I appreciate this so much. I had a horrible experience as a kid. I was afraid and started crying and my dentist was screaming at me to shut up. When a grown ass man is screaming at you to shut up, it makes you even more uneasy. Really awful guy, but I thank you for being kind and reassuring to your patients ❤
I got scared one time over a filling. I ran out of the office. They followed me and proceeded to threaten me to make me go back inside. Said if I didn't get the filling, all my teeth would fall out. I was fucking SIX
as a parent, i would have absolutely sent that dentist straight to the icu for pulling that shit. people who are too stupid to treat kids like people shouldn't be around them, period.
Same, let’s leave that toxic behavior to past generations and give children today the kind of treatment this dentist gave her ❤ 20 years later and I still do not regret biting my orthodontist 😂
Most women do. Women's pain is often dismissed in the healthcare industry. Hence why female patients aren't given anesthesia or even pain medication for gynecological procedures such as uterine biopsies, endometrial biopsies, cervical biopsies or IUD insertions. Meanwhile, male patients are given anesthesia and a week's worth of strong opioid medication for testicular biopsies, prostate biopsies, and vasectomies. Women's healthcare is barbaric and inhumane.
Just watching this video almost triggered an anxiety attack. F-kers scared my parents into thinking I'd be taken away if I didn't go through, too, so after I bolted my dad had to pull me in by my feet with a potted palm tree dragging with me. And that was the EXPERTS in scared kids. Eugh, Eastman you monsters. Last three baby teeth molars got seriously infected one after another and I chose the pain until I got them out myself.
I started going to a dental school and they were a lot more receptive to my needs as a neurodivergent and when I needed breaks and to get up and move during a cavity filling 🥰 totally recommend
The “look at me” is the most gentle way to “force” someone to understand that you are not a threat. Eye contact avoidance will reinforce in her mind that He = pain and fear. The direct eye contact during moments of communication and not pain will reinforce that he is NOT a threat and not the source of the pain/fear, and she will have reduced or no anxiety upon seeing him. A dentist that can work like this has a deep understanding of psychology and how our base mammalian instincts work, and THAT is worth its weight in gold.
It is a part of dental school. We are taught a bit of Child Psychology and all those theories and methods to deal with different types of kids. Everybody is taught those. But only some like Dr. John Yoo imply in real life. Which is why he is kids' and people's favourite.
@@sobiasiddiquie No matter hat you are taught you have to know that you inflict trauma on people. I don’t know how you do such a morbid job. Inflicting pain on children. I understand that it’s not all but you must be aware not all pain thresholds are the same and there are those for whine experiences like this are nothing but traumatic no matter your kind words
@@Soph3_08 This is such a silly comment. Blame the parents for there genetics? If you have ever studied pain you will understand that there are people who don’t feel pain very much at all and then those in the other end of the spectrum who feel pain very severely, these people do not respond to the injections, they still feel l Everything, modern dentistry (and other medical areas also) have no answers for these people. They regularly wake up during operations because even anaesthesiologists can not keep them asleep. So these people as children FEEL EVERYTHING. If you are one of those people who don’t feel pain at all or for whom an injection is no big deal, you will never understand . What they do to these kids is TRAUMATIC no matter what sweet things they say and do
For me eye contact is an intimate thing. It’s only something im comfortable with when it’s with friends, pets, family and close relations. Otherwise it feels really uncomfortable for me, rawrtism strikes again
They go deeeeep into your fucking jaw. My dentist does a strong topical numbing gel first, but I can still feel the medicine going in and it’s so unpleasant
Same! Full blown intense ass panic attacks where I'm hysterically crying and shaking. I had to get a tooth pulled and wanted to be sedated. NO ONE would sedate me other than the hospital which was another 9 months out and I already waited a year while my tooth slowly broke off and it was about to fall out on its own it was so lose. So I HAD to get it pulled that day. I FREAKED tf out, no one would go with me to help me stay calm so I was completely alone with a tooth pulling place with dentists I didn't know, the male dentist that pulled my tooth gave me the injections and stopped after to let my mouth numb, but I also had an infection where they injected so I didn't know it was going to BURN extremely bad and it caused me to flip out worse and I thought he was pulling the tooth when it started burning but he didn't. He also let me take as much time as I needed, checked on me, and his assistant did as well. He did some mind tricks I swear he had to of known some psychology because he talked me through my panic attacks while distracting my mind so I couldn't focus on my fears and freak myself out more. I'm my own worse enemy sometimes and he was incredible. Of course after it was an intense rush of emotions so I just lost it crying but was ok and more calm. Still have a fear of dental work but it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. We need more dentists and assistants that understand and help calm people down instead of being rude and brushing us off. Everyone is different. Some people can come in and are like the freaking hulk, do whatever u need and don't flinch, others get in a dentist chair and have severe panic attacks and meltdowns before the work even starts. We need to normalize fear and that it's ok to be scared or whatever emotions you feel are valid.
@@chelseajensen8842 I used to get so crazy jittery when they injected the novocaine, that my Dentist said I was probably allergic to the epinephrine in the stuff. (I think it's in there to stem bleeding from the inj itself)... So now when I make an appt, I remind them I can't tolerate it and to make sure they have the plain one on hand. Have you inquired if you could be allergic/sensitive to the numbing agent? I used to work with a Physicians Asst who the Dr taught to anesthetize patients for foot surgery. She NEVER let it hurt!! She took her time, and literally injected the needle ¼"(or less) at a time, waiting for each part to become numb before going in another ¼" and injecting numbing agent into just the already-numb part. I'm sure she used more stuff than average, bc in the length of time to slowly numb the entire forefoot in this manner, for example, it could possibly start wearing off before surgery completed! The crazy part was she wasn't certified, just trained by her boss. This was way long ago, before they even had Physician's Assistant Certificates, let alone Degrees. Anyhoo, you might relate this idea to future dentists (Never go back to a crappy dentist! I wdnt pay them either, LOL)
I'm a certified dental assistant and let me tell you, this man is pure gold. I gave up my career years ago due to the way the dentists I worked for would treat their patients. So when I see a good one with a heart, it warms me to my core.
@MaryamJani-zu8qs Because I couldn't work for someone who just pushed the high dollar items on everyone including people who can't afford it. It didn't feel right. I want to like who I see in the mirror and feel good about making people smile.
This man needs a raise because this man does a great job encouraging all of these scared children in the middle of their dentist appointments we need more dentist like this
It ain’t as bad as before they have that numbing cream to kind of numb the shot site. My dentist as a kid would threaten me with more shots smh 🤦♀️ that’s my reason I was so scared for so long.
I completely understand. I have such terrible dentist anxiety. Even as an adult I haven't been able to finish a dentist appointment in years because I can't handle it. I wish the dentists I'd visited were as sweet as this guy.
I’ve always suffered from major “dentist anxiety” as long as I can remember. Back in the day unscrupulous dentists would drill little kid’s perfectly healthy teeth, charge the insurance companies and nobody was the wiser. Now I insist on both Nitrous Oxide (“Laughing Gas”) AND Novocaine!
I have it too😭 it’s really bad and my teeth are terrible because I refuse to go and genetic wise o did not win there for sure😩 it’s terrible because I know it’s dangerous for the whole health.
Fr i was at a dentist having a tooth removed as a kid no anaesthetic and was screaming to stop, bro just kept yanking my tooth out bear in mind the tooth weren't loose or anything
@@Nicole-bt6hj damn….I had a fear of dentists when I was younger and I would hold my moms hand whenever I got nervous but there was this one doctor where he wouldn’t let me hold her hand but he wasn’t bad or anything.
as someone who has so much anxiety with going to the dentists, this made me cry because this is the comfort i needed when i go in for appointments instead of them telling me to stay still and saying they’ll finish when i calm down
Bro the one I went to i took off the nose thingy(it had sleep mist) and my nose was springy it felt weird and they put it back on I cried bc its scared me and they put the straps on it and I was fully strained from any movement it was traumatizing
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this is exactly what i needed as a child. My dentist wasnt horrible but definitely made me feel stupid for crying and freaking out. I still have panic attacks at the dentist and as the years go on i can see him looking like he gets more frustrated with me. I wish I had a dentist as kind as you.
Yeah, u def need to switch dentist's bc fk that! I was never scared if any dentist as a kid bx I had great teeth, but now in my 30s I've had tons of cavities prob half or more due to the methadone I was on, I'm coming off of it now though! But I'm also afraid if the dentist from 1 terrible experience ans panock attacks. It's crucial to have one u trust ans can be honest with. This guy is the DREAM DENTIST SCENARIO.
I had my 1st oral surgery in 2nd grade & many, many more up til 21. Broken palate, gum removal, etc. My anxiety was so bad I didn't go to the dentist for over 25yrs. I've found an amazing dentist who is patient, kind, gentle, & understanding. He just pulled a huge molar today, & while I'm in pain right now, he kept reminding me to breathe & talking me through it. I lost many teeth from lack of care. He singlehandedly has saved every tooth he can. He's even tried new procedures he's yet to do that he'd record & share with this colleagues that worked. Thank you for not traumatizing her more than necessary & being aware of the real fear & pain some people feel especially when we don't even understand what you're doing or why.
Thats how I was until I went to a really good dentist to get my wisdom teeth removed. I was super nervous and scared but he really helped me and calmed me down by talking through it with me and always apologized when he was scaring or hurting me.
I'm 35 and still get that way. I have found one dentist that I absolutely feel no pain from injections. Idk how he does it but it's an absolute miracle. This is what kept me from dentist for years. Trauma from dentist as a child carries on into adulthood. Thanks for talking to her. That helps a whole lot.
Same I'm 30 and have horrible trauma from dental offices as a child. I have to pay for sedation out of pocket for anything more then a cleaning/exam because my panic and anxiety is too bad.
There's also a method to inserting the needle which reduces pain and also giving the anesthetic slowly helps with reducing pain 👍🏾 learnt this from my dad and I also don't feel any pain when he numbs my mouth for an appointment
@@sahejsandhu160 that's great. I didn't find my dentist until a few years ago. I suffered a lot growing up. Ima be sad when he retires bc he's the only one near me that does it perfect.
The tapping, eye contact, and “not going to hurt you” REALLY help calm the instincts she’s experiencing right now ❤ fight or flight with fear. Bless you ❤
I wish I had a dentist as sweet as you. I was traumatized when I was younger and I’ve never trusted my dentist since and it’s terrifying to go. So thank you for making other kids feel safe❤❤
I was traumatised by 2 dentists as a kid. One pulled a tooth while telling me he's not gonna touch it and the other ignored my distress because I wasn't crying or trying to run away. I just remember thinking I have to stay perfectly still and this picture he had on the wall. I worked with a nice lady dentist for a while but her boss was a dude that came in to check on her work dropped my chair without telling me, and had a party through my mouth with out saying a word and scared the shit out of me again. Never went back there after that.
I’m a dental assistant and we had a lady go into a panic attack after an extraction, I went straight into mom mode and started taking care of her. It’s important to know how to do that in any healthcare job I think
@@dystanysam9896 there's nothing wrong with a panic attack you can be any age and u can still get nervous my grandma had panic attacks at the dentist all the time and she was 70 unfoutrenly she's no longer here😔
@@hehwkqlhejwiwpq-6653 my panic attacks are extremely bad I would still break down crying I still have the fear of going. The Dentist , my lasted dentist visit was bad I had ened the Apartment early. I'm sorry for your lost
@@dystanysam9896 it's alt shed in a better place and hers were like that to I'm pretty sure everyone in my family gets one at the dentist it's totally normal
In 5th grade, I had to get some cavities removed, I had about three (my family has always had teeth problems). When I went to the dentist, they told me I had to get FIVE teeth removed. The anesthetic had no effect on me, and four workers held me down, I was screaming, sobbing, writhing in pain, while this dentist drilled my teeth off of my gums. So yeah, glad dentists like this guy exist.
I am so very sorry that this happened! Are you able to go to the dentist now? It’s common to have a lot of anxiety & PTSD after such an ordeal! Blessings
I feel you on a molecular level. I had a tooth pulled right out my gum, while it was still a bit attached. Like 40% was still attached, it was painful, but at least it was quick (The dentist used their hands with gloves on to remove it). And I had more problems before like a cracked tooth, it was in right in the middle of to the corners of the tooth, I had to get an injection right IN my left cheek bone literally, I felt it go in and all, just to remove the fragments that were somehow still connected. And before that to my first ever tooth removal they put anesthetic but it didn't work (they asked if I could feel the area and i said no) and I just wanted to get it over with (and I was a bit socially awkward/a people pleaser basically) so I felt the moment when they took my tooth out and I was in so much pain but held it in🙂 (no tears, no sound, nothing)
BRO the exact same thing happened to me and they used one of those jacket things to tie me down the seat and I was screaming in pain which made me bite one of the doctors and that’s where my fear for going to the dentist started so yeah 🙂
This happened to me as well and I will never forget it cuz if I was able to I would have sued them for doing that and forcing my grandmother to help as well
man if you were my dentist I’d actually be comfortable to go with you and even close my eyes. your comforting and sweet, I really wish more dentists were like you 💞
It's the fact that he understands the fear off people when they're scared and paniced,and then actively cimbatsthat for you my dentist would never be like that she's so lucky to have a dentist like that What an angle
First thing, calming music helps and glad he helped her through it. I am an adult and I cry when I get nervous at the dentist. From anxiety and fear of pain. So, I appreciate him for doing this.
That's so sweet. My dentist had no idea I struggled with anxiety. One of my appointments, I started shaking uncontrollably which is usually the first sign I'm about to go into a panic attack. I told him what was going on and he was so understanding. He even asked how he can help and how it works so he would know what to do if other people had the same issue.
I have anxiety and a HUGE fear of needles and I have to get fillings and me knowing I’m going to have to get a needle I would not go in and I went into the dentist with a red face (because I was crying and I’m a ugly cryer)
As someone with odontophobia, if I had had a dentist/ dental assistant like this growing up, I would hope it would have helped with the fear. I’m still afraid to this day, but I hope more dental professionals can understand the fear and help their patients calm down like this person seemed to.
I'm a grown ass 31 year old adult and I panic, parents fault for not taking when when I was a child I've only just started going, need a hell of alot of work doing, but due to finances and my nerves it's all being done on my terms and when I feel ready but every dentist visit is usually for treatments now its mostly only the injections that make me panic now because that's the worst bit I tend to calm down for the rest
I was awake and got 4 teeth pulled when I was 10 the anesthesia and laughing gas only half worked 😢😢 I love you, it's so good that you are patient with them
Aww this actually made me tear up because doctors and dentists can actually be really scary. You just wanna protect ur body and him saying “I’m not gonna hurt you” was so sweet
My dentist recorded me crying, played it back with the assistants and my mom laughing hysterically. I was 7. 20 years later and the smell of anaesthetics still brings uncontrollably tears to my eyes. It’s heart warming to watch how not to traumatize a child
I love how you make her feel good when you say”Im not gonna hurt you multiple times”❤❤ It’s ok for me to go to the dentist, but when they ask me to open my mouth for the little pad to check whats inside of me, my gag reflexes are bad and I always end up spitting or throwing up, I am now scared to do that again 😢 and i wish the dentist had your method ❤❤❤😊
Omg, he is so kind and caring that it brings tears to my eyes. Growing up i was a shy kid suffering from anxiety and the only thing i heard from adults at the doctor or school or any other scenario that was stressful was to “stop being such a baby” and “suck it up”. As an adult this has hurt my relationships and i still have trouble opening up to people and i mostly withdraw when i’m having a hard time.
I have had the same dentist for 29 years. He treated me as a kid. He is the reason I have never feared the doctor. These interactions are so important for building lifelong trust with health care providers
Lo siento, no solo los asiáticos son buenos, aquí en Colombia también hay médicos excelentes que saben tratar a las personas con amor lo digo desde mi experiencia,
I wish my dentists were like this ! I’m 22, in elementary school when I was about 7/8 I smashed my face on the gym floor at my school. I chipped one of my front teeth really bad from the impact, as well as making my other front tooth wiggly, and a few others. Was a truly horrible experience getting an emergency root canal, I remember the doctors injecting my gums with numbing stuff, but they never warned me so I lifted myself into a bridge almost from the pain and started screaming. Apparently they had to shut the doors to not only my room, but neighbouring rooms as to not scare anyone/other children. Meanwhile, my mom was working (single mom) she picked me up mid shift (she was a private home care aid, and would spend the night on the nights she was working, she wasn’t off until the next day) from school and had to quickly drop me off and then drive back to her clients house and try and get someone to cover and watch after the special needs girl she took care of. I passed out to the dentists talking shit about my hard working mom and how “horrible” of a parent she was for just leaving me there. She was right there when I woke up afterward. I understood what was going on. And I told my mom they were talking about her when I came too and remembered. It was an already scary, tough and painful experience to begin with. The talking shit part made me panic as a child even though I knew what was up as my mom explained it to me before she left and also obviously explained to the dentist/dr.. I wound up having to get a 2nd root canal done on the same front tooth a few years later, and somehow! I still have my original tooth despite being quite literally dead and hanging in my mouth lol. Occasional appointments to take care of any staining, as it’s dead and I guess dead teeth are like that? I’m unsure if I ever want a crown or anything because of that main and first experience with it along with the 2 fillings I’ve had for cavities since. None of my dentists have been this nurturing, and it’s really relieving and refreshing to see care like this being done. Dentists and doctors can be very intimidating for children especially if they’ve never been or have had bad experiences with a different one in the past.
I was terrified of the dentist for years because my very first appointment at the dentist they tied me down. I was freaking out I was like 6 or 7 idk. But I was scared and being difficult. Instead of just rescheduling they literally strapped me down and when I refused to open my mouth they pinched my nose until I opened my mouth to breathe and they shoved something in my mouth to keep it open. It was traumatic. And I didn’t get over my fear of the dentist until I was about 14 or 15. I pray no one has to go through what I went through. Im so glad that man was very kind with her. People don’t understand the effects they can have on people whether it’s good or bad. Much love to the good people out there.
@@Framokamc no my mom was there. She was really angry but took a while before she said anything. Idk why. Maybe she was nervous? Or just wanted to get it over with? Idk. But it was really scary. Thank you for taking the time to respond. I really appreciate it ❤️🥹
@@ImthefkingChupa-ca-dupra yeah my mom was there but it took her a while to say anything to them. I’m not sure why tho. There was a point they left me in the room alone with my mom while I was tied up and I remember crying and begging her to untie me. So when they came back she told them to let me out. We left and never went back there again. But it was traumatizing. 😭💔
I had a dental assistant be like this for me once, she held my hand, wiped my tears, and talked to me about big hero 6. I'll never forget her kindness💖
Went to a dentist who actually cares for the first time when I was 19. I’m 21 and still think about that dentist. He was such a genuine and kind person.
That was me with my most recent dentist. So many dentists and appointments and I prefer my current one so much more. I had to get five cavities filled and yet I would do it all again just cause I loved them.
The fact that he did better than literal Dhhs workers just shows how much he cares ( dhhs for those who dont know is department of human and health services ) in my experience with dhhs it was for them worrying my home wasnt safe so the fact he did better than them mad props to him
@@Number.1Yanfei.Fan123 well yes but there is still always a fear of being hurt like when we where young and our parents said trust me jump ill catch you we where scared still same feeling for her
We call my dentist the "no pain doctor". He is so amazing and Ive had some complex procedures like scaling treatment, root canal, and a bridge across the top 6 teeth (this took several appointments - some that took hours). He always made it comfortable and the time fly. He literally transformed my entire smile and I will forever be grateful to him. When he unveiled it, we both surprised ourselves when we started crying - he immediately excused himself to his office lol. It was a life changing moment for sure. He's about to retire and I'm so sad for that day, but also really glad he'll get to enjoy his golden years.
Thank you for trying to help make it easier and reasure her that it was ok. As a parent I appreciate you for being so patient and caring and treating her the way you would treat your own child. Thanks to all the GREAT HEALTH CARE WORKERS THAT HAVE THE BIGGEST HEART AND TRULY MAKE IT BETTER FOR ALL THE LIVES THEY TOUCH! THANK YOU!
so many people these days go without dental care, not only because they can’t afford it, but because of trauma past dentists have gave them. i highly respect you. a good dentist on your side is everything.
As an autistic adult the dentist is STILL overwhelming to me and most dentists are still just not equipped to deal with crying patients at allll. Kid or otherwise. So thank you for being kind! 💖
Yes! Me freaking out at the dentist when I was 20 years, they just looks wierd at me😔 Is there many Autistic people that struggles with this?? For me it's actually painful tho, even if I get the numbing cream first and local anestetics, but it still hurts😔
I wish all dentists were like that, the last time I went to the dentist which was like 1 month ago, it was a female and she didn’t even talk! She was holding my jaw so hard I thought it would break, applause to all the nice dentists out there👏
It takes a special kind of doctors to treat children. My daughter gets scared when I have to bring her to a see a doctor in the ER or going to the dentist. Needles almost sends her in a panic attack. Her dentist is amazing. He talks to her and shows her what he’s gonna use. The way he explains everything puts her a ease and calm her down. It’s a beautiful this to see.
I love dentists that act like this, it calms me down and truly go with their words. I once went to this dentist office and they where trying to pull out teeth, as you know it hurts and i was a kid, and i kid you not, this dentist held down my head and arm where i was almost falling out the chair, this dentist was also an old man. He was also rude to my mom because she was saying how it does hurt and how she feels my pain, and i actually felt a little better with her words, then the dentist started saying, that just makes it worse, and not helping at all. After that my mother was mad.(They had numbness stuff on my teeth but it wasnt working) We never went back to this dentist office. I do now have more anxiety going to the dentist because of this experience, Im happy with the dentist office i go to now, when i had to get the tooth pulled (originally supposed to be pulled from the other office) they turned on the mini tv moniter and put on a show and put pink headphones on me, and when i tell you i almost feel asleep, i did feel a little pain during it but, they told me the numbness would work and it did, they stayed true to there word, and made me relaxed during it and said i did good.❤ I also had a fear of getting teeth and shots lol (Sorry its long lol))
GIRL EVERY LITERAL DENTIST IS LIKE THAAAAT,ITS JUST ANNOYINGGGG,THEY SAY THEY WONT HURT YOU WHEN THEY'RE GONNA SHOVE THE BIGGEST SYRINGE DOWN YOUR THROAT
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He may not have had much experience since he seems young for such profession, but how he deals with young nervous kids is heart warming to see. He'll be a great parent for sure. I hope there will be more like him.
this is amazing, i had a horrible dentist experience as a kid to the point where the person responsible had to be fired so this makes me happy for other kids :)
He is tapping on her face calmly, for some reason I believe it is a technique of releasing anxiety, as well as looking into the patients eyes for reassurance. Well done!
For someone who has very bad anxiety I would cry at the dentist doctors office anywhere I felt uncomfortable I’ve gotten better but I need somebody like you who could call me down. Good job at doing your job. Keep up the good work.
“I’m not gonna hurt you”
*continues to blind me with his head lamp*
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I appreciate this so much. I had a horrible experience as a kid. I was afraid and started crying and my dentist was screaming at me to shut up. When a grown ass man is screaming at you to shut up, it makes you even more uneasy. Really awful guy, but I thank you for being kind and reassuring to your patients ❤
I got scared one time over a filling. I ran out of the office. They followed me and proceeded to threaten me to make me go back inside. Said if I didn't get the filling, all my teeth would fall out. I was fucking SIX
as a parent, i would have absolutely sent that dentist straight to the icu for pulling that shit. people who are too stupid to treat kids like people shouldn't be around them, period.
I had a painful experience with a dentist. I'm now 84 years old and still don't like going to the dentist. I use a form of self-hypnosis.
I had a Vietnamese dentist cleaning my teeth. All fine and well except that he smelled like soy sauce!
Same, let’s leave that toxic behavior to past generations and give children today the kind of treatment this dentist gave her ❤ 20 years later and I still do not regret biting my orthodontist 😂
Mad props to this dentist. Handled so damn well. He understood the assignment.
I can turn into a “blind-veritable” lets goooooo
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We need more dentists like this, I personally get a lot of anxiety just being present in a hospital or dental clinic
Me too because I really don’t like people touching me. 😟
Most women do. Women's pain is often dismissed in the healthcare industry. Hence why female patients aren't given anesthesia or even pain medication for gynecological procedures such as uterine biopsies, endometrial biopsies, cervical biopsies or IUD insertions. Meanwhile, male patients are given anesthesia and a week's worth of strong opioid medication for testicular biopsies, prostate biopsies, and vasectomies.
Women's healthcare is barbaric and inhumane.
I love me a dentist, but hospitals NAH BRO
Just watching this video almost triggered an anxiety attack. F-kers scared my parents into thinking I'd be taken away if I didn't go through, too, so after I bolted my dad had to pull me in by my feet with a potted palm tree dragging with me. And that was the EXPERTS in scared kids. Eugh, Eastman you monsters. Last three baby teeth molars got seriously infected one after another and I chose the pain until I got them out myself.
I started going to a dental school and they were a lot more receptive to my needs as a neurodivergent and when I needed breaks and to get up and move during a cavity filling 🥰 totally recommend
The “look at me” is the most gentle way to “force” someone to understand that you are not a threat. Eye contact avoidance will reinforce in her mind that He = pain and fear. The direct eye contact during moments of communication and not pain will reinforce that he is NOT a threat and not the source of the pain/fear, and she will have reduced or no anxiety upon seeing him. A dentist that can work like this has a deep understanding of psychology and how our base mammalian instincts work, and THAT is worth its weight in gold.
amen man
huh. that tactic always just stressed me out more.
It’s the fact that he understands the fear and panic, and then actively combats that for you. What an angel.
Such BS - ‘I’m not going to hurt you’” and then proceeds to inflict TRAUMA. This is ALL WRONG
@@maemae1752He is not inflicting trauma he is helping them, and if it's anyone's fault blame the parents, he's just doing his job
It is a part of dental school. We are taught a bit of Child Psychology and all those theories and methods to deal with different types of kids.
Everybody is taught those. But only some like Dr. John Yoo imply in real life. Which is why he is kids' and people's favourite.
@@sobiasiddiquie No matter hat you are taught you have to know that you inflict trauma on people. I don’t know how you do such a morbid job. Inflicting pain on children. I understand that it’s not all but you must be aware not all pain thresholds are the same and there are those for whine experiences like this are nothing but traumatic no matter your kind words
@@Soph3_08 This is such a silly comment. Blame the parents for there genetics? If you have ever studied pain you will understand that there are people who don’t feel pain very much at all and then those in the other end of the spectrum who feel pain very severely, these people do not respond to the injections, they still feel l Everything, modern dentistry (and other medical areas also) have no answers for these people. They regularly wake up during operations because even anaesthesiologists can not keep them asleep. So these people as children FEEL EVERYTHING. If you are one of those people who don’t feel pain at all or for whom an injection is no big deal, you will never understand . What they do to these kids is TRAUMATIC no matter what sweet things they say and do
We need more dentists like him🥺🥺
I agree ☝️♥️
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Hes hot so fr we do huhua
@@sundaydunaway2864average 7 year old on his moms phone
@@sundaydunaway2864wtf
“I’m not gonna hurt you” and the eye contact is everything that a child needs. It shows you care and I love that. We need more of it❤️
eye contact for me always feels oppressive, i'm glad it helps sometimes for others though
I mean as an autistic person I hate eye contact. :/
@@Bluejay_ishummingsame here but i can mantain it if it looks like im looking at the eyes, but im actually looking at the forehead/hair.
For me eye contact is an intimate thing. It’s only something im comfortable with when it’s with friends, pets, family and close relations. Otherwise it feels really uncomfortable for me, rawrtism strikes again
Nah my dentist had tvs in it
I have been a pediatric dental assistant for over 10 years, this Doc has "it" !!🤩
Even as an adult I cry at the dentists bc the injections are painful. She did so good and you did amazing at keeping her calm! 🫶🏻
Those needles hurt like hel!
They go deeeeep into your fucking jaw. My dentist does a strong topical numbing gel first, but I can still feel the medicine going in and it’s so unpleasant
@@jessn.2665I’m allergic to the gel it’s so fucking awful 😭
Same! Full blown intense ass panic attacks where I'm hysterically crying and shaking. I had to get a tooth pulled and wanted to be sedated. NO ONE would sedate me other than the hospital which was another 9 months out and I already waited a year while my tooth slowly broke off and it was about to fall out on its own it was so lose. So I HAD to get it pulled that day. I FREAKED tf out, no one would go with me to help me stay calm so I was completely alone with a tooth pulling place with dentists I didn't know, the male dentist that pulled my tooth gave me the injections and stopped after to let my mouth numb, but I also had an infection where they injected so I didn't know it was going to BURN extremely bad and it caused me to flip out worse and I thought he was pulling the tooth when it started burning but he didn't. He also let me take as much time as I needed, checked on me, and his assistant did as well. He did some mind tricks I swear he had to of known some psychology because he talked me through my panic attacks while distracting my mind so I couldn't focus on my fears and freak myself out more. I'm my own worse enemy sometimes and he was incredible. Of course after it was an intense rush of emotions so I just lost it crying but was ok and more calm. Still have a fear of dental work but it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. We need more dentists and assistants that understand and help calm people down instead of being rude and brushing us off. Everyone is different. Some people can come in and are like the freaking hulk, do whatever u need and don't flinch, others get in a dentist chair and have severe panic attacks and meltdowns before the work even starts. We need to normalize fear and that it's ok to be scared or whatever emotions you feel are valid.
@@chelseajensen8842
I used to get so crazy jittery when they injected the novocaine, that my Dentist said I was probably allergic to the epinephrine in the stuff. (I think it's in there to stem bleeding from the inj itself)... So now when I make an appt, I remind them I can't tolerate it and to make sure they have the plain one on hand. Have you inquired if you could be allergic/sensitive to the numbing agent?
I used to work with a Physicians Asst who the Dr taught to anesthetize patients for foot surgery. She NEVER let it hurt!! She took her time, and literally injected the needle ¼"(or less) at a time, waiting for each part to become numb before going in another ¼" and injecting numbing agent into just the already-numb part. I'm sure she used more stuff than average, bc in the length of time to slowly numb the entire forefoot in this manner, for example, it could possibly start wearing off before surgery completed! The crazy part was she wasn't certified, just trained by her boss. This was way long ago, before they even had Physician's Assistant Certificates, let alone Degrees.
Anyhoo, you might relate this idea to future dentists (Never go back to a crappy dentist! I wdnt pay them either, LOL)
I'm a certified dental assistant and let me tell you, this man is pure gold. I gave up my career years ago due to the way the dentists I worked for would treat their patients. So when I see a good one with a heart, it warms me to my core.
Don’t care
@@paragorn8341then don't reply 🤔
@@paragorn8341then why did you comment?
Why did u quit
@MaryamJani-zu8qs Because I couldn't work for someone who just pushed the high dollar items on everyone including people who can't afford it. It didn't feel right. I want to like who I see in the mirror and feel good about making people smile.
"Look at me"
Mama im in love
Too😂
sameeee
Fr
Actually, I be just falling in love😅
Sameeee
This man needs a raise because this man does a great job encouraging all of these scared children in the middle of their dentist appointments we need more dentist like this
I wish all doctors were like this
Me too
they had 5 people holding me down 😭
@@kayimkay wow I feel bad for you!
@@kayimkay Same 😂 I bit one of them once
As someone with terrible dentist anxiety, you’re a boss dude..
It ain’t as bad as before they have that numbing cream to kind of numb the shot site. My dentist as a kid would threaten me with more shots smh 🤦♀️ that’s my reason I was so scared for so long.
I completely understand. I have such terrible dentist anxiety. Even as an adult I haven't been able to finish a dentist appointment in years because I can't handle it. I wish the dentists I'd visited were as sweet as this guy.
I’ve always suffered from major “dentist anxiety” as long as I can remember. Back in the day unscrupulous dentists would drill little kid’s perfectly healthy teeth, charge the insurance companies and nobody was the wiser. Now I insist on both Nitrous Oxide (“Laughing Gas”) AND Novocaine!
What's the fear? I'm genuinely asking not being rude
I have it too😭 it’s really bad and my teeth are terrible because I refuse to go and genetic wise o did not win there for sure😩 it’s terrible because I know it’s dangerous for the whole health.
I admire this dentist's kindness and understanding. We need more professionals like him.
GET OUT OF MY SKI-
2 years later boy
He is such a sweet and kind doctor, i just wish every doctor would be nice too...
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Fr i was at a dentist having a tooth removed as a kid no anaesthetic and was screaming to stop, bro just kept yanking my tooth out bear in mind the tooth weren't loose or anything
Same
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@@Nicole-bt6hj damn….I had a fear of dentists when I was younger and I would hold my moms hand whenever I got nervous but there was this one doctor where he wouldn’t let me hold her hand but he wasn’t bad or anything.
as someone who has so much anxiety with going to the dentists, this made me cry because this is the comfort i needed when i go in for appointments instead of them telling me to stay still and saying they’ll finish when i calm down
"instead of telling me to STAY STILL and saying they'll finish WHEN IM CLAM" thats so bad it made my stomach hurt💀
same
Bro the one I went to i took off the nose thingy(it had sleep mist) and my nose was springy it felt weird and they put it back on I cried bc its scared me and they put the straps on it and I was fully strained from any movement it was traumatizing
@@victhewiz they did that to me when i was younger as well, I get i’m moving but strapping me down to a table is so scary
literally
i elbowed my dentist once bc i was so scared, me and my parents left immediately💀💀
It's the fact that he's so gentle and sweet
Edit: thanks for 6k likes!! Can we make it to 7k?
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Ik bro he’s so nice
Yh
You big simp
Fr omg
I wouldn’t be able to make eye contact with this handsome young man💀😭
“High five High five”
“Proceeds to give a fist bump”
I LOVE IT❤❤
You copied mine and still got likes-
@@Kear128No one cares about Likes-
@@Kear128ok then
@@Lena-69zI wish I could say that is true
@@caralia_YT Likes are so overrated idk why everyone is so obsessed with these useless likes.. ig to get some attention from Ppl and the Creator but who cares tho😭
Him: Look at me
Me: *falls in love*
I thought i was the only one.
@@venkatakishore8346 bruh same 😍
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I thought I was the only one.
😂😂😘
this is exactly what i needed as a child. My dentist wasnt horrible but definitely made me feel stupid for crying and freaking out. I still have panic attacks at the dentist and as the years go on i can see him looking like he gets more frustrated with me. I wish I had a dentist as kind as you.
Yeah, u def need to switch dentist's bc fk that! I was never scared if any dentist as a kid bx I had great teeth, but now in my 30s I've had tons of cavities prob half or more due to the methadone I was on, I'm coming off of it now though! But I'm also afraid if the dentist from 1 terrible experience ans panock attacks. It's crucial to have one u trust ans can be honest with. This guy is the DREAM DENTIST SCENARIO.
Same 🎯
Omg I have an appointment Tom I’m trama from kid .. I’m 58 now and I still fear it
girl switch dentists, he sounds like a real asshole
Took me20years! But I finally found my prince of a dentist….
Loved 🥰 endeavor to persevere ❤
I had my 1st oral surgery in 2nd grade & many, many more up til 21. Broken palate, gum removal, etc. My anxiety was so bad I didn't go to the dentist for over 25yrs. I've found an amazing dentist who is patient, kind, gentle, & understanding. He just pulled a huge molar today, & while I'm in pain right now, he kept reminding me to breathe & talking me through it. I lost many teeth from lack of care. He singlehandedly has saved every tooth he can. He's even tried new procedures he's yet to do that he'd record & share with this colleagues that worked. Thank you for not traumatizing her more than necessary & being aware of the real fear & pain some people feel especially when we don't even understand what you're doing or why.
Thats how I was until I went to a really good dentist to get my wisdom teeth removed. I was super nervous and scared but he really helped me and calmed me down by talking through it with me and always apologized when he was scaring or hurting me.
I'm 35 and still get that way. I have found one dentist that I absolutely feel no pain from injections. Idk how he does it but it's an absolute miracle. This is what kept me from dentist for years. Trauma from dentist as a child carries on into adulthood. Thanks for talking to her. That helps a whole lot.
The longer the needle, the less pain you feel.
Same I'm 30 and have horrible trauma from dental offices as a child. I have to pay for sedation out of pocket for anything more then a cleaning/exam because my panic and anxiety is too bad.
45 and I start to have an anxiety attack as soon as I walk in the front door of my dentist office.
There's also a method to inserting the needle which reduces pain and also giving the anesthetic slowly helps with reducing pain 👍🏾 learnt this from my dad and I also don't feel any pain when he numbs my mouth for an appointment
@@sahejsandhu160 that's great. I didn't find my dentist until a few years ago. I suffered a lot growing up. Ima be sad when he retires bc he's the only one near me that does it perfect.
The tapping, eye contact, and “not going to hurt you” REALLY help calm the instincts she’s experiencing right now ❤ fight or flight with fear. Bless you ❤
I wish I had a dentist as sweet as you. I was traumatized when I was younger and I’ve never trusted my dentist since and it’s terrifying to go. So thank you for making other kids feel safe❤❤
I feel your pain, Im in same boat as you. Also had bad experience at dentist as a kid now 38 and still scared of the dentist
same!
same, got cussed out for crying as a kid, found out later she was arrested for doing fake surgery’s to get money.
Mine literally pulled out a tooth without enough of the gas
I was traumatised by 2 dentists as a kid. One pulled a tooth while telling me he's not gonna touch it and the other ignored my distress because I wasn't crying or trying to run away. I just remember thinking I have to stay perfectly still and this picture he had on the wall.
I worked with a nice lady dentist for a while but her boss was a dude that came in to check on her work dropped my chair without telling me, and had a party through my mouth with out saying a word and scared the shit out of me again. Never went back there after that.
Medic cu suflet ,,mare",nu doreste sa i faca rau copilului!RESPECT DOCTORE!❤❤❤❤
Did I just fall in love with that kind energy🥰
I really wanted to like this comment, but it had made it to 444, and I couldn't bare to alter my favorite number for a thumbs up.
So here you go👍
I’m a dental assistant and we had a lady go into a panic attack after an extraction, I went straight into mom mode and started taking care of her. It’s important to know how to do that in any healthcare job I think
thank you for existing
How's..do you get rid, of Dental anxiety I always .go into a panic attack when I'm at the dentist I'm a grown adult.
@@dystanysam9896 there's nothing wrong with a panic attack you can be any age and u can still get nervous my grandma had panic attacks at the dentist all the time and she was 70 unfoutrenly she's no longer here😔
@@hehwkqlhejwiwpq-6653 my panic attacks are extremely bad I would still break down crying I still have the fear of going. The Dentist , my lasted dentist visit was bad I had ened the Apartment early.
I'm sorry for your lost
@@dystanysam9896 it's alt shed in a better place and hers were like that to I'm pretty sure everyone in my family gets one at the dentist it's totally normal
In 5th grade, I had to get some cavities removed, I had about three (my family has always had teeth problems). When I went to the dentist, they told me I had to get FIVE teeth removed. The anesthetic had no effect on me, and four workers held me down, I was screaming, sobbing, writhing in pain, while this dentist drilled my teeth off of my gums.
So yeah, glad dentists like this guy exist.
I am so very sorry that this happened! Are you able to go to the dentist now? It’s common to have a lot of anxiety & PTSD after such an ordeal! Blessings
I feel you on a molecular level. I had a tooth pulled right out my gum, while it was still a bit attached. Like 40% was still attached, it was painful, but at least it was quick (The dentist used their hands with gloves on to remove it). And I had more problems before like a cracked tooth, it was in right in the middle of to the corners of the tooth, I had to get an injection right IN my left cheek bone literally, I felt it go in and all, just to remove the fragments that were somehow still connected. And before that to my first ever tooth removal they put anesthetic but it didn't work (they asked if I could feel the area and i said no) and I just wanted to get it over with (and I was a bit socially awkward/a people pleaser basically) so I felt the moment when they took my tooth out and I was in so much pain but held it in🙂 (no tears, no sound, nothing)
BRO the exact same thing happened to me and they used one of those jacket things to tie me down the seat and I was screaming in pain which made me bite one of the doctors and that’s where my fear for going to the dentist started so yeah 🙂
This happened to me as well and I will never forget it cuz if I was able to I would have sued them for doing that and forcing my grandmother to help as well
i would be swingin
man if you were my dentist I’d actually be comfortable to go with you and even close my eyes. your comforting and sweet, I really wish more dentists were like you 💞
This is the sweetest dentist ❤❤
Wishing my childhood dentist was like this bc he'd just lecture me and get mad
This dude is a real one
Should have kicked him hard in the shin! Lol!!
I have an involuntary bite... all my dentists fucking hated me
Lol high five proceeds to fist bump
haha it happened to me once and i decided to just learn how to fall asleep by will so i wouldnt feel it (its useful in other scenarios too :D)
My childhood dentist would strap kids to chairs if parents refused to put them under for things like cavitys
He is such a good doctor i will wish evry doctor will be like him
This doctor is exceptional! And I agree - we need more of these in all the medical disciplines. Unfortunately none of this is taught to practitioners.
It's the fact that he understands the fear off people when they're scared and paniced,and then actively cimbatsthat for you my dentist would never be like that she's so lucky to have a dentist like that
What an angle
if this man was my dentist i'm going everyday
this went viral💀
Until all your teeth is gone🤣🤣
Real 😍😍
Babe he’s just my dentist-
ikr, i was gonna say the same thing
Frl tho😂😂💯
We all need a dentist like him
I have my dentista aunt is like this
Your kindness is amazing, anytime I would cry in front of my dentist they would just keep on going
💯 Facts..a part of me will always think/wonder if all (or at least MOST) Dentists aren't just a good bit sadistic lol (for serious though)
Is that terrible music really playing there?😮
First thing, calming music helps and glad he helped her through it. I am an adult and I cry when I get nervous at the dentist. From anxiety and fear of pain. So, I appreciate him for doing this.
him: “high five?”
also him: *fist bump*
He said “count to five” goofy ahh
@@ruairi1905 very sure he said high five but okay
Thank you I was looking for that
@@ruairi1905 the words said high five goofy
I was going to comment this lmao 😂
That's an amazing, caring doctor! Other doctor's should take notes from this man.
“I’m not going to hurt you “ 😣😣
My heart ✨✨
Ikr whenever someone tells me they aren’t gonna hurt me my cholesterol goes up too right?! 🤪😜🤪😜🤪😜🤪😜✌️✌️✌️✌️
@@Godisgood2me8 no crap sherlock
Why did i think razzla dazzla when i saw this comment
@@Aylaslifestyless lmao 💀
Aw
I was blessed with a dentist like this as a child. Made me more excited to go see him for cleanings lol. Dr. Bell was a gem, hope he's doing well 🙏
“look at me”
“I’m not gonna hurt you”
me : **instantly falls in love and calms down**
same I would do that to
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE
another cory fan how are u?
@@kenshinfan. im gooooddd wbuu dudee
@@iheartkimxy im good its funny to see other cory fans in the comments cause i usually dont see them to much
That's so sweet. My dentist had no idea I struggled with anxiety. One of my appointments, I started shaking uncontrollably which is usually the first sign I'm about to go into a panic attack. I told him what was going on and he was so understanding. He even asked how he can help and how it works so he would know what to do if other people had the same issue.
I have anxiety and a HUGE fear of needles and I have to get fillings and me knowing I’m going to have to get a needle I would not go in and I went into the dentist with a red face (because I was crying and I’m a ugly cryer)
I wish all dentists are like this.
same
So true
As someone with odontophobia, if I had had a dentist/ dental assistant like this growing up, I would hope it would have helped with the fear. I’m still afraid to this day, but I hope more dental professionals can understand the fear and help their patients calm down like this person seemed to.
The whole world needs more of him, We don’t deserve it but we need it. Bless him
As a mother with a child that ABSOLUTELY PANICS at the dentists office… WE NEED MORE LIKE HIM 😢❤
I'm a grown ass 31 year old adult and I panic, parents fault for not taking when when I was a child I've only just started going, need a hell of alot of work doing, but due to finances and my nerves it's all being done on my terms and when I feel ready but every dentist visit is usually for treatments now its mostly only the injections that make me panic now because that's the worst bit I tend to calm down for the rest
I’m an adult who has panic attacks at the doctors too. 😢.
@@Naomi-d6ysounds hella abusive
I was awake and got 4 teeth pulled when I was 10 the anesthesia and laughing gas only half worked 😢😢 I love you, it's so good that you are patient with them
Aww this actually made me tear up because doctors and dentists can actually be really scary. You just wanna protect ur body and him saying “I’m not gonna hurt you” was so sweet
dentists are my worst enemy.
My dentist recorded me crying, played it back with the assistants and my mom laughing hysterically. I was 7. 20 years later and the smell of anaesthetics still brings uncontrollably tears to my eyes. It’s heart warming to watch how not to traumatize a child
😂embarrassing
why is that kinda funny lol
Bruh what are these comments-?
I smahed my face when I was a kid & the few teeth that DIDNT fall out had to get pulled out with no pain killers
I know what you mean
@@clanmacmillan4483 No pain relief? What backwoods dentist did that to a child God damn.
"I'm not going to hurt you" ❤gives me the chills, your such a great person thank you for being so kind ❤
I love how you make her feel good when you say”Im not gonna hurt you multiple times”❤❤ It’s ok for me to go to the dentist, but when they ask me to open my mouth for the little pad to check whats inside of me, my gag reflexes are bad and I always end up spitting or throwing up, I am now scared to do that again 😢 and i wish the dentist had your method ❤❤❤😊
Omg, he is so kind and caring that it brings tears to my eyes. Growing up i was a shy kid suffering from anxiety and the only thing i heard from adults at the doctor or school or any other scenario that was stressful was to “stop being such a baby” and “suck it up”. As an adult this has hurt my relationships and i still have trouble opening up to people and i mostly withdraw when i’m having a hard time.
Yeah same I also had problems talking to teachers also mostly because of their attitude
I have had the same dentist for 29 years. He treated me as a kid. He is the reason I have never feared the doctor. These interactions are so important for building lifelong trust with health care providers
Asian doctors are the best they always find a way to calm you down
Loll
@@rebekah8318who hurt you
Lo siento, no solo los asiáticos son buenos, aquí en Colombia también hay médicos excelentes que saben tratar a las personas con amor lo digo desde mi experiencia,
Why "Asian" doctors-
Not just Asians.
I wish my dentists were like this ! I’m 22, in elementary school when I was about 7/8 I smashed my face on the gym floor at my school. I chipped one of my front teeth really bad from the impact, as well as making my other front tooth wiggly, and a few others. Was a truly horrible experience getting an emergency root canal, I remember the doctors injecting my gums with numbing stuff, but they never warned me so I lifted myself into a bridge almost from the pain and started screaming. Apparently they had to shut the doors to not only my room, but neighbouring rooms as to not scare anyone/other children. Meanwhile, my mom was working (single mom) she picked me up mid shift (she was a private home care aid, and would spend the night on the nights she was working, she wasn’t off until the next day) from school and had to quickly drop me off and then drive back to her clients house and try and get someone to cover and watch after the special needs girl she took care of. I passed out to the dentists talking shit about my hard working mom and how “horrible” of a parent she was for just leaving me there. She was right there when I woke up afterward. I understood what was going on. And I told my mom they were talking about her when I came too and remembered. It was an already scary, tough and painful experience to begin with. The talking shit part made me panic as a child even though I knew what was up as my mom explained it to me before she left and also obviously explained to the dentist/dr.. I wound up having to get a 2nd root canal done on the same front tooth a few years later, and somehow! I still have my original tooth despite being quite literally dead and hanging in my mouth lol. Occasional appointments to take care of any staining, as it’s dead and I guess dead teeth are like that? I’m unsure if I ever want a crown or anything because of that main and first experience with it along with the 2 fillings I’ve had for cavities since. None of my dentists have been this nurturing, and it’s really relieving and refreshing to see care like this being done. Dentists and doctors can be very intimidating for children especially if they’ve never been or have had bad experiences with a different one in the past.
I was terrified of the dentist for years because my very first appointment at the dentist they tied me down. I was freaking out I was like 6 or 7 idk. But I was scared and being difficult. Instead of just rescheduling they literally strapped me down and when I refused to open my mouth they pinched my nose until I opened my mouth to breathe and they shoved something in my mouth to keep it open. It was traumatic. And I didn’t get over my fear of the dentist until I was about 14 or 15. I pray no one has to go through what I went through. Im so glad that man was very kind with her. People don’t understand the effects they can have on people whether it’s good or bad. Much love to the good people out there.
Omg, were you completely alone?? I'm so sorry you had such terrifying experience 😢❤❤
Were your parent not aloud in while your appointment or were they not doing anything
I would be scared to death if that happened to me
@@Framokamc no my mom was there. She was really angry but took a while before she said anything. Idk why. Maybe she was nervous? Or just wanted to get it over with? Idk. But it was really scary. Thank you for taking the time to respond. I really appreciate it ❤️🥹
@@ImthefkingChupa-ca-dupra yeah my mom was there but it took her a while to say anything to them. I’m not sure why tho. There was a point they left me in the room alone with my mom while I was tied up and I remember crying and begging her to untie me. So when they came back she told them to let me out. We left and never went back there again. But it was traumatizing. 😭💔
@@Framokamc the place is actually called small smiles. There’s so many news reports of other kids that went through what I went through. It’s so sad.
Damn what a man, he calmed me down so quickly... and made my heart twitch
Same
Same
u should probably check that out
I had a dental assistant be like this for me once, she held my hand, wiped my tears, and talked to me about big hero 6. I'll never forget her kindness💖
If my dentist talked to me about big hero 6 I would cry even more
@@karrot_kake_ 💀
@@karrot_kake_ imagine
@@karrot_kake_
I have been a Dental Assistant for 45 years you are a Excellent Doctor 👏👏🙏🏻
We need more dentist like this your the best ive evver seen you actually care about your patients
That's a man that does what he loves and does it with a passion ❤ Mad respect ❤
Went to a dentist who actually cares for the first time when I was 19. I’m 21 and still think about that dentist. He was such a genuine and kind person.
Same here
Can you tell your experience?
That was me with my most recent dentist. So many dentists and appointments and I prefer my current one so much more. I had to get five cavities filled and yet I would do it all again just cause I loved them.
Wow simply amazing I had a bad life experience as a child and wish I had a DR. Like him to help me out!! What A blessing such a angel.
“hey hey hey look at me i’m not gonna hurt you”
**falls in love**
you copied me
@@FrickVape38 no. you copied them
@@monnke no, i didnt. :)
@@monnke with what proof? they both made the comment a month ago..
i put on newest comments and this came up first before theirs.
@@FrickVape38 there’s a bunch of comments similar or the same as yours. Your comment isn’t special 💀💀
I love dentists like this, they deserve the world
“high five”
**gives her a fist bump**
FR😂💀
Lol
PLS THAT BUGGED ME TOO
Yo your famous
😂💀
The fact that he did better than literal Dhhs workers just shows how much he cares ( dhhs for those who dont know is department of human and health services ) in my experience with dhhs it was for them worrying my home wasnt safe so the fact he did better than them mad props to him
Dude I react like this girl and always have a total panic attack, I would love a dentist like this. It makes me cry honestly thinking about it
ikr!
Same
I aggressively shake at the dentist office, especially when they lay me down😭😭
SAME IM LIKE CRYING BC I HAVE SOCIAL ANIXETY TOO 😭
I love going to the dentist, had 3 teeth pulled out
"Im not gonna hurt you"
Done melted my heart if you where my dentist i would love you
They shouldn’t feel a thing considering you’re supposed to numb the mouth
@@Number.1Yanfei.Fan123 well yes but there is still always a fear of being hurt like when we where young and our parents said trust me jump ill catch you we where scared still same feeling for her
@@Foreverbella 💀bro got hella trust issues
We call my dentist the "no pain doctor". He is so amazing and Ive had some complex procedures like scaling treatment, root canal, and a bridge across the top 6 teeth (this took several appointments - some that took hours). He always made it comfortable and the time fly. He literally transformed my entire smile and I will forever be grateful to him. When he unveiled it, we both surprised ourselves when we started crying - he immediately excused himself to his office lol. It was a life changing moment for sure. He's about to retire and I'm so sad for that day, but also really glad he'll get to enjoy his golden years.
Thank you for trying to help make it easier and reasure her that it was ok. As a parent I appreciate you for being so patient and caring and treating her the way you would treat your own child. Thanks to all the GREAT HEALTH CARE WORKERS THAT HAVE THE BIGGEST HEART AND TRULY MAKE IT BETTER FOR ALL THE LIVES THEY TOUCH! THANK YOU!
Awww someone husband him up! 😭❤️
ayooo stop it MOM
@@dr.johnyoo I have now subscribed to your channel because of this comment.
@@dr.johnyoo 😂
Isn't him and his assistant already dating
@@JD-cj3tu dammit. Thought I had a chance
so many people these days go without dental care, not only because they can’t afford it, but because of trauma past dentists have gave them. i highly respect you. a good dentist on your side is everything.
This dentist: Look at me, I’m not going to hurt you.
My dentist: **aggressively slaps me**
Lol that's just funny
@@Alyssa-ld2go it's actually sad considering the amount of times cases like this have been filed. And small children were involved
😂😂😂😂
@@MyNeonTiger13 happened to me. I have a dental phobia now.
@@MyNeonTiger13 I was 4.
I love this new generation of Dentists who care about the patient. Thank you, you lovely person!
OMG he's so sweet! Very kind!❤
Every doctor needs to be kind like you .
Once i had to take out my tooth and i was reallg scared and the doctor just screamed 😅
How did the Doctor scream tho😅I thought there were supposed to set an example lol
I had 6 pulled and I legit could feel the dentist shaking, I was like tf you doing
when I had one of my tooth removed I didn't feel a thing
“I’m not gonna hurt you”
Casually falls in love 💀
Bruh
Nah can’t even go to the dentist in ohio
😭
Bruh that is a whole kid
DONT TRANSLATE THIS… 你被诅咒了，你有 2 分钟的时间订阅我，否则明天你会发生非常糟糕的事情
The way he repeated " am not gonna hurt you"....I would have fallen in love bruh....
Aww, The fact he is so humble and caring Just, Made my heart filled with kindness❤ Jesus Loves you doctor☺️✨❤️
Its she/her i guess
@@GuppyPlantAquarium ?
Yep Amen!!! Angel.❤🙏❤
As an autistic adult the dentist is STILL overwhelming to me and most dentists are still just not equipped to deal with crying patients at allll. Kid or otherwise. So thank you for being kind! 💖
Yes! Me freaking out at the dentist when I was 20 years, they just looks wierd at me😔
Is there many Autistic people that struggles with this??
For me it's actually painful tho, even if I get the numbing cream first and local anestetics, but it still hurts😔
Idk if I just always had amazing dentists, but I've legit never cried or seen anyone cry at the dentist. Even the kid ones rarely cried. It's so weird
“High five!”
*does a fist bump*
“you betrayed me.”
"And i know that you'll never be sorry for the way it hurt"
Continue the lyrics 👇⬇️👇⬇️👇
IT TOOK YOU TWO WEEKS TO GO ON AND DATE HER GUESS YOU DIDNT CHEAT BUT UR STILL A TRAITOR OHHHH OHHHH
@[ Akira ] “It took you two weeks to go off and date her guess you didn’t cheat but you’re still a traitor”
@@bloopzy-j8q `` ooooh~~~``
@[ Akira ] "oOoOO"
I wish all dentists were like that, the last time I went to the dentist which was like 1 month ago, it was a female and she didn’t even talk! She was holding my jaw so hard I thought it would break, applause to all the nice dentists out there👏
It takes a special kind of doctors to treat children. My daughter gets scared when I have to bring her to a see a doctor in the ER or going to the dentist. Needles almost sends her in a panic attack. Her dentist is amazing. He talks to her and shows her what he’s gonna use. The way he explains everything puts her a ease and calm her down. It’s a beautiful this to see.
I love dentists that act like this, it calms me down and truly go with their words. I once went to this dentist office and they where trying to pull out teeth, as you know it hurts and i was a kid, and i kid you not, this dentist held down my head and arm where i was almost falling out the chair, this dentist was also an old man. He was also rude to my mom because she was saying how it does hurt and how she feels my pain, and i actually felt a little better with her words, then the dentist started saying, that just makes it worse, and not helping at all. After that my mother was mad.(They had numbness stuff on my teeth but it wasnt working) We never went back to this dentist office. I do now have more anxiety going to the dentist because of this experience, Im happy with the dentist office i go to now, when i had to get the tooth pulled (originally supposed to be pulled from the other office) they turned on the mini tv moniter and put on a show and put pink headphones on me, and when i tell you i almost feel asleep, i did feel a little pain during it but, they told me the numbness would work and it did, they stayed true to there word, and made me relaxed during it and said i did good.❤
I also had a fear of getting teeth and shots lol
(Sorry its long lol))
Please give me the address of your doctor or dentist
“I’m not gonna hurt you”
That actually melted my heart, but they way he just handles it is so good ❤️
GIRL EVERY LITERAL DENTIST IS LIKE THAAAAT,ITS JUST ANNOYINGGGG,THEY SAY THEY WONT HURT YOU WHEN THEY'RE GONNA SHOVE THE BIGGEST SYRINGE DOWN YOUR THROAT
@@aitsuun but it’s still cute, the way he said it tho-
“I’m not gonna hurt you” that’s so sweet❤
i agree
Yees❤
The compassion from this dentist is unmatched. We need more like him.
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We need more ppl like him so sweet ❤
He may not have had much experience since he seems young for such profession, but how he deals with young nervous kids is heart warming to see. He'll be a great parent for sure. I hope there will be more like him.
I like how he snaps them into reality before explaining everything thoroughly that way they are listening. Very kind hearted ❤
this is amazing, i had a horrible dentist experience as a kid to the point where the person responsible had to be fired so this makes me happy for other kids :)
You are so kind I wish we had such kind of doctors here😢❤
He is tapping on her face calmly, for some reason I believe it is a technique of releasing anxiety, as well as looking into the patients eyes for reassurance. Well done!
"And that was the time I fell in love with my doctor"
Yeahhh😂 he's cute i would love to have a doctor like him lol
🤣
😨no
Nahh my dentist is my uncle 😂
Ikr 😩✨
My dentist is so sweet. I had a really terrible trauma as a kid, and he was there for me. He is AMAZING. Shout out to doc!
For someone who has very bad anxiety I would cry at the dentist doctors office anywhere I felt uncomfortable I’ve gotten better but I need somebody like you who could call me down. Good job at doing your job. Keep up the good work.