Dated for 6 years, married , cheat and take her to court... it hurts her feelings but she should be glad that she not spend the whole life with that kind of man.
@@jamierthegod8189 it’s not about feminism. His lack of moral character is exposed. Being impartial does not mean dismissing obvious character flaws…it actually means the opposite.
He wanted his cake and to eat it too. She's saying you can have your cake but you can't eat it at MY table. And he was still trying to get back a seat at her table. A louse like the judge said.
@@nancygodsey8312 I completely agree with you. We just had our daughters wedding and if her husband did this I’m not sure what I would do but my daughter I think would hold her head up and walk on by. She would know, I hope, that he lost the best thing that would ever come into his life.
He wasted 8+ years of her life...He is a sleaze and sadly this will screw with her for most of her life. Think of the next guy who actually cares about her and what he will have 2 go through just 2 win her heart...Cheaters, male or female are heartless and they are also thieves because they steal someone's trust and loyalty...
@@giondennis6808 I completely agree. Plus he shit away 75K in home equity, 60K wedding _her_ parents paid for, plus $5K for her wedding gown. Now the entire world knows he’s a POS!
The strength and emotional control she showed was outstanding! The pain she must of felt, I don't wish that on anyone. I hope she finds her prince charming. He was so nonchalant. Very sad case.
Non of you know the REAL story and how their relationship was😒, you really think everything was peaching on her side then you are either naive, stupid or dumb, pick one of the 3 if so?! 🤦🏽♂️
Some men don't know what does a man word mean? Man word meaning not by having big muscles, mustache, beard,good appearing. To be a real man is how you treat your gf/wife/family/people you know or don't know you meet them in the street or anywhere. How you handle situations. For her and to all kind ladies out there "Don't make your kindness a book".
I think the title of "man" has been grayed-out. A "man" would not have done the things he did here. I truly believe he has no conscience of the magnitude of pain, scarring and perhaps PTSD he's caused to this young woman's life, as well to those nearest to her. Perhaps he is a bit of a narcissist? Dunno? Perhaps? He is clueless as to the magnitude of his betrayal. Poor parents of the young lady, this must be so hard on them to see their daughter experiencing this. Perhaps a consolation, she is spared more heartache in the future. Thank GOD they did not have kids.
The most beautiful thing in life, in my opinion, is a man that resists lusting over other women. When a harlet comes to seduce him, he stops her on her tracks and politely says, I am in a committed relationship, and I love my girlfriend/wife. I truly think - that is a man.
I just don't understand women. On the one hand they want to be respected as strong capable human beings. On the other, they rely so much on men for their happiness. If you depend on another so much for life's satisfactions, chances are you're going to be sorely disappointed.
That she allowed her parents to spend 60k on a wedding is ridiculous. I can afford it, but my daughter would never dream of letting me spend that much. She'd much rather I use that to pay down the mortgage or invest it for her.
@@trekgirl65 That's what I was saying.....his actions revealed in her a strength she didn't know she had. It was about her...not him. Hope that clarifies my statement. Have a fantastic day! 😊
She dodged a bullet. Even though they got married his behavior came to light quickly. I’m sure she is thankful this didn’t drag out 10 years and a couple of kids later.
When my now ex husband and I were dating he told this story about how horrible he treated a girlfriend that cheated on him after I told him that I don’t tolerate cheating….. two years after I married him, I divorced him for cheating on me. The funny thing is that he made crazy vindictive threats and got super defensive because he expected me to treat him as horrible as he treated the girl who cheated on him. I didn’t and he just couldn’t wrap his head around it. 😂
@@brittanymark9213 My ex still sees our marriage breakup as my fault. There was domestic violence, he was physically, emotionally and financially abusive, he was cheating with my best friend, and then when I overheard a phone call with his best friend, talking about hitmen etc, I was out of there. But I'm the a&hole. He used to say being a Secretary wasn't a career, yet he didn't work as he didn't want to. We had 2 children and even with time off for that, I still worked far more then he did throughout the marriage. I got the best revenge to some of his putting me down, I went on to get various degrees and other qualifications and own a home and half another. He is still living in a dump that he only owns a 3rd of and still doesn't have a career or probably a job and everyone around where he lives knows what he did and all see him for what he is.
He is disgusting. His piece on the side is just as disgusting. Can I say, if she stays with him, I hope he treats her just as poorly. She shouldn't be surprised or indignant if he does. I can only hope that his parents are thoroughly disgusted and ashamed of him.
so true. I dated my college sweetheart as my first boyfriend (a bit late but some of us take longer) and I am so happy I did not marry him. My parents erre so happy too when we broke up. Dodged a bullet there! Married the third boyfriend and we are so happy and in love over 25 years! Experience is so important and living on your own, your own apartment and your own money and job/career! My daughters have learned this lesson as well.
He clearly said he is still with his girlfriend. They clearly have been in a relationship just as last ng as he with his wife because he moved his girlfriend right in the house and then they left when she wanted to move in after finding out another woman was in her house. She will be alright.
I feel like the ex wife knew something was up when she asked him before the wedding but just didn't have any proof. He convinced her he wasn't, then 2 months after the wedding decided he wanted to tell the truth smh #wastemytime
Yes the ton of money the parents invested, 100's of invited guest colleagues, family,friends, could be why she went through with it. What would be more painful cause less anger,rage, hate,feelings of humiliation? Cancelling a wedding paid in full or a annulment soon after the vows? What he did & not showing up at the alter are a brides,grooms, worse nightmare come true.
@@cindywilliams8188Same with men. We put the blinders one because we trust the person we're with. It's the right call with the right person, just not with the wrong one. The first decision we make in a relationship is the most important one.
No matter the sex of the individual, people who just can't stay faithful shouldn't try marriage AT ALL! When they cheat, they just look like the trash they are!
yeah think he wanted his cake and to eat it too. wish he could have been honest with his wife. would have avoided alot of pain and heart ache for both of them
She’s much better off without him and I’m sure she will find a new great guy, because she sounds like a great girl. It’s better that they part sooner rather than after they have a bunch of kids.
I can’t believe he aggreed to pay 60K for the wedding knowing he was cheating on her and wasn’t ready for marriage. I feel for her. She doesn’t deserve to be in court now.
What a horrible POS that male is! Probably the worst case I have ever seen on this show. Why would he sue her after all he did to her? Obviously because he's completely psychotic. His new gf needs to run!
I honestly think he has no other way of seeing her and thought he could see her this way. All he did was prove how much of total douche bag he is and the other woman has no idea what she’s in for lmao happy for the defendant, she dodged a huge bullet. Could’ve caught an std.
Literally psycho. I think the last part where she said he tried to get back with her for 2 years explains it. I think because she wouldn’t take him back this case was a way for him to attempt to punish her for not taking him back or maybe even get a chance to see her or control the narrative that he no longer controls.
She spent the end of her teens and most of her 20s with a man that never really wanted her instead of leaving her alone he strung her along and cheated
I can't believe he found someone as beautiful and sweet as this young lady. I hope the new woman watches.this case and this doesn't happen to her. The defendant in sure will find someone who will love and respect her. It certainly wasn't him.
The "new woman" is the other woman he was cheating with even before the wedding. She is as much a low life POS as he is. If the fates are fair, maybe she will cheat on him big time, take him for as much as she can get out of him and then leave him in the dust to tend to his broken heart and ego.
Thank God she didnt make any kids for him. 8yrs straight, buys a whole house n spent 60 thousand on a damn wedding knowing damn well he was linking with someone else the whole time. That is just plain wickedness! I could literally feel her pain 😓
He really stood up there straight face no emotion as he knows the damage he did. There’s some heartless men out here I mean I guess I’m glad because maybe it’ll show her she deserves better and not to take him back EVER again. And I understand we all have the right to change our mind and leave the relationship but what he did and how he did it was hurtful and wrong and I been through that. I hope she heals cause it’s hard but you can do it 🙏🏾
@Chris K yes but no, a women's youth is far more valuable than a man's since but that is their prime years where they have their pick of the litter. Men hit their prime much older but as women age their ability to get a man they want exponentially decreases. So I do feel bad for her because she most likely missed her chance to select a high caliber guy but then again she picked this coward who is afraid to be honest.
@@momonie4 lol a woman's 20s is the best time to couple and have kids, especially if she wants multiple, what are you talking about lol. Geriatric pregnancy starts in the mid 30s
I would have been sobbing at the end when the judge was asking me about his cheating. Shes so strong. She learned a hard lesson. When in doubt, just hold back and wait. The truth will come up eventually.
Why who cares who was unfaithful? They went through with the wedding. He don't owe her anything. That's like saying then she should pay him for his suit. The wedding is done and over so whatever was paid was paid that's it. It's not like he got his rings back.
@@stephaniehowe0973 also you're right it was a contract and the contract was to get married. They got married so the contract was completed no matter how long it lasted
there HAS to be something else going on here ??? Like the girls parents had money and he wanted to get it ?? SOMETHING ?!! How could you be cheating, buy a house, spend 60k on a wedding just to continue cheating ???
I couldn't imagine. How devastating. This beautiful girl spent so much of her life with him. She will find someone who loves her like he is supposed to. This guy deserves nothing but pure karma... and I hope it finds him.
That goes to show that people will lie boldly to your face and do everything in their power to cover it up. Even go as far as owning a house and getting married to prove a point. There was no way she would've known unless he told the truth OR she hired a private investigator.
Nowadays, weddings cost over 100,000 dollars, easy when filet mignons are served. I told my daughter that if she ever decides to get married, think wisely. It is Their wedding, their decision on how much their budget would be, etc. Her Dad and I are not shelling out any money for their wedding. They could still be married even if there are only having a few important guests whom they will invite. I told her that it is not good to start their married life owing money because they threw a lavish wedding. That is a big No, No. The entire ball is in their court.❤
This is a very hard lesson for her, but a valuable one. She will now be able to recognize red flags and set boundaries and I fully expect her to find the right one for her. I have a feeling she is going to heal eventually and be stronger in the end.
“The judgement was not what I was looking for...” evil, greedy cheater...always out for himself! Women be warned ...no matter how long you think you know someone!
He would have been ok with seeing both women at the same time. I believe her . And the nerve of him expecting to receive monies for his deceitful actions. Sending blessings to her for peace and healing. She shows so much pain in her presence.
She doesn’t need a true Prince. She needs self confidence and meaning to her own life and not through someone else. You can be happy and content living an individual life.
She should have been able to recoup the losses for the dress, for the entire wedding even. Perhaps if she had been able to articulate that the fact he was unfaithful even before the wedding means he entered into the agreement under false pretenses, essentially that he violated their contractual agreement according to the vows he publicly stated means he wasted not only her resources but those of her family, and essentially embezzled their money for something he knew was already a false agreement. His violation of the annulment agreement with the property further demonstrates his propensity to make false agreements and violate them
Then every wife ever cheated on would be in court suing their husbands for their bad behavior. Despite being horrible, there’s no law stating you get your money back if your husband cheats.
Women are the ones who want the big pointless weddings most of the time. He’s a scumbag, but I don’t see why he’d have to pay. You still had your lame overpriced party.
Came to court, won $0 and now not only does everybody know he’s a cheat, but also how badly he cheated. After being a cheater, he couldn’t even have the remorse to just let it go. No empathy whatsoever.
I have the same thing happening to me right now that she's gone through. honestly, it has been the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. the pain every day knowing you've been traded in by the person you trusted to share your life with just devastates.
Now this is what you call a lady, I feel her pain, this dude doesn't deserve a diamond like her, hope she finds someone that would respect her and put her in the queen throne that she has to be.
Are you serious? Your husband had feelings for another women and all you can do is be happy she didn't feel the same way?? He will just find someone else who does because he don't give a crap about YOU. Wake up lady!!!
The guy at the end is so childish and annoying how tf is she suing out of vengence when she spent money on a wedding that was ruined and a home like wtf
@@djburdine no she’s suing for the money she wasted when he was playing with there marriage and her time. Remember when Mariyah Carey sued her ex for wasting her time ? It’s just that regular people can’t afford the real legal team that is needed to win. But thanks for your opinion mines won’t change!
@@allen9584 shit using that logic i should sue all my ex's for wasting my time. It's just stupid. She didn't want the money or care about suing him but since he filed the law suit she figured she'll see if she can get something out of it
I’m so sorry she went through that, but better it was right after then wasting years and having children with him. She’s intelligent, level headed and beautiful…she’s better without him.
who said she told her family. That is usually what they want to pay. My father was Italian and he invited a lot of people I wouldn't have invited. It was a big lavish expensive wedding.
So the wife was basically the side chick the whole time (in his mind). He obviously cared about the other woman more to be seeing her before and after he got married, and is still seeing her. Him and his gf will get their karma without the ex wife having to lift a finger!
"Dude, after everything you put her through, you couldn't just walk away?" That question took me out! Savage (in the best way!)
As long as it's a question garnerd from curiosity. Not sure of it's relevance
Why would she want the home they bought together.
Dated for 6 years, married , cheat and take her to court... it hurts her feelings but she should be glad that she not spend the whole life with that kind of man.
The judge is such a feminist. Keep it strictly to the case and keep your comments to yourself.
@@jamierthegod8189 it’s not about feminism. His lack of moral character is exposed. Being impartial does not mean dismissing obvious character flaws…it actually means the opposite.
As painful as this was for the bride, she dodged a bullet.
In a way….but really she got shot. She just lived to tell about it. 🥺
I think they both dodged a bullet.
He wanted his cake and to eat it too. She's saying you can have your cake but you can't eat it at MY table. And he was still trying to get back a seat at her table. A louse like the judge said.
@@nancygodsey8312 I completely agree with you. We just had our daughters wedding and if her husband did this I’m not sure what I would do but my daughter I think would hold her head up and walk on by. She would know, I hope, that he lost the best thing that would ever come into his life.
She is a tough cookie. He should have known better not to mess with her.
So much pain in her eyes. I hope and pray she finds peace.
He wasted 8+ years of her life...He is a sleaze and sadly this will screw with her for most of her life. Think of the next guy who actually cares about her and what he will have 2 go through just 2 win her heart...Cheaters, male or female are heartless and they are also thieves because they steal someone's trust and loyalty...
So cute lady. She will have a good husband and life
@@giondennis6808 I completely agree. Plus he shit away 75K in home equity, 60K wedding _her_ parents paid for, plus $5K for her wedding gown.
Now the entire world knows he’s a POS!
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Eventually she will,but unfortunately it will take a long,long time.been down that road.
The strength and emotional control she showed was outstanding! The pain she must of felt, I don't wish that on anyone. I hope she finds her prince charming. He was so nonchalant. Very sad case.
He brought her on tv to further humiliate her
@@Nevaeh1 Well, that backfired on him, didn't it?!!! He should've just let it go.
Judge had the hots for this guy!
Pay back is bitch karma I wish her the best.
crazy guy. He is going to do it to the current one also.he was not ready to be a married man.
If he cheated on her before their marriage, why did he go through with the marriage only to continue cheating? That’s evil
That's a "man" for ya........
Simply, because he's a coward.
@@brigittemed9372 nah that's a sociopath
Non of you know the REAL story and how their relationship was😒, you really think everything was peaching on her side then you are either naive, stupid or dumb, pick one of the 3 if so?! 🤦🏽♂️
Obviously she had something to bring to the table since he married her. We don’t need to know everything. You don’t cheat bruh, you leave. It simple.
I feel so sad for the woman. How devastating to go through that and have him sue... He's not an honorable man.
One minute in - he's a total POS!!!
Some men don't know what does a man word mean? Man word meaning not by having big muscles, mustache, beard,good appearing. To be a real man is how you treat your gf/wife/family/people you know or don't know you meet them in the street or anywhere. How you handle situations. For her and to all kind ladies out there "Don't make your kindness a book".
I think the title of "man" has been grayed-out. A "man" would not have done the things he did here. I truly believe he has no conscience of the magnitude of pain, scarring and perhaps PTSD he's caused to this young woman's life, as well to those nearest to her. Perhaps he is a bit of a narcissist? Dunno? Perhaps? He is clueless as to the magnitude of his betrayal. Poor parents of the young lady, this must be so hard on them to see their daughter experiencing this. Perhaps a consolation, she is spared more heartache in the future. Thank GOD they did not have kids.
The most beautiful thing in life, in my opinion, is a man that resists lusting over other women. When a harlet comes to seduce him, he stops her on her tracks and politely says, I am in a committed relationship, and I love my girlfriend/wife. I truly think - that is a man.
I just don't understand women. On the one hand they want to be respected as strong capable human beings. On the other, they rely so much on men for their happiness. If you depend on another so much for life's satisfactions, chances are you're going to be sorely disappointed.
How he could allow the brides' family pay $60,000 towards the wedding whilst having a long term affair is evil
Only a fool spent that much money. And not own a home
That she allowed her parents to spend 60k on a wedding is ridiculous. I can afford it, but my daughter would never dream of letting me spend that much. She'd much rather I use that to pay down the mortgage or invest it for her.
Absolutely. That's woman is way too good for him.
I can’t believe he really had the nerve to sue her
They just needed to sell the house but I'm sure she was argumentative towards him after 8 years
The nerve to sue her!! What an asshole!!!!
When you can talk about it without melting in a puddle of tears---growth! He showed her strength she didn't know she had.
He did not show his strength, the Defendant did. Get the genders corrected.
@@trekgirl65 That's what I was saying.....his actions revealed in her a strength she didn't know she had. It was about her...not him. Hope that clarifies my statement. Have a fantastic day! 😊
did i miss the arm wrestle or i dont know what you mean by strength
She dodged a bullet. Even though they got married his behavior came to light quickly. I’m sure she is thankful this didn’t drag out 10 years and a couple of kids later.
This is very true!
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She was with him for 8 years though
She was with him for 8 years though
@@718datbxkid she was young
It’s amazing how people who cheat glaze over what they did wrong, but if the other person had cheated they would shout it from the mountain tops.
Who cares we only have one life then we never exist men do not care about yall feelings
Exactly! Funny how dishonest people are almost all like that.
When my now ex husband and I were dating he told this story about how horrible he treated a girlfriend that cheated on him after I told him that I don’t tolerate cheating….. two years after I married him, I divorced him for cheating on me.
The funny thing is that he made crazy vindictive threats and got super defensive because he expected me to treat him as horrible as he treated the girl who cheated on him. I didn’t and he just couldn’t wrap his head around it. 😂
@@brittanymark9213 My ex still sees our marriage breakup as my fault. There was domestic violence, he was physically, emotionally and financially abusive, he was cheating with my best friend, and then when I overheard a phone call with his best friend, talking about hitmen etc, I was out of there. But I'm the a&hole. He used to say being a Secretary wasn't a career, yet he didn't work as he didn't want to. We had 2 children and even with time off for that, I still worked far more then he did throughout the marriage. I got the best revenge to some of his putting me down, I went on to get various degrees and other qualifications and own a home and half another. He is still living in a dump that he only owns a 3rd of and still doesn't have a career or probably a job and everyone around where he lives knows what he did and all see him for what he is.
wait a minute the wife had a girlfriend on the side too what mountain they shout from Busch Mountain
Wow I can feel her pain. You can tell she's still very hurt. I feel so sorry for her. I wish her the very best..
He will get his karma. I hope that young lady finds peace and happiness.
Yes but she must have done something pretty bad to have that karma befall her.
@Big Smo nah. They’re both complete garbage !!!!! Especially him
The woman isn’t always innocent and he deserves his happiness and peace.
@@pattycarljackson no shit
You cheat on someone and have nerve to sue?
He is disgusting. His piece on the side is just as disgusting. Can I say, if she stays with him, I hope he treats her just as poorly. She shouldn't be surprised or indignant if he does. I can only hope that his parents are thoroughly disgusted and ashamed of him.
If she'll cheat with him, she'll cheat on him. He will definitely get his come upings
@@toniaphillips9695 Maybe he will get his just rewards when SHE cheats on HIM and breaks his widdle heart! :0D
Yes..and may the bully get a taste of his own medicine!
My ex had a side chick. I left him. He ended up treating her like shit too. They broke up 3 months later and he regretted it.
A relationship that came together from cheating won’t last. One of them will cheat
That girl is strong. Proud of her for not getting back with him.
she so strong oprah strong the strength to just have a 3 way and make everyone happy
Prime example of sometimes you got to let your high school romance go. Some people aren’t supposed to be in your life but for a short period.
so true. I dated my college sweetheart as my first boyfriend (a bit late but some of us take longer) and I am so happy I did not marry him. My parents erre so happy too when we broke up. Dodged a bullet there! Married the third boyfriend and we are so happy and in love over 25 years! Experience is so important and living on your own, your own apartment and your own money and job/career! My daughters have learned this lesson as well.
Lost his wife, the house and something tells me the side chick too and now he’s trying to sue in order to start over. He lost big time!
He, the narc, lost a sweet lady -and that is his punishment.
He clearly said he is still with his girlfriend. They clearly have been in a relationship just as last ng as he with his wife because he moved his girlfriend right in the house and then they left when she wanted to move in after finding out another woman was in her house. She will be alright.
Just because he cheated on her doesn't mean a damn thing. This is Court emotions Don't count documentation does
he still has the family dog and the ideal of a 3-way relationship in THE MAN CASTLE " Can't we all just get along"
I feel like the ex wife knew something was up when she asked him before the wedding but just didn't have any proof. He convinced her he wasn't, then 2 months after the wedding decided he wanted to tell the truth smh #wastemytime
Another waste of time the prior 8 years, she had to have known that he was in another relationship all along.
Yes the ton of money the parents invested, 100's of invited guest colleagues, family,friends, could be why she went through with it. What would be more painful cause less anger,rage, hate,feelings of humiliation? Cancelling a wedding paid in full or a annulment soon after the vows? What he did & not showing up at the alter are a brides,grooms, worse nightmare come true.
🚩🚩🚩Sometimes as women we blantantly ignore our intuitive sense & signs get all caught up in the planning for a perfect fairytale 👰♀️wedding.
@@cindywilliams8188Same with men. We put the blinders one because we trust the person we're with. It's the right call with the right person, just not with the wrong one. The first decision we make in a relationship is the most important one.
Judge wanted all the tea. This was like a telenovela. “Was that sucia at the wedding?!” I know she didn’t say that but I wish she did.
Her emotions as a woman led to those questions. You could tell the judge felt her hurt.
@@ericarogers428 Nah. Judge Mathis is even worse, loves the details. It sounds really weird to say it's because she's a woman lol
@@ericarogers428 person in general*
Chismosa 😂
Tea?
No matter the sex of the individual, people who just can't stay faithful shouldn't try marriage AT ALL! When they cheat, they just look like the trash they are!
yeah think he wanted his cake and to eat it too. wish he could have been honest with his wife. would have avoided alot of pain and heart ache for both of them
My heart broke seeing the pain in her face. I pray she finds true love and loyalty oneday.
yes, that pain such an Oprah moment
She’s much better off without him and I’m sure she will find a new great guy, because she sounds like a great girl. It’s better that they part sooner rather than after they have a bunch of kids.
I can’t believe he aggreed to pay 60K for the wedding knowing he was cheating on her and wasn’t ready for marriage. I feel for her. She doesn’t deserve to be in court now.
I think her parents paid the $60k and he's a piece of sh!t so I'm sure he couldn't have cared less if it wasn't his money.
Her family paid for it so he didn’t give a F
HE didn't pay for shit, the bride's family paid for it.
He was in it for the money.
anyone else wants to tell us that the parents paid for it XD ?
She said he didn’t pay anything for the wedding she never got a dime from him
What a horrible POS that male is! Probably the worst case I have ever seen on this show. Why would he sue her after all he did to her? Obviously because he's completely psychotic. His new gf needs to run!
I honestly think he has no other way of seeing her and thought he could see her this way. All he did was prove how much of total douche bag he is and the other woman has no idea what she’s in for lmao happy for the defendant, she dodged a huge bullet. Could’ve caught an std.
Li Lo. Unfortunately, the new gf will believe that he woman do this type of thing to her. She'll blame the wife. So sad.
Yep. She's obviously a psycho too. Some people!....smh
Literally psycho. I think the last part where she said he tried to get back with her for 2 years explains it. I think because she wouldn’t take him back this case was a way for him to attempt to punish her for not taking him back or maybe even get a chance to see her or control the narrative that he no longer controls.
Yep - definitely an attempt at control
this young lady looks so broken...
She spent the end of her teens and most of her 20s with a man that never really wanted her instead of leaving her alone he strung her along and cheated
Yet there’s a strength there that’s admirable
I can't believe he found someone as beautiful and sweet as this young lady. I hope the new woman watches.this case and this doesn't happen to her. The defendant in sure will find someone who will love and respect her. It certainly wasn't him.
Robert Sabella. I hope she isn't too scared to give love another shot. When men do these things it leaves us broken whether we show it or not.
The "new woman" is the other woman he was cheating with even before the wedding. She is as much a low life POS as he is. If the fates are fair, maybe she will cheat on him big time, take him for as much as she can get out of him and then leave him in the dust to tend to his broken heart and ego.
“I wanted to be married” but you were seeing someone else and she was ok with her bf being married to another woman?
A lot of chick's are like this. They will apply for the position of side chick gladly.
Thank God she didnt make any kids for him. 8yrs straight, buys a whole house n spent 60 thousand on a damn wedding knowing damn well he was linking with someone else the whole time. That is just plain wickedness! I could literally feel her pain 😓
She knew too stop all the pity partying!!!!!!!!!!!
I feel so bad for her that man is sick as hell for that.
What a POS. I absolutely think he should have paid her for her dress. He broke the contract that is marriage. Hope he's living his karma.
POS, do you mean Point of sale ladies. do you honestly believe after 8 years she didn't know of the gf
Love her Dad, he came to support her! This was 8 years ago. Hopefully, they've both moved on.
He really stood up there straight face no emotion as he knows the damage he did. There’s some heartless men out here I mean I guess I’m glad because maybe it’ll show her she deserves better and not to take him back EVER again. And I understand we all have the right to change our mind and leave the relationship but what he did and how he did it was hurtful and wrong and I been through that. I hope she heals cause it’s hard but you can do it 🙏🏾
'Now that we have established that you are a louse...' 😂👏👏👏👏👏😂straight to the point, I love it!
What a creep to let her family spend so much money on a wedding and then to still be cheating on her even during the wedding oh my God
He wasted her youth
It's sad.
Plenty of men waste their youth and ungrateful women it goes both ways
She wasted her youth why date anyone for 8 years OMG and your 20s r for finding yourself not coupling up for YEARS!!!!
@Chris K yes but no, a women's youth is far more valuable than a man's since but that is their prime years where they have their pick of the litter. Men hit their prime much older but as women age their ability to get a man they want exponentially decreases. So I do feel bad for her because she most likely missed her chance to select a high caliber guy but then again she picked this coward who is afraid to be honest.
@@momonie4 lol a woman's 20s is the best time to couple and have kids, especially if she wants multiple, what are you talking about lol. Geriatric pregnancy starts in the mid 30s
She is a pretty girl, she will find surely better. He one day will regret his actions and that he lost a quality woman.
I would have been sobbing at the end when the judge was asking me about his cheating. Shes so strong. She learned a hard lesson. When in doubt, just hold back and wait. The truth will come up eventually.
Frankly he broke the marriage contract by not even trying to be faithful.
He should own her some of the wedding costs if it wasnt equally split
Why who cares who was unfaithful? They went through with the wedding. He don't owe her anything. That's like saying then she should pay him for his suit. The wedding is done and over so whatever was paid was paid that's it. It's not like he got his rings back.
@@djburdine
Its a contract.
Period.
I would bet money he got the rings back why would she want them?
@@stephaniehowe0973 I've seen alot of cases where the guy fucked up and the women sells the rings.
@@stephaniehowe0973 also you're right it was a contract and the contract was to get married. They got married so the contract was completed no matter how long it lasted
He didn't force her to demand that $60,000 production "Look at MEEE!!!" wedding. That was "HER big day". Her dress, her problem.
there HAS to be something else going on here ??? Like the girls parents had money and he wanted to get it ?? SOMETHING ?!! How could you be cheating, buy a house, spend 60k on a wedding just to continue cheating ???
He didn't spend $60k, her parents did.
At 3:08 the judge says 'so now we've established you're a louse!' was brilliant...
She’s a gorgeous woman! I’m sorry she went through this. I pray she meets a wonderful man.
I see so much pain in her eyes. She’s very strong.
I couldn't imagine. How devastating. This beautiful girl spent so much of her life with him. She will find someone who loves her like he is supposed to. This guy deserves nothing but pure karma... and I hope it finds him.
She will find another guy, no doubt about it, she never had kids with him so thats the good part.
That goes to show that people will lie boldly to your face and do everything in their power to cover it up. Even go as far as owning a house and getting married to prove a point. There was no way she would've known unless he told the truth OR she hired a private investigator.
60kis wayyyy too much to be spending on a wedding. How about 10k then bank the rest of the money.
Nowadays, weddings cost over 100,000 dollars, easy when filet mignons are served. I told my daughter that if she ever decides to get married, think wisely. It is Their wedding, their decision on how much their budget would be, etc. Her Dad and I are not shelling out any money for their wedding. They could still be married even if there are only having a few important guests whom they will invite. I told her that it is not good to start their married life owing money because they threw a lavish wedding. That is a big No, No. The entire ball is in their court.❤
I wanted to hear the defendant's dad speak! 😂😂💯🙌
I love watching this case more than once, that boy messed up a great thing and he knows it, she seems so gentle and genuine, a wonderful person
This is a very hard lesson for her, but a valuable one. She will now be able to recognize red flags and set boundaries and I fully expect her to find the right one for her. I have a feeling she is going to heal eventually and be stronger in the end.
Can she sue since he broke the annulment as far as selling the house?
I have faith she will move on & find someone worthy of her 👍
“The judgement was not what I was looking for...” evil, greedy cheater...always out for himself! Women be warned ...no matter how long you think you know someone!
He would have been ok with seeing both women at the same time. I believe her . And the nerve of him expecting to receive monies for his deceitful actions. Sending blessings to her for peace and healing. She shows so much pain in her presence.
100% the nerve of this guy after all he put her through
Oh my day. I worked with a female that experienced the same thing. How sad.
God Bless her and her lovely Dad was with her thats so beautiful I hope she finds her true prince
She doesn’t need a true Prince. She needs self confidence and meaning to her own life and not through someone else. You can be happy and content living an individual life.
I remember watching this years ago. I wonder what ultimately happened with both of them.
She should have been able to recoup the losses for the dress, for the entire wedding even. Perhaps if she had been able to articulate that the fact he was unfaithful even before the wedding means he entered into the agreement under false pretenses, essentially that he violated their contractual agreement according to the vows he publicly stated means he wasted not only her resources but those of her family, and essentially embezzled their money for something he knew was already a false agreement. His violation of the annulment agreement with the property further demonstrates his propensity to make false agreements and violate them
Then every wife ever cheated on would be in court suing their husbands for their bad behavior. Despite being horrible, there’s no law stating you get your money back if your husband cheats.
Women are the ones who want the big pointless weddings most of the time. He’s a scumbag, but I don’t see why he’d have to pay. You still had your lame overpriced party.
She deserves every happiness and hope she blocks his number, heals and opens her heart to a true man.
it will take time, though.
The plaintiff is a tool. Glad millions of people get to see that now thanks to this show.
The people outside always have dumb responses to the questions
The questions are dumb
@@jordanwashington4662 yep
Just another example of how stupid it is to waste money on weddings.
Exactly, what a waste
Actually I have been married 26 years, so I disagree
@@robertblatt6725 not arguing over marriage. I’ve been married 52 yrs. A down payment on a house or vehicle is a better use of finances.
@@w.p8960 Exactly, waisting thousnds of dollars to feed other people to try and showcase your marriage is a just plain waistfull!! 🤷🏽♂️
@@dennissmith7214 is that your attitude towards sporting events like Super Bowl parties etc?
He'll probably find some other reason to contact her after this SMH
This case is what I needed. She showed strength! Hope she has a wonderful life moving forward!
I’m gonna need y’all to find their social medias lol I want the tea
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Why am I agreeing with you?😂😂😂😂😂
Im looking right now lol
Update-She’s a doctor! I tried finding him but his name is so common I couldn’t figure it out
Yeah no kidding !!!
@@Frwill126 yasss 👏🏼 a queen who raised from the ashes we love it👏🏼👸
I feel really sad for the lady.. Shes really torn apart.
Hope she can find happines and someone better that can help her to heal
She should never look twice in his direction again. Ditch him and act like he never existed. Life won’t get better with him on a second try. Forget it
Homie ran right out and got the finest suit available at Kohl's for his 15 minutes of fame.
I love old episodes. Judge Milian is going to tell you exactly what she's thinking. She is so far from this currently.
Now she seems to be very snarky. I don't like the new attituded.
This Dude has balls! He came to court like a proud cheater.. she bailed like a cheetah 😊
Came to court, won $0 and now not only does everybody know he’s a cheat, but also how badly he cheated. After being a cheater, he couldn’t even have the remorse to just let it go. No empathy whatsoever.
That's bullshit. She should've got her money back. Unbelievable. And HE had the nerve to sue HER ?! the f*** outta here.
You know his girlfriend is reading these comments wanting to comment 🤣
she's most likely the ugly type with extreme low self esteem, a pathetic woman through and through. He'll cheat on her too.
Let her wait for karma
If he don’t do some soul searching and heal! 🥴🥴🥴And Mari if he text you, you 👏🏽betta👏🏽 not👏🏽text 👏🏽back!!
#FACTS U tell her sis!
He stole that experience from her. I hope she finds happiness and that her next is her last 🖤
This is the guy everyone needs to be warned about. If the new girlfriend thinks she’s special and it won’t happen to her.😂😂
I have the same thing happening to me right now that she's gone through. honestly, it has been the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. the pain every day knowing you've been traded in by the person you trusted to share your life with just devastates.
So happy she stronger now! That would break a lot of women. Good for her! I know her dad is so proud!
Now this is what you call a lady, I feel her pain, this dude doesn't deserve a diamond like her, hope she finds someone that would respect her and put her in the queen throne that she has to be.
She is hurting badly...you can literally see it in her eyes
My husband fell in love with a coworker last summer, thank god she didn't reciprocate the same feelings. That was one of the worst times in my life.
Are you serious? Your husband had feelings for another women and all you can do is be happy she didn't feel the same way?? He will just find someone else who does because he don't give a crap about YOU. Wake up lady!!!
Really hope you're NOT with him still girl 😐😒
I’m so sorry.
😯....... 😶... speechless
@@Childfree334 This ain't the movies. People can't up and leave their marriages like that.
Poor honey…that was painful to watch her go through that. He really is pyscho
The guy at the end is so childish and annoying how tf is she suing out of vengence when she spent money on a wedding that was ruined and a home like wtf
Because she is suing out of vengeance but not for what he done but because he sued her.
And also they both paid for the house
@@djburdine no she’s suing for the money she wasted when he was playing with there marriage and her time. Remember when Mariyah Carey sued her ex for wasting her time ? It’s just that regular people can’t afford the real legal team that is needed to win. But thanks for your opinion mines won’t change!
@@allen9584 shit using that logic i should sue all my ex's for wasting my time. It's just stupid. She didn't want the money or care about suing him but since he filed the law suit she figured she'll see if she can get something out of it
@@djburdine I NEVER ASKED FOR YOUR OPINION & I DONT WANT IT ! LEAVE ME ALONE
I waited for him to say "its just not right" ....well buddy. The Bible says "you reap what your sow"
I’m so sorry she went through that, but better it was right after then wasting years and having children with him. She’s intelligent, level headed and beautiful…she’s better without him.
The defendant is so pretty.
Lol judge knew she was a come up. She bought a house. He bought the lightbulbs. Now he smashing the judge?
You can see the pain in this young lady’s face
If I had a daughter and she told me I have to pay that much for her wedding id still be laughing in her face, no way Cinderella
😂
who said she told her family. That is usually what they want to pay. My father was Italian and he invited a lot of people I wouldn't have invited. It was a big lavish expensive wedding.
Once a cheater always a cheater, so let that woman have him he is not worth it.....
He’s despicable!
$380,000, I don't get where people get the money to make payments on a loan like that.
🕎Ecclesiasticus 26:23
“A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.”
She looks and sounds like someone who would be a great wife, big mistake that guy made.
That's what I'm saying. Why do dudes cheat on their hot, seemingly cool wives. She's hot
Sixty thousand dollars for a wedding!! The one who should be suing is her father
They're millionaires. 60k is chump change to them
He should have known better than to treat Joseph Tribbiani's sister like this!!! 🤣😂
Lol! 🤣
So the wife was basically the side chick the whole time (in his mind). He obviously cared about the other woman more to be seeing her before and after he got married, and is still seeing her. Him and his gf will get their karma without the ex wife having to lift a finger!
She seems like a beautiful soul.
Girl you had a lucky escape from this lowlife - karma awaits
"You are a louse." Proves that this is an entertainment court. In real life, the judge wouldn't put his/her personal opinion in this.
"$60,000 wedding".
Red. Flag.
Daaaaang. We all know he was in it for the money.