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30:51 “I was to afraid to because I wanted a relationship so bad.” I know exactly how you feel, Tony. It’s okay. I’m pretty sure most of us have been through this for sure. I relate.
My father was a narcissist then I ended up marrying a narcissist. I wish I knew then what I know now. I always believed I was the problem because I was in a default setting from my childhood. Bravo for you getting out! I admire your strength!
What I love about you is you are candidly honest. The shit things that have happened to you, you pick yourself up and never give up. Your poopsies are here with you always, Tony. ♥️♥️♥️
Happy I watched this. I’ve been talking to a guy for almost a month and I felt like I was always doing the talking and was so angelic to keep them. If they’re really interested in you they would be all over you as much as you all over them and stay away from each other. I need this Tony❤
I wish I had you in my personal life I have been with you since the beginning and your energy is one that can attract any human I bet your friends and family cherish you thanks for being here for us BTW we love long story times ❤
You have such a big heart. Narcissists are empty voids... they *always* target people who radiate light. Sucking it out of another is the only way they can feel something...
I keep coming back to watch this everyday since you put it out. I’m trying to get through it without going to sleep 😩😩 its so entertaining and so relaxing at the same time. I have only made it through and hour 😂 and i try to remember where i left off he night before so i can start there and continue trying to catch up lmao. Love it 💜
You could be telling my story. I left my narc husband last year, after 14 years of hell and him bleeding me dry. I'm so much happier being alone. I can't believe I even made it that long. I left with almost nothing after supporting him for the past 10 years and now I'm trying to rebuild my life. But I'm working on getting ME back. But it was worth losing so much, in order to gain my freedom back. 🙂
So been there tony! Every bit of what you bring up in this talk rings so true. I was married to a narc for 8 years. Even though it's been 5 years since leaving, I still battle with heavy grief over the continuous choice I made to abandon myself in that relationship. I am so proud of you for walking away... NO longer giving away your peace. I've learned how sacred my peace is to me, through this process... The truth about narcissists is you cannot keep what is sacred to you when youre with them
We don't know each other but I'm horrified that I was with my ex for the same amount of time since late teens. Its been 4 years and I still feel bad that I left him. I did some awful things (reactive abuse) and most likely he spread rumours based on some truth that I am the worst thing in the universe in my old hometown. And everyone as a result believed him. Yet why do I suffer even though I found the love of my life? His mannerisms are similar to my ex minus the abuse. Sometimes it genuinely terrifies me. Yet my bf is nothing but nice. The ex still haunts me in my dreams and childhood. If you want can we connect?
Aw Toni I wanted to give you a hug through certain parts of this I could feel your hurt and pain and started crying myself I’ve been in a very similar situation sending lots of love ❤️
Tony, this person is draining me, you could hand him happiness on a plate, he'd find a problem with the plate, you should Clap your hands, Thank God he is no longer in your life, Rejoice buddy...
I’ve listened to this before, but it always gets to me…😔😢 sometimes god puts us through something to make us draw closer to him, I’m glad you got out of that situation Tony.
Are you using a different microphone? Your whisper in this video is so clear and crisp. I am really enjoying it. Definitely going into my “Bomboni favorites” playlist 😊❤
Side advice? When you aren't yourself in a relationship for the first 3 months.. this is the person the other guy thinks they're getting. And then when you go and "change" back to your real self 3 months later, it's utter confusion for the other person. You should ALWAYS be yourself when you meet someone! Then, if it doesn't work out in the first 3 months.. then there's no time wasted. And you'd know right off the bat if they like you and not just your "first 3 month" representative that you sent in. Get me?
I’ve only had trashy school relationships. 2 very nasty boyfriends. Haven’t had the guts or felt the need to date since then. I cry for you and with you :(
I was seeing a guy for three years and he didn’t like kissing or hugs either and I am beyond sorry that you didn’t get that comfort because I know I felt that coldness from someone like that. Someone who isn’t willing to put in a little effort to make someone happy
My long term ex who was a cerebral narc was a libra. He convinced me I was evil. Gemini with Leo ascendant. He put my fire out with his water placements. I thought I was hallucinating until you confirmed my suspicions!!!
I’m so sorry you had to go through the Libra man treatment for your first real relationship 😥 My first was also a Libra guy (I’m an Aries woman), and that relationship was brutal. It was so much like how you described too: he always had great hair and styled himself nicely… but he was so uptight and proper, couldn’t even mention bathroom stuff, and wanted to socialize every single day/night. I wanted a deeper connection with him, but it turned out he couldn’t actually provide that. Took awhile to get over him, but omg once you find someone who’s really a good match for you, you’ll be so glad you escaped that Libra guy nonsense. It’s like they trap you in some weird spell where you can’t recognize that they’re a crappy boyfriend overall
Dude I swear that’s how relationships with narcissists/people with BPD, etc always go. It starts out super exciting and fun and intense and then it gets really bad really fast and before you know it you’re miserable and they’re aloof the entire time.
Sorry to hear what you went through. Always trust your gut instinct. Life is full of lessons. I've been through it all. When doors close another one opens. I'm glad you realize your worth. Your a big hearted wonderful person. God makes you repeat the same mistakes until you learn from them. Sending you a big hug. Love you Tony
Tony I honestly you're hilarious sometimes dude I did just a bunch of little rocks you make me laugh you actually help me destress so I've just been really watching your videos a lot at night
You have a noble heart, Tony-do not allow anything or anyone pull you hither and yon. Your time will come-just around the corner. Follow your head and never lose your dignity. I speak to you as a mother.🙋♀️❤️
Ahhh Tony 😩 I fell asleep listening to this video and I had this long dream in which I was hanging out on a rooftop at dusk in this urban/futuristic city scenario with a very pretty blonde lady and she was the one telling me all those things you went through. Like as if she needed somebody to talk to and I was just there for her listening. But it was you talking, your voice from your video, and I was hanging out with you, just different people in a different era/different planet. It's most likely cause I prior also watched your recent video about seeing your future self in 2050, it was so beautiful though, It felt like I was in the presence of someone I actually knew 🥺
i got told “i can break up with you but you’ll never break up with me” and “if you ever break up with me or cheat and piss me off i’ll slash your car tires, etc”. he ended being the one that cheated on me and i didn’t want to let him go but i knew he was just hurting me.
Omg Tony thank goodness you got rid of that clown!!! I’m drained just hearing about this person. Thank you for sharing your lessons learned, and being so honest. you are a beautiful soul!!!
I have soooo many things I’d like to tell you but I wouldn’t want to do it on a public forum like RUclips… what I will say is, I also jump and scream when someone even comes into my peripheral vision. My husband knows to start saying my name softly from ten feet away if he’s coming around a corner. If he doesn’t, I scream bloody murder and my heart beats really hard for several minutes. What I want to tell you is, this is a classic symptom of PTSD. A childhood trauma, and subsequent traumas in my adulthood have made me very jumpy and easily frightened. Perhaps you have some suppressed trauma of which you are unaware?
@@ASMRer it is seriously debilitating, isn’t it? I’m always afraid I’m going to scream when a waiter comes to our table and give them a heart attack or throw our food up in the air 🤣
@@ArtsyPhartsy123You could always warn the waiter beforehand that you prefer for him/her to announce themselves before coming too close, if it makes you feel comfortable! My older sister is a waitress and she’s done that before! ❤
Ok. I call my most recent ex "Voldemort" as well!😂😂😂😂He was a narcissistic and let me say I really dodged a bullet with that guy. Luckily, the relationship did last only few months because I smelled a rat in time ( he even spoke about things like start a family and so on...🥶). I'm glad that you are over it, I've been following you for a long time and I’ve always though that you are a lovely person! ☺💜
I’d been meaning to watch this video for quite a while. Especially after I watched your most recent Storytime video a day or two ago. I have a question for you, as regards the disclaimer you have about this video. Even though you say this video is not factual, is it based on things that happened to you in real life? Hope I’m not being too forward here. It’s just that I’ve been researching narcissism online and that I think I’ve run into one on another YT channel, after I feel I’ve been ghosted by him. Any thoughts welcome.
Omg I’m glad you didn’t marry that person! You would have eventually had to do a 50 part “who tf did I marry” video series like that one RessaTessa lady 🫨
Dayuuuuumn. Lowkey was wondering why yous broke up. Yall actually looked happy. But to be fair I only did see yall together in a video. But Im glad you seem to be ok.
What is that mental thing you mentioned, out of curiosity? Genuinely I almost never get scared and I've always wondered why, I'd be very interested to know
I'm a Gemini & I LOVE Libras. Lol, all my significant relationships have been Libras & Leos. But they are definitely not for everyone 😆 ok back to the tea.
Hello there sweet sassy professor tingles, nice toxic boyfriend roleplay so creative and sassy at the same time. Xoxo 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 🦋
Do you enjoy long storytimes? This one was my longest ever! Disclaimer: this is just a storytime ASMR video for relaxation. None of this information is factual and is the equivalent of a made up story for sleep.
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30:51 “I was to afraid to because I wanted a relationship so bad.” I know exactly how you feel, Tony. It’s okay. I’m pretty sure most of us have been through this for sure. I relate.
My father was a narcissist then I ended up marrying a narcissist. I wish I knew then what I know now. I always believed I was the problem because I was in a default setting from my childhood. Bravo for you getting out! I admire your strength!
What I love about you is you are candidly honest. The shit things that have happened to you, you pick yourself up and never give up. Your poopsies are here with you always, Tony. ♥️♥️♥️
Your storytimes are the best!!! I’m only 10 minutes into this and I’m INVESTED
LMFAO you are hilarious!! "ive had much better from much smaller" WHEEZINGGGGGG
Very relatable. Toxic people are all the same I swear. It’s crazy how they share literally like ALL the same patterns and qualities….
Happy I watched this. I’ve been talking to a guy for almost a month and I felt like I was always doing the talking and was so angelic to keep them. If they’re really interested in you they would be all over you as much as you all over them and stay away from each other. I need this Tony❤
I wish I had you in my personal life I have been with you since the beginning and your energy is one that can attract any human I bet your friends and family cherish you thanks for being here for us BTW we love long story times ❤
God bless ya
@@ASMRer ❤
You have such a big heart. Narcissists are empty voids... they *always* target people who radiate light. Sucking it out of another is the only way they can feel something...
I keep coming back to watch this everyday since you put it out. I’m trying to get through it without going to sleep 😩😩 its so entertaining and so relaxing at the same time. I have only made it through and hour 😂 and i try to remember where i left off he night before so i can start there and continue trying to catch up lmao. Love it 💜
I did the same! Ive just ran myself a bath and stayed in it for an hour listening to the rest. I feel so relaxed haha
You could be telling my story. I left my narc husband last year, after 14 years of hell and him bleeding me dry. I'm so much happier being alone. I can't believe I even made it that long. I left with almost nothing after supporting him for the past 10 years and now I'm trying to rebuild my life. But I'm working on getting ME back. But it was worth losing so much, in order to gain my freedom back. 🙂
Felt
I had similar experience. I wish you well
So been there tony! Every bit of what you bring up in this talk rings so true. I was married to a narc for 8 years. Even though it's been 5 years since leaving, I still battle with heavy grief over the continuous choice I made to abandon myself in that relationship. I am so proud of you for walking away... NO longer giving away your peace. I've learned how sacred my peace is to me, through this process... The truth about narcissists is you cannot keep what is sacred to you when youre with them
We don't know each other but I'm horrified that I was with my ex for the same amount of time since late teens. Its been 4 years and I still feel bad that I left him. I did some awful things (reactive abuse) and most likely he spread rumours based on some truth that I am the worst thing in the universe in my old hometown. And everyone as a result believed him.
Yet why do I suffer even though I found the love of my life? His mannerisms are similar to my ex minus the abuse. Sometimes it genuinely terrifies me. Yet my bf is nothing but nice. The ex still haunts me in my dreams and childhood.
If you want can we connect?
You are just so awesome and funny.! I love how honest you are. Enjoy being happy and at peace. X
Aw Toni I wanted to give you a hug through certain parts of this I could feel your hurt and pain and started crying myself I’ve been in a very similar situation sending lots of love ❤️
Your whisper is the best
Thanks for opening up to us about this
Glad you’re out of this situation ❤
8lbs in 6 months is a miraculously low amount of weight gain for all that good food damn
It's good that you got rid of a toxic person. Think that maybe there is a good person out there for you.
Tony, this person is draining me, you could hand him happiness on a plate, he'd find a problem with the plate, you should Clap your hands, Thank God he is no longer in your life, Rejoice buddy...
I am grateful. He was just a lesson.
I love the way you tell a story. I could hang with you and have snacks and just kiss little dogs and read tarot for each other and giggle 😃
I’ve listened to this before, but it always gets to me…😔😢 sometimes god puts us through something to make us draw closer to him, I’m glad you got out of that situation Tony.
11:22pm I enjoy your videos. Your voice is soothing. Thank you for your stories.
Are you using a different microphone? Your whisper in this video is so clear and crisp. I am really enjoying it. Definitely going into my “Bomboni favorites” playlist 😊❤
Side advice?
When you aren't yourself in a relationship for the first 3 months.. this is the person the other guy thinks they're getting. And then when you go and "change" back to your real self 3 months later, it's utter confusion for the other person.
You should ALWAYS be yourself when you meet someone! Then, if it doesn't work out in the first 3 months.. then there's no time wasted. And you'd know right off the bat if they like you and not just your "first 3 month" representative that you sent in.
Get me?
I’ve only had trashy school relationships. 2 very nasty boyfriends. Haven’t had the guts or felt the need to date since then.
I cry for you and with you :(
I was seeing a guy for three years and he didn’t like kissing or hugs either and I am beyond sorry that you didn’t get that comfort because I know I felt that coldness from someone like that. Someone who isn’t willing to put in a little effort to make someone happy
Sometimes you gotta roll thru McDonalds.
Libra recovery is hell. Half of the people I have beef with are libras and the other half are my best friends. It’s either amazing or hell
My long term ex who was a cerebral narc was a libra. He convinced me I was evil. Gemini with Leo ascendant. He put my fire out with his water placements. I thought I was hallucinating until you confirmed my suspicions!!!
so true
I’m so sorry you had to go through the Libra man treatment for your first real relationship 😥 My first was also a Libra guy (I’m an Aries woman), and that relationship was brutal. It was so much like how you described too: he always had great hair and styled himself nicely… but he was so uptight and proper, couldn’t even mention bathroom stuff, and wanted to socialize every single day/night. I wanted a deeper connection with him, but it turned out he couldn’t actually provide that. Took awhile to get over him, but omg once you find someone who’s really a good match for you, you’ll be so glad you escaped that Libra guy nonsense. It’s like they trap you in some weird spell where you can’t recognize that they’re a crappy boyfriend overall
They’re just so afraid of that deep connection. It makes them uncomfortable for some reason. 🤷♂️
I think you had a narcisist partner. Look about that and probable everything will have sense to you
Some people are truly afraid of connection. Heal, mend your heart ❤️
Sending you love from California.
Dude I swear that’s how relationships with narcissists/people with BPD, etc always go. It starts out super exciting and fun and intense and then it gets really bad really fast and before you know it you’re miserable and they’re aloof the entire time.
I’m falling asleep Tony!! Help, I’ve got to hear the tea❤ 😂
Sorry to hear what you went through. Always trust your gut instinct. Life is full of lessons. I've been through it all. When doors close another one opens. I'm glad you realize your worth. Your a big hearted wonderful person. God makes you repeat the same mistakes until you learn from them. Sending you a big hug. Love you Tony
good for you! i hope you are well 🫶🏾🫶🏾
You were spilling the tea and Voldemort was toxic af so glad you freed yourself!
I relate so much!!! The part about being petty about the deed is so funny to me because why are toxic people always bad at that😂
Tony I honestly you're hilarious sometimes dude I did just a bunch of little rocks you make me laugh you actually help me destress so I've just been really watching your videos a lot at night
Libra men are the worst, glad you made it out Toni 🙏🏼
You have a noble heart, Tony-do not allow anything or anyone pull you hither and yon. Your time will come-just around the corner. Follow your head and never lose your dignity. I speak to you as a mother.🙋♀️❤️
Honestly man, pls make more vids like this. I love these real videos and it helps teach us lessons
You are so interesting guy, i didnt smile and laugh so much days in a row , its like im there with you, cant even express right how good this is...
8:51 Bruhh 😂😂 didn't know that this is toxic wth I would expect everyone to have the same reaction like this dude
yay new video, sending love from Australia!
Thankssss
This is perfect I was just needing to relax ❤❤😂
:3 :) relax to Tony’s horrible experiences lol
hope you can heal tony, this sounds so draining.
This literally feels like I’m on FaceTime with a friend ❤ love you
So good to see you, Tony--I love you💁♀️😘
I love you already! Just subscribed. Keep your head up love! You'll find Mr. Right one day🥰
Ahhh Tony 😩 I fell asleep listening to this video and I had this long dream in which I was hanging out on a rooftop at dusk in this urban/futuristic city scenario with a very pretty blonde lady and she was the one telling me all those things you went through. Like as if she needed somebody to talk to and I was just there for her listening. But it was you talking, your voice from your video, and I was hanging out with you, just different people in a different era/different planet. It's most likely cause I prior also watched your recent video about seeing your future self in 2050, it was so beautiful though, It felt like I was in the presence of someone I actually knew 🥺
Hooooly! I realized it was 2 hours long after i was already watching it for 10 minutes. This gonna be good
This point " now I understand why I was so bored around him...SOULLESS" !!! OMG, thanks for this
the very first impression about the person, the very first feeling is real, always be aware of that. Your instinct will never fool you.
this is soooo good do moreeee!!
i got told “i can break up with you but you’ll never break up with me” and “if you ever break up with me or cheat and piss me off i’ll slash your car tires, etc”. he ended being the one that cheated on me and i didn’t want to let him go but i knew he was just hurting me.
Tea before bed 😮 love it.
Yasssss lolol you know it got be spilt
Just on time , I’m ready for the tea 🍵
Excuse me, I am a Libra and I definitely do not suck 🤣 But yeah, you gotta trust your gut.
same! Libra here. I gotta admit, we got A LOT of sh*tty mofos with our sign, you either get a narcissist or an empath.
@@uwotm8255 Tbh I didn't know we had such a bad rep 🤣 Two of my best friends are actually Libra and Virgo, at least we get a long 😁
Long story times are the best!!
Sending lots of love and light, Tony. Good on you for speaking your truth.🥺💗💜💙
And there were ducks 🦆 and stuff....
I cried with laughter. 😂
Love your story times. You’re a legend. ☀️
You are the most beautiful person
A Libra almost ended my life when we were in HS.. still have nightmares about him 🥴
I'm sorry 😞 I do too. Knew one in high school and all my twenties. Broke me into having an Ed and ptsd worsening.
Omg Tony thank goodness you got rid of that clown!!! I’m drained just hearing about this person. Thank you for sharing your lessons learned, and being so honest. you are a beautiful soul!!!
I wondered what it was fr, I vibe with that Virgo energy you got HELLA❤😂
babes this is iconic holy moly
Your mannerisms remind me of Robin Williams sometimes when you talk ❤
There are literally scientific studies that sadists and psychopaths are interested in setting things on fire (especially early in life)
Lord Voldemort
No he didn't.
Yes
He did.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just now starting the video.
Had to type that.😁
I have soooo many things I’d like to tell you but I wouldn’t want to do it on a public forum like RUclips… what I will say is, I also jump and scream when someone even comes into my peripheral vision. My husband knows to start saying my name softly from ten feet away if he’s coming around a corner.
If he doesn’t, I scream bloody murder and my heart beats really hard for several minutes.
What I want to tell you is, this is a classic symptom of PTSD. A childhood trauma, and subsequent traumas in my adulthood have made me very jumpy and easily frightened. Perhaps you have some suppressed trauma of which you are unaware?
I do wanna look into this caz I also freak out if someone comes near me without warning me first
@@ASMRer it is seriously debilitating, isn’t it? I’m always afraid I’m going to scream when a waiter comes to our table and give them a heart attack or throw our food up in the air 🤣
@@ArtsyPhartsy123You could always warn the waiter beforehand that you prefer for him/her to announce themselves before coming too close, if it makes you feel comfortable! My older sister is a waitress and she’s done that before! ❤
Energy vampire for sure
Ok. I call my most recent ex "Voldemort" as well!😂😂😂😂He was a narcissistic and let me say I really dodged a bullet with that guy. Luckily, the relationship did last only few months because I smelled a rat in time ( he even spoke about things like start a family and so on...🥶). I'm glad that you are over it, I've been following you for a long time and I’ve always though that you are a lovely person! ☺💜
I’d been meaning to watch this video for quite a while. Especially after I watched your most recent Storytime video a day or two ago. I have a question for you, as regards the disclaimer you have about this video. Even though you say this video is not factual, is it based on things that happened to you in real life? Hope I’m not being too forward here. It’s just that I’ve been researching narcissism online and that I think I’ve run into one on another YT channel, after I feel I’ve been ghosted by him. Any thoughts welcome.
I said this to protect myself. Everything I said is true.
And I’m sorry to hear this. Yes they do tend to ghost because of cowardice. Not willing to confront people when issues arise.
17:55 Tony Bomboni YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUTSIDE 😍🤗😊
This guy sounds like my ex-fiancé. So glad I didn’t marry him. So glad you got out of that!!! ❤
Omg I’m glad you didn’t marry that person! You would have eventually had to do a 50 part “who tf did I marry” video series like that one RessaTessa lady 🫨
Hi Tony bomboni thank you for the video 📹 😊
I always had a feeling you were a virgo!
I love tea 🍵 🙌🏻😆
Dayuuuuumn. Lowkey was wondering why yous broke up. Yall actually looked happy. But to be fair I only did see yall together in a video. But Im glad you seem to be ok.
❤story timeloni!
Hehehehehe
😆 🤣
What is that mental thing you mentioned, out of curiosity? Genuinely I almost never get scared and I've always wondered why, I'd be very interested to know
13:10 ill be back
Love you so much Tony. Trying so hard to keep quiet about my ex. You are my external friendly dump s
Lord Voldemort was oure Evil
I'm a Gemini & I LOVE Libras. Lol, all my significant relationships have been Libras & Leos. But they are definitely not for everyone 😆 ok back to the tea.
Спасибо за субтитры)). Такой откровенности от российских видеоблоггеров не дождешься.
I'm 22mins into the story so far. The guy sounds like a Sociopath , narcissist so far.
Not lord Voldemort 😂
And…. God’s watching over you! His angels are surrounding you day and night. 😊❤ God bless little Toni! 😊 Youre a great guy!
Hello there sweet sassy professor tingles, nice toxic boyfriend roleplay so creative and sassy at the same time. Xoxo 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 🦋
1:56:42
I’m a Virgo and I dated a Libra before. Would not recommend! 😂
Exactly
🍿popcorn and Bomboni tea🧋
Lord Voldemort….. OMG!!! You and JS????👀😆
Are those piko sticks that you're eating? They are so addictive. The matcha flavor is good.
You live in Florida? I work in a nursing facility in California! Ha!
I honestly wish we could be friends. I think we'd get a long nicely. I even love crystals! ❤️
Love ya 💋💖✌️
Hugggg
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