Off The Record: What Actually Qualifies as Asian Fetishization?

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  • Опубликовано: 6 янв 2025

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  • @Calida
    @Calida Год назад +130

    This was a good discussion! And also I'm loving Joe's advertising for the bra brand 😆

    • @lil_rata6994
      @lil_rata6994 Год назад +4

      sammme high key might check it out 😂

    • @shhv3448
      @shhv3448 Год назад +3

      I was just about to comment about how much I love his bra ad.

    • @aquaviii
      @aquaviii Год назад +4

      I contemplated buying some lol😅

    • @dinkusmcgee1015
      @dinkusmcgee1015 Год назад +1

      Hahahaha. Yes!

  • @geezjunior
    @geezjunior Год назад +26

    The Anthony edit at 20:08 😂😂😂 good job editor can!!!

  • @daifukurinn
    @daifukurinn Год назад +32

    "When your views about a culture supersedes how a person actually is". Love that. That's exactly my experience with "Asian fetishization". I'm an Asian American in a predominantly white area and had my fair share of people fetishizing me based on my ethnic background because of what they've seen in porn with Asian people or expecting me to be a submissive caregiver. When I don't fit that role, I've legit seen grown ass boys throw tantrums.

  • @applepieclub5012
    @applepieclub5012 Год назад +42

    Like who you like and what you like, just don’t be weird about it and for the love of god, don’t make what you like, your entire identity. Keep your options open.

  • @artheals8869
    @artheals8869 Год назад +20

    I think fetishization is based on desiring/solely dating a specific group or ethnicity based on a specific stereotypical (usually sexual) quality. For example, if a girl only dates black dudes because she likes big dicks, that would be fetishization vs if a girl only dated black dudes because that’s what she finds most attractive is just preference.

  • @davidmega-truong4239
    @davidmega-truong4239 Год назад +36

    Fetishization deals with sexual desire + gradification vs having an attraction to features. Attraction is multifaceted affection vs fetishization which is sexual in nature and objectifies whatever is being fetishized.

  • @KikoLovesable
    @KikoLovesable Год назад +16

    I'm SO GLAD yall talked about this but I'm with Anthony, I don't think I've learned anything from video 😅😂

  • @tinabeee7350
    @tinabeee7350 Год назад +36

    Honeylove bras really are amazing. Thank you for being a bra connoisseur, Joe ❤

    • @kiarademoner
      @kiarademoner Год назад +2

      Have you tried it? I have been buying bras left and right and haven’t found a good one. I’m tired of the Victoria secret ones. They are so uncomfortable.

    • @tinabeee7350
      @tinabeee7350 Год назад +3

      @@kiarademonerYes, I own several of their pieces and just bought more with the promo code 😄. I am of a certain age and I am big up top and the v neck bra is my fave. Soft, comfortable and supportive. Feels like I’m hardly wearing anything! You can pick something to try and stack the promo code with their Labor Day sale.

    • @kiarademoner
      @kiarademoner Год назад

      @@tinabeee7350 thank you!!!!!! I will definitely buy some.

  • @cherrymilk5590
    @cherrymilk5590 Год назад +9

    "Just don't be weird about it" is a great rule to follow in life in general

  • @artypyrec4186
    @artypyrec4186 Год назад +33

    The transition of 4 guys to a bra ad is insanely funny.

    • @1pensar
      @1pensar Год назад

      Almost as funny as having Nick around

  • @HieuBris
    @HieuBris Год назад +1

    Another discussion that I would love to see you guys discuss about is like the opposite of that. What’s the difference between not liking a certain aspect of a kind of people and just being racist or ableist or any other -ist.

  • @karanfromvenus
    @karanfromvenus Год назад +11

    I had a girl at work constantly hit on me saying she loves brown guys, mentioning her indian ex and would berate her own race/culture... I wasn't attracted to her in the first place but after that I genuinely disliked her
    If she had said "I like brown guys" and left it at that I would have zero problem, the issue was that she kept going lol. It's fine to have a type just don't shove it in someone's face, that's weird.

    • @LavenderLibran
      @LavenderLibran Год назад +1

      I think I would need to know WHY she liked brown guys. I think that's where the preference vs fetishization question gets answered.

    • @user-783hhss7w2oifhe
      @user-783hhss7w2oifhe 11 месяцев назад

      What was her race/ethnicity?

  • @AnonYoBizness
    @AnonYoBizness Год назад +1

    I find it Men Fetish Asian woman for the stereotype of them being "Timid and easier to deal with".... and that's further from the truth. Listen i am a Ally who has lived around 80% Asian most of my life, this info comes straight from growing up in and around Asians homes, the mom and dad dynamic... BRUH momma runs the game LOOL. its very traditional. The tiger mom thing is real lol, Note Asian moms are the sweetest and nicest people to talks to, like SWEET HEARTS, BUTT!! To their children, it's a tough love, that you're gonna have to grow old and appreciate it, because i had to talk to a lot of my friends and show them they will appreciate it later on, although we can get into the nuance of allowing kids to be kids as well.
    The long and short is Asian woman are beautiful and also since they are very selective with their mates, it makes it that much more of a rare situation to be in. Culturally Asian woman date seriously Asian and White men. Any other may be a one off or just a fling. so i feel like the "others" tend to fetishize because they want what they can't have, and the white people fetishize them for the factual fact that Asian woman do go for white man, and once it became a Meme or known fact, White men ran with it... off the the Philippines they go
    Personally I really like Asian woman but not for the stereotypical reasons most people would think. I feel like Asian men and woman growing up since they are usually forced to denounced their childhood for the sake of a guaranteed future ( its worth it, i've seen it) someone who is forced into a corner for too long they usually find outlets to help cope with the situation. I find this is why a lot of Asian people or woman always have an amazing sense of humour ( even the shy kids), my corky stupid jokes, or even if it's realmed in reality seems to always land, and it's genuine. Also culturally being taught to want to start a family and build together is something i think nobody is complaining about. The fact that Asian woman are pretty is no different than any other race being pretty.
    I think people should really look into things like cultural, social norms for Asian people and communities, understanding you are marrying the family when you marry Asian, and do not step up to pops unless you are prepared in life, They are Traditional, even when adopting progressive ideologies, and i love it
    I'd argue there is a bit of a hidden conversation that needs to be had about black and asian community, but overall I got love and appreciate Asian culture. Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Philippine, Thai, Cambodian, Viet, and so many others cultures brings something different, and so much rich culture to North America. So try to take this things into account before you just assume, ShE TiMiD AnD ThEy WiLl MaKe mE A SaNdWiCh AnD SuCky SuCkY, You gon f around and find out real quick, The hunter becomes the hunted xD

  • @TheTinyOrc
    @TheTinyOrc Год назад +1

    1:44 lmao everytime Anthony says something from left field, I think of the bomb gif in Nevada

  • @onka3895
    @onka3895 Год назад +6

    I think the initial physical attraction or preference isn't weird.... but when it goes beyond that (to very obvious stereotypes based on my ethic background/race), now your fetish is off putting.

  • @sofiatorres1132
    @sofiatorres1132 Год назад +17

    I got huevos ranchero’ed LMAO

  • @kEaNeKlEiBeR
    @kEaNeKlEiBeR Год назад +12

    Even the editors disrespect Anthony!😂 10:00

  • @justinpchew
    @justinpchew Год назад +6

    They got my boy joe out here reading bra advertisements LMAO!

  • @mangotar0
    @mangotar0 Год назад +2

    I never skip Joe's Honey Love ad promo 😂

  • @De_rekening_a.u.b.
    @De_rekening_a.u.b. Год назад

    Edits are on point 😂😂😂

  • @BH-ix7nq
    @BH-ix7nq Год назад +6

    To be fair Steve, the Philippines is the Mexico of Asia

    • @Mr-pn2eh
      @Mr-pn2eh Год назад +2

      Their cultures are literally identical.

  • @frankoceazz
    @frankoceazz Год назад

    Joe talking about bras is the kind of integrated ad I’d only stay put for from now on. 👌

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Год назад +10

    Going along listening to this as a semi serious discussion, then that "hello gov'ner" comment got me. 🤣🤣

  • @808Xian
    @808Xian Год назад +1

    I was thinking ayy what the heck it can't be over??? 1:38 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jay1jayf
    @jay1jayf Год назад +13

    20:07 anthony jesus christ!

    • @jw7268
      @jw7268 Год назад +2

      Cancelled! 😂
      Kinja and kinjabang noodles gone!

  • @Jiminie53421
    @Jiminie53421 Год назад +3

    There’s definitely a lot to it but I think seeing Asians as a monolith and thinking they are all the same like how Ryan explained in the beginning is 100% a part of it

  • @idcalice
    @idcalice Год назад +1

    Listening to them say fetishization (or however you spell it😭) has made my day fr

  • @eringutsch
    @eringutsch Год назад

    Excellent discussion. Thanks guys. And now I will be trying a honeylove bra!

  • @elizabethlovett4318
    @elizabethlovett4318 Год назад +2

    Great discussion. Different angles of perception, circumstance and didn't shy away from race. As a white woman I wouldn't be very bothered of another race talking about how they love white women (or men) though it surprises me. However, I would be upset and consider it a red flag if any man referred to me or women collectively as 'females' or anything along the terms of 'vessels'. Ew! Also, a red flag if I'm speaking to another white person and they mention 'I only date white guys/girls'. I consider the possible nuances behind the sentence, give them the benefit of the doubt, (a bit reluctantly) but I make note of it in case something else pops up. Something that would make me re-evaluate whether they're the kind of person I want to be friends with.

  • @Mr-pn2eh
    @Mr-pn2eh Год назад +1

    I want to marry a traditional woman. That doesn't mean that I think only east Asian women are traditional.

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster Год назад +6

    Had a girl got confused about me being asian and chinese at the same time 😂

    • @LaddRusso91
      @LaddRusso91 Год назад

      I'm confused about how is that confusing. Haha

    • @CuongChanster
      @CuongChanster Год назад +3

      @LaddRusso91 thought that Asian was one race, and Chinese was another

    • @LaddRusso91
      @LaddRusso91 Год назад

      That's hilarious

    • @karanfromvenus
      @karanfromvenus Год назад

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @ricenoodles632
      @ricenoodles632 Год назад +2

      She got the double digits

  • @mane5582
    @mane5582 Год назад +1

    I think of it as the opposite of discrimination/ racism 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @SmokenHash
    @SmokenHash Год назад +3

    Yeah, I'm with y'all. Not really any difference in liking the way a certain race tends to look vs. Liking blonde hair, green eyes, etc. We can't control what we like, it's mostly hormonal anyways. As long as we're respectful of others and actually trying to get to know them as individuals, and not placing people into boxes they aren't asking to be put in. ~
    And the phases Joe mentioned is common with girls too, we're all changing and the things and people we're attracted to might change as well. 😂

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Год назад +2

    The edit in the beginning 😂😂😂. I think you just like what you like, and that's it. I've always liked African American people. Now that I'm older, I just want a trustworthy, loyal guy. Steve pointing out that Bart had Anthony say that so he can say the fucked up thing 😂😂😂😂.

  • @geezjunior
    @geezjunior Год назад

    21:30 Steve figured out the secret to life 😂😂

  • @Max25670
    @Max25670 Год назад +2

    I guess what I learned from this video is that Anthony likes dancing with black chicks.

  • @itsNinaLeeyo
    @itsNinaLeeyo Год назад +2

    That's not true either, if they keep it in, bc I get weird ass looks from creepy old (white) men. I feel uncomfortable asf!!

  • @evanom117
    @evanom117 Год назад

    The end cutscene after 2 mins was perfect 😂

  • @ijonel906
    @ijonel906 Год назад

    I’m not the only one who’s audio is messing up right 😅

  • @SpAzZzZz_
    @SpAzZzZz_ Год назад +2

    The woke overcorrection was a manageable meme. Now its like AI we have lost all human control

  • @squirrelysquirrel5332
    @squirrelysquirrel5332 Год назад

    Thank you guys, for listening to me and even addressing me!! I’m madly in love with all of you! Even the caucasoid! 😂😂😂😂

  • @wcthao
    @wcthao Год назад +2

    I guess that means Bart fetishizes Real Estate Girls lol 😂

  • @negiihimanshu
    @negiihimanshu Год назад +1

    Being surrounded with close minded people...... By watching our lovely carefull boyz.. i have grown up as a open minded person alot ....not kidding

  • @iMDiZZi
    @iMDiZZi Год назад +5

    anytime im asked what my type is I always respond "my type is whoever likes me as well" lmao

  • @Ayygeee
    @Ayygeee Год назад +4

    People are too woke and offended by everything, I miss the before times lol 😂

    • @Mr-pn2eh
      @Mr-pn2eh Год назад +2

      Me too (no not that me too)

    • @JustKiddingNews
      @JustKiddingNews  Год назад +2

      At least we still have this place 😂

  • @Yinteaberry
    @Yinteaberry Год назад +1

    I really enjoy Joe advertising bras

  • @Mr-pn2eh
    @Mr-pn2eh Год назад +1

    Every race has been fetishized at one point. It just depends on who you ask.

  • @sourwasabi8492
    @sourwasabi8492 Год назад

    Just found out that genji dance emote is from the kinjaz

  • @jleigh404
    @jleigh404 Год назад +14

    Agree with Bart 100% a person likes what they like. Even those that are weird acting and have fetishes it’s still a thing they like. There are weird people and normal people in every aspect of life. Also i am attracted to Asian looks, find monolid eyes, and the facial bone structure absolutely beautiful men and women. I am Eastern European American blonde hair and blue eyes and i am just not attracted to men with light hair and light eyes, too common in my life, different is just so much hotter in my opinion.

  • @KingConha
    @KingConha Год назад

    I think especially during these times, people are highly obsessed with virtue signalling and it definitely became more prevalent since cancel culture became a thing

  • @LavenderLibran
    @LavenderLibran Год назад

    Nope, definitely didn't learn anything from this conversation, but I did get some good laughs in. 😂
    It's like this, I know y'all are trying to keep things light and funny, but I swear, when y'all have these conversations about complex issues, you should have professionals help you navigate them.
    Also, different perspectives help. This conversation felt pretty one-sided because no one was there to challenge you on some of the things that were said.
    Anyway, like I said, I love the show. ❤

    • @boredagain1
      @boredagain1 Год назад

      You obviously want the female perspective so why don't you just admit that??

    • @LavenderLibran
      @LavenderLibran Год назад

      @@boredagain1 No, there are plenty of all female shows out, I like this show specifically because it's mostly men. But the number of times they admitted to being confused about how to even define fetishization, and the difference between fetishization and preference was clearly a call for help. Lol. Having an expert with a good sense of humor would've been beneficial.

  • @MrCowabungaDude
    @MrCowabungaDude Год назад

    (What is Asian Fetishization?)Exploiting stereotypes in public and using an instance of quality to further entertain and broaden simple observation that may seem Asian’esc yet not normally talked about when out and about.

  • @MoYeah3
    @MoYeah3 Год назад

    From Burma 🇲🇲 here let’s gooo 😂

  • @wavyjuicehq
    @wavyjuicehq Год назад +1

    my 2 cents:
    if someone loves me because i am black, all i have to do is ask “why?” and their answer will make it okay
    it’s the specifics that help, if they just say “because you’re hot” then i dunno, i’ll still let it slide cuz im a horn dog, but if they drop specific attributes of being black or any other race that they love, then it makes it more acceptable and less problematic

  • @SS-vt1hb
    @SS-vt1hb Год назад

    CAN YOU PLEASE COVER THE POISON MUSHROOM LADY STORY IN AUSTRALIA

  • @ryebread869
    @ryebread869 Год назад +1

    it's the objectification that is wrong and fetishisation

  • @AL-fo3jj
    @AL-fo3jj Год назад

    @16:30 Joe talking about himself lol

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner Год назад +7

    Women who were like omg he thinks I’m hot because I’m Asian. Do you prefer someone who just thinks you’re not hot because you’re Asian? 😂 he thinks you’re hot, be happy 😂. I can’t even count how many times I had men say I was a hot Latina woman, and I said thank you 😂 it’s a compliment.

    • @Mr-pn2eh
      @Mr-pn2eh Год назад +2

      It probably depends on who you ask.

  • @rybo510
    @rybo510 Год назад +5

    💚💚💚💚

  • @AsianCurls
    @AsianCurls Год назад

    "You know girls with long legs are dumb"
    -- Joe 😂😂

  • @black4pienus
    @black4pienus 5 месяцев назад

    I think you can also just really feel/enjoy a culture that isn't yours. That has nothing to do with naked timez. Like how Joe likes the laid back vibes in Hawaii. Doesn't mean he wants to F every Hawaiian girl just because they're from Hawaii. Sometimes a certain culture just fits with our personality. Can we just celebrate each other's culture without people judging the F out of us?

  • @ellapark8770
    @ellapark8770 Год назад

    Lmao Joe 😂😂😂

  • @licknuu
    @licknuu Год назад

    Folks really just wanna virtue signal like it’s a damn competition sometimes. Poor commenter dude likes what he likes, respectfully!

  • @briangonzalez9824
    @briangonzalez9824 Год назад

    We need STEVE ON THE STREETS @4:45 ! It should be a jk series

  • @dragunmami5126
    @dragunmami5126 Год назад

    1:37 😂🫰🏼

  • @STARFLEETC0MMAND
    @STARFLEETC0MMAND Год назад +1

    My Bias Is Cute Kpop Chicks, Some Of Them Look Like Anime Characters or Asian Versions Of Precious Moments Characters.

  • @lamThinker
    @lamThinker Год назад +2

    We were at this party, mostly us asians, and this wanna be DJ guy opens up his laptop and there like 20 tabs of Asian p*rn lol. It was awkaward and dude never came around again 😅

    • @Mr-pn2eh
      @Mr-pn2eh Год назад

      Did he pull that up on purpose or did he forget to close the tabs and was like, "oh crap"

  • @kaptainzdragon5478
    @kaptainzdragon5478 Год назад

    Yes

  • @MelissC0101
    @MelissC0101 Год назад

    I gotta get that Ben Davis shirtRrrrr!!!

  • @markpingol7279
    @markpingol7279 Год назад +1

    They want to get Anthony so he’s always on JK lol

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner Год назад +1

    Ello gov’na 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Steve is wild

  • @ricenoodles632
    @ricenoodles632 Год назад

    The only thing that should matter is how you end up in a dysfunctional relationship. Anything else is woke bs

  • @M00nLady
    @M00nLady Год назад

    anthony looks faded lol

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster Год назад

    Its ok for good looking people

  • @loganrogers1274
    @loganrogers1274 Год назад +3

    Anthony seem tense asf

  • @kingkinit8120
    @kingkinit8120 Год назад

    Steve Filipinas are Mexican adjacent though, i think. Lol

  • @PXACE
    @PXACE Год назад

    Anthony is the only one who ever has logical answers...the rest are always just spewing subjective viewpoints that puts them at the same level of what they're argument is originally about.

    • @PXACE
      @PXACE Год назад

      If you don't want to spew subjective viewpoints, why not open up into looking into both side of the arguments instead of just one-sided. For me I can see why this was viewed as fetishization. E.G., what do you think would happen if you walked into the hood in Inglewood or Crenshaw and said, "I love Black people?" Do you think they would take offense to that and why? If you objectify a race, it does sound pretty offensive, if not weird. If you like a race of peoples for whatever reason, that reason should be your case in point, instead of just flat out saying I love this race, because it doesn't have any point in value, hence objectifying or fetishization can be pointed out as the case here. This is mainly for Ryan, although some of the others have a share in it too, but you shouldn't slander your own kind and then try to justify it with subjective opinions, because you become a lower intellectual being than those you are arguing about, making your argument irrelevant to theirs. It's a debate that goes no where. That's my two cents.

    • @supercal3944
      @supercal3944 Год назад

      I’m new to the channel btw, I don’t know their names yet but is Anthony the Hispanic dude with the beard?

    • @PXACE
      @PXACE Год назад

      @@supercal3944 No, that guy is you Ryan!😝

  • @jhc577
    @jhc577 Год назад +2

    bro wtf was bart tryna say with that police thing 😂😂

    • @jhc577
      @jhc577 Год назад +2

      i mean anthony*

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Год назад +4

      lol omg that was hilarious. They keep trying to "trap" Anthony into saying something outrages for the shorts and reels. 🤣🤣

    • @shad0wCh8ser
      @shad0wCh8ser Год назад +4

      just keep hitting that brightness for the screen... 🤣

    • @Mr-pn2eh
      @Mr-pn2eh Год назад +1

      ​@@bethnichols2875it's a inside joke between anthony and the careful boyz

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Год назад

      @@Mr-pn2eh I am well aware of that, that is why I said it.😏

  • @mzkarma6751
    @mzkarma6751 Год назад

    i’ll dance with u at a club anthony lee but ur wife has to be okay with im also a dancer 👊🏾

  • @tyedyesamurai75
    @tyedyesamurai75 Год назад +6

    The thing is you guys are really young and you guys didn't really see that whole fetishizing Asian thing happen way back in the in the early '80s.

    • @jw7268
      @jw7268 Год назад +7

      We in 2023. The ones that used to do that can barely make out an Asian girl from a fridge. Move on and pick up some positivity.

    • @Max25670
      @Max25670 Год назад +1

      All these guys are nearly 40. What are you talking about?

    • @kEaNeKlEiBeR
      @kEaNeKlEiBeR Год назад +2

      lol i just watch big trouble in little China for the first time and i think i can empathize with you 😅😂🤣

    • @tyedyesamurai75
      @tyedyesamurai75 Год назад

      @@Max25670 I'm 48 and I am talking about when I was about 5 to 6 years old. Are you Asian?

    • @JustKiddingNews
      @JustKiddingNews  Год назад +2

      Lol bro I’ll take that as a compliment 😂

  • @kermitmemes8822
    @kermitmemes8822 Год назад

    15:22 steve knows wtf is up.

  • @Joshua-mv5zp
    @Joshua-mv5zp Год назад

    All of it is just ignorance.

  • @Nickylilbitofeverything
    @Nickylilbitofeverything Год назад

    My whole life I've dated all the colors of the rainbow (even women) but I've always only been in long term relationships with blonde hair and blue eyed men. And now I have a baby with one. So I guess I have a type

  • @ninebyten112
    @ninebyten112 Год назад +6

    👋

  • @frankoceazz
    @frankoceazz Год назад

    Had a dude at a hookup app tell me “I wish you’re Japanese instead” because of his fetishist ideals about Japanese men being kinky AF. Lol. Totally missed out. He probably doesn’t know what Filipinos can do and how well we do it. 🐒

  • @KJ-ek2ze
    @KJ-ek2ze Год назад

    There is a race of women, im not going to name names because people get their feelings hurt, but there is a race of women that are pursued by men around the world.....and ive never heard them complain or call it being fetishied. Which just adds another reason to why they are my favorite as well. They dont care if you dont exclusively date them either.

  • @healmeimhurt-.-
    @healmeimhurt-.- Год назад

    🤣☠️🤣☠️

  • @Yinteaberry
    @Yinteaberry Год назад

    Yes hot ppl complain. They still want to feel seen for who they are, not what they look like

  • @arneilmarquez
    @arneilmarquez Год назад

    Passport bros arent fetishizing. They find girls in cultures that fit their type. Girls in northamerica are different than girls in eastern europe and in asia.

  • @wanglee21
    @wanglee21 Год назад

    Fetishization, all women seek high earning men who are tall and handsome. It's just a "hype word." My ex was Filipina and everyone in the Philippines what adore their daughters dating White Americans.

    • @pidgy_poofoom
      @pidgy_poofoom 13 дней назад

      eww whites? not all. dont flatter yourself too much

  • @Mas-ij3ti
    @Mas-ij3ti Год назад +1

    Lets not pretend its just as common for people to marry for money in the US. I might be wrong but i think the "passport bro movement" is about western women being less feminine/traditional than eastern women.