I Lost My Home & Living In A Hotel 😢

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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2024

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  • @Ash2beauty
    @Ash2beauty 5 лет назад +931

    The scary truth is most of us are one paycheck away from the same situation 😪

    • @katiejo1095
      @katiejo1095 5 лет назад +18

      And that is mostly because of taxes!

    • @chee60
      @chee60 5 лет назад +10

      Exactly !!!!!

    • @fenesss
      @fenesss 5 лет назад +1

      Exactly!!! 😕

    • @hurtspublishing3906
      @hurtspublishing3906 5 лет назад +2

      Right

    • @fah232
      @fah232 5 лет назад +2

      You are so right, this is heartbreaking.

  • @Ms.MD7
    @Ms.MD7 5 лет назад +706

    This could happen to any of us. My prayers are with you.

    • @staciejones4059
      @staciejones4059 5 лет назад +2

      True story

    • @Ms.MD7
      @Ms.MD7 5 лет назад +1

      @@Darknessbe4dawn sorry to hear that, augh it's everywhere. My job recently had a bankruptcy and we were waiting by the thread whether it's going to be bought out and thankfully it did. I'm safe for now...but I'm not confident, that's why it's important not to spend ridiculous amount of money esp right now. I hope you're doing ok and wish you the best.

    • @sassynj1264
      @sassynj1264 5 лет назад +2

      @@Darknessbe4dawn Been there, Sis... Prayers& Blessings to You💯❤

    • @corettagreene5513
      @corettagreene5513 5 лет назад +5

      Eva Flowers, it can happen to anyone of us! The lord has the power to strip one from everything, even banks with savings and capital that have been put away for hardship! He can swallow all of it leaving just dry land with nothing but people upon it! If you happen to be one who has escaped this then, consider yourself, blessed. The fact, that I know the lord can bring such destruction keeps me humble and grateful for everything! I have been without, I have been low but God has kept me through it all! I have been bombarded with disappointment, rejection, abuse you name it! The only one that kept me saine through it all was God! Stay in the lords word, pray without ceasing! I will be praying for you as I continue to pray that we all are kept by the grace and mercy of the lord! Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family! ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @michellejackson1096
      @michellejackson1096 5 лет назад

      AMEN it sure can.

  • @muthaluv7
    @muthaluv7 5 лет назад +651

    Girl I've been living in a hotel over 6 years with 7 children and husband working 2 jobs then about a month and a half lost the main job and working the cheaper job. I'm still making it by the grace of god. Stay strong.

    • @firstname8348
      @firstname8348 5 лет назад +107

      Just curious, isnt a hotel more expensive than renting an apartment

    • @mfknrmxthebangmessiah6012
      @mfknrmxthebangmessiah6012 5 лет назад +27

      First Name not if you’re 9 deep in one room.

    • @sha_na2902
      @sha_na2902 5 лет назад +7

      I will be holding you and your family in prayer.

    • @staciejones4059
      @staciejones4059 5 лет назад +3

      I hope everything works out, sending prayers 🙏

    • @BeingBeautifullyHonest
      @BeingBeautifullyHonest 5 лет назад +3

      You stand strong as well. Praying for you

  • @igotyourback9175
    @igotyourback9175 5 лет назад +310

    My mother always said that if we live long enough, we are going to experience everything that life can possibly throw our way and sometimes when things hit, they hit us hard. It's like everything seem to go haywire at the same time.

    • @vliciouss
      @vliciouss 5 лет назад +8

      Dam. This is so true. I like this quote cause it reminds me that we’re all not alone in our struggles.

    • @payitforwardpower9910
      @payitforwardpower9910 5 лет назад +6

      When it rains it pours.

    • @muslimalmumin1
      @muslimalmumin1 5 лет назад +6

      All you gotta do is live long enough...a true-ism

    • @mondocjenson-dy8zd
      @mondocjenson-dy8zd 5 лет назад +3

      At 55yo I say...No matter what God keeps his Eye on the Sparrow...

    • @Aquariuswonder86
      @Aquariuswonder86 5 лет назад +3

      This is so true. I’ve been going through for the past few months.

  • @HumanStateOfEmergency
    @HumanStateOfEmergency 5 лет назад +201

    Your transparency is inspiring. Stay strong!

  • @cherienetamar
    @cherienetamar 5 лет назад +408

    When your close to your breakthrough everything tries to throw you off. GOD has got you!!!

    • @jack1uptone963
      @jack1uptone963 5 лет назад +8

      Exactly. The universe works like that for some reason.

    • @patremagilbert8787
      @patremagilbert8787 5 лет назад +4

      True amen

    • @kwamejohnson1563
      @kwamejohnson1563 5 лет назад +3

      Cheriene Tamar so true

    • @KB-mp1mw
      @KB-mp1mw 5 лет назад +4

      Amen because the last two weeks for me everything literally isn't going as planned. Lol. I'm like, okay something greats about to happen. Lol

    • @damianjackson1622
      @damianjackson1622 5 лет назад +1

      All hell brake down....

  • @Shanvle
    @Shanvle 5 лет назад +536

    When you're closest to your goals/dreams/success, you'll also notice your toughest battles. Cry those tears but this time think of it as you watering the seeds of success you've planted for yourself. Sage, do the two cup manifestation method, script and be as specific and descriptive as possible. I believe in you, you've been beyond a blessing to this sewing and designing world. You're in my prayers and if you ever put up a link let us all know

    • @LIVEINPEACE2023
      @LIVEINPEACE2023 5 лет назад +9

      Those are beautiful heartfelt words. ♥️

    • @Shanvle
      @Shanvle 5 лет назад +9

      @@LIVEINPEACE2023 sometimes it takes for someone that's been through the fire to walk hand in hand with someone else. I've seen and lived those same feelings so I know the other side is worth fighting for. Thank you, I'm just here to pay it forward. Side note...I hope she writes that book!

    • @CulinaryGuide
      @CulinaryGuide 5 лет назад +5

      Can we get a Patreon account please? We need to support our creative sistahs.

    • @applethree6128
      @applethree6128 5 лет назад +2

      Shan.v le i tot tally i agree

    • @soulsisterssurvivorssister8463
      @soulsisterssurvivorssister8463 5 лет назад

      So true...

  • @watchyamouth22
    @watchyamouth22 5 лет назад +179

    Heavenly Father I ask you right now to bless this young lady with everything she need HOUSE , FINANCIAL OVERFLOW , BUSINESS SUCESS IN THE NAME OF JESUS!!!

    • @neohcouturemanyuchi6501
      @neohcouturemanyuchi6501 5 лет назад +4

      In Jesus Christ mighty name.

    • @jnsharrisjr
      @jnsharrisjr 4 года назад +9

      Amen. And while ur blessing her father, look down on her mother and brother and bless them as well. Continue to bless all of their minds and hearts and give them an abundance of over flow. Lord, she believes in you. Give them, like u always give ur people, food and money beyond money. Give them the help they need. Things they don't have to work for as u have always done for Israel. Lord, I can relate to everything she is saying. Plz help her, Lord. In you name, Jesus we do pray. Amen
      Sis,
      I watch ur channel from time to time. Been sewing since 06. Grandma taught me. U r an inspiration to me. I love watching other brown skinned artists do what they do. In a lot of ways, our words sound a like. When ur anointed to do what u do, opposition comes. Don't give up on ur chosen career. Don't give up. I will keep praying for u. I know what u mean by other ppl benefit from stuff u do/make but not u. It's agonizing. Almost like u have to sell out in order to get somewhere and when ur not willing to do that, u seem to get left behind. In my case 5 books published, up n coming nail tech...no luck in any of that smh. It is frustrating. Don't give up. Keep ur vision board. Something bigger than the vision will show up. Not just be coming, but show up.

    • @malaikakirby242
      @malaikakirby242 4 года назад +2

      In Jesus’ mighty name Amen 🙏

    • @designingdaijahi3766
      @designingdaijahi3766 4 года назад +1

      SlayWithMya Amen🙌🏿🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 🙏🏿

    • @debbiebloomer5249
      @debbiebloomer5249 4 года назад +1

      HERE HERE!

  • @MagnoilaQueen
    @MagnoilaQueen 5 лет назад +60

    We all can relate. Cry then get up and keep going after your dream. Quitting is not an option.

  • @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei
    @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei 5 лет назад +158

    Girl, I would be homeless right now if my daughter didnt have her act together and have a good home with a room for me and my dog 💜. I made the choice to leave a 17 year relationship and had no rainy day fund, girls always have a backup plan 😪
    You can do this, it's another rough patch, a bump in the road. Thx for sharing 💜 sadly I see many of us a paycheck away from losing it all. Prayers sent 🙏

    • @yolandag8061
      @yolandag8061 5 лет назад +7

      I hope you tell your daughter how grateful you are .

    • @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei
      @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei 5 лет назад +5

      @@yolandag8061 everyday 💜

    • @elizabethdavis6044
      @elizabethdavis6044 5 лет назад +4

      Sadly there are a lot of us out there;one paycheck from homelessness.I’m 63,and no “investment” in anything.I get calls all day from collectors that I purposely leave my phone in my car at my job.😢😭😢😭.Take courage, I hope everything will be alright🙏🏽🙏🏽soon.

    • @elementgypsy
      @elementgypsy 4 года назад +1

      Blessed my son let me stay on his couch. I had savings for a year rent but no one would rent to me as I was unemployed and had health problems. I spent my savings in temporary housing. Took years to get a little place in a new town.

    • @helenaterschegget8791
      @helenaterschegget8791 3 года назад +1

      @@elementgypsy my mom lives with us for over 4 years as well, and I took care of my grandmother in her last couple years. I’m so glad I am able too. I too was homeless (fire) I worked so hard, and still got there, but I did climb up, and now I can actually help other people.

  • @busybecky6327
    @busybecky6327 5 лет назад +164

    I'm new here. Girl, I feel this so much. I have totally been there, in that dark, completely helpless feeling. It will get better, I promise. Every storm runs out of rain. I just posted a budget video the other day, I urge you to try the Dave Ramsey babysteps. He completely changed our life! From government assistance to now, a complete 360. I'm praying for you hun. Ive lost everything I've owned twice in 2 separate house fires, divorce, etc. There was a solid 5 years where life just sucked! But I promise when you hit rock bottom, theres only one way to go and thats UP. You will rise from this. You are NOT a failure! ❤

    • @missalphaomegagod-2u
      @missalphaomegagod-2u 5 лет назад +1

      Easy for you to say as a Becky...however I do agree the Dave Ramsey approach does help.

    • @busybecky6327
      @busybecky6327 5 лет назад +12

      @@missalphaomegagod-2u Nothing about my journey was easy. "As a Becky" ... really? I refused to be a statistic, I refused to stay at rock bottom, I CHOSE to work hard and not stop till my life changed. It all begins with your attitude. If you have a victim mentality, you'll always be a victim. I was offering encouragement and support. Have a great day :)

    • @khianthony3543
      @khianthony3543 5 лет назад +5

      Busy Becky your right always playing victim is an unhealthy mentality but let’s be real y’all white folks do have more privileges than us blacks don’t be naive...

    • @busybecky6327
      @busybecky6327 5 лет назад +16

      @@khianthony3543 I don't disagree. I stopped by this womans channel to hear her story and give her some love, support and positivity. Which is what we all, as decent human beings should display. I'm not interested in getting off topic and discussing racial differences on her channel or on this platform in general. I wish you the best and hope y'all have a wonderful week ❤

    • @missalphaomegagod-2u
      @missalphaomegagod-2u 5 лет назад

      Khii Anthony Exactly! They always deny that vital factor. And Becky we are no victims as we still rise.

  • @onedayillbesomething1570
    @onedayillbesomething1570 5 лет назад +307

    As someone who is *immensely inspired* by you, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. This video was nearly unbearable to watch and I cried when you cried too. Please,please,please always *have faith* because you so much talent, original ideas and a incredible personality! I will pray for you because you don’t deserve one bit of what is happening to you. Also *thank you* so much for the inspiration, and the wonderful message at the end. May God bless your *wonderful,beautiful* soul. Keep safe, *please* .

    • @CulinaryGuide
      @CulinaryGuide 5 лет назад +13

      Can we all agree to support a Patreon account for Daniela. She's already given us so much for free. Why not support her with as little as $2 per month. Just 2% of her followers could get her back on her feet. If we want to see talent we need to support talent.

    • @piebloom
      @piebloom 5 лет назад +1

      Culinary Guide How to do that? Do aware i don't stay in the US.

  • @gabylulu74
    @gabylulu74 5 лет назад +196

    A few months after graduating design school I found myself without a job, 3 kids and homeless...tough 2 years but that situation showed me who was my true support and that im stronger than I thought... it does get better... but you have to keep moving and do not hold yourself back from the small things that present themselves.
    Now more than ever design your heart out and share your talent with the world.. create a workshop, volunteer, use your network to grow your possibilities.
    💗💗💗

    • @ilovecreativitymaking8267
      @ilovecreativitymaking8267 5 лет назад +1

      You really strong

    • @augustsnowfall5189
      @augustsnowfall5189 5 лет назад +3

      gabylulu74 Yeah, absolutely correct! I think it’s just her marketing that’s off. If she pulls together and makes new resources, and maybe a business mentor? I believe she could have her business taking off in now time at all. Good comment 👏🏼👏🏼

    • @gabylulu74
      @gabylulu74 5 лет назад

      @@augustsnowfall5189 a business mentor is crucial, and having more than 1 job as well. Most entrepreneurs have several sources of income.
      But that grit, now thats whats going to get you through the bumpy times. 💗💗💗💥💥💥💥

    • @PullOverItsDaPopo
      @PullOverItsDaPopo 5 лет назад

      I'm an art major y'all are scaring me.

    • @melissacochran437
      @melissacochran437 5 лет назад +3

      Pull over! it's da popo's! You may need to get a 9-5 to pay the bills and sell your art on the side. Depends on the economy at the time. People don’t buy art etc when times are hard.

  • @AR-uz6kq
    @AR-uz6kq 5 лет назад +45

    Sounds like "Spiritual Warfare"!!! I truly feel your pain!!

    • @Ctayrroolne
      @Ctayrroolne 5 лет назад +1

      It Is!

    • @frankijeoma2361
      @frankijeoma2361 4 года назад +2

      Exactly what I thought. The devil went all out to steal from her. It's so painful.

    • @AR-uz6kq
      @AR-uz6kq 4 года назад +2

      @@frankijeoma2361 yes it is Frank I am speaking from experience

  • @mrcommunity992
    @mrcommunity992 5 лет назад +35

    Situations like this is why I devoted my channel to helping our homeless...together we can do great things...we just ....we must sincerely support one another

  • @onedayillbesomething1570
    @onedayillbesomething1570 5 лет назад +128

    Girl. There is NOTHING wrong with you. I wish you *the best* in life.

  • @lesliehutchinson5899
    @lesliehutchinson5899 5 лет назад +320

    Some famous wealthy people have been homeless sleeping in their car. God will see you through hold steadfast.

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 5 лет назад +5

      That’s why a car is god sent sometimes.

    • @singer0004
      @singer0004 5 лет назад +3

      Steve Harvey was in that situation

    • @nyeisag9459
      @nyeisag9459 5 лет назад +6

      I'm in this situation now but I know I'm going to get through it!

    • @lesliehutchinson5899
      @lesliehutchinson5899 5 лет назад +2

      @@nyeisag9459 In this day and age a lot of people are you would be surprised.

    • @melissacalderon5011
      @melissacalderon5011 5 лет назад +4

      Tyler Perry was once in your situation he said that he almost gave up on his live plays.

  • @DanielaTabois
    @DanielaTabois  5 лет назад +772

    Hi Fabs! This was very hard for me to share this side of my journey with you all. I tried to keep it together, but realized that this can be a blessing for me and others going through the same thing. Thank you all for your lovely note, prayers and ❤️❤️😢. I’m still going to continue to work towards my dreams, because I have so much to give.
    Daniela ❤️

    • @sherrypie70117
      @sherrypie70117 5 лет назад +9

      Daniela Tabois do have cash app?

    • @mspatti
      @mspatti 5 лет назад +22

      Keep your head up and your tax advisor on speed dial. Donations can mess you up at tax time. LOVE TO WATCH YOU.

    • @cthefashions
      @cthefashions 5 лет назад +8

      I am praying for you and I know your work will provide for you. I really don't know how RUclips works. I thought since there is so many people watching your videos they would sponsor you with a way of living. Do you have to stay in New York? There are reasonable places here in Philadelphia. I would love to work with you. You are so down to earth and giving. I know we would get along great. I will donate to your pay-pal as soon as I next week. I hope that isn't too late.

    • @suzyqc7607able
      @suzyqc7607able 5 лет назад +14

      Doll, You are not bad, cursed or desperate. There is no light at the end of this tunnel, for now. Sometimes We never have dreams come true, it Doesn't mean you ought not dream. Your dream will burn your heart because you won't be able to See an inch in front of yourself. Your dreams are worth fighting for. Your talent is worth investing in. Your time is worth what you ask for it & more.
      Folk think that because you are busting bum, you should be able to make ends meet, but that, unfortunately, is often not the case. Sometimes it is, but I do not believe it is the case with you.
      Sometimes WE go through things - Look around your self. Speak to the older folks - ask them about their hard times. We are never the first to go through a living heck but to see the great things others are enjoying burns like a fire. That is counterproductive.
      You were an amazingly talented, You will be Even better one day. Do not give up, you are not loosing a dream but learning how to be bigger & better than anything you can imagine right now. You are a strong woman. I have faith in you that you will discover how to be a more beautiful you.
      You know Ms. Maya Angelou, She has poems & words that help to relay a state many a person knows all too well.
      Look through her words, or listen to them if possible -- they sting a fair bit but the sting heals into strength.
      You will be a light for others as so many people were before you & unfortunately we can not singlehandedly save the world but, we have today. That is all you need to focus on right now. Be kind to yourself. Be the Love & Understanding you need to have, keep a bit for yourself. Come to an understanding with this moment in time, it may someday prove to be a valuable lesson.
      Older folks used to say Way back in the day that starving as a child taught them a great many lessons. I thought that put that way made no sense at all. How could being hungry be a good thing.?
      When they had a little - they still shared.
      with everyone, especially the children.
      Food was not the focus - sharing with those who had less was what they looked back upon fondly because everyone was hungry, it made them more inventive - more sensitive to another's needs - giving them a different sense of perspective.
      I will keep you in my prayers & You need to keep that chin up & find something to smile about. Get some rest. It really isn't about something you've missed or done wrong. Even the butterfly needs a moment to transform. They ARE ALWAYS beautiful - like you

    • @kscheuerman5378
      @kscheuerman5378 5 лет назад +5

      Daniela, I am sorry you are going through this very tough time, right now. I think your attitude is so good & I know it is very hard to keep the good attitude up in the uncertain times. You are much stronger than you think you are, you can and you will get through this!!! You give meaningful advice to us to not compare ourselves to anyone. This is so smart!! Here is a hard example but I currently know of 5 different people who have been diagnosed with cancer. 4 of the 5 have been diagnosed within this year. They are all in an uphill battle. 2 of them have been close to dying from complications caused by the disease. We shouldn't compare ourselves to anyone we perceive has it easy or good because if we compare to them, we should also compare to those that have it much worse. Thank you dear Daniela, for showing what you are going through!!! Thank you for asking for prayers because this is exactly what I have to offer to you. (I am on a fixed income & our bills are not always on time either.) Please take care and God Bless you & your family.

  • @lastlaugh2023
    @lastlaugh2023 5 лет назад +46

    IN YOUR WORST TIMES:
    O my soul, you have said to the LORD, “You are my Lord, My goodness is nothing apart from You. (Psalms‬ ‭16:2‬ ‭NKJV‬‬)
    “Not everything that happens in your life is good, that doesn’t mean God is not good, and it doesn’t mean God is not pouring his goodness into your life. God can take the bad and bring good out of it. Even in the worst times, God has a good purpose, a good plan, and a good reason for your life.”😇

  • @pecan11
    @pecan11 3 года назад +3

    This video hurt my heart. She has worked so hard and it bothers me to no end that ppl keep having to start over.

  • @Tammohawk1
    @Tammohawk1 5 лет назад +57

    We filed for bankruptcy in 2011 and what a nightmare that was. We ended up giving our home back to the bank. We ended up renting, and lost everything we owned in a forest fire.
    It's called Trials and Tribulations. Keep up the faith and you are going to go far. You have a great talent.

  • @swallace9958
    @swallace9958 5 лет назад +76

    I lost my home to foreclosure as well last year. Moved back to my home state and been going thru hell ever since. My health is declining as well. Everything just went downhill and no matter what I try it never works out. Praying and calling prayer lines and reaching out to people but people don't care when it's not them. I feel your pain cause I'm living it. I hope it turns around for you and soon.

    • @Jacquelyndorindachic
      @Jacquelyndorindachic 5 лет назад

      S Wallace Pray to TMH

    • @swallace9958
      @swallace9958 5 лет назад +1

      Zion Israel TV been doing that, stopped got defeated and started back. Nothing is helping.

    • @cathywaller3627
      @cathywaller3627 5 лет назад +3

      Praying that the Lord will break and remove all the horrible things you are going through right now in Jesus name and to give you confidence and to give you peace and assurance and it will all work out in Jesus name and that the Lord will cover you with his powerful arm and comfort you and guide and Lead You may the Lord Elevate you and bring you out all of this and to help you along the way in Jesus name amen

    • @swallace9958
      @swallace9958 5 лет назад

      Cathy Waller thank you so much!

    • @Thehotelsnob
      @Thehotelsnob 5 лет назад +1

      S Wallace I’m praying for you.

  • @shonte3863
    @shonte3863 5 лет назад +259

    Wow! I just checked into a hotel for the weekend (don’t know what imma do after Sunday 😩) cause I lost my home too. God got us!

    • @henrylester4051
      @henrylester4051 5 лет назад +16

      Hi Shonte, I'm sorry that happened to you. Stay strong there is light at the end of the tunnel.

    • @neverbrokebudgets2612
      @neverbrokebudgets2612 5 лет назад +14

      Prayers are with you

    • @ambiebby1636
      @ambiebby1636 5 лет назад +4

      It’ll work all work out. Stay strong and be patient.

    • @felistine
      @felistine 5 лет назад +3

      Good luck Shonte. Praying for you.

    • @diamonds377
      @diamonds377 5 лет назад

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @qmakesithappen
    @qmakesithappen 5 лет назад +24

    New sub here, I empathize with you! The moment you started tearing up I had to look up at the sky myself to keep them tears in. You're beautiful inside and out and I can say that with confidence from seeing one video! I wish you health, peace, love and prosperity. Like you said, it can only go up from here! You seem like an extremely strong and independent woman as well. This is the time to lean on the ones closest to you. Your subscribers are your supporters! Keep your head up and take care 😁

  • @kkrrb1467
    @kkrrb1467 5 лет назад +27

    God wants you to trust and depend on Him. Sometimes He puts us in positions where there's no where we can look but up! Pray and ask Him to guide you. 🙏🏾

  • @like2sew181
    @like2sew181 5 лет назад +138

    I am praying for you. We lost our home and had to live in an apartment. During that time we continued to find anything that we could praise God and be thankful to the Almighty for. Fast forward we are in a home 3 times the size.
    Don’t give up on your dreams.

    • @justtiffany1
      @justtiffany1 5 лет назад +4

      He's about to elevate your status. Removing to bless you with better above and beyond what u hoped or asked for 💓 blessings upon blessings💛💛💛💛💛

    • @taneeka7107
      @taneeka7107 5 лет назад +3

      Amen... When the Praises goes up the blessings come down. Thank you for your families test imony! Blessings upon Blessings moving💓Froward

    • @SimzHairCare
      @SimzHairCare 5 лет назад +3

      Amen! Within the first couple of seconds of this video I was thinking "this is not for you anymore" or "this is a test for to elevate to next level". Something that your heart desires will come to you!

  • @hannahi9355
    @hannahi9355 5 лет назад +50

    It's so nice to see someone be so real and raw in this age of perfection. You have exquisite taste and you'll be recognized, you just need to regroup. Everyone needs to regroup sometimes. I personally think you're fabulous.

  • @PonceGold
    @PonceGold 5 лет назад +292

    Girl I just found you a few days ago and I love your channel! Come move to Dallas Texas! I have a studio space, dress forms, tools and a good amount of space to share! I'm sure you can find a small apartment and you can work on your projects here!

    • @fitgirlatx
      @fitgirlatx 5 лет назад +20

      I was about to say the same thing! Daniela would prosper in Dallas :-). Praying for her and her situation

    • @trishl707
      @trishl707 5 лет назад +9

      Dallas is so amazing! I intend to relocate there. It's a great place to live for sure

    • @cij1916
      @cij1916 5 лет назад +4

      And we have a small fabric district

    • @RoRo-ns6zc
      @RoRo-ns6zc 5 лет назад +2

      @@cij1916 Where is your fabric district? I'm new to Texas but live in Houston. I'm more than willing to travel for cool fabric.

    • @cij1916
      @cij1916 5 лет назад +3

      @@RoRo-ns6zc harry Hines. Some stores were destroyed by a recent tornado a couple weeks ago but a couple are rebuilding

  • @jamesmosley1180
    @jamesmosley1180 5 лет назад +13

    You're a Strong and Intelligent Sista and I know that you'll get through this. I'll Pray that thing start getting better for you.

  • @lavonnealexander6936
    @lavonnealexander6936 5 лет назад +21

    This why I am living my life doing everything I want to do. Living in the moment and present. You never know what is going to happen to you.

    • @Darkdemonoflite
      @Darkdemonoflite 5 лет назад +2

      That's is the trap. Dont do that blindly. Save money b.c u dont know what itll run out and ull need it

    • @chicnoir29
      @chicnoir29 5 лет назад +6

      Make sure you have 6-12 months in an emergency fund before you start living that way. Things always go wrong when you have no money.

  • @missdesireindependance5194
    @missdesireindependance5194 5 лет назад +154

    You should look into getting an RV as a temporary home. In the times we are living in it is getting hard for everyone. Keep doing your business.

    • @privatelifejust_4me
      @privatelifejust_4me 5 лет назад +6

      Miss desire Independance I agree or van. Paid cash only.

    • @nattydreadlocks1973
      @nattydreadlocks1973 5 лет назад +2

      It's winter time. Who is living in a RV in December? Maybe in South Flordia.

    • @privatelifejust_4me
      @privatelifejust_4me 5 лет назад +14

      nattydreadlocks1973 Don’t be so closed minded. A lot of people live in an RV, van, tiny home, cabin etc. all over the world.

    • @missdesireindependance5194
      @missdesireindependance5194 5 лет назад +10

      nattydreadlocks1973 You should check out RV life videos. They have air and heat.

    • @donnaleeclubb119
      @donnaleeclubb119 5 лет назад +2

      I thought the same thing. Or live in your car or with family until you get it together.

  • @SewlocaMelissa
    @SewlocaMelissa 5 лет назад +46

    I’m crying watching this video. As someone who was once homeless sleeping from house to house, always being in debt and having my home broken into and having to quit my jobs due to life just being life, I pray you excel and are able to find that growth not just in your finances and career but also in yourself. You inspired me to sew and have been my teacher for years. I started watching your videos when I thought I had hit rock bottom yet again in my life and you helped me so much. I wish you didn’t have to go through this Daniela, and I’m sorry that your going through it, you WILL be successful and once your are, there will be nothing to tear it down because your foundation is to solid.
    I have faith in you, and in your skill, push through Daniela. I love and care about you from afar ❤️

  • @myroyalty100
    @myroyalty100 5 лет назад +72

    Sounds like God is calling you, praying for you my sister

    • @rawdickhoe3694
      @rawdickhoe3694 5 лет назад +2

      You mean Jesus christ

    • @keepthechange1
      @keepthechange1 5 лет назад +3

      Free Spirit Princess I hear the same. I also hear her running and not listening. How old is she? She is an impatient person, she will have to calm down and listen to God's voice. She just said she places ALL OF HER ENERGY on her craft. This clearly means, God isn't getting any of her time. Hopefully, she gets it together from within.

    • @rawdickhoe3694
      @rawdickhoe3694 5 лет назад +1

      @@keepthechange1 you're so Beautiful

    • @greenearthblueskies8556
      @greenearthblueskies8556 3 года назад

      @@keepthechange1 you don’t know this lady. Stop it. 😡

  • @jailencotton
    @jailencotton 5 лет назад +142

    To anyone reading this Jesus loves you.

    • @elsiephillips6156
      @elsiephillips6156 5 лет назад +1

      Amen to that

    • @jailencotton
      @jailencotton 5 лет назад +2

      Elsie Phillips Amen sis God bless ❤️❤️❤️

    • @elsiephillips6156
      @elsiephillips6156 5 лет назад

      @@jailencotton thank you sis ❤️ God bless you too

    • @selsam7064
      @selsam7064 5 лет назад

      Jailen Cotton, Jesus loves you too!

    • @jailencotton
      @jailencotton 5 лет назад

      Sel Sam Thank you God bless ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alexisford3576
    @alexisford3576 5 лет назад +4

    I felt this. I have been through this phrase 2017-2018 was the darkest time of my life. Homeless, living in my car with a child, debt collectors calling, car breaking down. I kept pushing through. I knew that my current situation was not my final situation.

  • @wesleynicholls
    @wesleynicholls 5 лет назад +256

    I am ready to give my $1 to help this lady, who's with me.

    • @Kittyxoxo
      @Kittyxoxo 5 лет назад +9

      me too, i wish i could really help more and even house her in my 2 bedroom appartment lol i only use 1 br here... i have a spare room! but im in canada...

    • @Krisjstyle
      @Krisjstyle 5 лет назад +2

      Me too!

    • @texasteainky1
      @texasteainky1 5 лет назад +2

      for some reason my payment will not go through would love to help

    • @keyend9484
      @keyend9484 5 лет назад +5

      John Edwards you should be ashamed of yourself to say that. This world is evil as shit y’all gonna burn in hell for your lack of love

    • @abundance6560
      @abundance6560 5 лет назад +1

      John Edwards and how do you know it's a scam? Please don't comment certain things unless you have proof. If what you are saying is TRUE, then show the people. If NOT, then stay off the lady's page, preventing her from genuinely receiving help from those who want to help her.

  • @phylliciawakio3236
    @phylliciawakio3236 5 лет назад +73

    May our Heavenly father see you through in these trying moments

    • @hazztv6317
      @hazztv6317 5 лет назад +1

      Phyllicia Wakio Amen🙏

  • @SewingwithSessi
    @SewingwithSessi 5 лет назад +27

    Have you tried just going back into the 9-5 ... And still do your designing on weekends and evenings.. Just be strong.. This is a process and what is for you will be for you lady.. Stay prayed up

  • @jeanieceforte2365
    @jeanieceforte2365 5 лет назад +20

    Don't give up and pray! Remember Tyler Perry slept in his car and look where's he at today. When there's will there's way! Your next house will be better and more beautiful than the one you had before. I subscribe today

  • @jessicajonesandmore5459
    @jessicajonesandmore5459 5 лет назад +6

    @ Daniela Tabois I completely understand some of what you feel. In 2009 I purchased my first home. I worked hard and encountered some medical situations and did not have insurance which forced me to file bankruptcy. Through the struggle of finances. My house went into foreclosure and I also had a dream that seemed to not work for over 9 years. My father and my sister that I raised died and I had to keep pushing. Update working 16 Hours a day and saving money I now own another home and rent that home out while living in another home living my dream by the grace of God!!!! Hold on you can get through it!!! Don’t give up on your dream! It is more than a dream! It is a gift what you have!! Something good is right around the corner! Believe in Jesus! I know he is real and things will get better!! Stay prayed up!!

  • @mercymata7134
    @mercymata7134 5 лет назад +47

    I modeled for you once. Your pieces, your hard work, your determination is more than admirable. I wish you the best in your journey. Teach design at a High School. College! You will be amazing. Praying!

    • @mondocjenson-dy8zd
      @mondocjenson-dy8zd 5 лет назад +1

      Reality check. Often a person should consider working out of their field for a while to make ends Meet. Know The market. She has a good heart but should keep in mind, people are like most consumers, fickle! In the field of design even a Well capitalized company or entrepreneur struggles for market share. The big box stores are Even fighting for market share. To move up sometimes we must let things go

    • @melissacalderon5011
      @melissacalderon5011 5 лет назад

      Good advice!

  • @brownsugarcoffee1
    @brownsugarcoffee1 5 лет назад +111

    Honey I understand exactly what you’re going through. First you need to go Bankruptcy and clear yourself from all the debt that you in. Set yourself free start over put your head up and move on. You are a successful designer and you will make it out there just think positive meditate speak it into existence.❤️😍🥰

    • @hannahi9355
      @hannahi9355 5 лет назад +4

      100%

    • @TiffanyLeClair
      @TiffanyLeClair 5 лет назад +13

      Agreed! Also, get a proper disability attorney... there are quite a bit that do a pro-bono... others offer services “free” if you don’t get paid. Don’t feel ashamed to ask... many people have been through it or know people that have been through it... its easier to gauge personal expectations off of other people’s experiences.

    • @CulinaryGuide
      @CulinaryGuide 5 лет назад +9

      It's one thing to speak affirmations but, would you support a Patreon account? How about Etsy and anyone who knows monetize her channel. If you're a fan of Daniela now's the time to come forward.

    • @shanicesm6208
      @shanicesm6208 5 лет назад

      brownsugarcoffee1 I agree

    • @seedofisrael1356
      @seedofisrael1356 5 лет назад

      brownsugarcoffee1 filing for bankruptcy it’s free, so how would she be able to do that?

  • @milenaochoa5072
    @milenaochoa5072 5 лет назад +104

    Sending you strength Daniela, this is a very hard but everything is going to work out for you💗

  • @lorrainestephenson5835
    @lorrainestephenson5835 5 лет назад +15

    So Daniela,,
    We never see tomorrow,, However
    "CONSISTENCY WINS EVERYTIME".
    "STILL I RISE"
    Maya Angelou
    Peace and blessings to you and family!!

  • @kimkastl-williams114
    @kimkastl-williams114 5 лет назад +13

    UGH!! I'm going thru a hardship as well girl, when while working so hard coming close to a better plague, I get a phone call telling me my kidneys failed😔....now it's been 3 yrs and still no progress😪..I know GOD is with me....

  • @penguinworm
    @penguinworm 5 лет назад +21

    The deck is systematically stacked against the poor and working class. They profit off of giving us bad loans and they profit off of foreclosing on us.
    Could you make a patreon or link your venmo/cashapp?

  • @LadyNerdyLegalPants
    @LadyNerdyLegalPants 5 лет назад +21

    Lots of love and positivity towards you right now. I've been there too (though I was homeless and living in my car because of my divorce.) It takes time to build back up. And it's ok to cry! One day at a time, hun. It's ok to have down days, it's ok to be upset about what happened. The past is the past. Looking forward is good. Sometimes things like this happen so you will have the opportunity to realize what's really important to you. What you're supposed to really be fighting for. So for now, breathe. One day at a time and know that you are loved.

  • @angelar.2088
    @angelar.2088 5 лет назад +17

    I've been there in 2008 with 4 children and medically separated from job for 2yrs . Dont stop ! God carried me and after 2 yrs got reinstated and retired . Faith , hold on and believe in him with words , thoughts and prayers . It gets better and better it gets ! My testimony 😘

  • @SupaStar100
    @SupaStar100 5 лет назад +41

    Nothing wrong with you. This world is just wicked. Every time I turn around I'm having to battle a hater.

  • @Cyndi59
    @Cyndi59 5 лет назад +5

    Oh sweetheart, my heart breaks for you. I came across your video and noticed how strong you are. Your a leader. Leaders always come out on top. I will pray for you, your mom and your kitty. Life has a way of kicking us in the butt sometimes. Hang in there and keep up the great attitude.

  • @Charzard782
    @Charzard782 5 лет назад +300

    Start a GoFundMe. You have 242K subs and others who watch your videos, if we each gave a dollar, and some can give more.

    • @henrylester4051
      @henrylester4051 5 лет назад +18

      Patricia, Great idea! She needs the support. I feel for her greatly I was in the same position years ago.

    • @sevenp.8640
      @sevenp.8640 5 лет назад +7

      Patricia A Moore yes please!!! I don’t have much, but will for sure donate

    • @braddykes8909
      @braddykes8909 5 лет назад +2

      Definitely set this up.

    • @zzzeus78
      @zzzeus78 5 лет назад +7

      Looks like she's posted her paypal link. I sent my donation yesterday, I hope you and all others follow! :D

    • @ivyalston7277
      @ivyalston7277 5 лет назад +2

      @@henrylester4051 Great idea, please start the GoFundMe for Daniela and I will give

  • @Peace147d
    @Peace147d 5 лет назад +32

    😥😥 I’m so saddened by your story. I had a period in my life when something went wrong everyday I woke. I prayed tried to remain optimistic & began having a heavy feeling & felt I couldn’t take much more. I was desperate began praying to God for protection against negative energy & anyone hoping or praying for my demise. Things seemed to turn for the better shortly after. Thank you for sharing your story don’t give up. Things will turn you have so many praying for you & wishing the best for you. If you start a Gofundme keep us posted. Please share your fabulous testimony when the blessings pour in once you get settled 🙏🏽❤️

  • @daniellavess920
    @daniellavess920 5 лет назад +50

    You are one of the reasons I started pursuing my own design dreams more actively this year. My mom is finally getting me a dressform for Christmas. Please don't ever give up. You are a light in the world and truly inspiring to people. I know saying "keep your head up" is easier said than done, but please Daniela, don't give up. Your name is my drag name Daniella Vess. Add me on Instagram or Facebook and just know you have a light that truly is shining for others.

    • @CulinaryGuide
      @CulinaryGuide 5 лет назад +3

      Would you be willing to commit to $2 per month. I believe Daniela needs to start a Patreon account ASAP.

    • @roseline421
      @roseline421 5 лет назад

      @@CulinaryGuide She already have a Patreon account link- www.patreon.com/DanielaTabois

  • @pacitataylor3840
    @pacitataylor3840 3 года назад +2

    I was looking at this video and you made it through and look where you are now. A roof over your head is a roof over your head. It’s clean and safe

  • @Iamwhoiam28
    @Iamwhoiam28 5 лет назад +23

    God is the way to go! Keep calling on him every day and night!

  • @Cocoamagic-o3g
    @Cocoamagic-o3g 5 лет назад +19

    I'm in the same predicament. Living in a weekly with my 5 year old. Things are gonna get better. I'm manifesting it and praying on it🙌🏾

    • @Cocoamagic-o3g
      @Cocoamagic-o3g 5 лет назад +1

      @Elyse George thanks so much you didnt have to send that much but thanks alot 🙌🏾

    • @girlcode
      @girlcode 5 лет назад +2

      Hello Sister Praying for you & Baby girl to lend Kind words when your going thru your own things is Selfless stay strong. you are right we manifest our reality and the Reality is You are A Gem Have A Blessed Day Sis Star

    • @marriejames01
      @marriejames01 2 года назад +1

      @startmagic4155 Hi, Just wondering how you and your daughter are doing? I think the holidays made me think about you. (I lost my old acct)

    • @starrthompson3370
      @starrthompson3370 2 года назад +1

      @@marriejames01 I’m so happy you did check up on us. We’re doing great I got approved for low income apartment, got good used car and now I’m a phlebotomist working getting into nursing school. My daughter is thriving has her own room, she’s doing great in school. Things really got better for me thank y’all ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @marriejames01
      @marriejames01 2 года назад +1

      You are amazing! I’m so happy for you and your daughter. Continued blessings to you.🖤

  • @kawaiisakura23
    @kawaiisakura23 5 лет назад +42

    This was recommended to me and I felt like it was the universe sending this my way. I felt that frustration you had deep in my soul I cried those same tears and they hurt like hell. I’m also in an environment where I feel like I’m not flourishing..but even after all that I had to tell myself .... this is a test and my miracle is coming soon and so is YOURS. People constantly remind me also a lot of bullsh*** happens right before you get blessed 💕🦋💯

    • @fullcircleessentials
      @fullcircleessentials 5 лет назад +1

      Same here

    • @mandielou
      @mandielou 5 лет назад +2

      Don't focus on the blessings. Pray without ceasing have faith in Jesus Christ and turn from your sins or no blessings will come your way that are from Jesus

    • @kawaiisakura23
      @kawaiisakura23 5 лет назад

      Amanda Peterson I I understand I know what I’m going through personally but thanks tho

  • @Queen.of.queens
    @Queen.of.queens 5 лет назад +69

    You have a lot of beautiful accessories, shoes, handbags, fabrics etc. Start selling all that stuff online to at least get back on your feet. Daniela you have a store... it’s an online boutique that has beautiful designs even if it’s not a brick and mortar. NY is beautiful but there are other states that are cheaper with price of living and will cherish your work. You have a big dream Daniela and to whom much is given much more is required. You have inspired so many people and for that God is going to bless you with that beautiful store front, but you have to be patient and keep your faith. I am praying for you Daniela you will get through this. Atarah

    • @janetmccoy2192
      @janetmccoy2192 5 лет назад +1

      Atarah Edere You’ve got a point. An on line store.

    • @audaciousqueenz1141
      @audaciousqueenz1141 5 лет назад +1

      @Atarah Edere - I just came across Daniela's YT page, and of course after seeing the video, I started reading the comments - You've provide Daniela w/the most useful advise, and your right...she can do this! Daniela - You are so talented, creative, and have a GREAT personality - Start the store where you are Sis, and keep the Video's coming so that we can begin to purchase items directly from you, and so other Manufacturer/Designers can see your work. You can do this, I believe in you based on the work/YT videos I've seen already. Blessing & Peace - Trust & Believe, Manifest the store in your meditation practice, continue to add to your vision board, and I'm sure your networking w/the folks in your Sewing Community ....Right? You'll get there!

  • @InfinityStone-fj2mr
    @InfinityStone-fj2mr 5 лет назад +9

    I was homeless before the person that owned the home decided to sell giving us 3 months to move, when the time came we put everything in storage and stayed with several ppl and my mother for two months then a hotel for a month then a friend had an apartment with sometime on the lease so we ran that out then I had to stay with my mom another month we eventually found a place and a friend helped us by cosigning after this we have been in a good place for a 19 years. It took time but we got a break. We now have savings and are comfortable. But when homeless it was constant crying watching ppl come and go looking at them knowing they had a home to go to. It was an awful time. Just awful. But don't give up it will turn around I will pray for u to get a turnaround, my heart goes out to u. ❤️🙏😔🥀

  • @bonniecurrie4906
    @bonniecurrie4906 5 лет назад +4

    You're doing the right thing. I've been there. After years of fighting, I finally walked away and said God I give You ALL the control! And things turned out better. Not how I thought or wanted, but better. Definitely better. I've learned to trust Him now and walk by faith.

  • @rubybansah
    @rubybansah 5 лет назад +47

    It sounds like a spiritual attack. Please go on your knees, the road blocks could be a bigger breakthrough for you from God. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @zariahAwashere
    @zariahAwashere 5 лет назад +55

    Hang in there, mamas 😭💚 you've always been one of the biggest women radiating power and confidence on this site. God's got you! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 and YOU got you. You're so strong, we all believe in you!

  • @ss-nu3qf
    @ss-nu3qf 5 лет назад +24

    "I dreamed that I could renovate it, but it didn't happen... So, whatever"
    Oh, that "whatever" hit me like a bus. I feel you so much

  • @lovelee1772
    @lovelee1772 5 лет назад +4

    This def pulled at my heart strings esp being a cat mom! I was so releived when I saw that you kept your cat. The Most High always gives us our daily bread! Do not become anxious this is temporary! 💚

    • @chicnoir29
      @chicnoir29 5 лет назад +1

      Yeah her cat seems very sensitive to her pain. Did you notice how her kitty stayed close to her throughout the video?

  • @belle.ambrxs
    @belle.ambrxs 5 лет назад +16

    "All I know is pain." I can relate. 😭

  • @karmanewsviews3955
    @karmanewsviews3955 5 лет назад +17

    You know exactly what you have to do, you right about that it's only up from where you at.
    This is a testimony I see nothing but greatness coming from you

  • @AngelCandyHeart
    @AngelCandyHeart 5 лет назад +12

    Please never give up luv and remember that Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor because “he lacked imagination and had no good ideas.” He went bankrupt several times before he built Disneyland. The best always succeed no matter what hardship they go through because real talent will always win and you are real talent

  • @danny___928
    @danny___928 5 лет назад +77

    When you were leaving your house and your mini vision board fell to the ground, it was really heartbreaking and hard to watch. All your viewers and subscribers here see how talented and amazing you are inside and out. You are an extremely talented designer. You have the skills. There is no triumph without a trial, what I would tell you is not to lose faith especially while you're being tested because it is known, when you have faith, no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every lying tongue shall be condemned. God will bless those who bless you and curse those who curse you. You hold onto your faith and let the Universe guide you into better understanding through this period of reflection, because a new season is coming in which you will sow all the good you have planted. I have hope and faith in you, and will continue praying for you on your journey because it is no where near over, and all blessings from every direction will fall into your lap. Watch, pray, and listen. It will all come to pass. stay strong love.

    • @CulinaryGuide
      @CulinaryGuide 5 лет назад +5

      OK. Will you be willing to support her on Patreon? Prayers are not enough. She needs a creative space and a home.

    • @zzzeus78
      @zzzeus78 5 лет назад +5

      @@CulinaryGuide I mean NO disrespect to any of the people here who are leaving warm and supporting comments, but bottom line is, like you said, prayers are not enough. She needs support. I went ahead and made a donation to her paypal, I hope many people will follow!

    • @jackqulinbuchanan4seamingl397
      @jackqulinbuchanan4seamingl397 5 лет назад +1

      Right On Point!

    • @jackqulinbuchanan4seamingl397
      @jackqulinbuchanan4seamingl397 5 лет назад +2

      Girl Do not give up!!! You are to awesome and God will use you for His Glory. Just know that sometimes He allows us to go through things just prove us and show His Glory. The trials you are experiencing right now are trials a lot of us designers go through. I am so proud of you! I mean I am REALLY PROUD OF YOU!! ALL the things you are going through, I've already seen it and then some. As for that house, consider it to be a weight off your shoulders. Although you don't know your next move, wait on the Lord. I personally know this is hard right now but know that you can rest assured in knowing that God never leaves you alone. It may appear dark but do you best to walk in Gods light. Some people don't like to hear about God when going through difficult times and yes, we all just want resolutions. Hold on my sister! Better days are yet to come!
      I do hope you went back for that vision board. You need that to add to when it time to move forward. Dont worry about the doors that have closed in your face. They just closed to steer to new and larger opportunities. Don't put a time limit on your dreams and do not count yourself a failure. God wants to use you in a mighty way. Keep doing your videos. That's your ministry!!!! I look at your videos all the time and no one does them like you. I can go on and on and really wish I was near to encourage you! PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP!! Send that outfit you were working on to Tameron Hall. She's showing of new talents just like you!
      Let's paypal this beautiful soul to give her and her mom some relief until her breakthrough comes!

    • @danny___928
      @danny___928 5 лет назад

      @@zzzeus78 but your point is to ride on the coattails of a meaningful comment to say some stupid shit like that to invalidate what I wrote. Get some help. How much did you donate again?

  • @latoyajames8108
    @latoyajames8108 5 лет назад +3

    Don't feel bad I live in a hotel too. I work two jobs and still can't get ahead so keep your head up sista.

  • @kingskidkmf
    @kingskidkmf 5 лет назад +1

    I can truly relate. We did everything to keep our home and still lost it. It has been 5 years now and it seems as if we will remain in the clutches of family members who really don't want us around and every dime we make goes towards paying and feeding family and it is frustrating. I know that someday change will come. Stay prayerful.

  • @shmwmlam3953
    @shmwmlam3953 5 лет назад +45

    This is like hearing my own story. For years I tried and tried. Even though everyone say I am very good at what I do things never happened positive for me. Nothing I did was went right for me. I had targets and goals. I worked and worked towards those goals but only thing that happened was moving farther and farther from those goals.
    So finally I stopped chasing dreams and start to live by the moment. I earn a small amount of money now yet its enough for me since now I have little needs. but now I am happier than I ever was. Earlier I was constantly stressed about making it in the fashion world. But now I realized we have a short life span and what really worth is living and enjoying the current moment. Money is nothing if you have to always work and be stressed about it.
    Now I realx, work and rescue cats. Its different for everyone. But this is working me really well. I take custom dress making oders and also work as a visiting lecture for pattern making. I never going to try designing as a careere again. But I design things for my self.
    Hope you too find the path youre seeking and find the happiness and successful you deserve. Also I cannot tell you how happy I am to see you didnt left your kitty even now. He will be a great stress reliever and companion during these stressful days. Good luck and all the best to you. Also you are one of very talented and creative person I ever seen.

    • @Midnight_Rain_Wolfgang-Telos
      @Midnight_Rain_Wolfgang-Telos 5 лет назад +5

      sharmika malwatte Definitely relate. Dream chasing is the carrot stick of the rat race. I now know that I just want stability.

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 5 лет назад +3

      Sometimes life just sucks. I lost my mum and then had 3 operation, all in space of 5 years. I don't know how I got through it. It was the worst time. You are absolutely right. You need to revalue your life and take it minute by minute.

    • @ladyclarke9903
      @ladyclarke9903 5 лет назад

      @@brendakabanda2181That's where I am after suffered a major financial setback from an unscrupulous construction contractor!😡
      Stay encouraged!🙏

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 5 лет назад

      @@ladyclarke9903 There is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Just hang in there.

  • @craftsbydivineconnection8795
    @craftsbydivineconnection8795 5 лет назад +15

    I been there . I was homeless in my car with my kids live with family because I lost everything. For several months I was lost then boom I just continue to pray and say focus. Save my money while I worked. I say all that to say after my storm the blessing came. I was blessed with a home for me and my kids. Believe me it has to rain for the sun to show. It's always a light in the midst of the darkness. It's not easy but it worth it. You are a awesome designer and your time is hear this a minor set back for a major come back. Your future is so no promising just keep going. God has a plan for your life he didn't bring you this far to leave you . Go fund me account details.. I watch all you videos and you share your gift and don't ask for a penny for it. Least we can do is show some love

  • @TheBlackandMarried
    @TheBlackandMarried 5 лет назад +51

    Sis I haven’t even finished the video yet and I’m in tears. Stay strong queen. We all love and look up to you. You inspire me so much. God has favor over your life and the storm is only a preparation for something more amazing than you can even imagine. Stay strong! Stay strong! STAY STRONG! ❤️

  • @barakkaharyasharahla9340
    @barakkaharyasharahla9340 5 лет назад +7

    The devil is busy. Satan knows you are about to get a breakthrough. Please don't cry you got me almost in tears.

  • @oco987
    @oco987 5 лет назад +27

    Banks take people's home all the time. It isn't a failure. It happens. Its going to be okay

    • @GoldenHeartIncorporated
      @GoldenHeartIncorporated 5 лет назад +3

      Sudhir Kakar life happens to everyone.. good and bad.. I agree not a failure simply a hard time.. my husband isn’t getting to work rest of month.. lots of people struggling right now.

    • @beverlybalius9303
      @beverlybalius9303 5 лет назад +4

      Sudhir Kakar If you are a 1 paycheck household and you lose your job and can’t get another or you get sick and can’t work then how does that make you irresponsible???? It does not!!! Stuff happens!!!

    • @GoldenHeartIncorporated
      @GoldenHeartIncorporated 5 лет назад +2

      Sudhir Kakar none of your business.. but my husband is a coal miner who makes top pay just so you know that’s 6 figures. Secondly, we’ve helped both parents that died young of cancer in last few years. I did have my son early but I’m currently in college.. not getting to work this month hardly at all but market will bounce back at the beginning of the year and thankfully we are a union mine rather than non union. Thanks for your concern tho and assumptions. 🙂😘

    • @Aquariuswonder86
      @Aquariuswonder86 5 лет назад +4

      Sudhir Kakar you’re very judgemental. I hope you have this same energy when life comes at you.

    • @GoldenHeartIncorporated
      @GoldenHeartIncorporated 5 лет назад

      Sudhir Kakar like I said we’ve paid for families issues since we married.. took a pay cut.. we have high amount going into 401K and we pay a fortune on life insurance due to his dangerous job.. then you figure college expenses yearly.. we had power increases last two years in a row (still helping family due to deaths) etc.. took pay cut last three years.. and lost 30,000 K a year at least.. I kept helping family shouldn’t have. But as far as long term future we’ve done and doing all we can 🤷🏻‍♀️ we no longer help other family members. And if I can get finished with school then we will be doing great.. it is crazy it costs so much to live in general. Good paying jobs don’t mean as much when cost of living is way too high.. we have had bad luck since we married.. 8 years ago. Constantly fixing something repairs monthly.. we haven’t had the easiest road.. deff could be worse lost 5 family members back to back in a month a year ago.. coal will go back up in a few weeks and we will go full time again.. and for the New Years I will help US not everyone else.

  • @gwenstephens8694
    @gwenstephens8694 5 лет назад +21

    I would like to say thank you for allowing us in this moment. Your pain and honesty is a gift in itself. Even in our trials we need to know that we're not alone. I thank you for this moment, because you have shown us we're not alone in this fight to become Designer. ( I believe; we are put in position thought our life to teach even when we're struggling and you have help more then you can image ( Trust you will rise.)
    Thank you once again!!!!!

  • @decorbyregina
    @decorbyregina 5 лет назад +8

    Daniela, I'm so sorry! Your new chapter is coming and will be fabulous! I understand exactly what you're saying...❤ You will RISE Phoenix! Praying!

  • @tomikoeaton5871
    @tomikoeaton5871 5 лет назад +32

    Pray without ceasing watch your thoughts stay with god this time will pass 3 years ago my husband died i was married for 26 years 6 months after that someone bought the building i lived in for 24 years and kicked everybody out i had to leave the state i was raised in for 30 plus years im in a new state i don't know anybody im still healing I've been traumatized keep praying it will workout plan out your life have a plan a b c and d focus on god for guidance bless u

    • @tomikoeaton5871
      @tomikoeaton5871 5 лет назад +1

      @Fanta god bless you i can't believe what's happened my husband had myeloma emotionally im still in shock im numb we have 1 son this is a new normal god bless u and your children

  • @thechemi5083
    @thechemi5083 5 лет назад +7

    I've lost everything this year , my mom my friend , my job , opportunities to make my dream come true , everything. But I know things change so other things can come together. Don't give up 💯

    • @michellereynolds1214
      @michellereynolds1214 5 лет назад +2

      So sorry you’ve lost so much. Good things are coming. Your mom is watching over you ❤️

  • @mrsdfja1572
    @mrsdfja1572 5 лет назад +3

    God bless you sweetie. I to lost my home. I raised my kids there. Was blessed with it for 21 years. I like you tried and tired and wasn't able to keep it. I cried for months. My husband and I moved in with my mom. With the grace of God in June 2019 after a little over 3 yrs we were blessed to own our own home again. I look at the old neighborhood I use to live and thank God that were not there any longer. All that said to say. Stay strong and dont give up. There is something better in store for you. Stay positive and keep pushing. ❤❤

  • @SundaysHealing
    @SundaysHealing 5 лет назад +29

    I feel as though is something spiritual going on that you're not cognizant of. I would pray and ask the most high to break whatever spiritual tie that's happening in your life. There's some kind of spiritual blockage and that's the reason why these things are happening. If you need to fast, be in constant prayer, and find a way to still be encouraged to spite of what you see. you will prevail over all that you have experience in this life, there is light so continue to move forward with confidence knowing that this too is gone it shall pass. Have faith, have courage, move forward, fight for your destiny.

    • @Jacquelyndorindachic
      @Jacquelyndorindachic 5 лет назад

      Empathic Soul EXACTLY

    • @Jacquelyndorindachic
      @Jacquelyndorindachic 5 лет назад +2

      She need to do an Altar for TMH and pray without ceasing

    • @CoachingChosenOnes
      @CoachingChosenOnes 5 лет назад

      That's what I picked up as well. Amen!

    • @mandielou
      @mandielou 5 лет назад

      @@Jacquelyndorindachic no altars! just faith in Jesus Christ and turn from your sins.

    • @keyend9484
      @keyend9484 5 лет назад

      I just told this young lady the same thing! Her landlord has been bothering her for a while now and they finally put her out for making videos about it smh this a cold world and we all need each other ruclips.net/video/Sb4m9EJH2JE/видео.html

  • @serenitynolan4382
    @serenitynolan4382 5 лет назад +6

    Please don't give up on your dreams, your so talented and admired by many! You're such a strong amazing woman and WILL do many more great things

  • @LilLiz1974
    @LilLiz1974 5 лет назад +21

    Remember, when you do good evil is forever present. Crying is good😭😭 God said he will come an bottle up our tears PSALM 56:8. Praying for you

  • @TASconfidential
    @TASconfidential 5 лет назад +17

    Damn damn damn!!!
    I wish I knew this lady to tell her what I’m going to tell you:
    If you are a homeowner.... do EVERYTHING to keep you home:
    1.) rent out every room in that house to pay the mortgage
    2.) move out, rent the entire house out and live with someone else (so the house can pay for itself)
    3.) rent it out to section 8
    4.) get any part time job you can... bar tending, retail, etc.
    I’m sorry for your situation and wish you the ultimate best to get things back in order.

    • @Aquariuswonder86
      @Aquariuswonder86 5 лет назад +2

      TASconfidential I was just about to mention these things. I don’t know why her and her mom didn’t think to rent out the downstairs. But, I wish her well and everything is a learning experience.

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 5 лет назад +4

      Right ! move down where the mom lives and rent out the upstairs,I do this my self and the house pays for itself I pay no mortgage !

    • @angellover02171
      @angellover02171 4 года назад +4

      I don't think you get it. The bank wanted her money and the house. Daniella was in a preditory lending scheme that has effected thousands of people. If she and here mom lived in the same apartment until the house paid off they would have just lost more money, cause the bank would have raised the interest rate.

  • @stephaniebailey4236
    @stephaniebailey4236 5 лет назад +3

    A very brave sister. My daughter has tried so hard to maintain herself. Everything continues to go down hill. Please, beautiful black women, don't give up.

  • @seedofisrael1356
    @seedofisrael1356 5 лет назад +57

    Talk more to God, he will make a way. Trust in him, him only, stop focusing on the situation or the things of this world, keep your eyes, heart on him, he will change the situation.

    • @mandielou
      @mandielou 5 лет назад +5

      Exactly even if the situation isn't answered in the way that you would like. It's his will not our own. Sometimes he wants us to go through these things so we have a testimony that claims the glory of God.

    • @koriribarsosio4174
      @koriribarsosio4174 5 лет назад +1

      Amen. He works things together perfectly for our good. Perfectly

    • @koriribarsosio4174
      @koriribarsosio4174 5 лет назад +1

      @@mandielou praise God. Ain't this the truth!!

    • @mandielou
      @mandielou 5 лет назад +1

      @DARK POWER I am not saying to just sit back and do nothing I'm saying put your trust in God. Your perception of God is obviously not based on your faith in him! There's many things that she could have done but didn't do. She needs to pray without ceasing, literally ask him what she is supposed to do and then do that. He will make a way when one door closes another opens sometimes many open sometimes you don't think you see another door but with the strength and knowledge you'll find an open window and crawl through. the holy spirit is there the entire way but sometimes were so wrapped up and what's going on around us we forget to lean on him. Sometimes those many doors that open uparen't the door she's supposed to be going through but if she's leaning on God he will show her the way. You never just sit back and do nothing per se but you do everything with your trust and faith in Jesus. You have no idea you won't understand this unless you yourself lean on God. Test every Spirit pray talk to him ask him to confirm or deny what I'm saying. Ask for discernment. And sometimes bad things do happen but it's all a lesson and it all works out for the good and glory of God, you just have to trust and believe. God bless you!

    • @mandielou
      @mandielou 5 лет назад +1

      @Kara Kelly Our God the only God loved us so much that he gave us free will to choose to follow him or go our own way. Now that's ultimate love. Love you clearly don't understand. If he wanted to be a dictator he could have been but he didn't want to control his people he wanted his people to willingly love him back. This is how bad things happen in the world because we've been given free will but there is repentance and there's always a choice to turn back to Jesus. This life is like a shortstop to the next. The next life is pure something we can't even imagine because our human brains can't fathom what real love and peace is. He wants heaven to be what he wants it to be as he initially wanted Earth to be. But Satan try to defeat him betrayed him tried to become him ... He is making our new home for us right as we speak, awhile a war is going on in heaven. God isn't imaginary, your belief in evolution is imaginary. Science proves there is a God. And I think you forget the lady we're speaking about believes in God herself... So who are you to try to interfere in encouraging another sister in Christ... Satan's minions. I assure you if you don't turn from this way of thinking that you will meet your demise. I don't want that nobody wants that turn to Jesus before it's too late. Don't wait until you're near your death bed or on it because it may be too late by then. Eternity is a long time. God bless you and your family. I'll be praying for your salvation. but only you can work out your salvation with fear and trembling start by opening up the Bible and read his word which is your protection. Start by talking to him ask him to reveal himself to you and I promise you you will and you will understand where I'm coming from but until then you will be in the dark.

  • @lionmane1856
    @lionmane1856 5 лет назад +56

    Hey, we are here for you, and we support you. You can survive this as many have before.

    • @Smilebefine
      @Smilebefine 5 лет назад

      So true. Paying for your to be strong

    • @MT-de9tj
      @MT-de9tj 5 лет назад +2

      Remember GOD is in control ,and he loves you.

  • @henrylester4051
    @henrylester4051 5 лет назад +7

    Hi Daniela, I'm sorry this is happening to you my dear. Now it is time to strategize. 1) Have you thought about teaching at a Fashion School to teach students to sew or design clothes.? 2) Do you have friends that can recommend you for a position as a Fashion Designer. 3) Contacting someone to work as a wardrobe designer on one of the major networks in NYC. The same thing happened to me when I was in NYC so I decided to move and do Interior Design. In the world of Fashion it is all about contacts. Lastly have you and your mom thought about leasing the house to a renter and moving into a rental apartment until you all are back on your feet? How about doing costume design for theaters or movies? A talented sister like you can do anything you put your mind to. Also Jersey City is a lot cheaper than living in NYC and it is just across the river and you can commute once you get a job and do your craft on the side. Stay strong love the Fashion business is not easy that is why I left it years ago.

  • @ladywells4411
    @ladywells4411 5 лет назад +2

    Stay strong Girl I have been through a similar journey I was homeless and survive you are not alone.

  • @hebrewhomesteadupdatewalee8303
    @hebrewhomesteadupdatewalee8303 5 лет назад +19

    I was living in a motel for a year before I built my tiny house

  • @mmushypushy
    @mmushypushy 5 лет назад +18

    Stay strong mamas. Hope everything gets resolved in the best way.

  • @mocha992
    @mocha992 5 лет назад +6

    I've been where you are. Me and my daughter have been displaced for over a year. You will get get through this. Sending prayers

    • @cathywaller3627
      @cathywaller3627 5 лет назад

      May the Lord bless you and your daughter with a nice and safe and wonderful place to live in Jesus name amen

    • @kimberlypeterkin4912
      @kimberlypeterkin4912 5 лет назад +2

      I can relate! Due to the fact that I've been displaced too along with my 5 year old Daughter. Seeing her cry; hurts my hurt! My sidewall of my apartment collapsed and we lost everything! It's a struggle! I hope you and your Daughter get your own place again!!!!

  • @xXxTASHARAxXx
    @xXxTASHARAxXx 5 лет назад +35

    Daniela I know we don’t know each other personally, but I genuinely care for you
    I believe that you are extremely talented, kind-hearted, and so deserving of all things great!
    Please remain strong, and hold on to hope
    Things are going to turn around; something amazing is going to happen for you

  • @elizabethlebouef7536
    @elizabethlebouef7536 5 лет назад +1

    I’m so so sorry for all that you have been through and still going through. Its ok that you cried. You have to let out all those pent up emotions that you have been holding in trying to survive. I’m going to subscribe to your channel because I can tell you are a very genuine person. I’m going to pray hard for you that you can get through this time quickly into a happier time and place.
    I’m sending you big hugs!!! Lizzie

  • @EvaWright
    @EvaWright 5 лет назад +1

    I know how hard it is for you, I have been homeless too. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. My landlord threw my landlady out into the 30-degree weather with her son and they were living in a tent until I asked them to please come to stay with us till after the New Year. Shit escalates so fast when we are struggling. We are all close to being down and out..

  • @nola06
    @nola06 5 лет назад +12

    I'm sending you positive vibes from NYC! 2019 has been a rough year for me as well. I can only hope 2020 is better!

  • @chandanevans
    @chandanevans 5 лет назад +13

    Everything is going to be alright. Praying for you.

  • @juliafranks6344
    @juliafranks6344 5 лет назад +15

    Here’s some inspiration for you, when things seems like they are falling apart it is really coming together. God is removing you out of the house because he has something greater for you , and you will still have your store don’t stop doing your crafts. Your gifts will make way for you ,sometime God removes us out of negative energy and your house does look dark even with light on, you will feel better later on God bless you and your mom I pray for her healing and for her to receive her money that’s due to her in Jesus name I’m thanking him in advance , Prosperity from now on🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @kimberlyslovinlife8971
    @kimberlyslovinlife8971 5 лет назад +13

    God is with us every day I lost my home to and I'm staying in the hotel also keep striving and doing good on RUclips this is the first time I watched your videos and this video was suggested for me to watch on purpose so you're giving the word to everyone and I pray for you A lot of people are going through a lot of things and it's hard you're such a beautiful woman and you have a such a beautiful personality God bless you and thank you for sharing your life to us I started RUclips and I want to share my life with everyone also maybe we can help other people

    • @faitheubanks7534
      @faitheubanks7534 5 лет назад

      Please don't give up on your life or self they call it testing God test us in many way have Faith because faith without work is no faith you will make it I'm Praying for you with you wher is your mom ?keep thinking positive some time its hard BUT NEVER NEVER GIVE UP LOVE YOU AND TEATS FOR YOU .

  • @TheOllidee01
    @TheOllidee01 5 лет назад +2

    I feel your pain, been there too. Still going through the tribulation after losing my two bedroom I had for 30 years and now living in one room due to being and entrepreneur. It is well!!!