I kind of understand why OP was hurt. Lisa distanced herself from OP and constantly lied about being busy instead of being honest about dating Ryan. What I dont understand is why they continue to communicate with each other? When Lisa described how Ryan was acting, OP said " now you know how I've felt my whole life". I wouldn't be surprised if OP told Lisa about how Ryan was before they met. Maybe she thought he wouldn't treat her the same way he treated his own sister. The siblings clearly don't like each other and can hold a grudge. Lisa didn't seem to value the friendship until she needed her. Everyone needs to stay away from each other.
How she left me for my brother ? WHAT ! You'd think she's talking about her lover ..... Betray ? How ? This OP is a nasty piece of work . But saying no to babysitting is always ok .
Unfortunately, sometimes kids suffer for their parents bad judgment. It’s just the way it is ,it is no one else’s responsibility to fill in the gap or shield the child from the consequences of their parent.
@14:46 OP BRINGS THIS DRAMA to her door step. She answers phone calls knowing her family and how they act. She opens the door knowing the mother and how she operates. She answers the phone when Lisa calls attempting to be that fake friend only to want something for free. It's simple don't answer the phone. Don't open the door. Just grey rock them
Family is the price we pay for not being called orphans. Highly overpriced! The moment the POS Ryan dumped the child in your arms you were supposed to call the police.
Seriously, the bestie had absolutely no loyalty except to her vagina. Ryan was always self-centered, so no surprise there. The product of the toxic trash is innocent but not ops problem or responsibility.
Story 1 - The OP is a jealous, selfish AH. Ryan and Lisa did not betray her by falling in love with each other. She needs to grow up and get over herself and her issues.
Nothing like this has happened to me but why would she be upset that her brother is dating, then marrying, her friend? Is she bisexual and had feelings for her, too? I mean, it isn't like she can dictate that her "best friend" can't date a particular person, especially since he WASN'T an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband or anything, it is just her brother.
I’m confused: why was OP’s brother asking his sister to be his “best man”? Also don’t understand why Op was so against her brother marrying her BF? I would think it would be a good thing because the BF would now be a SIL. She sounds like she was in love with the BF TBH. Also, the comment “Emma needs an aunt in her life” translates as “Emma needs a free babysitter”. Does OP not work ? Why wouldn’t her first response be: “You want me to babysit for free”? These people baffle me. Also, what makes no sense is that Ryan wants Lisa to be a SAHM but is then pressuring his sister to babysit so that Lisa can continue to work and NOT be a SAHM? What? 😳 Am I the only mine who thinks this story makes no sense?
REALLY ?? THEY. BOTH. NEEDED A. BABYSITTING. ??? BEFORE THE. BABY. ISNT EVEN BORN YET ! MOST. NEW. MOTHERS. CANNOT EVEN. LEAVE THEIR. BABIES. SIDE !! LET ALONE. WORKING ON GETTING. RID OF THE BABY ! BEFORE THE. BABIES. 1st. BREATHE ! TRULY. UNBELIEVABLE
Wow, this O.P. is so main character. Bent out shape because best friend and brother date? Granted, they could have handled it better, but get over yourself. Go to wedding, no speech, go elsewhere after ceremony. No contact if you feel like it.
You don't cut me off cause you like my brother. You come to me and talk to me like we have talked any other time. But what you not gone do is guilt trip me into babysitting your child because yall need my help now. Keep the same energy you had when you cut me off for him. I am not obligated to babysit because I'm the aunt.
So, if someone you trusted completely lied to you and snuck around behind your back, wouldn't be a reason to be upset? Wow, your significant other must love that you let them cheat on you if you think lying and sneaking around is acceptable.
Grow the he'll up. Your best friend daring your brother should never gave been a problem. Get dumping you was a problem. Your jealousy is your problem. However after her ditching you, you should have come to terms with it and treated her as a sil. Do not be her co fidant. You will only get yourself in trouble. Tell her you are not best friends anymore and you will not be a sounding board where your brother us involved. Grow a brain and a spine.
So the fact that she lied and snuck around behind ops back to screw ops brother is completely fine? Op should just grow up and not have any feelings because bf and brother screwing led to feelings? You are one of two people, either you are the sl*t who betrayed your best friend or you're a doormat. I really hope you are just a doormat, but your comment says otherwise.
AITA for refusing to praise my brother and ex-best friend, now they want free babysitting?
ruclips.net/video/FMDFD1n-0Ts/видео.html
It’s not up to OP to suddenly be their nanny. People with kids have to realize the rest of the world aren’t their co-parents….
I kind of understand why OP was hurt. Lisa distanced herself from OP and constantly lied about being busy instead of being honest about dating Ryan. What I dont understand is why they continue to communicate with each other? When Lisa described how Ryan was acting, OP said " now you know how I've felt my whole life". I wouldn't be surprised if OP told Lisa about how Ryan was before they met. Maybe she thought he wouldn't treat her the same way he treated his own sister. The siblings clearly don't like each other and can hold a grudge. Lisa didn't seem to value the friendship until she needed her. Everyone needs to stay away from each other.
I don´t think that the brother and friend betrayed her by getting together BUT she is not obligated to help them with their child.
How she left me for my brother ? WHAT ! You'd think she's talking about her lover ..... Betray ? How ? This OP is a nasty piece of work . But saying no to babysitting is always ok .
What in the world is a man of honor, especially if you are a female?
This story got rewritten and gender swapped.
@@phillipschwoerke8374 most of these stories are repeats, occasionally with edits.
@@casualobserver7867 True- this is just a bad edit 🙂
It should read, “best woman,” which is still silly.
Unfortunately, sometimes kids suffer for their parents bad judgment. It’s just the way it is ,it is no one else’s responsibility to fill in the gap or shield the child from the consequences of their parent.
@14:46
OP BRINGS THIS DRAMA to her door step.
She answers phone calls knowing her family and how they act.
She opens the door knowing the mother and how she operates.
She answers the phone when Lisa calls attempting to be that fake friend only to want something for free.
It's simple don't answer the phone. Don't open the door. Just grey rock them
Exactly!
Thank you.
Bottom line Op had a crush on her friend and is salty the friend went for her brother, that's why she felt so betrayed
OP is an immature brat. They spent all that time talking about being betrayed but didn’t say what their problem was
Run from this mess and live a happy life without them.
Family is the price we pay for not being called orphans. Highly overpriced! The moment the POS Ryan dumped the child in your arms you were supposed to call the police.
Sounds like you did have feelings for Lisa.
Babysitting is a Grandparents duty in my eyes the fact they want a younger sibling to step up is hilarious!
Nope, not grandparents duty to babysit. Grandparents have lives, too. They should be asked and allowed to say no if necessary.
Not the grandparents duty to babysit, we work full time, and go to the gym like the kids do and have planes also ask and plan in advance
AFTER 1. TIME OF A BABYSITTER ! THEY WOULD NEVER. STOP 🛑. DEPENDING ON A. FREE. NANNY ! EVEN WITH LISA. NOT HAVING A JOB
How big of an idiot do you have to be to get involved in someone else's crazy?
Emma is not your responsibility. Like I said grow a spine.
Seriously, the bestie had absolutely no loyalty except to her vagina. Ryan was always self-centered, so no surprise there. The product of the toxic trash is innocent but not ops problem or responsibility.
Yes, this is true. You said it.
Story 1 - The OP is a jealous, selfish AH. Ryan and Lisa did not betray her by falling in love with each other. She needs to grow up and get over herself and her issues.
OK, but she is not obligated to be babysitter....
Nothing like this has happened to me but why would she be upset that her brother is dating, then marrying, her friend? Is she bisexual and had feelings for her, too? I mean, it isn't like she can dictate that her "best friend" can't date a particular person, especially since he WASN'T an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband or anything, it is just her brother.
EMMA. CANNOT. MISS ! WHAT SHE. HAS NEVER. HAD !
why in the world op doesn't go no contact with her family SMH
I’m confused: why was OP’s brother asking his sister to be his “best man”? Also don’t understand why Op was so against her brother marrying her BF? I would think it would be a good thing because the BF would now be a SIL. She sounds like she was in love with the BF TBH.
Also, the comment “Emma needs an aunt in her life” translates as “Emma needs a free babysitter”. Does OP not work ? Why wouldn’t her first response be: “You want me to babysit for free”? These people baffle me.
Also, what makes no sense is that Ryan wants Lisa to be a SAHM but is then pressuring his sister to babysit so that Lisa can continue to work and NOT be a SAHM? What? 😳 Am I the only mine who thinks this story makes no sense?
Let the mom takes care of her granddaughter.
WHY OP OPEN THE Door????!!!! 😠
REALLY ?? THEY. BOTH. NEEDED A. BABYSITTING. ??? BEFORE THE. BABY. ISNT EVEN BORN YET ! MOST. NEW. MOTHERS. CANNOT EVEN. LEAVE THEIR. BABIES. SIDE !! LET ALONE. WORKING ON GETTING. RID OF THE BABY ! BEFORE THE. BABIES. 1st. BREATHE ! TRULY. UNBELIEVABLE
child protective services!!!!!!
STOP OPENING THE DOOR!!!
Wow, this O.P. is so main character. Bent out shape because best friend and brother date? Granted, they could have handled it better, but get over yourself. Go to wedding, no speech, go elsewhere after ceremony. No contact if you feel like it.
You don't cut me off cause you like my brother. You come to me and talk to me like we have talked any other time. But what you not gone do is guilt trip me into babysitting your child because yall need my help now. Keep the same energy you had when you cut me off for him. I am not obligated to babysit because I'm the aunt.
This whole thing sounds like an one sided lesbian love affair.
My thoughts exactly
They just want to use you
Anna is a girl and Lisa a girl, were they partners? Why would anna be upset if Lisa and Ryan got together.
Agree. If my brother married my best friend, I would be delighted. Best SIL ever….
I don't get why she is upset! Unless she is a lesbian. If not then she needs to get a life and be happy for them. Grow up! 😮
OP sounds like hard work, very selfish!!
He's a doormat. Stupid too.
You are being immature. There is nothing wrong with them falling in live
Part of me agrees but the problem with a sibling date another sibling friend especially a best friend you might have to pick a side if they break up.
So, if someone you trusted completely lied to you and snuck around behind your back, wouldn't be a reason to be upset? Wow, your significant other must love that you let them cheat on you if you think lying and sneaking around is acceptable.
Grow the he'll up. Your best friend daring your brother should never gave been a problem. Get dumping you was a problem. Your jealousy is your problem. However after her ditching you, you should have come to terms with it and treated her as a sil. Do not be her co fidant. You will only get yourself in trouble. Tell her you are not best friends anymore and you will not be a sounding board where your brother us involved. Grow a brain and a spine.
So the fact that she lied and snuck around behind ops back to screw ops brother is completely fine? Op should just grow up and not have any feelings because bf and brother screwing led to feelings? You are one of two people, either you are the sl*t who betrayed your best friend or you're a doormat. I really hope you are just a doormat, but your comment says otherwise.