opening up about my dad

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @SamJess
    @SamJess  3 года назад +1144

    Donate here ❤️: www.als.org/donate

    • @drishti.k5
      @drishti.k5 3 года назад +16

      We are always there for you sam ❤

    • @luvtate
      @luvtate 3 года назад +11

      youre amazing sam

    • @anonymousanonymous7042
      @anonymousanonymous7042 3 года назад +10

      Your so awesome and amazing and positive! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @emilysullivan4518
      @emilysullivan4518 3 года назад +13

      I raise money for this every year sam. My uncle passed from ALS and I want to do as much as i can to stop the cruel disease 🥺🤍

    • @lunaloutfy
      @lunaloutfy 3 года назад +8

      We love and support you, Sam!! Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️
      Edit: It’s okay to cry so you don’t have to apologize to us 🥺🥺

  • @MariahandBill
    @MariahandBill 3 года назад +2564

    We love you Sam ❤️❤️

  • @rebeccaaaltheadsouza7362
    @rebeccaaaltheadsouza7362 3 года назад +138

    I lost both my parents in an accident when I was 12 (19 now).. I was devastated... Had to go through a lot.. Even until today...

    • @codelta2
      @codelta2 3 года назад +23

      I'm so sorry to hear that. But I genuinely want to hope and pray the best for you. I'm sure life has been/is so hard for you but keep pushing through and you'll find the light out of the dark times.
      Stay safe

    • @afedumm
      @afedumm 3 года назад +12

      @@codelta2 awwww this is so sweet. I say amen!

    • @jada23456
      @jada23456 Год назад +6

      I'm so sorry for your loss I can't imagine how hard and sad that would be 😢

    • @Jeeaspirant2025dropper
      @Jeeaspirant2025dropper Год назад +3

      More power to you

    • @Matijab.
      @Matijab. Год назад +2

      You're fighter, God bless❤

  • @shaniaknight2679
    @shaniaknight2679 3 года назад +876

    I'm so proud of him... It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable.

    • @daniellebennis2126
      @daniellebennis2126 3 года назад +10

      I definitely agree and i'm glad he is able to open up! It took me a long time to let my feelings out and i ended up going to counseling due to having anxiety and depression but im glad i did because now i am able to talk about how im feeling now rather then keep everything inside which is not good for your body or health at all.

  • @amith7814
    @amith7814 3 года назад +224

    My father too passed away on December 2013 when i was just 13yrs old. 7 years passed away still its soo painful to remember. I miss him a lot and hoping that one day meet him in heaven for sure.
    Bro i appreciate you for taking the step to talk about this. May Jesus bless you and help you to overcome the past situations.

    • @joanna3495
      @joanna3495 3 года назад +2

      Im so sorry, my dad passed away November 30th, 2014. I was 11 years old, I hope you’re still doing okay.

    • @amith7814
      @amith7814 3 года назад +2

      @@joanna3495 Now iam doing good. I hope you too doing good. May god help you too and bless your future.

    • @joanna3495
      @joanna3495 3 года назад +1

      @@amith7814 I am doing pretty good! I am signing up for my first college classes this week! God bless your future as well!

    • @amith7814
      @amith7814 3 года назад +1

      @@joanna3495 Good to hear that God bless you. Now i completed my graduation.

    • @joanna3495
      @joanna3495 3 года назад +1

      @@amith7814 What do you major in?

  • @emilysullivan4518
    @emilysullivan4518 3 года назад +726

    My uncle passed from the same condition as your dad Sam. It was horrible to watch and ALS is a cruel disease. I was only 12 when he passed (14 now). It’s painful but we love you so much 🥺🤍

    • @borderterrierx8950
      @borderterrierx8950 3 года назад +6

      Im so sorry for your loss 😭❤ hope your okay

    • @isla9610
      @isla9610 3 года назад +4

      I’m so sorry for your loss im still grieving for a lost I had last year due to Covid your so strong he’s so proud of you may he rest in peace

    • @hehelinl9823
      @hehelinl9823 3 года назад +2

      I'm so sorry for you😭Stay strong I hope you are okay❤PS : I'm 14 too😘❤

    • @caxiously.6057
      @caxiously.6057 3 года назад +2

      so sorry for ur loss hunny

    • @saeevidwans8176
      @saeevidwans8176 3 года назад +4

      Take care of yourself and your mom ♥️♥️

  • @alyssaadkison785
    @alyssaadkison785 3 года назад +53

    I am so sorry for your loss Sam. He will be forever in your heart and your family’s heart. ❤️😢

  • @avaklips9380
    @avaklips9380 3 года назад +327

    One of my family members has ALS. I know the pain. I’m so sorry Sam. He was a great man, even though not many of us know him. Thank you for trusting us

    • @Matijab.
      @Matijab. Год назад

      I hope he/she is still alive. I can pray if you want

  • @aanyaxaphire
    @aanyaxaphire 3 года назад +64

    My dad passed away when I was 10 too. 😔 He had stage 4 lung cancer when we found out. I'm 14 now. For everyone that needs to hear this it gets better.

  • @aanshahshah4777
    @aanshahshah4777 3 года назад +19

    omg i cried listening to everything sam said I’m so glad a have a dad, every who has a dad pls spend as much time with them as possible, give them hugs before it’s so to late. Look at Sam I’m crying for him. 🥺

    • @Codaandchloebarts
      @Codaandchloebarts 4 месяца назад +1

      Yes that’s so true. You should always hug your loved ones before it’s to late❤😢

  • @drishti.k5
    @drishti.k5 3 года назад +280

    Sam thank you so much for sharing this with us and we are always there for you ❤
    Wherever your dad will be he will be proud that how you have become such a gentleman 😊
    Who agrees
    👇

  • @hithalirenganathan9536
    @hithalirenganathan9536 3 года назад +59

    Sam is such a strong and sweet person for so many reasons. Like he lost his dad at the age of 10, and i can't imagine losing mine even after 20 years from now. And he explained just so that if one of us going through can feel like he/she is not lonely.

  • @cakepop2128
    @cakepop2128 3 года назад +31

    when your open & honest w your fans it’s amazing🥰 you guys are so loved!

  • @DanaDay44
    @DanaDay44 3 года назад +11

    "10 year old me"... He went through sooo much, its ok to be 19, 29, 39, 49 (and so on) you and still feel. Its ok to cry. I was a nurse, I know what you went through and Im so sorry. Cheers to the amazing man you are, and to a bright beautiful future!! Thank you for sharing Sam & hugs to you.

  • @ur.biggestfan
    @ur.biggestfan 3 года назад +124

    Sam you are so brave and strong for posting this we love you

  • @woof4631
    @woof4631 3 года назад +42

    Even though your father isn’t with you physically, he’s always with you, in your heart.

  • @rcrocker02
    @rcrocker02 2 года назад +22

    Lost my dad to cancer back in 1997. I was 13. Was definitely the hardest thing going through that. Family pulling together and very good friends help a lot. Condolences to everyone that has gone through something like this or is currently. Hang in there. Time heals the pain

  • @clarad13
    @clarad13 3 года назад +24

    My mom is a single mom and I’ve grown up without a father figure my whole life. She is the most wonderful person in my life and I am so grateful for her. I feel your pain! He is in a better place now. ❤️❤️

  • @emilybogaudo8194
    @emilybogaudo8194 3 года назад +212

    Even though my dad didn’t pass away and he’s in prison for a long time, I get married in a little over a month and it’s just making me sadder the closer it gets because my dad won’t be here for the biggest parts of my life. Thank you for posting this, I know it must have been hard. We love you guys so much!!!!♥️

    • @miaballot3738
      @miaballot3738 3 года назад +7

      Sorry if this sounds rude, but why had your dad gone to prison? Don’t have to answer if you don’t want to, I’m just curious... 🧐

    • @emilybogaudo8194
      @emilybogaudo8194 3 года назад +6

      @@miaballot3738 my dad has bipolar schizophrenia and got into a bad run with drugs while being an alcoholic and not taking his meds. Turned into a really bad lifetime addiction for him and now he is serving his sentence. It’s super sad I know, but in a way I’m thankful he is in there or maybe it would’ve kept happening for the rest of my life. I just hope he stays good for the rest of my life or his!

    • @emilybogaudo8194
      @emilybogaudo8194 3 года назад +3

      @Georgia B he is in for 7 years, he has 3 left to go.! I know he is. I’m thankful we get to talk on the phone once a week, still isn’t close to the same but it’s amazing to hear his voice and how good he is doing😌

    • @jerushadarlene
      @jerushadarlene 3 года назад +1

      It's gonna be okay Em!! Just 3 to go!! He's waiting to see you!! Hope you're all doing good!! God bless!! Take care!

    • @sharannya3328
      @sharannya3328 3 года назад

      @@emilybogaudo8194 im glad ur being positive! take care

  • @sanya.jethwani14
    @sanya.jethwani14 3 года назад +9

    My friend's dad had the same thing, and he had to go through a very tough time when his dad passed away.. it is very nice of you to open up, I love you Sam

  • @danielleolmos6207
    @danielleolmos6207 3 года назад +16

    This video really touched me. My dad passed away last year the weekend of Thanksgiving so this video gave me hope. Thank you sam.

  • @gavinspangler7339
    @gavinspangler7339 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for telling your story. I lost my dad when I was four to a brain tumor and I am currently going through a very painful breakup. So, this was exactly what I needed at the time. Crazy how God works. Thank you again Sam.

  • @kaleasartori1063
    @kaleasartori1063 3 года назад +26

    My grandma passed away from als too. It’s so hard but just know they are in peace now, I’m so sorry for your loss💗💗💗

  • @su-yhonnabizardie6565
    @su-yhonnabizardie6565 3 года назад +48

    We love you Sam you are so brave may your dad rest in peace❤️🕊️

  • @SilverArrow-qj1cj
    @SilverArrow-qj1cj 3 года назад +84

    Seeing Sam on the edge of crying was just so sad to see

    • @Matijab.
      @Matijab. Год назад

      It's actually 3rd time that he's this emotional

  • @caitlyngreene4474
    @caitlyngreene4474 3 года назад +6

    Sam is so brave. If I ever lost one of my parents, I couldn’t handle it. Also, he making a video about it, and talking to the public about what happened. Jessica really found a good man❤️❤️

  • @maanvitripathi3246
    @maanvitripathi3246 3 года назад +31

    WE LOVE YOU SAM ❤️❤️❤️❤️ YOURE SUCHA STRONG HUMAN ❤️❤️❤️❤️
    ILY AND HOPE U AND JESS ARE SAFE!

  • @alyssamp524
    @alyssamp524 3 года назад +5

    Thank you so much for sharing your story with us, Sam! My brother has been battling a life-threatening disease for the last few years and it is been extremely hard on me and my family. Trying to just do life and do your best acting like everything is okay when this pain and anxiety is always hanging over your head is something I really struggle with. Thank you for letting us know you better! We love you, Sam! ❤️❤️

  • @juniorngatiri3899
    @juniorngatiri3899 3 года назад +3

    Sam I have never seen a man as cheerful. Happy and loving as you well I might have but you continued with your dreams.The jam fam will always support you💕 and may his soul Rest In Peace. I know where he is,he is so proud of a son like you

  • @mahima6001
    @mahima6001 3 года назад +29

    Sam Father - Are you wining son ?
    Sam - Heck yeah ❤️
    He will be really proud

  • @taliamellor6396
    @taliamellor6396 3 года назад +14

    I’m sure your dad is so proud of you & all of your accomplishments❤️❤️

  • @avasmith1629
    @avasmith1629 3 года назад +37

    if this was a try not to cry challange i would of failed badly im so sorry you had to go through all that at a young age, my uncle died from the same condition your dad had

  • @barcturian
    @barcturian 3 года назад +2

    Sam, it takes a lot of courage to talk openly about your experience with your Dad passing at such an early age. You have such a big heart snd I’m sure this will touch all who see this!! Love and many blessing to you. Don’t ever stop being YOU!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ameliamahadeo5959
    @ameliamahadeo5959 3 года назад +6

    U really touched me and reminded me of my grandmother she died in her sleep and in the morning she was walking she was happy and at 4 she past away thank you Sam u thought me to be strong 😇

  • @user-vg8mp2mv7w
    @user-vg8mp2mv7w 3 года назад +4

    Aww everybody’s opening up about things in their life i like how they trust us enough to say these things

  • @danadahcheh7717
    @danadahcheh7717 3 года назад +18

    So sorry Sam. JamFam is here for u. We love u so much Sam. You are so strong I can't even imagine if my dad passed what I would do ❤️❤️

  • @maggiemay7808
    @maggiemay7808 3 года назад +3

    The way you were describing how your dad progressively got worse reminded me of my grandma. She died nine days after my 15th birthday this year, it was the hardest time of my life, trust me Sam, you are not alone, I am literally balling my eyes out right now when I am listening to you describing this, it reminds me so much of the horrible situation that my grandma was in. She had 5 different types of cancer, and the cancer got to her heart and it made her heart stop. The doctors said that she would only have 2-3 years to live and she survived for 5 years. I love you so much Sam❤️ And remember, you and Jess are ALWAYS in my prayers 🙏

  • @mechadoggy
    @mechadoggy Год назад +4

    10:38 “because I’m just thinking about losing Jessica after being with her for 15 years and having kids” Oh my gosh, my heart 😢

  • @iliamartin5112
    @iliamartin5112 3 года назад +2

    I lost my grandad about a month ago to cancer I know how you feel Sam but God gave me the strength to get through it and I feel stronger now it was a life lesson that no one lives forever it’s just a part of life and I just see it as a bump in the life rollercoaster the jamfam and I are with you it takes some courage to come out and talk about it thank you god for giving us strength 🙏

  • @ettadivirgilio2165
    @ettadivirgilio2165 3 года назад +20

    This could be a 'try not to cry' video
    Done! Love you guys

  • @arianabubisutti6476
    @arianabubisutti6476 Год назад +3

    This video touched me especially beacause my dad is facing the same disease. May your dad rest in peace❤

  • @Areuthium
    @Areuthium 3 года назад +7

    I am do sorry for your lose. My hopes and prayers go out for you. I know it’s been nine years but I can relate to this so much. My dad passed away when I was 2 and I know how it is growing up without a father. I love you guys so much and the jamfam as a whole. 🙏 We are all here to support you and will always be here for you guys. ❤️

  • @eadaoinomalley4966
    @eadaoinomalley4966 3 года назад +12

    I’m so sorry for your dad’s loss we’re here to support you you’re never going to be alone you’ll always have us and we always have your back. We love you Sam and Jess ❤️💙

  • @Legallylori
    @Legallylori 3 года назад +3

    Sam has so much kindness I’m sorry you had to go through that it is very horrible that you went through that stay strong!

  • @averyengfer2563
    @averyengfer2563 14 часов назад

    Sam, I started tearing up!!😢 I'm sorry that happened to you at such a young age!!! That must have been hard! I know my parents mean everything to me...but losing my dad, that would be tough!! I'm sorry that happened to you!! We love you Sam!!!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @sarahelizabeth862e4
    @sarahelizabeth862e4 3 года назад +40

    I lost my dad last year. He had a heart attack. I'm 15 years. I know how you feel and how you would've felt 🥺

    • @justinkarcher5989
      @justinkarcher5989 3 года назад +2

      I’m so sorry

    • @eleonorarizzo5247
      @eleonorarizzo5247 3 года назад +3

      My dad died a couple of month ago , i am 14

    • @rishit8116
      @rishit8116 3 года назад +2

      @@eleonorarizzo5247 I'm soo sorry for your loss buddy , everything will be okay ...

    • @sarahelizabeth862e4
      @sarahelizabeth862e4 3 года назад +2

      @@eleonorarizzo5247 I'm so sorry buddy ...he will always love you and will be the greatest man you have ever known in your life .. He might not be there with you in person.. But I promise he will always love you ❤🥺

    • @eleonorarizzo5247
      @eleonorarizzo5247 3 года назад +2

      @@sarahelizabeth862e4 thank you, i think. I don't know 😭 i am sorry for you too, i just hope and wish you all the happiness in this world ❤️

  • @yulissaruiz7595
    @yulissaruiz7595 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for being open, vulnerable, and letting us into your life. ALS is a very sad and difficult disease, and process for anyone to go through. Sam, you are a great man, and I'm sure your dad would be so proud of you!

  • @elsx20
    @elsx20 3 года назад +5

    I watched my dad die when I was 14 from lung cancer. I’m so sorry you have had to deal with this Sam. You can do this and you have all of us here to support you ❤️ even with time it’s still painful, mine was 4 years ago and I still struggle. Your so strong to talk about this. We are all here for you and you are so lucky to have Jess, I’m sure she is such a brilliant support ❤️❤️❤️

    • @hibamawlawi9802
      @hibamawlawi9802 3 года назад +1

      You are so strong too!! May your dad's soul rest in peace. I can't begin to imagine what you went through, stay strong.

    • @elsx20
      @elsx20 3 года назад +1

      @@hibamawlawi9802 aw thank you for that, I really appreciate it ❤️

  • @radiogagaforrocknroll8448
    @radiogagaforrocknroll8448 3 года назад +2

    This really helped me a lot

  • @newtssecretcure
    @newtssecretcure 3 года назад +8

    you are so strong for posting this sam:). we love you!

  • @heenagujral244
    @heenagujral244 3 года назад

    You're so authentic. It's so hard to talk about this stuff and i feel like in a way it's a release for u ❤ thank you for sharing, we love u. There is always going to be a scar inside u from this. Honor that scar. Cherish it. You are so so so so loved. You're very mature for your age and ik it feels uve had to grow up quickly but u have so much to share to this world 🌎 and im so grateful to see this aspect of u, it's truly beautiful and authentic

  • @amishagupta9558
    @amishagupta9558 3 года назад +58

    Dad is the most precious person in everyone's life ❤

  • @meganelaine8325
    @meganelaine8325 Год назад

    Sam, you have so much courage and strength for being willing to be so vulnerable with us about your dad and the emotional struggles that his loss have caused for you and your family. You absolutely will help someone else (or multiple people) dealing with something similar or the same scenario. He will always be with you and I have no doubt he is so proud of the wonderful man that you are! You are in my thoughts and prayers! 🙏🏻♥️

  • @daisymae8145
    @daisymae8145 2 года назад +4

    My father passed away in December of 2016. I hop eyou know how many people are loving you right now Sam. My prayers are going out to you. Losing someone, especially a role model/father, is the worst thing anyone could go through. Thanks for making this video Sam.

  • @tia789
    @tia789 3 года назад +2

    You are amazing. And your dad is so proud of you.
    My grandma passed away the same day 5 years ago of Ovarian Cancer. And I miss her so very much. But now she is in a better place and she made such an impact on other peoples lives.
    Lots of love ❤

  • @erin694
    @erin694 3 года назад +4

    So proud of you Sam, not growing up with a father figure isn’t amazing, you grew up and you dealt with it, you grew into a great gentlemen, God helped you through it, he is watching over you, he’s proud of you♥️

  • @melissabarnes9922
    @melissabarnes9922 3 года назад +1

    My heart goes out to you. My kids were 12, 6, and 4 when their dad died. Circumstances were much different as he died from a drug overdose however as a young child the reason doesn't matter. The loss of life does. School was difficult as the other kids would ask questions and at times demand answers when my kids didn't want to give answers. All they wanted was to be able to make that Father's Day card and give it to their dad, or see their dad at their baseball game. No matter what male role model they had, he never took their dad's place. That void was still there. Keep sharing your story. It does help. It let's these kids know they didn't do anything to cause the death as it has happened to others as well. I'm sure the light that shines in you is that burning light that your mother would remind you you have to share your dad's memory and life with! Many prayers go out to you as you will one day be a father and will be able to pass along 9 years of memories with your kids!

  • @kashamarie4740
    @kashamarie4740 3 года назад +3

    Sam we all love you so much❤️ my dad passed away September of that same year, when I was five,on my 10th day of kindergarten, I kind of get it. It’s perfectly fine to cry or say that it sucks, because it does! Even now nine years later I have my days where I just miss my dad. But write things down! Write what you remember, and things you miss, and things you loved! He’ll always be there, and if you look at it this way you have your very own guardian angel that is so proud of you! 💕 I needed this today, I cried almost the entire time, and it gives me comfort that someone else gets it

  • @annikaericksen3938
    @annikaericksen3938 3 года назад

    I lost my aunt back in september. She was one of the few people I felt I could count on. Knowing that someone else has experienced loss even greater than mine but has gone on to live a crazy influential life gives me so much hope for my future. Thank you sam for sharing this part of you with us, the jam fam.

  • @codelta2
    @codelta2 3 года назад +2

    Sam, if you're reading this
    Thank you so much for sharing this! It certainly takes so much of courage to do so and I just want to say that certain things in life a lot of us (including my self) take for granted.
    It's amazing how brave your mother is to be able to raise a child single handedly so well.
    I know your channel is mostly for entertainment and fun times but I've learnt so much from you about the importance of respecting women.
    Thanks for being a great role model, especially for the young audience.
    Wishing you and jess well my friend ❤

  • @phaedrap.8775
    @phaedrap.8775 3 года назад

    What I really appreciate in a personality of a RUclipsr or a creator that shares their life with the internet is when they actually don’t try to hide something important that has happened and many people know about. Instead, they open up theirselves to their fans and talk to them like they are family. I’m not saying this because I feel bad for you, but because this feeling of honesty and trust makes me feel so happy and proud, if that makes sense to anyone.
    I lost my Grandma many years ago, and she was like my second mom. She was always taking care of me when my parents couldn’t, and since I was only six when she passed away, I was crying non stop for more than a year. I have now got used to that and realized that this is how life works. And, most importantly I’ve become the strong person I am today. Thank you for reminding me that!❤️✨

  • @Vedimusic
    @Vedimusic 3 года назад +3

    It's really strong from you to tell that to millions of people out there. I'm wishing you all good luck of the world ❤️

  • @ShreyaPatel-ur7el
    @ShreyaPatel-ur7el 11 месяцев назад

    I am so grateful for brave people like you and others to speak up (in the comments as well). It's obviously hard to be sharing a sad story without having flashbacks of the though memories. I lost my grandmother like 2 years ago and it was really hard for me because I was there when the message came trough that she passed away. It was hard to believe but i know she's always look down at me. I really do wish everyone is doing great, and if not i am here to set you a reminder that you are worth it and that you have loved ones around you, always. I am proud of him to trusting us with his story. Thank you!

  • @maynemayne8086
    @maynemayne8086 3 года назад +8

    My dad passed way from the same condition to. Before i was born so i didn't really know him and now im 14 so i went 14 years without my dad.

  • @melinaambrose7922
    @melinaambrose7922 3 года назад +2

    U r so strong. My mom passed when I was 3, My dad remarried to an abusive woman. My older brother and I were abused for 3 years and my brother had to take care of me. We both got physically and emotionally abused (drugged, starved, and beaten) I wouldn’t be alive without him. ❤️ So Sam u r not alone in this fight. Stay strong. (And also everyone reading this❤️)

  • @Joy-nl1vp
    @Joy-nl1vp 3 года назад +9

    My mom passed on the 29th of October 2020. Something that never heals just feels less painful and more sad as time goes on. But i made peace with it. Life goes on i guess💔

    • @eleonorarizzo5247
      @eleonorarizzo5247 3 года назад +1

      I am soo sorry. My dad died a couple of month ago.

  • @raghadbata7533
    @raghadbata7533 3 года назад +1

    I've never lost a family member that I was close to, so I have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA what u and many other people went/r going thru...but I still want to say that I'm so proud of u, and even tho I didn't know ur dad, I KNOW FOR A FACT that he would also be SO PROUD OF U!!! STAY STRONG SAM...WE LOVE U SO MUCH

  • @elliehunt4578
    @elliehunt4578 3 года назад +4

    I'm so proud of you Sam to be able to speak about this 🥺💗

  • @macymeadows4462
    @macymeadows4462 3 года назад

    i’m so sorry. i lost my grandmother from ALS when i was in the second grade. it was super hard for my whole family and we haven’t been the same since. i still
    miss her so much and i think about her all the time. it’s so awful to
    watch someone your so
    close to be in so much pain and know you can’t do anything about it. i can’t imagine how hard it would have been for you to lose your dad at such a young age. again, i’m so sorry and you are so brave to open up about what happened to you.

  • @rebekahmahmud7385
    @rebekahmahmud7385 3 года назад +5

    OMG SAM IM SO PROUD OF U ILY AND I JUST WANT TO SAY THIS TAKES A LOT OF COURAGE WELLDONE

  • @emjo2611
    @emjo2611 3 года назад

    Empathy is a really important part of community. It’s okay for people to feel bad for you! It shows they care for you. ALS is a really terrible disease, and seeing your dad go through that had to have been incredibly hard. I’m really sorry that happen to you and your family. I’m sure your dad loved you so much, and would be really proud of you.

  • @rosiesfun4056
    @rosiesfun4056 3 года назад +4

    Soo much respect for you!! Is it weird that I am crying during listening. In my family only my grandfather is dead, but I don’t mind about him. Long story, but he almost killed my grandmother/ his wife. That was also hard for me and nobody understand. Someday I hope that I could look back positive a my past...❤️❤️

  • @liamouradian8448
    @liamouradian8448 3 года назад

    i lost my dad to als too. it’s gonna be 3 years in october and seeing this video made me feel my dad with me as i was watching it 🤍 you’re so strong!

  • @TTPDforevertv
    @TTPDforevertv 3 года назад +4

    My uncle passed away in December of 2019. My cousins lost there dad. My grandmother still cried almost every day. ❤️. Sam you are so amazing

  • @brookiepeden3230
    @brookiepeden3230 Год назад

    Im so sorry youve had to go through this i lost my mum from Cancer when i was 8 its truly devastating to watch your loved one die from something like this thank you for sharing about this i felt less alone with still dealing with the trauma of losing her. Your dad would be so proud of you and how far youve come 🤎

  • @fernanda6147
    @fernanda6147 3 года назад +5

    Sam you're the strongest guy I've ever seen!! We all love you

  • @TheBritishPatriot
    @TheBritishPatriot 3 года назад +1

    The great young man that you've become and what you've achieved is really a testament to not only your own character but also the lasting impression your dad left on you and the great work he did instilling good values upon you in the short time he had raising you, and also the great work your mom did raising you on her own after becoming a widow, having to stay strong in the midst of grief and having to provide for you and continue teaching you how to be a good person and a man. Your Dad is looking down on you very proudly!

  • @Chloe-zq2yz
    @Chloe-zq2yz 3 года назад +11

    My cousins lost their mom recently and their in their 20s. It’s so difficult for them to realize especially since two of them are getting engaged without their mom :(

  • @1addition1subtraction
    @1addition1subtraction 3 года назад

    I lost both my grandparents 3 years ago within 5 months of each other one because of cancer and the other from Parkinson’s and watching them loose their independence loose their mobility and become bed ridden was the hardest thing to watch. Coming home from school everyday it would feel so empty so quite in the house after losing them. I was 14 when the passed away and 12 when there health started to decline. We had so many hospital visits the hospital stated to feel like home since we would be there everyday for months on end. I’m 17 now and I’m doing much better.
    It’s not easy but eventually you start to feel a lot better. Love to Sam for powering through at such a young age and to anyone else who is or went through the same thing ❤️

  • @isabellalucia7440
    @isabellalucia7440 3 года назад +47

    Haven't seen my dad in 7 months because of cancer and can't go to visit him because I can't travel to hospital its heart breaking😓🥺♥️♥️♥️♥️ I know how u feel

    • @anieaintsoft
      @anieaintsoft 3 года назад +3

      @KAYLA SMITH omgg why? you should find a doctor

    • @karolramirez443
      @karolramirez443 3 года назад

      Aww I’m sorry 🥺 I hope your dad gets better

    • @kristibohara6381
      @kristibohara6381 3 года назад

      Working as a nurse during covid, it’s so hard I see for not just the families but the patient!

  • @fortnitefanpage2505
    @fortnitefanpage2505 3 года назад +2

    I feel blessed to have a dad after watching this. If anyone who thinks that their parents are mean just know they want the best for you, dont hurt them ever.

  • @daniellaxochitl
    @daniellaxochitl 3 года назад +3

    Thank you, Sam. I’m 14 and my grandpa recently passed away. It has been hard but we are pushing through. I appreciate this so much! I love you🤍

  • @jordis_magula
    @jordis_magula 3 года назад +1

    My uncle died last year from the same disease and it's so horrible watching someone you love slowly fade away. I'm so sorry this happened to you and I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to share ❤

  • @tarahughes3529
    @tarahughes3529 3 года назад +11

    Sam we are all so proud of u 💝

  • @PiranWilley2505
    @PiranWilley2505 4 месяца назад +1

    Sam thank you for this video my gran has motor neurons disease and its been really hard but watching you and Jess takes my mind off of it

  • @avril7007
    @avril7007 3 года назад +3

    Sam ty for sharing 🙏 I’m 14 now and my dad passed away the same day as ur dad in 2019 I understand how hard it is ❤️

    • @hibamawlawi9802
      @hibamawlawi9802 3 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. You are so strong to do through that I can't imagine how you feel. Stay strong may his soul rest in peace.

    • @avril7007
      @avril7007 3 года назад +1

      @@hibamawlawi9802 Honestly tyssssm❤️❤️

  • @abolishhomelessness429
    @abolishhomelessness429 3 года назад +1

    Sam your so brave and an absolute inspiration. Everyone is so proud of you and i know if your dad was here he would be so happy. I will always be part of the JAMFAM forever

  • @kaitlyngreen3821
    @kaitlyngreen3821 3 года назад +4

    Your not alone. We are all here to support you and Jess

  • @yerdone_2741
    @yerdone_2741 3 года назад +1

    i went threw something like this my mom passed away when i was 7 from cancer( not exactly alike) but i know how it feels to lose a family member at a young age. and for me i don’t really have an memories from when she wasn’t sick because even when i would remember memories they were only when she was sick but you always have to remember god does things for a reason and my dad always told me “ mom did everything she needed to that takes most people 80 years+ to accomplish but it took my mom around 35 years so she did everything god needed her to” . just honestly idk if u feel the same way but when i see people with moms and having a mom when there still around 40 it hurts but you have to remember there are people who love you💙this video just really touched my heart!💙

  • @annamartonffy2126
    @annamartonffy2126 3 года назад +298

    The JAMFAM is here for you Sam, no matter what🤍 we got you🤍

  • @alexrea2733
    @alexrea2733 3 года назад +4

    He’s watching over you bro he’s proud of you I promise you ❤️

  • @viktoriageorgieva21
    @viktoriageorgieva21 3 года назад

    I love that you are so open my grandma on my mother's side is sick at one point she couldn't talk now she is kinda getting better but it's in her brain and she has two very bad illnesses I guess you can call them and its very hard for everyone and even if it's not the same as your story I still kinda fell it also in 2020 a lot of family members passed and it was just hard but what I am trying to say is THANK YOU for sharing bc it made me fell that there are people who have it harder and showed me that I should be grateful for both of my parents still being alive the fast that at the moment my grandma is ok for her condition and age! Love you and again thank you so much❣️❣️❣️❣️ (Sorry if there are any mistakes English is my second language and I am 12)

  • @aelinashryver6245
    @aelinashryver6245 3 года назад +4

    We love you Sam, we are all proud of you, and you are so strong for putting this out.❤️❤️

  • @macielee7865
    @macielee7865 3 года назад +1

    I’m literally sobbing😭🥺♥️ Sam you are so strong your dad is looking down and thinking how amazing his son is 🥺🕊

  • @isaacjefferies2354
    @isaacjefferies2354 3 года назад +3

    My mom and dad got a divorce when I was around 5 or 6, he was on drugs and he did not treat my mom right. and looking back on it now I can see that God has had an amazing plan from the very beginning. God knows how things will end and I believe that my dad not being there for me ever has actually helped me, I know that sounds strange but I have gotten closer to God because of the stuff that has happened in my past. I believe that God knew/knows what he is doing and he has a reason for every bad thing in our life. Most of the time the bad things will bring us closer to God and make us trust in him more.
    -God bless (Sorry for bad punctuation and for bad grammar)

  • @marisafudenna5754
    @marisafudenna5754 3 года назад +1

    I am so sorry Sam. I lost someone when I was 16 so I know how it feels. I am 20 right now and I turn 21 in a week and a half. So it was 5 years ago. I totally know how you would feel by now. I love your videos. Your videos are so uplifting and I love it. Look on the bright side, you have a great wife and she will take care of you.

  • @alllivesmatter2402
    @alllivesmatter2402 3 года назад +5

    Lost my grandpa a few days ago to cancer. I´m only 14 and he was one of the most important peoples in my life. I didnt saw him scince christmas because og covid and then only one last time three days before he died. It´s very hard for me. Feel with you Sam.
    R.I.P Opa

    • @eleonorarizzo5247
      @eleonorarizzo5247 3 года назад

      I am sooo sorry 😭

    • @alllivesmatter2402
      @alllivesmatter2402 3 года назад +1

      @@eleonorarizzo5247 Thank you, it means a lot to me. Have a nice day/ night

    • @brynndevries22
      @brynndevries22 3 года назад +1

      i lost my gpa too in 2016. he was one of the most important people in my life. he passed from a heart attack/heart failure. he lived thousands of miles away from me so i had to say good bye through ft. he told everyone he was gonna take a nap and never woke up. he fought 2 years with heart failure

    • @eleonorarizzo5247
      @eleonorarizzo5247 3 года назад

      @@brynndevries22 this sounds horrible i am so sorry 😭

    • @alllivesmatter2402
      @alllivesmatter2402 3 года назад

      @@brynndevries22 oh no, I´m so sorry for you. Have a nice day/night

  • @desireealexam
    @desireealexam 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing this part of your life, Sam. ❤️ I really appreciate when RUclipsrs make “real life” videos like this, because it normalizes what it’s like to be human, even if you’re also a social media influencer.
    My husband, Eldon’s, Dad died of testicular cancer when my husband was 3 1/2 years old. His dad was exposed to Agent Orange during Army boot camp during the Vietnam War 🥺 Eldon’s mom raised him and his older and younger sisters on her own. Eldon talks a lot about missing his dad and not having a lot of fun memories with him - only from when he was very sick in the last few months before he died (which was also at home).
    Regarding your Dad, Sam, I’m sure he was with you in spirit at your wedding at Yosemite, and that he will be with you at your 2nd wedding celebration in 2 weeks. In fact, I bet your dad is with you in spirit every day. He’s at least always been watching over you from Heaven. ❤️
    One question I have for you: Did you know for a while that your Dad was going to pass before he did? Or was his passing sudden?

  • @dominiquehebert6857
    @dominiquehebert6857 3 года назад +5

    My mom passed away when I was 11 and now I’m 15 I’m so sorry for you Sam 🥺❤️

  • @mfunekokhumalo1158
    @mfunekokhumalo1158 3 года назад +1

    Thanks Sam for your message, it really means a lot. I lost my dad when I was young too, and for you to open up and see how you carried yourself from the day it happened until now👏🏽. Thank you for your message bro. God bless you and your loved ones♥️