When a Gamer Dates a Non Gamer

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 18

  • @samanrahemi2199
    @samanrahemi2199 6 месяцев назад +4

    I must give it to you, I find your topics really refreshing. I really enjoy the fact that they're not always exclusively about games themselves. keep doing what you're doing.

  • @mikereiling7
    @mikereiling7 6 месяцев назад +4

    I can relate to this! When I first started dating my wife, she came to visit me at my apartment. I nervously told her I needed to show her something. She was very relieved to see my 500+ board game collection. She was afraid it was a massive pornography collection or something. We still laugh about this...she still rarely plays board games but she is a keeper as my collection has grown to over 1000.

  • @karenfischer7916
    @karenfischer7916 6 месяцев назад +2

    I married my husband many years before I got into the board game hobby. We celebrated 40 years together, but over the years I’ve learned I need to find other people to do most of my gaming with. I’ve bought many games hoping he would like them, and mostly they didn’t land well. At this point I have a monthly game group, I play certain games with my daughter( she likes coop narrative driven games) and do lots of soloing. And it’s all good.

  • @jmkoeller
    @jmkoeller 6 месяцев назад +5

    You're a lucky man! My wife HATES board games. Thank goodness that's her only flaw. 😂

  • @bradleyritger6765
    @bradleyritger6765 6 месяцев назад

    I totally agree! My now wife hadn’t played any games when we started not even classic games and standard card games. She considers beating me a win even if she’s not in first place! It’s been great to see her evolve and glad I’m not the only one with the same story

  • @monstermash4324
    @monstermash4324 6 месяцев назад

    Hey Shane, this is such a sweet story, so glad you and Amy are having a lot of fun making memories. My hubby is not a gamer, but over the years there are some he definitely enjoys more. It's not his favourite hobby, but it's fun when he will sit and with me.❤

  • @BlueTorchWeddings
    @BlueTorchWeddings 6 месяцев назад

    Really love this Content Shane. You are doing a really good job of really makinghg extremely relatable content.
    My experience has been that one of my friends who has been the person who I play most of my board games with. And the person I am dating now we've only really been dating for about maybe 6 months. She isn't a super avid board gamer but she comes to board game nights pretty regularly and did so even before we started dating. Which is great. I enjoy playing simple to medium weight games with her and she is really smart 🤓.
    My previous girlfriend was much less enthusiastic. Happy as to where i am now

  • @kayhcole
    @kayhcole 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm a gamer in a family of nots. At Christmas I presented a fun Christmas theme roll and write, and we all had a great time playing it
    I had hope that would be the start of maybe a few more games played together.....? Alas, no deal, they are back to being boring, I'm back to my solo games 😁

  • @leom3642
    @leom3642 6 месяцев назад

    I love your comment at (5:46): "Hey do you want to play a board game? And I'm (pfft) it's me! Of course I want to play a board game, yeah. I'd love to play a board game"

  • @astrophe-cat
    @astrophe-cat 6 месяцев назад

    My partner does play board games, but he is rather on the other end of the minimalist - collector scale than I am. I love my collection - he doesn't and keeps urging me to cull it down drastically. So dating someone who has the same hobby isn't necessarily easier either...

  • @blueseqperl
    @blueseqperl 6 месяцев назад

    Most of my partners have been non-gamers and I have introduced them to the hobby. I try to introduce them to games based on interests and their gaming level. If they enjoy them, I have them try other games. I respect if gaming isn't their vibe.

  • @dago6410
    @dago6410 6 месяцев назад

    I consider myself a regularnie gamer, I tend to play a few times a month (cant do more due to how life works ;p), have my collection, watch videos etc.
    Now, when I hear a collection of 500 games or more i woupd react like this girl did! Wtf why would you have more thsn a 100 games at a time in your house, when do you have the time to play all of them? I feel like even if I could play a game a day, anything more than a hundred gsmes would feel like a bit much... idk i want to play the games I love more often than 1 a year

  • @deiseach02
    @deiseach02 6 месяцев назад

    My wife admires board games - they're not video games! - and we've had some really great times with our 10-year-old son. We had a spectacular game of Pandemic recently and The Crew is definitely a winner. Still, she doesn't love them the way I do and I'm not sure she ever will. I'm hoping it will 'click' some day soon. Until then, that's what the boy is for 😁

  • @psychosquirrel7918
    @psychosquirrel7918 6 месяцев назад

    I can relate with Amy... YOU are the target to beat, Game Commander 😜
    My other half would play if I ask him, but not all day boardgaming and DEFINITELY not more than 2 days in a row 😝👎🏽
    Soo, I've been choosing board game themes that he would be interested in, like Fallout, The Witcher, TMNT, and Game of Thrones - anything videogame related. Unfortunately, they're medium to heavy games, so 1 "learning" game play a day is all I can fish out of him 😅👎🏽👎🏽

  • @hanslamal5632
    @hanslamal5632 6 месяцев назад

    Very nice story 👍