@@stevekima8881 Well, it shows how superficial he is...continued saying: '...as long as she is pretty...'. Well, if that is the measuring standard, he should leave the room , like yesterday. Pissed me off so much!
She doesn’t have much of a backbone. She said her fiancée “wouldn’t leave her alone” so she relented and started dating him. She needs to get a grip and stop letting men run her life.
@@solitairedoll I noticed that too. Kind of terrible to me, when guys just think no means yes- pretty toxic. Like, leave me alone I'm not interested does not mean keep pursuing... That's when I end up blocking, deleting and if had to- restraining order- creepy.
Because the show requests that potential brides bring someone controversial, if possible, in order to up the drama. There have been brides who went on record to say that producers deliberately asked them to bring family members or friends that they have issues with or haven't spoken to in a while. Hence why you sometimes see mothers or fathers being trotted out where the bride admits to not having a good relationship with them and the parent is controlling or downright monstrous to their daughter. If the show always had a supportive entourage it would get boring very quick for a number of people. Why do you think the show Bridezilla was so popular? People need a polarizing character.
@@annejeppesen160 Maybe they get a really good fee plus a discount from the store that's being advertised here, and they can use that to pay some of the dress, or get a more expensive one than they otherwise could.
*SHE* is not indecisive. the bride would have found a dress already if her so-called “friend” didn’t have something bad to say about every dress *he* didn’t pick
“Let’s see..........I don’t see Chance’s name on the seclude today” 😂 “Ahh look at that Chances is having his bridal moment too bad he’s not the one in it” 😂 you gotta love Monte 😂
Chance is not a friend. I am guessing that she met him when she was in a state of insecurities and weakness, seeing about how she said her groom wouldn’t leave her alone and that’s why she probably met Chance. Chance is someone who I can see is a confident, “unique,” bold person. Something that she wasn’t. So now that she’s been able to get her confidence and that she’s finally able to stand tall, Chance I can see hates that. And that’s why she keeps trying to bring her down. With these words and insults, he’s trying to keep her dependent on him. He’s a narcissist. He wants her to depend on him as a friend. And when he doesn’t get his way, he throws a tantrum which makes her feel she HAS to give him what he wants. Toxic friends are hard to get rid of, but if she doesn’t, it’s gonna be one BIG co-dependent mess. 🙄🙄🙄
I don't believe Chance is confident or bold at all. Narcissistic folk are super insecure and that's usually the act they put on for everyone because they don't want people to see their insecurities.
Uhh if your talking about the beginning then that wasn’t rude lol , the “are you ready “ part was kinda funny, or maybe it’s because I’ve *actually* been around many people like this.
@@mourningst5r Eh, I'd find it funny if they were friends or if he hadn't rolled her eyes at her after she said it. Maybe that's part of his character but if someone I didn't know talked to me that way I'd just walk away. I find it disrespectful to talk to people in that tone/manor, especially when they're providing a service/helping you. Though mind you I work retail and went to a private school, so respect was drilled into my head.
@@mourningst5r facts , i thought that part was kind of funny 🤣 but other than that he was being an asshole other than that part too bad he didn’t mean it in a funny way 😭
no we dont...we dont have toxic people who drain the life out of like dracula in our lives...if someone doesnt bring something to the relationship that is positive then you dont need those people in your life!!!
I know, she seemed apprehensive in general, when she said her and her fiance have been through so many trials and tribulations that she can't see herself with anybody else I kinda wondered what those trials were about.
i love Monte, like- in one vid, he got 11 women and 1 boy/man to shut up, like how- and he is giving the most best and fire comebacks i've ever heard, when Monte has made a mind set, he completes it, that man needs more credits fr
Ajisen Ramen I know right and he’s not getting married like just let the bride pick the dress herself instead of him picking the dress for her like for real she’s not a toddler lol
I really like the dress she took home, It does screem her name. I'm also glad that Chances finally thought of his bestfriend and how she feels other than himself.
I get so tired of "friends" thinking that being honest/"keeping it real" is the same as being rude. We all need and can appreciate a true friend and their honesty, but he was just too much.
There’s a fine line between “keeping it real” and being straight up rude. Like I can appreciate honesty, but there’s definitely better ways to go about it than what this guy demonstrated. It’s kind of a reoccurring thing in this show too, where there’s always someone who is part of the bridal party who is “just being honest.” When in reality, they’re throwing their weight around and being unsupportive and unbearable. I hate to use the word (because it’s used so often) but “toxic” is the only way to really describe that behavior. Some people just don’t understand that line.
@@schone5037 ...........he's never going to have his big day so he wants control of her's...........these brides need to learn to leave these "friends" out of the mix..............
“i personally don’t care if she’s happy, as long as she’s pretty.” um i would not bring a friend with me if he acts like that towards me and he’s so controlling edit: and idk bout y’all but i think the first dress he picked is ugly as heck
Ygor Cortes maybe not to you bye everyone has different opinions at the end of the day of the brides happy the people around her should be happy for her
He's over- acting his role in a scripted reality show. I can't with stereotypical gay rôles being pushed until the masses ( including some young gays ) believe it's how gays generally behave.
I'm so glad I've been really good with my friends when picking up a wedding dress. I was supportive and told them "If you like it, don't care about what others say. Be you, unique and beautiful." Never tolerated a toxic person who wants to force things down my throat.
I agree he's acting so jealous. He probably has a crush on the groom. The reason he's bringing all the "divatude" trying to sabotage her happy moments.
“He wouldn’t leave me alone, so we ended up getting together” 😒 And girl, “trials and tribulations” are not a reason to stay with someone. I hate this whole episode 😩
This girl is so doomed. She's marrying someone who "wouldn't leave her alone" in HS & feels they've been through so many trials & tribulations together. And then OMG, her best friend is CHANCES, an arrogant, spoiled, nasty, rude, poor excuse for a friend?! Girl, you have GOT to pick better people in your life!
@@skylovermc2146 I was in an awful relationship. Like guy was sentenced 30 years minimum in jail, no parole awful. This girl is clearly being manipulated and she needs help. That's why Susan left that comment. Susan is completely correct in her statement. This bride needs to step back and see what is happening- it's not mean to say- it's true. Might hurt for this girl to realize, but she could end up seriously hurt if she doesn't start recognizing these patterns
Watching these clips has reminded me that we shouldn't share important moments with everyone. Some of these people the Brides picks to go with them to choose their dresses are rude, inconsiderate, toxic, disrespectful and insensitive. When it's my time, the only approval I will seek is my own and if I love the dress then that will be my dress.
Monte: Is there anything you don’t like about the dress? Chances: No! There is n... Monte: I believe I asked the bride. Taneisha: What do you guys think? Chances: I’m at a loss for words. Fake cries. My mamma always said if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all. Excuse me then why are you so rude the entire appointment? Also I love how Monte and her consultant stood up for her and helped her stand up to Chances.
When she said Chances was ruining her appointment is when she should have told him to scram. This isn't about a dress, it's about her "friend" trying to out queen Monty.
She looks absolutely stunning in the 2nd and 3rd dress, either choice. It's a shame her friend was so selfish. I'm not sure where all of those mean comments were coming from, she looked fab!
The second dress looked SO InCredible on her ! Was Definitely my favourite. It makes me wonder how many other beautiful dresses she missed out on because of this awful "friend"
Get rid of the “friend”. What kind of friend is that!? 🙄. Chance needs to go! Not a real friend. He is tearing down the bride’s confidence . The bride looks stunning in dresses she tried on
I agree, he's so rude!! And like you said the bride to be looked amazing in all of the dresses... She definitely made the right choice with the dress she chose... She looked absolutely beautiful in it... It was made for her...
you know in spanish we have this saying "con estos amigos para que quiero enemigos?" which is basically "with these friends what do i want enemies for?" and this episode just had me thinking that phrase over and over again *YEESH*
3:48 =... He is so used to being in control & dominant of his BFFs fashion to the point he feels the mother & stylist to her style like she's his doll or something...
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"I don't care if she's happy, as long as she's pretty."
... THAT is absolutely toxic.
As soon as he said that monte should have walked his ass out of the store
@@spencerwagner903
If I were the one that he said THAT to, I would've told him to get OUT of my life.
@@autumnemerald1019 heck! Yes!
@Adjunct Prof Colleen B Kelly - Retired
Nobody is bringing politics into this.
At first I read it wrong and I’m like. Wait why is wanting her to be happy toxic? But then I read it again.
“I personally don’t care if she’s happy.” Why are you heeeeere then?lol..
ikrr bruh
😅😅😅😅
Exactly. Its one thing to be opinionated but to say that...
@@stevekima8881 Well, it shows how superficial he is...continued saying: '...as long as she is pretty...'. Well, if that is the measuring standard, he should leave the room , like yesterday. Pissed me off so much!
Right?!?!
“I don’t care if she’s happy as long as she’s pretty”
I am... DiSgUsTeD
He's joking
@@queen_t.ttrishelle4547
I hope he is goddanm
@@k.h.production22669 😂😂😂
Same.
Sometimes it’s the other way around, which is much better
I’m sure she never chose Chances as a friend. He probably told her that he is going to be her friend, whether she like sit or not.
Giggles, say this again. He a lil bully 🤣
it almost seems the be the case for the fiancé as well. “he... wouldn’t leave me alone”. um. maybe there’s a pattern here
LOL!!!
Nailed it. 🤣
@@victorias.2995 I wonder what the fiance thinks of Chance.
"I don't care if she's happy, as long as she's pretty."
That is so wrong. Wtf is going on with his mind.
Idk
Armyyyyyyyyyyyy
don't swear please. (Jesus Christ saves!)
@@monicalivesforchrist5901 shut up
@@monicalivesforchrist5901 hell
“Everything about this dress bothers me”
Everything about You bothers me
exactly
Mood!
BURN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh yeah
If I could high five through through screen I would
"The only reason we haven't found a dress is because of Chance."
Then... Why... Did you keep bringing him?
She doesn’t have much of a backbone. She said her fiancée “wouldn’t leave her alone” so she relented and started dating him.
She needs to get a grip and stop letting men run her life.
@@solitairedoll ya just hearing that seems like she stuck with toxic people even in her relationship just hasn't able to get away
@@heyitsstar7687 for real it seems like that .
@@solitairedoll I noticed that too. Kind of terrible to me, when guys just think no means yes- pretty toxic. Like, leave me alone I'm not interested does not mean keep pursuing... That's when I end up blocking, deleting and if had to- restraining order- creepy.
@@solitairedoll exactly my point!
he is such a bad friend. if she’s happy, that should be all that matters. it’s HER wedding day, not his. i would’ve told him to leave if i were her.
Ciara Edwards A real friend makes sure you look amazing but he was wrong in certain ways.
I wouldn’t say he is a bad friend just maybe a very strong opinionated guy... who could maybe tone it down
Elizabeth HAMILTON Yeah some my friends are opinionated af but at the end of the day they won’t have me looking stupid and dusty
Agreed.
Ciara Edwards leave him behind,he’s a moron
"She's indecisive." You don't even give her a chance to answer, so how can she possibly make a decision in the first place?
amen 🙏🏻
MONTE IS THE KING OF ROASTING
like Lori said “go out queen him,monte”
Yes true
What part was that
Time stamp?
@@Thecashstuffer-wb3ie just listen you’ll hear it
I love how Lori sent Monty to out queen him.
Lol. Spot on...
No one:
Monty: hold my Pinot 🤣💁🏻♀️
I KNOWWJZJSJS
chances has met his match lol. like lori said "Monte is the ultimate diva"
Monte uses his diva powers for good.
Did anyone else wanted to slap this "friend"? I do!
Yes I seriously want slap him x
Hard
Absolutely not - what a silly thing to say. He needs a good KICK right where it REALLY HURTS.
Yes, into straightness 🙄!
I'm glad he's not the fiancé. That's all I'm gonna say.
He’s probably one of those “friends” that wants their friends to look ugly so he feels like the prettiest one in the room.
He probably wishes he was wearing that dress he picked, that first one she wore
That's what insecurity do with assholes who forgot how to have humanity.
@@stellaneko7659
You're right. 🙁
Girl yes!!!!!
He's joking bruh
Her mother is so patient, she waits for her daughter's opinion and then agrees, I want her!!
Monte: I personally don't see Chance's name on the schedule today.
That was too funny 😂
Imao...🤣🤣🤣🤣
Monte is the best. I love how he shuts assholes down.
Chance isn’t acting old enough to be a toddler.
Why would she bring him AGAIN, if she said that he was the reason for the 27 previous dresses?!
Because the show requests that potential brides bring someone controversial, if possible, in order to up the drama. There have been brides who went on record to say that producers deliberately asked them to bring family members or friends that they have issues with or haven't spoken to in a while. Hence why you sometimes see mothers or fathers being trotted out where the bride admits to not having a good relationship with them and the parent is controlling or downright monstrous to their daughter. If the show always had a supportive entourage it would get boring very quick for a number of people. Why do you think the show Bridezilla was so popular? People need a polarizing character.
The show decides who you can bring with you
I wonder why you would be on the show, when you aren't even able to choose who to take with you!
@@annejeppesen160 Maybe they get a really good fee plus a discount from the store that's being advertised here, and they can use that to pay some of the dress, or get a more expensive one than they otherwise could.
@@annika5893 I rather hope so... The alternative is pure thirst for the 15 min...
*SHE* is not indecisive. the bride would have found a dress already if her so-called “friend” didn’t have something bad to say about every dress *he* didn’t pick
Secret Person or if she got the chance to even react.
EXACTLY!!
Exactly
So why keep asking him to come shopping?
@@lorijohnson8425 this is the big question.
“Let’s see..........I don’t see Chance’s name on the seclude today” 😂
“Ahh look at that Chances is having his bridal moment too bad he’s not the one in it” 😂 you gotta love Monte 😂
Chance is not a friend. I am guessing that she met him when she was in a state of insecurities and weakness, seeing about how she said her groom wouldn’t leave her alone and that’s why she probably met Chance. Chance is someone who I can see is a confident, “unique,” bold person. Something that she wasn’t. So now that she’s been able to get her confidence and that she’s finally able to stand tall, Chance I can see hates that. And that’s why she keeps trying to bring her down. With these words and insults, he’s trying to keep her dependent on him. He’s a narcissist. He wants her to depend on him as a friend. And when he doesn’t get his way, he throws a tantrum which makes her feel she HAS to give him what he wants. Toxic friends are hard to get rid of, but if she doesn’t, it’s gonna be one BIG co-dependent mess. 🙄🙄🙄
Ur pfp is me when chances says something rude lol
I don't believe Chance is confident or bold at all. Narcissistic folk are super insecure and that's usually the act they put on for everyone because they don't want people to see their insecurities.
He is so frickin annoying .. condescending ... rude .. disrespectful
Why have someone like this around you ..
The second dress was IT. Her figure looked stunning.
I literally said this right before I read the comment 😭
God she looked GORGEOUS in that dress
I felt that there was sth missing in that dress. It was too plane.
She just look gorgeous with that dress!
She looks gorgeous in every dress
Am I the only one who laughed at Monte saying “I don’t see Chance’s name on the schedule today.”?
Nope 🤣
Or, "Oh, how sweet. Chances is having his bridal moment..."
😂😂😂😂nope
I loved that line. It is so funny.
Nope!
After he was rude to the consultant I was so done with him.
Yep I clocked that straight off as well. Vile.
Uhh if your talking about the beginning then that wasn’t rude lol , the “are you ready “ part was kinda funny, or maybe it’s because I’ve *actually* been around many people like this.
@@mourningst5r Eh, I'd find it funny if they were friends or if he hadn't rolled her eyes at her after she said it. Maybe that's part of his character but if someone I didn't know talked to me that way I'd just walk away. I find it disrespectful to talk to people in that tone/manor, especially when they're providing a service/helping you. Though mind you I work retail and went to a private school, so respect was drilled into my head.
@@mourningst5r facts , i thought that part was kind of funny 🤣 but other than that he was being an asshole other than that part too bad he didn’t mean it in a funny way 😭
Yes like so much attitude that’s a turn off don’t come to someone’s business and act a fool
“i don’t care if she’s not happy as long as she’s pretty” NO NO NOO. SIS THAT IS TOXIC DROP HIM.
I'm only 2 minutes into this video and I absolutely cannot stand this guy. Respect yourself enough to not put up with toxic people!
2 mins?? I couldn't stand him the second he talked!!!
Plot twist : it's not the veil or jewellery that brings the Entourage around. Monte just threatens them behind camera.
"Respond kindly or I'll have them photoshop a moustache on your face before airing"
@@leenasheikh5273 PLEASE LMAOO
Lol
hahaaa
Whether it's Monte, or Lori, or some unseen producer, I too believe that's how most of the entourage "turn-arounds" occur.
Lori: We all got somebody that annoy us
Monte: Smiles cutely to the camera
LMAOOOOOOOOO
😹😹
😂😂😂😂
I died fr
i love them lmfaooo 😭💀
That was brilliant✨☺️✨hahaha.✨🙂
"I think we all have someone in our lives, who we love, that makes us crazy." *Camera cuts to Monte.*
Oh my word, I died. 😂
I was in tears and his little smirk
I red this comment before it happened but it really didn't prepare me for that moment lmao 🤣🤣
Laughed galore
no we dont...we dont have toxic people who drain the life out of like dracula in our lives...if someone doesnt bring something to the relationship that is positive then you dont need those people in your life!!!
😂
I just looovveee how monte doesn't even hide that he is disgusted by some people 😂😂
“I don’t see Chance’s name on today’s appointment list.”😂
Chance: “It looks like a prom dress!”
Me: Your first pick looked like a prom dress.
His pick with the colored sash made her look a good 30 lbs heavier than she is
For sure
That looked like a whole wedding cake in my personal opinion..
Jesus! I did not expect for this 5 month old comment to get 542 likes! Goodness! Thank you!
A 1997 prom dress at that
He is a terrible friend. Monte’s pick is so much better
Meredith Creo I would of slapped him in the mouth n told him to keep his mouth shut if not get gonr
Not really it did nothing for her.
Chance is toxic. There I said it. Also this poor child seems like she can't make a decision for herself to save her life I'm just saying
She can (and did) when Chances isn't around to make her feel like shit!
I know, she seemed apprehensive in general, when she said her and her fiance have been through so many trials and tribulations that she can't see herself with anybody else I kinda wondered what those trials were about.
It's a big decision. And no one wants to mess it up and regret it. That's why we bring in support.
Brandy B I was thinking the same thing. Sounds like her fiancé put her thru the ringer.
Tamisha: there is always a moment where i want to slap chances
Me: tHeN wHy dOnT yOu GiRl??
"I'm a winner". He didn't even care how she felt, he just was happy that she was wearing his choice.
"oh how sweet, chances is having his bridal moment,too bad he ain't the one wearing the dress"
I'm laughing my ass out loud 😂😂
lmao Monte was really getting comfortable with those “chance” puns 😂
Ikr? He's gold 😂
He saw the chance and he took it
0⁰p
I love Monte. He's the greatest.
Lol
why do people thing being “gay and rude” is a personality trait.
Ikr
finally someone said it 🙄
Who said that?? This is so irrelevant to the video it’s insane.
Ikr? People are weird...
jjj
Chances is not a friend. He is there because he found someone to lord over. I would kick him to the curb. Let him earn manners.🌹🌹🌹
This comment!
With Chances as a friend it seems like she is taking her chances
He's there because he got his mug and ultra-exaggerated behavior on t.v.
i love how Monte looks so triumphant every time some is put in his place. i really enjoy this.
"he's coming to the wedding... for now" lmao
"Chances is having his bridal moment" I had food in my throat and I CHOKED
Too bad he’s not the bride lol 😂
Welcome to another episode of “Shut Up This Is Not Your Wedding”
THISSSSS
LLLOOOOOOLLLL😹😹
Or you ain't paying for the dress.
@@janetyoung6097 yeah
LMAOAOAOA
"I think we all have someone in our lives, who we love, that makes us crazy"
*cuts to Monty*
😂😂😂
😂😂
🤣😂
Shikha Das I came looking for someone to say this
🤣🤣🤣
my fav moment from this clip. love monty
i love Monte, like- in one vid, he got 11 women and 1 boy/man to shut up, like how- and he is giving the most best and fire comebacks i've ever heard, when Monte has made a mind set, he completes it, that man needs more credits fr
This was basically a queen-off. Like the back and forth, you could see how that man was getting on everyone's nerves.
Chance does not have good taste! That dress he picked out with a purple sash look hideous on her.
It was hideous on her
Gag.
He's trying to sabotage the event by having her look like a clown.
@@YT4Me57 he's not a true friend..
it looked like a yard sale reject........awful !
We don't deserve Monte's Iconic personality. Like "I don't see Chances's name on the schedule today." Is too damn Iconic for me to handle.
I loved the "awwww Chances is having his bridal moment" lmao EXACTLY 😂👏👏👏
Cant forget about the glare he gave the boy!
Chance is acting like he wishes He was getting married instead of the actual Bride.
It's Chances. Like "What are the chances that our kid is so nuts." Lol
Ajisen, THAT'S IT!
Ajisen Ramen I know right and he’s not getting married like just let the bride pick the dress herself instead of him picking the dress for her like for real she’s not a toddler lol
Ajisen Ramen yes he does,to himself
This is not a "friend" that we should keep. 😞😞😞
So glad she didn’t go with her friend’s choice - it did nothing for her. The second and third dresses were beautiful on her.
I really like the dress she took home, It does screem her name. I'm also glad that Chances finally thought of his bestfriend and how she feels other than himself.
I get so tired of "friends" thinking that being honest/"keeping it real" is the same as being rude. We all need and can appreciate a true friend and their honesty, but he was just too much.
Nurse_Shelly This!! You can be honest and make sure your friend look absolutely stunning and NOT be mean.
I agree. If you didnt like a dress there is a nicer way of saying it !
There’s a fine line between “keeping it real” and being straight up rude. Like I can appreciate honesty, but there’s definitely better ways to go about it than what this guy demonstrated. It’s kind of a reoccurring thing in this show too, where there’s always someone who is part of the bridal party who is “just being honest.” When in reality, they’re throwing their weight around and being unsupportive and unbearable. I hate to use the word (because it’s used so often) but “toxic” is the only way to really describe that behavior. Some people just don’t understand that line.
If the bride is happy, if the person paying for the dress is happy, that should be it.
YES YES YES!
Why is his friend being so rude to the bride
where are the avocados? / Tbh, I wouldn’t call that a “friend”... ಠ_ಠ
@@Thea_222 totally agree with you
Jealous
@@schone5037 ...........he's never going to have his big day so he wants control of her's...........these brides need to learn to leave these "friends" out of the mix..............
Because the scrip said so most probably
“i personally don’t care if she’s happy, as long as she’s pretty.”
um i would not bring a friend with me if he acts like that towards me and he’s so controlling
edit: and idk bout y’all but i think the first dress he picked is ugly as heck
That's a bad friend. She needs to get rid of him.
i would not be calling him a friend if he talked to me that way. with "friends" like that who needs enemies?
Also very rude to the sale assistant
The was not a single dress is this video that looked good tbh lol
Ygor Cortes maybe not to you bye everyone has different opinions at the end of the day of the brides happy the people around her should be happy for her
When he said I’m lost for words I thought he was go say some nice 😂😂😂😂 he got my ass
She looked absolutely stunning in that dress. I'm glad she didn't listen to Chances.
The bride seems really passive, even in the way she described why she’s marrying the groom. I hope she grows a backbone 😳
Agree! Like girl do you love him or he wouldn't go away so you just stuck with it
So true. I'm thinking, since when does a healthy relationship equal endless problems??
She won't need to. The groom's gonna put Chances in his place.
yeah it almost sounds like she gave up because like she said he wouldn't leave her alone and then settled for him.
The whole description of her relationship was just 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
“It looks like a prom dress” well boo what would you call your pick then?
Omg, I had the same reaction.
EXACTLY!!! Has this dude ever been to a formal event that wasn't held in a school gymnasium?
"At this point I'm thinking of walking out the door."
Girl, no! Send *him* out the door.
Monte sass moments are amazing 😂
I really appreciate the bride.
I think she can be friends with anyone.
Chances: “id like to see y’all do better” Monty: “Honey I don’t have to try to do better”. Honestly Monty was such a savage and I was all for it
I can’t stand when some gay guys act like that. He’s rude and ignorant. He’s jealous
He's over- acting his role in a scripted reality show. I can't with stereotypical gay rôles being pushed until the masses ( including some young gays ) believe it's how gays generally behave.
He wants to be center of attention all the time. Cannot stand when someone else has a moment.
@@flazeda8743 No they dont. A lot of gays are just sassy but they're not disrespectful. This guy was just pure disrespectful.
what does being gay have to do with it?
OK, let's be real here - he's not acting this way because of his sexuality, he's acting this way because he's a bully and a jerk
Chances: "She's indecisive, and I'm the judge and jury."
And executioner, apparently, executing any hope the bride had for finding a wedding dress.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well said👏👏🤣🤣🤣
"We all have someone in our lives who we love that makes us crazy"
Monte :😁
I'm so glad I've been really good with my friends when picking up a wedding dress. I was supportive and told them "If you like it, don't care about what others say. Be you, unique and beautiful."
Never tolerated a toxic person who wants to force things down my throat.
He's clearly jealous of her. Been there done that sis get rid of that negative walking energy
I agree he's acting so jealous. He probably has a crush on the groom. The reason he's bringing all the "divatude" trying to sabotage her happy moments.
“He wouldn’t leave me alone, so we ended up getting together” 😒 And girl, “trials and tribulations” are not a reason to stay with someone. I hate this whole episode 😩
This girl is so doomed. She's marrying someone who "wouldn't leave her alone" in HS & feels they've been through so many trials & tribulations together. And then OMG, her best friend is CHANCES, an arrogant, spoiled, nasty, rude, poor excuse for a friend?! Girl, you have GOT to pick better people in your life!
Yeah she lets men tell her what to do. She needs a backbone and self esteem.
@@solitairedoll Do you know what manipulation works?
@@susan945 Do you what know manipulation is?
@@skylovermc2146 I was in an awful relationship. Like guy was sentenced 30 years minimum in jail, no parole awful. This girl is clearly being manipulated and she needs help. That's why Susan left that comment. Susan is completely correct in her statement. This bride needs to step back and see what is happening- it's not mean to say- it's true. Might hurt for this girl to realize, but she could end up seriously hurt if she doesn't start recognizing these patterns
“I think we all have someone in our lives, who we love, that makes us crazy.” **Cue Monte**
Time stamp?
@@mia_thomas33 2:01 here you go😚
2:28 the consultant looks so annoyed lol i mean i would be too
Watching these clips has reminded me that we shouldn't share important moments with everyone. Some of these people the Brides picks to go with them to choose their dresses are rude, inconsiderate, toxic, disrespectful and insensitive. When it's my time, the only approval I will seek is my own and if I love the dress then that will be my dress.
I think these are scripted to trigger the audience.
"Chances is acting like a toddler"
Wait, he's not a toddler in an adult suit?
“We met in high school ...*worried face*...and he wouldn’t leave me alone so we ended up together.”
I-
J. M. I cringed! My mind just went back to all those high school boys that wouldn’t go away 😬
J. M. I caught that too and cringed 😬
"We been thru so many trials and tribulations" translation: I'm the only one who accepted ALL his 👶 mamas drama.
You can see Monte getting closer to kicking him out of the store
Beautiful dress. Not fitting a beach ceremony but she looks stunning in it.
Shut up this is not ur wedding venue
The bride looks so sweet and vulnerable the second time she comes out. So glad she is so happy with her gown.
Monte: Is there anything you don’t like about the dress?
Chances: No! There is n...
Monte: I believe I asked the bride.
Taneisha: What do you guys think?
Chances: I’m at a loss for words. Fake cries. My mamma always said if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all.
Excuse me then why are you so rude the entire appointment? Also I love how Monte and her consultant stood up for her and helped her stand up to Chances.
Idc if you roast me, I laughed at that, I'mma use that one my sister
I'm sorry I feel really bad but I just had to laugh when he said "my momma always said if you don't have anything nice to say-"
@@isabellarose6514 it was so funny. TOXIC but hilarious
Who is this guy and why did no one teach him manners? Ew.
It's probably played up a bit for the camera, "reality" tv does that a lot
Monte is the man. When he needs someone to puts on their place he put them DOWN
YESS
That guy is not even a friend omg I am so disgusted
When she said Chances was ruining her appointment is when she should have told him to scram. This isn't about a dress, it's about her "friend" trying to out queen Monty.
“Looks to me that Chances is out of chances...” OML 😂😂
Me: “Oop-... Good job Monte!”
What type of “fRiEnD” are you? Mm?
@Smileyrie James same 😂
He is toxic, spoiled, when he does the "cute little boy head between the shoulders" he needed to be told to leave.
@Smileyrie James sameee
IKR THAT HAD ME SHOCKED WHEN HE SAID THAT LMAOOO
The first dress looks like when you wrap a bed sheet around your body
She looks absolutely stunning in the 2nd and 3rd dress, either choice. It's a shame her friend was so selfish. I'm not sure where all of those mean comments were coming from, she looked fab!
That second dress was so pretty!
The second dress looked SO InCredible on her ! Was Definitely my favourite. It makes me wonder how many other beautiful dresses she missed out on because of this awful "friend"
"Aww look how sweet! Chance is having his bride moment." Montee 🤣
when he says the second dress looks like a prom dress but it's HIS dress (the first one with the sash) actually looks the most like a prom dress
“I don't care if she's happy, as long as she is pretty”
Me, bout to throw hands: *BISS-*
“I don’t care if she’s happy, she just needs to be pretty” that is the most toxic thing I have ever heard
A message to Chance:
She ain't getting married to you, so dont decide what she should and should not wear💢.
No, even if she was marrying him, it still wouldn’t be his decision.
Even if they were getting married to each other, he shouldn't have a say in what she wears.
I'm sorry but when Chances was like "I don't have the words to say... And my mama always said if you don't have something nice to say-" I lost it 😂😂
Get rid of the “friend”. What kind of friend is that!? 🙄. Chance needs to go! Not a real friend. He is tearing down the bride’s confidence . The bride looks stunning in dresses she tried on
I agree, he's so rude!!
And like you said the bride to be looked amazing in all of the dresses...
She definitely made the right choice with the dress she chose...
She looked absolutely beautiful in it...
It was made for her...
he literally annoyed me so much like why does he think he's so entitled and he's the most important one there like i just wanted to slap him🤦
Mia Linkov her marm should have told him to bugger off
He thinks he is entitled because no one has ever called him on his crap.
That would have been Chance's last chance to come back to his senses.
So tired of narcissists.
you know in spanish we have this saying "con estos amigos para que quiero enemigos?" which is basically "with these friends what do i want enemies for?" and this episode just had me thinking that phrase over and over again *YEESH*
I love how snarky Monte is. I just love him!!!
Monte is quick witted. To be so is a sign of higher intelligence
“i’m at a loss for words. my momma always said if u don’t have anything nice to say...” lmao 🤣
isabella beesly I really thought he was gonna say something sweet and he said that!! I cried 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@lencibee15 😂 same here
I had a southern mother, Momma would have slapped the taste out of his mouth.
I think he liked it and he wanted to say something nice but he didn't know how. So he ended up saying something unkind, just out of habit.
IT NOT UP TO HIM HE AINT THE BRIDE AND HE SURE AINT GETTING MARRIED.SHOO HIM!
3:48 =... He is so used to being in control & dominant of his BFFs fashion to the point he feels the mother & stylist to her style like she's his doll or something...
Mr. Toxic shouldn't be at her wedding, we all know he'll pick things that HE likes. A terrible friend to be around
I personally loved the 2nd dress she tried on. It did a lot more for her figure. But I’m the end she still looks beautiful.