I came here after seeing your husband’s wedding video. You guys are infectious. I am learning so much from you. You look beautiful without makeup, you have great skin
Mommy you look cutest in this either natural or whatever thing on your face,PLEASE IT THIS SWEET AND CLEAN...YOU GOT THIS UNMISSABLE GLORIOUS GLOW SUNSHINE♡♥︎♡♡
This really made me realise how women and men think differently about stuff, to the point where we sometimes have to agree to disagree. This opened my eyes. I am of the opinion that pressure is on both sides but for different things. Thank you for sharing both of your opinipns and standing on it firmly. I like that regardless of your disagreements, you still love one another🤗💛
As a woman, i feel that men have more pressure, to always make more money than the woman, provide, be a protector and leader, a guide, a beam of light on the trajectory of the relationship and family. God has given the man responsibility to build his household such that he will be held accountable if his family is not living according to godly principles. Basically as a leader, his affairs (including family) will rise and all on him and his ability to walk accurately with the will of God- That is a LOT Of PRESSURE. Ladies pray for your husbands🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thompson is very right, see ehn most ladies will not marry a guy that isn’t fully settled because they don’t want to suffer. I’m a lady and I’m not under pressure, but I won’t settle with a man that isn’t settled to an extent. Note: I’m a Believer
mama yes women have lots of pressure, but from my experience and as a married woman, even with both people in the relationship understanding each other, Oga is right that the society's pressure is far more on the men.
Yes both are right...but more pressure is on the guys to provide....I have my pressure of doing chores and raising the kids sometimes it's too much work,it overwhelmes you sometimes and another pressure is having my own money to help him because am unemployed....but more pressure is on my partner because he has to provide for me and my children...
To be honest the pressure is more on guys that why God told Issac to take his children and live his fathers house. In Nigeria there are house wifes but just 1% house husband. A man is the provider of the house the woman can support on her own convince. (In Nigeria sha o) but every body can make their own standard and what they want
I am of the view and opinion that pressure is more on men than women; for men pressure is always in the aspect of money and security while for women it’s in the aspect of marriage and children
Your husband has a stronger point that what is expected from the guys is much more cos they are providers that's the truth. For you beautiful sister, I understand your point, you are a strong woman who wants to be independently also financially ok that's why you think ladies are also under pressure but ladies have pressure more on marriage that to be financially independent
I think pressure is on both parties now...guys also want ladies who can work and provide in the house. Ladies are pressured to get married when they would have reached a marriageable age,to bear kids from the inlaws to even endure the marriage just beacause of what people will say when you leave your marriage on the other hand guys are pressured to man up and marry
Lol...ladies and women as the case may be, go through pressures too... Lol..yeah I said pressures,,cuz d pressure on females is massive believe me Lots of Women are under so much pressure to make money,, to be independent,, to work and depend on no man.... A lady who is an only child or d first child for instance,,,would be under so much pressure to be very wealthy and ,influential to cater for the needs of the family.. Women go through lots of pressure,,even more than men.. Like mama has said,,pressure to look good,pressure to stay in shape after giving birth,,pressure to not be labelled weak because you are female,,pressure to get married,,pressure to give birth,,pressure to take care of the husband and the kids,,pressure to have a career even while taking care of d home,,pressure to help in d home with money,,u don't want to be a burden to your husband.... So much pressure..we experience all d pressure men experience and even more....
Even pressure to be well behaved... Our society favors men and feel men can do whatever and go away with it.. But as a woman you are also under so much pressure to be well behaved... Else d whole world will come for you.. Omoh na women dey go through this pressure thing pass....
Mrs Thompson is still reasoning from abroad perspective,this is naija oooo no woman want to suffer and a man needs some basic things before marriage.cute couple
To add, that's why marriages have gone so wrong because women worry about providing when it is biblically the man's responsibility and at times that is why it is a bit difficult for rich ladies to get partners because we women have now stepped in and possessing roles previously made for men. My beautiful sister you have a good mind but that should not pressure you to acquire much more financially, you can acquire things materially however it's more tough on guys because it is by fact that it Is expected that guys take care of their women.
‘More’ is relative to be honest. Women in their own way deal with just as much financial pressure as men. With men, the pressure is always financially inclined or how they take care! Women deal with so much! It’s just sad that society puts men on the spot. It’s not easy on any front. Again ‘more’ is relative.
I actually sit with your husband on this one ma. If one person is excused in marriages and relationships especially on pressure to provide, it’s most likely the woman. The pressure to ‘provide’ is more on the same way pressure to procreate is on women. Just as societally “age is not on our side for marriage”, “age is not on their side for financial independence” I think the biggest issue is how pressure on the men is fueled and the emotional effect is belittled by society. The moment an average man feels the need to ‘take a break’, he’s seen as lazy. When women need to take a break, we call it ‘Soft life’
I think it’s a 50/50 thing……balancing it both personally and with a partner is what matter … my opinion oo… please who is contributing to environmental noise in the back ground 😅😅😅
For me If CHRIST JESUS Is not over that relationships not married and married. The pressure falls on everybody. Because Jesus Christ Is not the Center of the 3 fold cord. But with the married If you are unequally yoke. Then Is more pressure on both man and woman.
You are BOTH right. It's pressure on each side. Henrietta you're natural face is soooo BEAUTIFUL😍 Much love from the U.S.🇺🇸
Very true .Your Natural look is very beautiful 😍. Greetings from Chicago ❤️
Yes, as an unmarried woman it was good to hear both of your personal views. Also, your skin is truly healthy and glowing.
I came here after seeing your husband’s wedding video. You guys are infectious. I am learning so much from you. You look beautiful without makeup, you have great skin
My favorite couples!!
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The societal pressure to provide financially is on more on the man..
But the pressure to keep a marriage and look good physically is on the woman.
Henrietta you look sooo good😭♥️💗
Daddy V I agree with you as regards most ladies not wanting to start from the scratch....
Story for another day
Mommy you look cutest in this either natural or whatever thing on your face,PLEASE IT THIS SWEET AND CLEAN...YOU GOT THIS UNMISSABLE GLORIOUS GLOW SUNSHINE♡♥︎♡♡
This really made me realise how women and men think differently about stuff, to the point where we sometimes have to agree to disagree. This opened my eyes. I am of the opinion that pressure is on both sides but for different things. Thank you for sharing both of your opinipns and standing on it firmly. I like that regardless of your disagreements, you still love one another🤗💛
I absolutely LOVE how Mrs Thompson respects and loves her husband.
As a woman, i feel that men have more pressure, to always make more money than the woman, provide, be a protector and leader, a guide, a beam of light on the trajectory of the relationship and family. God has given the man responsibility to build his household such that he will be held accountable if his family is not living according to godly principles. Basically as a leader, his affairs (including family) will rise and all on him and his ability to walk accurately with the will of God- That is a LOT Of PRESSURE. Ladies pray for your husbands🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I like that you guys are rooted and grounded in christ..👍
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I key into VT's point of view
Laughed at the beginning 😁😁 I love your felicitations
And.. the pressure is on both sides. Plus you're looking really beautiful ❤️❤️
Abeg go joor!
You guys are just too sweet abeg🧁🎂❤️
Love you loads🥰🌹
You are very beautiful dear I like you people keep it up and glory to God❤😂❤❤❤❤❤🎉😂😂😊 you put smile on my face
Thompson is very right, see ehn most ladies will not marry a guy that isn’t fully settled because they don’t want to suffer. I’m a lady and I’m not under pressure, but I won’t settle with a man that isn’t settled to an extent. Note: I’m a Believer
Pressure to make money and give security to the woman and the family😁
Which person you go support before 🙄🙄
You guys are both right because some people will be on your side and some on your husband's side
AWESOME KOOL OOOO NIJA NOR SETTLE YET SO THAT IS WHY GUYS NOR FIT SETTLE
Henny I'm with you ohh, ah women pressure na die
Beautiful couple.
Preasure is on both parties.
mama yes women have lots of pressure, but from my experience and as a married woman, even with both people in the relationship understanding each other, Oga is right that the society's pressure is far more on the men.
thank you today was needed and your nail is nice
Thank you 😍
Both plss❤❤
Love that you guys travelled together 🙌🏻❤️
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Yes both are right...but more pressure is on the guys to provide....I have my pressure of doing chores and raising the kids sometimes it's too much work,it overwhelmes you sometimes and another pressure is having my own money to help him because am unemployed....but more pressure is on my partner because he has to provide for me and my children...
To be honest the pressure is more on guys that why God told Issac to take his children and live his fathers house. In Nigeria there are house wifes but just 1% house husband. A man is the provider of the house the woman can support on her own convince. (In Nigeria sha o) but every body can make their own standard and what they want
See how VT came through😂😂😂
I am of the view and opinion that pressure is more on men than women; for men pressure is always in the aspect of money and security while for women it’s in the aspect of marriage and children
Keep the pressure , mio no one can pressure me .
Felicitations my darlings 😂😂😂
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Your husband has a stronger point that what is expected from the guys is much more cos they are providers that's the truth. For you beautiful sister, I understand your point, you are a strong woman who wants to be independently also financially ok that's why you think ladies are also under pressure but ladies have pressure more on marriage that to be financially independent
😍😍😍😍I love you both so much!
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We Both have pressure differences ways
Yes we do🥰
You guys are awesome 🤩
Truth be told men have more pressure
I think pressure is on both parties now...guys also want ladies who can work and provide in the house. Ladies are pressured to get married when they would have reached a marriageable age,to bear kids from the inlaws to even endure the marriage just beacause of what people will say when you leave your marriage on the other hand guys are pressured to man up and marry
Thank you!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Lol...ladies and women as the case may be, go through pressures too...
Lol..yeah I said pressures,,cuz d pressure on females is massive believe me
Lots of Women are under so much pressure to make money,, to be independent,, to work and depend on no man....
A lady who is an only child or d first child for instance,,,would be under so much pressure to be very wealthy and ,influential to cater for the needs of the family..
Women go through lots of pressure,,even more than men..
Like mama has said,,pressure to look good,pressure to stay in shape after giving birth,,pressure to not be labelled weak because you are female,,pressure to get married,,pressure to give birth,,pressure to take care of the husband and the kids,,pressure to have a career even while taking care of d home,,pressure to help in d home with money,,u don't want to be a burden to your husband....
So much pressure..we experience all d pressure men experience and even more....
Even pressure to be well behaved...
Our society favors men and feel men can do whatever and go away with it..
But as a woman you are also under so much pressure to be well behaved...
Else d whole world will come for you..
Omoh na women dey go through this pressure thing pass....
You guys are so sweet
Men ooo.. we have more pressure than the other gender oooo...
Mrs Thompson is still reasoning from abroad perspective,this is naija oooo no woman want to suffer and a man needs some basic things before marriage.cute couple
Hmmmmm...OK oo
Just realized u guys look alike!
🤣🤣🤣May be because I'm not wearing makeup
You guys are an amazing couple, more blessings...
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Mr victor is always going,but next episode he is coming to sit with you😂😂
its ok to disagree, you both have a point though
Men only have pressure when they choose to but a woman has no choice,she is naturally in pressure from kids, husband and everyone else
I agree with VT.
To add, that's why marriages have gone so wrong because women worry about providing when it is biblically the man's responsibility and at times that is why it is a bit difficult for rich ladies to get partners because we women have now stepped in and possessing roles previously made for men. My beautiful sister you have a good mind but that should not pressure you to acquire much more financially, you can acquire things materially however it's more tough on guys because it is by fact that it Is expected that guys take care of their women.
You are beautiful Maa🤩😍
Thank you 😍
Yeah, the blames alway goes to the women
Seriously on this one I Support my Brother, Men are more Pressured, than the Women.
Omo, I'm I the only one seeing this baby face?? 🥺
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I luv u ma,that's my idea too,it's not always absolute,Dnt knw y they can't marry someone n let's work this thing out together
‘More’ is relative to be honest. Women in their own way deal with just as much financial pressure as men. With men, the pressure is always financially inclined or how they take care! Women deal with so much! It’s just sad that society puts men on the spot. It’s not easy on any front. Again ‘more’ is relative.
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Can I be a part of your amazing staff🥰😒 please?
Sis I thought that u have forgotten us ooo lol
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God Abeg o😖😖😖
I’m already under pressure!
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I actually sit with your husband on this one ma.
If one person is excused in marriages and relationships especially on pressure to provide, it’s most likely the woman.
The pressure to ‘provide’ is more on the same way pressure to procreate is on women.
Just as societally “age is not on our side for marriage”, “age is not on their side for financial independence”
I think the biggest issue is how pressure on the men is fueled and the emotional effect is belittled by society.
The moment an average man feels the need to ‘take a break’, he’s seen as lazy.
When women need to take a break, we call it ‘Soft life’
I intend to block you on this RUclips like this...I just don't know how "Judassa" 🙄🙄
Thank You!!! Thank You!!!!!!
@@henriettathompson you didn’t see I called you “Ma”… I’m in stranger mode ma..
I’m just a fan
@@kikiefebo7383 Miss Judas.🙄
I think it’s a 50/50 thing……balancing it both personally and with a partner is what matter … my opinion oo… please who is contributing to environmental noise in the back ground 😅😅😅
EXACTLY!! 50-50 oooo...na construction site we dey oo🤣🤣
For me If CHRIST JESUS Is not over that relationships not married and married. The pressure falls on everybody. Because Jesus Christ Is not the Center of the 3 fold cord. But with the married If you are unequally yoke. Then Is more pressure on both man and woman.
Absolutely!👍
@@henriettathompson Amen to God be all the Glory🔥💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️ It’s truly truly all Jesus💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥
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