Our quarter life crisis (Eng) | Beropini eps. 34

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  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

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  • @GitaSavitriDevi
    @GitaSavitriDevi  5 лет назад +498

    Big thanks to Windi Nofita Rizky udah membuat subtitles bahasa Indonesia!

    • @nitalukman8280
      @nitalukman8280 5 лет назад +2

      Love you both! Thanks for making this content 😘

    • @Nissa753
      @Nissa753 5 лет назад +6

      Ka gita request motivasi love dong untuk bisa kaya ka gita dari awal ke german putus dengan mantan yg dulu dan ketemu ka paul sampai sekarang jadi pasangan yg aku inspirasi bgt :)

    • @spare-time3983
      @spare-time3983 5 лет назад +12

      Kak gita bikin podcast deh. I imagine it will be nice hear your voice on spotify 😙😊

    • @puspapl2007
      @puspapl2007 5 лет назад

      Ka kapan upload blog lagi?

    • @tiaras1657
      @tiaras1657 5 лет назад +2

      next beropini dlm bahasa jerman dong kak

  • @nurrahman4206
    @nurrahman4206 5 лет назад +2008

    My english when i hear something👨‍🎓
    My english when i write something👦
    My english when i speak something👶

  • @dinellairawatifajrin1077
    @dinellairawatifajrin1077 5 лет назад +1429

    Ka paul, Ka git, di beropini eps selanjutnya bahas "Toxic Relationship" doooong, please :( tapi jangan dari sudut pandang si korban aja, tapi sudut pandang si pelaku toxic relationship ini, kenapa dia bisa begitu dsb. Pengen tau tanggapan ka gita sama ka paul...

  • @TheMellysa100
    @TheMellysa100 5 лет назад +1100

    please do make more videos using english. it's really enjoyable to watch.

    • @itaadrisupriati8151
      @itaadrisupriati8151 5 лет назад

      Agreed

    • @alvarka8879
      @alvarka8879 5 лет назад

      I am agree with u

    • @fzr9359
      @fzr9359 5 лет назад +4

      @@alvarka8879 yes. Plis make more video like this. Selain share hal2 yg bermanfaat bisa juga membantu listening kami.

    • @rekanurulkusna6303
      @rekanurulkusna6303 5 лет назад

      Yes i agree with you

    • @Ctlyya
      @Ctlyya 5 лет назад

      Yes! I agree with you!

  • @intannoor7825
    @intannoor7825 5 лет назад +746

    aku 25 tahun belum menikah dan gapunya pacar (ceilaa), baru lulus tahun 2018 dan blm mendapat kerja sampe sekarang, bisnis yg aku rintis masih sangat jauh dri kata sukses, padahal ya cita citaku umur segini udah bisa biayain hidup orangtua.
    Cape? cape dong. Bosen? apalagi, hahah ya namanya hidup. aku berusaha menikmati lagi fase ini.
    kuncinya biar kuat ya cuma sabar dan ikhlas jgn lupa berdoa juga berusaha, semoga kalian yg sedang berada dalam fase ini bisa terus kuat sabar, ingat selalu ada alasan baik dibalik setiap peristiwa.
    💕

    • @skanvas27
      @skanvas27 5 лет назад

      Semangat selalu

    • @putriandiniameliani625
      @putriandiniameliani625 5 лет назад

      Semangat 😊

    • @TheHeartRhythm
      @TheHeartRhythm 5 лет назад +42

      Mungkin kondisiku lebih parah hhaha Aku 25 dan belum kelar kuliah malah hampir 3 tahun lari dari kampus cari pelarian jualan online dan setelah periksa ke psikiater ternyata social phobia, ketakutan berlebihan sampai gak melangkah, jangankan melangkah memulai saja gak berani.

    • @hafasafah4733
      @hafasafah4733 5 лет назад

      Semangaaat kakaknya:(

    • @bahtiarmaulardi3027
      @bahtiarmaulardi3027 5 лет назад +19

      Semangat!! Fighting!! Jalan hidup masing2 orang beda2, kadang kita merasa hidup ini kaya lomba lari 100m, yg kadang kita melihat temen kita kok kayaknya udah jauh didepan dan kita way behind. Tp sesungguhnya kita sedang lomba maraton yg diperlukan endurance/ketahan menjalani. InsyaAllah akan sukses pada waktunya. Semanagat!! Bismillah.

  • @icechoco8477
    @icechoco8477 5 лет назад +113

    "Most of the time, we are us. But, we don't know who we are."
    .
    .
    OMG COULDN'T AGREE MORE😭😭😭

  • @desydamayanti3916
    @desydamayanti3916 5 лет назад +93

    quarter life crisis is a serious problem..but take it too seriously will just make you more confuse about it..
    while you're searching what you wanna do, what is your purpose in life, it's better if you trying many things, come out from your comfort zone, meet new people, collect as many as experience you can..then slowly but sure, you will find what you are looking for..
    the point is..don't give up. be brave. keep challenging yourself. thank u for this video gita and paul.

  • @nindyaaann
    @nindyaaann 5 лет назад +277

    money sometime can bring comfort zone. but sometime comfort zone can't bring good people, life, oppurtunities.
    mantaapp !!

  • @dindaadytya9150
    @dindaadytya9150 5 лет назад +133

    "Good thing won't happen, good people would not come to you if you are still in your comfort zone," Gita said. Reaaallly love that quote!

  • @megarahmawati5449
    @megarahmawati5449 5 лет назад +394

    Eh btw gua lbih suka liatin kak gita sama kak paul yg ngomong english more than native speaker itself😂soalny kaka2 ini slowly ngomongnya dan emang bkn hard english😂😂😂thx kaka2😍😍😍😍gk perlu pke subtitle ini mah

    • @ardn
      @ardn 5 лет назад

      bener

    • @shofishabrina7765
      @shofishabrina7765 5 лет назад

      iyaa ku kira bakal butuh subtitle taunya ngga wkwk

    • @dyahayu9915
      @dyahayu9915 5 лет назад

      Bener!!! Jelas banget pronounciation nyaa

    • @fennadewi5990
      @fennadewi5990 4 года назад

      agree wkwk

    • @daffalathifilham5979
      @daffalathifilham5979 4 года назад

      Iya, tapi Mending kata gua kak Paul sama kak gita utamain pake bahasa Indonesia dulu aja, karena mestinya hal yang kayak begini lebih di kenalkan ke kalangan awam yang kebanyakan tidak menguasai bahasa Inggris

  • @anggipradhini4608
    @anggipradhini4608 5 лет назад +153

    Marriage is a choice
    Having a kid is a choice
    It's just a part of life and we can do it in our own pace!
    Thank God you guys said those thing!!! Suddenly I feel so relief I am NOT crazy for having the same though! :)

  • @riuriuriu2062
    @riuriuriu2062 5 лет назад +284

    I'm 25 yo and turning 26 soon. I'm experiencing the same thing as Paul. Previously, my contemplation was only about career and how to get bunch of money but now I am growing and becoming more mature. I wanna be better person in personality terms, I wanna love myself more, appreciate myself more, spread more positive vibes to myself, fulfill my surounding by positive vibes, and love the earth more. There is a lot of things outside my comfort zone, outside my cycle, outside my country, outside my society. I wanna learn more and gain more valuable or precious moments not only material things.

    • @andreassaputra5773
      @andreassaputra5773 4 года назад +1

      Love this one!!

    • @ekokuuuu
      @ekokuuuu 4 года назад +1

      I'm 23 going to 24 soon
      I like ur comment, it helps me alot to live this life while having same obstacles

    • @jessnokratosv279
      @jessnokratosv279 7 месяцев назад

      So you're 30 now i guess

  • @millalamilla
    @millalamilla 5 лет назад +66

    Umur saya 18 tahun. Baru lulus SMA tahun lalu. Teman-teman saya udh pada kuliah, sedangkan saya belum. Saya masih berjuang SBMPTN 2019. Seringkali saya iri ngeliat mereka. Saya juga takut banget gagal lagi tahun ini. Tapi saya selalu berusaha menyemangati diri sendiri dgn berpikir, "gaada kata 'telat kuliah'. Kuliah bisa kapan aja. Ga mesti lulus kuliah umur 22-23. Waktu gap year kamu juga ga sia2 kok. Kamu bisa kerja atau ngerintis usaha dan jadi relawan kegiatan2 sosial, bisa belajar hal lain juga selain belajar utk ujian masuk PTN." Alhamdulillah ortu saya juga ga pernah menekan saya harus jadi begini atau begituu. Thankyou sekali kak gita & kak paul atas videonya!💞

  • @tommyhutomo4763
    @tommyhutomo4763 5 лет назад +106

    "the pressure of age" that's fckn truuuuuuuuu!!!!!

    • @bahtiarmaulardi3027
      @bahtiarmaulardi3027 5 лет назад +3

      Yeshh!!! Ooohh gowd!! I hate it. Our society is pressuring our age!

  • @dindaadytya9150
    @dindaadytya9150 5 лет назад +70

    What I can conclude from their conversation is find your purpose in life. You don't have to work in the same line of your bachelor degree is, but you can combine it with something you really love!

  • @asyraqalabipradana2368
    @asyraqalabipradana2368 5 лет назад +610

    kapan2 buat video edisi bahasa jerman dong kak gita tapi ada subtitle indonesia biar sambil belajar

  • @alyaafidyah9693
    @alyaafidyah9693 2 года назад +4

    Dampak social media bagi yang mengalami quarter life crisis emang fatal banget ya, selain bisa menyebabkan insecure juga membuat mental kita bener2 down, dan ya perjalan hidup tidak bisa dibandingkan, pada dasarnya setiap orng memiliki tujuan hidup masing2 selagi masih ada waktu untuk melakukan experience do it and don't be afraid to fail :)

  • @allysanufus5524
    @allysanufus5524 5 лет назад +4

    Lagi di umur 19. Dan ngerasa bingung banget. Keraguan yang teramat besar, apa saya bisa mencapai mimpi2 saya? Rasanya kayak ga mungkin bisa tercapai. Perjuangan juga ga seberapa. Dan bener bgt hidup kaya kompetisi padahal ya ini hidup masing2 tapi serasa kompetisi. Kuncinya buat saya berarti harus keras berjuang. Makasih ya Ka Git dan Ka Paul udah bahas topik ini. 😊

  • @DewiApriliyani0321
    @DewiApriliyani0321 5 лет назад +168

    banyakin ya kak ngomong pake bahasa inggris giniii, aku mau belajar biar lancar tapiii gamau pake video yang lain. maunya belajar dr kak paul ama kak gita ajaaaaa... 😂❤❤❤

    • @rizaoktaviyani1479
      @rizaoktaviyani1479 5 лет назад +3

      Dewi Apriliyani ya ga bisa kek gt dong, belajar jangan cuma dr 1 sumber

    • @Ctlyya
      @Ctlyya 5 лет назад

      Samaaa!

    • @daffalathifilham5979
      @daffalathifilham5979 4 года назад

      Iya, tapi Mending kata gua kak Paul sama kak gita utamain pake bahasa Indonesia dulu aja, karena mestinya hal yang kayak begini lebih di kenalkan ke kalangan awam yang kebanyakan tidak menguasai bahasa Inggris

  • @yulianamansur5143
    @yulianamansur5143 5 лет назад +34

    I totally agree with you kak. All of my circles concerned about universitas negeri. Than me, tidak lulus snmptn, lalu ingin dijodohkan. Tapi saya memilih berpendidikan, merantau. Saya percaya bukan tentang Universitas nya tapi tentang pribadinya. Saya selalu bilang alhamdulillah, jika saya gak merantau, kuliah, hidup mandiri, mungkin pribadi saya masih seperti teman-teman, nongkrong, minta uang terus, hingga pergaulan bebas. So, this journey really amazingly amazed me. And you both are part of my journey

  • @dionprabu8591
    @dionprabu8591 5 лет назад +26

    Run, but are we catching anyone?
    Wait, but are we waiting anyone?
    You are really alone out there, not a race with anyone, nor ahead of anyone too
    We have our time and our life

  • @ropiahropz7479
    @ropiahropz7479 5 лет назад +1

    Aku pikir cuma aku satu-satunya. Karena keterbatasan finansial aku pikir aku gak akan bisa kuliah, tetapi kenyataan berkata lain. Dengan gamang di usia 22 tahun aku mendaftarkan diri di sebuah Universitas ( 3tahun setelah lulus SMK). Sekarang aku sudah di semester 6, gak nyangka bisa bertahan sejauh ini. Betul git, Allah tidak akan mengubah suatu kaum kalau kaum itu sendiri tidak mau berubah. Semoga aku juga bisa menjadi orang yg bermanfaat juga. Btw, I love this vlog so much.....

  • @izzatulislam7763
    @izzatulislam7763 5 лет назад +64

    Okay. If u know ka Gita. I'm not good in English. But, i'm so focus to hear this video with earphone and full volume. And yeah, i understand a little of this video and have to know whats the point is. It's the good video and good for study English listening too. Thank u so much :)

  • @walterng7752
    @walterng7752 5 лет назад +21

    Age isnt the matter for everyone in nowadays, each of us has different concern in life and no one can rule ur world. Thanks for such a great video kak gita and kak paul!

  • @AmalinaDini
    @AmalinaDini 5 лет назад +5

    Quarter life crisis hits me very hard, I quit my job, I rejected someone who proposed to me, I don't know what's happening and what to do with my life... Thank God I found this video, I thought I was the only one :(
    Terimakasih kak Gita dan kak Paul utk pencerahannya. Tetap Semangat teman2 semuanya yg sama2 sedang berproses.

  • @mauranabila9307
    @mauranabila9307 5 лет назад +26

    thanks kak gita & kak paul for bringing up this issue. aku 21 & aku merasa sdg ada di fase ini, yg mana aku bener2 figuring out what i wanna be & merasa insecure at the same time. glad to know your opinion bout it. keep inspiring kak, sehat2 selalu.

  • @helennarizki1018
    @helennarizki1018 5 лет назад +3

    I'm 22, people said 22 time to enjoy our life, but the reality I met my quarter life crisis 'maybe' earlier than my friends. I tried to do my freshgradute life just like others and spread out how happy I am finished my bachelor faster than others, finding a job so I can afford more, but my personal and family life get suck. So I quit and decided to left my comfort zone. I started my business, dreams, living my own life but after all I knew my comfort zone save me too much. I found bunch of things drag me down like a daily life, I lost my bestfriend, my master degree scholarship in Korea, few job opportunities, and more. But when realised now, seeing how brave I am right now to stand on my self, I found that this stressing out feeling even much better than my comfort zone. So let's fight for your way guys, you are on your way.

  • @takachan3066
    @takachan3066 5 лет назад +4

    Dear Paul n Gita.
    Thanks for helping me to be the better version of my self with your amazing thought n words. I really really really want to thank you guys, i really mean it.

  • @anatapanila
    @anatapanila 5 лет назад +8

    Gita you really sounded like a native. Tho, I kinda like Paul's accent. We're so excited if you make more videos in Eng. Allah blesses you!

  • @dirafirst
    @dirafirst 5 лет назад +2

    Video ini bagus buat yg pgn bljr b.Inggris. Dulu b.Inggrisku lemah dan aku suka nyari video ginian smpe akhirnya bs kuliah d luar negeri. Semangat ya subscribers GSD. 🤗😇😊

  • @ikmalfawaid
    @ikmalfawaid 5 лет назад +84

    My quarter life crisis is all about money kak. I need money for my study until the end..😬 #need #money #soinglish

    • @nadifahbani6591
      @nadifahbani6591 5 лет назад +5

      everyone needs money dude. and is not just you who struggle with those things.
      rather than feeling sorry for yourself, you better think of the solution. sorry for my bad English ;)

    • @forever1654
      @forever1654 3 года назад

      Same here,

  • @itnsly
    @itnsly 5 лет назад +2

    I like this video. When people talk about quarter life crisis, they're more focusing on how they feel it, how suffering they are, but you guys keep focusing about the positive side and how to solve that. I love it! ♥️

  • @arthenesyasyaronberlianart3985
    @arthenesyasyaronberlianart3985 5 лет назад +9

    I LOVE THIS KIND OF VIDEO SOO MUCH.
    Sekalian sambil belajar english juga, so I really like it. Mudah dipahami, pembahasannya berbobot, dan not used those hard words that could make me confused. Sering seringin pake bhs inggris ya kak Gita (tp jgn vocab yg susah wkwk, berasa test toefl ntar wkwk)

  • @ulfhayani1439
    @ulfhayani1439 3 года назад +1

    Kirain cuma aku yang pernah di fase itu, ternyata semua orang mengalaminya, setelah nonton vlog ini bikin open minded sih, jadi paham gimana menghadapi quarter life crisis😎

  • @alinpratami1063
    @alinpratami1063 5 лет назад +44

    I always like watching kak Gita and kak Paul having conversation like this, that’s why pagi-pagi is my favorite segment of this channel. It seems like you two complete each other and make it balance. Like when i get so pumped up with what Kak Gita says, then the words from kak Paul gives another perspective on it. It always feels like i am contemplating with myself along the video. Keep up the good job!

  • @moccachino396
    @moccachino396 5 лет назад +1

    Git semoga makin banyak generasi muda Indonesia yg berpikir seperti kamu. Mau request next video atau kapan deh kamu boleh bahas soal toxic people di sekitar kamu , gimana bisa stay positive di antara dan lingkungan toxic people, gimana bisa handle ur mind stay kind, gimana bisa ngerubah sahabat, keluarga org terdekat kita yg kita sayangi buat punya visi misi kayak kita. Btw visi misi org lain bis kita rubah gak sih?? Bisa lebih memikirkan hal2 yg esensial dlm hidup gak ikutin tuntutan org sekitar yg suka membandingkan, menjudge, penuh tuntutan, sy ngerasa banyakan teman sy selalu mau berkompetisi bukan saling support. I hope u read my comment .thanks!

  • @jnatanf
    @jnatanf 5 лет назад +23

    "Everyone needs to be something"
    I don't want to be shit that flow on the river. Im noticed that haha

  • @fadhilahrz
    @fadhilahrz 5 лет назад

    video ini mengajarkan ku betapa pentingnya memiliki pasangan hidup yg memiliki prinsip dan pandangan hidup yang sama:)

  • @rahmafahira1754
    @rahmafahira1754 5 лет назад +4

    Please make beropini section next time in english ka, its refreshing ! Tbh, every single of ur video worth the time to watch. Thanks for being good influencer. And thanks for being you ka. And my big condelence for ka paul’s dad. May he rest in peace. 💐

  • @ririnkhairatunnisa4369
    @ririnkhairatunnisa4369 5 лет назад

    seperti biasa, selalu suka dengan topik-topik ringan berkelas yang kalian bahas. Di topik ini gue lebih related sebenarnya, karena somehow gue merasa sedang berada dalam fase ini dengan segala permasalahannya. Kata-kata Gita, "how good you are at making sure that they understand" in my case, its about my mom, nampar banget Git. Rasanya sulit dan gue tadinya mau menyerah, tapi pas nonton ini gue merasa perlu berusaha dan melihat lagi kemampuan gue untuk negotiation to her. Thanks for making this video, can't wait what's next :)

  • @choco_cone31
    @choco_cone31 5 лет назад +15

    This conversation makes me feel proud of myself that i understand what their talk about and not dizzy anymore, Yeee..

  • @meldaerivhani
    @meldaerivhani 5 лет назад

    aku juga ka Paul, suka envy liat tmn" yg bukan FK seumuran aku uda pada punya gaji sendiri, uda kerja uda ksana ksini, tp musti ngubah pola pikir setiap org pny journey nya masing", smangats! 💪💪

  • @rizmachaerani3102
    @rizmachaerani3102 5 лет назад +12

    lived in Japan for approximately 6 months through an exchange program, and things that kak gita&paul have said is very relatable. for 17 years that I have lived, I didn't spend most of it to get to know myself. I got lucky, got this chance to go abroad and it shifted the way I see both myself and my life. it gives me purpose (or did I just find my purpose there?). If it wasn't for the exchange program, I think i would still be my same self who doesn't even know what I wanted to be. well, not that now I know exactly what I wanted to be, but I am getting there at least. I'm about to face the university life now, hoping that this new phase will help me shape my visions of what I want to become, hope it help to shape myself too. glad that you bring up this issue kakgit❣️

  • @Tyastcw
    @Tyastcw 3 года назад

    Setia nonton kak Gita berasa "gua nggak sendirian!" Huhuu thankyouu for be there gaess 🤍🤍 i'm 19th years old, And i feel that i'm in Quarter life qrisis. Work at company 8 to 5, 6/7 days, i take collage also on weekend. And i feel like my life is just on Saturday or Sunday. Hanya 4 hari dalam sebulan, dan tanggal merah jika beruntung. Wkwkwkw. But yea, hal hebat emang harus digapai dengan cara yang nggak biasa. Wish me luck! And find what's make me happier. Aamiinn. Please keep support each other. Sehat selalu Kak Gita, Kak Paull, 🤍🤍

  • @rizkiaaisyahamrantika5078
    @rizkiaaisyahamrantika5078 5 лет назад +7

    Ka paul semangat, I feel u. Its hard, but you're stronger

  • @harisfadillah7132
    @harisfadillah7132 5 лет назад +2

    Ini bagus, semakin ngebuka pola pikir kita kalo emang hidup itu gak mesti harus maksain tiap tuntutan yang enggak kita mau kita jalanin. Ditungguin lagi ya paul dan gita video berikutnya. Terimakasih 😊

  • @muningzaa7261
    @muningzaa7261 5 лет назад +16

    Viewers ke 18 yey
    Sering sering buat video full eng gini ya kak gita🙏

  • @armeliyakhalilah2139
    @armeliyakhalilah2139 5 лет назад

    Rutinitas yang menjadi sebuah tuntutan bikin stress dan itu aku rasain bgt saat ini diumur sgini(19) berada dalam lingkaran sosial yg menyedihkan mnurutku.. Smua org punya goal sama, masuk PTN ternama, skolah kedinasan atau daftar TNI POLRI sampe batas umurnya abis.. Smua berorientasi gaji mapan.. Ya itu lingkaran sosialku kmarin yg sedang aku tinggalkan si.. BIG THANKS buat kak gita dan ka paul telah menginspirasi aku jd dpt channel sbgai input positive. That's all I need.. FYI ini 1st time aku tau kalian 💗 barakallahu kak..

  • @muhamadsopian4131
    @muhamadsopian4131 5 лет назад +81

    OMG I NEED MORE MINTUES, EVEN HOURS I WOULD WATCH IT💛

  • @tantisuzri2514
    @tantisuzri2514 5 лет назад +1

    Aku bntar lg 25 tapi masih single, sudah kerja alhamdulillah 3 hari stlhn gajian sisa untuk makan hanya 300rbu alhamdulillah, krisis sekali krn papa pensiun, adek mau wisuda, adk pling kcil mau msuk SMA dan setelhnya pengen masuk AKMIL, boro2 mau pikirin diri sndr kak klw begini :') selalu ada jalan kan yah, wish me luck kak selalu ada cerita buat diri mendjadi dewasa dan ini adlh salah satu part nya 😂✊

  • @nenengsyifaafiffahazhar2836
    @nenengsyifaafiffahazhar2836 5 лет назад +16

    I see myself in gita's personality.
    Hahahalu

  • @alissanurahdia51
    @alissanurahdia51 3 года назад

    KAK GITA & KAK PAUL, kalian gak akan pernah tau betapa bersyukurnya aku ada kehadiran kalian di per-youtube-an ini!! 🥺 When i’m feeling lonely, sad, bored, even when i’m trying to sleep, playing random video from this channel HELPS me a lot. By watching your video(s), I feel understood, i feel like finally i found people who thinks alike like me, who inspires me, who gives me a new whole perspectives and knowledges and lots of other positive impacts!! I can’t thank you both enough 🥺 PLEASEEE keep making videos and keep being an amazing people like you guys are. May Allah bless you both always 💜💜💜💜💜

  • @Azharaja26
    @Azharaja26 5 лет назад +44

    Going through in my major, "actually I really enjoyed it" But sometimes I feel guilty, what I want to do next after college, whether say I want to do particular jobs in line with my major, Im just stuck in questioning, am I want to do that, is that the job that Im lookin for... hufdh

  • @shafaariella9635
    @shafaariella9635 5 лет назад

    everything that you guys told us about really hit me, like a lot. i mean, every single thing you were talking about are true, for me at least. i felt it, too. i felt a pressure of the life system, how the routines makes me want to run away from my life, how my life is so boring to live on, and another thousand things, that unfortunately, not really a positive topics to think about. i feel like i can't really expose my truly self, the thoughts which only happen on my mind and never comes out from it. sometimes, i do think that i want to know more. i want to experience more. i want to spend my life more interesting and exciting than this. but somehow, i do feel there's a barrier that i can't push it yet. maybe it's my surroundings, or maybe it's myself. the dream about stepping out from comfort zone always comes to mind, and hope i can do better and achieve it in a future forward.

  • @deanl3495
    @deanl3495 5 лет назад +56

    24 and i don't have boyfriend yet. My salary is under UMR wkwk, yaa I'm a honorary employee. Many people are putting presure on me. Whereas, my parents never questioned what it was.
    Well, I must be happy to facing this life. Fabiayyi ala irobbikuma tukadziban.
    I'm sorry if my english is so bad :)

    • @97Alfinsyah
      @97Alfinsyah 4 года назад +1

      As long as you have goals in ur life, it doesn't matter.

  • @reverieelsa
    @reverieelsa 5 лет назад +1

    Kalo dilihat dari video ini. Paul itu tipikal pendengar bgt ya. Pas ngomong kalem dan berhati2. Kalo gita on fire, tegas, lugas.

  • @gcyudha2728
    @gcyudha2728 5 лет назад +53

    talk about these things more, talk about life, life's purposes, talk about how you manage your time maybe, talk about what kind of books do you read, what movies did change to your lifes perspective, whats song that you play when you were working. etc etc love you both 💞❤💙💕💚💛💜💓💗💕

  • @faisalsyamsuri1639
    @faisalsyamsuri1639 5 лет назад

    I just want to say that this is quite mindblowing. Indonesian people, especially the youth need to watch more kind of this video. This is able to enlight the youth and change the mindset of the society, so they (we) can bring the nation towards the goodness of any aspect. 👍👍👍

  • @alikarchsr6276
    @alikarchsr6276 5 лет назад +4

    Sukakk banget video kak git ngomong bahasa inggris , itung itung belajar listening😍😂

  • @hudayantiputri5076
    @hudayantiputri5076 5 лет назад +1

    Biasanya emang dengar pagi pagi pas lg bawa kendaraan pake headset ,pas denger this Vidio in English, gua dengerin bener bener, ketika gue faham gua ngangguk ngangguk ,dan finally I understand the point of Vidio , really love

  • @muhammadalfero9481
    @muhammadalfero9481 5 лет назад +3

    really enjoyed the video, the conversation, and english makes everything more interesting 🙏

  • @indahrositadewi9409
    @indahrositadewi9409 5 лет назад

    When I spend my time to watch your videos (especially pagipagi and beropini) I feel if I dont waste my time, I think if I take my time in the right place. Now, I graduated from highschool and just study at home for utbk, sometimes I feel if I need to watch something, I hope if you can make more valuable video like that ever after.., you can make youtube more valuable for everyone, big thanks to you, especially for kak gitaa, you inspires me so muchhh, ~big hug from a person who are strugling to live in the world.

  • @novatutipurwanti1394
    @novatutipurwanti1394 5 лет назад +7

    Entah perasaanku atau gimana, Paul pake bahasa Inggris jadi lebih cerewet. Sering2 pake bahasa Inggris aja dong kalo gitu, kan seru hehehe

  • @ZheynaLKT
    @ZheynaLKT 5 лет назад +2

    Hey Gita!! I am really glad for that video : it’s coming at the right time for me.
    I am finishing my studies in few months and I decided that I am going to follow my passion even if it was a hard decision to make. I just want to me happy and do my best in this life God gave me.
    Wish you the best.
    Zheyna

  • @andiniab3966
    @andiniab3966 5 лет назад +3

    This video contains lotta life learning and motivation especially for me who at the age of soon to be twenty which is still dunno what to do with my life 😂also kak gita books really help me decrease my childish behaviour 😭 huge thanks to kak gita cause you're book, blogs and videos really save my bad character also help me to shape what kinda person i should be specifically in the way i behave to society, can say you're my hero 😊 also 생일축해 바울 오빠 wishing you both had an amazing year forward . Xoxo kak gita's number fan!❤

  • @fatimahwanda695
    @fatimahwanda695 5 лет назад +1

    exactly di indonesia tuh age is matter . karna udah kebiasaan abis sma tuh kuliah . dan aku sebagai anak gap year . tetangga, saudara , sampai ibu ku '' bilang kenapa sih gap year ? kan ketinggalan sama temen2nya;; . dan kata2 ini yang ngebuat anxiety di pikiran ku . tapi life is choice . be patience . and stay connected to god

  • @fery412diansah
    @fery412diansah 5 лет назад +36

    paul kayak lebih pede ya di video ini?

  • @eightita
    @eightita 5 лет назад +1

    I feel like you guys could talk deeper when it's in English. Good job! love this!

  • @bebyboo5185
    @bebyboo5185 5 лет назад +11

    Freakin' love this kind of video, please please please can you both do a lot more videos full eng
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    And Fighting 💪

  • @noviaaisyah5393
    @noviaaisyah5393 5 лет назад

    All the gita's and paul ideas about life are exactly like mine. I still have a bit of crisis. But personally when I know that Paul is 26 today, I get much power to get through this life. So proud of you two. This country needs more people like you two

  • @nurlaelacahyanigumilang7546
    @nurlaelacahyanigumilang7546 5 лет назад +8

    I love this video sooo much, great job ka git👌. Also I love that moment when ka paul sang "happy birthday to me" it such a funny moment Lol.😂

  • @aqilafatimah8187
    @aqilafatimah8187 5 лет назад +1

    Well, I’m 19 and probably I already step into the quarter life crisis. Most of the time I’ve always eaten by my own thought what I wanna do, what is the purposes of my life, what I wanna be. There are so many of them. Once I thought about it I feel like drowned and sad. But yeah, like Kak Paul said every one have different path please be patient and try more.
    And why I feel so sad whenever I think about my life, is because I always comparing my life with others without getting my life better.
    So thank you Kak Git dan Kak Paul, I’m struggling but I know my struggle wouldn’t come in waste!!!

  • @anditadhamar5440
    @anditadhamar5440 5 лет назад +14

    Isn't weird when you at the age of 18 but you already feel quarter life crisis

    • @aprilapril2833
      @aprilapril2833 5 лет назад

      Nope, i feel that though

    • @vickyxlr9935
      @vickyxlr9935 4 года назад

      I'm 16, and guess what. I already feel it...

  • @dinnazahrs5930
    @dinnazahrs5930 5 лет назад

    "Good thing won't happen, good people would not come to you if you are still in your comfort zone," kak Gita said. ini bener banget di berasa waktu gue harus kuliah dan kerja full time. Pagi sampe jam 6 sore kerja, jam setengah 7 malem masuk kelas. Work harder just for buying some stuff that all i needed. dikala teman lain kuliahnya karna arahan dan biaya ortu dan itu struggle banget sih parah tapi gue udah bisa mencapai titik graduate tahun 2018 kemarin so happy and priceless experience :’)
    itu Keren kak video nya bikin terus yang begini yaa. btw mau Request kalo boleh ceritain tentang gimana caranya kak gita dan kak paul belajar bahasa inggris sampe bisa komunikasi sama orang lain kaya sekarang? apa aja yang harus kalian lakuin supaya lancar berbahasa inggrisnya dan pede. makasih :)

  • @nurhidayati4194
    @nurhidayati4194 5 лет назад +5

    Mein Freund er ist ein Azubi in Deutschland. Und er wohnt in Linstow neben Rostock, Ost Berlin. Ich lerne Deutsch auch 😊

  • @ummuniswah493
    @ummuniswah493 5 лет назад

    Thanks a lot Gita & Paul for making this video. Berasa 'ditampar' dg pembahasan kali ini. Semacam jeritan hati about being a part of 'quarter life'.
    Selama ini masih nontonin doang gak pernah berani komen, tapi karena topik kali ini ngena banget jadi gemes rasanya harus komen.
    Besides konten yg selalu keren, nonton kalian beropini itu berasa punya teman ngobrol yang "oh iya ini yg aku maksud, ini yg aku pikirin", jadi motivasi dan dorongan besar buat aku personally.
    Maturnuwun inkang katah, semoga kalian selalu diberkahi Allah, dan teruslah membuat konten-konten yang menginspirasi dan menghibur.

  • @Eirururu
    @Eirururu 5 лет назад +7

    I more like both of you speaking english. Btw paul say if he's poor if you poor you dont take doctor major cause it's too expansive lol when i was in high school my goals is wanna being a doctor cause i wanna help people when them sick sometime them haven't money go to doctor or buy medicine cause of financial. Before my mom passed away,when me and my mom go to doctor them bit ignored us cause we're dont have bpjs. We had to arrange a letter before entering the hospital even though my mother was almost dying. It made me mad so much how can they do it and they took care of my mother a little badly. When my mom passed away,my ambition changed not being doctor anymore, now i feels like i dont have home again,and i feel like broken home it's make me sad so deep. Sometimes i feel depression cause my mom passed away and my family have huge secret if my dad who's taking care of me is stepfather. Im always depressed till now cause im poor and my real dad not responsible with me. I really hope if my dad will finance me go to collage but he's said it's better to open business. I agreed with his opinion but i never learn about business. I wanna go to college and work part time but getting job isn't easy. Now my goals and my ambiton changed i just hope i can feel fine. Just it

    • @lutfiarakhmawati9554
      @lutfiarakhmawati9554 5 лет назад +2

      you re not alone, God has the best plan, and i hope you will find your goals really soon, Cheer up^^~

    • @Eirururu
      @Eirururu 5 лет назад

      @@lutfiarakhmawati9554 thanks for your support it make me tearing. I hope you'll find your goals too and keep cheer up

  • @mukhtaryaser6009
    @mukhtaryaser6009 5 лет назад

    Watching this and understand every single word that comes out of your mouths makes me feel like a genius. OMG I understand English, i'm not that stupid! Thank GOD.

  • @rizkiagustian9096
    @rizkiagustian9096 5 лет назад +3

    Anjay keren gitu, bikin grup whatsapp khusus bahasa inggris yuk. Keren kayanya

  • @deanisaraach
    @deanisaraach 5 лет назад

    Ka git bikin lagi video in english spt ini... Ini bener2 membantu aku. Aku lebih enak belajar lldengan liat video ngobrol in english daripada harus ngafalin grammar .ribed. enakan gini tau.. .
    Big thanks to ka git and ka paul 😊😊sukaa bgtttttt

  • @watashifaw
    @watashifaw 5 лет назад +4

    After i watch this video, BIG QUESTION just pop into my mind.
    Should i just follow the system, like 'a shit in the river' or break the system and live your life?
    The thing is, i can't predict the future, i dont know what the best for me. And the only choice to figure it out is just choose one path above and try it, but it scares me u know..
    Kak Git please notice meeee and heeellpp

  • @mirewey
    @mirewey 5 лет назад

    "THEY JUST WANT US TO HAVE THE BEST THING IN LIFE, BUT THEY DONT KNOW ANY BETTER" i feel touched.

  • @natashapamudita2933
    @natashapamudita2933 5 лет назад +6

    Kak git bisa cek email nya bentar nggak ?

  • @nurulafiyah3300
    @nurulafiyah3300 5 лет назад

    terusin kaaakkkk gue suka konten orang ngobrol ada isinya tapi sekalian belajar b ing juga. 💜

  • @lf9511
    @lf9511 5 лет назад +45

    Ini bakal ada subtitlenya ngga ya? 😂😂😂
    *i'm not one of these people who ask gita and paul to speak in english :'v

    • @Jiyuzift
      @Jiyuzift 5 лет назад +2

      Upp

    • @lisa-hv7vb
      @lisa-hv7vb 5 лет назад +3

      *those

    • @lf9511
      @lf9511 5 лет назад

      @@lisa-hv7vb oh iya makasih 😂

  • @mtld.8859
    @mtld.8859 4 года назад

    Baru aja ngomongin comfort zone 5 menit lalu dan nonton ini... nangis. Makasih mba git 🧡

  • @bellaa7914
    @bellaa7914 5 лет назад +9

    Episode ter "ngebingungin"

  • @adindaadly
    @adindaadly 5 лет назад

    Selamat ulang tahun Paul semoga semakin kuat diperantauan, bertambah berkah usianya. Semangat!! 👏

  • @ridhaaprilyanti9288
    @ridhaaprilyanti9288 5 лет назад +11

    I prefer, you speaking full English than mix with bahasa, i more understand what you mean:)

  • @ameliarahmawati5725
    @ameliarahmawati5725 5 лет назад

    Thankyou, Kak Gita and Kak Paul! This is what I need. Gue 21 tahun dan beberapa minggu ini still trying to figure it out my paths and porpose in life. Video ini ngebantu gue banget ngelurusin benang-benang kusut di kepala gue. Thankyou!🌈

  • @zakariakamal3382
    @zakariakamal3382 5 лет назад +5

    please,i want both of you talk about avangers : end game.
    i think that's gonna be very interesting👌

  • @fitriadian7718
    @fitriadian7718 5 лет назад

    It's always good to watch all your videos that can inspire people to pursuing their dream, think deeply about theirself, and in the end can actually do something more for their life. You guys really open minded person and I loved to know more about what do you think or your perspective about something. Thanks for all your thoughts that can make me think about myself and my life deeply. Please make a podcast in spotify to share more your thoughts and life experiences ka gita and ka paul :)
    May Allah blessed u every single day in your life.

  • @nuningretno822
    @nuningretno822 5 лет назад +12

    Ka git, mending bilingual aja deh daripada full eng :( belajar eng pelan2, kalo langsung full bingung jadinya

  • @sabilar4320
    @sabilar4320 4 года назад

    i cried watching this vid. Gita knows what your purpose in your life. you want to be a matter person. i do want to, but i dont have any privilige to be a matter person, and i dont know what is the parameter of being a matter person. i think i am doing good in my school, etc. but i dont think all of that would make me a matter person. and now i'm stuck in this circle.

  • @safirapn
    @safirapn 5 лет назад

    Renyah banget! Berasa nonton film luar tanpa subtitle. Sehat terus kalian ❤

  • @noviliakharisma7170
    @noviliakharisma7170 5 лет назад

    Video kali ini relevan bgt sih buatku skrg ini. Aku kerja di biro pengembangan diri, yg org lbh kenal sbg biro training. Gaji base on project. Jadi, kalau gak ada project ya, no money. Kalau ditanya seneng kerja di situ? Happy kok. Tapi butuh uang gak? Ya pasti butuhlah. Aku merasa kerja di perusahaan gak begitu menyenangkan tapi aku butuh pekerjaan yg bisa ngasih stabilitas finansial. Buat aku krisis hidup kyk gini pasti sering dialami byk org. Aku sendiri msh bingung cara menangani masalah ini. Huft~

  • @noumiedu9358
    @noumiedu9358 5 лет назад

    Kebetulan lagi nugas dan pengen sambil dengerin sesuatu di yt,lagi bimbang mau denger video in english krn lagi ngelatih listening,tapi juga pengen denger video kak gita,eh gataunya ada video yg ini dong,dapet 22nya.Alhamdulillah .tx kak git i really enjoyed this video

  • @rizkiaaisyahamrantika5078
    @rizkiaaisyahamrantika5078 5 лет назад

    Selamat ulang tahun juga ka paul. Mungkin ini ulang tahun yg sangat berbeda. Terus jadi panutan buat adik2, semangat! :)

  • @balqissyaifia6869
    @balqissyaifia6869 5 лет назад +1

    It's so cute when you both talk about Paul's birthday and just sing it along😂💕

  • @salwaambar3990
    @salwaambar3990 5 лет назад

    Ini enak bgt di denger kak, bnrn deh, gak belibet dengernya.. enjoooy.. kakak kakak kita semua sedang bercerita dan adek-adek ini menyimak..