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  • @Petty_Pretty3
    @Petty_Pretty3 2 года назад +16

    Great story. What a great father in law and hero. May, even if you've told this story before, it's okay because some of us haven't heard it and we enjoyed listening to stories like these. Sister, you are strong and worthy. My God continue to bless you. After all you've been through, you deserved all the happiness. Good luck and continue living your life with your new husband to the fullest. To all the sisters and brothers out there going through the same thing as this story - never lower yourself to your abuser's level. Doing the same thing back doesn't over written two wrongs to make it right. You are strong, worthy and valuable. Have faith in yourself. You are very capable of rebuilding your life in a far better position than where you were...forgive yesterday and move on to today and tomorrow. Make life better than what it was. Let you abuser stand back and cry with regrets, while watching you rebuild and live your life to the fullest and successfully.

  • @17maukabtsab
    @17maukabtsab 11 месяцев назад +1

    Her father in law is amazing. Bless his soul.

  • @kvang533
    @kvang533 2 года назад +2

    I was 16 too when I got married to an abuser and the best thing I did was left before I had any kids. I met my husband through my FIL too and my husband loves me wholeheartedly. My FIL now had pass and we are so grateful for him that we have each other.

  • @tengher2889
    @tengher2889 2 года назад +3

    FANTASTIC STORY!
    I'm very happy for you. I too met my second wife and kids that I love so dearly. She was once like you. Now she's the world to me. Her children are the love of my life. There's so many hmong women who are mentally and physically abuse by these chump hmong men. The saying "bare the suffering and abuse won't kill you" is such BS in hmong culture. I'm glad you have a good life with a good husband. You deserve it and I'm proud of your husband. You were fortunate to have met him and he's lucky to have you in his life. Live on, love on and love each other forever. The past means nothing.

  • @cindyskenderovic6806
    @cindyskenderovic6806 2 года назад +4

    Good people always get 2nd chance sister, see with my own eyes I been in your shoes once I was married for 21.5 years with my ex husband so much abuse and pain so I left him. I found the love of my life 2nd time around so loving and caring person just like your husband also even it's been 3 yrs now since I left him he hasn't yet gotten married with the way he is towards me no women out there is going to marry him maybe just using him for benefits.

  • @mickyyang6338
    @mickyyang6338 2 года назад +2

    What a wonderful ending… your FIL is truly your savior and your husband right now is truly your soulmate… happy for you sis 🥰

  • @nouxiong3620
    @nouxiong3620 2 года назад +21

    My life just flipped upside down yesterday and I preyed at night to god, “if there’s hope, a glimpse of a happy future ahead, for May to lead my way with a story” I realize this story was meant for me

    • @lucillevang8663
      @lucillevang8663 2 года назад +1

    • @nouxiong3620
      @nouxiong3620 2 года назад

      @@lucillevang8663 thank you

    • @kvang533
      @kvang533 2 года назад

      You are much stronger than you think you are. May you find peace and happiness.

    • @nouxiong3620
      @nouxiong3620 2 года назад

      @@kvang533 thank you.

    • @malyvu3333
      @malyvu3333 2 года назад

      I hope you find strength to fight your way out of your current situation

  • @kevincvang
    @kevincvang 2 года назад +12

    The best part of is story is that she ends up married to the son of the person who rescues her.

  • @Lisa_X5
    @Lisa_X5 2 года назад +6

    I’m glad your future fil found you on the street and referred his son to you and your husband now is a good husband. I feel you bc I went through a bad one too and now I’m much happier than before. May you and your husband’s love continue to grow stronger each and everyday.

  • @XMML33
    @XMML33 2 года назад +12

    Sister, thanks for sharing your story. Your story is one of the many stories of our Hmong sisters being forced into under age marriage and ended up being mentally and physically abused by their husband. As much as you hated your husband for the years long abuse, your parents are to be blamed as well. I’m glad and happy you found someone who love you and cherish you for who you are.

  • @cmxiong8989
    @cmxiong8989 2 года назад +1

    Not all women are lucky to find a Mr. Right for a 2nd marriage. Some will face more difficult problems. Ur a very lucky person. Glad u have a happy marriage 💑 ☺

  • @pliayang783
    @pliayang783 2 года назад

    Tug sister Aws, koj lub neej yuam kev zu 1 ces tim koj nam hab koj txiv ob tug. Ho koj tug txiv ntawm ces kuj yog his loss. Don't even feel pitting le os. Ua tsaug rau nwg es koj txhaj lug ntsib tug hlub tseeb hab yog zoo txiv tsev tag tsim nyog txiv yawm saub saum ntuj tso lug tsua koj lawm os. God bless you and your family 😀😀😀

  • @cneyxiong55
    @cneyxiong55 2 года назад

    Good that you found happiness.

  • @whachamamacallit4428
    @whachamamacallit4428 2 года назад +1

    Sister you are truly lucky and your 2nd FIL is a blessing to have found you. May you find happiness with your new family.

  • @Miababe93
    @Miababe93 2 года назад +4

    I'm lost for words. Shame on those females whom he brought home & just stood there & watched her get beat up. Literally, you're watching your future right in front of you. Smfh. Your dignity as a woman left the moment you walk to a home where the wife's present & you're groping her husband in front of her. Smh. These females need to respect themselves. Gotta do better.

  • @maipha8560
    @maipha8560 2 года назад +3

    Wow what a great story, there's angels on earth indeed. I have to say it was difficult to listen about the torture at first and I was super 😡😡at the parents when she tried to ask them for help. Thank goodness the dad did the right thing by calling the police after she went to their house seeing the abuse on her. No one deserves to be tortured like her. I'm glad she got out of the situation and found someone who loves and cherishes her. The ex is a loser and I don't feel bad for him one bit, no one wants to be with an abuser.

  • @xuexiong4431
    @xuexiong4431 2 года назад

    Bless your heart with such a loving in laws.

  • @younglee3915
    @younglee3915 2 года назад

    You’re new father in law is a true blessing. Wish there were more fathers like that to raise good sons into great fathers and husband. You are blessed to have found true love and a loving family after what you have been through.

  • @zedpcomputer4805
    @zedpcomputer4805 2 года назад

    Peb hmoob mas yeej coj li no os peb cov ntxhais mas lam ua neej tu siab tshaj os

  • @beeyushon9788
    @beeyushon9788 2 года назад

    Zoo siab ntisj teb tseem tshuav cov tci. Sizb zoo ncaj thiab

  • @MsBL32
    @MsBL32 2 года назад +2

    Sister, you are stronger and better now because you went through so much pain. I’m glad you found someone who loves you.

  • @undercoveralias4012
    @undercoveralias4012 2 года назад

    Glad your story came full circle. Very happy for you.

  • @maovang2294
    @maovang2294 2 года назад +1

    Nrog koj zoo siab tias koj tau ib tug txiv hlub2 koj os mog me viv ncaus aw

  • @ouradventuresnspecialmoments
    @ouradventuresnspecialmoments 2 года назад +9

    Sister, you are a survivor & stronger than you know! Your first marriage was your Parent's fault! As Parents, we should never ever force Marriage!!! Let'em marry the one they truly love! Your ex-husband will get his Karma for all that domestic abuse!!! Live a happy life ❤

  • @boakuolor6662
    @boakuolor6662 2 года назад +16

    You're an amazing women. Despite some of these people comments. Your parents and your ex husband are 100% to blame for everything! At such a young age, your parents should have let it go and let you continue going on with your life. People dont understand abusive relationship. It's not as easy to leave as we all think it is. It takes time and power to leave. Im glad you were able to leave this relationship. The story hasnt ended yet but i hope this guy is in prison. And cut ties with your parents. They put you into this mess.

  • @sacleo786
    @sacleo786 2 года назад +1

    That’s for sharing your story, sister! I’m proud of you!

  • @gaosayvu6554
    @gaosayvu6554 2 года назад +2

    Zoo siab uas koj khiav dim os

  • @PhoHmooAmerica
    @PhoHmooAmerica 2 года назад +1

    Match made in heaven

  • @chakatalee
    @chakatalee 2 года назад

    Glad you found someone that loves you, bless you both for many more years to come....

  • @crystalxiong735
    @crystalxiong735 2 года назад

    Peb Hmoob. Niam thiab txiv thiab tus txiv yeej tsis txawj hlub cov ntxhais. Tu siab kawg.

  • @qaibsibncawschannel1239
    @qaibsibncawschannel1239 2 года назад

    Txhob dag dag ma!

  • @my2cents54
    @my2cents54 2 года назад

    You are a strong women so happy that u found love and a life again.

  • @supervong1
    @supervong1 2 года назад

    Ruam dhau lawm os! Cas tsis txawj khiav tawm kiag. Most Hmong women are weak and soft and never learned their lesson from an abusive husband. Glad you found a new life.

  • @emvee5978
    @emvee5978 2 года назад +1

    We need to bring him on hmong tea

  • @paullor1398
    @paullor1398 2 года назад

    3 Cov txiv neej hmoob aw!! Tseg txoj kev peg yus poj niam thiab os, vim poj niam los muaj siab muaj ntsws thiab,cov hlwb rwj 1975/1990 cov cai no tso tseg thiab สมัยใหม่ lawm coj kom yog txiv neej yawg thiab! Txiv neej tiag g ntau poj niam nawb.

  • @koumoua2980
    @koumoua2980 2 года назад

    Zoo siab koj nrhiav tau ib tug txij nkawm hlub2 koj lawm os mog. Tab sis txij no lawm yav tom ntej tsis txhob cia ib leej tus twg tsim koj npaum li koj niag txiv qub tsim lawm nawb. Nco ntsoov tias teb chaws vam meej no muaj ntau txoj hauv kev pab yus out there!

  • @maivang1619
    @maivang1619 2 года назад

    Best story .I love the ending.

  • @mayalor5081
    @mayalor5081 2 года назад

    Great lesson for women. Never be afraid to move on and get the courage to get out of an abusive relationship. Empower yourself and live happily with or without a man.

  • @baoher4277
    @baoher4277 2 года назад

    Great story! Thanks for sharing

  • @waatchdogs6184
    @waatchdogs6184 2 года назад

    I'm so sad you you've lived in darkness for sometime but I'm so happy you found love. You deserved a sweet family like your husband's. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

  • @xayvuestorychannel7491
    @xayvuestorychannel7491 2 года назад

    Zoo heev li os

  • @colleenchan9872
    @colleenchan9872 2 года назад

    Kuv mas ntxhub cov niag ntsej muag laus no dhau os! Pheej yuav muaj qho paub li paub li ! Tom ob yeej zoo tshaj plaws os! Yeej yog li koj hais yog txoj hmoo thiab!

  • @Yajsuab
    @Yajsuab 2 года назад +3

    I hate parents back in the days when they force their daughter to marry just because a guy is in the house.

    • @MonaLisa-de4cp
      @MonaLisa-de4cp 2 года назад +1

      Me too! If I was in that situation, I'd just tell my parents that my life is miserable because of them. I'll make sure they know it's their fault.

  • @user-og7vy8mo4q
    @user-og7vy8mo4q 2 года назад

    ดีใจด้วย

  • @txhobtxhawjheev8588
    @txhobtxhawjheev8588 2 года назад +1

    *sigh* This is pretty common 20+ years ago-the daughters usually forced marriage and had to go through the abuse. The parents are too selfish and not consider their daughters’s future and basic doesn’t care...It’s simple as the parents don’t care about the daughters. Smh

  • @mouavang3371
    @mouavang3371 2 года назад

    I'm happy that you have a good life now. Tej zaum yeej yog tiam ntawv los sib tau es sib sib hlub.

  • @xeevnploojxyooj2376
    @xeevnploojxyooj2376 2 года назад +2

    Ntuj os teb, cas es koj twb nyob American teb lawm es cas koj piav koj zaj neej mas , koj npwb tiag2 , txhob kiam rau lwm tus ,koj rov tu siab rau koj xwb, txhob ruam2 li no lawm

  • @oppooppo6845
    @oppooppo6845 2 года назад

    zoo mloong heevli os 🥰👍😍🥰❣️🥳🤗🤩

  • @sayyang767
    @sayyang767 2 года назад +1

    Koj Niam tiab koj Txiv lub ntsev muaj tiab cov nkauj nias zoo lis dev los zoo lis Npua os mes ntxhais?

  • @heysoniher
    @heysoniher 2 года назад +6

    You guys were young and dumb. You didn't even know each other and he said he wasn't ready for marriage, but you still went with him. He felt trap and lashed it out on you and blamed you. What he did was wrong and I'm glad you are able to get out of that abusive marriage and found love again. Moral of the story is stay in school kids and don't get married when you are 16 to a boy you just met.

    • @dialee1729
      @dialee1729 2 года назад

      YY to get a hold on your dad to t

    • @heysoniher
      @heysoniher 2 года назад

      @@dialee1729 What are you trying to say?

    • @MissPeachie
      @MissPeachie 2 года назад +2

      I agree! Even 19-25 is still too young to get married. Hmong people need to stop encouraging their children to get married at a young age. My 2 kids are 19 and 17 and to me, they are still children. I tell my adult kids that they are not ready for marriage until they are able to live on their own.

  • @cal3243
    @cal3243 2 года назад +1

    Should of ran to your neighbors and have them called the police

  • @ka6363
    @ka6363 2 года назад

    Niam pog txiv yawg hlub hlub tub nyab ces tsim nyog hlub lawm zoo li peb nkees mi nyuam thaum twg mam txiv yawg niaj hnub mub peb cem rau tej muam tias peb tub nkeeg es txiv yawg tus ntxhais pw ib tav su tsia tau tej ntxhais ib pluag mov noj los nim los luag yus ces luag yeej tsis poj luag tej ntxhais nkees

  • @paweenahanwachira9883
    @paweenahanwachira9883 2 года назад

    siab phem thiaj tsw muaj neej ua cia kom nyob li ntawm nyuam qhuav haum xwb

  • @yayvue3302
    @yayvue3302 2 года назад

    Zoo siab koj tau tus zoo hlub koj tiag

  • @liloallena
    @liloallena 2 года назад +3

    It's your parents fault for forcing you to marry him when you were only a teenager. So glad you left him

  • @bliathao5878
    @bliathao5878 2 года назад

    Cov ntxhai uas raug niam txiv yuam mus yuav txiv ce lub neej yeej raug tsim tib yam li os cov niam txiv yuav tsum paub es tsi txhob muab tej me nyuam yuam mus ua neej nawb

  • @dreamerslane
    @dreamerslane 2 года назад +2

    What a great father in law. He saved you twice.

  • @gme9109
    @gme9109 2 года назад

    Cov niam pog txiv yawg kom yus tswj lawv tus tub ces qhov ib yog lawv g nyiam yus qho ob yog niag tub yeej g tsheej haj lawv yeej hais g tau lawm xwb. Ho lawv yeej g hlub lawm

  • @hlubforlife
    @hlubforlife 2 года назад +5

    If you're a teenager that live between 1980-1995, most likely this is also your story. OG's has very strict rules back then. Many of my friends are forced to married similar to this story.

    • @heysoniher
      @heysoniher 2 года назад +3

      Sad but true. So many headaches, heartaches, divorces and unnecessary deaths could have been prevented if the parents would just relax and support their kids.

  • @boakuolor6662
    @boakuolor6662 2 года назад +2

    Wow scandalous parents

  • @wisteria4550
    @wisteria4550 2 года назад +1

    So happy for you. Koj txoj hmoo zoo, koj ntsib tus neeg hlub koj.

  • @brendayangvang9756
    @brendayangvang9756 2 года назад

    Cov niam tais yawm txiv txhom vauv yuav no mas xuaj tshaj ntxim ntxub tiag2

  • @pajtojsiab5479
    @pajtojsiab5479 2 года назад

    Kvluvneej yav tag los yeej tau tus txiv zoo li nothb tab sis niam no ces kv muaj neej lm nws tseem nyb li zaj neej neeg ntawm no thb os

  • @maylee9765
    @maylee9765 2 года назад +1

    Not me I’m dieing a little at a day I am one of the worst luck born into the world

  • @terryherr5380
    @terryherr5380 2 года назад

    I can't believe our Hmong men still do this kind of stuff in the US. These are thing in the past in Laos. Our ladies have to be strong and stand the ground, if you are being abuse just call authorities.

  • @YA-qk8iz
    @YA-qk8iz 2 года назад

    Tej no ces tsis Tim leej twg Tim koj niam koj txiv ntshawb vauv dhau lawm nyob hauv txaj xwb tsawm siv kom luag yuav cov laus no txaus ntxub tshaj plaws

  • @yervue559
    @yervue559 2 года назад

    Tsim yus npaum li ko cas tseem nyob os

  • @CharlieLor
    @CharlieLor 20 дней назад

    Niag ntsej muag tuag lim hiam ko cas ntuj tsis muab hlawv pov tseg kom txhob tau ua neeg lim hiam rau tib neeg.

  • @jouayang4467
    @jouayang4467 2 года назад

    Tus me niam hluas aws ua cas koj yuav nraug txoj kev txhom nyem li kuv thiab os

  • @baoyang5686
    @baoyang5686 2 года назад

    Niag hluas nkauj dev ntawv ntse niam no mag npam heev lawm pob

  • @pajthao4813
    @pajthao4813 2 года назад

    Koj raug tsim vim koj niam koj txiv txoj kev ruam muab koj rau tus neeg tsis hlub koj

  • @yervue559
    @yervue559 2 года назад

    Kuv mas ntxub cov neeg ntau neeg tsaj plaws

  • @dejntshiabhawj8224
    @dejntshiabhawj8224 2 года назад

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Janiechang790
    @Janiechang790 Год назад

    I don’t understand how these women that come home with the ex and see her getting abused would still do the deed with him.

  • @malyvu3333
    @malyvu3333 2 года назад +1

    You shouldn't have had kids knowing that your ex husband didn't want to be married to you.

  • @xaiher9236
    @xaiher9236 2 года назад

    koj niam thiab koj txiv ce yog tsiaj xwb tsi muaj siab ntsw koj niam koj txiv ma ntshaw nyiaj ntshaw nqaij noj !! to koj thawj tu txiv tsi hlub koj nw twb tsi nyiam koj ne nw thiaj hlub koj lua mua

  • @chouathao2122
    @chouathao2122 2 года назад

    Hmong people be calling their spouses "spouses" though they're divorced.

  • @princessqueen434
    @princessqueen434 2 года назад +1

    Your first marriage was your parents fault. Pushing you to marry him was such a selfish, evil thing to do. Why would you do that to your own child?! Hmong parents don’t know how to truly love their children. I would fight to the death to protect my own children. Tu siab kiag tsis mus saib lawv ib zaug ntxiv lawm. Tuag thiab ciaj los kav liam. Lawm twb tsis hlub lawm thiaj yuam yus yuav niag txiv siab phem ntawv

  • @Karena312
    @Karena312 2 года назад

    I got so confused with the date today. It says 3/10/21….lol. I thought I was listening to today’s story but then the date stated 2021 but the story was released today only. Lol. Too confusing:)

  • @maovang2294
    @maovang2294 2 года назад

    Niag txiv dev zoo li tus txiv dev no kav tsij tuag zoo dua ua nyob los tsis muaj neeg ntsia li os nplaj tuag tau lawm nyob los nyav av xwb os

  • @seeyang5951
    @seeyang5951 2 года назад +1

    I don't understand the dates on these stories. We are in 2022. Is this a rerun story.

  • @NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb
    @NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb 2 года назад

    ca koj ho tsi nrauj na ua tau chim siab heev

  • @MissPeachie
    @MissPeachie 2 года назад

    Sounds like your ex-husband led you to your current husband. Glad to hear that you are happy now and got away from that abusive jerk. I hope you raise your daughters to be strong women. 💪🏻

  • @mabyugyajteb7133
    @mabyugyajteb7133 2 года назад

    Qhov tiag tim koj niam thiab koj txiv xwb ...nws twb g nyiam koj ..nws thiaj g xav hlub koj ..g xav ua zoo rau koj.. nws khuv xim 2 tug menyuas xwb .

  • @Nploojsiab86
    @Nploojsiab86 2 года назад

    May aww peb nyob xyoo 2022 lawm os 😂

  • @bvang8370
    @bvang8370 2 года назад

    Your ex being abusive to you doesn't mean he will be abusive towards everyone. I've learned that people are nice to the ones they like and abuse the ones they don't like. Your ex couldn't find a wife is not because he's mean and abusive to you, it's not because of your "curse", it's because he's poor. We all know women like money (money is a girl's best friend) so no woman wants a poor man. As we all know, even laib has laib friends who they care and love... even risks their lives for. So to say your ex can't get a wife because he's mean and abusive is incorrect. Abusive towards you, yes, abusive to the one he likes, no. As for you, the woman in this story, you're a woman so of course it's easy for you to get a husband because (1) You were born with something all men want and (2) women don't need money to "buy" a husband. Men do. 5k to 10k for a wife, plus you need a house, car, $ or she wouldn't even give you the time of day. Your ex's girlfriends keeps on leaving him after a few days of knowing him is because once they know he's poor, they no longer want him. This is why when Hmong Americans go to Laos to marry a teen bride or teen husband, Hmong Americans need to shower her with gifts and cash, buy motorcycle for her and land, house, motorcycle, rice paddy, monthly $ to her parents to get the teen bride/groom to marry the Hmong American. If you're not handsome, if you're not rich, no women would want you. But for women, they have something all men want so even if they're poor, men still work their ass off to buy her.

  • @mxyong
    @mxyong 2 года назад

    Everything happens for a reason! If you had not married your first husband, you might not met your 2nd husband!

  • @visaylee5651
    @visaylee5651 2 года назад

    A story like this one is absolutely ridiculous and it’s makes me angry, sad, upset and unfair for that lady. What a stupidity.

  • @always-frombliawithlove
    @always-frombliawithlove 2 года назад

    First of all....those girlfriends of her ex- husband are awful. He CAN and will do the same to them. Glad you got out. Good luck to you Mama.

  • @hlubmykids5119
    @hlubmykids5119 2 года назад

    Tim koj niam koj txiv xwb tsis yog Tim koj tus txiv ib qho li ...koj los twb ua tsis yog lawm thiab...koj niam koj txiv thiab koj txhaum tag nrho...

  • @kovang1840
    @kovang1840 2 года назад +1

    OMG can't continue pisses me off

  • @qhovtseeb1083
    @qhovtseeb1083 2 года назад

    Glad you got out of the abusive marriage. Your first husband is not a 100% person and was naturally born that way. He couldn't get a wife for a long time because he treated all women the same.

  • @msmaix808
    @msmaix808 2 года назад

    Your fil is a wise man, blessed his amazing heart. Your ex husband is such a douchebag! No one will tolerate his bad attitude. But i blamed your parents for using that immature force marriage. If it wasnt for your fil, you will still marry to your ex because your parents wouldnt help you.

  • @puasntseegthiab1051
    @puasntseegthiab1051 2 года назад

    Maybyou use the word “ni”kuv niam” so much that it is hard to understand if you are referring the mom.

  • @hmoob-usalauj3934
    @hmoob-usalauj3934 2 года назад

    Heard this story already. May you are repeating a lot of stories you told already.

  • @zaddvang
    @zaddvang 2 года назад

    What a sad life. Only story. Hmong guys don't know how to help/love their spouse.

  • @sunnygirl973
    @sunnygirl973 2 года назад

    Nws tsis nyiam koj es nws nqa nri tuaj rau Kom koj xaw thiab no es what is mean ?

  • @kaciewanh1986
    @kaciewanh1986 2 года назад

    Tus neeg siab phem limhiam xav tias nws yuav yeej txhua zaus txog hnub kawg no. Tabsis neeg phem ces yeej raug ntuj lem, tau swb ces poob tas nrho txhua2 yam.

  • @cassidyvue
    @cassidyvue 2 года назад

    Your life is so twisted. Your father forced you to someone who doesn’t love you and your new husband’s father found you for him to love. Ironic!

  • @maichialee9158
    @maichialee9158 2 года назад

    Cas koj yuav nruam ua luaj.