It's sad that she was so close to admitting her faults, but then she backtracked and started to blame men smdh. She bashes blk men and then wonders why her son doesn't want to date a woman like her smdh.....She has low self-esteem, self-hate, and hatred of men issues.
@The Truth I talk down on her...really? I'm NOT the one blaming all men for HER POOR choices. This woman has NO respect for blk men including her father & grandfather & son because if she did she would have a clearer view of her decisions and the men she chose are NOT a reflexion of blk men but her. Her son shows his disgust by dating white girls because he now it bothers his mom due to her hatred of blk men.
@The Truth Because she's NOT taking responsibility for HER decisions. It has NOTHING to do with me. She's setting a BAD example for other WOMEN to follow. As BLACK MEN we ALWAYS get blamed for things that other people have done. It has a DAMAGING effect on MEN. You didn't notice that her SON's want to date WHITE women!
@Aces you're not better than K Michelle with her false narratives. As a black female who gas never had "hood" on her list of boyfriend characteristics I will say that plenty of black females do not share her mentality.
I understand how a woman could feel that way- but I can attest there are good men out there - she probably overlooks them and calls them corny or “gay” because they aren’t hood .
N. B. you and your husband are older and settled. Y’all don’t deal with today’s bs. You don’t have a clue about these pathetic ass males that are the majority.
@@iamyourleader2287 why are you on this comment thread spreading negativity? Clearly you have been hurt, but don't drag people into your misery while making excuses. Take what the people said above you and search out how to have genuine happiness for yourself as they do
She stopped short of saying she didn't like her son. "Men aren't good pp" ?? At least her son is smart enough to not date women like his mom (kinda wish he dated sistas but his example is his mama)
@@movingon2081 that's a stupid excuse women use that really means I suspected him so I cheated just in case then got found out so the nigga cheated to. You'll never know the true timeline trust me
Erica Ashley that stil doesn’t justify what she did. It just means she’s really immature and doesn’t rationally think about what the right thing to do in that situation would be.
So she mad at men because she changed her body to get a certain type of man that she’s attracted to while possibly ignoring other men that’s attracted to her that she might not be attracted to. Lol. You’re chasing the wrong type of man.
I don’t think that’s why she’s mad at men. She’s mad at herself for dealing with and accommodating their BS. Truth be told these dudes are ruthless if u allow it
@@katb2440 why do you women love making excuses for bad behavior? She been blaming and shaming men for years, especially black men every since she first came out. She even advocated black women dating out their race while throwing black men under the bus but we see how that worked out for her. Here she is blaming all men for her poor choices, even her career took a hit because of the way she is, thats why she ended up going back to love and hip hop with her Fake Ass exploding, and yet she still don't hold herself accountable for anything.
Alucardx25 you’re emotional and you can’t read and comprehend I see. I didn’t make an excuse I clearly stated she’s mad at herself. And PS I live in a reality world. There’s plenty good women without men. What’s that tell your over emotional personality. 👍🏽
If K Michelle feels that way about the man she is dating... The real question is, why is she dating that man? Sometimes it is best that we are alone. Nothing is wrong with being alone.
@@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax nah you shut up bitch. If it makes you happy then how about all black women should be single and satisfied then? Leave black men alone and let them be with other women
Unfortunately, even when you try to be careful about who you choose you still meet the wrong one. I have a loving husband but I it took a lot of heartbreak before I met him. The pickings are very slim in men and women.
Sorry!! We can’t blame men for our lack of self worth, self love and lack of boundaries.. Take responsibility for your actions and seek counseling....Period!!
blacknight39 I was once that insecure, lack of boundaries and lack self worth women. I had to learn some very hard lessons. You grow through what you go through. Peace and blessing 🙏🏾
Moonyeen38 leaf @@ so true my sister. Some of these women refuse to work on their self spiritually, emotionally , mentally and Psychologically . They keep on getting in and out of relationships like a god dam taxi. Draining and Corrupting their own aura. They can NEVER seems to understand that the men they are attracting is a REFLECTION of who they truly are within 🤦♀️🤦♀️. What she need to do is close her legs and work on her self .. the universe will do the rest 🙏
Where's the lie though. She was talking about her experience. You probably have some stories to tell too. The problem amongst us is men don't want to listen to the pain that women are sharing. That in and of itself contributes to why many can't heal and move forward in strength. You want us to listen to all that you go through as black men in this world and have your back, but you're not strong enough to handle a discussion about how hurting black men are hurting black women. Your comment Sir, underscores a lot of what's being said. You are requiring a woman who's been used and abused to carry the full weight of what happened to harm her while she was trying to give her all and support to the men that she was in relationship with. What then is your opinion about the mens' responsibility in what happened. And don't say simply, "she chose them", because we all choose but don't know until we know.
Ms Vena I have been hurt by many women too, but when I try to talk about my problems I’m seen as (by women) a loser, who can’t sustain a relationship all because of my mental illness. And when she does it, she's seen as a hero? Just because she's a woman? I’m really disgusted by society and the fact that women can get away with blatant sexism all because they made the wrong decisions. I know I’m not the only man who's been hurt by women, but unfortunately we don’t have a platform to share our shit because hypocrite women will just see us as complaining.
@@seepaw9191 so what happens then is both men and women get stuck in their own pain and disappointment comparing which gender is hurting or has caused hurt more. No one should be treated as if their emotions, wounds, dreams or desires don't matter. There have been so many games played and misinformation used to try to control other people to get what is wanted that there is no trust between men and women. All are walking around encased in bitterness holding grudges against everyone in the opposite gender. Men trying to tell women how to be and vice versa. At some point the madness has to stop on all sides. Maybe we make too complicated a thing about hurts and disappointments over relationships that don't last. We see them as failures. Maybe it's as simple as not being angry and holding onto negative thoughts and feelings but is as simple as being done! People are carrying way too much baggage around over people long gone who could care less about the rest of our lives. We then require others to help carry that baggage instead of just sitting it down and walking away putting it in the past. Maybe we're talking about the wrong things.
All the "good guys" that I've dated had a little nerd in them, which many of my girlfriends laughed at, but I was treated like a queen. I attract very good men. I've learned to really appreciate that.
Hopefully you truly appreciate him and don't cheat/ make him feel insecure just cause you have the power in the relationship, women love treating nice guys like shit
Heal yourself, learn to love yourself and you’ll attract who you need in your life. You have to be mentally and emotionally healthy to get that in return.
Ehhh sometimes. There are also cases where u can be completely mentally & emotionally healthy & still be deceived by trash. Ppl are tricky..U definitely don’t always get what u put out.
I see so many comments about this woman's face, her skin and education level. She is damaged. Let's be real, all you good men also know a bunch of no good ass men. It is hard to find a good man. All she did was be honest about her feelings and her own insecurities and experiences. And the way this current generation is coming up, it will be even more difficult for them. So stop acting like you don't know how she could feel that way. I personally don't know one black man that has never cheated on his spouse / significant other. A good black man is a rare find.
Well if there is no good men, we know that no good men raised you all lol. I’m married and I don’t cheat and I love my family. Maybe more women should look for a stable guy like me instead of the guys who show the signs of an bad guy. Yet low self esteem women look for low self esteemed men and the cycle continues but all men aren’t evil. I wish you knew how black men like myself get hated on a daily basis and you would understand but you don’t because your women. We get hate from white people, black women, and other races. Even the other bad black men that you all secretly love try to kill us for being good. So next time look in yourself before you judge, it’s clear as day if you love yourself. Right is right and wrong is wrong. Women aren’t just deemed to be good just because your women lol
Exactly, she so educated and strong in her words but can't be completely honest with herself.....im starting to believe she has some mental issues that run deep and I wish at this point she would just shut up because I don't want her using her platforms to make ppl think this how most black women think 😩
I still believe all of the allegations she made towards Memph Hitz was all lies! Plus too many celebs that slept with her say her BOX smells...who wants to stay with that!!
Marlon Askew nah I believe her on him probably going upside her head once or twice but more on some Rihanna and Chris type shit. But she is definitely damaged
@@kingprice3393 yeah that is what I mean also. I think the lie is that he just jumped on her for no reason. I think she popped off on him and he defended himself. You see her pop off on reality TV all the time but she act like she is so innocent.
Social media culture and everything else in America has programmed black women that black men are the problem and black women are innocent but the reality is BLACK AMERICA HAS PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES COLLECTIVELY
I don't agree that ALL men are bad. However, I do understand how she feels. I volunteered at a womans shelter and the abuse and horror some of these women go through is above and beyond despicable. People are so quick to blame the woman for allowing it instead of shaming the man for actually DOING it. 🚨
Well it’s true!! I’ve seen it over and over again!! Always making excuses for your choices then crying about it! Women up and take accountability for your choices of course I’m not talking about all women just women like this!
Ardissia Thompsom the problem is that people are blind or just plain stupid. The Bible tells you how to live and what type people you should deal with but people don’t listen then cry about their choices!! God forgives you but you will pay a price for your choices unless you don’t know but most people do but they’re too stuck in their PRIDE!
@@JohnThomas-yf3gw I agree to a certain extend- I grew up very sheltered and religious going to church 3x/wk- we had no secular music in our house EVER and had strict West Indian parents- We couldn't hang in the malls or even go to school dances. parties or over to friends houses n no cussing. I thgt he was a bit ruff around the edges cuz of the country he came from( the same country as my whole family). I thght him seeing me travel for work and go to night school wld allow him to put down this behaviour . I couldn't see what I wasn't taught or exposed 2 cuz he came in sheep's clothing BUT I wasn't dumb and quickly understood/felt that this person was all abt himself and jealous of me n how ppl treated/loved me - he low key wanted to bring me down n for someone that never had arguments/fights with anyone suddenly it was a daily event for the smallest things- basically he was a NARCISSIST( which we were not taught abt either) After 1.5 yrs, I didn't want that toxicity 4 myself n I ended it ( which was hard as hell to shake him off ). He is still hoovering but since then, I have found an AMAZING God fearing and principe practicing man who was THAT b4 I met him BUT I say all that to say ...... SOMETIMES you can be tricked. Many of these woman stay cuz they don't have self esteem . We may not have been rich BUT the one jewel our parents taught us was to LEARN TO LOVE YOUR OWN COMPANY- which many of these women are not doing so they would rather stay in this mess or get someone messy just so they can say they have a man- I know I am not the norm but just wanted to put it out there as getting a loser is never a woman or mans intention.
Jim_d You have issues and are way too emotional homie. Never said white women did it too. I stated a fact after you called out black women. The grass aint greener is all im trynna say. But you immediately hopped into your feelings. You tried to use a shaming tactic for me stating a fact? And my father was there for me lololol. We talk very often. I expected that shaming tactic to come from a woman....do better.
@@standardprocedure7017 nice guys cant protect? Im a nice guy,but im an ex bodyguard,i teach self defence to others,i love boxing and mma,yet im laid back and dont do foolishness
My momma always tell me « if you want married a good woman find a woman who make less contradictions » thanks mom girl like her no way only for smash night 😀
I love K Michele’s music but I don’t understand what she is talking about! I think instead of bashing all men she should just encourage women to have higher self esteem! If a man does not want you or treats you bad, leave him alone!
K doesn't understand that there is a black man that will ride for her in life & love but the problem is that man is either working in a warehouse or working in prison...BUT THEM NIGGAZ TOO BROKE FOR HER
Im just waiting to hear K say she been dating the guy workin at UPS or the guy operating his own trucking business and theez niggaz aint shit...U A BLACK WOMAN CHASIN RICH NIGGAZ FOR A FANTASY RELATIONSHIP INSTEAD OF A REAL RELATIONSHIP
K Michelle: men aren't good people Also K Michelle: my boyfriend has wanted to be my boyfriend for 20 years Also K Michelle: I'm cold in relationships Stupidity doesn't leave with age, I see
Emmanuel Ani You’re the only stupid one. Because she decided to date someone when she was ready to give them a try makes her a bad person? Being cold in relationships makes you a bad person? Y’all are so judgmental and irrational.
She spoke off her experience with men and even said due to hearing so many bad stories from women it only made her viewpoint more definite but like always y’all pick out one part and never analyze the entire situation ...cherry picking is tacky...if anything do what she’s doing and build women up...smh y’all women gotta do better
That Part I wasn’t trying to do that...I just don’t understand how we yell Black girls rock and girl power but be so quick to tear down a woman who is clearly trying to be bettwr
I’ve said what she is saying for years because of my experience as well as those around me. I had friends calling me from up north with the same/different experiences my friends were having with men from the south as well as other places. It was MY experiences and those around me. Unfortunately, I still don’t know of more than about five men (maybe) who are treating their women well. But again that’s only my experiences. We as a community need to learn to build each other period.
Men Are The Prize Sweetheart I have been and am a daughter of the most high. I have never act out of character in such a way. Brother you just gave validity to my experiences. Praying for you to gain clarity instead of reacting from deep rooted emotions. Be blessed!
Also, I’ve never dated a thug. I think that may be one of those myths. Like those labels thrown at you as a black man. You need to really check yourself.
But she had no truth though. Her main argument was that men are not good people simply because they cheat, or have done other things to hurt their wives, meanwhile women have also cheat and have done other things to harm their husbands.
@@dimedenaye I already saw most of it and that's enough for me. I think majority of black women should just be single and happy while the men move on to other kinds of women
I guess I've watched so much Iyanla so much I can see that K is a damaged little girl in a woman's body. She needs therapy to pinpoint the problem. She's in emotional pain.
She said "I can't date you if I can't write a song about you" she truly needs to get help to let go of all the hurt and pain she has stored away or it's going to continue to consume her
TheTR1358 you can’t be this stupid, did you not watch the video and listen to her say she has women coming to her crying and asking for advice, she states she has a show helping women
She's the classic example of a single, bitter, woman. You can't always be the victim. It's not everybody. At what point are you gonna look in the mirror and realize you got issues to fix with yourself. You're attracted to and attracting the wrong kinds of men for a reason. It's not a men thing. It's a YOU thing. There are good and bad PEOPLE. Period. Fix yourself before trying to get with anyone else. Peace.
@pinkeverything1 For 2 secs yeah I know. She can't keep one long term. She didn't talk about him like he mattered. She was too busy ranting about other men. Clearly not the man she really wants. She doesn't know what she wants. Like I said, she needs to work on herself.
3 year isn’t 2 seconds 😂. I don’t think she’s bitter she correct. We have done a piss poor job raising these young men. Men today don’t have a clear idea of what a man is . Men today don’t understand the concept of protecting and providing for their family. Too many baby dads and not enough father. There should be no way for a man to have 13 kids but 13 different women.
@@d6831 And what about women? Running around being thots on the gram, talking back and fighting with men as though they themselves are men, screaming I don't need no man. There's blame on both sides. Again, it's people. Not just men.
Lol so sick of people crucifying others for wanting to be wanted by their partners....this is a dumb comment. Surprise: wanting to be wanted is NORMAL in a romantic relationship. ESPECIALLY when men talk ALL DAY LONG about how “If I ain’t attracted to her then blah blah blah” “Well he wasn’t attracted to her...she didn’t keep herself up...blah” like let’s not lie lmfao
ᒍᗩᘔᘔIᗴ if your man ain’t happy leave 🤦🏽♀️sis. U go get surgery?That ain’t love sis. And if u don’t love yourself sis nobody will!🤷🏿♂️if your man takes u to gym and feed u healthy food that’s love! You just confused hun🤦🏽♀️
ᒍᗩᘔᘔIᗴ if you get plastic surgery for a man..you are a whole FOOL who deserves no sympathy. Have some dignity and accountability about your dating life, PERIODT
@@user-lz3kr5pc7x : Nah its yall own vanity that is to blame. When have men ever blamed women for making them get into a life of crime to get rich quick and get female attention? Never
I def agree with ur statement. But I also do believe society does influence how u feel about your body, especially when you are not totally secure. Society is all about unrealistic beauty standards and its sad that alot of men want that and indirectly by there actions influence women/girls to want to look like what they see.
Emotional Damaged woman, The facial surgery is an outward sign of her spirit. That guys she with is a dam fool. She gone leave him shortly after the baby is born. Watch.
what facial surgery... you sound stupid like this connect ... why you waiting on a woman relationship to fall.. you just as sad as your mother for having you
@KMichelle-my husband and I have been together since I was 18...and @ 41 and two children, 3 dogs, 2 turtles, lizards, and all....the love was real then and even stronger now....the man for you will stand at the grave with you & bury your parents!! Real love DOES EXSIST!!!!!
These comments got me like...How I did I get here I was looking for something else...see your got me confused now I'm not gonna even try to correct the sentence
But if a woman have standards, they get shamed for still being single. Then they get told to lower their standards and work with a brother. Then when she does that and it falls apart, she gets told, you should have chose better. So which one reallly is it then sis? Please enlighten me. Thanks in advance....
@@4crazy1chick2 Saying to have realistic standards doesn't mean settle for the worst. Lower your standards as in don't limit yourself to materially wealthy dudes, who are really good looking, are 6ft2 and in great shape, with a big dick. Ironically, the guys K michelle dates were probably high standard men in the physical and material department. However, women will pass on a good dude who is doing well for himself, just becoz some other dude has a flash car or clothes, or is a gangsta. Have high standards when it comes to respect and character. Don't have low standards, but realistic standards when it comes to more superficial things.
We all know she is right. My brothas be doing women terrible. Women should set up standards of behavior before men can receive them. Bad men will not stick around a woman that expects the whole package. Mind, body, and Soul= The Whole Package.
FirstPersonHood Thank u Sir.. Finally a man that’s telling the truth. Everybody sitting up here acting they so damn surprised. Majority of men are raised to use & abuse women, finesse them, treat them like shyt & play mind games with them. This is a fact. Thanks 4 admitting this.
Dang. I was so ready to comment something bad. Already “liked” an unkind comment. I decided to listen to the whole interview. I heard a sensitive human being in pain- who doesn’t know how to move through the trauma of her n our past (AA history). If she could read this: I wish u to heal, feel unlimited unconditional love from self n those surrounding u; learn to guard ur energy as an empath n make a vision board of healthy black relationships. Bless you K.M. N I’m sorry for judging you- I’ve been there n done some crazy things myself. Thank Gawdddd I wasn’t in the spotlight. Thank you for being you. 🌸
@jay jay when k started @7:16 I understood clearly what she was expressing. I've been that person whom was betrayed by both husbands (married twice). I've been the loving faithful loyal wife. When K reach 26:43 Frank asked her why was she crying I was already in waterfall mode of tears It's been 22 months and counting since i received a text from my then husband telling me. He loved me but wasn't in love with me along with other unpleasant wordings all because he wanted freedom. I was devastated to say the least questioning myself and to why this happened. All my efforts showing him love a being supportive caring wife, I'm dismissed? I realized afterwards he was the wrong guy. I thought I knew better. I grew cold towards men. I'd decided to be n stay single. I had to learn to stay away from the "man with a mask":. My loving heart can't withstand another hit. I'm currently in counseling learning to love myself.
@@sabrinajohnson3743 Key words, "men with masks" because there's a lot of them, and their mentality is increasingly regressive. There's good men, we just gotta weed them out from pretenders. You will know them by their fruits
shelly moo I was thinking the same thing.....lord help this lady because she is dealing with some issues; as we all but Doing that to your face will not help.
We want brothers who understand the struggle thru experience. Someone who understands us. Hood niggas don't present themselves as "hood niggas" a lot of the time. Hood niggas all behind desks today. Never know ppls background till ur in it sometimes. They're owning business to cover for their drug dealings
ANY man will hurt u just because ur vulnerable as a woman. It's a man thing we just don't understand, still trying to figure out. They ALWAYS test u to see if they can slide by with something. U let that go u will be taking shit the whole relationship. I cut them off the moment they try to establish some fucked up pattern for the rest of our time together. I'm single and happy, could be behind bars, nobody is gonna defend ur honor like u. Globally, men give only what women accept
Idc what anyone says I respect her brutal honesty a lot of women scared to speak up cause of what these men might say about them . It’s like if I speak my mind a man won’t find me as a suitable mate🙄
she hasn't raised her son. His grandparents are raising him while she is playing dress up and singer and acting Hood everywhere she goes. You can accomplish a million things and still not be seen as anything because of how you present yourself. Everything she said is some bullshit. Your dad is all this and you grew up this way and all and you choose to pick bullshit and present yourself in a fucked up way so you attract shit. You arent even raising your own child. smh shes sad
@@reelfly you cant even explain how Demo Brook's comment was so dumb when he has a point. 70% of black families are mainly black single mothers and the mothers are the ones that raise these men but clearly have not done a good job. Black women claim to be independent, strong, and educated, yet cant even keep their kids out of trouble. Their bastard kids have been in jail far more than staying in school and the black community has gone to deep shit
First off imagine a Man saying this about women he would get “Canceled” & dragged through social media. But, Let’s be real, Women don’t REALLY want good men, it’s just a nice thing to say for the “good men” still out there so they don’t realize that “good guy” shit gets them nowhere. 🤷🏾♂️
@@RUclipsdisciple All women. Believe me. I know a woman who dresses like a hoe and complains she doesn't want guys who only want to fuck her, but she only wants bad boys with tattoos and motorcycles.
Why would anyone take advice from a black woman that clearly hates herself? She bleaching her skin and probably has 4c hair type but always wearing hair-hats. Got alllll this plastic surgery and almost died. I bet nothing is ever her fault. Keep your legs closed or better yet just date women.
The UPPER ECHELON OF HIGHER THINKING struck a nerve?🤣🤣🤣🤣 a hair hatted angry black woman mad at the world because no one is sympathetic to your tired excuses for not wanting to wear your natural hair🤣🤣🤣 HAIR HATTED HOOLIGAN BABY MAMA who hasn’t yet walked down the alter or even been proposed to🤣🤣🤣
This is ignorance at its finest. She’s in a relationship, planning for children and has cheated on other men... but ALL men are bad people... let that sink in 🙄
Jermainee J Doesn’t sounds like ignorance.. sounds more like settling. Sounds like she really feels men ain’t shyt but she wants kids so.. she’s just dealing with it.
Miss J. No it sounds like ignorance. It sounds like a bad person telling the world that everyone else is bad but she’s not. She doesn’t know all men and intelligent people don’t speak in absolutes. She’s cheated on men before. Does that make all women bad people?
Hurt people hurt people. I used to think along these same lines until I realized it was the quality of men that I was entertaining. It was also my attachment issues, self worth and self love issues that was attracting those “not so good men” to my life. There are great men out here.
K Michelle...1) God is already talking to you and your identity and esteem should 1st be in him and no one else.2) Can you acknowledge the flaws in your process for consistently ending up with similar men?3) Women must understand that they start the relationship with the "power". The issue is when you compromise your standards early on and ignore the tell tell signs of a man with suspect character.4) Make the beginning of the relationship harder. If you tell a kat you're not about having sex, sex shouldn't come up... No fave positions, no photos shared. Once you open that "box" and allow access you may find the relationship going a way that wasn't apart of your intentions and plans.
“Getting to know each other’s trauma” that’s deep! We call it trauma bonding. When two people share similar pain and it brings them “closer together.” Unfortunately many people aren’t aware of their trauma or don’t like to talk about it. We get into relationships broken and damaged and wonder why our marriages or relationships don’t work or we default to “men are trash” or “black women are loud and don’t respect men.” We have to do better. Just my two cents. Good interview!
@@ScaryToRemarry it's when someone is in an abusive relationship and they stay in that situation because they are traumatized and bonded to the abuser.
A trauma bond is a bond that forms due to intense, emotional experiences, usually with a toxic person. Similar to Stockholm Syndrome, it holds us emotionally captive to a manipulator who keeps us “hostage” - whether that be through physical or emotional abuse
her son is damn near grown and they have a well documented relationship. people love throwing that deadbeat parent shit around and its reckless as hell. every REAL fan knows her and her son are very close
budziec right. What would’ve been unfit is taking him from place to place. How do they think he eats? She has to work and provide. Every celebrity doesn’t have the luxury of being a SAHM and bringing in money. She wanted him to have a stable upbringing.
Ive dealt with a woman like her before no matter how good you are its never enough because whats she dealing with is problems that only she can fix and not a man she has issues within that she needs to fix first
@@petroglyph79 Yeah bruh it always a mans fault....a BW easy out of their bad decisions, and you can read all on her face. Her dad is educated, she is a college educated women that was suppose to go to Law School and she calls her self "hood"? I call her confused!!
I feel some of what she says about us men doing things knowingly. At the same time many of us understand the pain we cause our sisters once we let them down. All it takes is seeing how sad and low she gets those times you disappoint her. I don't ever wanna do that to my Girl again. It's not fair or right. So some of us do change. Blanket statements are very dangerous.
D. Corey I like your mindset... Cause some guys ego just too high and they never come forward admitting to being wrong or willin to change to be a better person...
@@passionatedapoet0 Very true, Being honest with your self is hard but the only direction we must take for spiritual growth (Pride comes before the fall the bible says)
Finally a man that will admit some of the pain she's feeling is valid. I wish we had more men that had your perspective. I don't agree with her blanket statement about all men being bad but a lot of us are constantly getting fooled by cons and getting mistreated and that's hard to work past. So glad you're doing better fo yourself and ur relationship.
K spoke facts through her hurt... Men have traumatized her. I understand it... Idk any woman who hasn’t been traumatized by a man... There are good ones out there, but the fucked up ones Make it hard for the really good guys.
Seriously! What’s funny is they know exactly what she is talking about...but bro code! They never tell on one another but they will call women crazy at the drop of a hat.
Kessa R that’s what I think about the women of today! Back in the day u was lucky if u had a father. 🤷🏿♂️today u lucky if u have a mother. The men still have a lot to work on. But the women of today are not the same quality as moms and grandma. Now grandma on ig twerking with the grand baby🤔moms in competition with her daughter 🙄y’all as women have a lot of complexity’s😭😂and some how all black women can come up with is we (black men)hate y’all 😳🙄😐😴we just getting tired of y’all shit and loving who love us🤷🏿♂️it’s no color on love.yall walk around holding hands kissing other women dressed up like men😐👀but y’all think the black man crazy 😝
Kessa R nah we living in a time where black women 🤔got this complex and act like they brainwashed into not listening to no black man. We as black men go through the most. 🤷🏿♂️We as black men have the most to fear and go through. 🤦🏿♂️but some how y’all women act like it’s y’all who have the most problems and the black man is the cause💯🙄😳
@Kessa R I could be wrong, but to my understanding the majority of the people who died during the civil rights movement were black men correct? And that was thousands of deaths on a regular basis; that's real sacrafice. How many people in black lives matter are dying for that movement? I'll wait for your response.
Kessa R nah y’all fight us black men🤷🏿♂️y’all don’t fight for us💯and I don’t expect u too. 🤔like I said if women act like women they would be treated as such. I told u in the first statement. Women want to twerk on ig. Have 3 kids with 4 different men 🙄😭no career just a job acting like u tired 😏then look at a man like it’s our fault 🤷🏿♂️👀🙄please sis go check your sisters. Cardi B and Megan the stallion is like a top role model in our community 🤨😭😂I guess the black man did that too.🤦🏿♂️quit blaming us but claim y’all fight for us😭😂🙄wtf.
People who don't listen, don't understand. She clearly says" i don't know any good man except for my grandfather. This is her truth. There's millions of men in the world and 10% are decent while the rest cause havoc to women, there children, family, community. Who do the most killing? Who cause the most stress in relationship? Who cheats all the time but want a wife once there penis stop working? Who run from there responsibilities and think its cute? My Dad is a great man but guess what???? He was an asshole when i was growing up, he got better over time.💖
There are plenty of reasons for any black woman to be hurt and bitter. From our own experiences to seeing what other women go through. The reasons reach to the sky. All of that can be toxic to our souls and affect how we deal with others. I don't detect toxic, per se.
She needs counseling, bad😳 None of her relationships will not be successful without some type of counseling going forward. She will continue to choose the wrong type of men’s to date without counseling.
Everyone in this comment section seems very quick to give to their opinion without actually listening to her. She says that in her opinion all men are bad because she has never met a man that she believes to be good. She has only met men that have brought her pain and all around her she sees women who are feeling the same. It’s a completely human reaction to pain/trauma. She is struggling to believe any different because she hasn’t seen any different. Even her current partner she doesn’t seem to think is a good man but seems as if she’s settled for the best she thinks she can get. Yes, it does sound like she’s damaged and needs healing but I completely understand that her view of men is coming from a deeply hurt place. We cannot pretend that all around us there are not women suffering because of the actions of men, good men are extremely rare. Hence, it’s easy to believe that they don’t exist at all.
@@catricem458 example, K Michelle and Michelle Obama grew together. K Michelle chose to date the Rocko's and Michelle O dated Baracks. So when K Michelle said all men are bad people, will that also represent the Baracks too. If you don't understand this analogy then you have more than just bad mad problem. Her choices are horrible. Do y'all think Fantasia & K Michelle will be turned on by an Obama-level be educated dude? Or turned off, like ' girl he's lame asf". Com'on stop acting like y'all don't love them swagged out cool thugs... Come the fuck on.....
This is exactly the type of women decent and hard working brothers avoid. I'm good lol however, I wish you peace and happiness if you can find it within.
@Queen Ebony we dont blame you self proclaimed queen. You just dont take accountability for your actions/hypocrisy. We are not oppressed until we get with yall. Food for thought. MGTOW till you woman learn we the prize and not you. Only a king can make u a queen.
As a woman NO man is going to mess my mind up to start messing with my body. As women we need to work on our minds first, you need to be solid in yourself first.
She’s a phenomenal singer/songwriter. I know she’s done back up for Rihanna, Lady Gaga, wrote records for major artists and put out an independent project. She’s really a vocal gem
I’m single for 13 years an I will never hate a black man ... because I overstand his struggle I believe you have to work on your self ... confidence .. love of one self .. and this goes for all the woman that come to you .,. It is good men out there! just not coming to you or other because your broken or they can easily to take advantage of you ... just be single kay ...don’t fuck your New man up with your issues..
We see that you've Ben hurt and maybe your mother or your mother mother however . I'm not for bad behavior from male or female ! many of us that have Ben in abusive relationship is because we wasn't in good relationship with our self aka low self-esteem! too allowed any person access to our lives and fuck it up .. sometimes we must look at oneself and take responsibility for our bad choices in broken human being .. red flag we always missed then we mad at the other .. I'm sorry that so many are going through pain and hate that they can't see the light for themselves so that a positive person can come in
She's benefiting from holding on to the pain, she's making music and selling out shows. I think she's afraid that if she heals she won't be able to have her livelehood.
@@violetlionessspeaks I agree with you because it sounds like she had a very healthy stable childhood and home so I don't understand how she got to this place or how she got stuck at this place.
she won't be the last. this is exactly what rappers do. So many rap about selling drugs and haven't sold drugs in years.Not saying she is intentionally doing it but all of this is contributing to the division that's going on. There's an agenda for racial division and division leading to the destruction of the family structure. This narrative is being embedded in the hearts and minds of many women. God can't bless us with something we don't have faith in. But due to the pain many women are feeling because of men they have dealt with they are beginning to believe this. I can't speak for all the men on the planet but I highly doubt any woman has met even half of the men on it but many have written off the majority. We all have to do better..starting with men..but we can't do it alone.
Correct. If she was positive and focused on anything other than pain and victimhood she would lose business. Like rappers she is being paid to keep the people she influences constantly focused on the bad in life so they don't grow and stunt her own growth in order to sell records. For a majority of black musicians that's the formula to economic success. Keep the mind of a teenager for the rest of your life and get paid to do it.
I'm surprised she has so many problems with men. She had no Daddy issues, because her father is a strong part in her life. She has a healthy relationship, with father. KMichelle even surprises me that she's so hood. KMichelle does not come from the hood. She has a strong family foundation. This woman is not Ghetto, she doesnt come from a Ghetto background at all. Where did this Ghetto persona come from? I've never been to Memphis, but I know she did not grow up in the hood part. Why was she forced to have this hood persona? Yall something ain't right.
This is quite common. Girls like this who come have a great upbringing find the hood exciting and glamourous. That's why they usually go for thug-types because its thrilling to them.
@@PeteMcCorvey You're all the way right. I did grow up in the hood, and I remember my brother and his homeboys always dealing with women who were very classy, and we're from uppity neighborhoods. I would say to myself "Why do these women come to the projects to deal with these men? They loved hood men, for real.
She's what happens when a person doesn't take responsibility for their own dumbass decisions. I call these types of chicks hot stove touchers. Don't blame the stove for being hot, blame yourself for seeing the red light and still doing it anyway
Imagine if a guy said that about women. Just because you choose bad guys doesn't mean we all are. She needs to deal with her self esteem issues before she try's dating again.
As soon as a hear a woman say “I want a grown man, but he gotta have some hood in him” I know she’s doomed lol
Johhny VanJohnson 🤣🤣🤣🤣... right
Johhny VanJohnson This
preach tuxedo mask...preach!!
She’s looking for someone who doesn’t exist.
Most of them want that and then
Cry later 😂
She keeps attempting to alter herself physically, but the real work she requires is from the inside.
merrie melodies Exblackly! She is a mess internally the most.
That's a fact
Exactly
Facts!!!
Couldn't have said it better. With her unfavorable view of men she should let her man go because he'll never satisfy her. He deserves better.
When you don’t take the time to heal a wound, you bleed over everyone you come in contact with!
This comment is brilliant.
Exactly@TRell
T Rell
WoW. Very powerful.
Healing doesn't make you blind.
Speak the truth!
It's sad that she was so close to admitting her faults, but then she backtracked and started to blame men smdh. She bashes blk men and then wonders why her son doesn't want to date a woman like her smdh.....She has low self-esteem, self-hate, and hatred of men issues.
No but it's the truth tho she is the messey problem her
@Coach Cook 🙏💯👏
@The Truth I talk down on her...really? I'm NOT the one blaming all men for HER POOR choices. This woman has NO respect for blk men including her father & grandfather & son because if she did she would have a clearer view of her decisions and the men she chose are NOT a reflexion of blk men but her. Her son shows his disgust by dating white girls because he now it bothers his mom due to her hatred of blk men.
@The Truth Because she's NOT taking responsibility for HER decisions. It has NOTHING to do with me. She's setting a BAD example for other WOMEN to follow. As BLACK MEN we ALWAYS get blamed for things that other people have done. It has a DAMAGING effect on MEN. You didn't notice that her SON's want to date WHITE women!
Coach Cook Her son is 10 looool dating??
Insanity is wanting a "hood" man and expecting him to be good. How unrealistic.
@Aces you're not better than K Michelle with her false narratives. As a black female who gas never had "hood" on her list of boyfriend characteristics I will say that plenty of black females do not share her mentality.
Aces 🤫.... frfr
👍🏾
Im from the hood but i dont respect any female that dont respect herself so if she say ima dogg ass nigga i say u not lookin in the mirror ma
silkyslim2111 being hood doesn’t mean bad. It’s a certain swag
I understand how a woman could feel that way- but I can attest there are good men out there - she probably overlooks them and calls them corny or “gay” because they aren’t hood .
Shara Leverett
Story of my life.....
King Melanin7 I see you King. I appreciate men like you, believe me there are women who want men like you.
True! I have a great man.We've
been together 29 years. He's a homebody. If he's not working, he's
home with his family. I appreciate him.😊
N. B. you and your husband are older and settled. Y’all don’t deal with today’s bs. You don’t have a clue about these pathetic ass males that are the majority.
@@iamyourleader2287 why are you on this comment thread spreading negativity? Clearly you have been hurt, but don't drag people into your misery while making excuses. Take what the people said above you and search out how to have genuine happiness for yourself as they do
Your resentment toward men may be pushing your son away
Running him to “the white girl”
Her son is rejecting black women and she doesn’t see herself as a part of that decision. How delusional
@@kwekublack8571 and as we all know, this is typical female behavior
She stopped short of saying she didn't like her son. "Men aren't good pp" ?? At least her son is smart enough to not date women like his mom (kinda wish he dated sistas but his example is his mama)
C'mon on. Exactly
“I don’t think men are good people”
Have you ever cheated?
“Yes”
lmao
"Yes, after I was cheated on" if your going to quote quote the whole response to the question smh
@@movingon2081 that's a stupid excuse women use that really means I suspected him so I cheated just in case then got found out so the nigga cheated to. You'll never know the true timeline trust me
@@movingon2081 so that justifies her cheating, huh?
Erica Ashley that stil doesn’t justify what she did. It just means she’s really immature and doesn’t rationally think about what the right thing to do in that situation would be.
So she mad at men because she changed her body to get a certain type of man that she’s attracted to while possibly ignoring other men that’s attracted to her that she might not be attracted to. Lol. You’re chasing the wrong type of man.
AMEN!_💯💯💯💯
BINGO!!
I don’t think that’s why she’s mad at men. She’s mad at herself for dealing with and accommodating their BS. Truth be told these dudes are ruthless if u allow it
@@katb2440 why do you women love making excuses for bad behavior?
She been blaming and shaming men for years, especially black men every since she first came out.
She even advocated black women dating out their race while throwing black men under the bus but we see how that worked out for her.
Here she is blaming all men for her poor choices, even her career took a hit because of the way she is, thats why she ended up going back to love and hip hop with her Fake Ass exploding, and yet she still don't hold herself accountable for anything.
Alucardx25 you’re emotional and you can’t read and comprehend I see. I didn’t make an excuse I clearly stated she’s mad at herself. And PS I live in a reality world. There’s plenty good women without men. What’s that tell your over emotional personality. 👍🏽
If K Michelle feels that way about the man she is dating... The real question is, why is she dating that man? Sometimes it is best that we are alone. Nothing is wrong with being alone.
Right sis
I think most black women should be alone for that matter. Nothing wrong with that.
@@saintzayan8205 shut up 🙄 you coming over here talking about "most black women". Shut up.
Agreed. People treat being alone like being in the 9th ring of hell or something.
@@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax nah you shut up bitch. If it makes you happy then how about all black women should be single and satisfied then? Leave black men alone and let them be with other women
Its a shame that she has painted ALL Men as bad Men because she has chosen poorly
EXACTLY. 💯💯💯💯
I agree. It's a self fulfilling prophecy. She thinks they all bad and that's what she'll keep getting
FACTS 💯✊🏿
Unfortunately, even when you try to be careful about who you choose you still meet the wrong one. I have a loving husband but I it took a lot of heartbreak before I met him. The pickings are very slim in men and women.
she was referring to black men
Sorry!! We can’t blame men for our lack of self worth, self love and lack of boundaries.. Take responsibility for your actions and seek counseling....Period!!
blacknight39 I was once that insecure, lack of boundaries and lack self worth women. I had to learn some very hard lessons. You grow through what you go through. Peace and blessing 🙏🏾
Moonyeen38 leaf @@ so true my sister. Some of these women refuse to work on their self spiritually, emotionally , mentally and Psychologically . They keep on getting in and out of relationships like a god dam taxi. Draining and Corrupting their own aura.
They can NEVER seems to understand that the men they are attracting is a REFLECTION of who they truly are within 🤦♀️🤦♀️.
What she need to do is close her legs and work on her self .. the universe will do the rest 🙏
Bye girl....yes we can. Men exploit women every day.
@@cherishrenee325 you not taking any accountability
Cherish Renee shut your ass up did somebody forced you? Bum ass
Women dissing men but raising sons is a problem.
EXACTLYYYY
Shoulders29 Shoulders I feel sad that a woman dissing a man is all you hear
Shoulders29 Shoulders 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Not really genius 🤔😕
neasha horton what else is she talking about?
Ladies & gentlemen this is the epitome of a woman who fails to take accountability for anything...
Right so true
Period. No accountability.
Where's the lie though. She was talking about her experience. You probably have some stories to tell too. The problem amongst us is men don't want to listen to the pain that women are sharing. That in and of itself contributes to why many can't heal and move forward in strength. You want us to listen to all that you go through as black men in this world and have your back, but you're not strong enough to handle a discussion about how hurting black men are hurting black women. Your comment Sir, underscores a lot of what's being said. You are requiring a woman who's been used and abused to carry the full weight of what happened to harm her while she was trying to give her all and support to the men that she was in relationship with. What then is your opinion about the mens' responsibility in what happened. And don't say simply, "she chose them", because we all choose but don't know until we know.
Ms Vena I have been hurt by many women too, but when I try to talk about my problems I’m seen as (by women) a loser, who can’t sustain a relationship all because of my mental illness. And when she does it, she's seen as a hero? Just because she's a woman? I’m really disgusted by society and the fact that women can get away with blatant sexism all because they made the wrong decisions. I know I’m not the only man who's been hurt by women, but unfortunately we don’t have a platform to share our shit because hypocrite women will just see us as complaining.
@@seepaw9191 so what happens then is both men and women get stuck in their own pain and disappointment comparing which gender is hurting or has caused hurt more. No one should be treated as if their emotions, wounds, dreams or desires don't matter. There have been so many games played and misinformation used to try to control other people to get what is wanted that there is no trust between men and women. All are walking around encased in bitterness holding grudges against everyone in the opposite gender. Men trying to tell women how to be and vice versa. At some point the madness has to stop on all sides. Maybe we make too complicated a thing about hurts and disappointments over relationships that don't last. We see them as failures. Maybe it's as simple as not being angry and holding onto negative thoughts and feelings but is as simple as being done! People are carrying way too much baggage around over people long gone who could care less about the rest of our lives. We then require others to help carry that baggage instead of just sitting it down and walking away putting it in the past. Maybe we're talking about the wrong things.
All the "good guys" that I've dated had a little nerd in them, which many of my girlfriends laughed at, but I was treated like a queen. I attract very good men. I've learned to really appreciate that.
LoveExhorter @ me too. I really have some great guys around me has friends also and they treat their family great 👍
Hopefully you truly appreciate him and don't cheat/ make him feel insecure just cause you have the power in the relationship, women love treating nice guys like shit
It's called self-esteem, YOU are responsible for it!
Say it louder
Mann shout out to Katt Williams he wuz the 1st person I heard say that.
OMG, what she do to her face!😲
That white woman is crazy!
Too much fillers
SSS 334 all she did was pinch her nose she still FINE AS HELL
I was moving my iPad around and thinkin, “Did the girl have a skroke?”
SSS 334 I believe K Michelle is cloned they clone a lot of celebrities in Hollywood just saying but I know a lot of ppl are going to deny it oh well
Heal yourself, learn to love yourself and you’ll attract who you need in your life. You have to be mentally and emotionally healthy to get that in return.
Please sistah say it one more time for the people in the back!!!! Self love is the best love.
Yesss preach I had to learn this if you keep saying men are trash then that’s all you will see and find and search for with out knowing it.
Moonyeen38 leaf Yesss 👏🏾🙌🏾
Ehhh sometimes. There are also cases where u can be completely mentally & emotionally healthy & still be deceived by trash. Ppl are tricky..U definitely don’t always get what u put out.
@Agatha z You forgot sad
K better leave her damn face alone
Omg, yes!
Bianca Lord they’re chopping up the whole cast of Hollywood lol a mess
She’s gotten way too much work done on both her face & body
Know weight loss
Can't raise a lion😀
I see so many comments about this woman's face, her skin and education level. She is damaged. Let's be real, all you good men also know a bunch of no good ass men. It is hard to find a good man. All she did was be honest about her feelings and her own insecurities and experiences. And the way this current generation is coming up, it will be even more difficult for them. So stop acting like you don't know how she could feel that way. I personally don't know one black man that has never cheated on his spouse / significant other. A good black man is a rare find.
Yesss. Most have cheated on someone. Being a stand up guy later on doesn't diminish all the hurt they've caused women. Lets be clear.
Very rare find, most cheat and abuse women and children and then blame the same woman!!
@@sun-kissedgoddess9874 So tru. I was going to take it there but i didn't feel like ruffling the feathers of the delusional folk.
Well if there is no good men, we know that no good men raised you all lol. I’m married and I don’t cheat and I love my family. Maybe more women should look for a stable guy like me instead of the guys who show the signs of an bad guy. Yet low self esteem women look for low self esteemed men and the cycle continues but all men aren’t evil. I wish you knew how black men like myself get hated on a daily basis and you would understand but you don’t because your women. We get hate from white people, black women, and other races. Even the other bad black men that you all secretly love try to kill us for being good. So next time look in yourself before you judge, it’s clear as day if you love yourself. Right is right and wrong is wrong. Women aren’t just deemed to be good just because your women lol
@Kristen Michelle Wow just WOW... talk about immature... how he make fun of an innocent child... 😞😔
I’m a “black” man and I’m raising twins 👯♀️ my wife passed away I. 2015
As you should. That’s your job right?
Sorry about your wife passing ❤️
@@user-lz3kr5pc7x He wasn't complaining.....just stating the facts no emotion....
@@_flyguy_ and not seeking "praise" for it as most women do.
That's not an easy job. How old are your twins?
She don't even like herself & she can't even choose a good man & that is 100% her fault investing in all these sorry men & can't even learn from it.
bigrlp111 You have to heal the inside to attract what you want on the outside.. Broken people attract broken people.
bigrlp111 💯
Exactly, she so educated and strong in her words but can't be completely honest with herself.....im starting to believe she has some mental issues that run deep and I wish at this point she would just shut up because I don't want her using her platforms to make ppl think this how most black women think 😩
Also, can someone rid the streets of these sorry men you speak of? Where are their fathers?
Yeah she must heal 1st
she wants to be a victim so bad!
SO BAD
I still believe all of the allegations she made towards Memph Hitz was all lies! Plus too many celebs that slept with her say her BOX smells...who wants to stay with that!!
Marlon Askew nah I believe her on him probably going upside her head once or twice but more on some Rihanna and Chris type shit. But she is definitely damaged
@@kingprice3393 yeah that is what I mean also. I think the lie is that he just jumped on her for no reason. I think she popped off on him and he defended himself. You see her pop off on reality TV all the time but she act like she is so innocent.
Social media culture and everything else in America has programmed black women that black men are the problem and black women are innocent but the reality is BLACK AMERICA HAS PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES COLLECTIVELY
I don't agree that ALL men are bad. However, I do understand how she feels. I volunteered at a womans shelter and the abuse and horror some of these women go through is above and beyond despicable. People are so quick to blame the woman for allowing it instead of shaming the man for actually DOING it. 🚨
Taj The Great One I agree men should be hold accountable for it but woman do choice thos type.of guys and stay in relationship like that
Well it’s true!! I’ve seen it over and over again!! Always making excuses for your choices then crying about it! Women up and take accountability for your choices of course I’m not talking about all women just women like this!
Ardissia Thompsom the problem is that people are blind or just plain stupid. The Bible tells you how to live and what type people you should deal with but people don’t listen then cry about their choices!! God forgives you but you will pay a price for your choices unless you don’t know but most people do but they’re too stuck in their PRIDE!
Your absolutely right
@@JohnThomas-yf3gw I agree to a certain extend- I grew up very sheltered and religious going to church 3x/wk- we had no secular music in our house EVER and had strict West Indian parents- We couldn't hang in the malls or even go to school dances. parties or over to friends houses n no cussing. I thgt he was a bit ruff around the edges cuz of the country he came from( the same country as my whole family). I thght him seeing me travel for work and go to night school wld allow him to put down this behaviour . I couldn't see what I wasn't taught or exposed 2 cuz he came in sheep's clothing BUT I wasn't dumb and quickly understood/felt that this person was all abt himself and jealous of me n how ppl treated/loved me - he low key wanted to bring me down n for someone that never had arguments/fights with anyone suddenly it was a daily event for the smallest things- basically he was a NARCISSIST( which we were not taught abt either) After 1.5 yrs, I didn't want that toxicity 4 myself n I ended it ( which was hard as hell to shake him off ). He is still hoovering but since then, I have found an AMAZING God fearing and principe practicing man who was THAT b4 I met him BUT I say all that to say ...... SOMETIMES you can be tricked. Many of these woman stay cuz they don't have self esteem . We may not have been rich BUT the one jewel our parents taught us was to LEARN TO LOVE YOUR OWN COMPANY- which many of these women are not doing so they would rather stay in this mess or get someone messy just so they can say they have a man- I know I am not the norm but just wanted to put it out there as getting a loser is never a woman or mans intention.
I want a grown man but he still has to have some hood on him....."I don't think men are good people", She likes hood dudes but it's all our fault. Lol
A lot of women aren't attracted to good/nice men. They're seen as weak, corny and boring.
Jim_d
It’s not just black women bruh...
Jim_d
You have issues and are way too emotional homie. Never said white women did it too. I stated a fact after you called out black women.
The grass aint greener is all im trynna say. But you immediately hopped into your feelings.
You tried to use a shaming tactic for me stating a fact? And my father was there for me lololol. We talk very often.
I expected that shaming tactic to come from a woman....do better.
@@standardprocedure7017 Not me! I love nice guys.
@@standardprocedure7017 nice guys cant protect? Im a nice guy,but im an ex bodyguard,i teach self defence to others,i love boxing and mma,yet im laid back and dont do foolishness
She slept with souja boy so what men she talking about
wHATTTTTT ????
@@sweetpea1531 yup she said it on wild n out
Verse Wonder lmao
@Verse Wonder you funny asf 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
She dated Edris Elba he didn’t marry her but end up marrying another woman. Wht does tht say abut u? Stop blaming men look at ur self sis
franny0611 that’s not dating n I bet he didn’t even want to hit it. That nigga is nasty smashing 🤢
💯💯💯💯💯
DuH MavericK 🤮🤮🤮🤮
I just fell in love with the booty ❤️
He got a woman pregnant while with her so she left . isn't that what u would do ?
KM : “Men make women get body modifications”
Also KM : “I Told the record label I wasn’t signing without getting my boobs done” 🤦🏾♂️
My momma always tell me « if you want married a good woman find a woman who make less contradictions » thanks mom girl like her no way only for smash night 😀
This whole interview in a nut shell
Her self hatred turned into hatred for men
B I N G O
True story
That's pretty deep Whitney 👍
Fact!!!
Girl shut up
I love K Michele’s music but I don’t understand what she is talking about! I think instead of bashing all men she should just encourage women to have higher self esteem! If a man does not want you or treats you bad, leave him alone!
AMEN!💯💯💯💯
Jen Owens Amen
K doesn't understand that there is a black man that will ride for her in life & love but the problem is that man is either working in a warehouse or working in prison...BUT THEM NIGGAZ TOO BROKE FOR HER
What about men if you donot want them they never leave you and you have get restraint order against them
PREACH!!!!!
No man ever promised if you have a big ole booty I won't cheat on you ,like stop you brought most of this on yourself
Im just waiting to hear K say she been dating the guy workin at UPS or the guy operating his own trucking business and theez niggaz aint shit...U A BLACK WOMAN CHASIN RICH NIGGAZ FOR A FANTASY RELATIONSHIP INSTEAD OF A REAL RELATIONSHIP
WillySweet WonkaJoe She did. You didn’t see that bum she dated on her old show?? He had several children & absolutely nothing goin on from himself.
Hence is why she is saying what she is saying
K Michelle: men aren't good people
Also K Michelle: my boyfriend has wanted to be my boyfriend for 20 years
Also K Michelle: I'm cold in relationships
Stupidity doesn't leave with age, I see
Shes a new kind lol.
Stop speaking pick me lol
Emmanuel Ani You’re the only stupid one. Because she decided to date someone when she was ready to give them a try makes her a bad person? Being cold in relationships makes you a bad person? Y’all are so judgmental and irrational.
mybro727 yea being cold in relationships is bad because you’re Sabotaging it ... wtf
@@kurry8837 imagine not being intelligent fam 😂
This woman is LOST!!! And the sad thing is these are the type of women that the average brother has to deal with on a day to day basis.
@D Goshay you men like how she did in the video?
Pete McCorvey men choose to deal with this type of woman, they don’t have to do anything they don’t want to.
The average brother ain’t nothing to write home about either...Let’s keep it a buck. Some man is responsible for creating this pain in her.
@@missj3434 Exactly. They create the pain and then mad cause women are in pain.
Men don't have to deal with women at all. Its a choice.
Just a few seconds into the video and i can tell she is childish. The type of woman i religiously avoid.
Amen! And that's why she thinks all men are bad. Good ones spot her damage from a mile away and know it can be contagious!
SMART MAN
Spot on 👍🏾
@@Lodeenie Well stated sista! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I agee im annoyed with this interview lol
She spoke off her experience with men and even said due to hearing so many bad stories from women it only made her viewpoint more definite but like always y’all pick out one part and never analyze the entire situation ...cherry picking is tacky...if anything do what she’s doing and build women up...smh y’all women gotta do better
That Part I wasn’t trying to do that...I just don’t understand how we yell Black girls rock and girl power but be so quick to tear down a woman who is clearly trying to be bettwr
I’ve said what she is saying for years because of my experience as well as those around me. I had friends calling me from up north with the same/different experiences my friends were having with men from the south as well as other places. It was MY experiences and those around me. Unfortunately, I still don’t know of more than about five men (maybe) who are treating their women well. But again that’s only my experiences. We as a community need to learn to build each other period.
Thank you! I saw the whole point of view. She has some truthful points! Women we have been unconsciously taught to endure cheating.
Men Are The Prize Sweetheart I have been and am a daughter of the most high. I have never act out of character in such a way. Brother you just gave validity to my experiences. Praying for you to gain clarity instead of reacting from deep rooted emotions. Be blessed!
Also, I’ve never dated a thug. I think that may be one of those myths. Like those labels thrown at you as a black man. You need to really check yourself.
Appreciate her honesty and because she is standing in her truth. She will receive healing.
But she had no truth though. Her main argument was that men are not good people simply because they cheat, or have done other things to hurt their wives, meanwhile women have also cheat and have done other things to harm their husbands.
@@saintzayan8205 listen to the whole thing.
@@dimedenaye I already saw most of it and that's enough for me. I think majority of black women should just be single and happy while the men move on to other kinds of women
@@saintzayan8205 I agree Saint! Deeply!
Kendra Williams because of her choices she says men aren’t good people! What?
I guess I've watched so much Iyanla so much I can see that K is a damaged little girl in a woman's body. She needs therapy to pinpoint the problem. She's in emotional pain.
Iyanla have me around here evaluating everybody🤣🤗 I feel you though
She's very damaged
Facts! 💯
I Agree..
Iyanla not only helps you recognize your own trauma, she also helps you see traumatic behaviors in other people as well......
She said "I can't date you if I can't write a song about you" she truly needs to get help to let go of all the hurt and pain she has stored away or it's going to continue to consume her
K michelle don’t do anything else to your face love. It’s over! So stop it!
That face tho..... dawn. Age gracefully is part of life. We can't control nature. Nature always win.
Kendria Thomas “It’s over” lol
................damn. 😂😂😂
If it wasn't for the title I wouldn't have known it was her
bulletsandcaskets45 exactly!
"i'm spiteful" = stay FAR away if you want a good relationship.
Damn she had too much plastic surgery. She even bleached her skin
She has that lil kim disease.
TheTR1358 you can’t be this stupid, did you not watch the video and listen to her say she has women coming to her crying and asking for advice, she states she has a show helping women
I peeped that she a light skin now
I thought I was tripping when I said “she looks a whole other shade now”
She love her victimhood
She's the classic example of a single, bitter, woman. You can't always be the victim. It's not everybody. At what point are you gonna look in the mirror and realize you got issues to fix with yourself. You're attracted to and attracting the wrong kinds of men for a reason. It's not a men thing. It's a YOU thing. There are good and bad PEOPLE. Period. Fix yourself before trying to get with anyone else. Peace.
@pinkeverything1 For 2 secs yeah I know. She can't keep one long term. She didn't talk about him like he mattered. She was too busy ranting about other men. Clearly not the man she really wants. She doesn't know what she wants. Like I said, she needs to work on herself.
3 year isn’t 2 seconds 😂. I don’t think she’s bitter she correct. We have done a piss poor job raising these young men. Men today don’t have a clear idea of what a man is . Men today don’t understand the concept of protecting and providing for their family. Too many baby dads and not enough father. There should be no way for a man to have 13 kids but 13 different women.
@@d6831 And what about women? Running around being thots on the gram, talking back and fighting with men as though they themselves are men, screaming I don't need no man. There's blame on both sides. Again, it's people. Not just men.
@@Triniboi05 Why do you think that is? Most women who are "thots".... Don't have fathers/male figures in their life. I agree with K Michelle.
Who keeps what doesn't really want to be kept?! 😭🤣😭🤣😂
This women said husband MADE go get a bigger booty🤨🤦🏽♀️nah sis that’s on u.
Lol so sick of people crucifying others for wanting to be wanted by their partners....this is a dumb comment. Surprise: wanting to be wanted is NORMAL in a romantic relationship. ESPECIALLY when men talk ALL DAY LONG about how “If I ain’t attracted to her then blah blah blah” “Well he wasn’t attracted to her...she didn’t keep herself up...blah” like let’s not lie lmfao
ᒍᗩᘔᘔIᗴ if your man ain’t happy leave 🤦🏽♀️sis. U go get surgery?That ain’t love sis. And if u don’t love yourself sis nobody will!🤷🏿♂️if your man takes u to gym and feed u healthy food that’s love! You just confused hun🤦🏽♀️
Facts
ᒍᗩᘔᘔIᗴ if you get plastic surgery for a man..you are a whole FOOL who deserves no sympathy. Have some dignity and accountability about your dating life, PERIODT
@@user-lz3kr5pc7x : Nah its yall own vanity that is to blame. When have men ever blamed women for making them get into a life of crime to get rich quick and get female attention? Never
No man can make me change my body or do nothing i dont want to do
She said her choices no man told her too
I def agree with ur statement. But I also do believe society does influence how u feel about your body, especially when you are not totally secure. Society is all about unrealistic beauty standards and its sad that alot of men want that and indirectly by there actions influence women/girls to want to look like what they see.
Your ugly anyway. Keep your body to yourself . No man wants it either
@@CS-sv8fg 🤣🤣😂
Emotional Damaged woman, The facial surgery is an outward sign of her spirit. That guys she with is a dam fool. She gone leave him shortly after the baby is born. Watch.
ewwwwww! someone actually impregnated that thing? on purpose?
@Mathius S oh thank goodness. now let's hope she doesn't use the baby as a weapon come break-up time
what facial surgery... you sound stupid like this connect ... why you waiting on a woman relationship to fall.. you just as sad as your mother for having you
@@KOUNTRYOBVII fuck are you even trying to say?
Jayson Fuller i knew her faced look kinda different but she still looking good
@KMichelle-my husband and I have been together since I was 18...and @ 41 and two children, 3 dogs, 2 turtles, lizards, and all....the love was real then and even stronger now....the man for you will stand at the grave with you & bury your parents!! Real love DOES EXSIST!!!!!
More power to both can you say that LOUDER please !
These comments got me like...How I did I get here I was looking for something else...see your got me confused now I'm not gonna even try to correct the sentence
Thank you for sharing a version of truth that lifts instead of destroys. We need to be reminded that all men aren't bad.
@@Lodeenie AMEN
She dont want to take responsibility for who she chose, often time women turn a blind eye to these men there choosing.
But if a woman have standards, they get shamed for still being single. Then they get told to lower their standards and work with a brother. Then when she does that and it falls apart, she gets told, you should have chose better. So which one reallly is it then sis? Please enlighten me. Thanks in advance....
It's not the men. Its her. Women like to lie and blame the man when it was really the woman.
@@4crazy1chick2 Saying to have realistic standards doesn't mean settle for the worst. Lower your standards as in don't limit yourself to materially wealthy dudes, who are really good looking, are 6ft2 and in great shape, with a big dick. Ironically, the guys K michelle dates were probably high standard men in the physical and material department. However, women will pass on a good dude who is doing well for himself, just becoz some other dude has a flash car or clothes, or is a gangsta.
Have high standards when it comes to respect and character. Don't have low standards, but realistic standards when it comes to more superficial things.
@@loveiscactus4294 that I can definitely agree with.
@@loveiscactus4294 define a good dude.. I really want to hear this.
We all know she is right. My brothas be doing women terrible. Women should set up standards of behavior before men can receive them. Bad men will not stick around a woman that expects the whole package. Mind, body, and Soul= The Whole Package.
FirstPersonHood Thank u Sir.. Finally a man that’s telling the truth. Everybody sitting up here acting they so damn surprised. Majority of men are raised to use & abuse women, finesse them, treat them like shyt & play mind games with them. This is a fact. Thanks 4 admitting this.
Miss J. Raised by single mothers.....that’s the problem.....
FirstPersonHood 💯💯💯
They did that already like bipolar is just her
@ thats cause the no good men fathers left.... you see her point
Dang. I was so ready to comment something bad. Already “liked” an unkind comment. I decided to listen to the whole interview. I heard a sensitive human being in pain- who doesn’t know how to move through the trauma of her n our past (AA history). If she could read this: I wish u to heal, feel unlimited unconditional love from self n those surrounding u; learn to guard ur energy as an empath n make a vision board of healthy black relationships. Bless you K.M. N I’m sorry for judging you- I’ve been there n done some crazy things myself. Thank Gawdddd I wasn’t in the spotlight. Thank you for being you. 🌸
Jay Jay thank you for hearing her and not judging
@@YungBosshog you're a simp. Stupid at that
simp
@jay jay when k started @7:16 I understood clearly what she was expressing. I've been that person whom was betrayed by both husbands (married twice). I've been the loving faithful loyal wife. When K reach 26:43 Frank asked her why was she crying I was already in waterfall mode of tears It's been 22 months and counting since i received a text from my then husband telling me. He loved me but wasn't in love with me along with other unpleasant wordings all because he wanted freedom. I was devastated to say the least questioning myself and to why this happened. All my efforts showing him love a being supportive caring wife, I'm dismissed?
I realized afterwards he was the wrong guy. I thought I knew better. I grew cold towards men. I'd decided to be n stay single. I had to learn to stay away from the "man with a mask":. My loving heart can't withstand another hit. I'm currently in counseling learning to love myself.
@@sabrinajohnson3743 Key words, "men with masks" because there's a lot of them, and their mentality is increasingly regressive.
There's good men, we just gotta weed them out from pretenders. You will know them by their fruits
I guess since she can't do more plastic surgery on body, she went to the face.
shelly moo I was thinking the same thing.....lord help this lady because she is dealing with some issues; as we all but Doing that to your face will not help.
Right
100 true she doesnt know who she is #insignificant
*RIGHT... TERRIBLE*
shelly moo Yep lil Kim 2.0
She means the men she's attracted to. Get out of here trying so hard to get some form of attention. You wanted hood dudes, you got them.
Exactly
We want brothers who understand the struggle thru experience. Someone who understands us. Hood niggas don't present themselves as "hood niggas" a lot of the time. Hood niggas all behind desks today. Never know ppls background till ur in it sometimes. They're owning business to cover for their drug dealings
ANY man will hurt u just because ur vulnerable as a woman. It's a man thing we just don't understand, still trying to figure out. They ALWAYS test u to see if they can slide by with something. U let that go u will be taking shit the whole relationship. I cut them off the moment they try to establish some fucked up pattern for the rest of our time together. I'm single and happy, could be behind bars, nobody is gonna defend ur honor like u. Globally, men give only what women accept
She dated Idriss Elba... Yea that's a good guy 👀👀
Facts Tony!!
Idc what anyone says I respect her brutal honesty a lot of women scared to speak up cause of what these men might say about them . It’s like if I speak my mind a man won’t find me as a suitable mate🙄
Faxxxxxx...... they know she was speaking truth
Exactly
💯
She spoke straight facts about how these men need to be “raised” because they are NOTHING like what many of us gen Xers have grown up with.
only if you sound stupid as fuck like she did
she hasn't raised her son. His grandparents are raising him while she is playing dress up and singer and acting Hood everywhere she goes. You can accomplish a million things and still not be seen as anything because of how you present yourself. Everything she said is some bullshit. Your dad is all this and you grew up this way and all and you choose to pick bullshit and present yourself in a fucked up way so you attract shit. You arent even raising your own child. smh shes sad
Heavy! But she is right, not all men but most of them are no good people. Great interview. I like her
No good people raised by no good women....
@@demobrooks5589 You get an award for the DUMBEST comment ever. Your ignorance is overwhelming.
Lucky all I’m saying is black women are in no position to say black men are mostly bad....they are at the bottom as well if we are comparing....
@@reelfly you cant even explain how Demo Brook's comment was so dumb when he has a point. 70% of black families are mainly black single mothers and the mothers are the ones that raise these men but clearly have not done a good job.
Black women claim to be independent, strong, and educated, yet cant even keep their kids out of trouble. Their bastard kids have been in jail far more than staying in school and the black community has gone to deep shit
@@saintzayan8205 I won't even dignify your ignorant ass response with a comment.✌ Way to many stupid people on the internet.
I wonder what her son thinks about her comment : 'I Dont think men are good people? If I was him I would be mad and confused as hell! lol
First off imagine a Man saying this about women he would get “Canceled” & dragged through social media. But, Let’s be real, Women don’t REALLY want good men, it’s just a nice thing to say for the “good men” still out there so they don’t realize that “good guy” shit gets them nowhere. 🤷🏾♂️
Black women*
@@RUclipsdisciple All women. Believe me. I know a woman who dresses like a hoe and complains she doesn't want guys who only want to fuck her, but she only wants bad boys with tattoos and motorcycles.
Why would anyone take advice from a black woman that clearly hates herself? She bleaching her skin and probably has 4c hair type but always wearing hair-hats. Got alllll this plastic surgery and almost died. I bet nothing is ever her fault. Keep your legs closed or better yet just date women.
You lost me at hair hat.
Take your bitch azz Tommy . S mindset TF outta here!
Anyone that follows that clown needs to be thrown off a mountain side.
The UPPER ECHELON OF HIGHER THINKING struck a nerve?🤣🤣🤣🤣 a hair hatted angry black woman mad at the world because no one is sympathetic to your tired excuses for not wanting to wear your natural hair🤣🤣🤣 HAIR HATTED HOOLIGAN BABY MAMA who hasn’t yet walked down the alter or even been proposed to🤣🤣🤣
Blade Brown hell if y’all stop always wanting redbones or mixed Latin/white girls then the sistas wouldn’t have to bleach abs wear wigs etc
@@SirBrucie well damn.
@@Worldshottestpariah dead excuse
This is ignorance at its finest. She’s in a relationship, planning for children and has cheated on other men... but ALL men are bad people... let that sink in 🙄
Extra Eric 💯🙌🏾👏🏾🤔
She’s the definition of a woman who can never be satisfied, and once the person leave their just the worst🗣🤦🏾♂️
Jermainee J Doesn’t sounds like ignorance.. sounds more like settling. Sounds like she really feels men ain’t shyt but she wants kids so.. she’s just dealing with it.
The wall takes no prisoners.
Miss J. No it sounds like ignorance. It sounds like a bad person telling the world that everyone else is bad but she’s not. She doesn’t know all men and intelligent people don’t speak in absolutes. She’s cheated on men before. Does that make all women bad people?
When K talks all I hear is “Self Destruction, you headed for self destruction”
Pray God's protection over her life
Texas Strong48 💯💯💯
Hurt people hurt people. I used to think along these same lines until I realized it was the quality of men that I was entertaining. It was also my attachment issues, self worth and self love issues that was attracting those “not so good men” to my life. There are great men out here.
Yes it is but VERY FEW🌠
What do children do to attract pedophiles then?
@@JuanHenny define a good guy?
@@divine9100 you've been with 95% of the male population??
All men are the same chilee
K Michelle...1) God is already talking to you and your identity and esteem should 1st be in him and no one else.2) Can you acknowledge the flaws in your process for consistently ending up with similar men?3) Women must understand that they start the relationship with the "power". The issue is when you compromise your standards early on and ignore the tell tell signs of a man with suspect character.4) Make the beginning of the relationship harder. If you tell a kat you're not about having sex, sex shouldn't come up... No fave positions, no photos shared. Once you open that "box" and allow access you may find the relationship going a way that wasn't apart of your intentions and plans.
that's false.
good men just do not settles for low self esteem women and vice versa.
Facts
LIES.... some men PREY on women with low self esteem. and when i say "some" im being nice because a lot of men do
budziec I said « good men » not some.
Dec ToJan just as many as BW.
Dec ToJan can’t build while women are all trying to trap the men with child support and spend their hard earned money on weave.
Like lil kim, I k. Michelle was a beautiful woman before the surgeries. Now she's a few surgeries away from looking like the bride of chucky. 😢
Know weight loss
There was absolutely nothing wrong with Lil Kim.
She was already a beauty without the surgery
Lil Kim has some of the same issues. Her source was her dad.
HUMMMMM ......... WELL ?
“Getting to know each other’s trauma” that’s deep! We call it trauma bonding. When two people share similar pain and it brings them “closer together.”
Unfortunately many people aren’t aware of their trauma or don’t like to talk about it. We get into relationships broken and damaged and wonder why our marriages or relationships don’t work or we default to “men are trash” or “black women are loud and don’t respect men.” We have to do better. Just my two cents. Good interview!
That's not what a trauma bond is.
Michelle M enlighten me please. Help me understand what trauma bonding is.
@@ScaryToRemarry it's when someone is in an abusive relationship and they stay in that situation because they are traumatized and bonded to the abuser.
A trauma bond is a bond that forms due to intense, emotional experiences, usually with a toxic person. Similar to Stockholm Syndrome, it holds us emotionally captive to a manipulator who keeps us “hostage” - whether that be through physical or emotional abuse
And half of y’all women and men just woke up next to somebody else spouse...house nasty and credit low af but stay bashing K...
ofk 💯
Where’s the lie !!’ Come thru
exactly...
💁🏽♀️💯🤣
Wow !!! Callm down .
So she's not raising her own son, her mom is...but has so much hatred toward men...but in a relationship. I'm just as confused as she is.😒
TRUE! LMAO😂😂🤣
I feel bad for her son!!
her son is damn near grown and they have a well documented relationship. people love throwing that deadbeat parent shit around and its reckless as hell. every REAL fan knows her and her son are very close
🤣🤣🤣....has a circle of enablers
budziec right. What would’ve been unfit is taking him from place to place. How do they think he eats? She has to work and provide. Every celebrity doesn’t have the luxury of being a SAHM and bringing in money. She wanted him to have a stable upbringing.
It is the men she deals with that are bad people. She has a son but call men bad people. Someone needs to talk some sence into her.
Ive dealt with a woman like her before no matter how good you are its never enough because whats she dealing with is problems that only she can fix and not a man she has issues within that she needs to fix first
This woman is so empty and broken. Her life is hell you can read it on her face.
I wanna meet her to pray for her
Sirquincy Washington pray for her now... you don’t have to be face to face
@@KeiaJohn4-15 AMEN
And you know the solution..have a baby to try and fill a void so they can be damaged too.
@@petroglyph79 Yeah bruh it always a mans fault....a BW easy out of their bad decisions, and you can read all on her face. Her dad is educated, she is a college educated women that was suppose to go to Law School and she calls her self "hood"? I call her confused!!
I feel some of what she says about us men doing things knowingly. At the same time many of us understand the pain we cause our sisters once we let them down. All it takes is seeing how sad and low she gets those times you disappoint her. I don't ever wanna do that to my Girl again. It's not fair or right. So some of us do change. Blanket statements are very dangerous.
D. Corey I like your mindset... Cause some guys ego just too high and they never come forward admitting to being wrong or willin to change to be a better person...
@@passionatedapoet0 Very true, Being honest with your self is hard but the only direction we must take for spiritual growth (Pride comes before the fall the bible says)
Finally a man that will admit some of the pain she's feeling is valid. I wish we had more men that had your perspective. I don't agree with her blanket statement about all men being bad but a lot of us are constantly getting fooled by cons and getting mistreated and that's hard to work past. So glad you're doing better fo yourself and ur relationship.
Salute to you brother
Thx.
K spoke facts through her hurt... Men have traumatized her. I understand it... Idk any woman who hasn’t been traumatized by a man... There are good ones out there, but the fucked up ones Make it hard for the really good guys.
Elvick literally said the same thing somewhere else this afternoon. 💯💯
...it makes it harder when the woman make the wrong choices tho...
She contradicts everything she says like girl how do you really feelllll?
A lot of men in the comments are confirming her sentiments about men.
Exactly, they are doing the most. These niggas are outrageous, makes me believe all men are bad too.
@@OG_Bap Glad all these bitter women are making themselves known. Now men know which ones to avoid.
@@LoganCharlesII & vice versa
Seriously! What’s funny is they know exactly what she is talking about...but bro code! They never tell on one another but they will call women crazy at the drop of a hat.
LOL
I think the sayin goes “Hell have no fury like a woman scorned”
DaRealJuice 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Kessa R that’s what I think about the women of today! Back in the day u was lucky if u had a father. 🤷🏿♂️today u lucky if u have a mother. The men still have a lot to work on. But the women of today are not the same quality as moms and grandma. Now grandma on ig twerking with the grand baby🤔moms in competition with her daughter 🙄y’all as women have a lot of complexity’s😭😂and some how all black women can come up with is we (black men)hate y’all 😳🙄😐😴we just getting tired of y’all shit and loving who love us🤷🏿♂️it’s no color on love.yall walk around holding hands kissing other women dressed up like men😐👀but y’all think the black man crazy 😝
Kessa R nah we living in a time where black women 🤔got this complex and act like they brainwashed into not listening to no black man. We as black men go through the most. 🤷🏿♂️We as black men have the most to fear and go through. 🤦🏿♂️but some how y’all women act like it’s y’all who have the most problems and the black man is the cause💯🙄😳
@Kessa R I could be wrong, but to my understanding the majority of the people who died during the civil rights movement were black men correct?
And that was thousands of deaths on a regular basis; that's real sacrafice.
How many people in black lives matter are dying for that movement? I'll wait for your response.
Kessa R nah y’all fight us black men🤷🏿♂️y’all don’t fight for us💯and I don’t expect u too. 🤔like I said if women act like women they would be treated as such. I told u in the first statement. Women want to twerk on ig. Have 3 kids with 4 different men 🙄😭no career just a job acting like u tired 😏then look at a man like it’s our fault 🤷🏿♂️👀🙄please sis go check your sisters. Cardi B and Megan the stallion is like a top role model in our community 🤨😭😂I guess the black man did that too.🤦🏿♂️quit blaming us but claim y’all fight for us😭😂🙄wtf.
Men can't find a good woman: our problem
Women can't find a good man: everyone's problem except her's
and in the never heard news: zero men have falsely accused women. zero men have divorce raped women. zero men have rights to their own children
*FACTS*
She's sharing a lot of dark wisdom. The masses can't/won't receive it though.
People who don't listen, don't understand. She clearly says" i don't know any good man except for my grandfather. This is her truth. There's millions of men in the world and 10% are decent while the rest cause havoc to women, there children, family, community. Who do the most killing? Who cause the most stress in relationship? Who cheats all the time but want a wife once there penis stop working? Who run from there responsibilities and think its cute? My Dad is a great man but guess what???? He was an asshole when i was growing up, he got better over time.💖
She has no wisdom
@@aplusdiva7006 they don't want to admit about wars, greed and patriarchy. That's all the doing of men.
@@dimedenaye i agree
Demi Adams like all women, they focus and study terrible men
She sounds hurt, bitter, and toxic.
Like most nigga bitches.
There are plenty of reasons for any black woman to be hurt and bitter. From our own experiences to seeing what other women go through. The reasons reach to the sky. All of that can be toxic to our souls and affect how we deal with others. I don't detect toxic, per se.
Sir Brucie is it necessary to call her a nigga bitch? You sound ignorant
@@ninaedwards345 that's what's wrong with them, THEY are the actual nigga bitches, with his dumb ass
You LOOK hurt, bitter and toxic
I’m surprised. This comment section is actually smart
She needs counseling, bad😳 None of her relationships will not be successful without some type of counseling going forward. She will continue to choose the wrong type of men’s to date without counseling.
No she to be deported from America
@@gregoryglass9040 right along with you, bruh. Bye...
Everyone in this comment section seems very quick to give to their opinion without actually listening to her. She says that in her opinion all men are bad because she has never met a man that she believes to be good. She has only met men that have brought her pain and all around her she sees women who are feeling the same. It’s a completely human reaction to pain/trauma. She is struggling to believe any different because she hasn’t seen any different. Even her current partner she doesn’t seem to think is a good man but seems as if she’s settled for the best she thinks she can get. Yes, it does sound like she’s damaged and needs healing but I completely understand that her view of men is coming from a deeply hurt place. We cannot pretend that all around us there are not women suffering because of the actions of men, good men are extremely rare. Hence, it’s easy to believe that they don’t exist at all.
Shaliyah Men are suffering too, men are being cheated on too.
Some men have only experienced bad women, should they now say all women are bad?
@@dailytrendz6135 those are the woman you decided to pick.
Nobody says you have to stay with a cheater that's a decission being made by idiots.
💯💯💯period!!!!!!
Honestly.. Yes K Michelle has so much healing she needs to do, however I really FEEL and understand that bitterness towards men. It’s a lot of hurt.
It sure is girl....i definitely get it.
I get it
I get it too, not saying it’s right but I get it
Yes there is a lot of hurt..especially by the men who refuse to take accountability for the hurt and pain they intentionally cause
@@catricem458 example, K Michelle and Michelle Obama grew together. K Michelle chose to date the Rocko's and Michelle O dated Baracks.
So when K Michelle said all men are bad people, will that also represent the Baracks too.
If you don't understand this analogy then you have more than just bad mad problem.
Her choices are horrible. Do y'all think Fantasia & K Michelle will be turned on by an Obama-level be educated dude? Or turned off, like ' girl he's lame asf".
Com'on stop acting like y'all don't love them swagged out cool thugs...
Come the fuck on.....
"GOD GONNA HAVE TO SIT AND TALK TO ME."
🗣That's a deep pain right there.
He been on her she aren't listening so the lord is at her azz the devil has nothing to do with her lol
@marconuts the context in which you are observing the Statement is all wrong. Go within and figure out the obvious.
Great day! 😊
She look like that mask that follows Crash Bandicoot around.
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@@ernestsysbm1175 😂😂
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This is exactly the type of women decent and hard working brothers avoid. I'm good lol however, I wish you peace and happiness if you can find it within.
Picture explains alot
@Queen Ebony we dont blame you self proclaimed queen. You just dont take accountability for your actions/hypocrisy. We are not oppressed until we get with yall. Food for thought. MGTOW till you woman learn we the prize and not you. Only a king can make u a queen.
Ummmmmmm, her face is looking like? I mean, what happened, girl? C’mon Kim, girl. #StepAWAYFromTheSurgery. #Don’tGetNaaaaaanNuthaProcedure
But she wanna talk about men gtfo
Weight loss
I WAS GETTING READY TO SAY HAPO WHO DIS WOMAN 😳😳😳🙄🙄🙈🙈🙈😜😜😂😂😂😂
Gurl if you could say that again. Come on now K...dis not cute. The original natural her (body included) was beautiful
This is why I came to the comments. All the surg is a really aging her. Probably turnabout for calling Karlie Redd and Mimi old.
I think she is the problem. Look how she talk about her son. I love my queen and don’t cheat.
As a woman NO man is going to mess my mind up to start messing with my body. As women we need to work on our minds first, you need to be solid in yourself first.
She got that iron Man jaw 😁😁😁
k2 🙂🙂😂😂😂😂😂🤭🤭🤭you are foul funny AF tho
Skeletor has entered the bldg and her name is K Michelle Dayyyyuuummm!!🤣🤣
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Someone also said madame the puppet
I love that she recognized Jade as a Sanger too. Cuz baby she SINGS!!!
What song does jade sing?
She’s a phenomenal singer/songwriter. I know she’s done back up for Rihanna, Lady Gaga, wrote records for major artists and put out an independent project. She’s really a vocal gem
Men aren’t good, I know a lot of bad men…..
I’m single for 13 years an I will never hate a black man ... because I overstand his struggle I believe you have to work on your self ... confidence .. love of one self .. and this goes for all the woman that come to you .,. It is good men out there! just not coming to you or other because your broken or they can easily to take advantage of you ... just be single kay ...don’t fuck your New man up with your issues..
Thank you. This hurts.
@Nonya Buz 🗣Friend!
We see that you've Ben hurt and maybe your mother or your mother mother however . I'm not for bad behavior from male or female ! many of us that have Ben in abusive relationship is because we wasn't in good relationship with our self aka low self-esteem! too allowed any person access to our lives and fuck it up .. sometimes we must look at oneself and take responsibility for our bad choices in broken human being .. red flag we always missed then we mad at the other .. I'm sorry that so many are going through pain and hate that they can't see the light for themselves so that a positive person can come in
She's benefiting from holding on to the pain, she's making music and selling out shows. I think she's afraid that if she heals she won't be able to have her livelehood.
Wow! That's a great perspective. I also think she's a empath and she's carrying the pain of others too.
@@violetlionessspeaks I agree with you because it sounds like she had a very healthy stable childhood and home so I don't understand how she got to this place or how she got stuck at this place.
she won't be the last. this is exactly what rappers do. So many rap about selling drugs and haven't sold drugs in years.Not saying she is intentionally doing it but all of this is contributing to the division that's going on. There's an agenda for racial division and division leading to the destruction of the family structure. This narrative is being embedded in the hearts and minds of many women. God can't bless us with something we don't have faith in. But due to the pain many women are feeling because of men they have dealt with they are beginning to believe this. I can't speak for all the men on the planet but I highly doubt any woman has met even half of the men on it but many have written off the majority. We all have to do better..starting with men..but we can't do it alone.
Correct. If she was positive and focused on anything other than pain and victimhood she would lose business. Like rappers she is being paid to keep the people she influences constantly focused on the bad in life so they don't grow and stunt her own growth in order to sell records. For a majority of black musicians that's the formula to economic success. Keep the mind of a teenager for the rest of your life and get paid to do it.
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I'm surprised she has so many problems with men. She had no Daddy issues, because her father is a strong part in her life. She has a healthy relationship, with father. KMichelle even surprises me that she's so hood.
KMichelle does not come from the hood. She has a strong family foundation. This woman is not Ghetto, she doesnt come from a Ghetto background at all. Where did this Ghetto persona come from?
I've never been to Memphis, but I know she did not grow up in the hood part. Why was she forced to have this hood persona?
Yall something ain't right.
This is quite common. Girls like this who come have a great upbringing find the hood exciting and glamourous. That's why they usually go for thug-types because its thrilling to them.
@@PeteMcCorvey You're all the way right. I did grow up in the hood, and I remember my brother and his homeboys always dealing with women who were very classy, and we're from uppity neighborhoods. I would say to myself "Why do these women come to the projects to deal with these men? They loved hood men, for real.
She had some good points. I’m not gonna hate like the rest of this comment section. Smh
This Bitch got irrational points lol Her logic is flawed like most black women without Fathers or who have issues with them .
Right... they know it's true
She's what happens when a person doesn't take responsibility for their own dumbass decisions. I call these types of chicks hot stove touchers. Don't blame the stove for being hot, blame yourself for seeing the red light and still doing it anyway
@@sexybrown738 i dont know whats wrong with you but i hope you arent a black woman talking like that
She's crying because she's LOST.. and she has Destroyed herself for the sake of "The Game"...But too embarrassed to admit it!
You’ve chosen the wrong type of man. Good men walk the earth, we’re out here.
Simmie Williams yes you guys are unfortunately most black women won’t experience the right man!
Simmie Williams unfortunately she’s not the only woman having an extremely difficult time finding one. You nice guys must be hiding from us.
Something is wrong with this young lady and she should not be sharing advice as she is very much still insecure. Prayers for her and her family
Thank you for stating reality. We have grown adults blaming other people for their decissions. SMH..
She's a pisces.
Imagine if a guy said that about women. Just because you choose bad guys doesn't mean we all are. She needs to deal with her self esteem issues before she try's dating again.