with no real personality I'm so glad that they brought her in
"MY ⛵ STILL FLOATS...I DON'T KNOW WHY SHE DON'T WANNA GET ONBOARD!!!"
I'M SO USING THIS...
I don't think she is attracted to him anymore. She said wants the marriage but there is no passion on her part. She just comfortable
The jury has spoken Starr Jones, is official👏. I had to watch a few shows first before the seal of approval....however I love her looks, hair, and experience she brings. She is classy but still hood and educated all-in-one. Classyeducatedhoodverified! I'm rocking with her.
I don’t think she likes him anymore plain & simple.. she might love him but she certainly doesn’t like him or who he is
Great show! Judge Toler is a VERY hard act to follow, but Judge Jones is more than holding her own. A nice refresh!
I love judge Star.
I can't believe how common that is; my sister's ex-husband used to turn her off smoking. She'd get nauseous with the smell & stopped having sex with him. Her new husband doesn't smoke, & they have sex a lot. I didn't realize there's people that repulsed by cigarette smoke, although it does stink, hence why I never dated men who smoked cigarettes.
I REALLY DISLIKE CIGARETTES SO I WOULD NEVER DATE ANYONE THAT SMOKES
God I hope they stay together, because this is sad. It sounds like some sort of depression going on between them.
Many women out here wishing they had someone like that especially after 24 years! That man gone love till they die
Who in tf is Teddy PenderGRAPH ?! 😭😭😭😭😂💀
Ahh so he has SVT!! He gotta handle that. I had an episode a few months ago and it was so scary! The feeling of your heart being stopped is nothing I would want anyone to go through. Glad he had the procedure but it will work only if he stops smoking! Hope they get themselves together!
Yes thank you I had stop smoking and I’m doing great now thank you all for the love and support!!!
Well they’re as cute as peas. They might need some marriage counseling, and she might need to be checked by her OBGYN to see if she is perimenopausal, but they’re definitely gonna be alright. This was a breath of fresh air episode.
He just needs to plan a little better. Send the kids with a relative for the weekend, pack her bags for her and both y’all put them phones on DND! He’s definitely trying but she’s too busy scattered worrying about home that she can’t get into it. He seems like a nice guy.
Their youngest is 15, not 5. It's not that hard to figure them out. It seems she doesn't want to let go of the kids and realize they're adults except for the 15 year old. The man is trying, she needs to try too. I know she's probably going though stuff but she needs to make an effort
I get it her love language is acts of service she wants him to help out more to take stuff off her plate and someone who isn’t just concerned with their wants/needs.
Like what all their kids are grown except for the 15 year old.
@@jadriangarner6374 they were together 20+ years he probably wasn’t helping out much.
@@justbusiness01 bs she not into him anymore and she will not tell him because he is the one taking care of her .every time she said feed the kids I’m like what they is 30, 26 ,22 and 15 she just making up excuses she found someone else.
@@jadriangarner6374 or she just tired. 26 years is a long time to put up with someone’s BS.
@@justbusiness01 , what b.s. of his is she putting up with though? She never really articulated what it is that has her checked out. He deserves better than that.
I found it really hard watching divorce court after Judge Toler left but now with Judge Star?? Divorce Court is back🔥
It's the grandpa drawers for me....too funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Smoking can be a complete turnoff.
I believe the love and feeling for him isn’t there anymore. And this happens in marriages. You just grow apart.
She’s going to lose a good man with her excuses when he get a pyt 🤦🏾♀️ it’ll be a problem
A pyt would take advantage of this man he sound like a loving husband Pyt will try to break him
good lol not every women want to do the deed whenever a man wants it
@@cocomelon2346 that’s why some women can’t keep a husband but if he gets it from someone else it’s a problem
@@Passion85031 no that isn't why some women cant keep a husband. Some husband cant keep a women because they pressure them into having sex knowing they doesn't want to. Men will always ignored women opinion on situation mainly on sex. If she doesn't want to do it then he should just accepted it. Its her choice not to do it, he also making everything sexual and that can turn her off. Hes not a good man he seem like a narcissistic because he cant get want he want and will keep ignoring other thing around him. Basically if she does give him sex he will focus more on his health situation but will continue ignore her choice on when asking about sex time to time. The fact your a black women commenting she will lose a "good man" all because SHE CHOOSE not to have intercourse with him tells a lot about you. Seem like your man isn't good you either and probably out cheating or that you probably don't have man but just typing from past experience relationship.
@@Passion85031 btw send me your Instagram so i can @ you in my story on this comment with mine ☺️
I wonder if she is dealing with depression or some other health concern that may inhibit her sex drive. It seems like she cares about him and loves him but she seems very disconnected like she doesn’t even know what she wants at this point.
I feel sorry for him. Man he said who you giving it too🤣
Good job Star Jones looking good and I love your wisdom and class!
He’s having a midlife crisis and she’s completely disconnected from him and the marriage
I can relate: I dare to suggest that it is a menopausal situation , usually unrecognizable except in retrospect
Maybe it's Menopause.........
LOVE this couple! I'd love to have them over for dinner!
If he had to run downstairs to smoke cigarettes, even when he knows she doesn’t like it is complete sabotage. Despite all his talk about intimacy he was apparently nervous about being intimate with her in the hotel room.
I love Judge Star she is so direct
Wait a minute!!! Wait a got doggone minute.... she doesn't like Teddy P.... I'm 💀
Not gonna lie, nothing against Judge Faith, I love her however Judge Star Jones smh she should of BEEN had divorce court after Judge Lynn cause she’s real, she doesn’t sugar coat nothing and lol she lowkey shady.
Understand The 2 Judges Are Much Older Than Judge Faith, Different Generations,
Something is off with her. I am yet to hear her say something solid. She looked guilty when the cheating part came in.
Sounds to me like he's doing everything right and she's doing nothing right.
I just started watching this version of Divorce Court this week because I was very skeptical of Star Jones. And although no one will ever be able to replace the great Judge Lynn Toler, Star Jones has found her own lane and I think I can jive with this
I think she is taking him for granted. She finds anything to turn herself off towards him. She probably thinks he will never leave.
If she keeps it up she will find out
Girl make your marriage work. There is nothing out here. If you are cheating the other dude is perfect because you don't have a lot of time once you have more time he will disappear. You have a man that loves cherish that.
No sex for a year! She dead wrong !!!! Wtf
she not
I think she done fail out of love with him thru been together for a long time
It's also so nice to see Robert's regard for Judge Star. He is a great ally.
Possibly the wife is dealing with menopause, she wants her husband, the cute corny still makes her smile, but burnt out due to their life changes. Judge Starr is bringing her own style with elegance, wisdom and no nonsense, love watching again!!
Buy him the type of underwear you want him to wear.
Exactly she gotta put in some effort too
"I have to call the AMALAMS"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bro she has another man. Move on my guy! Get a damn divorce.
prove it
@@cocomelon2346 prove deez nuts in yo mouth.
She seems a mix of tired, exhausted and content. I think she has the mindset of "he not going nowhere, i got other priorities". I will say, if you were with someone who wasn't smoking, and they picked up the habit, it's pretty nasty. My ex wife picked up smoking, and destroyed her chemical make up, I hated sex with her after.
I loved this episode 💕
Those kids are old as hell. Stop using them as an excuse or teach the youngest more independence.
...And if he cheats she'll be mad! If we're told "no" all the time, we stop asking!
Judge was impressed with the getting thrown out the window😂
My youngest daughter is 16. For the past two years when my wife and i wanted to do a date night or an overnight date night we would leave her with our 22 year old son at our home. If she got hungry I would let her order takeout through one of the food delivery companies.